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INTERVIEWHarriet Lerner 1

IN THE SPIRIT OF THERAPYInterview with Michele Weiner-Davis, M.S.W. 4

THE POWER OF TWOEllyn Bader, Ph.D. & Peter Pearson, Ph.D. 6

CASE REPORTWhat If We Stopped Fighting Nicotine Addiction? 8

REMEMBERING ERICKSONUp the Mountain 9

CONTRIBUTOR OF NOTEAlexander Vesely 10

IN MEMORIAMThomas Szasz 11

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The 2013 Couples Conference is Around the Corner

The Foundation plans months even years ahead for conferences and the Cou-ples Conference 2013 is no exception. Held April 18-21, 2013 in Manhattan Beach,California, the Couples Conference will most likely be another sold-out event.

Every year, we hear from therapists worldwide about how the Couples Con-ference has impacted their lives and made them better marriage and family thera-pists. As Ellyn Bader says eloquently, “Every couples therapist faces challengeswhen individual personality issues collide with the couples systemic and devel-opmental patterns. The 2013 conference is designed to address working with issuessuch as addiction, infidelity, narcissism, and deception in the couples context.”

The Couples Conference 2013 stellar faculty includes: Ellyn Bader, Ph.D.,Lonnie Barback Ph.D., Stephanie Brown, Ph.D., Paul Ekman Ph.D., Marty Klein,Ph.D., Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. Bill O’Hanlon, MS, Stephen W. Porges, Ph.D., TerryReal, Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D. and Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW.

Paul Ekman, who was the feature interview in the last edition of the Newslet-ter, is known for developing the Facial Action Coding System (FACS), which iden-

Harriet LernerInterviewed by Ellyn Bader

Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of ournation’s most respected voices on thepsychology of women and the processof change in marriage and families.For more than three decades she was astaff psychologist at The MenningerClinic in Topeka, Kansas and a facultymember and supervisor at the KarlMenninger School of Psychiatry. Cur-rently in private practice in Lawrence,Kansas, Lerner is the author of numer-ous scholarly articles and 11 books, in-cluding The New York Times bestseller,The Dance of Anger, and, most re-cently, Marriage Rules: A Manual forthe Married and The Coupled Up. Sheis also, with her sister, an award-win-ning children’s book author, and shehosts a blog for Psychology Today andThe Huffington Post. Through the clar-ity of her writing, clinical work, andengaging public appearances, Lernerhelps people worldwide to navigate theswamps and quicksand of their most

difficult relationships.Ellyn Bader: Why don’t we start

with your personal history so ourreaders can get to know you a bit. Harriet Lerner:Well, I was born

and raised in Brooklyn, the younger oftwo daughters. My grandparents onboth sides were Russian Jewish immi-

grants. My parents didn’t have the op-portunity to go to college, so “achieve-ment was next to Godliness,” as far asmy big sister Susan and I were con-cerned. I knew we’d get Ph.Ds. theway other kids knew they’d go to ele-mentary school. My father talked about“my daughters the doctors” while wewere still in our strollers. EB: Was that a lot of pressure for

you?HL: Back then, boys were sup-

posed to “be someone” and girls weresupposed to “find someone,” so I thinkit was good that our parents pushedagainst the cultural tide. And althoughwe were very poor, we had great thingsto do. Susan and I were raised in theBrooklyn Public Library, the BrooklynMuseum, and the Brooklyn BotanicalGardens. These places were free andjust a subway token away. EB: How did you decide to be-

come a psychologist?HL: I know this sounds bizarre, but

I decided to become a clinical psy-chologist before I entered kindergarten,and I never veered from this goal.Maybe it had something to do with the

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Executive Editor: Richard Landis, Ph.D.

Review Editors: C. Alexander Simpkins, Ph.D., Annellen Simpkins, Ph.D.

Institutes: Marilia Baker, M.S.W., Cecilia Fabre, M.A.

Guest Editors: Betty Alice Erickson, M.S., LPC, LMFTEric Greenleaf, Ph.D. (Case Reviews)

Power of Two: Roxanna Erickson Klein, R.N., Ph.D.

In the Spirit of Therapy Editor: John Lentz, D.Min.

Guest Reviewers: Steve Andreas, M.A.; Michael Hoyt, Ph.D.; Roxanna Erickson Klein, RN, LCDC, Ph.D.;

Maria Escalante de Smith, M.A.; John D. Lentz, D.Min.

Contributing Editor/Writer: Marnie McGann

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EDITOR’S COMMENTSI especially enjoy the Winter/

Spring edition of the Newsletter sinceit overlaps two of my favorite confer-ences: the Brief Therapy and Couplesconferences. Over the years, in re-viewing the presentations of both con-ferences, it occurred to me that theircommon theme was how to make con-nections: within one’s self, between in-dividuals, with the community at large.There is a natural desire to connectwith something greater than the self.Therefore, this issue’s articles and re-views weave back and forth, overlap-ping the themes of both brief andcouples therapy.

In our last issue, we featured PaulEkman as our representative of bothconferences. This issue, Ellyn Baderinterviews Harriet Lerner as our am-bassador since Bader and Lerner willalso be presenting at both conferences.Bader and Lerner, as well as MicheleWeiner-Davis, interviewed in JohnLentz’s In the Spirit of Therapy col-umn, act as our connection betweenthese two great conferences.

The theme of connection at multi-ple levels is elegantly presented inMarilia Baker’s The Power of Two col-umn where she interviews Ellyn Baderand Peter Pearson. Teresa Garcia-Sanchez demonstrates the use of theclassic Ericksonian approach by facil-itating a patient to connect with his in-ternal resources as she connects withhim in her brilliant Case Report, WhatIf We Stopped Fighting Nicotine Ad-diction?

Up the Mountain is Roxanna Er-ickson Klein’s modern odyssey in find-ing and connecting with her Ericksonroots. She continues this odyssey in herContributor of Note section with an in-terview with filmmaker AlexanderVesely, documentarian for “Wizard ofthe Desert,” a film about the life andwork of Dr. Erickson. John Lenz fur-ther carries this theme with his enthu-siastic review of John Gottman’s, TheScience of Trust: Emotional Attune-ment for Couples. These types of inter-personal connections are demonstratedin Gabor Filo’s Rapid Hypnotic Induc-tions: Demonstrations and Applica-tions, reviewed by Roxanna EricksonKlein.

Our prolific Review Editors,Alexander and Annellen Simpkins

offer us a handful of book reviewswhich include their own unique focuson the theme of connection. Their re-view of Alexander Vesely’s featurefilm, Viktor and I, about his grandfa-ther, Viktor Frankl, touches on thetheme of family connection. HarrietLerner’s Marriage Rules is a classicconnection manual for couples. Hillaryand Bradford Keeney’s book, CircularTherapeutics: Giving Therapy a Heal-ing Heart, moves beyond techniqueand presents a non-model approach totherapy where the therapist becomestherapy through connection. As a seguebetween inter- and inner-connection,the Simpkins review Mary Beth Wedeland Robert Wicks’ Primer on Post-traumatic Growth. As a capstone totheir reviews, the development ofinner-connections is presented in vol-ume two of Kathryn Rossi’s edition ofSelected Papers of Ernest LawrenceRossi: An Introduction and Guide andCreating Consciousness: How Thera-pists Can Facilitate Wonder, Wisdom,Truth and Beauty. This is a beautifulfusion of Rossi’s vision and genius.

We again welcome Steve Andreasto our review family with his book re-view of Daniel Kahneman’s ThinkingFast and Slow, which was mentionedin the last issue. This is an excellentbook about how we can connect withthe outside world. Michael Hoyt re-views Steve Andreas’ book, Trans-forming Negative Self-Talk: Practical,Effective Exercises, which focuses onhow we can connect more effectivelywith our internal world. Hoyt then re-views Solution Focused Brief Therapy:

100 Key Points and Techniques, byHarvey Ratner, Evan George, andChris Iveson. This puts a Europeanspin on Solution-focused Brief Ther-apy.

The theme of expanded intercon-nections is carried forth by John Lentzas he reviews Innovations in NLP ForChallenging Times Vol. 1, edited by L.Michael Hall and Shelle Rose Charvet.This book is far more than its title sug-gests. The theme of multilevel connec-tions is continued in Maria Escalantede Smith’s concise review of Adven-ture Therapy by Michael A. Gass, H.L. “Lee” Gilliss, and Keith C. Russell.

If you are reading this issue at theBrief Therapy Lasting Solutions Con-

ference, you will easily see why wechose “connections” as our theme. Thewonderful presentations and sharedwisdom at the conference offer con-nections that you may not have ex-pected. If you are not at theconference…(sigh)…you are missingan incredible experience. And, theCouple’s Conference, which is justaround the corner, is equally mar-velous.

We hope to connect with all of youthere.

Richard E. LandisOrange, California

Foundation Plans for Spanish Books on Dr. Erickson

In keeping with the times, the Foundation is working on offering Spanish Lan-guage Editions of three classics by Erickson/Rossi, which should be available sometime in 2013. The books were translated by Luis David Guzmán Moreno, M.D. andfeature original forewords by Ricardo Figueroa Quiroga, M. Sc.

The books are: Experiencing Hypnosis: Therapeutic Approaches to AlteredStates or EXPERIMENTANDO LA HIPNOSIS: Abordajes terapéuticos a los esta-dos alterados; also Hypnotic Realities or REALIDADES HIPNÓTICAS: La in-ducción de la Hipnosis Clíncia y formas de suggestión indirecta; andHypnotherapy: An Exploratory Casebook or HIPNOTERAPIA: Un libro de ex-ploración de casos.

For information, email office@erickson-foundation.org.

Marnie McGann

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Interview withMichele Weiner-Davis, M.S.W.by John D. Lentz, D.Min.

Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW, is aninternationally-renowned relationshiptherapist, bestselling author, and pro-fessional speaker. Among the first inher field to courageously speak outabout the pitfalls of unnecessary di-vorce, Weiner-Davis has been active inspearheading the now popular move-ment urging couples to make their mar-riages work and keep their familiestogether. She is the author of sevenbooks, including her bestselling DI-VORCE BUSTING, and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE.

She also is the recipient of severalprofessional awards for outstandingcontribution to the field of marriageand family therapy from the AmericanAssociation of Marital and FamilyTherapy, Smart Marriages, and Grin-nell College.

Weiner-Davis’ work has been fea-tured in major newspapers and maga-zines and she has made extensivemedia appearances on shows such asThe Oprah Winfrey Show, 48 Hours,20/20, The Today Show, and CBS ThisMorning.John D. Lentz: Michele, what do

you consider is the spiritual side ofworking with couples?Michele Weiner-Davis: Most of

the couples I work with consist of onespouse who desperately wants to savethe marriage and the other who just asdesperately wants out. People often askhow I can handle the stress of seeingpeople who have such intense andchronic relationship issues in theirlives. The truth is, little compares to thefeeling I get when I bring together twowarring and distant spouses and helpthem fall back in love again. I feelblessed to have the opportunity to trulymake a difference in people’s lives.

About eight years ago, we movedto Boulder, Colorado, which is idyllic.The people are extraordinarily friendly,socially conscious, and kind. Most ofthe people I meet engage in activitiesthat promote spiritual growth such asyoga and meditation. Plus, they regu-larly convene with nature through hik-

ing, biking, hang gliding…anythingwith an “ing.” These practices and hob-bies make Boulderites some of themost mentally, physically, and spiritu-ally sound beings in America, accord-ing to countless surveys on America’sMost Livable Cities. From the start, Iwas impressed with the obvious emo-tional centeredness of the community.

I also noticed there is a high inci-dence of divorce here. People seem tofollow their own hearts as the path toenlightenment, but it occurred to methat many miss out on another verypowerful path to spiritual growth --through relationships.

I have learned that relationships area remarkable arena in which to doinner work. I base this on nearly threedecades of work with couples and al-most 40 years with my own husband.It is through intimate relationships thatwe see mirrors of ourselves. Relation-ships provide opportunities to shareour journeys; to confront our emotionaldemons and our shortcomings; to learnhow to compromise; be altruistic; de-tach when necessary; and to forgive.Healthy relationships allow us to be-come our best selves, to increase innerawareness, and to share in life’s joysand sorrows. Ironically, rough patchesin relationships offer us unending op-portunities to learn about compassion,empathy, and acceptance.JL: Your books have made you a

household name and have given a lotof folks many more options thanthey had before reading your work.What spiritual strengths have youreceived by dealing with the recog-nition of so many appreciative peo-ple?MWD: To say that my work gives

my life meaning is an understatement.I consider it a never-ending gift toknow that my books, therapy, andclasses have helped countless couples.I get regular emails from folks thank-ing me for enabling them to make theirmarriages work and tuck their kids inat bedtime …together. I feel privilegedthat people trust me during criticaltimes in their lives. My Ericksonian,strength-based lens allows me to see aperson as resourceful and loving,which in turn provides a foundation forpositive therapeutic relationships. Thebest part is that I take my Ericksonian,strength-based perspective with me

when my day is over and see all peoplethrough this positive lens. I took a hikewith my 26-year-old and he said,“Mom, you really like people. You talkto everyone on the trail.” (I don’t thinkthat was a compliment.) He’s right. Ido love people.JL: Much of your recent work

has focused more on helping couplesreclaim and rekindle their sexual in-terest and enjoyment. Possibly be-cause of your gentle and powerfulway of communicating you havebeen extremely helpful to many peo-ple. What are your thoughts aboutthe deeply spiritual and positive waythat you have altered so many peo-ple’s lives?MWD: I want the people with

whom I work to feel understood, re-spected, and appreciated, regardless oftheir sexual values or expectations. Itis a direct result of my connection topeople that allows me to push them, todemand that they stretch outside theircomfort zone, both for their own goodand for the good of their relationship. Iget so immersed in sessions that timestands still. I am in the flow. Peoplefeel my connection to them and trustthat I will shepherd them to healthier,more loving places.JL: While you openly admit that

your early life experiences motivatedyou to discover ways to help others,

I N T H E S P I R I T O F T H E R A P Ywhat are some of the spiritual bless-ings that you have discovered as aresult of your journey?MWD: The early life experience to

which you refer was the fact that myparents divorced after 23 years of mar-riage. I didn’t see my parents’ divorcecoming because they never fought andour family life was a bit like the Wal-tons. I was about to leave home for col-lege and my warm family nest wasfalling apart. I was devastated. But thatdevastation fueled my passion to helpothers avoid divorce whenever possi-ble. And “others” includes my ownmarriage. Marriage is never easy. Mostpeople who have been in long-termmarriages will tell you that there havebeen periods in their lives when theywanted to throw in the towel. My mar-riage is no exception. But because ofmy past, my work, my love for myhusband and our family, I feel deter-mined to find a way, again and again,whenever necessary, to make thingswork, to have a healthy, loving mar-riage. (My husband often quips that wecould never get a divorce; it would bebad for book sales.)

I consider this commitment to be ablessing in my life and in the lives ofour children.JL: Michele you are a blessing

and so is your husband and hishumor. Thank you.

Evolution of Psychotherapy – Conference of Conferences is UnderwayThe Foundation is already gearing up for the history-making conference of

conferences --the Evolution of Psychotherapy, which is held every four years. In2013, it will be in Anaheim, California, December 11-15. The Foundation hopesthat by the time you have this Newsletter, our Evolution website will be live andoffer Early Bird registration. Visit www.evolutionofpsychotherapy.com.

First held in Phoenix in 1985, the Evolution conference was covered by Timemagazine, the New York Times and the Los Angeles Times. It sold out three monthsin advance and attracted 7,200 attendees. Registrants from more than 40 countrieshave attended Evolution Conferences, and 8,600 attended the 2005 Conferencemaking it the world’s largest psychotherapy gathering.

The primary faculty and state-of-the-art faculty at Evolution conferences haveconsistently been top professionals in the field. Keynote speakers and keynote ad-dresses are legendary. In 2013, the primary faculty includes Albert Badura, Ph.D.,David Barlow, Ph.D., John Gottman, Ph.D., Julie Gottman, Ph.D., Jean Houston,Ph.D., Otto Kernberg, MD, Marsha Linehan, Ph.D., Cloe Madanes, HDL, LIC,Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D., Salvador Minuchin, M.D., Erving Polster, Ph.D.,

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Ellyn Bader, Ph.D.& Peter Pearson,

Ph.D.By Marilia Baker

The greatest ordeal in life is mar-riage. It is the central focus for en-lightenment and the naturaltherapeutic process in the culture.

This exquisite, sophisticated, andknowledgeable definition of marriageby Carl Whitaker, M.D., pioneer fam-ily therapist and grand innovator in thefield fits well the philosophy, life work,and clinical practice of psychologistsEllyn Bader and Peter Pearson. Formore than a quarter of a century theyhave been the leaders of a new genera-tion of specialized practitioners, and“movers and shakers” -- daring inno-vators in the field of couples therapy.Their 1988 book, In Quest of the Myth-ical Mate -- A Developmental Ap-proach to Diagnosis and Treatment inCouples Therapy1, has been describedas “the most comprehensive and prac-tical approach to couples therapy of itstime.”2 It has been highly acclaimedand a suggested textbook for graduatetraining in couples therapy throughoutthe country. They were awarded theClark Vincent Award by the CaliforniaAssociation of Marriage and FamilyTherapy for their outstanding contri-bution to the field. Likewise, theirbook Tell Me No Lies, well-regardedby clinicians and committed couples,is a valuable complement to buildingan honest relationship throughout allstages of marriage or committed rela-tionships.3

There is much to mention about thebody of work and personal life of EllynBader and Peter Pearson, founders ofThe Couples Institute in Menlo Park,California (www.couplesinstitute.com).Their skillfully designed, all-encom-passing website is an eloquent, livingtestimonial of the myriad pathwaysthey have walked through – better said:navigated through -- in the past 30years as clinicians, business partners,and married couple. Their website,along with online training, blog, andnewsletter, is a treasure trove of usefulinformation for clinicians and for cou-ples seeking education and treatment.Having known them as authors and

having trained with them in several set-tings since 1991, the best way I canfind to properly convey their essenceand body of work and personhood isemploying the concepts: savoir faire,savoir être, and savoir devenir4. In thiscontext, the concepts have to do withexpanding dimensions of conscious ac-tions and evolving consciousness onthe part of individuals. These dimen-sions elegantly capture the couple’sprolific production as therapists andtheir role-modeling as work-in-progress married couple.

Savoir faire, or “know-how.” Inthis case: to know how to work effec-tivelywith a troubled couple in therapyto ultimately facilitate their healthyevolution as lovers and friends. I uti-lize the term savoir faire to better char-acterize Ellyn and Peter’ssophisticated, substantial, and innova-tive interventions when working withcouples – whether heterosexual orsame-sex – in all phases of the lifecycle. The challenges emerging at eachphase of the human life cycle areworked therapeutically through thelenses of positive, normalized devel-opmental stages or growth impasses,however painful or unhealthy at themoment. Their book, The Develop-mental Model of Couples Therapy, isthe core of their creation. In essence,Bader and Pearson’s model focusesaway from pathologies (even thoughthey do exist and are properly workedthrough therapeutically). The modelemphasizes the growth challenges cou-ples confront as “stepping stones todeep intimacy,” towards healthy inde-

pendence, as well as satisfying inter-dependence. I find this key develop-mental concept of “many marriageswithin the marriage” to be viscerallycritical in understanding couplehoodand its vicissitudes5.

