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ST. MARY OF THE VALLEY SANTA MARIA DEL VALLE Centered on Jesus, Serving Others Centrados en Jesús, Sirviendo a Otros _________________________________________________________________ Blessed to live in this beautiful valley, we are Christians, in union with Pope Francis and Archbishop Sartain, who strive to lift up Jesus, love one another and make disciples. Bendecidos por vivir en este bello valle , somos cristianos, en unión con el Papa Francisco y el Arzobispo Sartain, quienes buscan levantar a Jesús, amarse uno al otro y hacer discípulos. November 19, 2017 Please consider making a donation or pledge by using your smartphone and scanning the QR code, thank you! PASTOR PÁRROCO Fr. Phillip Bloom, ext. 12 [email protected] 601 W Columbia Street Monroe, WA 98272 360.794.8945 Fax:360.805.0201 St. Benedict’s Catholic Homeschool If you are interested in homeschooling or are already homeschooling please join, St. Benedict’s Homeschool Cooperative right here in our parish hall. Our group of 17 families meet every Monday throughout the school year, from 9am-12pm. St. Benedict’s is a homeschool coop- erative that provides families the opportunities to enhance their Cath- olic instruction by sharing their faith and providing loving instruction by parents. We do not employ teachers. We count on the parents to cooperatively offer classes that will inspire a love for learning. The heart of our co-op is homeschooling and we would love to help you start your Catholic homeschooling journey. Registration forms are available in the ofϐice or please visit any Monday of the school year. Your talents are not to be buried ... Multiply Them Mateo 25:14-30

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_________________________________________________________________ Blessedtoliveinthisbeautifulvalley,weareChristians,inunionwithPopeFrancisandArchbishopSartain,whostrivetoliftupJesus,loveoneanotherandmakedisciples.╀Bendecidosporvivirenestebellovalle,somoscristianos,enuniónconelPapa

FranciscoyelArzobispoSartain,quienesbuscanlevantaraJesús,amarseunoalotroyhacerdiscípulos.

November 19, 2017

PleaseconsidermakingadonationorpledgebyusingyoursmartphoneandscanningtheQRcode,thankyou!

PASTOR ╀ PÁRROCO Fr.PhillipBloom,[email protected]

601WColumbiaStreet╀Monroe,WA98272╀360.794.8945╀ Fax:360.805.0201

St. Benedict’s Catholic Homeschool Ifyouareinterestedinhomeschoolingorarealreadyhomeschoolingpleasejoin,St.Benedict’sHomeschoolCooperativerighthereinourparishhall.Ourgroupof17familiesmeeteveryMondaythroughouttheschoolyear,from9am-12pm.St.Benedict’sisahomeschoolcoop-erativethatprovidesfamiliestheopportunitiestoenhancetheirCath-olicinstructionbysharingtheirfaithandprovidinglovinginstructionbyparents.Wedonotemployteachers.Wecountontheparentstocooperativelyofferclassesthatwillinspirealoveforlearning.Theheartofourco-opishomeschoolingandwewouldlovetohelpyoustartyourCatholichomeschoolingjourney.Registrationformsareavailableintheof iceorpleasevisitanyMondayoftheschoolyear.

Your talents are not to be buried ...

