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    PathwaysF E B RU ARY 2 0 0 9

    T R I N I T Y P R E S B Y T E R I A N C H U RC H

    TRINITY

    PRESBYTERIAN STAFF

    PastorGary Hanson

    Home: (651) 501-1820

    Cell: (651)[email protected]

    Administrator/PastoralCare Coordinator

    Dee LindblomMon-Fri 8:30am-2:[email protected]

    Cell:(651) 353-6724

    Christian EducationDirector

    Carmen [email protected]

    Cell: (715) 310-7006

    Church MusicianJoyce Piper

    Choir DirectorNeal Strand

    Seminary InternJoa Sevlie

    Cell: (952)303-2679

    Child Care ProvidersAli Peterson

    Nicole Rucker

    2125 Tower Drive

    Woodbury MN 55125

    Phone & Fax:

    (651) 738-0045

    Welcome to the new newsletter

    Its been quite a while since the church newsletter had a visual style

    makeover, and as your new editor I am embarking on a project to

    bring some new layout ideas and a different look to our monthly circu-

    lar.

    I hope that these changes make our newsletter more fun to read, improve

    readability by using a consistent visual style, and keep Pathways a great way

    for our members and friends to keep in touch with whats going on at Trinity.

    Please note the new newsletter submission email address. It is now

    [email protected]. As editors change, the email address

    will stay the same. Behind the scenes, the address will point to the current

    newsletter editors actual email address. This change is intended to help our

    members remember a consistent email address so that they can share news

    with the rest of us.

    Your feedback about these changes is very welcome. Please contact me by

    sending your comments, suggestions or ideas to the newsletter email address

    above.

    Mark Allen

    LENT BEGINS

    FEBRUARY 25

    Lent begins on Ash Wednesday, February 25.

    Our service includes the distribution of ashes, a biblical symbol of mourning

    and penance. It begins at 7 pm please join us.

    Also Pastor Hanson will lead a six-week Wednesday night study on Alive to

    God in Jesus Christ: 40 Daily Readings for the Purposeful Presbyterian. De-

    tails to follow, but save the dates of March 4, 11, 18, 25, April 1, 8.

    "Yet even now, says the Lord, return to me with all your heart, with fasting,

    with weeping and with mourning. - Joel 2:12

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    Committees

    Adult Education

    Marnelle Anderson 735-3287

    Building & GroundsGreg VanderVeer 739-3032

    Christian EducationKirk Breen 436-4212

    Clerk of SessionPat Kimbrough 714-0704

    CommunicationsJoe Pendal 436-3435

    Long Range Planning

    Darryl Willison 739-2674

    Mental Health GroupDee Lindblom738-0045 or [email protected]

    Mission & ActionPat Channer 735-7741

    Moderator of DeaconsCheri McCreary 735-9094

    NewsletterMark Allen 204-3188

    NominatingStacie Anderson612-483-2630

    Nursery CoordinatorsTina Hacker 714-9671

    Pastoral CareGary Hanson 738-0045

    PersonnelSteve Theiss 578-9348

    Prayer ChainDee Lindblom

    738-0045 or [email protected]

    Shared MinistryWilson Ekinde 501-3661

    Special EventsBarb Freeman 731-1220

    Stewardship & FinanceJay Wilkinson 731-7607

    WorshipRuth Bloom 739-0715

    P a t h w a y sP a g e 2

    MUSINGS AND AMUSINGS FROM THE PASTOR

    Iam pleased to report that Trinitys Personnel Committee and Sessionhave authorized a three month sabbatical for me from April 15 July

    15. I have some definite ideas as to how Id like to spend this won-

    derful opportunity.

    First of all, my sabbatical will be a time for extended learning. I anticipate

    taking a few courses, seminars, and workshops both in and out of town,

    with emphasis on What makes a healthy church in the 21st century? For

    example, there is a course entitled The Leader-Coach offered at a local

    seminary. In addition, I anticipate a generous dose of reading and reflec-

    tion. I have a large assortment of books purchased and not yet read cover-

    ing a range of fiction and scholarly and spiritual studies. All will provide

    ideas germane to my ministry here at Trinity, and as such will be useful as

    possible sermon illustrations and topics.

    The second part of the sabbatical will be for personal and spiritual renewal.

    I look forward to a time of re-charging my batteries, nurturing and

    strengthening my faith, discerning any new gifts from God, and deepening

    the relationships with my family which has always lived with a man who has

    been gone many hours and nights of the year because of church business.

