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Now that you have booked your wedding venue, it’s time to go shopping! We’ve gatherd advice directly from the owner of your favorite bridal salon, Mira Jantz with Mira Bridal Couture.What makes your bridal salon unique?When designing Mira Bridal Couture 3 years ago, I decided I wanted to create a personal and intimate shopping experience for our future brides. Our downtown location and inimitable design has become the perfect setting for a bride and her mother, sisters, or grandmother to spend the afternoon finding the perfect gown, celebrating with a glass of champagne, wiping a few tears of joy and then strolling downtown for lunch afterwards. Inside our salon every bride will find a unique and classic selection of wedding gowns and accessories. Not only do we work to perfect the dreams of local brides, but we strive to support the brides traveling in from as far as Santa Cruz, Sacramento, and Fresno. Therefore, our passion in maintaining an incomparable, distinctive, and exclusive selection is even more important..What should every bride know before shopping?My advice for every bride is to be prepared. Don’t wake up one Saturday morning and decide it is time to get your gown. Schedule

your appointment 1-2 weeks in advance. Do some homework. Collect pictures out of bridal magazines and designer web sites. Know the location, time of day and style of your wedding. Set your budget for your gown and only bring 1-2 loved ones to your appoint-ment. Whether you select your mom, sister or best friend, once you find the perfect dress, there is no need to shop elsewhere. You’ll overwhelm yourself and turn shopping into a chore instead of an experience. You’ll always go back to the first one.What can we expect to see brides of 2009 wearing?My goal when working with each bride is to keep her wedding gown classic and timeless, not too trendy. I have made some amazing purchases for 2009 that will work with every style and budget. Brides will have a larger selection of straps, sleeves, lace, ruffles, rosettes, and bolero jackets. The assortments of silhouettes are perfect for the garden, ballroom, or sunset ceremonies in the sand.Hem lines are hiked up for fun and flirty brides or the fashion forward bride looking to make a quick reception change into something shorter.Over all, simplicity and elegance is key for each brides style. With 4 new bridal lines added to our salon for 2009, our selection is at its best. (2009 designs begin arriving in July.)

Nestled in downtown Modesto sits an intimate boutique for women. Catering to Brides, the bridal party, Mother's, prom, or any special occasion, Mira Bridal Couture creates a relaxing and inviting experience. With classic and timeless designs, incredible service and a stellar reputation, the owners and staff invite you to visit as you get ready for holiday parties and any other special event coming up.

Owners, Mira and Mike Jantz would like to thank their loyal supporters and clients for continuing to shop and support locally owned businesses and keeping downtown strong. It is because of our wonderful clients and supporters that in our first 2 years of business we have been awarded two prestigious awards. The 2008 & 2007 Modesto Bee “Best of Modesto” and the 2007 Channel 3 KCRA “A List”.

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Eve of Milady

Amalia Carrera

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Vineyard

Now that you have booked your wedding venue, it’s time to go shopping! We’ve gathered advice directly from the owner of your favorite bridal salon, Mira Jantz with Mira Bridal Couture.

What makes your bridal salon unique?

When designing Mira Bridal Couture, I decided I wanted to create a personal and intimate shopping experience for our future brides. Our downtown location and inimitable design has become the perfect setting for a bride and her mother, sisters, or grandmother to spend the afternoon finding the perfect gown, celebrating with a glass of champagne, wiping a few tears of joy and then strolling downtown for lunch afterwards. Inside our salon every bride will find a unique and classic selection of wedding gowns and accessories. Not only do we work to perfect the dreams of local brides, but we strive to support the brides traveling in from as far as Santa Cruz, Sacramento, and Fresno. Therefore, our passion in maintaining an incomparable, distinctive, and exclusive selection is even more important..

What should every bride know before shopping?

My advice for every bride is to be prepared. Don’t wake up one Saturday morning and decide it is time to get your gown. Schedule your appointment 1-2 weeks in advance. Do some homework. Collect pictures out of bridal magazines and designer web sites. Know the location, time of day and style of your wedding. Set your budget for your gown and only bring 1-2 loved ones to your appointment.Whether you select your mom, sister or best friend, once you find the perfect dress, there is no need to shop elsewhere. You’ll overwhelm yourself and turn shopping into a chore instead of an experience. You’ll always go back to the first one.

What can we expect to see brides of 2011 wearing?