Multiply Them Mateo 25:14-30

Thanksgiving Day Mass PleasemakeMassapriorityinyourcelebrationofThanksgiving.Bringanitemofnon-perishablefoodfortheneedyandsomethingfromyourownThanksgivingtable(bread,desert,wine,etc.).IwillblessthefooditemsatconclusionofMass.OurSt.VincentdePaulmemberswilltakethefooddonationsfortheneedy.TakehometheitemfromyourownThanksgivingtabletoshowtheconnectionbetweentheEucharist–thegreatprayerofgratitude–andyourownfamilydinner.Massbeginsat9am.ItwillbemainlyinEnglishwithsomepartsinSpanish.St. Vincent de Paul Commissioning NextSundayatthe9:30amMasswewillhavecommissioningceremonyforSt.VincentdePaulmembers.Iamproudoftheworktheydoonourbehalf.AlthoughyouandIarenotabletoreachouttoeverypersoninneed,wearemembersoftheBodyofChristthatservesinthisValleyandthroughouttheworld.Thankful for Your Stewardship LastweekendSt.VincentdePaulmembers,ChrisandJanKloeck,gaveamovingtestimonyaboutStewardshipatthe5pmand9:30amMass.JesusRiveraspokemovinglyatthe11:15Mass.Youcanindthesepresentationsalongwithmyhomilybyclickingthelinkofourparishwebsite.IampleasedwithyourpositiveresponsetoStewardship.Sister Barbara’s move to Brookdale IamgratefulforyourencouragementandprayersforSisterBarbaraasshemakesthetransitiontoBrookdale.Shewillbeabletoreceivespeci iccaresheneedsandatthesametimetocontinueherpresenceandministrywithus.Origins of Hanukkah Thisweekwewillhave9amMassonMonday,Tuesday&Wednes-daywithreadingsfromMaccabees.InthosehistoricalbooksweindthestoryofHanukkah.TheMaccabeesencourageusinourownspiritualwarfare.

Misa del Día de Acción de Gracias Porfavor,haganquelaMisaseaunaprioridadensucelebraciondeAcciondeGracias.TraigaunartıculodecomidaenlatadaparalosnecesitadosyalgodesupropiamesadeAcciondeGracias(pan,postre,vino,etc.).Bendecirelosalimentosal inaldelaMisa.NuestrosmiembrosdeSanVicentedePaulrecibiranlasdonacionesdealimentosparalosnecesitados.LleveacasaelartıculodesupropiamesadeAcciondeGraciasparamostrarlaconexionentrelaEucaristıa,lagranoraciondegratitud,ysupropiacenafamiliar.Lamisacomienzaalas9a.M.Seraprincipalmenteeninglesconalgunaspartesenespanol.La puesta en servicio de San Vicente de Paúl Elproximodomingoalamisadelas9:30amtendremoslaceremoniadecomisionamientoparalosmiembrosdeSanVicentedePaul.Estoyorgullosodeltrabajoquehacenennuestronombre.Aunqueustedyyonosomoscapacesdellegaratodaslaspersonasquelonecesitan,somosmiembrosdelCuerpodeCristoquesirveenesteValleyentodoelmundo.Agradecido por su Corresponsabilidad El indesemanapasado,losmiembrosdeSanVicentedePaul,ChrisyJanKloeck,dieronunconmovedortestimoniosobrelaCorresponsabilidadenlamisadelas5PMy9:30AM.JesusrIVERAhabloconmovedoramenteenlaMisadelas11:15.Puedesencontrarestaspresentacionesjuntoconmihomilıahaciendoclicenelenlacedelsitiowebdenuestraparroquia.Estoysatisfechoconsurespues-tapositivaaCorresponsabilidad.La mudanza de la hermana Barbara a Brookdale EstoyagradecidoporsualientoyoracionesporlaHermanaBarbaramientrashacelatransicionaBrookdale.Ellapodrarecibirelcuida-doespecı icoquenecesitayalmismotiempocontinuarsupresenciayministerioconnosotros.Orígenes de Hanukkah EstasemanatendremoslasMisasdelas9a.m.loslunes,martesymiercolesconlecturasdeMacabeos.EnesoslibroshistoricosencontramoslahistoriadeHanukkah.LosMacabeosnosalientanennuestrapropiaguerraespiritual.

FROM FATHER BLOOM DE PARTE DEL PADRE FELIPE

Advent Family Adoration Mark this date on your calendar! Sunday, December 17th 12:30pm-3pm for our Advent Family Adoration and Potluck. Potluck12:30-1:45pmAdoration2pm-3pmFamiliesareencouragedtoparticipatetogetherinworship,musicandprayerintheExpositionoftheBlessedSacra-ment.TheEucharististhecenterandsummitofourfaith.SometimeswecanbeintimidatedtogotoAdoration.ItisnotbecausewefearbeingwithJesusinprayerbutratherwehaveneverbeentaughtwhattodoinanextendedperiodof

