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    iaEmotional

    Health

    Physical

    Beauty

    Abuse

    Prevention

    Healthy

    Relationships

    Self

    Reliance

    In this Issue:

    Occupation: Homemaker 1

    Janelle Webster

    Living Against the Grain 3

    Kate Call

    Kimis Nutrition Tips 4

    Kimi Sycamore

    Beating the Blues 6

    Anna Packard

    N.E.D.A.W. 8

    Genevieve Busch

    Women and Careers 10

    Bev McCrostie

    Check out our blog at

    byuwsr.blogspot.com

    Occupation: HomemakerThe experiences I had while at BYU have enriched mymarriage, my church and community service, and my home.

    BYU Womens Services and Resources, located in 3326 WSC,

    is an organization aimed at helping women recognize their

    sel-worth and ull potential. We oer counseling,

    workshops, lecture series, and seminars about current

    womens issues. We invite you to be active and to get involved.

    Our ofce is open Monday through Friday 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

    After a few years of blankly staring

    at the box marked OCCUPATION

    on IRS forms, bank forms, or birth

    certicates, I nally feel comfortable

    writing Homemaker on any form

    placed in front of me.

    I found it perplexing to try and

    nd a suitable one-word description

    to write on a line when I had so many

    interests and opportunities ghting for

    my attention. After graduating from

    the Marriott School of Management

    I worked as a bonds broker. Then I

    became a math tutor and managed

    a chain of tutoring centers. Just

    prior to starting my family I was a

    Mad Scientist and gave science

    demonstration assemblies all over the

    San Francisco Bay Area. I was and

    continue to be co-owner of a successfu

    electrical sign company with my

    husband Alex. Six years ago, my love

    for real estate investment prompted me

    to pursue a Real Estate Brokers license

    After two years of marriage I became a

    full time mother. What one word could

    capture in a meaningful way all of the

    skills Ive gleaned from these great

    experiences? In the small moments of

    introspection I had while mulling over

    what to write on the OCCUPATION

    line on those hosts of forms, I often

    found myself pondering, Who am I?

    What will I become?

    I discovered that there was one

    Womens Services and Resources

    19 February 2010 Vol. 1 No. 6

    Occupation: Homemaker Cont. on pg. 2

    WomenInspiringWomen

    By Janelle Webster

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    place where all of my talents and roles

    ourished: at home. Being a homemaker

    has challenged and improved all of the

    skills I acquired in my educational and

    vocational years and encouraged evenmore. With the help of my Finance degree

    from the Marriott School of Management,

    I have budgeted and invested my family

    into a measure of nancial freedom. I

    have found unlimited uses for my science

    performance and teaching skills at home,

    at church and at my daughters schools. I

    have been able save my family considerable

    amounts of money by representing myself

    in real estate transactions. But it is my

    management skills that have proved most valuable, as they have made me a better

    communicator, organizer, peacekeeper and

    nurturer in my home.

    I have also developed talents I never

    knew existed while at home like writing,

    home decoration, home renovation, and

    patience. I am currently an administrator

    for the member missionary website

    mormonwoman.org. Many of my

    management, marketing and presentation

    skills have been helpful to the developmentof the site. Without the support of my

    husband and my full-hearted acceptance

    of the role of homemaker, I would never

    have had the time to devote my heart to

    such a spiritually satisfying project.

    I feel compelled to note that I didnt

    come to full time homemaking naturally.

    During my rst years home I found myself

    spending a lot of time on the computer

    creating home based businesses like

    an eBay store selling antique glassware

    and hosting furniture estate sales via

    craigslist. The extra money was nice, but

    I knew we were already living within our

    means. It wasnt until I found my toddlerdismantling my laptop and deliberately

    hiding the keys that I got the clue that my

    priorities were mismanaged. I stopped

    hosting my Internet businesses and

    started hosting pre-school and singing

    time for my toddler instead.

    There were other aspects of

    homemaking that did not come naturally.

