Helping Your Mind Cope With Stress

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Helping The Mind to Cope with Stress

Ian R Thorpe

2 February 2013

We live in stressful times and in spite of the scare stories about health risks in

diet, lifestyle etc. stress is actually the biggest threat to health, it depresses the

immune system, leads to to develop unhealthy habits like comfort eating and it raised

blood pressure and contributes to heart disease. So what can you do to help yourself.

Centuries ago, people were far more in tune with the earth and their own senses

than we are now. This may sound like new age stuff to you, a puff piece for a cult

perhaps but I promise you I am selling nothing and you will find the opening

statement true if you stick with me. The change began as the industrial revolution

gathered pace and now, 250 years on, we in the United Kingdom live non stop lives

fuelled by adrenalin. A constant procession of lifestyle coaches, self help gurus, and

people paid by the all powerful advertising industry keep exhorting us to be in the

loop to jump on the bandwagon of every fad, to buy our self esteem by owning the

latest gadgets, the hottest designers clothes and all the rest. The most successful and

most hyperbolic and manipulative marketing campaign ever was that on which the

success of Apple was built. When the founder of that company dies serious


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journalists were falling over themselves to bestow on him a Messianic status. Adrian

Hon, a regular columnist in The Daily Telegraph, in an article that compared Jobs to

Christopher Wren, the architect who designed the most beautiful buildings in London.

Hon wrote Everywhere you look, you can see people playing games and talking on

their iPhones, reading books on their iPads, and browsing the web on their

MacBooks.

Are they? I live in a heavily populated and reasonably prosperous are and I see

people using mobile phones of many types, listening to MP3 players of many types

and concentrating on driving their cars, doing their work or looking where they are

going. Jobs was not a great innovator, a commenter on one of my blogs described

him as having a talent for syllogistic rebranding, a wonderful phrase I wish I had

thought of myself.

Not being of the generation prone to Apple addiction I asked my son about the

cult like following Apple technology has gathered. I know quite a lot of people and

none, as far as I know, has an Apple product he said, venturing, I think the Apple

fanatics tend to be in the London area, theyre the same people as buy clothes for the

image wearing a designer projects or drive a type of car because it is cool

Blogging that Jobs was the most hypocritical Buddhist ever and that the company

he founded one of the most fascistic and litigious ever was not allowed (so much for

free speech). Anybody who queried the great benefits Apple products had brought to

our lives was subjected to ferocious hate attacks from fans.

But do we need tablet computers or smartphones on which to browse the internet

or communicate with friends while out and about? Crossing a busy street while

watching yet another hilarious fart lighting video on YouTube is inviting disaster and

texting while near water is a risk not worth taking as this CCTV footage proves.

Many people wherever they are do now seem to have a constant need to

communicate via phone, text or internet. Our ancestors did not fel this need so why

are we addicted to these gadgets? It can only be due to insecurity but what has caused

such insecurity in people who are materially better off than any previous generation?
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The fact is we are so pressured with the idea that we must fill time profitably,

networking, building contacts, learning, acquiring, when we are not actually working

that we have forgotten how to be. While the hype machine rails against fatty foods,

salt, cigarettes, alcohol, it is in fact stress that endangers our health most. We live

much longer than our ancestors of only a few generations ago and still we are made

to feel it will be some kind of personal failure if we live for ever. Thus rather than just

enjoying life many people are manipulated into stressing out over their diet, weight,

blood pressure and the constant fear of developing certain conditions. Stress has been

identified as a factor on the onset of many illnesses.

At The (Breast Cancer) Haven in London, a programme called Mindfulness

Based Stress Reduction is showing huge success for the Havens Visitors (not

called patients). Run by Dr Caroline Hoffman, who is the centres clinical Director

and Research Co-Ordinator, the course teaches people to look at themselves

objectively by consciously bringing their mind back to the present thus controlling

the urge to analyze past events or try to guess future happenings over which we have

no control.. This approach works for people rebuilding their lives after a potentially

fatal illness and can work for anyone who feels they would like to regain balance and

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Caroline tells her visitors that allowing your mind to wander and ruminate,

keeps you in an impoverished mental state. Most people will know what she means,

I live a relatively stress free life now but such things would happen to me years ago;

for hours I would lie away running over and over the projects I was managing,

identifying a problem (usually a insignificant one) comparing one possible solution to

another, reviewing work already done and trying to decide if we could have done

things differently to avoid the current problem (as if we could go back in time and

change what was done) and finally dropping off to sleep only to wake exhausted to

the realisation that what I had been worrying about was not a problem at all. We

might think we are thinking but really our minds are like a hamster running round a

wheel, getting nowhere at all.

The link between mind and body is territory into which many medical

researchers, fearing ridicule, do not investigate. If only the science community

behaved less like The Inquisition and more like open minded seekers of truth maybe

this fascinating area would be explored more thoroughly. For centuries, doctors have

recognised the placebo effect, in which the illusion of treatment, such as pills without

an active ingredient, produces real medical benefits. It has been acknowledged in

some serios studies that the placebo can in many cases be more effective than the

clinically tested, peer reviewed drug prescribed by medical professionals. More

recently, respectable research has demonstrated that those who frequently experience

positive emotions live longer and healthier lives. They have fewer heart attacks, for

example, and fewer colds too.

