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You have now given meenough tools to find what I need. I'll keep learning, but I havehit some kind of gate, and gone through.I broke up with Sally, and like you said there is a dynamic shift.Megan asked me to marry her (no!), I had s#% with Tiffany;parked and naked LITERALLY 5-7 minutes after and 200 yardsfrom where she dropped off her "boyfriend"!The next night at The Grill, where I met the girl I had pickedup in a few minutes and had s#% with when you were here, Iwalk into a bathroom after a girl and started kissing her, kickingher out so she could go back to her husband. I left the bathroommyself and sat down with two 18 year olds and my friend and Ibrought them home to my place... In the morning I returned thecall of the Hot, Hot, Hot freckled brunette stripper that watchedme kissing two girls while she was on stage.F*#?! This sounds like I'm a player! What the hell is happeningto me???Since my breakup, girls see something more compelling in thetechniques that you taught me. I am the same me, but they arereacting to me differently. I don't understand it, but I must havechanged. Your lessons evolve as my ability to understandthem does.Thanks Brent!Your friend,JP, BostonMy Comment:JP, I'm sorry you had such a slow week.Maybe next weekwill be better!Question:Hey Brent,I've got a question about giving a woman your number insteadof getting hers.It seems like there are a lot of guys who givea woman their "card" and then women usually just toss them.When you give a woman your number, is it best to give themyour card?Or do you write your number down for them on apiece of paper or do you program it in their cell?Thanks manSD, VermontMy Answer:Giving them a card is about as effective as asking them fortheir number and leaving them a message; both have a verylow rate of return.Plus, when a guy does this, it seems as ifhe's trying to impress them with his occupation; which is acrutch and is an obvious indicator of having no power.Asyou stated, a lot of guys do this.Don't be like a lot of guys'.Do something to differentiate your self.The only way that they should ever acquire your number isby having it entered into their phone, preferably by them!Itseems more permanentthis way, as opposed to a piece ofpaper; which is easily lost.Writing it down should only bedone as a last resort (If they don't have a phone with them)and they should do the writing.Field Report:Brent,I met this foreign girl really briefly who I gave my number tothat was supposed to call me later the same night but nevercalled.Anyway.... she just called, and it was my first call backfrom a girl that I gave my number to, she's 21 and HOT!Man... it feels great, I've done the number thing to about 3girls without them calling back, but this time I told her that sheshould give me a call later that night or sometime next week,so I showed a little bit of interestlike you recommended, andit worked!I didn't keep the conversation going very long anddirected it toward meeting at my place "to get to know eachother better."I told her the times when I was busy and shewanted to meet around 8:00 PM on Thursday, so I told herthat was fine.I'll let you know what happens!Thanks,MN, MinnesotaTip:Giving out your number might be tough at first because youreally don't believe in itDon't worry if the calls don't come pouring in at first; be patient,do it consistently and it'll end up paying off.The payoff isworth anything you have to go through.You're going to bevery attached to seeing the girl again like she's the last oneyou'll ever meet and you know better but, that's how strongyour inner voice is.The more you give your number out, the more comfortableyou'll be.Soon, women will start calling you and your life will never bethe same again.With each call you'll become more confident,each one giving you the resolve togive out more numbersand you'll start to become super smooth;like you're not even thinking about it.Your internal frame will be I onlygive out my number becausethis is the way the world works sowomen will question youless and less until there will be NO question.it will becomethe way it is for you.It will be a great lesson for manyotherthings that you want to change about your life as well.I know you think that when you have the number you havethe power, but you don't.Even women sometimes think you do as well; but they're onlyloaning it to you.They know that as soon as you pick up thephone you'll be returning it to them.Getting a woman to giveyou her phone number or e-mail address is NOT anaccomplishment and does not make you cool or successful.It makes you like mostguys' and most guys' are unsuccessfulwithwomen.I know this is hard swallow, but the truth isoften painful and reversing your social programming is notgoing to be a walk in the park, so to speak.I know what you're thinking:Brent, you are out of your mind!I can't even get numbers at this point so giving mine out justsounds ridiculous and way too advanced!This technique seems backwardsWhy would I give them the control?What if she doesn't call?I'll be waiting and feel helplessThese are just excuses you make for not trying.You've gotto give this up and stop being attached to the outcome.Consider this:Women will give you their number to be nice or to get rid ofyou, so you really don't know if they're interestedWomen have a love/hate relationship with attention and havinga lot (even if it's not from the right guy) is better than havingnoneWomen will give you the wrong number.Has this ever happenedto you?Women won't always return your emails, text messages orphone calls and your failure has now been recorded for all tohear or see; there's actually evidence of it.Whether you leave messages or reach them in person, you'llonly connect with a small percentage; and that's if you're great.Getting their number and calling them first, sets a precedent forhow things will be if you start dating.Because you have setyourself up as the pursuer instead of the pursued, things willthen be expected of youEven if you become great at getting numbers and makingdates, it'll become a full time job (you'll be doing way toomuch work)Let's be clear, you are NOT in control.Getting a numbermeans nothing.(I'm getting nauseas writing this)When she calls YOU first, she's no longer a prospect, she'sa sale.Women only call men they're interested in.You already did the selling by giving her your number insteadof taking hers.The only thing you now need to do, to serviceyour new client, is answer the phone and schedule herappointment with you.No maintenance is needed.That's what happens when you make the product out ofhighquality parts in the first place. You don't have to be as funny,as clever, as interesting or as attentive.You don't have to beas ANYTHING!Having phone numbers doesn't make you powerful, it drainsyour power and sets you up for failure!What's the secret to giving out your number?Stay tuned.A Special noteMy BookI've received tens of thousands of e-mails regarding theupcoming release of my book.It's coming soon and I guaranteethat it will change your social life forever!Only a limitedamount will be available for download and will be available tomy subscribers and those of my joint venture partners ONLY!My CoachingAs you know I've been turning a lot of you down for coachingand it's only going to get worse.I'll be cutting back evenfurther on the 1-on-1, prices will be doubling (so get it whileyou can):http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/adtrack.asp?AdID=180836and I'm moving to the multiple-person model. I'll only beaccepting a limited number of clients for my new Boot Campsand exclusive Tele-Seminars in 2006 that will begin in January.A Personal NoteIf every man on the planet stopped getting phone numbers, itwould turn the world of dating upside down overnight!Be partof the solution, not the problem.Forward this newsletter toyour friends and let's take back the power!That's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentApril 22, 2006Telling is actually askingThis is another example of the opposite beingtrue.When women make statements about whatthey're not going to do, they're actually askingyou for permission to do it, seeing if youcare and testing you.They're actually asking youto be indifferent.Don't be put off bythis.This is a pivotal time in the interaction.She's at a fork in the road and has todecide which direction to go.Women rarely mean what they say.Example:Her statement: We're not having &^% tonight.Translation:We're having &^% tonight as long asyou don't act negatively about what I justsaid.When a woman utters the above statement, you arealmost 100% guaranteed to have &^%, unlessyou argue with her about her statement.She justneeds to say it out loud in order torationalize the opposite behavior that she wantsto display.It's her disclaimer.She is looking to place the blame (for herdecision) on you.It's the only way she can livewith herself.Take the blame and all of theresponsibility off her shoulders.She'swaiting for you to say the right thing because shewants to feel good about her decision.Ever had the experience of doing great with herone minute and then end up leaving withouther?You're thinking:What just happened? She was really into me. Iguess I'm just not a closer.She's waiting for you to say the right thing; andyou didn't.You need to take the competitiveness out of it andremove the adversarial component from theinteraction.Don't argue with them, agree with them;tell themyou don't care.Example 1Her statement: We're not having &^% tonightYour possible responses:You: Who said anything about &^%?You: You better believe we're notYou: What makes you think you could talk me intohaving &^% with you?You: Wow that takes a lot of pressure off.Whatshould we do now?You: I don't remember asking you toYou: You're an adult, do what you wantYou: I don't have &^% until I get to know a girlbetterYou: I never thought we wereBeing confrontational will get you nowhere.Act as if it doesn't matter and that you are justhaving fun and you're not worried aboutwhat happens later. Let her know that it's ok todo anything she wants and that she won't bejudged for it.Remember, she doesn't want feellike feel bad for showing interest.Here's how she might rationalize it (after ithappens):He was just so funnyHe talked