    For a while I indulged these weaknesses

    and told myself, So Im not a gourmet

    cook and my house isnt always perfectlyclean. No biggie. Years later, instigated

    by a friends critical comment on my

    homemaking skills, I decided to pour

    myself into creating a better home

    environment. I learned to follow a

    housekeeping schedule I found on the

    Internet and I asked my friends to teach

    me how to cook. There was a great deal

    more peace in our home after making

    these improvements, but I also felt smart!

    I found that I could learn new things,even if I didnt have a natural inclination

    toward them.

    There are many more aspects of

    homemaking I need to master, but these

    precious experiences in the rst years of

    my marriage taught me a lot about lifelong

    learning at home. I no longer think of the

    words ambitious and homemaker

    as antonyms. I feel ambitious every time

    I work on my food storage project. I

    feel ambitious every time we choose

    bring another child into our family. I f

    ambitious every time I write somethi

    that my testimony is seared upon for t

    member missionary site I volunteer for.

    I graduated from BYU in 1998 but m

    education didnt stop there. I have be

    learning and implementing new skills eve

    day since I left the Marriott Center wearia blue cap and gown. I never felt that m

    degree was something to fall back on j

    in case. Instead, the experiences I h

    while at BYU have enriched my marria

    my church and community service and m

    home.

    I never felt that my degree w

    something to fall back on just in cas

    Instead, the experiences I had while at BY

    have enriched my marriage, my church a

    community service and my home.

    There is one experience I mark as m

    most successful moment to date. At

    Salt Lake Temple Visitors Center th

    is a wall covered in murals that highlig

    signicant events in the life of Jesus Chr

    While visiting the Temple with my childre

    I was able to walk that wall with my old

    daughter Elizabeth, who was six at t

    time. Elizabeth stopped at each picture arelated the events of the Saviors life to

    from memory. At the end of the long l

    of murals, Elizabeth looked up at me a

    asked, Why are you crying mom? T

    overwhelmed to respond, I hugged h

    with all the energy of my being and w

    gratied by the feeling that motherho

    and homemaking were the best car

    choices I ever made.

    2 Womens Services and Resources

    Occupation: Homemaker Cont. from pg. 1

    Without the support o

    my husband and my ful

    hearted acceptance o

    the role of homemaker

    I would never have had

    the time to devote my

    heart to such a spirituall

    satisfying project.

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    Do you know someone who eats a gluten

    free diet? If not, chances are you will in the

    future. Eating gluten free has become not

    only the newest health diet but the only

    way 1 percent of our population can live,

    that is 1 out of 133 people or about 330

    students on campus.

    What is gluten and why do people have to

    live without it? Gluten is a protein found

    in wheat, barley, and rye. This protein is a

    binding agent that causes our to become

    sticky when wet.

    So whats the big deal about gluten?For those

    suffering from the autoimmune disease, ce-

    liac, it makes all the difference in the world.

    When a person has celiac disease, gluten

    in food triggers an immune response and

    their body begins to attack itself, damaging

    the small intestine and causing an inability

    to absorb nutrients from food. Essentially,

    they are starving while eating.

    You can imagine the sort of problems

    that can be caused by such a disease. Symp-

    toms range from chronic diarrhea and con-

    stipation to migraines or even infertility.

    Not to mention feeling ill every time you

    eat. Luckily, when a person suffering from

    celiac disease or gluten intolerance cuts glu-

    ten completely out of their diet, the body

    heals and symptoms, most often complete-

    ly go away.

    How do I deal with this diagnosis? As a

    woman living gluten free, I understand

    the frustration, embarrassment, and even

    anger that a person feels when they rst

    learn they have to change their lifestyle

    permanently. You go through a period of

    mourning and want to cry just thinking

    about going grocery shopping. You worry

    about what you cant eat and everything

    feels extremely overwhelming. Not to

    mention that food is a part of every social

    event, date, and activity you attend. This

    alone is enough to make someone want to

    turn and run. There is hope and you are

    not alone. Here are a few simple steps that

    will help you get on the right path.