Savoir être: to know how-to-be-in-the-world, or to have the personal qual-ities and self-capacities to make thingshappen. Having followed Ellyn andPete’s evolution as highly effectivetrainers, successful business builders,and business partners throughout twodecades, I also have been personallytouched by their humanness in expos-ing their own marital challenges at theappropriate “teaching moment.” Theirsolid differentiation stance is movingand impressive. An attentive, clinicaleye at what they named “A Journey inNegotiation,” the six-minute video ofschool building in Kenya (www.cou-plesinstitute.com/kenya), a project dearto Ellyn’s heart and soul, shows youhow aptly the couple presented theirwishes to each other, and negotiatedthroughout a few weeks of Initiator-In-quirer dialogue6. On the table wereeach one’s wishes, interests, values,self-definition, emotional self-regula-tion at the prospect of not getting whateach wanted, and the prospect of a longphysical separation. Eventually, asound, satisfactory resolution for bothemerged. Throughout the process theymaintained their individuality whilebeing actively curious about each other--all elements of a healthy, differenti-ated dyad. The last time the Kenyaproject was on the table they decidedto go together as a family with their

daughter Molly. This year, Ellyn trav-elled alone.

Savoir être also has to do with thecultivated abilities to effectively inter-act with individuals, groups, and com-munities, as well as the environment -physical or emotional. Again, an ob-serving look at their website offersmany examples of active engagementwith the professional community andrespectful care for the emotional well-being of couples in the larger commu-nity. Impressive are the manypracticing clinicians in several citiesthroughout California that Bader andPearson have incorporated into theirCouples Institute.

Bader and Pearson’s enduring com-mitment to educate and facilitategrowth and encourage emotionallysound relationships is expressed inEllyn’s statement: “I am passionateabout stopping unnecessary divorcesand helping couples grow into rich, re-warding partnerships.” To that end theyalso have been actively devoted to their“commitment to train a core of excep-tional couples therapists worldwide” toprevent unnecessary divorces and tofacilitate couples in blossoming intosatisfied-with-themselves Individualswho choose to grow with the Other infulfilling relationships.

Please click on www.couplesinsti-tutetraining.com/developmentalmodelto learn about their comprehensive andaccessible training program, whereveryou live in the world. As they mentionon their website, their training inte-grates attachment theory, differentia-tion theory, and neuroscience,compatible with professional audi-ences that they, individually or to-gether, have trained in the U.S.,Europe, Asia, Australia, and SouthAmerica. Ellyn reiterates: “This train-ing receives consistent, enthusiasticfeedback that enhances rather than col-lides with other therapeutic ap-proaches.”

To complete their passionate dedi-cation to community and change isEllyn’s enthusiastic involvement withdisplaced children of developing coun-tries, such as Kenya. She and her fam-ily have been actively offering severelyunderprivileged children, a hands-oneffort in equipment building and havefacilitated the children’s access to uni-

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versal resources and education. This isan exceedingly worthy endeavor thathas worldwide reverberations. I wouldnot be at all surprised if future worldleaders sprout from this well-tendedsoil. Please make sure to revisitwww.couplesinstitute.com/kenya.

Savoir devenir: This leads me to afinal comment on the meaning of thisthird component – to be aware andconscious about the future -- whichtakes me back to Whitaker’s observa-tion that marriage is a natural thera-peutic process in cultures and a centralfocus of enlightenment. Savoir deveniressentially is to consciously becomeaware or knowledgeable about the fu-ture, integrating innate talents and cul-tivated qualities throughout one’slifetime. From the conversations I hadwith Ellyn and Peter in preparing forthis edition of The Power of Two, andfrom the lively narrative on their April2012 Newsletter online, I can easilysurmise their commitment to the fu-ture.

It all started nearly 30 years agowhen they decided to marry and towork together. As they indicate, theytruly did not yet know what their pas-sion was or what their mission wouldbe. They discussed several options, in-cluding opening a restaurant (!), im-porting houseboats from India (!!) and,building a therapy practice. Their mainconcern was to “support couples sothat they would not unravel under thestress of dual careers, parenting, orfrom managing their differences.”Thankfully for the rest of us, in 1984they decided to establish The CouplesInstitute “to help all types of couplescreate relationships full of energy andvitality!”

Bader and Pearson’s savoir faire,savoir être, and savoir devenir also isskillfully summarized and envelopedwithin “Ten Commandments for Gain-ing and Building Trust,” which they of-fered in the recent book TenCommandments for Couples, edited by Jeffrey Zeig and Tami Kulbatski. 7Ellyn and Peter gift the reader withprecise, concise, and to-the-pointpearls of insight and wisdom -- insightand wisdom that were acquiredthrough their chosen mission in life,their passion, hard work, and indefati-gable dedication to the perplexed in re-lationships. This dedication has been

gratefully enhanced by the couple’sown rich marital relationship journey.That they are willing to walk the extramile for couples, or fly the 20,000extra miles to make a difference in theworld makes this crystal clear: theyoffer the reader 12 commandments!

Thank you Ellyn Bader and PeterPearson for all that you are and do.

For comprehensive informationplease go to: www.couplesinstitute.com.

1Please consult: Bader, E. & Pearson,P. (1988) In Quest of the Mythi-cal Mate: A Developmental Ap-proach to Diagnosis andTreatment in Couples Therapy.Brunner/Mazel: New York.

2See: Ellyn Bader & Peter Pearson,The Couples Institute, news re-lease online. April 21, 2012,paragraph 1.

3See further: (2001) Tell Me No Lies –How to Face the Truth and Buildan Honest Marriage. Saint Mar-tin Press: New York.

4I am inspired here by the work ofChristiane Faure-Hubert andRobert Faure, Institut Devenir @www.institut-devenir.com.

5These developmental stages and theirmultiple combinations are strik-ingly parallel to the psychologi-cal evolution of the baby. Theywere adapted to the adult couplestages by Bader & Pearson from:(1975) The Psychological Birthof the Human Infant by MargaretMaher et al. Basic Books: NewYork.

6This is a dialogue process created byBader & Pearson, aptly named I-to-I: Initiator-to- Inquirer, TheDevelopment of Self: Crucial toGreater Intimacy and Satisfac-tion in Relationships. (I-to-I alsoimplying a play in words for “eyeto eye,” face-to-face with yourpartner.)

7Consult further: Jeffrey K. Zeig,Ph.D. & Tami Kulbatski, Psy.D.(eds.): (2012) Ten Command-ments for Couples – For EveryAspect of Your Relationship Jour-ney. Zeig, Tucker & TheisenPublishers: Phoenix, Arizona.

The Developmental Model of CouplesTherapy: Integrating Attachment, Differentiation, and Neuroscience

Online Web Course with Ellyn Bader2011

The Couples Institute

www.CouplesInstituteTraining.comReviewed by Annellen M. Simpkins, Ph.D. & C. Alexander Simpkins, Ph.D.

San Diego, California

Couples present unique challenges because they often come into a therapist’soffice angry, distressed, and closed-minded. “The Developmental Model of Cou-ples Therapy: Integrating Attachment, Differentiation, and Neuroscience” is taughtby seasoned expert, Ellyn Bader, and will guide you toward mastery in your work.She has created a one-year web course that offers clinicians a map for their cou-ple-helping journey. For a monthly fee, clinicians from anywhere in the world canparticipate in this course and earn 36 CE credits.

The website is easy to navigate. The content is based in Bader and Pear-son’s developmental model. It offers a lesson every two weeks that reads like achapter of a book that you can download and save for later reference. Written in afriendly style, the 23 lessons gently guide you through learning the approach. Andeach lesson contains homework assignments to foster personal experiencing. Youdo not have to travel alone, because the course also includes a monthly conferencecall with Bader and other participants, along with blogging to discuss the ins andouts of putting the ideas into practice.

Often people believe that couples therapy is superficial or secondary toindividual work, but Bader explains how couples work can be the primary treat-ment. Her approach teaches ways to think developmentally, to look to the past todiscover the patterns that form reactions. Deep work is achieved as you learn howto make a diagnosis and set goals to help navigate clients’ seas of disturbance. Thecourse shows how to change negative and defensive cycles and resolve relevant in-trapsychic issues. And through the process, you can discover helpful ways to teachcouples new skills, and elicit satisfying ways of relating.

The method is based in attachment, differentiation, and neuroscience. Instruc-tion begins with key theories and assessment tools that help you make a diagnosisto inform your treatment. You will find there are classic constructs drawn fromfounders such as Margaret Mahler, Fred Pine, John Bowlby, and Mary Ainsworth.Differentiation, one of Mahler’s stages of development, is a cornerstone of Bader’sapproach. Differentiation is the ability of partners to know and share their personalfeelings and desires; to let each other know who they really are. Paradoxically,with differentiation, as couples come to accept each other as unique individuals,they become more intimate. The course clarifies the integration of attachment anddifferentiation and how to work with all aspects of partnership, to steer couples todeeper satisfaction and fulfillment. Also included are ways to utilize the new brainscience. Some lessons are devoted to methods for helping couples who are openlyhostile and those who avoid conflict. Specific exercises give you tools for pro-moting healthy interaction, fostering empathy, and soothing. You will also findlessons on different types of partner patterns, such as passive-aggressive and nar-cissistic, as well as strategies for dealing with infidelity. The case examples of cou-ples given are ones that you can relate to and use as a springboard for your ownunderstanding.

The course lessons have a great deal to offer clinicians from many differenttherapeutic schools to help them become comfortable and effective in workingwith couples. The model is consistent and well thought out, and the techniques areclearly presented so that you can learn by doing. We highly recommend this course!