me into itHe kept buying me drinksHe just said all the right thingsI told him that we weren't having &^%; Iobjected. I'm not responsible for what happenedafter that.He was indifferent and that made me want himHe rejected me and NO ONE rejects me; what's wrongwith me?He didn't care so I guess there was nothing toproveNo where in that conversation did she say,I just wanted him.Once they feel comfortable and you've removed allof their objections and all of theroadblocks society has out in front of them theywon't be able to come up with any otherreason to say no.Success StoryDude, the other night was f&%!ing AMAZING, Brent!I was meeting some friends at this club downtownMinneapolis a couple nights ago, but I got therelate so I ended up having to wait in line bymyself for like 2 hours.I've never had so muchfun just waiting in line.Here's what happend:I was waiting in line, and just started talking toeveryone around me (not just girls).The firstgroup of girls that I saw I opened with 'Hey doyou guys have any chapstick?' becausemy lipswere really dry.After about a half hour I swearI had at least 10 girls surrouning me and tryingto get my attention.It was amazing, because itdidn't even feel like I was doing anything at all. They would be tapping me on the shoulders, somegrabbing my #%^, etc.They were seriously liningup to talk to me.I would be talking to one groupof girls, and all of a sudden there would beanother girl standing behind them and staring atme, waiting for me to say something to her.Some would approach me with stupid questions like'do you know what time it is?' or they would askabout my necklace or whatever.One girl even cameup and asked me if I was a celebrity!I wasn'treally expecting that but I went along with it andtold her that I was dissapointed that she didn'tknow who I was and she appologized for notrecognizing me!It was definitely an eye-opener to what'spossible.Thanks again Brent!NM, MinnesotaTestimonialSpend time with Brent;do whatever it takes!My session with Brent in Miami was off the hook,but the results since returning havesuprised me even more, and I barely have time togo out.Women do things for me that theynever used to do. Buy me drinks, kiss me when Ileast expect it, agree to spend time with meon my terms, invite me to spend time with them inforeign cities like Paris for free, andeven ask me to spank them in front of theirfriends - in the middle of a crowded restaurant!And to think that I've only been out four timessince returning from Miami over a monthago... I can only imagine what the future holds!PS, Santa Barbara, CACoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentApril 30, 2006Indifference (the difference that makes thedifference)1: unbiased impartial unconcern2: apathy demonstrated by an absence of emotionalreactions [syn: emotionlessness,impassivity, impassiveness, phlegm, stolidity,unemotionality]3: the trait of lacking enthusiasm for or interestin things generally [syn: apathy,spiritlessness]4: the trait of remaining calm and seeming not tocare; a casual lack of concern [syn:nonchalance, unconcern]Indifference is the strongest force in theuniverse. It makes everything it touchesmeaningless. Love and hate don't stand a chanceagainst it. - Joan VingeThis is my favorite subject!!I've always said that if men would master this onething, they would no longer have ANYproblems with women.It would change the entireworld of dating overnight.This is one of the most important techniques increating attraction. When used properly, itdrives women crazy.It's the,"I don't really care"or"I'm not attached to the outcome"frame of mind that they're be attracted to.Youseem like you don't have a care in theworld.Being a little indifferent is actually healthy foryou.You avoid most of the peaks of lifeand the unproductive emotions that usuallysidetrack you.In fact, you'll be able to turnyour emotions on and off like a light switch;living a pretty smooth, drama free life.Indifference causes a woman to feel comfortablewith you.It's the push-pull thing.You'renot pushing and this is pulling her in, and she'sbecoming emotional.Use the word 'Maybe' and the phrase "we'll talkabout" when speaking to them.Example:Maybe we'll get togetherMaybe we'll have drinksMaybe you can meet us laterThere's enough yes in maybe for you to seemindifferent, yet interested; and enough No toappear as a challenge- just out of her reach.Using "we'll talk about" is also effective.Again, this is non-committal yet alluring.Example:"Give me a call and we'll talk about gettingtogether sometime"Never agree to anything.You're telling her thatthe two of you will discuss the next step,if there is one.You haven't made a finaldecision or been convinced yet.It's justanother way of conveying your power.Be careful with indifference though. You canbecome so good at it that women won't thinkthey have a chance with you. Basically, you'll beback in the same place you started.QuestionBrent,This girl emails me asking me to spend a day withher in SF.I live one-and-a-half hoursaway, and while it would be nice to sleep withher, I don't care whether it happens or not.I am not attached to the outcome of this.I feelawkward to drive that far just to hang outwith a girl.I have a very good male friend whoattends college in SF, and we have onlyhung out twice in the last 10 months since hemoved to the city.I would feel morecomfortable with the idea of seeing this hotblonde girl if I was going there to visit mymale friend earlier in the day, because by doingthat, I would not feel like I did somethingdesperate.Plus I genuinely want to visit my malefriend as he is really fun to talk andhang out with.I do not want to go out tobars/clubs/restaurants/anywhere with her.I amdone with dating.I want to use your idea oftelling her I've had a long week, and I feellike having a glass of wine to unwind and chat.What do you think?Am I going about this theright way, or am I missing something here?Thanks for your time,PP, San FranciscoAnswerYou really have two choices when it comes to yourblonde friend:1) Tell her that you're going to be up her wayanyhow and after meeting with your otherfriend you would be up for a very relaxed eveningat her place.If she declines, say "Ok,that's cool, give me a call in the futire andwe'll try again".or2) Tell her that you'd love to visit but you'rejust slammed right now and would she be upfor coming to you, where the two of you will kickback, drink some wine and maybe order somefood.If she declines, tell her to give you acall in a few weeks and you'll talk aboutscheduling something else.Success StoryWhat's up Brent?I've listenned to your interview with David, andsaw you also in his video. I had to takesome time to write to you to let you know thatyour "material" really made a change, notonly in dating but also in my life in general.From all the interview your are probably theone I can most "identify my style to" . I alwaysbeen a Classy guy and you've helped mefigure out how to use that to my advantage and howto keep my power etc.. I had to personalythank you for it, thats the least I could do. Likethey say in the matrix..." Free yourmind" and I'd never believe my own sucess before.I also was curious about some of theIncredible story you never wanna explain withdavid lol, because now I believe EVERYTHING ispossible.J.N. From MontrealCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentMay 10, 2006You're such a playerSuccess StoryBrent,I had such a kick a$$ weekend.I took a botched situation Saturday night (foundmyself stranded somewhere-however in a target richenvironment), and COMPLETELY TURNED THINGS AROUNDINTO EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED WITH THE BESTDEMONSTRATION OF TIME MANAGEMENT! BRENT, YOU WOULDHAVE BEEN PROUD!!! I started running the tablesman...I hooked up with a really cool chick too!DUDE, this chick was like a writer for ForbesMagazine. She was all over me!!! At one point Ihad the attraction so high we were outside in themiddle of a bunch of people and she starts kissingme. Not normal behavior for this type. It was tothe point where I was getting uncomfortable. Imean we are in a nice place with nice people. Idon't want to just sit there and make out...lol!But, she didn't want to stop...!(Okay?) And, atone point she says, 'Shut up and just kissme...!!! (Okay again???) LOLMan it's getting so natural and fluid, I love it!D.M. , HoustonMy CommentDude, I'm like happy to inform you that likeyou've just scratched the surface and like there'sa lot more to come!QuestionHey Brent,I'm really starting to get this stuff, but now I'mfacing new problem. I'm afraid women will now seeme as a player. Is there anything wrong with this?How do you deal with it?My AnswerLogic, my friend.Her: You're such a player.You: And your point would be?Her: Well, I want a man to pay attention to me,only. Why are you that way?You: Would you agree that it's hard to findsomebody to click with?Her: YesYou: Would you also agree that you have to date afew different people to increase the chances ofmeeting someone great?Her: YesYou: So, are you saying that I should sit on mycouch, watching T.V. every night, while waitingfor the right woman to walk through my livingroom?Her: NoYou: Exactly. Any more questions?Interview excerptJoanna Krupa, 24-year old Polish model from theFebruary 2006 issue of Stuff Magazine. Go buy thismagazine to read the full article.Stuff: Would you ever go out with a guy who had abeer gut?JK: If he had a good personality and there wassome kind of attraction, then why not? Actually,there was one guy I went out with a few times, andhe had a little bit of a gut. A guy I date doesn'thave to have a six-pack, that's for sure. Therehas to be personality-something has to click. I'llmeet these guys who are just drop-dead gorgeous,but they have absolutely no brains or are reallystiff or not talkative or have crappypersonalities.Stuff: What kind of personality do you like?JK: Somebody who makes me laugh and jokes around;is outgoing and has fun anywhere; and can go intoa place where he doesn't know anybody, start aconversation and be funny and outgoing.Stuff: What's the craziest place you've done it?JK: A lifeguard booth in Cabo! It was at night,and I was the one who insisted on it. My boyfriendwas like, 'What are you, crazy?!' and I was like,'NO, come on, let's