    Five Guys Burgers and Fries: Letthem know you cant have wheat

    and ask them to change theirgloves. Their ry vats are only usedor rench ries and the seasoningsalt is McCormick. (Allergy note:they use peanut oil and have pea-

    nuts available or snacking).

    Biaggis Italian Ristorante at the

    Gateway: They have a huge GFmenu including pastas, pizza, sal-ads and desserts. Its a great place

    to go or a nice date or meal.

    Zupas Soups and Salads: Ask ortheir allergy inormation. Nuts

    about Berries and the MangoSalad are GF and so is the tomatosoup. Make sure to tell them you

    dont want noodles added and thatyou dont want the bread.

    PF Changs Chinese Restaurant

    at University Mall: They have aGF menu and a good GF dessert.A waiter told me that GF ood isbrought out on the round plateswith PF Changs printed on the

    edge o the plate. Dont eat it i itcomes out on another plate. Wait

    until you can talk with your waiter.

    Womens Services and Resources

    LIVING AGAINST

    THE GRAINYou just found out you have Celiac Disease: Dont worry.There is hope and you are not alone

    4 Tips to help you dealwith Celiac Disease:

    1. Write down all of the foods you can

    eat. Include fruits, vegetables, meats,

    cheeses, milk products. Be specic. Itis good to see all the individual foods

    you enjoy that are gluten free.

    2. Research, research, research! There

    are many good resources, forums,

    blogs, and web pages with recipes,

    product reviews, and support groups.Celiac.com and celiac.org are two

    great resources to start with.

    3. Start out simple. Dont go to the

    store and buy a ton of gluten free

    mixes and breads without researching

    them. Processed gluten free foods are

    more expensive and sometimes are

    not very tasty. Start out by purchasing

    things you are used to that are gluten

    free.

    4. Contact the local GIG aka GlutenIntolerance Group. They will be hap-py to help you adjust to your new life-style and will offer support and ideas.

    Need to talk about eating glutenree? Appointments and classes areavailable in the Womens Services

    & Resources ofce 3326 WSC.

    Local Restaurants with

    Gluten-ree Options

    By Kate Call

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    Tips for debunking unhealthy myths By Kimi SycamorePhoto by Brooke Beecher

    Nutrition

    Microwaves zap all

    the nutrients outof vegetables.

    MYth #1

    Sugar causesdiabetes

    MYth #2All fats are bad

    MYth #3

    Microwaving is one of the easiest

    ways to prepare vegetables. Whenever

    we cook vegetables there will always be

    some loss of water soluble nutrients, like

    B vitamins and vitamin C, because these

    nutrients are sensitive to heat. However,you can still get nutrients by cooking

    them in as little water as possible and for

    as short of time possible. Many nutrients

    dissolve in water and then drain out,

    which is why steaming is the best way

    to cook vegetables because they dont

    come in direct contact with water; but

    microwaving is still a great way to cook

    vegetables.

    Diabeticsdo need to watch their sugar

    and carbohydrate intake to properly

    manage blood sugar levels. However, if

    you do not have diabetes, sugar intake

    will not cause you to develop the disease.

    Sedentary lifestyle, overweight, andconsumption of high calorie foods are

    the main risk factors for Type 2 diabetes.

    Fats: we all need them. Fats help us

    absorb nutrients, and they make up 50%

    of our cell membranes. However, when

    consumed in excessive amounts, fats

    contribute to weight gain, heart disease

    and certain types of cancers. The key is to replace the bad fat

    (saturated and trans fats) with the good fats

    (monounsaturated and polyunsaturated

    fats). The good fats help promote good

    health and are necessary in our diet, in

    small amounts.

    Monounsaturared Fat

    Canola oil

    Nuts

    Avocados

    Polyunsaturated Fats

    Seafood like salmon and tuna

    Corn Oil

    Soybean Oil

    Kimis

    What kind of fats should I

    be eating?

    Fruit

    Apple slices with peanut butter

    Oranges

    Fruit smoothies made with plain yogurt

    Pineapple with low-fat cottage cheese

    Other Ideas

    Hummus with a wheat pita

    Baby carrots

    Air popped popcorn

    Almonds

    Pretzels

    String Cheese

    What are some safe,

    not-too-sweet snacks?

