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Signs and Symptoms
• Irritability• Anxiety• Isolation• Physical Complaints• Poor performance• Recent Loss• Talking/thinking about “no hope” or death
Causes of Suicidal BehaviorIndividual
•Depression, hopelessness, anxiety•Drugs and/or alcohol use
School
•Failing grades•Suspension•School pressures
Home
•Family conflicts/fights •Death/ Divorce•Abuse
Relationships
•Break up with girlfriend/ boyfriend•Pregnancy•Bullying •Physical Abuse
The Cycle to Break
1. Stress/ dramatic event(s)2. Depression
3. Suicidal Thoughts4. Suicide Attempts
5. Death
What NOT To Do & What Is NOT Helpful
Never act shocked• “Really?! I would never expect you to feel that way.”
•Never suggest negative alternatives• “Lets go party this weekend and you will forget all about it.”
• Never deal with these feelings on your own• “If I care enough they will begin to feel better…”• “ I will just tough it out and things will begin to improve.”
•Ignoring or dismissing the issue• “Oh, lets talk about something else.”• You’ll meet another girl and forget about this one, you’re a great guy.”
•Acting shocked or embarrassed • “You aren’t REALLY thinking of suicide, are you?”
•Challenging or debating• “So go ahead; see if things really do get better.”• “Don’t you know it is wrong to kill yourself?”
What IS Helpful?
• Show You Care—Listen carefully“I’m concerned about you….About how you
feel.”• Ask the question while showing you care!
“Are you thinking about suicide?”
Get Help
ASK THE QUESTIONBe direct in a caring, non-confrontational way.•“Are you thinking about suicide?”
GET HELPDo not leave him/her alone*”I know where we can get some help.”*”I can go with you to where we can get some help.”*”You’re not alone. Let me help you.”
Resources for Help
• School Counselor• Crisis telephone hot-
line• Physicians/health care
providers
• Mental health specialist • Teachers/Coaches
and/or Parents• Clergy/Youth Leaders