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Loving What You Do:  Intrinsic Motivation

David D. Nowell, Ph.D. www.DrNowell.com

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Overview

•Your brain’s reward-and- planning system•Asking 2 questions•The “Rule of Thirds”•Q&A&D

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YOUR BRAIN’S REWARD-AND-PLANNING SYSTEM

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Image: wikimedia commons

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Cortico-striatal loop

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The reward-and-planning system

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What does dopamine feeeel like?

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Appendix A

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Peak experiences

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ASKING 2 QUESTIONS

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Am I having fun now?Is this important?

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important?

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(85 – X) x 365

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Determining what I’m here to “do, be, and have”

We are shaped by:• Peer interactions• Supportive adults• Family / culture / faith• Media and marketing

Ongoing clarity comes with:

• Morning 10-minute review

• Weekly planning session

• Ongoing review of successes and frustrations

• Intensives – annual mini-retreats

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fun?

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Framingham Heart Study

“…happiness, like health, is a collective phenomenon.”

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

NoNo

Am I having fun now?Is this important?

x

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

NoNo

Am I having fun now?

Is this important?

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

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Am I having fun now?

Is this important?

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

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Is this important?

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

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Am I having fun now?

Is this important?

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

NoNo

Am I having fun now?

Is this important?

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

NoNo

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Is this important?

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Beware dopamine tricksters!• Facebook• Gambling• Shopping• Video games• Free online Aramaic course

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Determine in Advance When You’ll Check Email and Facebook Tomorrow

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StayOnTask app

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The best defense against the manipulation of our attention is to determine for ourselves – in advance - how we want to invest it.

- E. Goldberg

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The Excellent Daily Planner

• 2 pages per day• Master to-do list• With you at all times

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Yoga / read

Staff meeting

Planningsession

Phone calls

billing

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Vh: jeff w/ puritan oil

Vc: kate re: brimfield

TC umass dermatology. Spoke w/ cindy 508 8564000

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The Excellent Daily Planner

• 2 pages per day• Master to-do list• With you at all times

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What’s a To-Do list for anyway?

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Learn French

Stop smoking

Be a better spouse

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The Excellent Daily Planner

• 2 pages per day• Master to-do list• With you at all times

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Weekly Overview

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10-Minute Morning Review

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Where will I most likely feel distracted today?

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What will you do today that you'll still remember one year from now??

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Stop 5 times a day for reflection and reconnecting and re-focusing

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Consider your sensory needs

• Applying lotion• Clicking pen• Gum• Raw carrots• Fidget toys• Fans and other white noise• Stretch breaks

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YesYes

NoYes

YesNo

NoNo

Am I having fun now?

Is this important?

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Increase salience

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Use extrinsic reward creatively

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easy hard

If It’s Harder than a “3” Find Some Way to Make It Easier

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Assign separate due dates for smaller parts of big projects

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Barter Social/Practical Support

• Food prep for optimal nutrition• Domestic organization• Pre-tax paperwork

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Emphasize the sensory details of your desired outcome

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NoYes

YesNo

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Am I having fun now?

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THE “RULE OF THIRDS”

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…a challenge

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Q&A&D

David D. Nowell, Ph.D. www.DrNowell.com