    What are some tasty

    microwaved veggies?

    Greens

    Broccoli

    Green beans

    Soy beans

    Other Vegetables

    Sweet potato

    Cauliower

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    Skipping meals is a greatway to lose weight.

    MYth #4Red meat is bad foryour health

    MYth #5

    You shouldnt eatlate at night

    MYth #6

    Many people thinkthat by skipping

    a meal and eating less food they will lose

    weight. This isnt true! People who think

    skipping meals means weight loss do

    not understand how our bodies work.

    If you skip a meal, your body will thinkthat you are in starvation mode and will

    therefore overcompensate by slowing

    down your metabolism. Usually you end

    up overeating at the next meal. A better

    approach is to eat smaller, healhty meals

    more frequently with snacks in between

    to keep you going.

    It is true that somestudies have linked

    red meat with increased risk of heart

    disease, partly due to the saturated fat

    content. It is true that poultry, like chicken

    and turkey, is naturally lower in saturated

    fats (but that is only true if you do not eatthe skin). It is a nutrition myth, however,

    that red meat is altogether bad for your

    health. Instead of excluding red meats,

    choose leaner cuts of beef and pork.

    You can also compare the marbling on

    different cuts of meat to tell which ones

    are leaner. Or read the sticker in the corner

    of the package and it will tell you the fat

    content.

    It really doesnt matterif you eat late

    at night. Your metabolism doesnt stop

    when the sun goes down. Its not eating

    late that is bad. Its the food that we often

    eat late at night that isnt so healthy.

    Also, if were up extremely late at night we become hungry, and snacking add

    extra calories into our diet that we wouldnt

    have eaten if we had been sleeping.

    Itsnoteatinglatethat

    isbad.Itsthefoodthat

    weofteneatlateatnight

    thatisntsohealthy.

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    very February I begin my bud watch. As I walk by trees on

    mpus I look hopefully at their branches for any growing buds.

    atching those buds grow and eventually burst into beautiful

    ossoms makes me smile as I know spring has arrived! But

    s February and still dark and cold outside. More often than not,

    ose branches are covered in snow and ice. I dont blame those

    tle buds for their reluctance to make an appearance!

    or many, February can be a difcult month. At this point, winter

    as been present for three months and many people nd them-

    lves weary of dark, cold evenings. February boosts our mood a

    tle with the red and pink construction-papered-hearts of Valen-

    nes Day. But overall, this holiday does little to alleviate the the

    ues of winter that still persist.

    his time of year leaves many women particularly vulnerable to

    elings of sadness, loss of interest in life, lack of motivation, ir-

    ability, fatigue, and feelings of insecurity and self-doubt. In other

    ords, many women experience some depressive symptoms that

    e not sufcient (either in number or severity) to warrant a diag-

    osis of major depression. However, this Congratulations, youre

    ot depressed does little to alleviate these blue feelings. So when

    ced with the Blues, what can one do to overcome them? Here are

    me simple but powerful strategies to combat the Blues.

    1. Get out and be social

    Isolation is the compulsion when feeling the Blues. Making an

    effort to get out and talk to others can feel like such a chore.

    However, the best way to combat those negative feelings is to

    do exactly what they tell you NOT to do. That is, go out and

    connect with friends and loved-ones. Over time this will feel

    less effortful and youll nd yourself engaged in meaningful

    relationships.

    2. Share your feelings with someone you trust

    In this blue place, it is common to try to avoid negative emotions

    and you may even feel associated shame and embarrassment. Try

    reaching out and sharing your experience with someone you trust

    and who will validate your feelings.

    3. Exercise frequently

    Yes, its dark and freezing outside! Who would want to exe

    under those conditions? But exercise is one of the best nat

    anti-depressants. Test it out! Rate your mood on a scale of

    before you work out, and again immediately after. You mig

    surprised at how effective exercise is.