Layers, layers, and more layers. The more texture the better. My goal when selecting styles for our clients is to keep the look modern and stylish, yet classic and unforgettable. I feel this is my best

year in buying. Grace Kelly meets Ivanka Trump. Not only can you find an amazing design to fit your dreams, but it will fit your pocket book even more.

What separates Mira Bridal Couture from the rest?

7 years ago, when I was shopping for my wedding gown, I found that every store I visited carried the same designers, the same dresses,, the same looks. It became very repetitive and I wanted individuality. When selecting our designers, I take on “exclusive” contracts. What this means is you can not find the same gown or designer with in a 60-80 mile radius. It is important to me that we carry an incomparable collection and maintain distinction and originality. What’s beautiful about it all is that you don’t have to shop aisles and aisles of gowns in warehouse, department, or bargain type setting to find an amazing gownwith an amazing price. You can shop at MBC and find the most glamorous and chic gown from $600 to $6000.

The only shopping destination for quality, service and selection. Specializing in attire for the modern bride & groom and their entire wedding party. We thank all of our loyal supporters and clients for continuing to shop and support locally owned businesses. It is because of you we continue to receive prestigious recognition and awards.

Owners, Mira and Mike Jantz would like to thank their loyal supporters and clients for continuing to shop and support locally owned businesses and keeping downtown strong. It is because of our wonderful clients and supports that In our first 3 years of business we have been awarded 3 prestigious awards. “Best of Modesto” 2007 & 2008 and the 2007 Channel 3 KCRA “A List.”






Redefining your

Experience




Nicole Miller

Watters

Wtoo

Marisa

Melissa Sweet

Alvina Valenta

And more....

Jim Hjelm

Pronovias

La Sposa

San Patrick

Amsale

Eve of Milady

Amalia Carrera

Amy Michelson

Vineyard

Advice for Brides on Bridal Gown Shopping

LazaroJim HjelmPronoviasLa SposaNicole MillerMarisaMartina Liana” ”

Watters BrideVineyard* *from Pricilla of Boston

Wtoo BrideMelissa SweetTuxedo & Suit RentalsEssense of Australia

For the Modern Bride & Groom






Redefining your

Experience




Nicole Miller

Watters

Wtoo

Marisa

Melissa Sweet

Alvina Valenta

And more....

Jim Hjelm

Pronovias

La Sposa

San Patrick

Amsale

Eve of Milady

Amalia Carrera

Amy Michelson

Vineyard

Now that you have booked your wedding venue, it’s time to go shopping! We’ve gathered advice directly from the owner of your favorite bridal salon, Mira Jantz with Mira Bridal Couture.

What makes your bridal salon unique?

When designing Mira Bridal Couture, I decided I wanted to create a personal and intimate shopping experience for our future brides. Our downtown location and inimitable design has become the perfect setting for a bride and her mother, sisters, or grandmother to spend the afternoon finding the perfect gown, celebrating with a glass of champagne, wiping a few tears of joy and then strolling downtown for lunch afterwards. Inside our salon every bride will find a unique and classic selection of wedding gowns and accessories. Not only do we work to perfect the dreams of local brides, but we strive to support the brides traveling in from as far as Santa Cruz, Sacramento, and Fresno. Therefore, our passion in maintaining an incomparable, distinctive, and exclusive selection is even more important..

What should every bride know before shopping?

My advice for every bride is to be prepared. Don’t wake up one Saturday morning and decide it is time to get your gown. Schedule your appointment 1-2 weeks in advance. Do some homework. Collect pictures out of bridal magazines and designer web sites. Know the location, time of day and style of your wedding. Set your budget for your gown and only bring 1-2 loved ones to your appointment.Whether you select your mom, sister or best friend, once you find the perfect dress, there is no need to shop elsewhere. You’ll overwhelm yourself and turn shopping into a chore instead of an experience. You’ll always go back to the first one.

What can we expect to see brides of 2011 wearing?

Layers, layers, and more layers. The more texture the better. My goal when selecting styles for our clients is to keep the look modern and stylish, yet classic and unforgettable. I feel this is my best

year in buying. Grace Kelly meets Ivanka Trump. Not only can you find an amazing design to fit your dreams, but it will fit your pocket book even more.

What separates Mira Bridal Couture from the rest?

7 years ago, when I was shopping for my wedding gown, I found that every store I visited carried the same designers, the same dresses,, the same looks. It became very repetitive and I wanted individuality. When selecting our designers, I take on “exclusive” contracts. What this means is you can not find the same gown or designer with in a 60-80 mile radius. It is important to me that we carry an incomparable collection and maintain distinction and originality. What’s beautiful about it all is that you don’t have to shop aisles and aisles of gowns in warehouse, department, or bargain type setting to find an amazing gownwith an amazing price. You can shop at MBC and find the most glamorous and chic gown from $600 to $6000.