go!'Stuff: Are you always the Instigator?JK: That time I was. Usually I'm not, but hedefinitely brought out that side of me!Stuff: I'm sure our readers would love to know howto bring out that side of you more often.JK: It's hard to day. There has to be somethingabout the guy. It's has to be that kind ofattraction that makes you eager to be with thatperson and want to do it-a special attraction thatmakes you want to take charge.Field ReportHey buddy,This whole thing really amazes me. Some of theguys I met at the seminar are writing to me abouthow they're all motivated and are going out andtrying to do 20 sets a night and how they *think*they're getting better because they finally got acouple of hot girl's numbers.This is how it is for me:Last night is the first night I've gone out sinceI got back, and all I was doing was meeting afriend from school to catch up at a coffee shop.As we go to sit down, I notice two hot girlssitting at the table next to us. They are bothlooking at me. Without hesitation, I said 'Hey,what's up'? Then I turn away, ignore them andstart talking to my friend. I could tell the girlswere looking at me and wanted to talk more, but Iwas with my friend, he needed to talk, and I wascommitted to just listening and helping him out.About ten minutes later, I notice that there'sthis really hot girl looking at me that I knewfrom somewhere but never did anything with, so Ijust point and motion for her to come over. I lookaway and continue talking to my friend. Threeseconds later she's at the table leaning into giveme a hug. I turn and our lips meet and we startmaking out. She just looked at me in disbelief andsaid 'wow!' We chat for a bit and I tell her thatI have to get back to my friend. Then she askswhat I'm doing later and if she can get my number.I go back to talking to my friend for another fiveminutes and decide I have to get back home tofinish some work for tomorrow. As we're leaving,one of those two girls I told you about in thebeginning says 'Hey! Don't I know you?' We chattedfor less then a minute then I told them that I hadto go. Her cell phone was on the table so I justpicked it up, put my number in and told her togive me a call later in the week and I might havetime to get together. I was only out for about 20minutes, just to talk with my friend, and theseare the types of things that happen. Lesswork...more return.The reason why these things are happening isbecause of the things I've learned from you.Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!BD, DenverTestimonialWorking with Brent was awesome. I was at a pointwhere I had been studying a bunch of other stuff,struggling to understand it and had so manyunanswered questions. Compared to some of theother material in this industry, I consider Brentto be like an evolutionary step ahead of everyoneelse. Training with him confirmed that this guyknows his stuff. I mean, he was creatingattraction with a super hot bartender just bysaying the most mundane stuff, not hitting on herat all; I could actually SEE her becomingattracted. She kept trying to find us later in thenight, coming up to our table saying she's beenlooking all over for us. He was like, 'See?' Andthe SAME thing kept happening throughout thenight, with other hot girls.What the heck is hedoing that magnetically attracts women over tohim? Good thing I came prepared with a bunch ofquestions to ask. I must've asked him 4000questions. The guy was so generous, answeringevery question I had, he started to loose hisvoice at the end of the night! I came out with anentirely new perception of attraction, and ofwomen. His material on power deserves a NobelPrize in my opinion!I think his approach and style is great. He comesacross very warm and powerful at the same time, apretty unique combination. I really can't thankhim enough; it was totally worth the investmentbecause every new day I feel better than the last.I've been practicing what he told me to do, and Ifeel more confident, more powerful, and women areresponding. Women are noticing me more, I see themlooking at me differently; they're moreflirtatious. Today a mom was trying to hook me upwith her daughter right in front of her, and I'mnot doing anything! Well I suppose I am, but itjust feels more effortless. I'm noticing that Idon't have the confusion I had anymore, I'mcatching myself saying things to girls I wouldn'tnormally say, I finally feel like I'm reallystarting to 'get it.' Now it's just a matter ofintegrating this into my life and keep practicingand growing.Thank you Brent, you're a genius!!!S. F. , Los AngelesCoachingSome of you newer guys are asking me if mycoaching will work for you. The answer is yes.You'll have fewer bad habits to unlearn, will movefaster and you'll be building your social life,correctly, from the very beginning.I've also had guys telling me that my methodsounds too good to be true. It can't be as simpleas I say it is. Well, I have news for you...it is!Keeping it complicated is how you deny that it'ssimple. That way, when you have a little success,you feel like you've accomplished more.Select dates are available for coaching in2006. For more information please click on thelink below:http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/adtrack.asp?AdID=202078Boot CampI'm now taking reservations forMarch. Please inquire for availability.Meet me - Free! View my Myspace page for details in amajor city near you.That's it for now. Good luck out there!BrentMay 17, 2006When a woman calls youSuccess StoryThanks for everything Brent,you've steered me back in the right direction. Iwas relying too much on these crutches androutines, and doing all this hard boring work. Andquite frankly I wasn't enjoying theprocess. But now I'm focusing more on having funbecause after all I'm already successfulwith women, right?Anyway things are beginning to just happen, womenare beginning to land in my lap so tospeak. When I was out there in the field with you,it became obvious to me what everyoneelse says, you make it look effortless. I believeits probably because you are obviouslyhaving fun, appreciating people instead of anoutcome, and also you are just being lazytrying to do as little as possible. lol.Iremember at a certain point we were surroundedby women, and then this woman just came to "takeyou for a walk." I couldn't believe it. Wehad just walked in and you were gettingapproached. I logically believed it but my mindwas still saying "ok he knows her."I've recently been using affirmations like youadvise, and they are great. I've also startedto be successful with women instead of becomingsuccessful with women. I wrote down how anormal day is as I am already successful. I readthis once a day and ask myself questionslike how I would behave if it was alreadyhappening etc. It has had tremendous results withmuch less effort (thank god). I know this is along email but wanted to tell you how muchyou've influenced my path and internally made merealize that reality is all B.S. andtherefore you make of it what you want.Thanx Brent, you are making a difference man! takecare!!!FY, MinnesotaWhat to say when women start calling youHere's how it could go:You: HelloHer: Hey, Jim it's kelly from the other nightYou: Hey, what's up?Her: Nothin, Just hangin outYou: Cool, so what's happening?Her: Just got home, blah, blah, blahYou: Great, so what's goin on?What you want to do here is keep throwing it backin her court by asking her the samequestion, in a different form, over and over.Do not ask her out.The idea here is to have a conversation aboutnothing.She'll soon tire of this and saysomething like,Her: Soooooooo do you want to get together???Then you put the ball back in her court by saying,You: Sounds good, What do you have in mind?Do as little work as possible.You never know,she might have a great idea such as cookingyou dinner or coming over for drinks.Don't worryif she says,Her: "Let's go out for dinner".You don't have to agree with her.Just say,You: "Would you mind doing something low key?I've been out a lot recently and I'mexhausted."Her: "Like what?"You: "I was thinking we could stay in, drink somewine and maybe we'll order in some food."This is where she either agrees or disagrees.Youhave to be cool with either decision.Ifshe disagrees with your plan just say,You: "Okay, cool.Give me a call in a couple ofweeks and maybe I'll be rested and up formeeting you for a drink or something."This let's her know that there's a consequence fornot agreeing, shows that you have no fearof loss and will also create a sense of urgencyaround you.These are all things that buildattraction.What if she doesn't say, "Sooooooo do you want toget together?"If the conversation is going nowhere and you'regetting impatient you can say,You: "So, I suppose you want to get together?"To which she'll reply,Her: "yes, that would be great."You: Cool, what do you have in mind?"Her: I don't know.You: "Would you be okay with doing something lowkey like having some wine at my place andordering in some food?We can always go out fromhere."If you really want to be powerfulIf she never says it and the conversation startswinding down, just go with it.If shesays,Her: "Well, it was nice talking to you...talk toyou later"you say,You: "Okay bye".She might also end the previous sentence with,Her: "Call me sometime if you want to gettogether"To which you reply, You: "Oh, you want to gettogether?Then just continue with the ideas above.TestimonialLet me tell you, last night one of my femalefriends asked me to be her bed buddy.Tonightanother one of my female friends told me she wouldmarry me in a heartbeat...and I don'teven sleep with this woman!But I know I couldhave her if I chose to.All this is possible because of Brent's coaching.I know where you're coming from.Although I knew I needed help, I was reluctant totake the plunge.I spent hoursresearching the different coaches and methods outthere, but something about Brent's messageresonated with me.I finally went for it. I'mso glad I did.My life has changed and iscontinuing to change.What you'll learn from himis not an approach to women but anapproach to life.An attitude, a way of livingand being that naturally draws women in.I wish you the best.Just know that if yousign up with Brent, be prepared to beblown away!Your reality will be altered in waysyou never