    4. Find something to look forward to and thamakes you excited

    It can be as simple and cost-effective as a spring hiking trip

    Zion with your best friends! Often when people feel the Bl

    its hard to feel excited about anything. Something positive

    can anticipate will help pull you through those low momen

    This should be something realistic, specic and attainable.

    5. Set a non-academic goal and worktoward it

    A goal keeps you going despite unmotivated moments. Thigoal should be positive and have an end date. Avoid vague,

    unrealistic, and unhealthy goals. Some good goals might

    B

    EATING theBLUES

    Womens Services and Resources

    By Anna Packard, Psychology Intern

    Photos by Brooke Beecher

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    include training for something youve never tried before. For

    example, this year I plan on participating in BYUs Splash and

    Dash Biathalon. This goal motivates me to get in the pool in

    February! Other goals may include reading a chapter nightly

    from a non-academic book or nishing your scrapbook of

    freshman year. This is a great opportunity to be creative!

    6. Monitor and challenge negative thoughtsNegative thoughts are frequently associated with and exacer-

    bate a low mood. Many times we are not consciously aware of

    when we are speaking critically to ourselves. Find a piece of

    paper and begin to monitor your thoughts. What negative

    judgments and accusations are you making about yourself?

    Then, once you get these thoughts on paper, challenge their

    validity. Ask yourself questions such as, Am I really a failure

    because I got a D on that homework assignment? Why is

    that homework assignment dening who I am? What other

    evidence am I ignoring that says Im NOT a failure? So

    I didnt have a date last weekend. Does that really mean Ill

    never get married and be a total failure at love? Why am I us-

    ing one weekend to predict my future?

    7. Find a balance.It can be easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of school,

    work, and social expectations and nd yourself lost in the

    process. You may nd yourself vacillating between feeling

    overwhelmed and completely checked out. Take time to rec

    nect with yourself and seek to nd balance. Recognize that

    you dont need to do everything perfectly and perhaps the b

    thing you can do is to do some things imperfectly! Practice

    saying NO when you have too much on your plate and seek

    help when you need it. Give yourself permission to pampe

    yourself! You are worth it!

    The good news is that the majority of the Blues resolve an

    women nd they reconnect with their excitement for life. The

    strategies can help toward that end. Test them out and hopefu

    you will see the color returning in your life. And soon the wor

    will be lled with all the colors of spring as those little buds

    ly emerge and blossom! If you notice your mood doesnt impr

    or worsens, counseling services available at the BYU Counseli

    and Career Center is also a good therapeutic option.

    Womens Services and Resource

    Manytimesweareno

    t

    consciouslyawareof

    whenwearespeaking

    criticallytoourselves.

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    When I was a sophomore in high school,

    I learned that one of my close friends

    was bulimic. She told me that the purg-

    ing was a release, an emptying of thepart of herself that she hated the most.

    The feeling that followed her self-in-

    duced purging was a moment of relief

    from the constant pain she felt when she

    looked in mirrors or put any food in her

    mouth.

    Once I knew about her problem, I

    gured that I was strong enough to lis-

    ten to her without feeling inuenced to

    look at myself differently. I couldnt have

    imagined the kind of inuence such self-destructive thoughts would have on me.

    After spending so much time listening to

    my friends dissatisfaction with her body,

    I began ruminating about imperfectionsI

    started to notice about my own body.

    Mind you, at 56 and 125 pounds, I

    was certainly a healthy size for someonemy age. However, this did very little to

    disseminate the thoughts of What if

    I were to lose 10 pounds? and What

    would happen if I only ate half as much

    as I do now? By my junior year, I was

    attempting to limit my calorie intake to

    500 calories a day (a quarter of the rec-

    ommended daily calories for someone

    with my BMI). The lethargy from be-

    ing so nutritionally depleted, along with

    the negative thoughts that constantly wracked my brain, left me perpetually

    irritable and dismayed that my efforts

    didnt appear to be paying off.