The only shopping destination for quality, service and selection. Specializing in attire for the modern bride & groom and their entire wedding party. We thank all of our loyal supporters and clients for continuing to shop and support locally owned businesses. It is because of you we continue to receive prestigious recognition and awards.

Owners, Mira and Mike Jantz would like to thank their loyal supporters and clients for continuing to shop and support locally owned businesses and keeping downtown strong. It is because of our wonderful clients and supports that In our first 3 years of business we have been awarded 3 prestigious awards. “Best of Modesto” 2007 & 2008 and the 2007 Channel 3 KCRA “A List.”






Redefining your

Experience




Nicole Miller

Watters

Wtoo

Marisa

Melissa Sweet

Alvina Valenta

And more....

Jim Hjelm

Pronovias

La Sposa

San Patrick

Amsale

Eve of Milady

Amalia Carrera

Amy Michelson

Vineyard

Advice for Brides on Bridal Gown Shopping

LazaroJim HjelmPronoviasLa SposaNicole MillerMarisaMartina Liana” ”

Watters BrideVineyard* *from Pricilla of Boston

Wtoo BrideMelissa SweetTuxedo & Suit RentalsEssense of Australia

For the Modern Bride & Groom


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WHAT’S INSIDE10 Wedding Tips And Trends

12 BridAl evenTs in sAn JoAquin

13 Bride-To-Be Book revieWs

16 HAuTe iTeMs for THe Big dAy

20 BridAl goWn Trends

24 fAsHion ABoArd Bridal couture meets nautical flair on the

waters of the San Joaquin Delta. photography by Element Studios

30 love on A privATe islAnd The veil is lifted on four private, romantic

isles for honeymooners. by Jenn Thornton

38 Wedding TiMeline

42 loCAl Bride And grooMs Six unique San Joaquin bride and grooms share

the details of their big day. by Katy Berry

56 Wedding q&A by Jenn Thornton

59 resourCe direCTory

60 CAke CreATions

64 eMBellisHed florAls

72 lAsT Word

PUbLISHER | EDITOR Tony Zoccoli

MANAgINg EDITOR jamie Menaker

ASSISTANT EDITORKaty Berry

CREATIvE DEPARTMENT Violet Whitworth

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CONTRIbUTINg WRITER jenn Thornton

PHOTOgRAPHyStephanie baker, briggs Photo, Caroline Photography, Element Studios, Lori Makabe, Weddings by James

SALES AND MARkETINg DIRECTORHeather Hilton

ACCOUNT EXECUTIvES Michelle Cox, Kelly Moore,Vikki sandor-Girolami, Valerie Zoccoli

ACCOUNTINg Valerie Zoccoli

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TO HAVE AND TO HOLDFrom antique hair accessories to jewel-toned color palettes, it’s all about showcasing vibrant jewels of the aisle. In keeping with this retro-inspired movement, brides have taken to repurposing their family jewels into unique wedding accessories. Our favorite ornament to emerge from this wedding trend is the heirloom brooch bouquet—a one-of-a-kind, pass-it-down floral arrangement made from vintage pins and statement-making brooches. Beyond sentiment, these darling charmers lend dash to alternative weddings with bold style. www.BroochBouquets.com.

TIPS AND TRENDS

COLOR THEM HAPPYNothing sours a wedding like disgruntled bridesmaids dolled up in dresses that they would never wear unless forced. Rather than insisting your ‘maids adopt your aisle style (impeccable though it is), remember the days when you were strong-armed into donning inappropriate tulle and (gasp!) obnoxious peach organza, have sympathy, and rethink your dress code. Instead of trying to make everyone happy—you won’t, by the way—select a primary color and ask your bridesmaids to choose any dress they love in a shade of that hue. This chic refashioning of an outdated tradition gives your bridal party their moment without upstaging you, and lends dimension and a unique touch to the Big Day.

WEDDING PLANNING DON’TS10. Don’t work with a wedding planner who is unwilling or unable to produce a portfolio or testimonials upon request.

9. Don’t rush down the aisle.

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3. Don’t treat photography as an afterthought; skimp elsewhere to splurge on heirloom memories.

