It seems like there are a lot of people in long distance

relationships these days.

If you don’t know how to do long distance

relationships you could be in a lot of trouble.

Here are a few tips to help you:

Be honest and upfront with each other right from the start.

If you expect your partner to remain exclusive with you,

say so right up front.

Do you feel the two of you should be allowed to

date other people while you’re apart? Say so.

Both of you need to agree on the ground rules

so nobody is left wondering what is expected.

Make sure you both have the same end goal in mind.

If the separation becomes a more permanent thing

(the out of town work becomes permanent, etc)

are you willing or able to relocate?

Making time for each other is extremely important.

No matter how busy the two of you get, you have to make

time for phone calls, texts, emailing each other and

even video chatting. Video chats are great for giving

you that much needed ‘face time’.

Stay busy with work and hanging with friends/family.

It’s hard when you know it’s going to be a while before

you can see each other again. You are going to be

feeling lonely for a while and staying occupied

will help the time go much faster.

There has to be a lot of trust between you and your partner.

There will be temptations for both of you while you are apart.

You need to think positively and trust that the other

is being loyal to you and the relationship while you are apart.

Plan ahead for the times you will be able to see each other.

Since you won’t be seeing each other often,

make the most of the time you do have.

Plan a few outings or get-togethers with friends,

but be sure to allow plenty of ‘alone time’ too.

It’s possible for long distance relationships

to last and even end up in marriage.

If you keep your priorities right

then your relationship should stand the test. Go to the site

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