    Even though my friends eating dis

    order did exacerbate other pre-existing

    medical conditions, she was able to re

    ceive the help that she needed beforeshe caused any irreversible damage to

    her body. Fortunately, I was also able to

    stop before I found myself too far gone

    down the paths of despair and disap

    pointment caused by eating disorders

    The process of exorcising my thought

    of physical perfection was an undertak

    ing that took roughly four years, but i

    was expedited by a number of uplift

    ing inuences, like loving friends and

    the scriptures, and an understanding ofhealthy practices which led to a much

    more positive outlook on how I viewed

    myself and the rest of my life.

    Last year, I was walking through

    the Wilkinson Center when I noticed

    a booth set up by Womens Services

    and Resources for something called

    N.E.D.A.W. Being somewhat familiar

    with the sort of causes WSR champions

    I decided to nd out what was going on (I

    wont lie, I was also rather curious aboutwhat the mysterious acronym stood for)

    Upon closer investigation, I found ou

    that N.E.D.A.W. stood for National Eat

    ing Disorder Awareness Week. Naturally

    after my high school experience, I was

    more than happy to receive the opportu

    nity to write about N.E.D.A.W. this year

    N.E.D.A.W. was established in 1986

    to raise awareness about both eating

    8 Womens Services and Resources

    N.E.D.A.W.National Eating Disorders AwarenessWeekBy Genevieve BuschPhotos by Brooke Beecher

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    disorders and healthy preventative mea-

    sures that can be taken to help victims

    recover from these life-threatening ill-nesses. Because eating disorders are dif-

    cult to come forward and speak about,

    the number of people with such illnesses

    is much higher than many people real-

    ize. In the United States, it is estimated

    nine million victims suffer from eating

    disorders. Further estimations show that

    one in every 200 women suffer from an-

    orexia, and that two in every 100 women

    suffer from bulimia. Of the nine million

    estimated cases in America, 10 to 15% ofthe victims are male. Eating disorders can

    affect anyone indiscriminately. They can

    develop regardless of gender, race, class,

    nationality, and age.

    Despite there only being one week each

    year dedicated specically to the cause,

    the ultimate mission of N.E.D.A.W. is to

    effectively prevent both eating disorders

    and body image issues while making the

    general public aware of these illnesses

    and providing better access to treatment

    so that more victims can receive the help

    they need without fear or shame. In ad-

    dition, N.E.D.A.W. seeks to make known

    that most eating disorders develop be-

    cause of the pressures and physical ex-

    pectations placed on both genders by the

    engine of society.

    In order to accomplish the admirable

    goal of eradicating these illnesses, vol-

    unteers, eating disorder specialists, social

    workers, health care providers, and edu-

    cators come together to raise awarenessin communities about eating disorders

    through the distribution of literature on

    the subject, as well as holding seminars

    to explain the dangers that eating disor-

    ders present and the importance of early

    prevention of these illnesses. At our own

    university, there will be both a panel dis-

    cussion on helping friends with eating

    disorders and a presentation on how me-

    dia negatively impacts self-image.

    Whats so great about N.E.D.A.W.is that virtually anyone can become in-

    volved; even if you dont have any re-

    search or professional experience behind

    you, you can put up posters, distribute

    pamphlets, or organize community

    awareness activities like hosting a speaker

    or putting together a N.E.D.A. walk.

    Im incredibly grateful that the issues

    I had with my self-image were overcome

    before I damaged myself beyond repair.

    Unfortunately, there are millions of peo-ple all over the world that suffer silently

    from deadly illnesses that prey upon their

    minds and waste away their bodies. In the

    pursuit of perfection, men and women

    are dying from a starvation of both body

    and soul. In order to stop these very

    real illnesses, it is up to every person to

    spread awareness and hope. Its time to

    talk about it.

    I you or a riend are struggling

    with an eating disorder, please

    contact our ofce in 3326 WSC.

    We are here to help.

    Womens Services and Resources

    Workshops orWomen

    Help a Friend

    At our Voices o Courage

    workshops, you can learn how to

    stand up or yoursel and those you

    love, and how to stop abuse.