imagined!RC, TexasCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentJune 1, 2006Stop Asking Women Out!Responding to the "Most Guys" speechWhen you're giving out your number, not askingwomen out and doing everything elsebackwards, you'll sometimes get what I call the"Most Guys" speech:She might try to mix you in with the average guy,and try to take back the power by saying:You're not like most guys.Most guys,Call me all the timeAsk me outPick me upTake me to dinnerPay attention to meCare what I thinkCan't wait to see meMost guys blah, blah, blahWhy don't you ever call me?Ask me out? ETC. ?Even though she finds you more attractive thisway, because of bad social programming, shewill automatically want to restore control toherself.Your possible responses:I'm not like most guys, which is why you'retalking to me right now isn't it?Where are these guys right now?How's that working for them?If what most guys do is so great then why aren'tyou with them?Or my favorite:You: Where's your boyfriend?Her: I don't have one.You: So, what most guys do doesn't work so well,does it?This is a great time for me to address a fewthings that are disturbing me.Getting numbersCalling women firstAsking them outand when asking them outTaking them to dinner on first datesAnyone who tells you that the above are effectivetechniques only have a very small level ofsuccess with women.If you want to even approachthe lifestyle I live then stop doing thesethings immediately!Traditional first dates are over, they'reunproductive; they don't need to be done anymore.Going out to dinner is for people who already likeeach other; it's not for first timers.Stop asking women out.Please, i'm begging you.Reverse the trend.You are allresponsible for the way women are and the way theytreat you.They are reacting to you.When you talk to her you want to wait for her toask YOU out by saying,Her: "So, are we getting together?"Or you say,"So, I suppose you want to get together?"Then put it in her court by asking her what shehas in mind.If her response doesn'tinclude one of the following:CoffeeA quick drinkGetting together at her or your placeEither move her toward one of those or cut yourlosses and move on; she's not the right girlfor you.You are either the provider or theattractive guy and you can only be one.I've been talking to a lot of women about thislately and what they've been telling me maysurprise you.They really don't want to be takenout to an expensive dinner, if you'vebuilt the attraction correctly.They also tell methat they don't care where the two of youget to know each other.They're fine with a drinksomewhere or if they feelcomfortable enough with you; your place.In fact,some women are even saying that they'llturn down a dinner invitation because they feel itmakes them obligated to reciprocate insome other way.The last thing a woman wants to dois be stuck at dinner with a guy sheisn't getting along with.If you insist on being the provider then considerthe following scenario:You take your date to an expensive dinner, thenshe tells you that she's tired and has to get upearly the next day.So you drive her home, shekissess you on the cheek and goes inside.Guess what she does next?Guess who she calls?Someone like me.That's right.After you'vespent all the money they call meand come to my place.You do all the work and Iget all the spoils.Now that I think about it, keep doing it.You'reresponsible for a lot of my action.Seriously, the question you need to ask yourselfis, "Which guy do I want to be?"TestimonialHi Brent,Safely back home now. Very enjoyable night andreally an eye opener into your style. I haveto confess I was a little concerned on the way inbecause of the 'barebones' informationsurrounding what you do.Compared to some of the other approaches outthere, it reminds me of the space race duringthe 60's, Nasa spends $1 million to develop a penthat works in zero g; what does therussian space agency do? use a pencil!Thanks for a much needed birthday present tomyself!JM, BostonCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentJune 14, 2006Stop Answering and Returning CallsThere is no longer any reason to answer the phonewhen a woman calls you or return her callwhen she leaves you a message.You know that I'malways pushing the envelope, so this newdevelopment should not surprise you; but you'reprobably thinking, now Brent has finallygone over the edge.What should you do?Text message, of course. I love text messagingbecause it's totally impersonal and there'sno reason to be personal with a woman you don'tknow.When a woman calls, let it go to your voice mail.This will make you seem unavailable.Then, listen to her message and simply text yourreply.So if her message is,Her: Hey Brent, It's Karen from the other night.I'm just calling to see what you're up to.Talk to you later.You simply text a message describing what you'redoing like,You: Working, U?By texting your reply you will be conveying thatthis is how you communicate and she willprobably switch to it, instead of calling you.Here's the rest,Her: Just hangin out.You: CoolThe idea here is to text very short messages.Again talk about nothing until you pull moreout of her and she asks you out. You want her toknow, right away, that she will be pursuingYOU!Here's another example:Her: What's up for Friday?You: Going to The Lounge with some friends.Her: What time?You: Around 9pmDo not ask her to join you. If anything, tell herthat she can stop by if she wants.Remember, you don't want this to be a date.Here's an actual text string that I have on myphone:Her: Hi Brent, do you remember meeting me, Tanya,the other night?I was one of many girlsyou were talking to.Anyways, i was wonderingwhat kind of cologne you had on? If any.Me: Deep.Her: Is that really the name?Me: Yes.Her: You didn't seem like a man of few words theother night.Cat got your tongue?I did not respond to this text.Then she called and left a message on my voicemail that said,Her: Hey, It's Tanya.I'm sitting here drinkingsome wine wondering if you want to comeover.She's trying to get me on the phone, which willnever happen.Now, I text the response:Me: Can't.Tomorrow's better. Your place, whattime?Her: Um, it depends on what time I finish at work.I'll let you know.The next day.Her: Hey, I just got home.What's up?Maybe weshould meet somewhere.I think my sistermight come over later.Here's where it gets interesting and you'll wantto pay close attention to how I handlethis.Me: Working.Maybe we'll try again next week.Was up for staying in and having wine.Her: I hope you're not upset.Me: Make it up to me.Later that night, I get this text.Her: What are you up to?You should have comeby-just for a drink.I do not respond.Next day:Her: Wine tonight, my place?Me: Sounds good.Her: What time do you want to come over?Me: 8:30Later I get this textHer: Do you still want to come...by?Me: Address?Her: She gives me the addressMe: I'll come by at 9.And the rest, you'll have to imagine.Next morning I get this textHer: Did you have fun last night?Me: Who is this?Her: Tanya, stupid!Me: Can you be more specific?Her: What?Me: Just kidding.Yes, it was fun.Success StoryBrent, what's up buddy?!I'm busy creating the Brent Life Style.Pulled myfirst threesome recently.It all started off after I purchased a cigar withmy buddy and next thing you know these hotgirls walk in and sit down at the bar.I'm aboutto light up and one of the girls says"don't light that up, I hate cigar smoke".I said"tough!", and sparked it right up.Itold her that if she didn't like the smoke, sheshould move or light up a cigarette to blockthe smell.I enjoyed my cigar and continuedchatting with my friend, next thing you knowshe's asking me to come sit by her and her friend.They start telling me that they are acouple, are inseparable and do everythingtogether.Nice!Despite this, I keep theindifference frame going, all while chatting withthem, then to my buddy etc.Then two morechicks show up to get in on the action --- theattraction vibe is crackling by this point.The first two girls then invite me to move on to aclub.I bail with them, they pay theirown entrance fee (!) and on we go to dance for afew hours all the while making out andgrinding on each other.Every time we hit thedance floor, they try to rip my shirt off.The dudes in the place were beside themselves. Ifelt like a king, it was awesome!!!!More craziness at a restaurant after we left theclub, then we hit my place for a good rollin the sack.You would have been proud mybrother.I mean the one TALL gorgeous19 year old...just an unreal body.Alright, there you have it.Would be good to seeyou sometime -- it's been great building anetwork of hotties here, at home and other placessince Miami.I just wish I was 10 yearsyounger... oh well.Better late than never.PS, Santa Barbara, CaliforniaCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentJune 24, 2006You Get Back What You Give OutEver wonder why 99.9% of my interactions aresuccessful?One of the reasons that I'msuccessful is that I truly believe that you getback what you give out.When I'm out, I convey absolutely no negativity.If you give out negative, you'll get backnegative.People think I'm someone to be reckonedwith.They assume I'm powerful by theway I walk in and put on the show.Women aredrawn to someone who acts as if everybodywants to know them.I don't assume that peopleare mean or in a bad mood.I assume they'reout to have a good time and want to interact witheverybody.Those of you who've been outwith me know what I mean.I put out this vibe of"come talk to me."I'm out to be friendlyand have a great time and have nothing at stake,accept that.So that's what I get inreturn.When I'm out and about I believe:Everybody is friendly and in a great moodEverybody already likes meEverybody wants to talk to meAnd more importantly that:Every woman is attracted to meEvery woman wants my numberEvery woman will ask for itEvery woman will call meEvery woman wants to see me again, ETC.I have an old friend who exhibited this behaviorperfectly.His name was John Brown. This guy wasabsolutely convinced that every woman wanted him,all the time, and he wasn't apretty boy.He'd walk through a place and say:"Every woman in here wants me"He'd say this out loud to himself or to us.As he continued walking he would often pause infront of a girl (or group of girls) andblurt out:"The name's