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What’s Inside: Pages 2-5 High Holy Days Cantor’s Message President’s Message S’lichot High Holy Day Schedule Family and Youth Schedule High Holy DayTicket Info. Pages 6 Ansin Religious School Director’s Message Important ARS Dates Page 7 Auxiliaries Brotherhood Sisterhood Piano Concert Page 8-10 Community Anniversaries and Mazal Tov Mitzvah Day New Camper Weekend Mazon Family Table Brookline Networking Group NEFTY Reunion Bar Mitzvah Facebook Call for Musicians Bylaws Update Mazal Tots Program Pages 11 Tributes Page 12-13 Yizkor Elohim 100 Blessings a Day Rabbi John Franken self-awareness, and self-care. The PEER program consisted of online courses in leadership and visioning, monthly coaching sessions, and two in- person seminars. It taught its 19 rabbinic fellows how to improve decision making systems, manage change and conflict, develop volunteers, exercise leadership, understand followership, and communicate more effectively. In many aspects of our congregation’s life, we are already seeing benefits of the STAR experience. I am proud of my participation in that experience. It heightened my self-awareness, helped me to broaden my leadership skills, and sharpened my vision for our community. Unlike PEER, which focuses on rabbis as leaders of complex organizations, the Shalom Hartman Institute has as its focus rabbis’ needs for spiritual and intellectual nourishment. For nine days, rabbis from around the world would come together for intense study, debate and exchanging of ideas. But the range of topics one encounters and the informal learning with colleagues from around the U.S. makes it much more than an academic exercise. Through formal and informal interactions alike, I was able to broaden my knowledge, challenge my understanding, and bring back many fresh ideas and knowledge to our community. Our tradition teaches that the wise person learns from others and that the well-being of the community depends on strong leadership and a clear vision. To all who uphold and model those values, you are helping to secure a strong and vibrant future for our congregation and for that you have my enduring appreciation and thanks. May you be inscribed for a good and a sweet year. Shana tova! 100 Blessings a Day My rabbinate has two faces, one public and one private. The public face reveals itself in such contexts as Tidings columns, sermons, divrei Torah, baby blessings, weddings, b’nai mitzvah, funerals, counseling sessions, home and hospital visits, lectures and classes. It also shows itself when we sit alongside one another, as perhaps you and I did in the last year, to craft a mission statement, green our building, revise our bylaws, plan our new building addition, design our new preschool, map a leadership development program, or explore ways to expand our revenue base and grow our membership. These are some of the many dimensions of the public face of my rabbinate. Then there is the private face, or the “back story.” This is the time I set aside to think, to learn and to grow. Every single day of the rabbinate brings blessings, especially the blessing of being part of so many wonderful people’s lives in so many wonderful ways. But being a rabbi requires intellectual, spiritual, and emotional oxygen. Time spent in personal growth, learning, skill-building, and self-care is essential to rabbinic wholeness. This past summer I spent some important “back story” time replenishing my energy, building my skills, expanding my knowledge, and reflecting on my vision. To do so, I attended the Shalom Hartman Institute for advanced Jewish learning in Jerusalem and participated in the STAR (Synagogue Transformation and Renewal) PEER (Professional Excellence in Rabbis) program. The STAR PEER fellowship was an incredible gift to both our congregation and me. Funded by the Schusterman Foundation, the PEER fellowship provided 19 rabbis (myself among them) a comprehensive ten-month experience aimed a fostering growth in executive leadership, visioning, Progressive in attitude yet traditional in practice, Temple Ohabei Shalom is an inclusive Reform Jewish community committed to nurturing, sustaining, and touching Jewish lives through joyful worship, life long-learning, and repair of the world in word and deed. September 2009/Elul-Tishri 5769-5770 Tidings Temple Ohabei Shalom - Judaism in Motion

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What’s Inside: Pages 2-5 High Holy Days • Cantor’s Message • President’s Message • S’lichot • High Holy Day Schedule • Family and Youth Schedule • High Holy DayTicket Info. Pages 6 Ansin Religious School • Director’s Message • Important ARS Dates Page 7 Auxiliaries • Brotherhood • Sisterhood • Piano Concert Page 8-10 Community • Anniversaries and Mazal

Tov • Mitzvah Day • New Camper Weekend • Mazon • Family Table • Brookline Networking

Group • NEFTY Reunion • Bar Mitzvah • Facebook • Call for Musicians • Bylaws Update • Mazal Tots Program Pages 11 Tributes Page 12-13 Yizkor Elohim

