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contents4 Letter from the Editor
6 TEACHING:On Marriage by Lama Thubten Yeshe
9 COVER FEATURE:Dharma work: When 9-5 turns 24/7
22 MEDIA PAGE
COMMUNITY FORUM:23 Discussion Topic24 Photo Bulletin Board
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COVER: Lama Zopa Rinpoche writingout Prajnaparamita Sutra
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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
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Iam thrilled to write you asMandalas new managingeditor. I come to you from San Francisco, California,via Liberation Prison Project where I was fortunateenough to work under Ven. Robina Courtin for fouryears. As many of you know, she served Mandala asEditor from 1995-2000. Lets cross our fingers thatsome of her masterful editorial magic rubbed off on me!I am entirely indebted to Nancy Patton who
meticulously brought you 40 issues of the magazinebefore me. She has helped me into this role with themost generous care I could ask for. Her enthusiasm,precision and intense love for Mandala are truly aninspiration to me, and I humbly step into these verybig shoes with palms together, bowing low in herdirection. Nancy, from my heart, thank you.This issue of theMandala eZine is dedicated to all of
the Dharma workers out there. We invite you to stepback and REJOICE in the tremendous work you are doing, the inconceivable merit,the virtue of benefiting others in this profound way.Well hear from Lama Zopa Rinpoche about applying the right attitude toward
our work, keeping ourselves from feeling overwhelmed and cultivating the innerprofessional. Well also hear from new and seasoned Dharma workers around theworld who share their stories and advice for offering service.But first! With Valentines Day and Hallmark promises just around the corner,
well begin with a teaching on marriage from Lama Thubten Yeshe (pg 6); andfor this issues Discussion Topic (pg 23), we invite you to write in and discusshow you differentiate between attachment and love. (Trick: This is a DHARMAquestion!)Youll find Dharma treasures on the Media Page (pg 22) and some of the many
faces of Mandala readership on our Photo Bulletin Board (pg 24).Please take your time and enjoy.All my love,
Carina RumrillManaging Editor
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These days, one of the main reasons that aman and a woman become friends is sexual.They get together for sexual pleasure. Inearlier times, marriage had a divine quality acouple came together out of respect, with the aimof creating a kind of totality. That gave meaning
to getting married, and marriages made withsuch purpose became good ones.Many of todays marriages become disastrous
because they lack purpose; theres no worthwhilegoal for coming together. A couple should notcome together out of grasping at each other; there
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On MarriageBy Lama Thubten Yeshe
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should be more meaning to it than that. But ourcraving desire and lack of wisdom work togetherto create an extreme situation that finishes upcausing conflict: the woman agitates her man; theman agitates his woman in either case, it endsin goodbye.
These days, I travel the entire world andmany young people come to see me to discusstheir relationship problems, but they all boildown to peoples coming together out of thewrong motivation. Whether youre a man or awoman, its important that theres not too muchgrasping in your relationship, that you dontagitate your partner. Extreme grasping at sexualpleasure is a problem; sexual pleasure is an irritant.You can see.
However, many couples arent together for thesex. Their relationship is deeper than that, so theirattitude is different. They are very comfortable,free, somehow, with no tremendous expectationsof each other. Therefore, they have a goodrelationship. Im sure youve seen examples ofsuch couples, where theres not much grasping.
In my limited experience of the Westernworld, many Christians, who believe in God, havevery respectful marriages. They believe in some-thing deeper than themselves and are not livingfor sense pleasure alone. I would say that suchcouples have been blessed by God or Jesus
Thousands of people the world over get marriedevery day out of craving for sexual pleasure. Othersget married principally for reputation: Hes worldfamous; hes great. Still others marry for wealthor power. Those are all wrong motivations formarriage. The purpose of marriage should be toavoid extremes and gain balance in your life.However, it often turns out the complete opposite.
These days, perhaps as many people getdivorced as get married. Dont think divorce iseasy. Psychologically, divorce can be hell. Its notas simple as OK, bye-bye, and its over. Its notlike that. First theres a huge build-up of psycho-logical pressure and when it releases its likefalling into hell. So, sentient beings are sufferinglike this.
We criticize modern society for such ills, butits not societys fault. Theres nothing wrong withsociety its our mental attitude thats mistaken.We create all kinds of fantasies, grasp at sensepleasure and everything finishes in disaster.
Buddhism explains that we circle from onelife to another because of craving desire and thatwe can put an end to cyclic existence, to rebirthin samsara, by abandoning desire. Craving iswhat makes the wheel of life go round and its ourown clinging that binds us to it; nobody elsemakes us cycle from one suffering life to another.
The twentieth century example of this is thoseladies and gentlemen who get married, experi-ence problems, grasp at another person, then atanother, and another maybe they cyclethrough four or five marriages in a single lifetime.Some people have hundreds of lovers in their life.Why cant they stop?Why do they keep on grasp-ing? Theres nobody driving them to do this; theydrive themselves. They hang on continuously;non-stop. Desire is fickle in nature. Freud tried toexplain sex as the basis of most human problems.Buddhism disagrees. The main human problemlies much deeper than that y
This is an edited version of a teaching given by Lama Yesheduring a course at Istituto LamaTzong Khapa, Italy in 1978.The full version, plus other advice on marriage, can be foundat www.lamayeshe.com/index.php?sect=article&id=40
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Any work done with the teachingsof the Buddha alive in our heartsis Dharma work. Some of us sharethe precious and uniquely challenging
opportunity of working or volunteering
for a Dharma organization. We might
imagine a pure land of Dharma talk by
the water cooler and pujas at lunch, but
our jobs hardly feel holy all of the time.
Whether rewiring the office for a new
phone system, crunching numbers for our
annual financial reports, helping a
coworker navigate a divorce or volunteering
for sixteen hours straight at a fundraising
event, weve all been pushed outside of
our comfort zones and areas of expertise.
This section will give voice to some of
the experiences of Dharma workers, with
valuable advice from Lama Zopa Rinpoche
to help us find the Dharma in ourselves
and our places of work.
Transforming problemsinto happiness.Excha...