John Brown, in case you need to knowlater"And then, without waiting for a response he keptmoving.He was already assuming that they would want toknow him. It was incredible.Later in thenight, women would often seek him out, and alreadyknowing his name, would say:"Hey John. What's up?"Or"Where did you go?"This was especially effective when he was standingwith other women as they approached.Itwas further social proof.He didn't know any girls when he walked in but onesimple tactic changed all that.The more Ithought about this, the more it made sense. I meanI'm not going to walk aroundsaying "Every girl in here wants me" out loud, butwhat a powerful mindset and place to comefrom.Inside your head you already assume thatevery girl wants you so you go aboutchoosing the one YOU want.When you say something positive to women and arebeing friendly (not hitting on them), theirautomatic human response is to be friendly back.How can you practice this?I suggest a small experiment:Start out by being friendly to everyone you see,everywhere you go.The supermarket, drycleaners, on the street, ETC.Just say it notexpecting a response and I think you'll besurprised at what will happen.Just say, "How areyou?, What's up? or whatever.Do ituntil it becomes automatic. Then, no matter whoyou come in contact with you'll be ready andnot nervous.Especially with these hotter womenthat you guys want to meet.Testimonial/Success StoryHey man,I just got back from a 3 week trip to France, somereally interesting things happened.Itmade me realize that there were a few areas I wascompromising myself as well as situationswere I was unconsciously seeking approval.It'sstrange in a way... looking back, I waspretty good at lying to myself to justify what Iwas considering doing.Basically before my trip to France, this was thesituation: there was this girl who reallyliked me and I liked her somewhat.She's veryintelligent, very pretty, nice and supportivebut she doesn't really turn me on.Besides thatshe's majorly religious and kind of quirky.Yet a lot of people admire her and everyone wastrying to convince me of how good it wouldbe for me to be with her in a *relationship*.Probably because of a lot of other issuesgoing on for me at the time and unrelated stress,I started to believe them and began to lieto myself that I wanted it when I really knew thatit wasn't what I wanted or deserved.Anyway, once I got to France and got away from allthe negative people everything started tochange.I started to think about all of our talksand things I've learned from you as wellas other positive influences in my life.Istarted to look back and remember when thingswere working and analyzing why.Amazing thingsstarted to happen.First I started to feelbetter about myself and felt I had much morepersonal power, then I met a couple of girlsand hooked up with them.I decided to only fillmy mind with positive thoughts but tocompletely unattached at the same time.Everything as a whole started to improve, I had aconcert that went amazingly well, opportunitiesopened up, I was able to deal with a lot ofdifferent unexpected challenges easily, all wasgood.Then I met the sister of the guy whoI was staying with.She was one the mostbeautiful girls I'd ever seen and besides thatshe's a top rate ballet dancer, and plays violinand piano.She has very high self esteemand a positive, fun, challenging, sexypersonality... basically she fits the profile ofmy type of girl... she models also when she has sparetime.She'd only had one boyfriendbefore and they never did anything.. it lasted for3 weeks.She claimed that she doesn'thave time and that she's too busy doing her ownthings.So anyway, obviously because ofpast bad social programming as well as the factthat she has 5 older protective brothers, itwas a challenge, but with affirmations and justrelaxing, I treated her the same as all theother girls who pursue me.The point is, becauseof the indifference and because of who Iam, she started to pursue me.When we finally didget together it was unlike anythingbefore-- even afterward it was still incredible.It was what truly made me realize that Iwas crazy to have even considered the things I wasthinking before.I think the biggestpart was accepting that I was deserving of thatquality of girl.So, from now on, I onlydate girls of that caliber.So hey, I just wanted to let you know, that Ireally appreciate everything that you'vehelped me on. I realize that most of the time whenthings become stressful or start tospiral downwards it's because I resort back to oldprograming.But really, a lot of therichness and fulfillment as well as the successI'm achieving in all areas of my life isbecause of your mentoring.Hope all is well with you,IB, FranceCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentJuly 4, 2006The 'Death Topics' WorkI know what everyone else says. Differentiateyourself by using telling a story or spitting outa routine because the last thing you want to do isbore her, I mean you have to keep her interested,right?Wrong!It's no longer your job to keepher interested.At least not in the way you'reused to doing it. The old way is no longerrelevant and it's time to evolve into a sociallywell adjusted person.I know that you're holdingonto this life raft (the old way) as tight aspossible, because it's responsible for theprogress you've made.But, I implore you to stopdoing this right now.There is another level ofsuccess that you don't even know exists, exceptfor those of you who have been out with me. You'vegot to go to the next level now...stop wastingtime.The problem with the old way of doing things isthat women have heard it all.They know whenyou're hitting on them.As soon as you open yourmouth, they know what's coming and theyimmediately raise their defenses.Then, they'renot listening to most of what you say after that.If you ever DO break through, it will take way toolong and you'll have created too much work foryourself.You know how I feel about that...Verylittle work, very big return.When you talk aboutsubjects that any two people would talk aboutyou're actually flying under the radar.Theydon't see you coming and don't have apre-conceived notion about you.Their defenseswill be down and the two you can get to know eachother.Women are telling me that they wish men would stoptalking so much and about themselves.They thinkit's arrogant and annoying.They want you toask more questions.Honestly.I'm not kiddinghere.Questions like:What's up?How are you?What's happening over here?Where are you from?What's on the agenda tonight?I know what you're thinking.C'mon Brent that'stoo easy.It's not easy, or everyone would bedoing it.It IS simple though.It's like losingweight.Eat less, excercise more.Simple tounderstand but not easy to implement.What do we(as men) do when we figure out something is toosimple?We resist.We don't want to admit thatwe overlooked something simple (we won't even askfor directions).You're gathering information and the answers tothe above questions will have dramatic effect onyour evening. These answers are going to tell youall about these women quickly and where youropportunity is (if any).I'm going to reveal how and why these simplequestions are so powerful in a future productrelease.TestimonialBrent,How's it going? love your work. If it hadn't beenfor you I might have never got here, certainly notthis soon. I'm 20 years old and I am indifferent,like the real deal indifference not faking but thereal deal. For a long time I was fakingindifference as a technique and that doesn't work,sometimes short term, but not long term.I finally got to that point where I justcompletely gave up on women, completely. I gave itall up and just stopped. I decided to just quitall this crap, pick up lines, techniques, routineseverything. And to completely stop, and learn tobe happy with my life without women 100%. It washard took me over a month, I started going throughsome with drawls. I'd see a hot girl and I'dreally want to approach her and start aconversation but I stuck to it until I learned thelesson. Once I figured out the lesson, be happywithout women, everything changed.So now, I do absolutely nothing, no techniques, nomanipulative behavior, no head games, no pick uplines, none of that crap, absolutely nothing andits awesome. I just talk to people. If I see hotwomen, sometimes I will approach them but Iapproach them because I like to talk and look athot women. No longer am I approaching them becauseI want something from them. I don't care. This is reallyhard to describe in words, this mentality that Ihave now. I can't be rejected because I don'tcare, I'm not out to get something, I don't careif a woman likes me or wants to be with me,it doesn't matter. It's not on my mind.And once I finally got it, all these women areafter me now. By the way I only figured this outlike a month ago, so it's probably going to geteven wilder. Things changed fast, I've gone outwith more girls this week than I did my entirespring semester, and another cool part, I didn'task a single one out, I never made the first moveexcept hold eye contact if that counts. No longerdo I care what I say, or how I dress, or any ofthose normal insecurities that people have whendealing with women, it doesnt matter. Ijust go out and have conversations with people.And now all those boring questions men ask womenlike where are you from?, do you have any siblings?Women are asking me these questions. They aretrying to pick me up and get in my pants. Womenare working to get me now, instead of the otherway around.But the most important part of this whole thingand the best part is I don't care. This is themost valuable thing to me, if I woke up tomorrowand women no longer found me attractive Iwould not care. It would not affect me in any way.I would still be happy, I would still love beingme and I would not give a crap. That is the bestpart. It's complete freedom!Thanks, I get it now ;)-J.L. MississippiCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentAugust 6, 2006The Secret Power Of TruthTell the truth and make your intentions clear whenspeaking to women.Why?* A parade of routine and story telling men havemade women hungry for the truth and womenare telling me this every day.*They might wantthe same thing you do.