100 Blessings a Day Rabbi John Franken

self-awareness, and self-care. The PEER program consisted of online courses in leadership and visioning, monthly coaching sessions, and two in-person seminars. It taught its 19 rabbinic fellows how to improve decision making systems, manage change and conflict, develop volunteers, exercise leadership, understand followership, and communicate more effectively. In many aspects of our congregation’s life, we are already seeing benefits of the STAR experience. I am proud of my participation in that experience. It heightened my self-awareness, helped me to broaden my leadership skills, and sharpened my vision for our community. Unlike PEER, which focuses on rabbis as leaders of complex organizations, the Shalom Hartman Institute has as its focus rabbis’ needs for spiritual and intellectual nourishment. For nine days, rabbis from around the world would come together for intense study, debate and exchanging of ideas. But the range of topics one encounters and the informal learning with colleagues from around the U.S. makes it much more than an academic exercise. Through formal and informal interactions alike, I was able to broaden my knowledge, challenge my understanding, and bring back many fresh ideas and knowledge to our community. Our tradition teaches that the wise person learns from others and that the well-being of the community depends on strong leadership and a clear vision. To all who uphold and model those values, you are helping to secure a strong and vibrant future for our congregation and for that you have my enduring appreciation and thanks. May you be inscribed for a good and a sweet year. Shana tova!

100 Blessings a Day My rabbinate has two faces, one public and one private. The public face reveals itself in such contexts as Tidings columns, sermons, divrei Torah, baby blessings, weddings, b’nai mitzvah, funerals, counseling sessions, home and hospital visits, lectures and classes. It also shows itself when we sit alongside one another, as perhaps you and I did in the last year, to craft a mission statement, green our building, revise our bylaws, plan our new building addition, design our new preschool, map a leadership development program, or explore ways to expand our revenue base and grow our membership. These are some of the many dimensions of the public face of my rabbinate. Then there is the private face, or the “back story.” This is the time I set aside to think, to learn and to grow. Every single day of the rabbinate brings blessings, especially the blessing of being part of so many wonderful people’s lives in so many wonderful ways. But being a rabbi requires intellectual, spiritual, and emotional oxygen. Time spent in personal growth, learning, skill-building, and self-care is essential to rabbinic wholeness. This past summer I spent some important “back story” time replenishing my energy, building my skills, expanding my knowledge, and reflecting on my vision. To do so, I attended the Shalom Hartman Institute for advanced Jewish learning in Jerusalem and participated in the STAR (Synagogue Transformation and Renewal) PEER (Professional Excellence in Rabbis) program. The STAR PEER fellowship was an incredible gift to both our congregation and me. Funded by the Schusterman Foundation, the PEER fellowship provided 19 rabbis (myself among them) a comprehensive ten-month experience aimed a fostering growth in executive leadership, visioning,

Progressive in attitude yet traditional in practice, Temple Ohabei Shalom is an inclusive Reform Jewish community committed to nurturing, sustaining, and touching Jewish lives through joyful worship, life

long-learning, and repair of the world in word and deed.

September 2009/Elul-Tishri 5769-5770

Tidings Temple Ohabei Shalom - Judaism in Motion

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High Holy Days

President’s Message Dear Congregants: It is with great enthusiasm that I announce an exciting new policy that will be implemented for the upcoming High Holy Days. In an effort to fill our beautiful Sanctuary and give potential members the opportunity to observe our services, we encourage you to invite your friends and family to this year’s High Holiday Services at no cost – that is correct – NO COST. In these difficult economic times, this is our way of saying thank you for your support, while at the same time helping to create more community participation and interest in Temple Ohabei Shalom. Our clergy and Board have enthusiastically embraced this idea as I am sure you will as well. In fact, we would like to use these holidays and services in lieu of our traditional open house for prospective members and as a source of a new infusion of supporters. We need your help: think about your neighbors, colleagues, friends, and family who just might appreciate coming to our services – and please invite them! In order to participate, a downloadable registration form is set up on our website at www.ohabei.org and is also printed in this Tidings. Thank you for making this program successful and if you have any questions about the process, please contact Steven Davis, Executive Director, at 617-277-6610 x22. L’shanah Tovah Jesse Cochin

Jesse Cochin

N’shamah. Nefesh. Ruach. Soul. Spirit. Living Breath.

Cantor Randall Schloss

S’lichot “Who Shall Live…?” by Jeff Bernhardt

Saturday, September 12 7:00pm Reception, Lissner Hall 8:00pm Program, Montague Chapel 9:00pm Service, Montague Chapel

Join Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss for an evening of exploration of the relationships and issues between human beings and God, in memory of Janet R. and Sidney T. Small. RSVP to 617-277-6610.