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tifies every human expression -- expressions that are not culturally determined butuniversal across cultures. He also has studied deception for more than 30 years, andthe television series “Lie to Me” was based on his real-life scientific discoveries.

Harriet Lerner, the featured interview for this Newsletter, is one of the nation’smost respected voices on the psychology of women and marriage and family re-lationships. Her “Dance” books, including the Dance of Anger, have been best-sellers, and her most recent book, Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married andCoupled Up is reviewed in this edition of Newsletter by the Simpkins.

Michele Weiner-Davis is an internationally-renowned relationship therapistand author. She is interviewed by John Lentz for this edition’s “In the Spirit ofTherapy.” Author of seven books, including DIVORCE BUSTING and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE, Weiner-Davis is the recipient of the Award for Outstand-ing Contribution to the field of Marriage and Family Therapy from the AAMFT.

Subjects to be addressed in conference workshops include: difficult partners;love in the modern age; caring for aging parents; a deceptive partner; understand-ing the language of intimacy; couple and family addiction and recovery; pornog-raphy as an issue in relationships; why couples may not enjoy sex – and ways tohelp them; modeling successful relationships after the movies; spirituality in rela-tionships; men and depression; new rules of marriage; forgiveness after an affair;and couples therapy with only one spouse.

For more information on the Couples Conference please visit www.couplesconference.com.

Marnie McGann

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Ernest Rossi, Ph.D., Francine Shapiro, Ph.D., and Jeffrey Zeig, Ph.D.The state-of-the-art faculty includes Judith Beck, Ph.D., Claudia Black, Ph.D.,

David Burns, Ph.D., Jon Carlson, PsyD, EdD, Nicholas Cummings, Ph.D., ScD,Stephen Gilligan, Ph.D., Steven Hayes, Ph.D., Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., Kay Red-field Jamison, Ph.D., Sue Johnson, EdD, Jack Kornfield, Ph.D., Harriet Lerner,Ph.D., Peter Levine, Ph.D., Scott Miller, Ph.D., William Miller, Ph.D., Bill O’Han-lon, MS, Violet Oaklander, Ph.D., Christine Padesky, Ph.D., Mary Pipher, Ph.D.,Daniel Siegel, M.D., Derald Wing Sue, Ph.D., Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., MicheleWeiner-David, MSW, LCSW and Michael Yapko, Ph.D.

Keynote speakers include Aaron Beck, M.D., Gerald Edelman, M.D., Ph.D.,Martin Seligman, Ph.D., Gloria Steinem and Irvin Yalom, M.D. Keynote addresseswill be from Diane Ackerman, Ph.D., Daniel Amen, M.D., Paul Ekman, Ph.D. andMichael Gazzaniga, Ph.D.

Marnie McGann

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What If We StoppedFighting Nicotine

Addiction?I begin all my treatments with the

question: “What would you like tochange today -- and why?” The clientM.T. answered, “I want to quit smok-ing because it’s bad for me.” (I find thisis a staple answer for most people whoare asked the same question.) I nor-mally follow my question with a desta-bilization technique. This is intendedto simultaneously create an increase inmotivation to the point where theclients are almost demanding to betreated. It also brings about a state ofconfusion during which, taken abackmomentarily, clients will look for co-herence anywhere and therefore acceptany suggestions they can understand; alittle bit like clutching at a straw.

My response to M.T. was spokenquickly so he wouldn’t have a chanceto analyze my words. I said, “So what?We’re always doing things that are badfor us! We don’t exercise; we don’t eatenough fiber; we don’t drink enoughwater; we don’t get enough rest; we

load ourselves with stress; and we canchange all those things whenever wewant to.”

I delivered the positive suggestionat a time when M.T. was beginning towonder whether or not I was going toagree to treat him. (And it looked asthough I was not against tobacco). Thiswas a receptive moment; a moment ofrequest. My next step was to tell himthat it would be necessary to do afarewell exercise to say goodbye to“good old friend tobacco.” I usuallyaccomplish these farewell exerciseswith hand levitation where I suggestthat the client’s rising hand is tied likea puppet on a string to a balloon that isfilled with smoke. I then proceed to in-struct clients to cut the string andwatch the balloon go up, enjoying itsascent and feeling grateful for havingbeen liberated.

When I got to this point with M.T.,he frowned and a teardrop rolled downhis cheek. He said, “I’ve realized that ifI quit smoking, it will be like betrayingmy father and brother who both died oflung cancer.”

From that moment on, the treat-ment proceeded like traditional psy-

chotherapy, although with a very dif-ferent objective: the resolution of grief.Of course, quitting smoking consti-tuted a “minor result” of the treatment,yet this was for M.T. the confirmationthat he had overcome his most unset-tling emotions, some of which he prob-ably couldn’t have owned before theballoon farewell.

It is for this reason why we mustnot spurn any opportunity to allow theclient’s unconscious to express itself,even though he may appear to seektherapy for a problem as secondary asnicotine addiction.

After having demystified severalaspects of tobacco, including it tastesgood (Did my client remember thetaste of his first cigarette?), or that it’srelaxing (Did he know that one of theeffects of nicotine is to increase adren-aline levels?), I asked M.T. to follow,to a tee, a smoking methodology, and,above all, to not make any effort to notsmoke. I told M.T. to carry a pack ofcigarettes with him because quitting anaddiction means being able to remainindifferent when coming in contactwith the addictive substance. If hefeared a relapse it was probably be-cause his need for tobacco had notcompletely dissipated. I told M.T. tocarry a bottle of water and to drinkevery time he felt the need for a ciga-rette. After taking a few sips, he wouldbe able to decide whether or not hewanted to give up his “freedom not tosmoke’ or choose to light up a cigaretteand take a few drags.

With this method, anxiety is re-

C A S E R E P O R Tduced for three main reasons. First, be-cause there is neither a prohibition nora limitation; second, because it meansthere’s no chance to fail, which hasprobably been a fear factor present inprevious attempts; and third, becausethe quitting is gradual and this keepsthe withdrawal symptoms to a mini-mum—a similar effect to any aid ofnicotine replacement therapy.

My client, M.T., received a record-ing for self-hypnosis, reinforcing thesuggestions of well-being, of going forhis goal, and of feeling satisfied afterdrinking water and being able to exer-cise his freedom not to smoke. Heeventually began eliminating the ciga-rettes that he smoked automatically orout of compulsion.

M.T.’s ability to quit tobacco tookplace gradually, within about a week.Having attended hypnosis sessionsevery other day, there came a momentwhen he quit smoking completely,without struggling with the addiction.The goals of the second and third ses-sions were to consolidate all progressnoticed and to prevent any possible re-lapses, including using food as com-pensation for not smoking. M.T.overcame his addiction and any possi-ble relapes because the treatment givento him was rooted in managing anxi-ety, not generating it.

Teresa Garcia-SanchezInstituto Erickson Madrid Director teresagarcia.chi@gmail.com

Translator Claudio Vanini

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Up the MountainBy Roxanna Erickson Klein

On December 5, 1901, Albert Er-ickson left his cabin in the mountainsof the Schell Creek Range and went tothe mine where he dug silver ore witha pickaxe and shovel. By the time hereturned for lunch, his wife, Clara, hadgiven birth to their second child, Mil-ton Hyland Erickson.

Albert and Clara Erickson, MiltonErickson’s parents, lived in the com-munity of Aurum, Nevada, nestledwithin Silver Canyon in White PineCounty. In 1900, Aurum was noted in ahistoric register to have a population of54, but the town was abandoned a fewyears later due to diminishing ore sup-ply and a catastrophic landslide. Thehigh cost of transporting ore was also amajor factor in the dwindling popula-tion of the community. Aurum still de-pended on wagons for transport whileother areas in the state were develop-ing railroads. Today, the area remainsisolated and sparsely populated, al-though the Pony Express Trail, whichruns through the county, is currentlybeing preserved.

In 1906, when Milton was 5 yearsold, the Ericksons left Nevada. Thefamily, which then included Miltonand his two sisters, began their journeyeast in a covered wagon, later catchinga train to Wisconsin. Albert’s partner inbusiness, Simon Davis, stayed behindto close the mine before he retired inHawaii. Albert had done well at themine, but he and Clara agreed the chil-dren needed “proper schooling,” Sell-ing their interest in the mine they putthe settlement of $400 towards the pur-chase of an 80-acre farm in BeaverDam. The farm is where Albert andClara raised their seven daughters andtwo sons. Milton lived and worked onthe farm until he left for the Universityof Wisconsin to embark on higher ed-ucation.

In September 2012, Milton Erick-son’s oldest son and my oldest brother,Albert II, and I went to Nevada to lookfor the Erickson homestead. Close tohis grandparents, Albert II had jour-neyed there in 1951 to take photo-graphs and gather memories to bringback to Albert and Clara. They oftenreminisced and described their moun-

tain as “the most beautiful place onearth.” Albert II traveled alone to theremote area in a ‘41 Ford that repeat-edly overheated. With the guidance ofa local historian, he was successful inlocating Aurum’s general store, thepost office, the cemetery, and the“everlasting spring” where water wasavailable year-round. He did not havedescriptions of our grandparent’shome; he could not differentiate it fromthe many others that were standing atthat time, but he took snapshots of allthe structures he found. When he re-turned, Albert and Clara studied thephotographs and initially had some dif-ficulty in recognizing the land that theyhad left a half a century earlier. How-ever, after pondering, they realized itwas only the man-made features thathad changed; the mountains remainedthe same. With that realization, theybegan to recognize the cabins of theirfriends and neighbors, but did not findtheir own home. In hope of Albert II’slater return to the area, they gave himcareful, more explicit descriptions ofwhere the cabin sat in relation to Sil-ver Canyon; it was at a distance fromthe community so they “would nothave rowdy neighbors,” and close tothe mine.

