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8/14/2019 WSR Newsletter 1.6
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Sof
iaEmotional
Health
Physical
Beauty
Abuse
Prevention
Healthy
Relationships
Self
Reliance
In this Issue:
Occupation: Homemaker 1
Janelle Webster
Living Against the Grain 3
Kate Call
Kimis Nutrition Tips 4
Kimi Sycamore
Beating the Blues 6
Anna Packard
N.E.D.A.W. 8
Genevieve Busch
Women and Careers 10
Bev McCrostie
Check out our blog at
byuwsr.blogspot.com
Occupation: HomemakerThe experiences I had while at BYU have enriched mymarriage, my church and community service, and my home.
BYU Womens Services and Resources, located in 3326 WSC,
is an organization aimed at helping women recognize their
sel-worth and ull potential. We oer counseling,
workshops, lecture series, and seminars about current
womens issues. We invite you to be active and to get involved.
Our ofce is open Monday through Friday 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.
After a few years of blankly staring
at the box marked OCCUPATION
on IRS forms, bank forms, or birth
certicates, I nally feel comfortable
writing Homemaker on any form
placed in front of me.
I found it perplexing to try and
nd a suitable one-word description
to write on a line when I had so many
interests and opportunities ghting for
my attention. After graduating from
the Marriott School of Management
I worked as a bonds broker. Then I
became a math tutor and managed
a chain of tutoring centers. Just
prior to starting my family I was a
Mad Scientist and gave science
demonstration assemblies all over the
San Francisco Bay Area. I was and
continue to be co-owner of a successfu
electrical sign company with my
husband Alex. Six years ago, my love
for real estate investment prompted me
to pursue a Real Estate Brokers license
After two years of marriage I became a
full time mother. What one word could
capture in a meaningful way all of the
skills Ive gleaned from these great
experiences? In the small moments of
introspection I had while mulling over
what to write on the OCCUPATION
line on those hosts of forms, I often
found myself pondering, Who am I?
What will I become?
I discovered that there was one
Womens Services and Resources
19 February 2010 Vol. 1 No. 6
Occupation: Homemaker Cont. on pg. 2
WomenInspiringWomen
By Janelle Webster
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place where all of my talents and roles
ourished: at home. Being a homemaker
has challenged and improved all of the
skills I acquired in my educational and
vocational years and encouraged evenmore. With the help of my Finance degree
from the Marriott School of Management,
I have budgeted and invested my family
into a measure of nancial freedom. I
have found unlimited uses for my science
performance and teaching skills at home,
at church and at my daughters schools. I
have been able save my family considerable
amounts of money by representing myself
in real estate transactions. But it is my
management skills that have proved most valuable, as they have made me a better
communicator, organizer, peacekeeper and
nurturer in my home.
I have also developed talents I never
knew existed while at home like writing,
home decoration, home renovation, and
patience. I am currently an administrator
for the member missionary website
mormonwoman.org. Many of my
management, marketing and presentation
skills have been helpful to the developmentof the site. Without the support of my
husband and my full-hearted acceptance
of the role of homemaker, I would never
have had the time to devote my heart to
such a spiritually satisfying project.
I feel compelled to note that I didnt
come to full time homemaking naturally.
During my rst years home I found myself
spending a lot of time on the computer
creating home based businesses like
an eBay store selling antique glassware
and hosting furniture estate sales via
craigslist. The extra money was nice, but
I knew we were already living within our
means. It wasnt until I found my toddlerdismantling my laptop and deliberately
hiding the keys that I got the clue that my
priorities were mismanaged. I stopped
hosting my Internet businesses and
started hosting pre-school and singing
time for my toddler instead.
There were other aspects of
homemaking that did not come naturally.
For a while I indulged these weaknesses
and told myself, So Im not a gourmet
cook and my house isnt always perfectlyclean. No biggie. Years later, instigated
by a friends critical comment on my
homemaking skills, I decided to pour
myself into creating a better home
environment. I learned to follow a
housekeeping schedule I found on the
Internet and I asked my friends to teach
me how to cook. There was a great deal
more peace in our home after making
these improvements, but I also felt smart!
I found that I could learn new things,even if I didnt have a natural inclination
toward them.