I was able to leave Brookline twice this summer for two very different, but equally invigorating, Jewish experiences. The first was a trip to Chicago for the annual American Conference of Cantors convention. I had never been to Chicago before: although I didn’t get the chance to explore extensively, it is a beautiful and vibrant city. The convention schedule is filled with workshops, seminars, concerts, and business meetings: the stuff of the cantorate. Although the convention ran from Sunday through Thursday (cantors serving congregations are not always available on Shabbat!), worship was also a central element. We participated in services morning and evening, before and after the day’s other programs. The worship services were also instructional: each was thematic in a different way. One morning there was a jazz service. Another featured significant congregational input in an improvisational way (e.g. during the morning blessings, we were invited to add, out loud, our own daily miracles). However there was one common theme amongst almost all of the services (and many of the concerts and workshops as well): N’shamah. Nefesh. Ruach. Soul. Spirit. Living Breath. These cantors - clergy, professional service leaders - were excited to be together in a Jewish environment. We were excited to share music, prayer, ideas and concerns. We lead services all the time, and yet not always this way as a member of our own community. In Chicago, we had the opportunity to be members of congregation Beth Israel - Ohabei Shirah: House of Israel, Lovers of Song. In August, I took a second trip out of town with my family to Camp Micah in Maine. Camp Micah has an idyllic setting: on a slope, overlooking a lake with a backdrop of forested hills. My kids had a wonderful time, particularly enjoying the company of many of our staff and congregants who either work at Camp Micah or attend as campers, and participating in myriad activities: boating, swimming, climbing, dancing, etc. The campers all seem to love it as well, happily running, yelling, laughing, and singing from one activity to the next. But then Friday evening came. In the center of the slope, overlooking the lake, is Micah’s outdoor chapel. The campers and staff, adults and children of all ages gathered together, all wearing white shirts, to welcome Shabbat. I led services with counselors, campers, and staff members (Shari Churwin, Kate Mikesh and David Sumberg among others). Together we truly celebrated Shabbat. We sang, danced, talked, laughed as the kids had done throughout the week, but now it was evident that this was a Jewish camp. The central activity and highlight of the week was this Shabbat service. Rather than serve as a break from the rest of the week, I got the impression that the joy and spirit exhibited throughout the week was derived from this Shabbat celebration. This year, at Ohabei Shalom, we strive to create these kinds of experiences for our entire congregation. Our services will often

feature lively, festive music with greater congregational participation in our musical ensembles. Our Ansin Religious School programs and adult education programs will have a stronger connection to Shabbat as well as we strive to create and sustain the kinds of experiences described above: N’shamah. Nefesh. Ruach. Soul. Spirit. Living

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Holiday Parking and Security • Please help us to ensure that these holidays are safe

by not carrying a handbag of significant size. We reserve the right to inspect any item we deem necessary.

• Leave plenty of time to find on-street parking; the parking lot will be accessible by permit only.

• Use the corner of Kent and Beacon Streets for all drop-offs; assistance for the handicapped will be available.

• Do not park on the grass around Longwood Mall; our neighbors appreciate your cooperation.

Sponsorship Opportunities Temple Ohabei Shalom offers a number of sponsorship opportunities to enhance our High Holy Day services. If you are interested in sponsoring one of the listing below, please contact Steven Davis at 617-277-6610 x22. Kesher, High Holy Day Program Book $1000 Featuring staff bios, services, programs, and events for 2009-2010

Rosh Hashanah Bimah Flowers $1000 Beautiful flowers to adorn our historic sanctuary

Rosh Hashanah Chapel Flowers $360 Enhance our youth and family services

Yom Kippur Bimah Flowers $1000 Beautiful flowers to enhance our worship experience

Yom Kippur Chapel Flowers $360 Enhance our youth and family services

Apples and Honey $180 Served at our Rosh Hashanah Family Service

Childcare Services $1000 Allow childcare to be offered for free during all Holiday services

Yom Kippur Break Fast $180 Provide juice and challah for the community break fast

Service Bulletin $180 Provide service information to all who pray with our community

Rosh Hashanah September 19 Supervised Play & High Holy Day Activities 10:00am to End of Service, Lissner Hall Children Age 3 to Grade 2 Youth Service 10:30am, Montague Chapel Grades 3-10, Followed by attendance at Shofar blowing in the Sanctuary Family Service with Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss 2:00pm, Montague Chapel Songs, prayers and shofar blowing for parents and children will be followed by apples and honey! Yom Kippur September 28 Supervised Play & High Holy Day Activities 10:00am to End of Service, Lissner Hall Children Age 3 to Grade 2 Youth Service 10:30am, Montague Chapel Grades 3-10 Family Service with Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss 2:00pm, Montague Chapel Parents and children sing, pray and share a Yom Kippur story At approximately 5:30pm, children attending High Holy Day Activiies will be escorted to the Sanctuary for Havdalah, and invited to join the clergy on the Bimah.

High Holy Day Schedule For young children and families

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Dear Congregants: As you will read in the President’s message, this year we are opening our doors for the High Holy Days not only to our cherished members but also to your guests. To fill our beautiful Sanctuary and attract new members, we encourage you to invite your friends and family to observe our dynamic clergy and participate in our meaningful Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services at no cost. That is correct – NO COST. In these difficult economic times, this is our way of saying “thank you” for your support of Temple Ohabei Shalom and asking for your help in growing our membership. If you would like tickets in addition to the ones that normally come with your paid membership, please fill out this form and return it to the address below. The same form is also available online at www.ohabei.org. Tickets will be available at the synagogue office during normal business hours. If they are not picked up by September 4, they will be mailed. Requests received after September 4 will be available for pick up 30 minutes before each ticketed service.

