Choosing Between My Children And My Sanity

Choosing Between My Children and My
Sanity
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Question: I want to leave my marriage and
my children for the sake of my own sanity

I have never been maternal My marriage is smothering me
with obligations and expectations

I have thought this through This is the right decision for me
and them How do I get my husband to
allow me access to the children?

Answer: You are going against the norm
by leaving your marriage as well as your children
This is not about right or wrong This is about security

You do not feel secure inside or outside of the relationship
You want to leave the marriage so that you can survive and grow

You will need a lot of courage How do you prepare yourself
and your children? Find self-love before you do
anything else

Your relationship has a natural life cycle
Holding on to the relationship at all costs is not a solution

Find your good traits so that they can balance out your other traits

For example you feel like a failure as a mother
What if your husband is frustrated by your lack of conformance and a better carer than you?

Not all mothers feel a mother instinct
You want to follow your heart

The alternative is to stay in a relationship at all costs

When you find self-love, your children will know you are all right
Your husband will also find clarity

Wait until you can leave feeling happy and without self-blame
Your relationship with your children will benefit

You have a soul contract with your husband and children
You are living that soul contract

Love means accepting and loving yourself, so that you have love to give to others

Thank You