Years later, accompanied by one oftheir other children, Albert and Claradid have an opportunity to visit thecanyon and enjoy the beauty of thepeaceful location that had been so im-portant in their lives. It was not untilSeptember 2012 that Albert II returnedto Aurum. I joined him, his wife Lil-lian, and Alex Vesely, documentatianfor Wizard of the Desert, to see if wecould find the cabin. Starting with avisit to the local historical railroad, weverified geographical coordinates ofAurum, picked up a topographicalmap, and read some narratives aboutmining in White Pine County. Think-ing we were all set in a four-wheeldrive with a GPS, we gathered a fewthings including the old map that Al-bert had drawn and a photograph of theErickson family on their front porchtaken in the early 1900s.

While remote, it was relativelyeasy to locate the stone foundation thatremains of the post office and generalstore, and with some effort we foundthe spring and the cemetery. As wesearched for the cabin we came across

an ore transfer station where minersbrought their loads on mule back andprepared them for transport to thecrusher. Each of these sites has beenmarked by the local historical society.The cabin itself was more elusive andit took us two full days of scramblingup game trails and through overgrownvalleys to finally find it. .

In 1901 when Milton was born, thelog cabin was relatively large and com-fortable for the time and circum-stances. Dug into the side of themountain, the rocks provided moremoderate temperatures than felt in thestandard more exposed cabins. Thefloor was dirt, and we recalled ourGrandma Clara telling how every bit ofspare water was poured on the floor tokeep the dust down. The house wasbroad, with a room for Simon Davis,who was Albert’s partner in the miningventure, and a bachelor and long-timefriend. The cabin opened facing east-wards offering a view of the valleybelow where most of the miners set-tled.

While many of the logs of the cabinwere still intact, the sides had fallenover, and a four-wheeler path had cutthrough the center where some of thestructural parts must have been carriedaway. As such, it was not immediatelyrecognizable, and we took a long whilestudying the cabin, the horizon and thedescription. A 30-foot tall spruce grewinside the structure, which enabled Al-bert II to estimate that the roof col-lapsed between 1930 and 1940. Anexperienced woodsman, he factored inclimate and elevation along with DBH(Diameter at Breast Height) to estimatethe age of the tree as 70 years old. Al-bert II also calculated the approximatedate the spruce seedling first receivedsunlight to germinate and grow into itspresent 15-inch diameter as consistentwith the decay of the roof occurringapproximately 30 years after the de-parture of the cabin’s inhabitants.

While the structure fit what weknew, it was not until we studied thecontours of the land that it became ap-

parent what was missing from whatonce had been, and now was no more.Once the land spoke, the vision be-came clear: we imagined the whole ofthe cabin stretching across the pathwaybeyond the emptiness, looking out ontothe valley, just like the photograph. Westood there, and let Alex take our photowith the horizon matching the phototaken more than a century earlier.

Set high in altitude, over 8,000 feetamongst the spruce and ponderosapine, without running water or even anearby spring, the effort needed tomaintain a household and raise youngchildren in a cabin such as this is al-most unimaginable. The energy re-quired to bring necessities up themountain trail to the cabin and to sur-vive the harsh winters seems over-whelming. Throughout their lives,Albert and Clara, as well as Milton,talked about the need to utilize everyresource, but it was the beauty of lifethey talked about most often.Grandma’s favorite song, Home on theRange, was one way she reminded ourfamily of the unsurpassed grandeur ofthose years.

Being there, seeing, feeling the sur-rounding beauty, I became aware ofhow my brother Albert II is so like myDad. He was drawn by curiosity, inter-est, and a desire to discover thingsfirsthand. We spent two days climbingaround the rough terrain, Albert, nowin his 83rd year walking with a canefaster than I could go. All the while, asI scrambled breathlessly to catch up, Inoticed how his gait, leaning on thecane, and his profile are so much likeour Dad’s. As we discovered the cabin,I felt Albert’s undying determination,so much like Dad’s. The fulfillment oflocating the cabin brought another di-mension of pleasure to the moment,feeling the continuity of generationsover more than a century. I felt close tomy Dad, to my grandparents, and tomy siblings. The shared experience ofbeing together in that place, in bodyand spirit, brought kinship beyondtime.

R E M E M B E R I N G E R I C K S O NThe floor was dirt, and we recalled our Grandma

Clara telling how every bit of spare water was poured on the floor to keep the dust down.

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ALEXANDERVESELY

A Filmmaker Documenting Psychotherapy

IntroductionThe Erickson Foundation is work-

ing with filmmaker and director,Alexander Vesely of Vienna, Austria toproduce a documentary about MiltonH. Erickson. “Wizard of the Desert”will offer a broad audience a look atthe personal and professional side ofDr. Erickson..

This interview between Vesely andRoxanna Erickson Klein takes place inOctober of this year. Both Klein andVesely would like to thank Mary Cim-iluca, CEO, at Noetic Films, Inc. forher ongoing support and business acu-men, which has helped bring this im-portant project to fruition. Roxanna Erickson Klein (REK):

Hi Alex. I would like to take this op-portunity to ask you to share with ourreaders your background in filmmak-ing. Alexander Vesely (AV): It’s a

pleasure to speak with you, and thankyou for giving me this opportunity totalk about my favorite subject -- film. REK: Let’s begin with our mutual

endeavor, the making of “Wizard of theDesert.” Can you tell us about thisproject and why you have taken an in-terest in it? AV: My passion has always been

filmmaking. I recognize the tremen-dous impact that a film can have on anindividual’s life. A long time ago, I re-ceived a note from the great StevenSpielberg who wrote: “Film is so pow-erful, use it wisely and enjoy it.” Thosewords have remained with me and stillguide me. Film can convey complexconcepts by translating them into ex-periences that guide us through differ-ent emotional states. It encourageslearning in a profound way.

I have formally studied psy-chotherapy. My interest in human mo-tivation and the way the mind works,together with my passion for filmmak-ing gave me direction; even my mas-ter’s degree thesis was on “cinematherapy.” As I learned about and com-

pared different schools of psychother-apy, the journey of exploration led meto an interest in the work of Milton Er-ickson. The Erickson Foundation hasbeen central in helping me and otherslearn about his remarkable therapeuticapproaches.

For approximately two years I havecollaborated with the Foundation on“Wizard of the Desert.” I have filmeddozens of interviews with profession-als from around the world; the storiesthey told will illustrate the profoundimpact Dr. Erickson’s work has had ontheir diverse professional practices. REK: It’s true that my father’s

words and messages have had a lastingimpact on so many lives. I’ve seen anumber of those interviews and I havealso been interviewed for this film. Youare quite skilled in drawing stories outof people. AV: Thank you. While I encourage

people to talk about their memoriesand the relationship they had with Dr.Erickson, I also want to illustrate itwithout changing or altering the emo-tional content that they bring to the in-terview. I seek to capture the impactthat Dr. Erickson had on the individualwho is telling his story. REK: It must be a delicate balance

-- encouraging people to tell their story,yet not leading them in one directionor another. You seem to have a specialtalent there too. Tell us how your train-ing in psychotherapy has fit with yourwork as a filmmaker. AV: In order to gain a deeper un-

derstanding and to improve my direct-ing skills, I formally studiedpsychotherapy at the University of Vi-

enna. I explored the connection amongfilm, narration, and therapy in my mas-ter’s degree thesis. I think my appreci-ation of psychotherapy has improvedmy work as a director, especially inworking with actors. I gained manyvaluable insights which have impactedand changed the way I approach film-making. Engaging emotions in a waythat can lead to insight is an importantelement of psychotherapy. It is similarto generating an atmosphere that cap-tures an audience.

Looking at different schools oftherapy and their parallels to the cine-matic experience, the work of MiltonErickson immediately stood out. Hisgroundbreaking ideas as well as hispersonal life’s story are so remarkablethat I wanted to see his story on screen.REK: How did you get started in

the art of directing films? AV: Enthusiasm for film and the vi-

sual arts has always been part of me. Ibegan to make films as a child. In fact,I got my first camera at age seven andI have directed, produced, and writtenmany short films, commercials, anddocumentaries. The opportunity justhappened by circumstance, but once Iembraced it, things began to fall intoplace in a way that helped me to rec-ognize my own talents.

My work has now begun to be rec-ognized in Hollywood and I have beenoffered several important film projects.I am beginning the process of applyingfor a U.S. work visa. In addition, oneof my short films, “Codigo Capital,”produced and directed in Argentina,was an official selection at the LatinoFilm Festival in Berlin. “Viktor & I, AnAlexander Vesely Film” won the Dia-mond Award from the California FilmAwards along with three other presti-gious recognitions. I was most hum-bled and honored by theserecognitions.

REK: I have seen “Viktor & I” andagree that the recognition is wellearned.