Thank you for helping to make this phenomenal program a success. If you would like to make a donation, it would be greatly appreciated. Checks should be made payable to Temple Ohabei Shalom and can be sent along with this form to Temple Ohabei Shalom, 1187 Beacon Street, Brookline, MA 02446 / ATT: High Holy Day Tickets.

Sincerely,

Steven Davis Executive Director

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FREE HIGH HOLY DAY TICKETS For Friends and Family NEW!!!

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Ansin Religious School Shari Churwin Director of Education

The meaning of the Sabbath is to celebrate time rather than space. Six days a week we live under the tyranny of things of space; on the Sabbath we try to become attuned to holiness in time. It is a day on which we are called upon to share in what is eternal in time, to turn from the results of creation to the mystery of creation; from the world of creation to the creation of the world. Abraham Joshua Heshel

It is difficult to believe that the Ansin Religious School (ARS) is going to begin its 15th year in September. We have many things to be proud of as the ARS is truly a dynamic and innovative institution. We pride ourselves on being on the cutting edge and are constantly striving to “break the mold” of a traditional Jewish education. This year will be a new beginning for us on many fronts -- we now have beautifully refurbished classrooms and our brand new Trust Center for Early Education will open soon. We are also launching several new programs and initiatives along with our new curriculum and schedule, ARS 2.0, all of which are tailored to meet the changing needs of our modern students and families. Last spring, the Avi Chai foundation released a report entitled “Schools That Work: What We Can Learn from Good Jewish Supplementary Schools.” This study confirms that weekly religious school education can be successful. Perhaps more importantly, the study identifies the elements that help define "success" in schools, offering suggestions for replicating the excellence that the research team found. The study presents six "noteworthy characteristics of good schools." Good schools (1) work on building friendships and community, (2) go beyond teaching facts to allow students to work on meaning, (3) use experiential education, (4) actualize a clear vision, (5) value themselves and their students, and (6) involve not only students but their families. Our new school model embraces these elements and brings us closer to achieving our goal of reinvigorating our school by aligning it with the traditional cycle of Jewish worship, allowing students and families to study and worship together. Our clergy, staff, and lay leadership all agree that our new approach will help to keep our Judaism in motion and nourish the whole Temple Ohabei Shalom community. I invite you to join us as we celebrate the beginning of a new school year and inaugurate our new Shabbat School on Saturday, September 12, 9:30 am. Join us for a family Shabbat experience, a tour of our newly renovated classrooms and a congregational Kiddush in our newly refurbished social hall. Shabbat morning is the perfect time for us to gather as a community to celebrate the year to come. It is of utmost importance to me to work collaboratively with you to bring about the exciting changes coming in the new year. We are

aware that this may be a difficult transition year for some families. Please call or email me in the school office (617-739-9200, [email protected]) if you would like to discuss any aspect of this new program. We are deeply committed to keeping our school the warm, nurturing, wonderful experience it has always been. I am confident that the new programs, initiatives and schedule for the coming year will move us closer to our vision of being a fountain of living and joyful Judaism. L’shanah Tovah Shari A. Churwin Education Director

Yom Rishon – First Day of school

Prek - Grade 2 September 12, 2009, 9:30 – 11:30 am or Tuesday, September 8 (grades K – 2) Grades 3 – 6 Tuesday, September 8, 3:30 pm – 5:45 pm (note new time) Jr. Chai, High School and Post Confirmation (grades 7 – 12) Monday, September 14, 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm (dinner & classes) No school dates Saturday, September 19 - Rosh Hashanah Monday, September 28 – Yom Kippur Please remember to send in your registration fees ASAP if you have not done so already!

Important ARS Dates: Mark Your Calendars!

Shabbat B’yahad The first of our monthly Shabbat experiences

for families in grades 3-7

Saturday, September 12 9:30 am – 10:10 am Family Shabbat Service with Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss

10:15 am – 12:15 pm Family Programming

12: 15 pm Community Kiddush & ARS Welcome

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The Officers and Members of the Executive Board extend our best wishes to all our Brothers, their families, and the entire synagogue community for the upcoming New Year 5770. Unlike in past years, there will be no Brotherhood Barbeque Kick-Off Dinner at the synagogue due to the construction that is taking place in the parking lot for the new wing/elevator for the Ansin Religious School and the Trust Center for Early Education. We are proud to announce that Louis Goldman, Co-President of our Brotherhood, has been elected to the Board of the Jewish Chautauqua Society (JCS), which has for over 115 years provided knowledge and education about Jews and Judaism, brought about an appreciation of the Jewish people, their history, religion, and culture, and built bridges of understanding between peoples of all faiths and cultures. The JCS is the interfaith education program of the Men of Reform Judaism. Our October event will be the Installation Ceremony for the 2009-2010 slate of officers. Please add to your calendar Thursday, October 15th at 6:30 pm, when John Shalett, newly elected North American President of Men of Reform Judaism (MRJ), will preside over the installation activities and bring greetings from the MRJ National Board. This program is open to the entire community however reservations are required to attend the dinner reception which will immediately follow the Installation Ceremony. Please RSVP by Thursday, October 8, 2009, by either calling Jerry at 617-731-5736, or by emailing [email protected]. The Brotherhood wishes to thank everyone who has remembered to bring in or mail in there stamped Butcherie receipts. Please continue to support this vital program.