Bulletin Deadline: PleasesubmitinformationinwritingoremailtotheparishofficebyMondaynoon.Gift ShopSaturday November 25, 2017: MariaF. Sunday-November 26, 2017: Diana&Renae Epifania&CeciliaLiturgical Saturday 8:00 PM, November 25, 2017 Lector: GeorgeneBumpEucharistic Ministers: Maria&MichaelFlournoy&HarryHalliburtonAltar Servers: ConnorJacobs,AutumnJacobs&JoeyJacobsHospitality Ministers: KariLanderville-SweesySunday, 9:30 AM, November 26, 2017 Lector: TheresaBoutillierMinisters: SisterBarbara,JamieKradenpoth,MaryMurray,RalphChestine&JanGillAltar Servers: MathewRodriguez,MarkiePrice&KarlaLunaHospitality Ministers: JoeyBlair,BrendaKoontz&ChuckDavis

Thank you for serving our Parish!

Prayer Requests Renate Parker, Bernie Johnson, Scott Kingdon, Ernestine Mitchell, Ame Rubi, Cathy Lenac, Theresa Yap, Zander Tapia,

Robert Bell, Silvina Perez, Silvia & Juan Jose Medina. Ifyouwouldliketoaddsomeonetothislistpleasecalltheof ice:360-794-8945ext.10.Don’tforgettowriteyourspecialprayerintentionsinourparishbook,locatedontheBaptismalFontinthebackofthechurch

Mary & Martha Prayer Line Allcallsarecon identialPleasecallKayFauldsat(360)794-7988.Prayer Line Partners MaryDellino,MeriPrice,CherylClement,CandiceBlair,EvelyneRobertson,YolandaAlexander,JoAnnHoff,AnneO’niell,HolliJanacek,CathyLenac,TeresaYap,KathyKing,MaryPeterson-Clark,JosieRadzwill,JanGill,SandySullivan,JanineErickson,MattieMeier,BrendaKoontz. In1973,theSupremeCourt’sDoevs.BoltondecisionwasthecompanioncasetoRoevs.Wade,makingabortionlegalthroughoutpregnancy.SandraCano,the"MaryDoe"plaintiffofDoevs.Bolton,technicallywonthecaseandtherighttohaveanabortion–exceptthatsheneverwantedone.Sandrawasalwaysapro-lifeChristianuntilherdeathin2014.OnMarch23,1997,shedeclaredthesememorablewords:"IamSandraCano.IbecameknowasMaryDoewhentheU.S.SupremeCourtreleasedDoev.Bolton,whichallowedabortionforvirtuallyanyreason.Iamagainstabortion;Ineversoughtanabortion;Ihaveneverhadanabortion.Abortionismurder.Forovertwentyyears,andagainstmywill,mynamehasbeensynonymouswithabortion.TheDoev.Boltoncaseisbasedondeceitandfraud.Istandtodayinthisplaceofhealing,theNationalMemorialfortheUnborn,andpledgetothememoryoftheseinnocentchildren,thataslongasIhavebreath,IwillstrivetoseeabortionendedinAmerica."We need HELP!!! Doyoulikecooking,baking,purchasing?Maybeyouhavealittletimeduringthedaytosetuporhost?Wellifyouansweredyestoanyofthesequestions,thiscouldbetheministryforyou!OurFuneralCommitteeneedsyourhelp!IfyouhaveanyquestionsorareinterestedpleasecontactKayFauldsat360.794.7988,thankyouandGodBless!

CCS Christmas Giving Tree Be an Angel to a local client in need this holiday season! St.Mary’sissponsoring20CCSclientsthisyear.PleasechooseoneornamentoffofourCCSGivingTreeandbeanangeltoaclient.Asan"angel"youarecommittingtosponsoraCCSclientforChristmas.TheclientsCCSservearegoingthroughverydif iculttimesandcouldusealittleChristmasspirittoshinetheirway.The“WishList”youwillreceiveontheornamentasasponsorissimplyaguide.Alldonationsaretax-deductible. Cost and gifts vary Weaskthatangelsgeteachclientsomethingfunctionalandsomethingfun,andthattheygetatleastoneitemforthehousehold.ManyofthefamiliesinCCScasemanagedprogramshaverecentlybeenhomelessandareforcedtostartover. Delivery of Gifts Presentsshouldnotbewrapped,withtheornamenttagattachedanddeliveredtoSt.MaryoftheValleyof icenolaterthanDecember3,2017.Welcome Elizabeth Hlavacka! Belovedparishioner,ElizabethHlavackawillgiveapresentationon“MotherMary”toourCon irmandisonDecember6,2017,5:30pm-8pm.AllarewelcometoattendthisveryinformativeeventintheParishHall.Thereisnopre-registrationrequiredorfee.