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Here comes the Bride Bridal Events in San Joaquin • compiled by KATY BERRY

2010 SAWP Summer Wedding Party BashJune 26, StocktonParty while you plan! This bash brings an array of vendors for you to explore, all while enjoying live music, cocktails, and appetizers. 6 p.m. $10 at the door or $5 if you pre-register at www.valleyweddingpros.com.The Reserve at Spanos Park, 6301 West Eight Mile Rd., Stockton, (209) 477-4653, www.stocktonweddingassociation.com

Bridal Expo, an Evening of EleganceJuly 14, SacramentoForget stressful planning. This event has live music, champagne, and hors d’oeuvres to accompany the beautiful setting of the Vizcaya Pavillion. Sip on some bubbly while you browse vendors and speak with local exhibitors. 5-9 p.m. $20 at the door, $15 online.Vizcaya Pavillion and Mansion, 21st and T Sts., Sacramento, (916) 455-5243, www.bridal-expos.com

Kat’s Cakes Dessert TastingAugust 5 and November 4, Stockton Bring your fiancée to Kat’s Cakes for an open house filled with appetizers, drinks, music, and best of all, cake. You’ll be able to casually browse wedding designs, attire, and floral arrangements all while sampling Kat’s many delicious confections. Door prizes will be awarded. 5-8 p.m. $10 per couple, advanced reservations required. Kat’s Cakes, 2230 Pacific Ave., Stockton, (209) 466-CAKE, www.katscakes.com

Stockton’s 14th Annual Summer Bridal Event August 11, StocktonA great way to start planning your big day, this event includes a ‘Fashion Show Extravaganza’, door prizes, and local merchants including DJ’s, cake makers, photographers, and florists. 6-9 p.m. $8.Stockton Hilton Hotel, 2323 Grand Canal Blvd., Stockton, (209) 475-9161, www.bridalevents.info

Fourth Annual Modesto International Wedding FestivalSeptember 12, ModestoWith a fashion show featuring stylish new bridal trends, and an expansive array of vendors, the motto of this festival is “Why dream when you can plan?” Here you’ll find everything you need to create your special event and make it memorable for years to come. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. $8.Modesto Centre Plaza, 1000 L Street, Modesto, (877) 700-BRIDE, www.internationalweddingfestival.com

Party and Wedding FaireSeptember 19 and January 16, ModestoShowing almost 100 exhibitors, the Party and Wedding Faire is set up like a trade show and has an impressive array of vendors. From favors to honeymoon ideas, the bride and groom will be able to satisfy even their most exclusive wedding ideas at this exciting show. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. $5 or free with donation to one of several non-profits at the show.Vintage Faire Mall, Sisk and Dale Rds., Modesto, (209) 527-3499, www.partyandwedding.com

Fifth Annual ‘With This Ring’ Bridal ShowJanuary 16, MercedThis annual show has everything you need to plan the wedding of your dreams and features fashion shows, helpful planning ideas, and prizes for attendees. 12-4 p.m. $6.Merced County Fairgrounds Pavilion, 900 Martin Luther King Jr. Way, Merced, (209) 966-3890, www.internationalweddingfestival.com



Bride-to-Be book reviews compiled by JENN ThoRNToN

Crazy Loveby Michael Bublé Crazy Love, the latest CD from retro-pop crooner Michael Bublé, vigorously swings with modern interpretations of swooning standards and jazzy new riffs on songs of love in all its heartbreaking and joyful states. Bublé’s energetic version of “Cry Me a River”

and his chart-topping hit, “Haven’t Met You Yet,” are must-adds to any reception playlist.

The Nest Newlywed Handbook: An Owner’s Manual for Modern Married Life by Carley Roney Your wedding went off without a hitch. Your honeymoon? Everything you imagined and more. Domestic bliss? You’re crossing your fingers. While you and yours hope for the best, the editors of The Knot have written The Nest Newlywed Handbook, which offers nugget-upon-nugget about

subjects that affect every newlywed post-altar—first-time home-buying, finances, and fanning the flames for life among them.

The Wedding Book: The Big Book for Your Big Dayby Mindy Weiss with Lisbeth LevineThe bride-to-be looking for the ‘Bible’ on planning her dream wedding will find everything she needs (perhaps, more than what’s healthy) in Mindy Weiss’ massive undertaking, The Wedding Book. This Everest of planning how-tos is beyond

comprehensive—schedules, budgets, timelines, oh my!—and packed with tips of the trade from one of Hollywood’s most sought-after wedding planners.