There are many more aspects of
homemaking I need to master, but these
precious experiences in the rst years of
my marriage taught me a lot about lifelong
learning at home. I no longer think of the
words ambitious and homemaker
as antonyms. I feel ambitious every time
I work on my food storage project. I
feel ambitious every time we choose
bring another child into our family. I f
ambitious every time I write somethi
that my testimony is seared upon for t
member missionary site I volunteer for.
I graduated from BYU in 1998 but m
education didnt stop there. I have be
learning and implementing new skills eve
day since I left the Marriott Center wearia blue cap and gown. I never felt that m
degree was something to fall back on j
in case. Instead, the experiences I h
while at BYU have enriched my marria
my church and community service and m
home.
I never felt that my degree w
something to fall back on just in cas
Instead, the experiences I had while at BY
have enriched my marriage, my church a
community service and my home.
There is one experience I mark as m
most successful moment to date. At
Salt Lake Temple Visitors Center th
is a wall covered in murals that highlig
signicant events in the life of Jesus Chr
While visiting the Temple with my childre
I was able to walk that wall with my old
daughter Elizabeth, who was six at t
time. Elizabeth stopped at each picture arelated the events of the Saviors life to
from memory. At the end of the long l
of murals, Elizabeth looked up at me a
asked, Why are you crying mom? T
overwhelmed to respond, I hugged h
with all the energy of my being and w
gratied by the feeling that motherho
and homemaking were the best car
choices I ever made.
2 Womens Services and Resources
Occupation: Homemaker Cont. from pg. 1
Without the support o
my husband and my ful
hearted acceptance o
the role of homemaker
I would never have had
the time to devote my
heart to such a spirituall
satisfying project.
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Do you know someone who eats a gluten
free diet? If not, chances are you will in the
future. Eating gluten free has become not
only the newest health diet but the only
way 1 percent of our population can live,
that is 1 out of 133 people or about 330
students on campus.
What is gluten and why do people have to
live without it? Gluten is a protein found
in wheat, barley, and rye. This protein is a
binding agent that causes our to become
sticky when wet.
So whats the big deal about gluten?For those
suffering from the autoimmune disease, ce-
liac, it makes all the difference in the world.
When a person has celiac disease, gluten
in food triggers an immune response and
their body begins to attack itself, damaging
the small intestine and causing an inability
to absorb nutrients from food. Essentially,
they are starving while eating.
You can imagine the sort of problems
that can be caused by such a disease. Symp-
toms range from chronic diarrhea and con-
stipation to migraines or even infertility.
Not to mention feeling ill every time you
eat. Luckily, when a person suffering from
celiac disease or gluten intolerance cuts glu-
ten completely out of their diet, the body
heals and symptoms, most often complete-
ly go away.
How do I deal with this diagnosis? As a
woman living gluten free, I understand
the frustration, embarrassment, and even
anger that a person feels when they rst
learn they have to change their lifestyle
permanently. You go through a period of
mourning and want to cry just thinking
about going grocery shopping. You worry
about what you cant eat and everything
feels extremely overwhelming. Not to
mention that food is a part of every social
event, date, and activity you attend. This
alone is enough to make someone want to
turn and run. There is hope and you are
not alone. Here are a few simple steps that
will help you get on the right path.
Five Guys Burgers and Fries: Letthem know you cant have wheat
and ask them to change theirgloves. Their ry vats are only usedor rench ries and the seasoningsalt is McCormick. (Allergy note:they use peanut oil and have pea-
nuts available or snacking).
Biaggis Italian Ristorante at the
Gateway: They have a huge GFmenu including pastas, pizza, sal-ads and desserts. Its a great place
to go or a nice date or meal.
Zupas Soups and Salads: Ask ortheir allergy inormation. Nuts
about Berries and the MangoSalad are GF and so is the tomatosoup. Make sure to tell them you
dont want noodles added and thatyou dont want the bread.
PF Changs Chinese Restaurant
at University Mall: They have aGF menu and a good GF dessert.A waiter told me that GF ood isbrought out on the round plateswith PF Changs printed on the
edge o the plate. Dont eat it i itcomes out on another plate. Wait
until you can talk with your waiter.
Womens Services and Resources
LIVING AGAINST
THE GRAINYou just found out you have Celiac Disease: Dont worry.There is hope and you are not alone
4 Tips to help you dealwith Celiac Disease:
1. Write down all of the foods you can
eat. Include fruits, vegetables, meats,
cheeses, milk products. Be specic. Itis good to see all the individual foods
you enjoy that are gluten free.