Welcome Camille Pauley! CamillePauleyisco-founderandPresidentofHealingtheCulture,anonpro itorganizationthatevangelizesandconvertspeopletobedeeply,authentically,andpermanentlypro-life.BesuretomarkyourcalendarsforMonday,January8,20186pm-8:30pm,foraPro-LifepresentationinourParishHall.Allarewelcometoattendthisevent!You can Help!OurSt.VincentdePaulcouncilof iceislookingforvolunteersforourhelpline.DoyouorsomeoneyouknowhaveaninterestinlearninghowtodispatchcallsfromourassistancelineattheSt.VincentdePaulCouncilOf ice?Wewouldbehappytotrainyou!Weareinneedofvolunteers,bothregularscheduleand illinvolunteers.Pleasecallusformoreinformation.Youcanreachusat:Carla425.513.6052orDiane425.355.3504x2.Thankyou!"

Weekend Collection Summary

November 12, 2017 SundayEnvelopes&Checks$5,447.00Loose$1,575.57Children’sEnvelopes$99.15Sacramental:$1,164.00ParishImprovements:$695.00

FISCAL YEAR JULY 1, 2017-JUNE 30, 2018 (Amount needed each week: $7,826)

Actual YTD collections received: $123,073.58 BudgetedYTDcollection:$148,694.00(Week19) -($25,620.42)

Thank you for your Generosity

STEWARDSHIP ╀ CORRESPONSABILIDAD

This Week in our Parish ╀ Esta

MONDAY, NOVEMBER 20 8am-1pmSt.Benedict'sCatholicCo-OpHall-AllRooms9amWordandCommunion7pm-9pmALANON(Room3)

TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 21 9amDailyMassFasting&PrayerforEndtoDomesticViolence,Sp.Int.9:30amRosary6:30pm-8pmBaptismClassRoom47pm-9pmHispanicYoungAdultLead-ershipMeeting(Rm.4)

WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 22 9amDailyMassWilliamShinnick,RIP

THURSDAY, NOVEM9amCollectionofFood&VincentdePaul9amTHANKSGIVINAcciondeGracias)5pm-7pmRehearssentation(church)

Requisitos para Bautizar ╀ UnacopiadelActadeNacimientodelnino/a╀ LosPapasyPadrinosdebendetomarlasclases╀ LaropadelosninostienequeserBLANCA╀ Pre-Bautismales.(PuedentomarlasclasesenotraIglesiasolotraigauncartadeesaIglesiacon irmandoquetomaronlasclases.)Laclaseesgratis.La clase no es efectiva para aquellos que deseen servir como

padrinos y no estén casados a la Iglesia CATOLICA.╀ LosPadrinosdebendeserbautizadosCatolicosypracticandolaFe(las

parejas,debendeestarcasadosporlaIglesiaCatólicaytraerunacopiadesuactamatrimonial).