Sisterhood News

Auxiliaries

Brotherhood News Jonathan Atkins & Louis Goldman Betsy Gould

On Sunday, September 13th at 11:30 a.m., our book club will discuss Six of One. It is “a rousing tale of two sisters told by Rita Mae Brown in her unapologetic, eccentric Southern style. She introduces us to Julia & Louise Hunsenmeir, fondly known as Juts & Wheezie, an indomitable pair of quarreling sisters born around the turn-of-the-century in Runnymede, MD. Spanning almost a century, we watch the mad cap life of Juts and Wheezie.” If this whets your appetite, please read the book, and come prepared to join in our discussion. Our wonderful Sisterhood community will welcome new members, as well as our long-time devoted, to an opening Dessert & Coffee. Featured guest speaker will be Karen Glansberg, our director of TOS’ new early childhood center. Our own Estelle Katz will provide the musical entertainment as only she can. An opportunity to make new friends, enjoy interesting activities while helping Ohabei Shalom and the greater Jewish community, is Sisterhood at its best! Please join us on Monday, September 14th at 7 p.m. Sisterhood is a life-changing experience. Sunday, October 25th at 3 p.m., pianist Julie Boris along with Cantor and Leah Schloss, as well as David Sparr, will perform an outstanding concert. Look for more infomation in the October Tidings. Sisterhood wishes everyone a happy, healthy, sweet new year. L’Shanah Tovah!

Save the Date!

Sunday, October 25 at 3 p.m. We will have pianists Cheryl Berard and our own Julie Boris, along with special guests Cantor Schloss and David Sparr. Together they will orchestrate a concert of the highest caliber. This program will include music of Bach, Mozart, Schubert, Brahms and Poulenc. All are welcome! Julie’s last concert two years ago was wonderful and we are looking forward to this year’s concert.

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Community

Illness? Hospitalization? Birth? Simcha?

Please let us know... 617.277.6610

Save the Date Mitzvah Day ‘09

Sunday, November 8

Have you been wondering what happened to Mitzvah Day?

We will be holding our 4th Annual Mitzvah Day on November 8, 2009. Be sure to mark your

calendar to join the entire congregation in a day of mitzvot!

Many of the projects from the past years will be available, as well as some new and exciting opportunities. As always, we can’t do this

without your help. If you are interested in being a Project Captain this year or helping out with Mitzvah Day, please contact Jamie Wildstein at

[email protected].

September Special Anniversaries

Jonathan Kaufman & Barbara Howard Gerald & Toby Penn

Arnold & Tracy Greenfield Marc & Denise Casper

Mazal Tov

Mazal tov to Kate Mikesh and Stephen Monge on their recent en-gagement!

Mazal tov to Andrew and Hannah Koyfman on the birth of their son William Isaac Koyfman, born Au-

gust 10, 2009!

Pictured left is Hannah with Wil-liam.

Mazel Tov to our Bar Mitzvah!

Jonas Goldman, September 12, 2009 For his mitzvah project, Jonas chose Save A Child's Heart, an Israeli-based international humanitarian effort which provides, regardless of religion, race or finances, life-saving pediatric heart surgery when such surgery is unavailable in a child's home country. After raising awareness and funds for Save A Child's Heart, Jonas visited the medical facility in Tel Aviv and spent time with some of the children at the project's pre-/post-operative residence.

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NEFTY Reunion (1972-1975) October 16 - 18, 2009

If you were involved in NEFTY anytime during the years 1972-75 (even if you

graduated from high school in a later year), save the weekend of

October 16 - 18, 2009 for a reunion being held in the

Newton, MA area!

Join your old NEFTY friends for all or part of the weekend as we reconnect and reminisce.

For more information, e-mail your name (current and what it was back then if they

differ) and e-mail address to [email protected].

Greater Boston’s Jewish Food Pantry

Temple Ohabei Shalom’s monthly contribution is

Canned Tuna or Salmon and Graham Crackers

Donations can be brought to the new Family Table bins in the office and chapel foyers. You can also write a check to the Sisterhood of Ohabei Shalom with “Family Table” in the memo line or volunteer to drive our contributions to the collection center in Waltham just one Sunday a year, 9:30am - 11:30am.

If you are interested in helping, contact Dottie Berman at 617-277-6610 x19 or

[email protected].

FAMILY TABLE

Brookline Networking Group (BrNG) meetings are open to everyone in Brookline and outlying communities. Join us to learn job search and business networking skills, and hear expert presentations including how to become a consultant, the steps needed to build one’s own business, finding the hidden job market, and other timely topics. When: Third Tuesday of every month, from 7 to 9 PM Next meeting September 15. Where: Temple Ohabei Shalom, 1187 Beacon Street, Brookline. LinkedIN Group site: Brookline Networking Group (BrNG). To receive ongoing information about this group please send an email to BrooklineNetworking­[email protected] or visit our website,

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Hebrew Word of the Month

בניהconstruction

Dear Moms , Dads, Grandparents, and Caregivers,

Come and join other parents and toddlers (ages 15-24 months) for our Mazal Tots Program on Wednesdays, beginning October 7, 2009 from 9:30-11:00 am at Temple Ohabei Shalom and taught by Karen Glansberg, LICSW, Director of Early Education.

