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Page 1: Number of thoughts per day - Aventri...2013/10/07  · Carol Dweck, Mindset , New Psychology of Success Rapport building – self confidence • Self confidence: Increases when athlete
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Number of thoughts per day

50,000 to

60,000

thoughts

per day

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Be Your Best - Have a dream

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Today’s youth athlete

Today’s youth least fit in history

Over 30% of kids overweight

Phys Ed declining in schools

More kids in sports, yet kids less fit

T H E R E S U L T

Injury rates at all time high

3 million sports related injuries each year

70% drop out of organized sports by High School

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Interesting facts about teens

• One in ___ teens admit to abusing medications that

were not prescribed to them

• ____% of high school aged teens have considered

committing suicide

• The average teen sends _____ text messages a month

• ____% of teens admit to being bullied

• ____% of teens say their parents are more into their

high school sports then they are

• The average parent has under ___ minutes of

meaningful conversation with their teens each week

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Most deadly disease

Heart Disease

Cancer

Diabetes

Low Self Esteem

Suicide is the third leading cause of death of young persons aged 10-24

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What is self-esteem?

Belonging Belonging CompetenceCompetence WorthWorth

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Overcoming challenges

• Born in 1940 in Clarksville, TN

• 20th of 22 children

• Measles, mumps, scarlet fever,

chicken pox, double pneumonia

• Polio in 1947

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Thinking outside the box

Using one line, make this Roman numeral a 6

IX

(101-102=1) Make this equation true by moving 1 digit?

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Career Statistics

Yards Avg TDs

18,355 4.2 164

Source: NFL.com

Emmett Smith

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Evaluation = Motivation™

Measuring an athletes’

current level of

performance and fitness

is the first step toward

motivating them to

improve performance

and self-confidence

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Get your athletes excited about

the right strategies

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Paradigm Shift

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Fixed mindset vs. growth mindset

Growth

Mindset Fixed

Mindset

Carol Dweck, Mindset , New Psychology of Success

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Rapport building – self confidence

• Self confidence:

� Increases when athlete feels

in control

� Can’t control score,

outcome, starting position

� Focus on mastery

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Create a mastery environment….

Athletes feel more in control & come back

What 3 words

separate good coaches

from great coaches?

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The power of influence

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Successful or Significant?

John Wooden

Vince Lombardi

Mike Rice

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Fall In Love With Your Coaching Style

Is it about you or the athlete you are training?

Athlete You

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You have to believe you can

Change the world

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Become a master communicator

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You get what you expect...

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Act as if…Enthusiasm

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Rapport building is about building trust

It takes repeated

interaction and

connections with

athlete before you

make a

connection

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Rapport building – components of

communication

Not only what you say,

but how you say it

•55% physiology

•38% tone-of-voice

•7% words

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Building rapport– asking questions

• Start with positives:

� Good to see you

� You are looking good today

� Congratulate on recent successes or last session

• Ask safe questions:

� How are things going?

� How are your friends doing these days?

� What practices / games do you have coming up?

� Ask about their family, other interests,

favorite shows, pets

• Ask open-ended questions:

� Ask about their goals and progress

� Don’t accept “fine”

� Explore “how” and “why”

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Recruiting

Increase awareness in the community by

reaching out to the “Spheres of Influence”

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Principle #1: Make it fun,

challenging & safe

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Principle #2: Teach them how to

warm-up

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Principle #3: Teach them to master technique

Paradigm

Shift

Paradigm

Shift

Intensity of

Movement

Quality of

Movement

Intensity of

Movement

Quality of

Movement

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Principle #4: Teach them strength

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Principle #5: Teach them recovery

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Be an authority

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Significant

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Bill Parisi

www.parisischool.com

[email protected]

201-847-1939