╀ SiNOestanregistradosennuestraIglesia,lepedimosquetraiganuncartadesuParroquiadandonospermisodebautizarasu/shijo/a╀ Ysugerimosunadonacionde$50.Baptismal Preparation Twoclasses,forbothparentsandgodparents,willbeheldonTuesday November 14th and 21st, 6:30-8:30pm,intheparishCenter. Acopyofthechild’sbirthcerti icateisre-quired.Afterattendingbothclasses,contactSr.BarbaraGeib,parishof ice360.794.8945ext.14,toscheduleyourchild’sbaptism.Baptismal Dates ╀ Fechas de Bautizos╀ November-Noviembre25@11am ╀ DecemberNOBAPTISMS-DiciembreNOBAUTIZOS First Sacrament Class Ifyouhaveastudentsecondgradeorolderplease illouttheblue2017-2018GenerationsofFaithregistrationformandindicateontheformthatyouhaveastudent(s)readyforthisclass.Parentsshouldbringanoriginalcopyofthechild(ren)’sbirthcerti icatetothe irstclass,Wednesday, October 4th, 4:30pm, in the Parish Hall.Parentsarerequiredtoattendthisclass.StudentspreparingfortheirFirstSacramentsshouldknowhowtosaytheHailMary,GloryBe,andOurFatherpriortoenteringintotheprogram.Confirmation Ifyouhaveastudentthatturns16yearsoldonorbeforeApril15,2018he/sheiseligibletobegintheirCon irmationpreparation.Whybecon irmed?Contrarytohowit’scommonlyunderstood,Con irmationisnotmeantasanadultaf irmationofone’sfaith.InsteaditisacompletionofwhatGodbeganatone’sBaptism-bybeingsealedinthefullnessoftheHolySpirit-thewaybywhichonebecomesafully-initiatedCatholic.Thisisawonderfulbeginning

toyouradultfaithjourney!TheseclassesareagreatopportunityforyoutobecomeclosertoJesusandbestrengthenedbytheHolySpirit.Pleaseusethelightblue2017-2018GenerationsofFaithregistrationformslocatedinallthreevestibules.FormoreinformationonSacramentpreparationpleasevisitourparishwebsite,http://www.stmaryvalley.organdclickonSacramentsorcontactMeriPricemprice@stmaryvalley.orgBecoming a Catholic: The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults RCIA(RiteofChristianInitiationofAdults)istheprocessbywhichnon-CatholicsentertheCatholicFaith.TobecomeaCatholic,onemustunderstandtheteachingsoftheChurch,believeinthoseteachings,andbeabaptizedCatholic.St.MaryoftheValley’sRCIAclassesbeginWednesday,November8,2017.IfyouareinterestedinbecomingaCatholicpleasecontactFr.Bloom360-794-8945X12Would You Consider Being A Sponsor? WecontinuetohavemanynewinquirerscomingtoparticipateinourChristianInitiationprocesstolearnmoreabouttheCatholicChurch(RCIA).WeneedSt.MaryoftheValleyparishionerstobecompanionswithournewinquirerstohelpwelcomethemtoourcommunity.Alltrainingandsupportwillbeprovidedandthetimecommitmentisreasonable.Therewardsaremany,includingrenewalandupdateofyourfaithandkudosinheaven.Ifinterestedorformoreinformation,pleasecontactSr.BarbaraGeib.CCD? Religious Education? Faith Formation? St.Mary’soffersan“allages”religiouseducationprogramcalled,GenerationsofFaith(GOF).Since2006wehaveofferedthisfaithformationandlifelonglearningforpeopleofallagesandgenerations.Duringtheschoolyear,wemeetonceamonthonaWednesdayeveningforsevensessionstodeepenourfaithonacatechetical-theologicaltheme.Thisyear’sthemeis,Prayer and Spirituality.AsPopeFrancishassaidweneedtobecontagious,compellingandenthusiastic.Jesusdoesnotjustgivegraceforchurchactivities.Wehavetobeawarethatheiswithusinoureverydayeventstoo.WearecalledtoadeeperrelationshipwithGodandtodevelopourspirituality.InordertocommunicatemeaningfullywithGod,wehavetoadoptaprayerstylewhichwefeelateaseandonethatleadsustowarddeeperspirituality.InattendingSt.MaryoftheValley,GOFsessionswehopeyouand yourfamilywillgrowprayerfullyandspirituallyinourfaith.PleaseregisterbyusingtheGenerationsofFaith,blueformlocatedinallthreevestibules.Catholic Adult Small Faith Sharing Smallfaithsharinggroupsmeetinhomesordesignatedareasweeklyormonthlytoprayandre lectonscriptureanditsapplicationtodailylife.Thisiswonderfultimetojoinagrouporstartagroup.Ifyouareinterested,pleasecontactMeriPriceorjointhismonth’sFaithSharingGroup,Tuesday,October31,11am,Room8intheParishHall.Wearere lectingandfaithsharingontheNovember5,2017,SundayReadingsandGospel.