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    Director

    LaNae Valentine

    Office Manager

    Brooke Beecher

    Marriage & Family TherapInterns

    Lauren BarnesCarly Larsen

    Nutrition Counselor

    Kimi Sycamore

    Marketing & Public Relati

    Nikki Mena

    Katie Nelson

    Event Coordinator

    Bianca Martinez

    Office SpecialistSarah Johnson

    This newsletter is published month

    during the regular academic year.

    Designer: Katie Nelson

    Editors: WSR Staff

    Photographers: Kacey Shaker,

    Brooke Beecher

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    Education Panelor WomenWant to learn about all the di

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    your education? Come to our

    panel discussion on February 2

    2010 in the WSC Garden Cou

    R e c e n t l y , I

    listened to several

    YouTube songs

    performed by

    Susan Boyle, a

    contestant onthe 2009 Britains

    Got Talent. In

    particular, the

    song I Dreamed

    a Dream from

    Les Misrables

    struck a chord

    with me. Unlike

    Susan who nally got her opportunity toachieve her dream at the age of 47, mine came

    in my early 30s. Like Susan, it was friends

    who encouraged me to pursue my dreamtoattend university, to become a teacher. Going

    to university began as a back-up plan. Marriedand with three small children, I was a busy stay-at-home mom, who also did the bookkeepingfor my husbands auto body shop. When

    stable employment for my husband began to

    be problematic, I started working full time as a

    secretary to help support our family.

    An Ensign article, detailing the number of

    women who, for a variety of reasons, would be

    the sole breadwinners, gave me the nal pushI needed. In 1985 I enrolled in the Bachelor

    of Education program at the University of Al-berta.

    During my last semester at university, we

    had our fourth child. The possibility that I

    might have to support my family became a

    reality when our youngest child was only six

    months old. My husband was no longer able

    to support our family, and the decision was

    made that he would be the stay-at-home dadand I would work. Our role reversal did not

    prevent me from serving in a variety of churchcallings, including Primary and Young Wom-ens President and Gospel Doctrine Teacher.

    My rst year of teaching in a Junior/Se-nior High School was all the encouragement

    I needed to apply to teach at the college level!

    Over the next 20 years, teaching in the Of-ce Administration program at Olds Collegeand then at Red Deer College offered several

    opportunities for me to pursue my entrepre-neurial interests by developing innovative

    programs.

    While working on my Masters in Educa-tion in 2002, I began researching the emerg-ing profession of Virtual Assistants. A Virtual

    Assistant (typically abbreviated to VA) is an

    entrepreneur who provides professional ad-

    ministrative, technical, or creative assistance toclients from a home ofce. Inspired by the VAcommunity, I had a new dream. My dream was

    to create a college level VA training program

    in Canada. I spent months surveying VAs, ll-ing out government paperwork, and nding anexperienced VA to help develop courses.

    Hard work and determination paid off in

    2003 with the launch of the Virtual Assistant

    Certicate Program at Red Deer College. TheVA Certicate, taught entirely online, becamethe rst government accredited VA training

    program in Canada. My VA students are pre-dominantly women who want to work from

    home so that they can have a exible workschedule and be more available for their fami-lies.

    During this time our marriage ended after

    22 years, and I became a single parent. Five

    years ago I remarried. In the pursuit of my

    lifes dreams, time and time again I have been

    reminded that I needed to remain focused and

    committed in spite of the challenges that came

    my way.

    This academic year I am completing a sab-batical leave at Brigham Young University-Provo in the Marriott School of Management

    with a focus on womens entrepreneurship. I

    have had numerous opportunities to connect

    with successful men and women entrepreneurs

    and to assist students in developing their own

    business ideas through the Home Based Busi-ness Plan Competition. The things I miss the

    most during this leave are my children and two

    (soon to be three) grandchildren and teaching

    my online classes.I plan on teaching for many more years and

    pursuing my own entrepreneurial ventures,

    preferably somewhere with warmer winters

    than those in Western Canada! I would also

    like a more exible work schedule so that I canspend more time with my family.

    I am currently serving as a Relief Society

    Teacher and a Temple Worker in Provo.

    omen and CareersW By Bev McCrostie