That film helped us see that youhave the ability to tell our story aboutDr. Erickson in an interesting, com-pelling, yet accurate way. AV: I went through a vast amount

of archival material for “Viktor & I,”as well as the footage I had shot my-self. A lot of it was great material andthe biggest challenge was to decide

which stories to set aside. Luckily, inthe process of putting all the materialtogether, the story began to tell itself,to find cohesion and meaning. It beganto show the humanity of this greatthinker. I am pleased with the outcome.Professionals worldwide had been ask-ing for a more cohesive understandingof the work of Dr. Viktor Frankl, whilean even broader group of people wereclamoring to know more about the per-son.REK: As I understand it, the ap-

proach to “Wizard of the Desert” willbe similar to the one used to show thework of Viktor Frankl. AV: It is difficult to capture the

essence of a man and his work by sim-ply looking at volumes of text. Film isthe medium of our time and an idealway to remind the world of great menand their work. While researching Dr.Erickson’s work, I came to think ofhim as a great American hero. Once Ibegan to work on this documentary, in-terviewing many former patients, stu-dents, colleagues, family, and friends, Ibecame even more intrigued by hischaracter. He was a gifted man whoovercame great physical challenges tobecome an enlightened healer. He hadthe ability to move patients towardwellness by utilizing their own wordsand simple, everyday activities. Histechniques have been studied by thou-sands, yet no one can fully explain howhe so powerfully did what he did. Thestories about him are vital to preserve.REK: Many of these stories were

at risk of being lost without the workyou have done. Overall, what do youthink is the most difficult aspect of thefilm?AV: This work is challenging in

that it had not begun until decades afterDr. Erickson’s death. This has offeredsome advantage, in that mature profes-sionals are able to look back and rec-ognize ways in which Dr. Ericksoninfluenced them. However, it also wasa serious disadvantage, in that some re-sources have gone to the four winds, soto speak. REK: In the event that other mate-

rial or opportunities become available,will you still work with us to add to thefilm? AV: I am always committed to as-

sure that the work is as complete as

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possible. If the opportunity arises forshooting additional material, I will behappy to work with the Foundation tointegrate it into the film so that it, too,will be preserved.

REK: I was hoping you would saythat. My own archival work tells methat you never know what resourcesmight be discovered, and so the workis never complete.

AV: You are so right. I once wrotethat producing a documentary is a bitlike a treasure hunt -- you find pearlsaround every corner. My tendency as adirector is to continue to add footage,but at some point, you must cut the re-search and finish the film.

REK: Well Alex, I want to let youknow that your contribution to theFoundation Archives is substantial. Ihave found working with you to be arare privilege.

AV: Thank you very much. It is apleasure working with you too.

Viktor and IAlexander Vesely, Filmmaker

Noetic Films2011

www.viktorandimovie.comISBN: 978-0-615-46806-5

$24.95

Reviewed by C. Alexander Simpkins,Ph.D. & Annellen M. Simpkins, Ph.D.

San Diego, California

Filmmaker Alexander Vesely hascreated Viktor and I, a feature filmabout his grandfather, Viktor Frankl,the founder of Logotherapy. The movieis an artistically presented collage ofinterviews, interspersed with Frankl’slectures, TV appearances, and intimatememoirs. Vivid visuals combined withmoving music convey a powerful ex-periential presence of this inspirationalman and his valuable work. The movie highlights Frankl’s

ideas, which are just as relevant todayas they were when he first had them asan inmate in a concentration camp dur-ing the Holocaust. He has taught ushow to rise above any unchangeablesituation, no matter how horrific, andemerge better human beings. We can’tpursue happiness, he maintained, wemust let it surface as a natural byprod-uct in the quest for meaning in life andlove. In fact, the most traumatic cir-cumstances have the highest potentialfor meaning in one’s life. Therefore,we have opportunity to transmutetragedy into triumph. Moviegoers are offered an almost

personal encounter with Franklthrough disclosures from those whoknew him intimately: his family,friends, colleagues, and religious lead-ers. These personal stories revealFrankl to be a deeply caring individual.His capacity for forgiveness is shownwhen he helps a former Nazi to findwork. And, many are probably notaware of Frankl’s sources for his loftyperspectives. Since his youth, he wasan avid mountain climber and utilizedmemories of his climbs to rise abovehis suffering at the camps. He alsotrained to get an American pilot’s li-cense in his 70s!

Viktor and I captures many ways inwhich Frankl helped others. Frankl’sson-in-law, Franz Vesely, a physicist,notes how Frankl did collective ther-apy--talking over the shoulder of inter-

viewers to give advice and encourage-ment to the larger audience. And wesee Frankl doing just that in a fascinat-ing collection of movie clips. Anotherinspiring story involves a paralyzedman, Jerry Long, who had been apromising athlete but suffered a debil-itating injury to his spine at age 18.Long read Frankl’s book and wrotehim a letter, explaining how it modi-fied his attitude. “I broke my neck, butit didn’t break me,” he wrote. That let-ter initiated a meaningful relationshipbetween the two men And, Long wenton to become a psychologist who hasused his experiences to transform hisclients. In the film, we also witness Frankl

and others explaining the famous par-adoxical intention technique. For ex-ample, if clients are anxious and afraidof fainting, the technique involves en-couraging them to wish to faint—andfaint many times! A client may laughat this idea, which is incompatible with

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everyone as sane and subject to thesame laws, tabbing the insanity de-fense a psychiatric swindle.The author of more than 30 books,

Szasz was born April 15,1920 in Budapest and movedto the U.S. with his family in1938. Szasz was a member ofthe faculty of SUNY UpstateMedical University in Syra-cuse, New York.Tom was a great friend of

the Erickson Foundation,serving on the faculty of allthe Evolution of Psychother-apy Conferences. Hekeynoted the 2010 BriefTherapy Conference wherethe Foundation presented himwith a specially bound copyof his 1961 book Myth ofMental Illness, celebratingthe 50th anniversary of itspublication.Thomas Szaz will be

greatly missed by family, friends, andcolleagues. His message will endure.Jeffrey K. Zeig

noses. Szasz pointed out the insidiousparadoxes created by third-party pay-ers, noting that such payment disem-powers the patient and poisons a

consensual relationship between pa-tient and clinician.Szasz noted that there was no valid

method to distinguish sane from in-sane, and advocated the treatment of

Thomas Szasz“In my view, the most important

human values are political liberty asfreedom from coercion andpersonal responsibility as re-specting promises and hold-ing others responsible fortheir actions.” So saidThomas Szasz in an interviewfor the Erickson FoundationNewsletter in 2010 when hewas 91. Dr. Szasz passedaway September 8, 2012, atthe age of 92.A man of abnormal in-

tegrity, he railed against coer-cive treatments. Piercing theveil of collective denial, headvocated individual libertyas a primary ethic. Szasz de-clared that the ways of psy-chiatry are not the ways ofmedicine He maintained thatthe true healer of the soul is a“doctor of persuasion,” notcoercion.Viewing psychotherapy as a moral,

rather than medical science, he arguedagainst the ways in which individualsare stigmatized by psychiatric diag-

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Caricature byAndreas Steiner

anxiety, leading to detachment andchange. The section about the Holocaust is

particularly moving, and includessome of Frankl’s fascinating insights.He believed that there are only tworaces in the world: decent people andindecent people. When the indecentpeople gain power, a Holocaust be-comes possible. The movie coversmany educational topics, including re-ligion, faith, relationships, and humor--all seen through the lens of a man wholived his beliefs.Moviegoers will have an experi-

ence and get to know a great man whenwatching Viktor and I. They will alsobe inspired to rise above their ownchallenges in life to find meaning,which can set them free. The movie ends with a panoramic

mountain view and Frankl’s last words,“The situation lacks tragedy.” We highly recommend this movie!

men Congress a very attractivepre-early bird price for the Parisevent and there were 250 regis-trations by the end of Congress.Newsletter readers can also getthis price of 340 euro if theyregister before Dec 31, 2012.

I would suggest that anyonewith a professional interest inhypnosis join the world audi-ence for the next Congresswhich will no doubt be a spec-tacular event.

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enough for everything else? Now the Foundation offers free items to thank oursupporters and those who purchase products from the online store.

This year we’ve posted a free lecture by Jeff Zeig – “Exploring the Genius ofMilton Erickson -- delivered last March (to a Web and live audience) at the Cali-fornia Southern University School of Behavioral Science. Then, we gave away thenew eBook: Milton H. Erickson by Jeffrey Zeig and Michael Munion. Also, JeanHouston’s keynote address at Brief therapy ’08: “Inner Archetypes of Social Trans-formation” – a fascinating presentation on how to incorporate sensory, psycho-logical, mythic, spiritual and unitive states to bring personal potential to socialchange at a community, professional, and cultural level. And, in memory ofThomas Szasz, we placed on our homepage an access link to his entire keynote ad-dress from Brief Therapy 2010.

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International Society of Hypnosis

CongressThe XIX International Hypnosis

Congress in Bremen, Germany, was ahistorical event. Sponsored by The In-ternational Society of Hypnosis (ISH),organized by Bernhard Trenkle, an Er-ickson Foundation Board member andadministered by his son, Andy Trenkle,it was the world’s largest hypnosis con-ference to date. There were 1700 reg-istrants and 2300 in attendance, almost300 of which were faculty.

As one might imagine, the infor-mation offered was extraordinary. Un-fortunately, the list of fascinatinglectures and references to Ericksonianpractitioners is more than can be sum-marized in this brief article. See:www.hypnosis-congress.com for thecomplete program.

As a member of the teaching fac-ulty, I enjoyed the opportunity to sharemy experiences with an internationalaudience. However, even more excit-ing was my role as a student, attendinginspiring lectures by the world’s lead-ing experts. Topics ranged from thetreatment of clinical problems, such asbreast cancer or OCD, to unique appli-cations such as children with autism orthose living in extreme poverty. Therewere also unique perspectives on prob-lems such as the worship of cult figuresor other controlling individuals whomisuse hypnosis to exert undue influ-ence by brainwashing or cult indoctri-nation.

From the start of the Congress, Isaw evidence of Dr. Erickson’s contin-uing influence on the evolving hypno-sis community. In an illuminatingkeynote address, Jeff Zeig convinc-ingly illustrated the intricacy and in-creased depth that Dr. Erickson’sapproach offers when compared to tra-ditional hypnosis. During her keynoteaddress, Julie Linden, the incomingpresident of ISH, described ErnestRossi as a leading researcher who hashelped us to better understand the fu-ture of hypnosis and how it can con-tribute to the broader field of scienceand genetics. As a longtime admirer ofCamillo Loriedo’s work and his Erick-

sonian approach, I was gratifiedto learn that he was honored atCongress with the BenjaminFranklin Award, which is thehighest honor afforded by ISHHaving served as president forISH this past year, Camillo,also a Foundation Board mem-ber, demonstrated an im-promptu utilization of technicaldifficulties during his keynoteby discarding frozen Power-Point slides to advance his gen-eral point of being moreinterpersonally available whenconducting hypnotherapy.Bernhard Trenkle also was hon-ored as the recipient of PierreJanet Award for Clinical Excel-lence.