Sacraments ╀ Sacramentos

Of ice Open 10am-4pm TUESDAY-THURSDAY

Jesus,PandeVidaGrupo de OraciónTodoslosviernesalas7PM,Adoración,aprendizaje,crecimientoEspiritualenfamilia!

11/22/17Oficinacierra@1PMMisadeDıadeGracias11/23/17@9AM

a Semana en nuestra Parroquia

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&DonationsforSt.GDAYMASS(MisasalGuadalupeRepre-

FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 24St. Flora of Cordoba 9amWordandCommunionVocationstoSacramentofMarriage,Sp.Int.7pm-9pmPrayerGroup(parishhall)7pm-9pmRehearsalDanzasalaVirgen(church)

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 25Olive Wood Carvings from Holy Land (after Masses) St. Vincent de Paul Envelope Week-end 11am-12pmBaptisms-Bautizos12pm-1pmXVMass(c)4pm-4:45pmConfessions5pmMass

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 26 Olive Wood Carvings from Holy Land (after Masses)

Christ the King - Cristo Rey 8:45am-9:15amConfes-sions/Confesiones9:30amMass11:15amMisaenEspanol

“Jesús te llama” Practica del coro,

miércoles @ 7 PM en la Iglesia

No dejen a los niños jugar afuera de la Iglesia solos y

acompáñelos al baño por favor, cuidemos a nuestros

hermosos tesoros. Les agradecemos infini-tamente toda su ayuda con el evento de la cena-baile el día de ayer, que Dios bendiga TODO su esfuerzo, ayuda, esfuer-zo.

Ayuda con la celebración de la Virgen de Guadalupe, sabes que cuentas con cualida-des extraordinarias, ponlas al servicio para algo bueno, te necesitamos!!! Habla con la Sra. Ana Delgado para más info o llama a la oficina parroquial.

Generations of Faith: Prayer and Spirituality 2017-2018

12/13 Call to Prayer/Praying with the Saints 1/24 CatholicPrayerTraditions2/28 PrayingthroughLent/Easter3/21 PrayingThroughtheTriduum4/25 TheRosary/MarianPrayersPleaseregisteryourfamilyusingthelightblueGenerationsofFaithregistrationformlocatedinallthreevestibules.

Read: Matthew 25:14-30 Gospel SummaryInthisstory,amanwentawayonajourney.Hemusthavebeenverywealthybecauseheentrustedlargeportionsofhismoneytothreeofhisservants.The irsttwoservantsinvestedthemoneyduringthemaster'sabsenceandityieldedgreatreturns.Thethirdservant,however,wasfearfulofinvesting(orsomescholarssayhewaslazy).Ineithercase,theservantburiedthemoneyhewasgivenandreturnedthefullamounttothemasterwhenhecamehome.Themasterwaspleasedwiththeinvestmentsofthe irsttwoservants,butwasveryupsetwiththethirdone.Tothosewhohavemuch,muchmorewillbegiven.Tothosewhohavelittle,eventhatlittlewillbetakenaway.Re lection for FamiliesGodhasgiveneachoneofustalents.Sometimesoutoflazinessorlackofambition,orsometimesbecauseweareafraidoffailureorridicule,wedonotshareourtalents.ThegospeltodaychallengesustotakeariskandinvestourgiftsforthegreatergoodofGod'speople.Wedothisourselvesasadults,butwemustalsotrytohelpourchildrenrecognizetheirtalentsandusetheminaproductiveway.Bringing the Gospel Into Your FamilyPerhapsyoukeepascrapbookforyourchildren,orhaveahugeboxofclippings,photos,projects,orpro-gramsthatdocumenttheiraccomplishments.Gothroughtheseitemstogetherandaf irmthegiftsofeachother.TalkaboutwaysmembersofthefamilyareusingtheirgiftstobuilduptheKingdomofGod.Brain-stormideasofnewwaysyoucanuseyourgifts,orevenlookforgiftsineachothernotpreviouslyrecog-nized.Discussion Starters1.IfGodcametodayandaskedtoseewhatIhaddonewithmytalents,Iwouldbeabletoshowhim...2.TheservantinthestorywhoIammostlikeis...3.SomeotherpeopleIrecognizeinthisgospelare...4.ThegiftthatGodgavemethatishardesttoriskis…Stages of Marriage“Allhealthymarriagesexperiencechangeandtransition.That’swhatkeepsthemaliveandgrowing.”ThepsychologistPaulTourniersaid,“I’vebeenmarriedsixtimes–alltothesamewoman.”Tournierex-plainedthathenevergotdivorced,butratherhismarriagetransitionedfromonestagetoanother.Allhealthymarriagesexperiencechangeandtransition.That’swhatkeepsthemaliveandgrowing.Someofthestagesofgrowtharepredictable,othersarenot.WeprovideanOverviewoftheStagesofMarriage.Then,forsimplicity,we’vedividedmarriageintothechronologicaltimeframesof:╀ NewlyMarried(0–5years)╀ MiddleYears(6–25years),whichusuallycoincideswiththeactiveparentingstage╀ LaterYears(26+years),alsoknownasthe“emptynest”yearsNotallmarriages itneatlyintothesecategories.Thoseinsecondmarriagesmay indtimesshortened;how-ever,certaindevelopmentaltasksgenerallytakeplaceduringeachstage.Anotherwayoflookingattransi-tionsinmarriageisthroughcyclesofgrowth.Mostrelationshipsmovethroughcyclesthatinclude:╀ Romance╀ Disillusionment