*It's great time management (doing less andgetting more)Stop assuming that you know what's going on insidetheir heads and then tell them whatyou THINK they want to hear.Women are smart, sotreat them that way.In other words,don't pretend to be psychic, unless you are; andin that case contact me immediately becauseI think this will be the beginning of a beautifulpartnership!Seriously, stop devolving!I'm not saying that you should just walk up andlay it on the line, out of context or blurt outsomething offensive. But, when the conversationturns to the subject ofdating/relationships or the two of you gettingtogether, you should try it.The secret that most men seem to forget,is thepower of truth.Speaking the truth, directlyand with respect, is one of the most powerfulthings you can ever do.You currently usetruth as a last resort.Only when you're forcedup against the wall, with evidence that isundeniable, do you admit it.A lot of supposed gurus out there are telling youthat you have to match and mirror women'slikes and dislikes, redirect their objectionsrather than answer them (seduce) andthen inject generous doses of prasie and flattery(pursue).This is way too much work and is nolonger relevant.If you're into a casual relationship just say it.Let's face it, all relationships startout as casual ones...unless you have an arrangedmarriage. But remember, there's a fine linebetween confidence and arrogance.Here's the magic sentence:You: I've got a lot on my plate and I'm onlycapable of a physical relationship rightnow...still interested?This triggers three things in her mind:* You tell the truth and this is different thanmost of the guys who approach her.* You're a challenge because you've hinted at thepossibilty of a future relationship byusing the words'right now'.(remember, women wantwhat they can't have because they canusually have anything they want).* That you stand for something (in a climate wheremost people don't). When you'reimmoveable from your beliefs, women will respectyou; even if they don't agree with you.And who knows, maybe this truth will be the thingthat allows the two of you to have aserious relationship down the line.A Thank YouBrent,What's up buddy? Even though I have tested yourprincipals many times, I think I am pastthat stage now. Every ounce of my being wants tofight the tough love and societalpre-programming that had me looking for a bettersolution to my dating and social life inthe first place. I, like a lot of guys thoughtthey were headed for the happy land of arelationship but I ended up looking back over thefence with adoration of freedom. I loveyour comment of "What you are looking for does notexist." This is so opposite of what anyother motivational speaker would proclaim. All ofthem want you to believe that it's rightaround the corner and for just $1,995 they willlead you to Nirvana. Thanks again for all ofyour help in the past nine months...it has beenlife changing!MGCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentAugust 12, 2006How To Get Hotter WomenThe simple answer is to treat the ones you likeexactly like the ones you don't.In otherwords, don't give them special status.Easiersaid than done; i know.The fact is thatyou're giving the ones you want more status thanthey initially deserve. You're assumingbecause you find them attractive that they mustalso be nice, smart, have great breath, begood in bed, etc.These things may or may not betrue, but you don't know yet.Imagine the opposite being true.These women youTHINK you're attracted to may end up notbeing someone you like after you've gotten to knowthem.If you truly aren't satisfied withthe women you currently have, because they're notgood looking enough and you think thegrass is greener, don't assume that the ones thatARE better looking will be...well, better.They might have more issues, lower self esteem, behigher maintenance and be drama queens.Most of you know that I have a 'Zero Tolerance'policy when it comes to drama.I'm nottelling you not to try for these women and I'm notsaying that super attractive women arebad; what i'm trying to do is de-mystify theprocess for you.The bottom line is that, withthe expectations you've set, she will NEVER liveup to them.Once again I'm going out on a limb here andtelling you that it doesn't matter and might notlead you to the place you think it will.Trustme, I'm there.It's not usually the hottestwomen who have the best personalities or who arethe sexiest.Trust me, you'll be boredwith them just like you are with the rest of thestuff in your life that was cool for thefirst few weeks and now you take for granted.Let me explain:Here's what usually happensSSee it:Wow!That's great.HHave to have it:I HAVE to have to it.IIt happens: I have it!TTired of it:Uh oh, I'm bored with it.Now What?I'm not prepared for this.Shit happens, now what?I'm not trying to dampen your spirits, here.I'mactually telling you this to help buildyour confidence. Since, you'll probably be boredwith her, why not approach with the mindsetof ALREADY being bored with her?Try this internal frame:The two of you met, started dating and then yougot bored and broke it off.She's beentrying to talk you into getting back together eversince.Would you ever be nervous about approaching abeautiful woman who's pursuing you?Of coursenot.The thing to consider is that the act ofapproaching gives away power so if you don't takeit back immediately you're sending the messagethat you're the pursuer.I suggest that assoon as you see a girl you THINK you like andapproach her, slip into the exact frame ofmind that you're in when you approach the ones youcurently do.You're conversation could go something like this:You: I see that we have the same problemHer: What?You: We have a lot of people hitting on us andnone of them are saying the right thing.Her: I knowYou: I wish these women would be unique.What didthat last guy say?What was his line?Her: She tells you the line or storyYou: Oh my god.I'm glad I asked because that'swhat I was going to say to you (justkidding).Her:Laughing (hopefully)You: Seriously, guys still use that stuff?Her: YeahYou: What DOES work with you?Not that I'm tryingto pick up on you.Her: What do you mean?You: I mean, what would one of these guys in herehave to say to spark your interest? (she'snow going to tell you exactly how to get her)Her: I just like friendly, confident guys whoaren't full of themselves.You: Wow, that's fascinating.It seems so simple.Guys have too much at stake and I thinkthat's why they crash and burn so often.Her: That's so true.You: I wish women would use a different tact onme.Her: What do they say?You: They say things like, I don't want arelationship I just want to use you for sex...thatkind of stuff.I tell them that I don't work thatway; I'm not a piece of meat.Her: LaughingYou: Not that it wouldn't be okay coming from theright woman.I mean she'd still have toconvince me and be fascinating though.Her: Who's the right woman?You: Why, are you interested?Her: MaybeYou: Anyway, I have to use the restroom and I'msure you want to get back to thesefascinating guys so maybe we'll talk later.(she's used to dismissing men so this will showher that you don't fear loss and build attraction)Go to the bathroom and then talk to some friends,more girls or whatever.After ten orfifteen minutes, casually walk by her again andsay:You: Did I miss anything?She'll probably have some funny story about otherguys who approached her and you can tellher that you were stopped by some girls and gropedby the bathroom; and the two of you canmake fun of them.You're not hitting on her and this is buildingattraction as well.She has lowered herdefenses because you're being friendly, funny andindifferent; she can't understand whyyou're not into her.You: Well I've got to go; it was fun making fun ofother guys with you.If you want to doit again sometime, I'll give you my number and wecan compare notes.Success StoryHi Brent,I'll get to the point:The advice you gave me onour last phone coaching session resultedin me just getting finished having sex with thatKorean girl I told you about.Oh yeah, your advice about getting candles wasgreat.It really helped in setting the mood.Basically, I got four 3"x3" candles with redcandle holders (the color scheme of my room isred and gold) and one tall and thin candle with agolden colored candle holder to be used onthe little collapsible dining table in my room..I only used the latter tonight...I litit when we brought the take-out food back to myroom.That was the only light for the restof the evening.But most importantly, the advice you gave helpedme put my head in the right place so thatother things just flowed... I hope that madesense. :)Thanks,PP, San FranciscoCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentAugust 19, 2006Seduction Is No Longer RelevantThere are many definitions for seduction.Wikipedia states:Seduction is the process of deliberately enticinga person into an act. It can be usedseriously or jokingly, frequently refers to sexualbehavior, and may refer to an act thatthe other may later regret and/or would normallynot want to do. Historically, the mostfamous seducers of all time are Cleopatra, GiacomoCasanova, and Don Juan.The above type of seduction was practiced a longtime ago and things are different now; sostop living in the past. Seduction is no longerrelevant, in the way you're used to thinkingabout it.Women are very smart, pressed for time(like everyone these days) and usuallyknow what they want.Ask yourself these questions:Wouldn't you rather have a woman WANT to be withyou?Do you really want to make a woman do somethingshe doesn't want to do?If you do, that's weak, manipulative, not ameasure of true success and just bad timemanagement. Once again, you're making itcomplicated and taking the long way around.Imean, after a while your reputation precedes youand what used to take hours becomesrelatively quick. It's time to find a moreefficient way to conduct yourself.As some of you know, years ago I had this homedate I used to do that involved wine, greatfood, unusual magazines and conversation, a movieand would end with getting physical.Well, I got really good at this and the result (atthe end of the night) was always thesame.I began to notice an interesting thing:Women were getting antsy and kind of upsetafter a while; but everything was okay once wewere getting physical.I thought, "Wow, that'sinteresting. She