    I anticipate that this time of renewal will allow me to rest in Gods grace

    and restoration; I will also be able to worship in situations where I am not

    the leader. Im trusting this will equip me with a fresh vision and vigor fo

    the continuing demands of the pastorate and the ministry Trinity is destined

    to accomplish in the future.

    The third piece of the sabbatical involves a time of rest. Simply being out

    of the office, away from phones and not on call for the first time in 30

    years will be revitalizing. In addition, disengaging from my regular tasks

    will provide opportunities for doing some things I have always wanted to do

    such as short-story writing and focusing more on my health with such ac-

    tivities as exercising (running, tennis) on a more regular basis.

    My sabbatical leave is an extension of the Biblical concept of a Sabbath day

    as well as a Sabbath year for renewal. Ideally, I hope that the congrega-

    tion would see this period of time not just for my Sabbath leave, but the

    congregations Sabbath leave as well; a time for their corporate reflection

    and developing their own personal growth as well as new ideas of lay minis-

    try. Above all, I am deeply appreciative and grateful to the Personnel Com-

    mittee, session and congregation for this generous once-in-a-career oppor-

    tunity for me.

    Gary

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    F E B R U A R Y 2 0 0 9 P a g e 3

    CHRISTIAN EDUCATION

    Mexico Mission

    The Trinity youth is planning a mission trip through Inter Cambio to Mexico this summer. The dates will be

    from June 13-20. The deadline to sign up for this trip is in early February. Interested adults are also wel-

    come to sign up. Please see Carmen or Sue Bergeron for more details.

    Ski Trip

    The weekend of Feb 20-22, the Trinity Youth are going to spend two nights skiing and snowboarding at

    Welch Village. The youth did this last year as well and had a wonderful time! We are looking forward to

    the new backbowl that has just been added this winter. If anyone is not yet signed up but interested,

    please see Carmen, as there may be a way to add you to our trip!

    Feed My Starving Children

    On Friday, Jan. 16, the Trinity Youth spent time at Feed My Starving Children in Eagan, MN, filling bags

    and boxes full of food such as rice and oats that will go to places in the world like Africa and other third

    world populations. Feed My Starving Children has three Twin Cities locations, and has nights when the

    general public can do a walk-in to support the cause. Each walk-in lasts 2.5 hours and children and

    adults alike can volunteer. To find out more information visit the groups website at:

    http://www.fmsc.org.

    Cinnamon Rolls

    The Trinity youth are selling cinnamon rolls to earn money for missions and youth fellowship. Sign-up

    sheets for the cinnamon rolls are in the welcome room. The sale will be on Jan. 25 and Feb. 8. Rolls will

    sell for $1. Pastry-lovers will enjoy this along with anyone else that craves baked goods fresh from the

    oven! Rolls will be served and sold in the fellowship hall.

    Pizza Fundraiser

    The Trinity youth have been working hard to find a perfect fundraiser, and theyve found it at last. The

    Pizza Fundraiser, tentatively scheduled for March 14, will offer pizza from three local favorite chains, as

    well as 1919 Root Beer fresh from the keg, and Coldstone Creamery ice cream to top it all off. Tickets will

    be on sale in advance at Trinity, and will be marketed to the general public. Invite your friends! This will

    be a dinner you wont want to miss!

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    P a g e 4 P a t h w a y s

    2009 YANKEE SWAP

    We all receive gifts that are

    totally unexpected and perhaps

    undesired. Theyre gifts thatfall below some social thresh-

    old that makes re-gifting such

    things absolutely out of the

    question, at least if you are to

    remain friends to the recipient.

    Yet, every year, several Trinity

    members gather together to

    share food, fun and awful gifts

    with each other. This year was

    definitely one for memorablegifts.

    Susan Rooney started off the

    opening of the gifts by choos-

    ing one of the most beautifully

    wrapped packages. Unfortu-

    nately for her (and Tom, and

    perhaps Megan) it contained an

    absolutely hideous monkey-

    lamp (which to the surprise of

    everyone, the lamp works, and

    she took it home.) Apparently

    the monkey-lamp has been

    spruced up; ask Susan to see

    the before and after photos.

    Tom Rooney picked up this

    years best headwearperfect

    to the remainder of winter with

    this fabulous chicken hat,

    which like a good sport he im-

    mediately decided to wear. For

    tunately for Tom, Joa Sevlie

    decided the chicken hat was

    something she just couldnt live

    withoutand so Mr. Rooney did

    not leave the swap with this

    new, distinguished hat and

    ended up with a rather nice leather wrapped backgammon set. Better luck next year, Tom!

    Julie Wright had the misfortune to pick a Trojan salad spinner, something which she actually was excited

    about using, when she noticed that tucked inside of the bowl was the infamous polka dot nighty.