╀ MatureLoveInthisframework,thestagesemergemorequickly,withdisillusionmentoftencomingsoonafterthehoneymoon.Matureloveevolves-hopefully-afterseveralyearsofmarriage.InThe7StagesofMarriage(2007),HarrarandDeMariaidentifythestagesas:╀ PassionCooperation╀ RealizationReunion╀ RebellionExplosion╀ CompletionHoweveryoudescribeit,theessentialpointisthatamar-riageisaprocess.Itevolves.Ithelpstoknowwhattoexpectatthevariousstages.Otherwise,normaltransitionsmaybemisinterpretedaslossofloveorreasonstodivorce.

United Youth Group ╀ UnitedyouthgroupwillmeetonMondayNovember27th!Besuretomarkyourcalendars!╀ LasiguientereuniondelgrupodeadolecentesseraNoviembre27de7-8:30.Aseguresedemarcarsuscalendarios!ASpecialtoThankyoutoalltheleaders,parentsandchaperonesthatmadeitpossibletotakeouryouthtotheCatholicYouthConvention!!Ouryouthhaveablessedfaithilledexperience!ThreeofourhighschoolyouthreceivedtheCYCSt.TimothyAward!JacobGepner,JulieRodriguezandNoahReyesreceivedthisawardbecausetheyexemplifythecalltodiscipleship&areengagedinevangelizationthroughlivedwitness.ThankstoallourparishionersfortheircontinuedprayersandsupportoftheyouthofSt.MaryoftheValley.

LastbutnotleastaHUGETHANKYOUtoourSt.VincentdePaulMinistry,KnightsandUnitedYouththathelpedputtogethertheSt.VincentdePaulcommunitydinnerandalltheyouththathelpedattheCharityDin-ner!Godisnotunjust;hewillnotforgetyourworkandtheloveyouhaveshownhimasyouhavehelpedhispeopleandcontinuetohelpthem.Hebrews6:10