WHERE : Temple Ohabei Shalom 1187 Beacon Street Brookline, MA 02446 (617)277-6610 ext. 24 [email protected] WHEN: Wednesdays from 9:30 – 11:00 am, beginning October 7, 2009 COST: $95 per month WHY: Music, art, holiday celebrations. Fun for children and adults alike!

Please fill out and return the portion below to the Temple Ohabei Shalom office.

____ Yes! Sign us up for Mazal Tots. We can’t wait! ____ Maybe…. I need to know more. Please contact me and tell me more about this exciting program. Parent’s Name: _______________________________________ E-mail:__________________________________________ Child’s Name: _______________________________ Child’s Birthdate: __________________________________________ Home Phone: ________________________________ Cell Phone: _____________________________________________ Address: _____________________________________________________________________________________________

Mazal Tots Program

Calling all Singers & Musicians! Musicians: Are you a musician? Come share your talent with your community! TOS Choir: From novices to experienced singers, all are welcome! Rehearsals are usually held on Monday evenings at 7:00 p.m. in the Chapel. If you would like to participate or would like more information, contact Cantor Schloss at [email protected].

Join the TOS Group on Facebook! Search “Temple Ohabei Shalom” and click “Join this group.” See photos from recent events, connect with other members, past and present, get notices on TOS programs and more! If you have suggestions on expanding our group, please e-mail [email protected].

See you online! Bylaws Task Force Update The Bylaws Task Force has continued its careful work to revise and update our curent governing docu-ments. Their revision will be presented for approval at a Congregational Meeting to be scheduled for this fall. You can find the proposed Revised Bylaws, and the email address for submitting comments, posted on the TOS website after Labor Day weekend.

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Tributes Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Dick and Carol Daynard Rabbi Marci Bloch David Rogovin & Susan Liberman Myriam Guez and Ben Spiegel Cantor’s Discretionary Fund Larry & Denise Green Spencer & Betsy Gould Pulpit Flower Fund Marylin Klickstein Fund for Life Long Learning Marylin Kilckstein Marylin Kilckstein Marylin Kilckstein General Fund Arlene Rome Susan Liberman & David Rogovin Susan Liberman & David Rogovin Minyan Fund Florence Hootstein Ida Sidman Frank Labb Anne Caplan Phyllis Kaplan Edwin Lewis Norman Sherman Corinne Gilbert Evelyn Stern Doris Cohen Daniel W. Krueger Harry & Harriet Harris Milly Krakow The Shurdut Family Carole & David Decter Milly Krakow Susan Liberman & David Rogovin Natalie Dilyock William Price Betsy & Spencer Gould Saul & Doris Feldman Shirley Eisenberg Betsy & Spencer Gould Sally Blazer Myron Wasserman Anne Fries Elaine & Susanne Stern Minyan Fund Cont.

In Memory of Larry Franken Larry Franken Walter Lisann In Appreciation of Rabbi Franken officiating their wedding In Honor of Shabbat Honors Cantor Schloss and his beautiful Shabbat services In Honor of Pheobe Langenthal & Judy Shepro's Birthdays In Memory of Sara Gopen Weintraub Larry Franken Walter Lisann In Honor of Sara Atkins' Confirmation Walter Lissann Hannah & Herb Zeiger In Memory of Sylvie Solar Goldie Rosenberg Florence Labb Ida Caplan Isabel Juster Freda Lewis Hyman Sherman Alice Gilbert Joseph Stern Edith Rubin Henry Krueger Larry Franken Margaret Plovnick A. Bernard Shurdut Sara Gopen Weintraub Sylvia Krakow Lawrence Franken Bertha Dilyock Thelma Alpert Price Harriet Goldin Larry Franken Simon J. Helman Leonard Benfeld Sara Gopen Weintraub Rosemary Wasserman Fanny Shaffer George Zaken

Sheila & Aaron Sacks Dan & Eva Deykin Ellen White Irene & Lisa Steigman Anonymous Robert H. Willis Betty Morningstar Elinor Barron John & Beth Gamel Brenda Tanger Roslyn Wennett Sy Gottlieb Robert & Bruce Beal Prayer Book Fund Esther Strachman Esther Strachman Esther Strachman Project For Our Future David G. Kantor

Florence & Michael Waldman Shifra R. Deykin George Oshry Morris Steigman Lawrence Franken Celia Segal Willis Ida A. Nathanson Harry Barron Larry Franken Gertrude Ross Florence & Michael Waldman Arthur Gottlieb In Honor of Leona Beal In Memory of Louis Dresner Syril Dresner Jack Strachman In Memory of Sara Gopen Weintraub

Honor your friends and loved ones with a TOS Tribute.