2. Research, research, research! There
are many good resources, forums,
blogs, and web pages with recipes,
product reviews, and support groups.Celiac.com and celiac.org are two
great resources to start with.
3. Start out simple. Dont go to the
store and buy a ton of gluten free
mixes and breads without researching
them. Processed gluten free foods are
more expensive and sometimes are
not very tasty. Start out by purchasing
things you are used to that are gluten
free.
4. Contact the local GIG aka GlutenIntolerance Group. They will be hap-py to help you adjust to your new life-style and will offer support and ideas.
Need to talk about eating glutenree? Appointments and classes areavailable in the Womens Services
& Resources ofce 3326 WSC.
Local Restaurants with
Gluten-ree Options
By Kate Call
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Tips for debunking unhealthy myths By Kimi SycamorePhoto by Brooke Beecher
Nutrition
Microwaves zap all
the nutrients outof vegetables.
MYth #1
Sugar causesdiabetes
MYth #2All fats are bad
MYth #3
Microwaving is one of the easiest
ways to prepare vegetables. Whenever
we cook vegetables there will always be
some loss of water soluble nutrients, like
B vitamins and vitamin C, because these
nutrients are sensitive to heat. However,you can still get nutrients by cooking
them in as little water as possible and for
as short of time possible. Many nutrients
dissolve in water and then drain out,
which is why steaming is the best way
to cook vegetables because they dont
come in direct contact with water; but
microwaving is still a great way to cook
vegetables.
Diabeticsdo need to watch their sugar
and carbohydrate intake to properly
manage blood sugar levels. However, if
you do not have diabetes, sugar intake
will not cause you to develop the disease.
Sedentary lifestyle, overweight, andconsumption of high calorie foods are
the main risk factors for Type 2 diabetes.
Fats: we all need them. Fats help us
absorb nutrients, and they make up 50%
of our cell membranes. However, when
consumed in excessive amounts, fats
contribute to weight gain, heart disease
and certain types of cancers. The key is to replace the bad fat
(saturated and trans fats) with the good fats
(monounsaturated and polyunsaturated
fats). The good fats help promote good
health and are necessary in our diet, in
small amounts.
Monounsaturared Fat
Canola oil
Nuts
Avocados
Polyunsaturated Fats
Seafood like salmon and tuna
Corn Oil
Soybean Oil
Kimis
What kind of fats should I
be eating?
Fruit
Apple slices with peanut butter
Oranges
Fruit smoothies made with plain yogurt
Pineapple with low-fat cottage cheese
Other Ideas
Hummus with a wheat pita
Baby carrots
Air popped popcorn
Almonds
Pretzels
String Cheese
What are some safe,
not-too-sweet snacks?
What are some tasty
microwaved veggies?
Greens
Broccoli
Green beans
Soy beans
Other Vegetables
Sweet potato
Cauliower
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Skipping meals is a greatway to lose weight.
MYth #4Red meat is bad foryour health
MYth #5
You shouldnt eatlate at night
MYth #6
Many people thinkthat by skipping
a meal and eating less food they will lose
weight. This isnt true! People who think
skipping meals means weight loss do
not understand how our bodies work.
If you skip a meal, your body will thinkthat you are in starvation mode and will
therefore overcompensate by slowing
down your metabolism. Usually you end
up overeating at the next meal. A better
approach is to eat smaller, healhty meals
more frequently with snacks in between
to keep you going.
It is true that somestudies have linked
red meat with increased risk of heart
disease, partly due to the saturated fat
content. It is true that poultry, like chicken
and turkey, is naturally lower in saturated
fats (but that is only true if you do not eatthe skin). It is a nutrition myth, however,
that red meat is altogether bad for your
health. Instead of excluding red meats,
choose leaner cuts of beef and pork.
You can also compare the marbling on
different cuts of meat to tell which ones
are leaner. Or read the sticker in the corner
of the package and it will tell you the fat
content.
It really doesnt matterif you eat late
at night. Your metabolism doesnt stop
when the sun goes down. Its not eating
late that is bad. Its the food that we often
eat late at night that isnt so healthy.
Also, if were up extremely late at night we become hungry, and snacking add
extra calories into our diet that we wouldnt
have eaten if we had been sleeping.
Itsnoteatinglatethat
isbad.Itsthefoodthat
weofteneatlateatnight
thatisntsohealthy.