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    F E B R U A R Y 2 0 0 9 P a g e 5

    As fetching as it is, I dont doubt

    itll be the most sought after prize

    of the bunch in next years swap

    party.

    And although there seemed to be

    a slight tilt toward underthings as

    gifts, Barb Freeman collected

    what is perhaps the most

    luxurious apron your humble

    author has ever seen.

    Bedecked in fur, the card

    attached to this apron assures the

    wearer that it will become a

    cherished heirloom to be handed

    down from generation to

    generation. Something to

    consider putting in the will

    certainly.

    Although not pictured, Roger and

    Judy Punt took home a stunning art

    piece which depicts Jesus in the midst

    of an ocean of seashells. This object

    rested on the Thiess mantle for the

    past year. Despite claims to the

    contrary, Steve seemed a touch

    regretful to be losing this one-of-a-kinddevotional from his familys home

    decor.

    Thanks to Dan and Barb Freeman for

    hosting the swap meet at their house.

    Trinity members did not disappoint in

    the food department, bringing

    everything from baked brie to a

    sumptuous chocolate cake to share. The

    food was definitely better than the

    presents offered!

    If you didnt make this years swap

    meet, plan to attend in 2010, but

    beware gifts that glitter and gleam,

    whats inside isnt what it seems.

    Mark Allen

    More photos available online:

    http://tinyurl.com/tpc-yankeeswap

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    P a g e 6 P a t h w a y s

    MISSION AND ACTION NEWS

    HEALTH AND HOPE IN MADAGASCAR

    Over two years ago, mission co-workers Dan and Elizabeth Turk

    carried an orchard in their luggage from the United States - 430trees belonging to 30 species and in 150 varieties. Although some

    trees were lost in quarantine due to transplanting stress, the

    Church of Jesus Christ in Madagascars (FKJM) Environmental Pro-

    gram now has a collection of trees including avocados, mangos,

    litchis, jackfruits, bananas, persimmons, muscadines and kiwis.

    The Environmental Program has set up an FJKM tree nursery in

    Moramanga to propagate the new varieties, and has begun a pilot

    extension project at Andramasina with nine farmers. Each farmer

    has had training in orchard establishment and propagation tech-

    niques, and received about twenty fruit trees.In July 2005, Dan and Elizabeth began raising money for thirty-six wells for community health villages in

    northwestern Madagascar . Despite a number of delays the project was completed in fall 2007. Many vil-

    lages now report a decrease in diarrhea. One village reports no more case of schistosomiasis (a disease

    caused by parasitic worms in fresh water) since its well was dug.

    In 2007, Dan and Elizabeth Turk passed through Dakabe where a new well was built. They experienced

    firsthand the villagers joy about their new supply of fresh water. Previously, the villagers had to get their

    water from a stream that had crocodiles in it during the rainy season. Now these community health vil-

    lages have safe water and hope, thanks to the PC(USA) and FJKM!

    Prayer: Thank you God, for water and trees and eyes to see your love at work in the world. We ask your

    blessings on the Turks, the people of Madagascar, and those who do not have their daily needs met this

    day. Amen.

    Prayer Reminders: People in Mission PC(USA) serving with the FKJM Elizabeth Turk, public health spe-

    cialist, and Dan Turk, environment/development worker; the leadership of the FKJM; Akany Avoko Home

    for Girls; Faculte of Theology at Antananarivo and the Federation of Protestant Churches in Madagascar.

    Edited and submitted byJoan Nichols from the 2009 Mission Yearbook for Prayer & Study

    Jubilee! The Good News from Luke

    Looking for a Bible study on Sunday? Perhaps desiring to deepen you spiritual walk during Lent? Inter-

    ested in studying a gospel? Please join us in the Junior High Room on Sunday mornings from 9:00 to

    9:50 a.m. beginning on February 15th and continuing through March 15th.

    We will spend five weeks considering sections of the gospel of Luke, through the Horizons Bible Study,

    Jubilee! by Dale Lindsay Morgan. The focus is jubilee, with a long history of forgiveness and freedom in

    the Hebrew tradition. Jubilee came to describe the beginning of the Messianic Age, the year of the Lords

    favor (Luke 4:9), when the Messiah would come and turn the world upside down. Join us to consider

    the ways in which Christ brought the love of God to all. You may attend on any day during the series of

    lessons. Questions? ContactJoan Nichols: (651-714-8314)

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    Financial SummaryDec 2008 Month Actual YTD Actual Year Budge

    Total Program Donations $29,857.48 $240,821.53 $255,369.76

    Total Program Expenditures $23,011.46 $237,264.10 $255,570.37

    Donations Less Expenses $6,846.02 $3,557.43 ($201

    Building Expansion Donations $13,244.12 $72,578.07

    Building Expansion Expenses $7,653.00 $90,478.17

    Mortgage Balance $809,761.39

    F E B R U A R Y 2 0 0 9 P a g e 7

    STEWARDSHIP CORNER

    Tough Year Ahead

    We have just finished the year 2008 in the black, praise the Lord! We have

    just finished an Operating Fund and Capital Fund Stewardship drive, but wedid not receive the pledges we had hoped for.