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Pope Francis Prayer Intentions for November 2017 Christians in Asia ThatChristiansinAsia,bearingwitnesstotheGospelinwordanddeed,maypromotedialogue,peace,andmutualunderstanding,especiallywiththoseofotherreligions. Atlastweek'sMassesweheardapersonaltestimonyonstewardshipoftimeandtalentfromChrisandJanKloeck,Vincentianmembers.IstronglyencourageyoutobeanactivememberofSt.MaryoftheValley.Therearemanywaystobeactive.YoucanjoinoneofthemanygroupsthatstrivetobethehandsandfeetofChrist.Therearemanygroupstojoin.Aquickcalltotheof icewouldhelpyoudecideonone.Twogroupsinparticularareingreatneed.OnegroupinneedatthistimeistheFuneralCommittee.KayFaulds(360-794-7988)continuestoaskforhelpwithbaking,cookingandpurchasingorforthosewithtimeduringthedaytosetuporhostforreceptionsfollowingfunerals.TheothergroupisSt.VincentdePaul.Wearealwayslookingfornewmembers,butareespeciallyinneedatthistime.ThevocationoftheSociety'smembersistofollowChristthroughservicetothoseinneed.Wedothisthroughperson-to-personcontact.Thismeanswemeetthoseinneedwheretheyare,heartheirstory,andprovidehelpbasedonneed,abilityandinspirationoftheHolySpirit.Forsafetyandliabilityprotectiontwopeoplegotogetheronavisit.Wouldyouconsiderbeingasortofsubwhilethreeofourmembersarenotavailable?CallDianaBizakat360-863-1902ifyoucouldbethesecondpersontokeepitsafeduringavisit.Thisonlytakesanhourortwoaweek.Youneednotraining.ThanksgivingMasswillhavetwotablesforfood.Onetableisforfoodtobeblessedforyourtableandtheothertableisforthoseinneedinourcommunity.Pleasebringsomethingforeachtable.SVdPSocietywilluseyourdonatedfooditemstohelpthehungrywithinourParishboundaries.╀ December7-7pmSt.VincentdePaulmeetinginthechurchlibrary.Therearetreatsandfellowship,comejoinusandseewhatweareabout.╀ WewillhavegifttagsontheGivingTreethisyearforSt.VincentdePaulclientsinandupthevalleytothePass.Lookforthetreethismonth!AnyquestionsaboutthisprogrampleasecontactTraciAdams,(360)794-4765,[email protected] High Rally MarkyourcalendarsforMarch10,2018Location:ForestRidgeSchooloftheSacredHeart,BellevueJuniorHighRallyisadaydesignedtocelebrateCatholicyouth(ingrades6-9)andalltheybringtotheChurch.Over600+youthfromWashington,OregonandCanadawillcometogetherforaninteractivedaywhereyouwillhavetheopportunitytomeetnewpeople,listentotalksthatwilldeepentheirfaith,andbeinvitedtoparticipateinvariousinteractiveactivitieswiththedayclosingwithMass!Registrationwillopensoon.Steubenville Registration has Opened Steubenvilleisahigh-energyyouthconferencewherethousandsofteensareinvitedtoencounterJesusChristthroughdynamicspeakers,engagingmusic,theSacraments,smallgroupdiscussions,andfellowshipwithotherteens.Thisyear’sconferenceisJuly27th-29th.Besuretovisithttp://site.steubenvilleconferences.comtoregisteryourhighschoolteen.

Intenciones de Oración del Papa Francisco Noviembre 2017 Cristianos en Asia.QuelosCristianosenAsia,siendotestigosdelEvangelioenpala-brayobras,puedanpromoverdialogo,paz,yentendimientomu-tuo,especialmenteconaquellosdeotrasreligiones.

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CONFESION ╀ CONFESIONES FirstFridays(PrimerosViernes):7:00PM Saturday(Sabado): 4:15PMSunday(Domingo): 8:45AMOrbyappointmentwiththepriest.Oporcitaconelsacerdote.

DEVOTIONS ╀ DEVOCIONES ExpositionoftheBlessedSacrament(ExposiciondelSantısimo)FirstFridays(PrimerosViernes): 10:00p.m.-Saturday(Sabado)6:00a.m. Rosary (Rosario) Tuesdays(Martes):9:30AM(English) 7:00PM(Espanol)Thursdays(Jueves): 9:30AM(Espanol) Fridays(Viernes): 6:00PMEnglish)

MASS SCHEDULE ╀ HORARIO DE MISAS Monday-LiturgyoftheWord&Communion(Lunes-LiturgiadelaPalabrayComunion):9:00a.m.Tuesday-Friday(Martes-Viernes):9:00a.m.Saturday(Sabado):5:00p.m.(English)Sunday(Domingo):9:30a.m.(English)Sunday(Domingo):11:15a.m.(Espanol)

OFFICE HOURS ╀ HORAS DE OFICINA Tuesday(Martes)-Thursday(Jueves)10:00a.m.—4:00p.m.