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{acuc e`nncl{u njljnjwc {ac byjcxcyu }djl dlk k`l{ defl`rockbc {ac oùu, [acz dou` usbbcu{ rc adxc

l` yjba{ {` ic s}uc{ `y kju{ycuuck/ dlk {ad{ byjcxjlb ju ry`lb,

SLKCYU[DLKJLB BYJCH

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njuslkcyu{``k, ]c`}oc ndz hcco duadnck `h {acjy icych{ u{d{c/ du jh j{ ju u`nc{ajlb {` ic cnidyyduuck

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{ac }yècuu `h byjch/ dlk fl`r {ad{ j{ ju d lcecuudyz dlk sldx`jkdioc }dy{ `h ojhc, Byjcxjlb {dfcu {jnc, J{ ju

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n`l{au/ `y cxcl zcdyu, Acdo{az byjch/ a`rcxcy/ bydksdooz ocuuclu jl jl{cluj{z `xcy {jnc,

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e`n}dlj`l dljndo, Ksyjlb {ac byjcxjlb }yècuu/ j{"u e`nn`l {` cq}cyjclec udklcuu/ dlbcy/ bsjo{/ dlqjc{z/

o`lcojlcuu/ aco}ocuulcuu/ uaèf/ `y kc}ycuuj`l, ]azujedo uclud{j`lu ndz jleoskc eyzjlb/ aòo`rlcuu jl {ac

u{`ndea/ ujbajlb/ {jba{lcuu jl {ac eacu{ dlk {ay`d{/ rcdf nsueocu/ d kyz n`s{a/ d}}c{j{c dlk uocc}

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Aco}jlb d Eajok E`}c rj{a {ac Kcd{a `h d ]c{

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9, Racl dlurcyjlb tscu{j`lu/ j{u `fdz {` udz/ J k`l{ fl`r/ is{ oc{u {yz {` hjlk `s{, Edoo su d{Rjl{cyU}yjlb h`y usbbcu{j`lu,

5, Suc {ac e`yyce{ odlbsdbc, Udz/ kcdk l`{ uocc}jlb/ b`lc {` Acdxcl/ rcl{ {` B`k/ `y`{acy e`lhsujlb ncuudbcu,

;, Fcc} jl njlk {ad{ byjcxjlb ju d ld{sydo }yècuu/ dlk {ad{ rj{a z`sy us}}`y{/ z`sy eajok adu {acld{sydo dijoj{z {` e`}c,

3, Ic drdyc {ad{ eajokycl dyc n`yc ojfcoz {adl dkso{u {` n`xc yd}jkoz ic{rccl cq}ycuuj`lu `h byjch/ad}}jlcuu/ dlk }odz,

8, Fl`r {ad{ d eajoku ea`jec l`{ {` {dof di`s{ byjch hccojlbu k`cu l`{ jlkjed{c {ac odef `h byjch,Eajokycl `h{cl cq}ycuu hccojlbu l`l.xcyidooz/ `y ndz rj{akydr jl{` ujoclec di`s{ byjch jl d kcujyc

{` }y`{ce{ }dycl{u,

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:, Suc {ac }c{u ldnc, K`l{ ic dhydjk {` b` {acyc,4=,Ycdk d i``f {`bc{acy, Ndlz r`lkcyhso i``fu `l byjch dyc dxdjodioc h`y kjhhcycl{ dbc ocxcou, [dfc

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Iduje [ys{au di`s{ Byjch

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RAD[ EAJOKYCL [AJLF DI@S[ KCD[A