came over to get physical,I delayed and now she's mad.What a concept."Ihad been wanting to find another, shorterway to do this anyway.So, I thought, "I wonderif the decision to get physical with me ismade at the moment she agrees to come over?"Experiment:I decided to test my theory. I had the exact sameset-up as usual but I wanted to see howquick I could get physical.So, we had a glass ofwine, some food, the candles were lit andI went for it.Within 15 minutes we were doingeverything that it usually took me 3-5 hoursto MAKE happen.We still watched the movie for awhile and then she left. So I'm thinking"This is interesting but this could be a fluke, Imean anything can happen once."I decidedto it the next night as well (with a differentwoman) and it happend even faster.It waslike I was hit by a bolt of lightening.All thistime I thought I needed to go through thislong ritual to get what we both already wanted.And the biggest revelation was that all ofthe so-called seduction was actually...for ME!!!!!I was actually doing the seduction scenario fortwo reasons.1) I thought I needed to go through the wholescenario so she could rationalize exhibitingthe behavior that she did and that somehow I wasconvicing her.2) (this one was an unconsciousdecision)...I was bored.I mean I did this everynight and I was making it longer on purpose.So here's the recap:* Guys always ask me what they should do (whattechnique they should use to get physical)once a woman is over at their place.Theunbelievable truth is that once she's over at yourplace, it's too late!I know what you'rethinking.What???Her decision to get physicalwith you (or not) is made at the moment she agreesto come over. That's why doing thingsright, in the first interaction, is so important.* Believe it or not...women will often get upsetif you wait too long to get physical oncethey're at your place. I've had women get reallyirate with me because it was 3-5 hoursbefore something happened.* And finally,Hereit comes..."Seduction is for YOU, not her."That's not a typo.Coaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentAugust 26, 2006My Roll Will NEVER End!Affirmations will probably be the most importantpart of your self-development.They willbe the base for everything else you do.Masteringthem will be scary because once youbelieve and give up your old way of being, you'llbe able to have anything you want.If what you tell yourself now (negative) works,doesn't it make sense that the opposite(positive) would also work?Your mind is morepowerful than you think. And since 75% ofcommunication is non-verbal, it makes sense thatwho you are on the inside effects who youare on the outside and how others react to you.That's another reason that it seems as if Isometimes do absolutely nothing and crazy stuffhappens, when I'm coaching you.Here's what you need to do:Take out a piece of paper and draw a line down themiddle of it with a pencil (veryimportant).On the left side write down how it ISfor you, truthfully.What are yourissues.List them in order of priority if youcan.Example:I never approach beautiful women because I don'tknow what to say.After you've finished with the left, write theexact opposite on the right side.Example:Beautiful women are easy to approachbecause I always know what to say.Finish the rest of the right side.Now, It's time to erase.I want you to re-write each positive affirmationand this time swing for the fence, go overthe top.Think of the most outlandish thing thatcould happen and then go one step further.I call it 'Severe Self Talk'.Don't worry.It'llbe arrogant going in and confident comingout. Really go for it..Remember, you're onlysaying it to yourself; not out loud to anybodyelse.You're inner voice is 'talkin so muchsmack' that a regular affirmation just won'tcut it.You need something really powerful.Example:Beautiful women always approach ME, ask for mynumber and I have to end the conversationfirst because they won't stop talking.Make it short and easy to remember.After youfinish all of them, pick the one thataddresses your biggest, most important problem.That's the one you'll repeat to yourselfdaily.It's important to focus your energy onone.Don't spread yourself too thin oryou'll become overwhelmed and this won't work.I want you to commit to your chosen affirmationfor 30 days.Why 30 days?Because yoursub-conscious is used to a lot of false starts inyour past.Remember that time you joinedthe gym as the result of a New Year's resolution,went for 3 weeks, then somehow kept comingup with excuses for not going?It thinks your newbehavior is only temporary.It assumesthat you will eventually go back to the way it wasbefore.And rightly so; that's been thecase up until now.Here's another way to think about it:Your sub-conscious is like a woman in love...Her: Honey, you don't say, "I love you" enough.You: Listen, baby...you know how I feel about you;why do I have to say it?Her: I DO know how you feel about me but I need toHEAR it, ALL THE TIME!She needs constant re-inforcement.Because, leftunspoken, her inner voice goes crazyreminding her of all the reasons that you DON'T!Get it????When you DO, you'll be,Beautiful women always approach ME, ask for mynumber and I have to end the conversationfirst because they won't stop talking.Waiting to happen at ALL times.You've probably heard the adage, "He's an accidentwaiting to happen."It's the same thing.Here's what should be going on inside your headduring any interaction you have withANYBODY:Them: So how are you doing?Blah, Blah, BlahYou:I'm great.(inside you should be thinking:Whatever, Beautiful women always approachME, ask for my number and I have to end theconversation first because they won't stoptalking.)I'm not telling you to stop listening to people,but your internal answer to EVERYTHING isyour affirmation.Then, magically, everywhere you go wierd thingswill start happening and guess what?Beautiful women start approaching YOU, asking foryour number and you have to end theconversation first because they won't stoptalking.Once your first one comes true then startexperimenting with the rest.Do I still use affirmations?You bet.Thenegative voice in my head is often trying tobreak through and say,"You've been on a roll for a long time Brent, butit's going to end TODAY"My affirmation is,"My roll will NEVER end!In fact, after I'm gonewomen will still be texting me."I no longer ask my inner voice for permission tobe successful with women.In a sea of negativity, it's the positive energythat you send out to the world that cutsthrough the clutter.So, start right now.Peopleare waiting for it!TestimonialI spent a night out with Brent and some of hisfriends and it was absolutely the experienceof a lifetime!I was very nervous at first butBrent was so easy going and friendly that itinstantly took all the pressure off of me andwithin five minutes, at the first spot, I hada gorgeous young lady pressing herself up againstme introducing herself and her two lovelyfriends.All Brent wanted me to do was to watch, listen andlearn. But, after about an hour, it lookedso easy that I drifted off on my own and wasalready getting similar results.I have toadmit that while I had one of my best times everthat night, and saw how easy it is to livesuch a fascinating lifestyle, I really don't liketo party THAT much.But soon aftermeeting Brent, and this is the kicker, he gave meone little piece of advice that haschanged my life forever and has brought me so muchmore joy and success in all aspects of mylife!I'll keep that to myself for now, butbelieve me, a few hours with Brent gave mesomething that I'd been missing for a long time,and oh, by the way, dealing with women hasbecome so second nature it is virtually anafterthought.Thanx Brent!RP, Northern CaliforniaCoaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentSeptember 2, 2006How To Give Out Your NumberThere are three things you need keep in mind ifyou want this to work.1 Believe that it works and that it will work forYOU (and not just me)2 Don't draw attention to it3 Don't debate it*BelieveIf you don't believe in it they'll feel it and itwon't work. If you don't believe in it,then why would they?Even if they happen to takeit anyway, they won't call.I know thisis hard for most of you.In fact, this is one ofthe toughest changes that any of you willhave to make and it's the one that ALL of youresist the most.What have you got to lose bydoing this?Failure?Most of you aren'tsuccessful with numbers you currently have sowhat's the difference?Think about it this way:If there's a possibilty that you might fail,wouldn't you rather do less work for it?The secret here is to say it like this is whateverybody does or this is the way it worksall the time.You should say it as if it's no bigdeal.*Don't draw attention to itSteer every conversation towards something socialor find something you have in common assoon as possible.This is directly related to thetypes of simple questions that I alwayssuggest you ask such as Where are you from?, Wheredo you live?, What do you do?, What's onthe agenda for tonight?/this weekend? Etc; andanother reason that they are so important.You're searching for a great, non-threateningreason for them to call you. Remember, ittakes a lot for them to pick up the phone and diala man's number.Don't make it about adate.Make it seem as if its for a socialgathering or that she needs important informationfrom you.Let's say that she lives near you.You can ask her if she's been to aparticular place such as a bar, club, restaurant,coffee place Etc. Tell her you're there oryou and you're friends are there all the time andshe's welcome to join you sometime if shetexts.**Caution** It has to be real...do not make thingsup or pretend you know about things orplaces that you don't.If you don't know anything about anything then Isuggest that you learn it fast.Sometimesyou just might have to take a pass.Remember, youdon't need to give it out to every womanyou see.As time goes by, you'll get better atdoing this and it'll happen more.Throughout your conversation say things like,*Have you been to Mynt? (or something relevant)*Remind me to give you my number before I leave.*Call me and I'll let you know about thatrestaurant/club/place*Text me if you want to know about that thing*Give me a call and we'll talk about it*We're probably going to club x later.I have thehook up and might be able to get you in.Text me in about an hour and I'll see what I cando.