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very February I begin my bud watch. As I walk by trees on
mpus I look hopefully at their branches for any growing buds.
atching those buds grow and eventually burst into beautiful
ossoms makes me smile as I know spring has arrived! But
s February and still dark and cold outside. More often than not,
ose branches are covered in snow and ice. I dont blame those
tle buds for their reluctance to make an appearance!
or many, February can be a difcult month. At this point, winter
as been present for three months and many people nd them-
lves weary of dark, cold evenings. February boosts our mood a
tle with the red and pink construction-papered-hearts of Valen-
nes Day. But overall, this holiday does little to alleviate the the
ues of winter that still persist.
his time of year leaves many women particularly vulnerable to
elings of sadness, loss of interest in life, lack of motivation, ir-
ability, fatigue, and feelings of insecurity and self-doubt. In other
ords, many women experience some depressive symptoms that
e not sufcient (either in number or severity) to warrant a diag-
osis of major depression. However, this Congratulations, youre
ot depressed does little to alleviate these blue feelings. So when
ced with the Blues, what can one do to overcome them? Here are
me simple but powerful strategies to combat the Blues.
1. Get out and be social
Isolation is the compulsion when feeling the Blues. Making an
effort to get out and talk to others can feel like such a chore.
However, the best way to combat those negative feelings is to
do exactly what they tell you NOT to do. That is, go out and
connect with friends and loved-ones. Over time this will feel
less effortful and youll nd yourself engaged in meaningful
relationships.
2. Share your feelings with someone you trust
In this blue place, it is common to try to avoid negative emotions
and you may even feel associated shame and embarrassment. Try
reaching out and sharing your experience with someone you trust
and who will validate your feelings.
3. Exercise frequently
Yes, its dark and freezing outside! Who would want to exe
under those conditions? But exercise is one of the best nat
anti-depressants. Test it out! Rate your mood on a scale of
before you work out, and again immediately after. You mig
surprised at how effective exercise is.
4. Find something to look forward to and thamakes you excited
It can be as simple and cost-effective as a spring hiking trip
Zion with your best friends! Often when people feel the Bl
its hard to feel excited about anything. Something positive
can anticipate will help pull you through those low momen
This should be something realistic, specic and attainable.
5. Set a non-academic goal and worktoward it
A goal keeps you going despite unmotivated moments. Thigoal should be positive and have an end date. Avoid vague,
unrealistic, and unhealthy goals. Some good goals might
B
EATING theBLUES
Womens Services and Resources
By Anna Packard, Psychology Intern
Photos by Brooke Beecher
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include training for something youve never tried before. For
example, this year I plan on participating in BYUs Splash and
Dash Biathalon. This goal motivates me to get in the pool in
February! Other goals may include reading a chapter nightly
from a non-academic book or nishing your scrapbook of
freshman year. This is a great opportunity to be creative!
6. Monitor and challenge negative thoughtsNegative thoughts are frequently associated with and exacer-
bate a low mood. Many times we are not consciously aware of
when we are speaking critically to ourselves. Find a piece of
paper and begin to monitor your thoughts. What negative
judgments and accusations are you making about yourself?
Then, once you get these thoughts on paper, challenge their
validity. Ask yourself questions such as, Am I really a failure
because I got a D on that homework assignment? Why is
that homework assignment dening who I am? What other
evidence am I ignoring that says Im NOT a failure? So
I didnt have a date last weekend. Does that really mean Ill
never get married and be a total failure at love? Why am I us-
ing one weekend to predict my future?
7. Find a balance.It can be easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of school,
work, and social expectations and nd yourself lost in the
process. You may nd yourself vacillating between feeling
overwhelmed and completely checked out. Take time to rec
nect with yourself and seek to nd balance. Recognize that
you dont need to do everything perfectly and perhaps the b
thing you can do is to do some things imperfectly! Practice
saying NO when you have too much on your plate and seek
help when you need it. Give yourself permission to pampe
yourself! You are worth it!
The good news is that the majority of the Blues resolve an
women nd they reconnect with their excitement for life. The
strategies can help toward that end. Test them out and hopefu
you will see the color returning in your life. And soon the wor
will be lled with all the colors of spring as those little buds
ly emerge and blossom! If you notice your mood doesnt impr
or worsens, counseling services available at the BYU Counseli
and Career Center is also a good therapeutic option.
Womens Services and Resource
Manytimesweareno
t
consciouslyawareof
whenwearespeaking
criticallytoourselves.