@sy fl`rockbc `h rad{ ju b`jlb `l jl {ac njlk `h d eajok rjoo bjxc su dl jkcd `h a`r {` e`nnsljed{c

rj{a ajn, D{ rad{ ocxco `h kcxco`}ncl{ ju {ac eajok0 Rad{ rjoo {ac eajok slkcyu{dlk/ rad{ rjoo e`lhsuc

ajn/ dlk rad{ rjoo ud{juhz aju tscu{j`lu0 J{u s} {` su {` ic e`bljwdl{ `h {aju u` rc edl }ycucl{ {ac

ncuudbc jl d rdz {ad{ `sy eajokycl edl slkcyu{dlk, @lc {ajlb eajokycl k`l{ lcck ju {` ic o`dkck k`rl

rj{a cq}ojej{ kc{djou di`s{ {ac kcd{a, Ujn}oc cq}odld{j`lu dyc icu{, Duucuujlb {ac uj{sd{j`l/ gskbjlb dbc

dlk nd{syj{z rjoo aco} z`s fl`r rad{ ju d}}y`}yjd{c, ]ocduc e`luso{ {ac eady{ cleoùck jl {aju }defc{ h`y

bsjkcojlcu `l eajok kcxco`}ncl{ d{ xdyj`su dbcu,

A`r rc kcojxcy {ac ncuudbc ndfcu d kjhhcyclec {``/ cu}cejdooz {` {ac eajok ra` adu où{ d o`xck `lc,

Ksyjlb d {jnc `h eyjuju/ eajokycl lcck {` ycoz `l dkso{u ra` hcco e`lhjkcl{ dlk jl eadybc `h {ac dh{cynd{a,

[acz lcck {` ycoz `l su h`y jlh`ynd{j`l dlk {ac us}}`y{ {acz lcck,

[ac Jn}`y{dlec h E`nnsljed{j`l

Jh {ac kcd{a ju adlkock rcoo/ j{ edl bjxc d }`jl{ `h ychcyclec h`y {ac eajok racl hdeck rj{a `{acy oùucu/rajea rjoo jlcxj{dioz e`nc d{ u`nc }`jl{ jl ojhc, Jh {ac eajok ju {òk {ac ujn}oc {ys{a/ dlk ju bjxcl {ac

`}}`y{slj{z {` ycncnicy {ac }cyu`l {ay`sba d ncn`yjdo/ iz ryj{jlb }`cnu `y u{`yjcu/ dy{ }y`gce{u/ `y

iz }dy{jej}d{jlb jl ujn}oc kjuesuuj`lu di`s{ hccojlbu dlk ncn`yjcu/ {ac eajok rjoo adxc d u{dy{jlb }`jl{

h`y hs{syc cle`sl{cyu rj{a kcd{a,

Eajokycl dyc xcyz oj{cydo {ajlfcyu, Jl dkkj{j`l/ {acjy {ajlfjlb ju xcyz nsea jlhoscleck iz {acjy

usyy`slkjlbueò`yck iz rad{ ju uccl dlk acdyk, E`lujkcy rad{ {ac dxcydbc z`slbu{cy uccu `l [X,

Raz k` rc {yz {` uajcok {acn hy`n kcd{a dlk dx`jk {dofjlb rj{a {acn di`s{ kcd{a0 H`y hcdy rc rjoo

s}uc{ {acn0 Eajokycl adxc ndlz xjuj`lu `h kcd{a hy`n edy{``lu/ n`xjcu/ dlk {ac lcru, J{ ju s} {` su {`

u{ydjba{cl `s{ {ac nz{au dlk {ac ndbje `h Aòozr``k hy`n {ac {ys{a, [aju ju cu}cejdooz {ysc h`y fjku

slkcy ujq/ u` {acz k`l{ cq}ce{ {acjy o`xck `lc {` }`} s} ojfc Rjoc C, E`z`{c/ dh{cy icjlb fjoock/ ycdkz h`y

dl`{acy b` d{ {ac Y`dkysllcy,

Raju}cyu dyc {cyyjioc {` d eajok/ udzu eajok }uzeajd{yju{ Ado Hjuafjl/ ra` r`yfu rj{a icycdxck eajokycl

jl Lcr Z`yf Ej{z, Raju}cyu/ uceyc{u/ hdjyz {docuJ{u ycdooz e`lkcueclkjlb/ }d{y`ljwjlb {` duusnc

eajokycl edl{ kcdo rj{a {ac {ydsndu rc edl, Adxjlb cq}cyjcleck u`nc ndg`y oùucu rj{a`s{ kd{d jl nz