Green Wedding: Planning Your Eco-Friendly Celebrationby Mireya NavarroBy all means, wear white for your Big Day, but when it comes to planning the actual ceremony, why not go green? Mireya’s Navarro’s Green Weddings contains valuable tips about how to

throw an eco-chic but socially-responsible wedding from start to finish. Repurposing, reusing, eliminating waste, and finding ways to seek out environmentally-friendly products and services are featured topics in this insightful resource.

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in the San Francisco Tradition

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1. Addicted to Love Silver Bangle by Hot Diamonds.

At Gary Long Jewelers, Stockton, www.gjlongjewelers.com.

2. All About Us by Philipp Keel. At Tom’s Used Books, Lodi, or

www.amazon.com.

3. Dogeared ‘100 Good Wishes’ Gold-Dipped Beaded Necklace. At

PDC the Boutique, Lodi, www.pdctheboutique.com.

4. Lilly Pulitzer for Le Sportsac Bags. At www.lesportsac.com or

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5. Flip Mini Camcorder. At any local electronics store, www.theflip.com.

6. Seventh Heaven Pamper Package. At Perfect Balance Day Spa, Lodi,

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7. Kashwére Robe. At Mon Petit Chic, Lodi,

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8. Kai Fragrance. At PDC the Boutique, Lodi,

www.pdctheboutique.com.

9. Theatre Tickets to Dreamgirls. At the Orpheum Theatre, San

Francisco, www.shnsf.com, www.dreamgirlsonstage.com.

10. Embellished Hanky Panky Thongs, ‘Bride’, ‘Mrs.’, ‘I Do’,

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2. Torker Beach Cruiser. At Tracy Cyclery, Tracy, www.torkerusa.com.

3. Bose Quiet Comfort 15 Acoustic Noise Cancelling Headphones. At

any local electronics store, www.bose.com.

4. Apple iPad. At Apple Store, Vintage Fair Mall, Modesto,

www.apple.com.

5. REI Half Dome 4 Tent. At REI, Stockton, www.rei.com.

6. Nintendo Wii. At any local electronics store,

www.nintendo.com.

7. 55-Inch Samsung 3D LED HDTV. At any local electronics store,

www.samsung.com.

8. Belstaff Roadmaster Leather Jacket. At J. Crew, Pleasanton,

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9. DMI ‘The Bandit’ Bristle Dartboard. At www.dmisports.com.

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San Joaquin Weddings lifts the veil on four private, romantic isles for honeymooners.

by Jennifer Thornton | all photos courtesy the island resorts

With wedding celebrations becoming grander by the day, today’s honeymooners want nothing more than to get away from it all and take passionate matters into their own hands. Increasingly, this means a quixotic escape to a private island marked by calm lagoons, coral gardens, fiery sunsets, overwater bungalows, minimalist lodging, and romantic seclusion. The following destinations are among our favorite private isle hotspots. >>

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NECKER ISLANDIf money is no object, and we mean no object at all, then Necker Island—the 74-acre home of Virgin Records founder Sir Richard Branson—is the place for you, yours, and if you can swing it, 20 of your closest witnesses. Situated in the British Virgin Islands, the isle is a Balinese-inspired paradise surrounded by coral reefs and immaculate white-sand beaches that sit in stark but complementary contrast to turquoise Caribbean waters. Necker Island is, as they say, Crusoe-fabulous (just ask Oprah, she’s a fan). Comprised of an eight-bedroom “Great House” and six smaller “Bali Houses,” the island provides a storybook backdrop for a small destination wedding followed by an unforgettable honeymoon—lovers enjoy privacy, while their guests idle away the days sunning, kite-surfing, sailing, exploring the island, or noshing on succulent, freshly prepared fish delivered by Necker’s very own sushi canoe. A Floating Shooter Bar with pre-dinner shots also served from a ‘canoe’ (not the kind you’re used to piloting); sunset cruises by speedboat (this is Sir Richard Branson’s playground, after all); Bali Hi beach dinners; James Bond-style imbibing (think knocking back a Pink Flamingo martini while watching a classic movie); and donning pirate costumes for Pirates of the Caribbean night (rum included), is just some of what sets Necker Island apart from all other private atolls. www.neckerisland.virgin.com.

Claim to fame: Celebrity pedigree. Hollywood’s elite, including Steven

Spielberg, Mel Gibson, Michael Douglas, Catherine Zeta Jones, and Oprah have rented the entire island for a jaw-dropping price tag. Thankfully, nightly rates for mere mortals (you and yours) are also offered.

