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Number of thoughts per day

50,000 to

60,000

thoughts

per day

Be Your Best - Have a dream

Today’s youth athlete

Today’s youth least fit in history

Over 30% of kids overweight

Phys Ed declining in schools

More kids in sports, yet kids less fit

T H E R E S U L T

Injury rates at all time high

3 million sports related injuries each year

70% drop out of organized sports by High School

Interesting facts about teens

• One in ___ teens admit to abusing medications that

were not prescribed to them

• ____% of high school aged teens have considered

committing suicide

• The average teen sends _____ text messages a month

• ____% of teens admit to being bullied

• ____% of teens say their parents are more into their

high school sports then they are

• The average parent has under ___ minutes of

meaningful conversation with their teens each week

Most deadly disease

Heart Disease

Cancer

Diabetes

Low Self Esteem

Suicide is the third leading cause of death of young persons aged 10-24

What is self-esteem?

Belonging Belonging CompetenceCompetence WorthWorth

Overcoming challenges

• Born in 1940 in Clarksville, TN

• 20th of 22 children

• Measles, mumps, scarlet fever,

chicken pox, double pneumonia

• Polio in 1947

Thinking outside the box

Using one line, make this Roman numeral a 6

IX

(101-102=1) Make this equation true by moving 1 digit?

Career Statistics

Yards Avg TDs

18,355 4.2 164

Source: NFL.com

Emmett Smith

Evaluation = Motivation™

Measuring an athletes’

current level of

performance and fitness

is the first step toward

motivating them to

improve performance

and self-confidence

Get your athletes excited about

the right strategies

Paradigm Shift

Fixed mindset vs. growth mindset

Growth

Mindset Fixed

Mindset

Carol Dweck, Mindset , New Psychology of Success

Rapport building – self confidence

• Self confidence:

� Increases when athlete feels

in control

� Can’t control score,

outcome, starting position

� Focus on mastery

Create a mastery environment….

Athletes feel more in control & come back

What 3 words

separate good coaches

from great coaches?

The power of influence

Successful or Significant?

John Wooden

Vince Lombardi

Mike Rice

Fall In Love With Your Coaching Style

Is it about you or the athlete you are training?

Athlete You

You have to believe you can

Change the world

Become a master communicator

You get what you expect...

Act as if…Enthusiasm

Rapport building is about building trust

It takes repeated

interaction and

connections with

athlete before you

make a

connection

Rapport building – components of

communication

Not only what you say,

but how you say it

•55% physiology

•38% tone-of-voice

•7% words

Building rapport– asking questions

• Start with positives:

� Good to see you

� You are looking good today

� Congratulate on recent successes or last session

• Ask safe questions:

� How are things going?

� How are your friends doing these days?

� What practices / games do you have coming up?

� Ask about their family, other interests,

favorite shows, pets

• Ask open-ended questions:

� Ask about their goals and progress

� Don’t accept “fine”

� Explore “how” and “why”

Recruiting

Increase awareness in the community by

reaching out to the “Spheres of Influence”

Principle #1: Make it fun,

challenging & safe

Principle #2: Teach them how to

warm-up

Principle #3: Teach them to master technique

Paradigm

Shift

Paradigm

Shift

Intensity of

Movement

Quality of

Movement

Intensity of

Movement

Quality of

Movement

Principle #4: Teach them strength

Principle #5: Teach them recovery

Be an authority

Significant

Bill Parisi

www.parisischool.com

bparisi@parisischool.com

201-847-1939

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