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When I was a sophomore in high school,
I learned that one of my close friends
was bulimic. She told me that the purg-
ing was a release, an emptying of thepart of herself that she hated the most.
The feeling that followed her self-in-
duced purging was a moment of relief
from the constant pain she felt when she
looked in mirrors or put any food in her
mouth.
Once I knew about her problem, I
gured that I was strong enough to lis-
ten to her without feeling inuenced to
look at myself differently. I couldnt have
imagined the kind of inuence such self-destructive thoughts would have on me.
After spending so much time listening to
my friends dissatisfaction with her body,
I began ruminating about imperfectionsI
started to notice about my own body.
Mind you, at 56 and 125 pounds, I
was certainly a healthy size for someonemy age. However, this did very little to
disseminate the thoughts of What if
I were to lose 10 pounds? and What
would happen if I only ate half as much
as I do now? By my junior year, I was
attempting to limit my calorie intake to
500 calories a day (a quarter of the rec-
ommended daily calories for someone
with my BMI). The lethargy from be-
ing so nutritionally depleted, along with
the negative thoughts that constantly wracked my brain, left me perpetually
irritable and dismayed that my efforts
didnt appear to be paying off.
Even though my friends eating dis
order did exacerbate other pre-existing
medical conditions, she was able to re
ceive the help that she needed beforeshe caused any irreversible damage to
her body. Fortunately, I was also able to
stop before I found myself too far gone
down the paths of despair and disap
pointment caused by eating disorders
The process of exorcising my thought
of physical perfection was an undertak
ing that took roughly four years, but i
was expedited by a number of uplift
ing inuences, like loving friends and
the scriptures, and an understanding ofhealthy practices which led to a much
more positive outlook on how I viewed
myself and the rest of my life.
Last year, I was walking through
the Wilkinson Center when I noticed
a booth set up by Womens Services
and Resources for something called
N.E.D.A.W. Being somewhat familiar
with the sort of causes WSR champions
I decided to nd out what was going on (I
wont lie, I was also rather curious aboutwhat the mysterious acronym stood for)
Upon closer investigation, I found ou
that N.E.D.A.W. stood for National Eat
ing Disorder Awareness Week. Naturally
after my high school experience, I was
more than happy to receive the opportu
nity to write about N.E.D.A.W. this year
N.E.D.A.W. was established in 1986
to raise awareness about both eating
8 Womens Services and Resources
N.E.D.A.W.National Eating Disorders AwarenessWeekBy Genevieve BuschPhotos by Brooke Beecher
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disorders and healthy preventative mea-
sures that can be taken to help victims
recover from these life-threatening ill-nesses. Because eating disorders are dif-
cult to come forward and speak about,
the number of people with such illnesses
is much higher than many people real-
ize. In the United States, it is estimated
nine million victims suffer from eating
disorders. Further estimations show that
one in every 200 women suffer from an-
orexia, and that two in every 100 women
suffer from bulimia. Of the nine million
estimated cases in America, 10 to 15% ofthe victims are male. Eating disorders can
affect anyone indiscriminately. They can
develop regardless of gender, race, class,
nationality, and age.
Despite there only being one week each
year dedicated specically to the cause,
the ultimate mission of N.E.D.A.W. is to
effectively prevent both eating disorders
and body image issues while making the
general public aware of these illnesses
and providing better access to treatment
so that more victims can receive the help
they need without fear or shame. In ad-
dition, N.E.D.A.W. seeks to make known
that most eating disorders develop be-
cause of the pressures and physical ex-
pectations placed on both genders by the
engine of society.
In order to accomplish the admirable
goal of eradicating these illnesses, vol-
unteers, eating disorder specialists, social
workers, health care providers, and edu-
cators come together to raise awarenessin communities about eating disorders
through the distribution of literature on
the subject, as well as holding seminars
to explain the dangers that eating disor-
ders present and the importance of early
prevention of these illnesses. At our own
university, there will be both a panel dis-
cussion on helping friends with eating
disorders and a presentation on how me-
dia negatively impacts self-image.
Whats so great about N.E.D.A.W.is that virtually anyone can become in-
volved; even if you dont have any re-
search or professional experience behind
you, you can put up posters, distribute
pamphlets, or organize community
awareness activities like hosting a speaker
or putting together a N.E.D.A. walk.