Sponsorships for bimah flowers, Shabbat Onegs and Kiddushes also available. A

wonderful way to show your appreciation for a friend or family member.

For more information, call the TOS office at 617-277-6610.

DID YOU KNOW? In 2009, taxpayers age 70.5 and older can give away up to $100,000 from their IRA's directly to charities, TAX FREE! Please consult your financial advisor for detailed information.

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Yizkor Elohim - We lovingly remember

Jacob A. Slosberg * Jeanne G. Coler * Joseph Kaufman * Julius Leo Rodenstein Leah A. Levinson Louis Gold Louise Weissberger Lyn C. Phillips Marcia Milender Abrams Marian E. Lipsky * Marian Rogovin Marilyn M. Macey * Marion S. Rosenthal Minna Pierson Miriam J. Goldberg * Morris Waldman Nathan M. Rosenthal Necha Maurice Pearl Prost Robert B. Riseberg Robert Ruthfield Rose Levin Samuel L. Sepinuck Sarah Effenson * Sidney Hark Sidney Jacob Slotnick Stella H. Aaronson * Susill Alexander Isaacson William Oranburg Zelda Rosnosky September 8-15 Aaron M. Mayburg * Abraham S. Cohen * Abram Koyfman

Albert Miller Allan Kaufman Ann Olans Crossman * Anna Z. Radlo * Arthur A. Cohen Arthur Gordon * Augusta Sanger Barry Lass * Benjamin D. Brooks * Bernice Neiditz Bertha Sarah Rosenthal Bessie Hurwitz * Charles B. Strecker * Charles Slosberg * Donald F. Greene Edward Ezra Goldin * Esidor J. Klous Eva Loeb Evelyn C. Sage * Evelyn Yasner * Fannie Etcoff * Fannie Revzin Florence Marquis * Frank Bernstein * Fredric Roy Bresnick * George Alpert * Gertrude S. Adler * Golda Bereablit H. Nicholas Kamp Hannah R. Cobe * Harris Wingersky Harrry Lipof Hazel Levine * Helen Rosengard Henry Hollander

Henry Lewis Herman Isaac Berman Hy George Mallen * Isaac Cohen Isaac Walper Jacob Freiman * Jacob Margolies * Jane Bandler Price Joan Pardo * Joseph Homer Wyzanski Laura Schulman Lazarus Freidson Louis Steinberg Louis Turover * Marcus Levy Max J. Bulian Mikhail B. Grosso * Mildred Schlesinger Minnie Croan Minnie Weber Mollie Segal Morris Rock Myrtle Sara Spector * Nathan Yassen * Newton Fishman Philip Barsh Phyllis F. Schneider * Rabbi Raphael Lasker Rachel Freidson Rayna Hazan Richard L. Caplan Robert Greenbaum Rosa P Cohen Rose C. Horblit * Ruth Savitsky

September 1-7 Adela Brauner * Adolph Abraham Rosenbush * Anna G. Wald * Annie Finer Annie Weitzman Arleen Lichtenstein Arnold Weissberger Avis Alexander Barnet Nemrow * Benjamin Gargill * Berel Mazer * Bessie Simons * Bruno Maurizi Carrie B. Dach * Deborah Rubin * Dolly Mashal Dora Newman Estelle C. Rosen * Esther Rochel Shulman * Ethel Morgan * Ethel Shapiro Eva Rosenberg Fanny K. Cohen Frances E. Weinerman Frances G. Hartman Frances Kartt * Fred E. Borenstein * Habiba Mashal Harold Leon Rosenthal Harry Kudisch Helen G. Guttentag * Henry C. Rosen * Howard M. Hollander *

We extend our deepest sympathy to their families. Those listed below are recorded in our Book of Remembrance, windows, or on memorial plaques. An asterisk indicates that the plaque will be illuminated during the Shabbat of yahrzeit.

Rose Gould mother of Spencer Gould Leonard Benfeld uncle of Beth & Nadine Braunstein Larry Franken father of Rabbi John A. Franken Walter Lisann father of Shari Lisann Carl Moskowitz father of Laura Moskowitz & grandfather of Mariah Shore Moskowitz George Oshry father of Richard Oshry and cherished member

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Yahrzeits, continued

Samuel Goloboy Samuel H. Geller * Sara Melnick Sarah Shlanger Sofi Held * Theresa Daniels Victor I. Shapira William Oxman * Wolf Katz Zachary T. Cohn September 16-23 Aaron Cooperstein Abraham Halperin Abraham Ring Abraham Zimmerman Albert J. Feldman * Alexander Aronis Arthur Greenbaum * Authur Sternburg Benjamin A. Belis * Benjamin Baker Benjamin G. Persky Bernard Ross * Boris Gorokhovsky Chas Von Bargen Edith B. Feinberg * Edith Pransky Elisabeth Weissman Emma Fox Etta B. Weinstein Frances Uhr * Gertrude C. Alpert * Goldie Pantell Caplan Harold Ullian * Harris I. Koritz Harry Fischer * Henrietta Rubin Hinda Harris Hugo Kahn Hyman S. Baker * Jacob Fishel Jacob Toochinsky Jeffrey Grossman Jennie A. Brody Joseph Goldinger Joseph L. Champagne

