I wanna know

what love isLeah Solmerin Corpuz, Ph.D.

09173127132

Pag-ibig sa panahon ni Nestor at

Nida.

Dapat aprub kay Tatay at Nanay

Sa bahay ka manligaw.

Magtiyaga ka ng ilang taon.

Pakipot ang babae.

(Bawal magpa-halata.)

Pag-ibig sa panahon ni Daniel and

Kathryn

Humanap ka ng panget.

Kahit bata pa

ako, alam kong

mahal kita.

K.j. si mommy at daddy.

First date, first kiss.

Love nya ako kasi like nya selfies ko, follow nya

instagram ko, at comment

sya sa tweeter posts ko.

Type nya ako, type ko siya. e, di kami na.

Kung LOVE mo ako, ibibigay mo ang lahat.

May mga taong pusong bato.

Maraming isda sa dagat.

B meets G

date for a while

she gets pregnant

marry

realize they are not in love

fight

separate

their children do the same

Possible factors?

Poor self-imageWrong models

Wrong concept

about love, courtship,

and marriage

Wrong friends

Wrong values

Therefore,

ISSUES LESSONSPoor self-image Self-acceptanceWrong models Right modelsWrong friends Choosing the right

friends

Wrong values Right valuesWrong concepts Right concepts

Lesson/Activity 1Thank-you God that I

am ME

Objective:

To make the student

appreciate him/herself as a

beautiful creation of God.

Rationale: A person who has low self-esteem would not be able to appreciate the beauty in other people; hence, he/she will have difficulty loving others; and he/she will be doubtful of the way others love him/her.

1.Students make a

list of “10 things that

others don’t know about

me.”

Procedure:

Paper looks like this:

2.The student passes that paper to his/her right.

The teacher says: Choose one from the

list that you like about that person; then write your name beside that

item on the column “like”.

Procedure:

3.–Paper pass to the next person. Teacher says: Choose one from that list, then write a short

positive comment beside that item, on the

column “comment”, then write your name below your comment.

Procedure:

4.–Paper pass to the

next person. Teacher says: Choose one

from that list that you believe is also true to you; then write your

name beside that item on the column

“share”.

Procedure:

…and so on until all the grids are filled-

up

Procedure:

Lesson/Activity 2

“If I could, I would.”

Objective:

To make the student

appreciate his/her

unchangeable defects.

Rationale:

Love is not blind. The lovers need

to learn to accept the not-so-beautiful

features in themselves and

in others.

Student makes a list of

5 (or 10) things that he/she does

not like about him/herself.

Procedure:

The activity sheet looks like this:

Value to teach:

Psalm 139:14

Parents/teachers must stop making

fun of children because of their looks.

Parents/teachers

must teach the children/studen

ts to see and appreciate the

beauty in others.

No to name-calling.

No to bullying.

We should make it a habit to

notice the praiseworthy

traits in others.

Lesson/Activity 3What

Language Do You Speak?

[The 5 Love Languages By Dr. Gary Chapman]

Objective:1. To make the student

discover his/her primary language.2. To make the parents and teachers discover the primary love languages of their children.

A list of clue boxes each containing two(2)

comments will be given to the students.

Students read the clue boxes and pick one of the

comments that he/she likes better and wish

their mom or dad would say to them.

Procedure:

(from: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

The List looks like this:

Procedure:

(from: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

Student counts all

the A’s, B’s, C’s,

D’s, and   E’s.

The highest score represents the student’s primary love language.

The other love languages are important as well, it just shows the student’s favorite love language.

Procedure:

(from: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

Rationale:Children have to learn

love, first in their homes, then in their

schools. They have to understand that

people show love and feel loved in different

ways.

Value to teach:Children need to

appreciate the love of their parents, teachers, and friends, and to love them in return, in the

language that they would understand. This is the best practice, for

them to love their partners in the future.

Steps to learning how to love right

1. Love God above all.2. Love yourself (knowing that God made you in

His image).3. Love your parents/authorities (trusting that

God entrusted you to them.4. Love your friends (platonic).5. Trust that God will give you the right person

“to love” at the right time.

I wanna know

what love isLeah Solmerin Corpuz, Ph.D.

09173127132