Im incredibly grateful that the issues
I had with my self-image were overcome
before I damaged myself beyond repair.
Unfortunately, there are millions of peo-ple all over the world that suffer silently
from deadly illnesses that prey upon their
minds and waste away their bodies. In the
pursuit of perfection, men and women
are dying from a starvation of both body
and soul. In order to stop these very
real illnesses, it is up to every person to
spread awareness and hope. Its time to
talk about it.
I you or a riend are struggling
with an eating disorder, please
contact our ofce in 3326 WSC.
We are here to help.
Womens Services and Resources
Workshops orWomen
Help a Friend
At our Voices o Courage
workshops, you can learn how to
stand up or yoursel and those you
love, and how to stop abuse.
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LaNae Valentine
Office Manager
Brooke Beecher
Marriage & Family TherapInterns
Lauren BarnesCarly Larsen
Nutrition Counselor
Kimi Sycamore
Marketing & Public Relati
Nikki Mena
Katie Nelson
Event Coordinator
Bianca Martinez
Office SpecialistSarah Johnson
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Editors: WSR Staff
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2010 in the WSC Garden Cou
R e c e n t l y , I
listened to several
YouTube songs
performed by
Susan Boyle, a
contestant onthe 2009 Britains
Got Talent. In
particular, the
song I Dreamed
a Dream from
Les Misrables
struck a chord
with me. Unlike
Susan who nally got her opportunity toachieve her dream at the age of 47, mine came
in my early 30s. Like Susan, it was friends
who encouraged me to pursue my dreamtoattend university, to become a teacher. Going
to university began as a back-up plan. Marriedand with three small children, I was a busy stay-at-home mom, who also did the bookkeepingfor my husbands auto body shop. When
stable employment for my husband began to
be problematic, I started working full time as a
secretary to help support our family.
An Ensign article, detailing the number of
women who, for a variety of reasons, would be
the sole breadwinners, gave me the nal pushI needed. In 1985 I enrolled in the Bachelor
of Education program at the University of Al-berta.
During my last semester at university, we
had our fourth child. The possibility that I
might have to support my family became a
reality when our youngest child was only six
months old. My husband was no longer able
to support our family, and the decision was
made that he would be the stay-at-home dadand I would work. Our role reversal did not
prevent me from serving in a variety of churchcallings, including Primary and Young Wom-ens President and Gospel Doctrine Teacher.
My rst year of teaching in a Junior/Se-nior High School was all the encouragement
I needed to apply to teach at the college level!
Over the next 20 years, teaching in the Of-ce Administration program at Olds Collegeand then at Red Deer College offered several
opportunities for me to pursue my entrepre-neurial interests by developing innovative
programs.
While working on my Masters in Educa-tion in 2002, I began researching the emerg-ing profession of Virtual Assistants. A Virtual
Assistant (typically abbreviated to VA) is an
entrepreneur who provides professional ad-
ministrative, technical, or creative assistance toclients from a home ofce. Inspired by the VAcommunity, I had a new dream. My dream was
to create a college level VA training program
in Canada. I spent months surveying VAs, ll-ing out government paperwork, and nding anexperienced VA to help develop courses.
Hard work and determination paid off in
2003 with the launch of the Virtual Assistant
Certicate Program at Red Deer College. TheVA Certicate, taught entirely online, becamethe rst government accredited VA training
program in Canada. My VA students are pre-dominantly women who want to work from
home so that they can have a exible workschedule and be more available for their fami-lies.
During this time our marriage ended after
22 years, and I became a single parent. Five
years ago I remarried. In the pursuit of my
lifes dreams, time and time again I have been
reminded that I needed to remain focused and
committed in spite of the challenges that came
my way.
This academic year I am completing a sab-batical leave at Brigham Young University-Provo in the Marriott School of Management
with a focus on womens entrepreneurship. I
have had numerous opportunities to connect
with successful men and women entrepreneurs
and to assist students in developing their own
business ideas through the Home Based Busi-ness Plan Competition. The things I miss the
most during this leave are my children and two
(soon to be three) grandchildren and teaching
my online classes.I plan on teaching for many more years and
pursuing my own entrepreneurial ventures,
preferably somewhere with warmer winters
than those in Western Canada! I would also
like a more exible work schedule so that I canspend more time with my family.
I am currently serving as a Relief Society
Teacher and a Temple Worker in Provo.
omen and CareersW By Bev McCrostie