Tips to IncreaseSocial Engagement

Talk with School or Support StaffTalk with your school’s special education director,guidance counselor, or teacher to get ideas aboutpeers that may be socially appropriate for yourchild. You may be able to schedule play dates oroutings with these peers. Your child can also receive instruction on socialskills from their school’s special educationdepartment if it is part of their individualizededucation plan (IEP). It is possible they are alreadyrunning a program that your child may be able tojoin.

This resource provides tips and suggestions for families and caregivers onhow to potentially increase social engagement for an individual with autism.

Utilize Support and AdvocacyGroupsPerhaps you can find enough children in yourlocal area to start a support group or you canjoin one that is already established in your area.Check out the ASERT Support Group map tofind groups close to home!  

Maximize on Areas of InterestGetting your child out of the house may be the firststep toward becoming more social. Scheduling afun out around his or her special interest may helpthem take that first step to get out into thecommunity. Check the ASERT website for specialevents and activities in your area.

Try Online OptionsSocial media may be another way to encourageyour child to be more engaged socially. Onlinegaming, Google Hangouts, Facebook, and otheroptions may provide opportunities to interact withothers. However, it is important to monitor thecontent of social media sites and discuss internetsafety before and during use.

Pen Pal OptionsIf face to face social contactcauses too much anxiety, agood starting point may beto find a pen pal. Familymembers, neighbors, peersat school, or social groupsmay be good sources foryour child to find a pen pal.There are also specificorganizations that providenumerous pen pal options.For more information,contact the ASERTResource Center.