`rl ojhc/ J edl {coo z`s j{u d yd{acy njlk.ndjnjlb cq}cyjclec, J{ ndfcu z`s e`nc s} rj{a e`leosuj`lu jl

z`sy `rl oj{{oc acdk {ad{ dyc l`{ e`lu`ldl{ rj{a ycdoj{z, U`nc{ajlb {cyyjioc adu ad}}clck dlk j{u doo

z`sy hdso{, [ac hdl{duz ju dordzu r`yuc {adl {ac ycdoj{z,

E`yyce{jlb Njue`lec}{j`lu Di`s{ Kcd{a

@lc rdz {` hjlk `s{ gsu{ rad{ z`sy z`slbu{cy ju {ajlfjlb ju iz oju{cljlb {` acy cq}odld{j`lu {` dl`{acyeajok, Bydlkndu rdofjlb {ac cdy{a/ `lc ucxcl.zcdy.òk cq}odjlck, Uac uccnck s}uc{ {ad{ d baù{ ndz

ic ky`}}jlb iz, Uedyz {cocxjuj`l ua`ru/ e`s}ock rj{a {ac lcru `h Bydlknd jl {ac u}jyj{ r`yok/ e`nijlck

{` bjxc {aju eajok d uedyz }`jl{ `h ychcyclec,

@lec rc fl`r rad{ {ac eajok icojcxcu/ rc edl {acl cq}odjl {ac adwz }`jl{u, De{jxc oju{cljlb rjoo `h{cl

ycrdyk su rj{a eoscu usea du {acuc u` {ad{ rc edl cduc {ac eajoku {y`siock njlk dlk yc.kjyce{ {a`sba{u,


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[dof ojfc d eajok racl cq}odjljlb, U{``} k`rl/ }s{ ajn `l z`sy od}/ o``f jl{` aju czcu/ dlk {dof {` ajn jl

aju odlbsdbc, Oju{cl du z`s r`sok {` d b``k hyjclk b`jlb {ay`sba d eyjuju/ o``fjlb icz`lk r`yku, Oju{cl

rj{a z`sy acdy{, Hjlk `s{ rad{ ac fl`ru dlk rad{ acu cq}cyjcleck,

Ycncnicy {ad{ cdea eajok ju dl jlkjxjksdo, Nù{ `h {acn k` {ajlf di`s{ kcd{a dlk dyc e`lecylck di`s{

j{, U{skjcu ua`r {ad{ eajokycl rycu{oc rj{a {acjy hcdyu di`s{ j{ rj{a`s{ {coojlb {acjy }dycl{u/ isyzjlb {acjy

{a`sba{u dlk hccojlbu gsu{ du dkso{u k`, K`l{ duusnc icedsuc z`sy eajok jul{ {dofjlb di`s{ j{/ {ad{ ac

jul{ {ajlfjlb di`s{ j{, Dh{cy cq}cyjclejlb d kcd{a/ ac ndz ic hcdyhso {` ic och{ d{ a`nc racl {ac }dycl{

ju `s{ h`y {ac cxcljlb, Rjoo n`n `y kdk kjud}}cdy hy`n aju ojhc ojfc {ac hdnjoz k`b kjk0

Eajokycl edl njuslkcyu{dlk rad{ ju icjlb udjk, @h{cl/ d eajok ndfcu s} {ac }dy{ `h {ac ncuudbc {ad{u

njuujlb, [ac ycdu`ljlb bc{u {rju{ck, Rd{ea h`y `}}`y{slj{jcu {` uc{ {ac yce`yk u{ydjba{ h`y z`sy eajok

iz oju{cljlb dlk ycu}`lkjlb a`lcu{oz {` {ac hcdyu,

[R@ [@ UJQ ZCDYU @OK

H`y {ac z`slb eajok/ {ac r`yok ju d ndbjedo }odec/ ecl{cyck `l {ac hdnjoz/ aju r`yok, E`lec}{u `h {jnc dlkkcd{a dyc l`{ hsooz kcxco`}ck jl aju njlkac ujn}oz edl{ bydu} {acn, Rad{ ju slkcyu{``k dyc {ac kdz.

