Love & Relationships??

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HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT???

FIRST OFF, MAKE SURE YOU ARE SOMEWHAT FRIENDS WITH THE GIRL.

(OF COURSE -_-”)

BUT, IF YOU DON’T TALK TO SAID GIRL, I KNOW IT CAN BE HARD TO START. MY BEST ADVICE ON STARTING A CONVERSATION IS BY COMMENTING ON SOMETHING SHE’S DOING.

OK, SO NOW THAT YOU AND HER ARE ON SPEAKING GROUNDS, IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO GET HER INTERESTED.

YEP, NOW IT’S TIME TO ASK HER OUT. DUN DUN DUN…. CONFIDENCE IS KEY, BUT, SO IS RESPECT. EVEN IF YOU DON’T HAVE CONFIDENCE, FAKE IT. VISUALIZING YOURSELF ASKING HER OUT CAN HELP A LOT.

IF SHE SAYS YES? GREAT. EXCHANGE PHONE NUMBERS AND SET A TIME AND DATE.

IF SHE SAYS NO? BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME. REJECTION SUCKS. BUT BY BEING AFRAID OF IT YOU MISS OUT ON SO MANY GREAT OPPORTUNITIES.

HOW TO FLIRT WITH A GUY ???

1.) SMILING

2.) BREAKING THE TOUCH BARRIER (WHEN JOKING OR TEASING, YOU CAN GIVE A LIGHT PUSH OR SOMETHING)

3.) USING OPEN BODY LANGUAGE, LIKE BEING TURNED TOWARD THE PERSON, NOT ARMS CROSSED OR TURNED AWAY.

RELATIONSHIP DO’S & DON’TS: 

DON’T ABANDON YOUR FRIENDS WHEN YOU ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP. A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD ADD SOMETHING TO YOUR LIFE, NOT TAKE SOMETHING AWAY

For real?!?!! Who even does that?!?!!

IF YOU WANT YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO WORK OUT, YOU DON’T  NEED TO LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS, BUT YOU DO NEED TO CHANGE THEM. DON’T EXPECT AN IDEALIZED MEDIA RELATIONSHIP, AND TAKE THE CHANGES FOR WHAT THEY ARE.

DON’T COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR EX.

DON’T EXPECT AND DEMAND THEIR ATTENTION/COMPANY ALL OF THE TIME. IT’S NORMAL TO FALL FAST DURING YOUR FIRST RELATIONSHIP, ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU TEND TO START OUT SPENDING ALL YOUR FREE TIME TOGETHER, BUT EVENTUALLY THAT DOES STOP BECAUSE, AS WITH OUR FRIENDS, SOME PEOPLE NEED THEIR SPACE OR THEY SIMPLY CAN NO LONGER AFFORD.

DO COMMUNICATE. IS YOUR SO DOING SOMETHING THAT BUGS YOU? SIT DOWN AND TALK IT OUT! BE REASONABLE IN YOUR EXPECTATIONS, AND EXPECT THE SAME IN RETURN. BOTH OF YOU WILL DISAGREE ON SOME THINGS.

DO PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES. WOULD YOU APPRECIATE YOUR SO FLIRTING WITH A HOTTIE AT LUNCH? PROBABLY NOT. THEN DON’T DO IT.

DON’T GIVE TOO MUCH TOO SOON. IF YOU SPEND A TON OF MONEY/TIME/EFFORT ON SOMEONE YOU BARELY KNOW, YOU’RE SETTING YOURSELF UP TO BE USED. WAIT UNTIL THE PERSON EARNS THAT KIND OF EFFORT FROM YOU BEFORE YOU GIVE THEM YOUR BEST UP FRONT.

DON’T BE JEALOUS OF YOUR SO’S PAST RELATIONSHIPS. SERIOUSLY, GROW UP. IT’S OVER FOR A REASON.

PASSWORDS AND PINS ARE FOR YOUR EYES ONLY. DON’T SHARE THEM. EVEN IF YOU ARE “IN LOVE”

SO THAT’S IT!! I HOPE THIS PRESENTATION HELPED

Y’ALL!!