Privacy perks: The list of amenities is ridiculously long, but it starts with unbelievably luxe accommodations and continues with advanced spa therapies from Leha Leha Spa; deluxe gastronomic delights; well-groomed trails; two tennis courts and a gym; trade winds perfect for watersports; and entertainment that can include live performances from an authentic Caribbean band and a fireworks display.

Island hops: The single best thing about Necker Island—and the reason people pay big bucks to visit—is that there is no earthly reason to leave its shores. There’s not a mainland anywhere in the world to rival its wonders. But if you must test this theory, board a helicopter or a boat headed for Tortola for an afternoon of conching and rum tours.

CAYO ESPANTOLocated off the eastern coast of heavenly but accessible Belize is spectacular Cayo Espanto, a quaint four acres of unspoiled ecstasy surrounded by the shimmering jewel-toned waters of the Western Caribbean. Five villas and one overwater bungalow perched at the end of a 150-foot long dock—dreamy Casa Ventanas—accommodates a maximum of 16 guests, whom honeymooners will likely never lay eyes on. What they will see, however (and

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in abundance to boot), are stunning tropical panoramas marked by empty beaches, exotic botanicals, organic beauty living in harmonious balance with the island’s indigenous wildlife, and fellow lovers walking hand-in-hand down the beach, basking in the warm glow of a marigold-colored sunset. www.aprivateisland.com.

Claim to fame: Cayo Espanto is located just 15 minutes from the second largest barrier reef on the planet, and mere minutes from the world-famous Blue Hole, a 415-foot deep underwater sinkhole that Jacques Cousteau named one of the world’s top 10 sites for scuba diving.

Privacy perks: Temporary residents of Cayo Espanto enjoy inspired bungalow stays with a modern menu of amenities that include a private dock, plunge pool or Jacuzzi, and alfresco shower. Honeymooners will also enjoy personal butler service (epicurean cuisine at a moment’s notice); premium spa therapies such as a peaceful beachfront

massage; customized gourmet picnics of fresh lobster barbecue served on a secluded beach; access to paddle boats; and one-on-one diving instruction from a bona fide dive master.

Island hops: Honeymooners with bungalow-fever (not necessarily a bad thing, in this case) will find several day trips to wrest their antsy attentions. Scuba diving the Blue Hole and snorkeling at Belize’s nearby National Marine Park are givens, but islanders also will find solo and/or guided angling for bonefish and tarpon a worthy diversion. Birdwatching for spoonbill, pelican, and frigates on the neighboring islands of Cayo Rosario and Bird Caye is recommended, as are various cultural excursions that include exploring the ancient Mayan ruins of Lamanai.

DESROCHES ISLAND, SEYCHELLESBreathtaking in its splendor, the remote coral atoll of Desroches Island is the biggest of all the Amirantes islands, and arguably the Indian Ocean’s most beautiful. Gifted with an ideal climate, majestic views, and a beautiful landscape peppered with coconut trees, Desroches Island is comprised of 20 glass-fronted suites and 26 villas, complete with indoor/outdoor showers and any possible amenity you would ever need (but will probably never use), to complement the island’s sweet flavors and remarkable union of natural and manmade wonders. While more populated than most other private isles, Desroches Island makes good on its promise of privacy; honeymooners feel alone on its shores, at ease with its snail’s pace, and at home in its hospitable company. www.desroches-island.com.

Claim to fame: Apart from North Island, Desroches Island is the only all-inclusive resort in the Seychelles, which forms part of the world’s longest reef system, making it a haven for scuba divers keen on exploring a colorful underwater world alive with amazing aquaculture.

Privacy perks: Desroches Island boasts no mobile reception, making it easy for visitors to unplug and explore the isle by land (biking and fishing) or sea (scuba diving, snorkeling, and windsurfing). The island also offers its own boutique and luxury spa staffed by Balinese masseuses.

Island hops: The nearby island of St. Joseph’s hosts beach barbecues, sunset boat cruises, and hydro biking for guests of Desroches Island.

PETIT ST. VINCENTElegant rusticity amid a verdant tropical landscape make the tiny, privately-owned Petit St. Vincent one of the West Indies’ most enchanting natural beauties. Located 40 miles south of St. Vincent in the Grenadines, this quiet island resort surrounded by azure Caribbean waters and sheltered by a canopy of wind-swept palms provides indigenously posh accommodation in 22 chic, stone-quarried cottages scattered on hillsides and cliffs throughout the island. All are partially hidden by lush flower gardens, but still privy to spectacular picturesque vistas: sugary, white-sand beaches, wooden sun decks, and lazy-day hammocks. In a charming twist, guests are asked to alert staff of their service needs (afternoon lunch or an in-room massage, for

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example) by running a yellow flag up a bamboo pole outside their cottage, as no modern-day connections (internet service, TVs, or telephones) exist on Petit St. Vincent. www.psvresort.com.