{`.kdz {ajlbu jl ojhc/ dlk {ac hccojlbu `h ucesyj{z `h aju hdnjoz dy`slk ajn,

[aju eajok rjoo kydr `l rad{ ju fl`rl, Ac jnj{d{cu dkso{u/ rcdyu {acjy ua`cu dlk aòku {acjy fczu/ doo

rajoc {yzjlb {` ucc a`r d by`rl.s} hccou, Z`slb eajokycl dyc ucluj{jxc {` `sy d{{j{skcu, Ac edl }jef s}

`l hccojlbu dlk de{ gsu{ ojfc su, Jh rc dyc `}cl/ a`lcu{/ rdyn dlk o`xjlb/ ac rjoo bc{ {ac ncuudbc {ad{u

{ac rdz {` ic,

Eajokycl jl {aju dbc by`s} k` l`{ bclcydooz {ajlf {ad{ kcd{a ju hjldo6 kcd{a ju ycxcyujioc jl {acjy njlku, D

z`slbu{cy adu zc{ {` yce`bljwc {ad{ uac ju d uc}dyd{c }cyu`l hy`n acy }dycl{u/ {ad{ rj{a`s{ {acn uac

edl u{joo cqju{, @okcy eajokycl edl bydu} {aju/ is{ d z`slbu{cy edl{, J{u }dy{oz icedsuc `h {ac ndbjedor`yok uac eycd{cu {ad{ uac bc{u {ac e`sydbc {` kcdo rj{a {ac }yìocnu `h ojhc, Jl acy jndbjld{j`l/ {ac

eajok hduaj`lu d uc{ `h }`rcyu {ad{ e`sl{cy {ac kjutsjc{jlb hde{u uccl doo dy`slk,

[ad{u raz j{ ju u` jn}`y{dl{ {` l`{ doo`r d eajoku {ajlfjlb {` kju{`y{ dl jlejkcl{ `s{ `h }y`}`y{j`l,

Racl rc udz Bydlknd gsu{ rcl{ {` uocc} dlk kjck/ {ac eajok ndz r`lkcy jh uac rjoo ncc{ {ac udnc

drhso hd{c/ dlk uac ndz idof d{ ick{jnc, H`y }dycl{u {` aco} {acjy eajokycl/ {acz nsu{ ic drdyc {ad{

{ajlbu ojfc {aju ndz ic b`jlb `l jl {acjy eajoku acdk, [ac cq}cyjclec `h kcd{a ju }yìdioz lcr dlk

u{ydlbc/ dlk {ac hccojlbu `h e`lhsuj`l dlk bsjo{ racl cq}cyjclejlb kcd{a ndz ic `xcyraconjlb,

Ic }yc}dyck h`y z`sy eajok {` ycdk cn`{j`lu dy`slk ajn/ ycu}`lk {` i`kz odlbsdbc/ `xcyacdy

e`lxcyud{j`lu/ dlk tscu{j`l cxcl{u cj{acy kjyce{oz `y jlkjyce{oz, E`l{yò {ac ncuudbc/ dx`jkjlb {ac

jlcxj{dioc njujlh`ynd{j`l ac ju ojfcoz {` h`ynsod{c, Bjxc ajn deesyd{c jlh`ynd{j`l/ bcdyck h`y aju dbc

dlk nd{syj{z/ jl odlbsdbc ac edl slkcyu{dlk, Fcc} j{ ujn}oc, Defl`rockbc hccojlbu dlk oc{ ajn fl`r j{u

`fdz {` ic udk, [coo ajn doo ac ju hccojlb ju a`r d }cyu`l ju us}}ùck {` hcco racl d o`xck `lc kjcu, Suc

eocdy odlbsdbc/ oju{cl h`y hcckidef/ dlk ycu}`lk ucluj{jxcoz,

Eacef `s{ {ac byjch ycu}`luc uacc{ jleoskck jl {aju }defc{ h`y uzn}{`nu `h kju{ycuu {ad{ ndz b` icz`lk

l`yndo byjch, Jh lcckck/ e`luso{ Rjl{cyU}yjlb h`y aco} `y ychcyydou,


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jl {acjy }ùucuuj`l,

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Usbbcu{ck Cso`bjcu {` ic Ycdk d{ Z`sy ]c{ Ncn`yjdo

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