**Caution** Whatever you do, don't take her phoneand put your number in.The act of herputting it in makes it real and you also don'twant to give her the idea that you'repursuing her.And don't keep saying,"Ok, so callme" over and over.You'll be confusingher; she won't be able to tell if you're powerfulor not.*Don't debate itShe might object by saying,Her: "I don't call men" or "You take MY number" orsomething like that.She thinks you'll be easily swayed with oneobjection.And usually she'd be right.You'reused to caving and just being happy to have anumber.Don't give up so easily. What I'mabout tell you will separate you from the rest ofthe guys on the planet.Calm down and do thefollowing without missing a beat.Take out your phone and say,You: "Ok, what is it"?Put her number in your phone and press send, tellher not to answer and leave the followingmessage:"Hey Karen, its Tom from the bar.I want tocongratulate you on coming up and hitting on melike that, I know it takes a lot of guts for awoman.Lucky for you I find assertive womensort of attractive.Anyway, give me a call andwe'll talk about getting together sometime".You've just taken all the power back that you gaveaway by putting her number in your phone.And, technically, you've called her first.I'vehad women tell me that it's cute, funny orthe greatest thing they've ever seen.**Caution** The idea here is to get your number toher before you leave the place that youmet her.Don't wait until you get to the nextplace or get home; do it right away.If she still happens to say, "Ok, call me" (whichhas happened to me a few times) just smileand agree by saying, "Ok, great.Nice meetingyou."Move on and don't call her.If she'sinterested she'll reach out to YOU.Other exceptions to the rule: (it's okay to takeher number)*Her phone's dead*She doesn't have it with her*Her dog ate itThis is currently my favorite approach:Me: Why haven't you called me?Her: Because I don't know youMe: That's because you haven't called meHer: What are you talking about?Me: Let's try it again, 646-555-1212.OrBelieve it or not, they often play along and giveme points for trying something different.Me: Why haven't you called me?Her: (smiling) Because I lost your number.Me: (smiling) I'll give you one more chance 646...At this point I just start asking questions like"Where are you from?"I've had a girl kissing me within 2 minutes ofdoing this because she thought it was funnyand unique.You can start doing this right now and it shouldwork every time, so what are you waitingfor?P.S. Many of my subscribers are asking formore... and funny because I've been thinkingabout doing a weekly PODCAST for some time.Nothing outrageous or anything, heck I'd wouldprobably charge under $10 a month.If you're interested just send me an email here:(or just hit reply to this newsletter)brent@absolutepowerdating.com.. And put either YES or NO in the subject line.If I get enough interest from you guys, I'llconsider setting something up.Coaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentSeptember 9, 2006I Saw You Staring At MeHave you ever been in the situation where a womanstares over at you and you don't know whatto do about it?Most of you have. If youhaven't, you've come to the right place.You may be wondering:* Should you hold the stare?* Who should look away first?* What direction should your eyes be going whenthe stare is broken?It's simple.Always break away first and go backto what you were doing before.Think about it:She's staring at YOU (which gives you powerbecause she's pursuing).If you stare back andwait until she breaks it, you just gave all thepower back.Thecongruent thing to do isto break it off like it didn't happen and then goover and say the following sentence:You: I saw you staring at meHer: What?You: (smile and pat her on the back) It's ok, Imight be interested too.But, I have aquestion for you.Now that I'm over here, whatare you going to do with me?If she says,Her: I don't know (and she means it)You say,You: Okay.Come find me when you do.(don't say itin a mean tone, keep it light)Now, walk back to where you were and don't look ather again. (she may or may not come findyou.Either way you're in control)If she says,Her: I don't know (and it's playful)You say,You: Okay, let me know when you come up withsomething.(now change the subject) Untilthen, where are you from?Don't milk (her staring at you) for all it'sworth.It's a sure sign that you have nothingelse to say; you have no depth.And, don't makeher feel bad for playing along or showinginterest.Remember how hard it is for her to doin the first place.TestimonialHey Brent,When I first decided to get a weekend of coachingfrom you, I wasn't really sure what toexpect. I just assumed you would teach me how tobe a smooth-talker and, essentially, trickgirls into liking me. That's not how I would havephrased the situation then, but I seethings a bit clearer now. It didn't take me verylong at all to realize that what you were actuallyteaching wasn't necessarily how to be successfulwith women, but rather how to be successful inlife and with people in general.A month later, I'm still amazed at how much bettermy life is becoming. I'm meeting morepeople, making more friends, and having betterrelationships with the people who are alreadyin my life. I think that perhaps the singlegreatest pearl of wisdom you bestowed on me wasthat the only place I need to be is wherever I'mat. In other words, I no longer have toworry about being anywhere! I can just live mylife however I choose, and know withcertainty that I can meet women and make friendswherever I go.The second greatest thing I learned from you iswhat I've been calling "Role-reversal." Iused to believe that I wasn't successful withwomen (in part) because I wasn't a"smooth-talker" or that I didn't know how toentertain women, so tospeak. Now, as you yourself have said, I getnauseous at the very idea of my doing anythingto try and entertain women. No longer am I the onedriving all over creation for women,buying them dinner, or going out of my way to doanything special for women. In fact, I nowfind that when I mention that I would like to try"X" or that I want to learn "Y"; the womanasks if she can do these things for me! It'sunreal.I suppose I should get some rest now. I'll need myenergy because tomorrow I am hooking upwith a beautiful young stripper, and later I willbe getting some lessons in salsa dancingfrom another woman I met. So thank you Brent forthe countless things you taught me, all ofwhich I have been using to create a better lifefor myself!A.D., Los Angeles, Ca.Coaching (1-on-1)If you want to live this life right now you canstart by signing up for my coaching program.Whether you start on the phone or in person, startnow!Click on the link below right now for moreinformation and to sign up for 1-on-1 coachingpackages.(clicking on this link does not obligate you inany way)http://www.absolutepowerdating.com/coaching.htmlThat's it for now.Good luck out there!BrentSeptember 16, 2006How To Be ConsistentWhen I was younger I had some initial success withwomen but it was feast or famine.Inother words, I was inconsistent.One week I wouldbe really on and have incredible resultsand the next week there was nothing.I thought Iwas doing the same things.At the time, this iswhat I thought:* I guess inconsistency is the price I have to payfor the success I have* I have to take the bad with the good* I have more success than anybody I know so Ishould be happy* I don't know anyone who has this life 24/7; itmust not be possibleSo I accepted that this was how my life was goingto be.And, of course, that's exactly howit was.It was a self-fulfilling prophecy.I wasguarenteeing that it would be that way.One day I realized that this was all in my headand that I could have this life all the time(scary thought).What did I do?The same thing I want you to do:Take out a piece of paper.Think back to the lasttime(s) you were successful and writedown all the details that you can remember:* What kind of mood were you in?* What were you feeling?* How were you acting?* What were you saying?* How were you saying it?* What was your body language?* How were others reacting to you?* Etc.I guarentee that you'll find many commonthings that you did, that you're not even awareof. Once you know what they are, do them everytime you're around other people.Is that it?No, there's more.Stay tuned!TestimonialWhile the insight from Brent's newsletters andinterviews is powerful in and of itself,there's simply no substitute for witnessing hisapproach and taking in his knowledgefirsthand, live and in person.I knew that mycoaching weekend was going to be awesome, yet Istill underestimated just howmuch I would actually learn and evolve from it.Furthermore, I had no idea just how easy,and how much fun, it was going be for me toactually play integral roles in amazinginteractions that we experienced together!Brentwas great to hang with because everything heconveyed was authentic, fun and positive.He offered excellent feedback which has helped mewith many of my sticking points,especially in areas where he was able to find goodperspectives within notions that had, inthe past, been self limiting beliefs for me. Healso shared a wealth of constructivesuggestions to refine other, more subtle aspectsof myself that I wasn't already aware of.** Results!**The affirmation about me being so interesting thatI'd have to cut off conversations hasalready come true!I found myself being draggedaround by a group of three women (2 of themvery attractive) who were smitten with me and whowere begging me to hang around with themall night.Everyone saw this (and theirtouchy/feelyness) everywhere we went and I couldreally feel the impact that my presence made onothers. They were all wondering...wondering...wondering... THEN horny guysstarting coming into the group...so I welcomedthem... and the girls wereturned off by them and turned towards me... I'mnow getting text messages of my own...LOL!Thanks for bringing to my attention the fact thatI make a bigger impression then I thoughtI did.That was BIG for me...Unlike many good things in life, where the initialbuzz steadily tapers afterwards, I nowwake up each morning with a growing