Claim to fame: What makes Petit St. Vincent so special is the fact that it is still, remarkably and uniquely, lurking far under the radar. Visitors that have been here rave about the island’s weekly beach barbecue, featuring fresh lobster and steak cooked over an open firepit, and accompanied by a lively steel band serenade.

Privacy perks: “Do not disturb” is taken literally on Petit St. Vincent.

Warm waters and pleasant trade winds make the island perfect for tennis, snorkeling, sailing, windsurfing, scuba diving, sea kayaking in glass-bottom boats, and fishing, while a Yoga Pavilion and hiking trails f lanked by groves of banyan trees provide holistic- and eco-minded guests with restorative respite.

Island hops: Petit St. Richardson supplies the only offshore diversion. This tiny island offers honeymooners a thatched umbrella for shade, and a delightful spot to enjoy a customized lunch and cocktails delivered by dinghy.[SJ WEDDINGS]

Because even Happily Ever After begins with a plan, the following destination wedding tips will put you eight steps closer to the altar.

Budget realiStically: Know exactly what you have to spend, and what your guests can afford. Marrying abroad is not always the least expensive option, so monetary considerations must be a given, after which a nonnegotiable guest list should be compiled.

conSult an expert: Hire a destination wedding planner to help navigate the cultural landscape, translate legalities, and facilitate details.

conSider cuStomS: Not every country recognizes civil ceremonies, for example, and only permits couples to marry on certain days, so do your homework.

don’t procraStinate: A far-flung wedding requires time management. Translating and processing required documents takes time in other countries, so don’t wait to get started.

poSt the detailS: Design a simple website with wedding details, required paperwork, and links to travel deals for guests.

update documentation: Be aware of a country’s passport laws, and make sure that wedding guests have plenty of time to update their paperwork if necessary.

arrive early: Don’t leave anything to chance, and we’re not talking about jet lag either. Land at your wedding locale at least two days before the wedding to finalize any lingering details.

get a Written record: Make sure that you have a written confirmation of all agreements prior to payment.

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Knowing that Carolyn had always wanted her family to be present at her engagement, Wes made a good choice by popping the question while on vacation with her family in Mexico. After proposing on a cliff overlooking the sunset, the two celebrated with Carolyn’s family by opening a bottle of champagne that had been hidden in the nearby bushes. Preparing for the big day was stressful, but plans finally came together when the couple found their perfect venue at Wine and Roses in Lodi. They lined the foyer with childhood photos and chose rich purples to accent the affair. But for Wes and Carolyn, the most memorable aspect of the day was sharing it with their friends and family. “There was a point during the ceremony when we turned towards everyone and asked for their support as we moved forward in our marriage,” says Carolyn. “It was a really priceless moment, seeing all the faces smiling back at us. I was overfilled with joy.”—K.B.


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Erika was working as a part-time clerk and attending college when she met Stephen, the office accountant at her job. After five months of working together, their cubicle f lirtations finally evolved into a serious relationship when Erika was offered a new job on the East Coast. Stephen knew he’d be by her side, but he wanted to make it official. While visiting Connecticut, the two took a hike and had a picnic on the lake, where Stephen proposed and they became engaged. The couple decided to have a formal winter wedding, and wanted to bring out the spirit of the season without “hitting you over the head with Christmas,” says Erika. The garnet bridesmaids’ gowns conveyed the warmth of the holidays, while rich jewel tones and evergreen centerpieces created a natural, seasonal look. The outcome was a uniquely beautiful atmosphere, in which the two happily celebrated their new life together with friends and family. —K.B.


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Two years after meeting during a summer internship for the Philadelphia Eagles, Joshua took Kaitlin by surprise during a picnic by the river, and popped the question. After a moment of disbelief, Kaitlin said “Of course,” and they began preparing for the big day. The wedding took place at the beautiful Appleford Estate, a 300-year-old farm house on sprawling grounds filled with lush gardens, charming ponds, and brick walkways. It made sense that the couple chose a setting with such a rich history, as they happened to set their wedding date in the same year that all four of Joshua’s grandparents were celebrating their fiftieth wedding anniversaries. The happy couple honored both sets of grandparents during the reception by giving them a heartfelt speech and toasting to their success. This special coincidence was a significant way to celebrate Joshua and Kaitlin’s new journey, as they became part of their family’s history of long, loving marriages. —K.B.