This year’s Congress was full ofentertainment, not only in the eveningsbut also during some lectures. Therewas wall-shaking laughter in someworkshops, and a Turkish doctorbrought a whirling dervish and musi-cians to perform as he compared Su-fism with auto hypnosis.

I eagerly look forward to the nextISH conference, which will be held inParis, August 26-29, 2015. Paris waswhere the first international hypnosiscongress was held in 1889. For moreinformation on the XX ISH Congress,visit www.cfhtb.org. The French col-leagues offered attendees of the Bre-

Jeffrey Zeig with Camillo Loriedo. Camillo received the Benjamin Franklin Award,

the highest honor afforded by ISH.

Camillo Loriedo turns over ISH presidency to Julie Linden.

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An Evening of Celebration: Erickson Foundation opens new officesOn Thursday, October 11, the Foundation’s doors were propped opened to wel-

come more than 50 guests. The air was scented with flowers and candles, and fes-tive paper lanterns glowed above. Many guests took tours of the building with JeffZeig or staff, viewed artwork and photographs, browsed the library and archives,sipped wine or sparkling drinks, enjoyed food, and visited with friends and col-leagues.

The “Dance of Life,” sculpture, created and donated to the Foundation by Eli-jah David Herschler, mesmerized guests as it gently twirled and reflected the sun-set light. Large-scale photos of Monument Valley and paintings donated by IrwinPasternak of Pasternak & Associates (responsible for the interior design of the new

NEWS & NOTESUncommon Therapy has

Universal AppealUncommon Therapy : The Psychiatric Tech-

niques of Milton H. Erickson, M.D., by JayHaley is now available in Modern Chinese atwww.psygarden.com.tw.

Jay Haley’s book, written in 1973, is a classic in the field of psychotherapy and hasworldwide appeal. The book provides a com-prehensive look at Dr. Erickson's theories inpractice through a series of case studies cover-ing the kinds of problems that are likely to occurat various stages of the human life cycle.

Confluence now available in GermanConfluence: The Selected Paper of Jeffrey K. Zeig is now available in German.

Please visit: http://www.literatur-vsm.at/CONF/index.htm.

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building) decorated the walls, as well as signed posters from Evolution Confer-ences, faculty photos, and caricature drawings by Andreas Steiner.

The grand opening celebration was held to honor Dr. Erickson and thank themany donors and supporters who have helped the Foundation begin this new chap-ter. Our building at 2632 E. Thomas Rd. Ste. 200, allows for the expansion of ourprecious archives; provides more room for staff to conduct day-to-day operations;and serves as home to the Foundation Press. It also is a global destination for Er-icksonian practitioners.

To view photos of the grand opening reception, please visit our homepage atwww.erickson-foundation.org and click on the link for pictures.

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Now that we’re ensconced in ournew building, we appreciate even moreall those who have made our effortspossible. Many have donated since lastspring’s issue of the Newsletter -- forour build-out to be completed, the ele-vator, the shaping of the Haywardhouse museum, our archives, Wizardof the Desert, documentary, and for ourgeneral fund. All these donations havehelped us to further our mission and weare extremely appreciative of each one,large or small.

We also are especially thankful toFounding Member Marilia Baker whois a longtime contributor to the Foun-dation, Contributing Editor for theNewsletter, and invited faculty for In-ternational Congress.

We wish to thank the followingFounding Members for their signifi-cant donations of $500 or more:

Marilia Baker (MHE Building Fund)

John Frykman (MHE Building Fund/Archives) Kristina Erickson (Museum Fund)Robert B. Erickson (Museum Fund)Roxanna Erickson Klein and AlanKlein (Museum Fund)Dennis Mattson (Museum Fund)Dan Short (MHE Building Fund)Marjorie Soroka (MHE Building Fund)Barbara and Joseph Straining (MHE Building Fund)Tracey and Stan Tatkin (Museum Fund)Diane and Michael Yapko (MHE Building Fund/Archives)We also wish to thank those who

have donated $100 or more, including:Johann Anton EgliStella Greenhalgh Oren Ilana

John LentzColleen and Wally MullerDr. Joan NeehallWilfrid NkodiaCarme Timoneda-GallartSheean TrevorKaren WallAnd last, but definitely not least be-

cause all donations are appreciated,thank you to: Rosa Carusa, Jose Cava,Dean Couris, Kathleen Donaghy,Kevin Drab, Debbie Joffe, HalimFaisal, Sharon Furlong, David Gillies,Hitoshi Kasai, Maureen Janeski, Lau-ren Jones, Arleen Leis, David Lippitt,Phyllis Linhart, Paula Llobet, DavidLondon, Avrohom Kass, David Milner,Luis Guzman Moreno, Joyce Mills,Rodrigo Murrer, Rebecca Peck andJames Warnke.

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CONFERENCE NOTESThe American Society of Clinical Hypnosis (ASCH) will hold the 55th Annual Scientific Meetings and Workshop, The Triple Crown: Integrating the Mind, Body

and Spirit, March 15-19, 2013 at the Marriott Louisville Downtown, Louisville, Kentucky. For information contact the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis, 140 N.Bloomingdale Rd., Bloomingdale, IL 60108; Tel, 630-980-4740;

Fax, 630-351-8490; Email, info@asch.net ; Web, www.ASCH.net

Psychotherapy Networker is sponsoring the 2013 Networker Symposium, The Therapist’s Craft: Healing Connection in a Digital World, March 21-24, 2013 at theOmni Shoreham Hotel, Washington, D.C. For information contact: Psychotherapy Networker, 5135 MacArthur Boulevard N.W., Washington, D.C. 20016; Tel, 202-537-8950; Fax, 202-537-6869; Email, info@psychnetworker.org ; Web, www.PsychotherapyNetworker.org

The Couples Conference will be held April 18-21, 2013 at the Manhattan Beach Marriott in Manhattan Beach, California. The Conference is sponsored by The Mil-ton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc. with organizational assistance provided by The Couples Institute, Menlo Park. Faculty will include Lonnie Barbach, Stephanie Brown,Paul Ekman, Marty Klein, Bill O’Hanlon, Esther Perel, Stephen Porges, Terry Real, Janis Abrahms Spring, Michele Weiner-Davis, and Jeffrey Zeig. Preliminary infor-mation will be available in October on the Conference Web site: www.CouplesConference.com

The American Psychological Association (APA) will hold the 121st APA Annual Convention July 31-August 4, 2013 in Honolulu, Hawaii. For more information con-tact the APA, 750 First Street NE, Washington, D.C. 20002-4242; Tel, 800-374-2721; 202-336-5500. TDD/TTY: 202-336-6123; Web, www.apa.org

The Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference sponsored by The Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc., will be held December 11-15, 2013 in Anaheim, California. Moreinformation will be available in the coming weeks. Visit the Conference web site: www.evolutionofpsychotherapy.com or contact the Erickson Foundation, 2632 E.Thomas Road, Suite 200, Phoenix, AZ 85016; Tel, 602-956-6196; Fax, 602-956-0519; Email, office@erickson-foundation.org

The European Society of Hypnosis (ESH) in collaboration with the Italian Society of Hypnosis (SII) will hold the 13th International Congress entitled, Hypnosis andReslience: From Trauma and Stress to Resources and Healing, October 22-25, 2014 in Sorrento, Italy (Amalfi Coast). For more information contact Societa Italianà diIpnosi, Viale Regina Margherita, 296, 00198 Rome, Italy; Tel and Fax: (039) 06 8548205; Email: ipnosii@libero.it; Web, www.societaipnosi.it

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UPCOMING TRAININGDATE TITLE / LOCATION / LEADER CONTACTS

12/19-23 Hypnotic Patterns / Beijing, China / Jeffrey K. Zeig, Ph.D. 1.

2013

1/10-13 Ericksonian Coaching / Sao Paulo, Brazil / Zeig 2.

1/24-27 Intensive Supervision Workshop in Ericksonian Clinical Hypnotherapy - Master Class / New York City, NY / Zeig 3.

1/25-27 ASCH Approved Basic Hypnosis Training / (20 CEUs) / Los Angeles, Calif. / Norma Barretta, Ph.D., Philip Barretta, MA, MFT, David Gordon, Ph.D., Dyan Haspel-Johnson, Ph.D., Eleanor Haspel-Portner, Ph.D., Cye Hoffman, Ph.D., Ben Pomerantz, Ph.D. 4.

1/28-2/1 StoryPlay® Foundations: A New Ericksonian Indirective Model of Play Therapy / Marriott Suites Old Town, Scottsdale, Ariz. / Joyce C. Mills, Ph.D. 5.

2/7-10 Ericksonian Methods Demystified / Potsdam, Germany / Zeig 6.

2/18-22 Intensive Training in Ericksonian Approaches to Brief Hypnotic Psychotherapy - Fundamental / Phoenix, Ariz. / Brent Geary, Ph.D., Zeig and Invited Presenters 7.

2/25-3/1 Intensive Training in Ericksonian Approaches to Brief Hypnotic Psychotherapy - Intermediate / Phoenix, Ariz. / Geary, Zeig, and Invited Presenters 7.

3/2-5 Brief Psychotherapy Master Class / Phoenix, Ariz. / Lilian Borges Zeig, LPC; Jeffrey Zeig, Ph.D. 7.

3/7-10 Intensive Supervision Workshop in Ericksonian Clinical Hypnotherapy - Master Class / New York City, NY / Zeig 3.