Why this happens is only slowly becoming understood and progress is being

hindered by an academic community that has far too cosy a relationship with Big

Pharma. What is needed is an experiment that points out specific and measurable

ways in which emotions act on an individual's biology. A study published in

Psychological Science, by Barbara Fredrickson and Bethany Kokat the University of

North Carolina sets out tackle that issue.

Dr Fredrickson and Dr Kok concentrated their attentions on the vagus nerve. This
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nerve starts in the brain and runs, via numerous branches, to several thoracic and

abdominal organs including the heart. Among its functions is to send signals telling

that organ to slow down during periods of calm.

How effectively the vagus nerve is working can be tracked by monitoring

someone's heart rate as he breathes in and out (the vagal tone index). Healthy vagal

nerve function is reflected in a subtle increase in heart rate while breathing in and a

subtle decrease while breathing out. The difference shows how healthy the vagus

nerve is. Heart and lung function is considered to be closely related to general

physical health connected with health. A poorly functioning vagus nerve, for

example, is linked to inflammation and heart attacks.

What particularly interested Drs Fredrickson and Dr Kok

was work in other studies that showed something else about

the vagal-tone index: people with high tone are better than

those with low at stopping bad feelings getting overblown.

They also show more positive emotions in general. This may

provide the missing link between emotional well-being and

physical health. In particular, the two researchers found,

during a preliminary study they carried out in 2010, that the

vagal-tone values of those who experience positive emotions

over a period of time go up. This left them wondering

whether positive emotions and vagal tone drive one another

in a virtuous spiral. They therefore conducted an experiment

on 65 of the university's staff, to try to find out.

They measured all of their volunteers' vagal tones at the

beginning of the experiment and at its conclusion nine weeks

later. In between, the volunteers were asked to go each

evening to a website especially designed for the purpose, and

rate their most powerful emotional experiences that day. Dr

Fredrickson and Dr Kok asked their volunteers to consider nine positive emotions,

such as hope, joy and love, and 11 negative ones, including anger, boredom and

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disgust. They were asked to rate, on a five-point scale, whetherand how

stronglythey had felt each emotion. One point meant 'not at all'; five meant

'extremely'. In addition, half the participants were invited to a series of workshops run

by a licensed therapist, to learn a meditation technique intended to give the

meditators a feeling of goodwill towards both themselves and others.

Fredrickson and Dr Kok's observations showed that vagal tone increased

significantly in people who meditated, and hardly at all in those who did not. Among

meditators, those who started the experiment with the highest vagal-tone scores

reported the biggest increases in positive emotions. Meditators who started with

particularly low scores showed virtually no such boost.

Taken as a whole, the findings suggest high vagal tone makes it easier to generate

positive emotions and that this, in turn, drives vagal tone still higher. That is both

literally and metaphorically a positive feedback loop. Which is good news for the

emotionally positive, but bad for the emotionally negative, for it implies that those

who most need a psychosomatic boost are least capable of generating one.

Whether, besides improving general health, the mechanism Dr Fredrickson and

Dr Kok have discovered helps explain the placebo effect remains to be investigated.

But it might, because part of that effect seems to be the good feeling engendered by

the fact of being treated. More generally, doctors in the ancient world had a saying: 'a

healthy mind in a healthy body' (A more modern expression of that is the saying,

"The mind suffers and the body cries out.") The results of work like that of

Frederickson and Kok suggests that though this proverb is true, a better one might be,

'a healthy mind for a healthy body'.

Coping with stress induced behaviour and conquering it is all about becoming

self-aware. Recognize the behaviour pattern and learn to block it. The best way of

doing this is by devoting time to yourself. Your reaction may be to think selfishness is

being encouraged but nothing could be further from the truth. Devoting a little time to

yourself and developing a few tricks to help your mind use it to release stress and

built up tensions will make you less selfish. Developing our ability to concentrate on

the here and now, using the techniques of meditation, prayers, losing ourselves in


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music or poetry, walking in the countryside or a park and appreciating nature, all

around us, oblivious to our human concerns, getting on with being, watching a stream

flow or even a water feature in the garden or indoors, focusing on a candle flame as it

burns; all these things can be used to anchor us so we are not swept away by the pace

of modern life.

One of my favourite pastimes in summer is to sit and watch the insects in my

garden. I have filed the garden with plants that attract bees and butterflies (lavender is

a good one and very easy to grow) while not thinking about my life but being aware

of all that is going on, of the interconnectedness of everything, observing but not

reacting other than to recognise oneself as a small part of a much greater whole.

Thats a summer occupation of course but the winder brings its own opportunities to

experience the same things.

Learning relaxation techniques such as simply lying on your back and feeling the

rise and fall of the diaphragm as you breathe, slowly, rhythmically, is as good as

anything and totally free. Draw in breath slowly until your lungs feel full but not

uncomfortable. Hold for a second. Now breathe out slowly, in a controlled way,

feeling the tension flow out of you.

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Told you it wouldnt cost anything. Just do it. Follow your own course, find your own

away. It will be very rewarding.

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