Julian A. Marzynski * Kalla Frieberg Katie B. Masters * Leonard P. Scolnick Louis Hollander * Louis I. Lehner * Louis P. Fox Martha Hirshberg * Maurice D. Davis * Menashi Mashal Mildred Mamuchin Milton I. Alpert * Morris Blinder * Morris Cohen Moses Charak Naomi D. Spunt * Nettie Sherman Oscar Reinstein Pauline Epstein Phillip Kalick Ralph O. Frank * Richard Miller Rita Mabel Rose Jacobson Rose M. Sloane Sadie S. Segal * Samuel Cline * Samuel G. Myerson * Theresa Mandell * Tillie Podren September 24-30 Abraham Afremoff Abraham Oppenheim Adeline Brightman Mais-ner * Andrew Todd Koufman * Annie F. Herman * Annie Gersh Annie Lowenstein * Arthur Berk * Barbara Halpern Benjamin Nigrosh * Bessie K. Rosenfield * Chayela Rosenthal Claire S. Linsky David Todres

Elizabeth Kern Elliot Fries * Eric Robinson Esther Small Eva M. Nesson * Gabriel Sanger Goldie Dichter * Harold P. Wallach Harold Righter Harriet Johnson Harry Gilder Harry Gordon Harry S. Levenson Henrietta Bloch * Hilda Krinsky Hulda Wit * Ignatz Wit * James Pivnick Jennie P. Sanger Jennie White John Nathan * Jonas Sulzbury Joseph Finberg Lillian Schor Helfgott Lizzie Scheinfeldt Mae Levine Marjorie Gordon * Martin Gold Mary P. Clark * Maurice Ross Maurice Stern Michael David Smith * Minnie Cohen Monia Morningstar * Morris Fisher * Morris Handwerker Morris Ostroff Paul Mosner Paul S. Horowitz * Pauline A. Beal * Philip Dizon Rabbi Albert Goldstein * Rebecca Pearl * Richard Jacob Litchman Rose E. Mayburg * Rose Matfess Samuel Nadel *

Samuel Newton Wyner Sarah P. Stanetsky Shepard Spunt Sol Glauberman Stanley E. Norman

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September Calendar

Leadership Staff and Executive Board John A. Franken, Rabbi

Randall M. Schloss, Cantor Emily G. Lipof, Rabbi Emerita

Steven Davis, Executive Director Shari A. Churwin, Education Director

Karen Glansberg, Director of Early Education Kate Mikesh, Dir. Informal Education

David Sparr, Music Director

Jesse Cochin, President Arnie Greenfield, Vice President

Cathryn Stein, Vice President Michael Weintraub, Vice President

Ronny Sydney, Vice President Martin Shore, Assistant Treasurer

Daniel W. Krueger, Recording Secretary

New Daily Worship Service Schedule

Monday - Thursday: 8 am & 6pm Friday: 8 am Sunday and legal holidays: 9:00 am & 6pm Please note there is no Saturday Daily Worship Service at 6pm.

There are openings for new leaders. If this interests you, contact Ita N. Wiener at 617-734-7137 or Spencer Gould at 781-329-7439. Thank you!

September Candle Lighting Times

4 - 6:57 p.m. 11 - 6:44 p.m.

18 - 6:32 p.m. 25 - 6:26 p.m.

September 4 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Service 5 10:30am Shabbat Service 7 Labor Day - Office Closed 8 3:30pm First Day of ARS 12 9:30am ARS Shabbat School & Shabbat B’yachad 10:30am Shabbat Service - Bar Mitzvah of Jonas Goldman 7:00pm S’lichot Reception, Program & Service 13 11:30am Sisterhood Book Club 14 6:00pm High School - Grades 7-12 7:00pm Sisterhood Dessert & Coffee Welcome 18 7:30pm Erev Rosh Hashanah 19 10:00am Rosh Hashanah Services 10:30am Rosh Hashanah Youth Service 2:00pm Rosh Hashanah Family Service 3:15pm Tashlich 20 10:00am Rosh Hashanah Service 21 6:00pm Ansin Religious School - Grades 7-12 22 3:30pm Ansin Religious School 25 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Services 26 9:30am ARS Shabbat School

10:30am Shabbat Services 27 7:30pm Kol NIdre 28 10:00am Yom Kippur Service 10:30am Yom Kippur Youth Service 1:00pm Adult Learning 2:00pm Family Service 3:00pm Afternoon Service 29 3:30pm Ansin Religious School -

October 2 5:45 Tot Shabbat 6:30pm Congregational Shabbat/Sukkot Potluck 7:30pm Shabbat Rishon 3 9:30am ARS Shabbat School 10:30am Shabbat Service