4/12-14 ASCH Approved Intermediate Hypnosis Training / (20 CEUs) / Los Angeles, Calif. / Barbara Freedman, Psy.D., MFT, Gordon, Haspel-Johnson, Haspel-Portner, Karin Meiselman, Ph.D., Pomerantz, Peter Stone, D.D.S. 4.

4/19-21 Couples Conference / Manhattan Beach, Calif. / Invited Presenters 8.

5/5 ASCH Approved Advanced Training “How Classical Mindfulness Can Facilitate Hypnosis in the Treatment of PTSD” / (4 CEUs) / Los Angeles, Calif. / Lobsang Rapgay, Ph.D. 4.

5/18-19 The Erickson Way: Telling Stories Where They Belong / SF Theological Seminary / San Anselmo {Marin County}, Calif. / Betty Alice Erickson, Ph.D., LPC, MFT, Eric Greenleaf, Ph.D., John Dyckman, Ph.D. 9.

5/1-12 Brief Ericksonian Hypnotherapy / Russia / Zeig 10.

5/24-17 Ericksonian Hypnosis & Psychotherapy / Guadalajara, Mexico / Zeig 11.

6/1-5 Hypnotic Patterns / Guangzhou, China / Zeig 12.

6/8-12 Hypnotic Patterns / Beijing, China / Zeig 1.

6/14-15 Hypnotic Patterns / Hong Kong, China / Zeig 13.

7/15-19 Intensive Training in Ericksonian Approaches to Brief Hypnotic Psychotherapy - Fundamental / Phoenix, Ariz. / Geary, L. Zeig, J. Zeig and Invited Presenters 7.

7/22-26 Intensive Training in Ericksonian Approaches to Brief Hypnotic Psychotherapy - Intermediate / Phoenix, Ariz. / Geary, L. Zeig, J. Zeig, and Invited Presenters 7.

7/29-8/2 Intensive Training in Ericksonian Approaches to Brief Hypnotic Psychotherapy - Advanced / Phoenix, Ariz. / Zeig 7.

Contact Information:1. Email, wangyaning@yahoo.com.cn

2. Web, www.elsever.org

3. Stacey Moore; E-mail, sjmtjm@msn.com

4. Southern California Society for Clinical Hypnosis (SCSCH): Web,www.scsch.camp7.org ; Email, administrator@scsch.org ; Tel, 1-888-32SCSCH/(888) 327-2724

5. Email, drjoyce@drjoycemills.com; Web, www.storyplayglobal.com

6. Web, http://metaforum-deutschland.de ; Email, feld@coaching-musikwelt.deor bernd.isert@metaforum.com

7. The Milton H. Erickson Foundation – Intensive Training Program and Mas-ter Class: Web, www.erickson-foundation.org/training/intensives/; MasterClass: www.erickson-foundation.org/training/master-class/ ; Tel, 602-956-6196; Fax, 602-956-0519; Email, registration@erickson-foundation.org

8. The Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc., 3606 N. 24th Street, Phoenix, AZ85016 6500; Tel, 602-956-6196; Fax, 602-956-0519; Email, office@erick-son-foundation.org ; Web, www.erickson-foundation.org; Couples Confer-ence, www.CouplesConference.com ; Evolution Conference:www.evolutionofpsychotherapy.com

9. Eric Greenleaf: Email, training.MHEIBA@gmail.com; Web, www.miltonherickson.com

10. Email, psyinst@psyinst.ru

11. Email, juan_francisco@cmpnl.edu.mx

12. Email, gracenlp@yahoo.com.cn

13. Email, kelvin@pulseact.com

To submit a listing for Upcoming Trainings, please send dates, title of work-shop, venue (city/state/country), list of presenters, and complete contact informa-tion ONLY. Information must be sent in the format above. A $25 fee per listing isrequired. Deadline for the 2013 Spring Issue (mailed April) is February 1, 2013.All workshop submissions are subject to approval by the Erickson Foundation.For more information, please contact Karen Haviley-karen@erickson-foundation.org or mhreg@aol.com

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Rapid Hypnotic Inductions:

Demonstrations and Applications

By Gabor Filo

Crownhouse Publishing Crownhousepublishing.com

United Kingdom 60 minutes

2012

Reviewed by Roxanna Erickson KleinRN, Ph.D., Dallas, Texas

Gabor Filo has considerable expe-rience and success in integrating ther-apeutic hypnosis with his dentalpractice. This DVD demonstrates a se-ries of inductions and includes bothverbal and non-verbal approaches. It isaccompanied by a 16-page pamphlet inwhich the techniques are describedmore in depth.

The DVD opens with three minutesof succinct, introductory remarks spo-ken while the viewer sees a watchswinging. The comments are excellent

D V D R E V I E Wand prepare the viewer for appreciat-ing that induction techniques are bothvaried and individual, and that profes-sionals must find a style that suits boththeir personality and practice needs.Filo points out that each of the tech-niques demonstrated contains the ba-sics of clinical hypnotherapy: Rapport.Focusing, Deepening, Re-alerting andDe-briefing.

The variety of techniques can beused in a counseling office as well asin the dental chair. While the hands-onrapid style may not be the first choiceof induction for the average counselor,it is still interesting to see that effectivetrance can be reached so swiftly. It alsois reassuring to discover that effectivestates of relaxation can be reached insettings such as dental offices wherespeed is imperative. The variety ofstyles shown opens possibilities for ex-pansion and variation of one’s ownpersonal style. This DVD fills an edu-cational need in making this informa-tion readily available.

However, I noted two minor flawsin this DVD. First, prior to using some

of these techniques, a longer introduc-tory segment would have been appre-ciated in that it would have betterdelineated the target audience andstressed the important foundation ofclinical experience. Second, there werea few non-standard U.S. formatting is-sues. Several computers I tried wouldnot play the DVD, but after consultinga technician, it played perfectly on afreestanding DVD player.

Filmed in his dental office, Dr. Filoengages one subject first, then anothertwo subjects to demonstrate a series ofbrief inductions and re-arousal tech-niques. The three subjects were wellchosen for their obvious rapport withthe dentist, their abilities to enter trancerapidly, and their ability to expresstheir experiences clearly.

The induction procedures Filo usesinclude physical contact, hand move-ments, eye fixation, fractionation, andsurprise, in addition to words, tone, ex-pectation, and pressure points. Oncetrance is induced, Filo used a variety ofdeepening techniques, analogies ofsafety, and post-hypnotic suggestionsof comfort to expand the trance work.

Signaling, scaling, and post-hypnoticconversations were used to review theclient’s experiences. Within the series,the viewer can note demonstrations ofdissociation, ideo-motor signaling, andglove anesthesia. The length of tranceinductions ranged from extremely briefto a ten-minute demonstration ofElman’s classic technique.

The DVD culminated with a 15-minute film of actual dental work donewith a patient in 2005. The patient de-scribed a prior dental phobia. Per-formed without anesthesia, the patientgives a remarkable description of theprocedure from his perspective. Thedental procedure, as well as the pa-tient’s description of his own experi-ence, offers a rare opportunity towitness effective work.

Overall, I very much appreciatedthis DVD, and would highly recom-mend it for both individuals who seekto expand their repertoire, and espe-cially for professional groups whostudy hypnotic procedures andprocesses.

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Circular Therapeutics: Giving Therapy a Healing Heart

Hillary Keeney

Bradford Keeney

Zeig, Tucker and Theisen, Inc.Phoenix, Arizona

2012243 pages

ISBN: 978-1-934442-43-2

Reviewed by Annellen Simpkins, Ph.D.and C. Alexander Simpkins, Ph.D.

San Diego, CA

Circular Therapeutics is not just abook; it is meant to give the reader atransformative experience. TheKeeneys draw from their own back-ground and from great thinkers includ-ing Gregory Bateson with hiscybernetic theory and Von Foerster,who combined physics and philosophy.They also touch upon the healing tra-

ditions of the Kalahari Bushmen. But,the Keeneys also believe the readershould ultimately be freed from allmodels and methods to evolve bymeans of circular therapeutic improvi-sation. Background is only what camebefore; it is not the ground the thera-pist must walk to heal the client. TheKeeneys maintain that psychotherapyis an interactive improvisational per-formance art with spiritual depth, andthat other models miss the point.

To the Keeneys, psychotherapy ismisunderstood when considered interms of any outer form. Psychother-apy is better cast within an inner, cir-cular, Zen-like, formless form.Therapy proceeds from the heart, theKeeneys remind us, technique is sec-ondary; it must be woven with andwithin the wisdom of healing, an an-cient tradition whose origins are lost inthe mists of time. Transformationalmetaphor should be created moment-to-moment in psychotherapy with theclient during cybernetic interactivity.Use intuition without plans or models.

B O O K R E V I E W

Shift levels of dialogue in recursivecircularity. Co-create performanceswith the client that are healingmetaphors. These metaphors emergefrom the wellspring of the heart. Sym-bolic images, role-playing, stories, andpoems help evoke healing.

The book has 14 interrelated chap-ters. A short section called “Interlude”follows each chapter. Each interludecomments on what the chapter ex-pressed, often with a metaphoricalshort story. The book begins with theargument for letting go of modelingand theory as a guide, then of theoriz-ing itself. Early chapters describe andjustify the approach, and also criticizeand deconstruct the narrative approachto family therapy. Instead, the authorsextend an invitation to improvisationalcircular therapy. Entering interactivityreframes therapy as an inescapable en-tanglement between subject and object.The escape route is interactivity itself,avoiding either objectification as athing or interpretation as a label orname. Other chapters give tips on howto offer a context for metaphors thatlead the client away from theory, inter-pretation, or labels.

The Keeneys explain the generalbasics of cybernetics from the perspec-

tive of Bateson and Foerster, usingthese fundament