Choosing Between My Children And My Sanity

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  • Choosing Between My Children and My

    Sanity

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    Question: I want to leave my marriage and

    my children for the sake of my own sanity

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    I have never been maternal My marriage is smothering me

    with obligations and expectations

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    I have thought this through This is the right decision for me

    and them How do I get my husband to

    allow me access to the children?

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    Answer: You are going against the norm

    by leaving your marriage as well as your children

    This is not about right or wrong This is about security

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    You do not feel secure inside or outside of the relationship

    You want to leave the marriage so that you can survive and grow

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    You will need a lot of courage How do you prepare yourself

    and your children? Find self-love before you do

    anything else

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    Your relationship has a natural life cycle

    Holding on to the relationship at all costs is not a solution

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    Find your good traits so that they can balance out your other traits

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    For example you feel like a failure as a mother

    What if your husband is frustrated by your lack of conformance and a better carer than you?

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    Not all mothers feel a mother instinct

    You want to follow your heart

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    The alternative is to stay in a relationship at all costs

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    When you find self-love, your children will know you are all right

    Your husband will also find clarity

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    Wait until you can leave feeling happy and without self-blame

    Your relationship with your children will benefit

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    You have a soul contract with your husband and children

    You are living that soul contract

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    Love means accepting and loving yourself, so that you have love to give to others

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    Thank You