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On January 31, 1969, soon after their high school graduation, Gretchen and Joe Eger gathered in Roseville, Michigan for a quiet, modest wedding ceremony. Forty years later, the two are happier than ever, and decided to commemorate their marriage last July by hosting a fortieth anniversary party on their sprawling, 40-acre vineyard estate in Acampo. Over one hundred friends and family members gathered from across the United States to party with the couple, who had a DJ spinning everything from doo-wop to hip hop to keep the dance f loor full. After the party, Gretchen and Joe spent two weeks enjoying the company of their visiting friends with brunches, barbecues, and pool parties. To all happy newlyweds, Gretchen offers this advice: “It’s not always a piece of cake, but don’t give up. You have to hang in there. We’ve had our ups and downs, but we stuck it out and now we’re happier than ever. Life is good.” —K.B.


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Q: What related events should guests have to pay for at a destination wedding? A: In one abrupt but appropriate word: Nada. Part of throwing a destination wedding is being fiscally responsible for all that it entails. So if your vision includes sunset nuptials in a faraway locale but you are working within a skinny budget, keep it small, otherwise be prepared to cover expenses for everything outside of travel and accommodations expenses. Spa treatments? Check. Rehearsal dinner meals? That’s an affirmative.

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Q: How do I politely uninvite a wedding guest? A: Delicately and only if it is absolutely necessary, especially if save-the-date cards have already been mailed. If the only reason you need to uninvite a guest is because you are over budget, find ways to cut corners, not only to side-step an awkward situation, but because having a certain perennial table-topper is not worth sacrificing a relationship. If the reason is of a more personal nature, retract the invite with as much grace as possible. A face-to-face interaction is best, a phone call will suffice, but a text message is a no-go, no matter what the offense. Honesty, even in a wedding situation, is still the best policy.

Q: Is it unfair to ask guests to attend a weekday wedding? A: It is not, as long as your expectations for a turnout are in line with the reality: Most people work and may not want to ask for time off to attend your wedding. If you can live with that possibility, proceed. Keep in mind, while you do not need to ask every guest for his or her opinion, do consult with those on your deal-breaker list as a courtesy. And remember, sending out timely save-the-date cards are essential in this situation.

Q: How do I ask my fiancée’s Best Man to censor his toast for the sake of my conservative family? A: It is your fiancée’s friend, so he should be the one to have the conversation with the Best Man, not you. The news will be better received. But to be fair, you should also have a sit-down with your folks to prepare them for what could be an embarrassing moment. Hopefully everyone involved will understand, but if not, politely but firmly remind all parties that it is your day and that their understanding is very much appreciated. If all else fails, make sure the Best Man is stone-cold sober when he takes the mic.

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The Thoughtful FlowerModesto, (209) 521-1451www.thoughtfulflower.com

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Let’s Make-Up, by Emily L. ShawModesto, (209) 402-2438www.letsmake-up.webs.com

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Geiger’s Fine JewelryTurlock, (209) 668-4653

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Rankin JewelersStockton, (209) 477-1055

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Diamond IceStockton, (209) 943-9422www.diamondiceinc.com

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Ceres Community CenterCeres, (209) 538-5629www.ci.ceres.ca.us/3061.html

Diablo Grande Golf &Country ClubPatterson, (209) 892-4653www.golfdiablogrande.com

The Rivers EdgeKnights Ferry, (209) 881-3466

Harmony WynelandsLodi, (209) 369-4184www.harmonywynelands.com

Hutchins Street SquareLodi, (209) 333-6782www.hutchinsstreetsquare.com

Larsa Banquet HallTurlock, (209) 634-7096www.larsabanquethall.com

Oak Farm VineyardsLodi, (209) 365-6566www.oakfarmvineyards.com

Roberts Union Farm CenterStockton, (209) 480-7162

Stockton Golf & Country ClubStockton, (209) 466-4313www.stocktongolfcc.com

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Vintage GardensModesto, (209) 545-9232www.vintagegardensweddings.com

Waterloo Banquet HallWaterloo, (209) 931-4020www.thewaterloo.com

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Wedding couple at Cavallo Point Lodge, Sausalito, California Photograph by Kodiak Greenwood

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San Joaquin Weddings June 2010