    Based on the latest figures, out of approximately 135 potential pledging

    units, we received 74 pledges for the Operating Fund totaling $208,911

    (target was $250,000), and 59 pledges to the Capital Campaign totaling

    $208,689 (target was $325,000). Based on these returns, the Session has

    trimmed the budget as much as it can without seriously affecting the pro-

    grams of Trinity. It looks like 2009 will be a year of belt tightening for the

    church, just as it will be for many families. Over 3 years, our mortgage pay-

    ments alone will total over $250,000, so we need to dig deeper than the

    pledges received so far to pay our mortgage.

    What can each of us do to ease the situation? If we are able to do so, it would be helpful for each family

    to make an extra contribution of the amount called Per Capita Apportionment. This is the amount we pay

    to support the governing body work of the Presbytery, Synod and General Assembly. This amount is

    $30.01 per confirmed member, and Trinity is obligated to pay to support the work of the Presbyterian

    Church (U.S.A.). Blue envelopes are in the pew racks.

    If you havent completed a pledge for 2009 or are in a position to increase it, there is still an opportunity

    to do so. Please look for a card in the Welcome room, or send a message to Stephanie Hoekstra, the Fi-

    nancial Secretary ([email protected]). Thank you for your continued support of the ministry of

    Trinity Presbyterian Church.

    Jay Wilkinson, Finance and Stewardship Chai

    Then he said to them, Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a mans life does not con-

    sist in the abundance of his possessions. And he told them this parable: The ground of a certain rich man

    produced a good crop. He thought to himself, ... [I] have plenty of good things laid up for many years.

    Take life easy; eat, drink and be merry. But God said to him, You fool! This very night your life will be

    demanded from you. This is how it will be with anyone who stores up things for himself but is not rich

    toward God. ... Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not

    wear out, a treasure in heaven that will not be exhausted, where no thief comes near and no moth de-

    stroys. ... Luke 12:15-17a, 19b-21, 33

    Please consider making an

    additional gift (called Per

    Capita Apportionment) of

    $30.01 per confirmed mem-

    ber to defray the nearly

    $7,000 assessment to Trin-

    ity by the Presbytery.

    Blue envelopes designated

    for per capita may be found

    in the pew racks.

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    P a t h w a y sP a g e 8

    I want to thank Trinity members who provide my mother with transportation from Green Gables Home to

    Sunday services. I realize that the winter provides many challenges in Minnesota, especially maneuveringthe roads, so I thank you for continuing to give my mother the transportation to the spiritual connection

    that is so important to her.

    Sincerely, Penny Hamilton

    (Pauline Wikens daughter in California)

    Recently Hospitalized

    Harry Krueger, Mary Neal

    1 Amy McKenna

    1 Joan Nichols

    1 Steve Palmer

    5 Beth Hanson

    6 Cole Sawyer

    10 Dan Freeman

    10 Ewan Ha

    11 Liz Sharp

    13 Nate Andersen

    13 Jessica Pendal

    14 Kirk Breen

    14 Jane Dahlquist

    14 Rebecca Knott

    14 Sandy Strand

    15 Tyler Channer

    19 Mark Allen

    19 Cheryl Mosisa

    20 Andra Zerbe

    22 Kevin Andersen

    23 Anne McKenzie

    26 Nathan Green

    26 Matt McKenna

    27 Tara Johnson

    27 Angie McGehee

    28 Roger Punt

    FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYSFEBRUARY BIRTHDAYSFEBRUARY BIRTHDAYSFEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS

    PARISH PERSONALS

    LUNCH BUNCH

    Ladies, lets go to lunch. On Friday February 27, Trinitys Lunch Bunch will meet. Our destination will be

    announced after our first meeting on January 30th. We will meet at 11:30 am at the church to carpool.

    Please sign up by Sunday, February 22 so reservations can be made. We will have a good meal and con-

    versation. Hope to see you!

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    Friday Womens Bible Study

    The Friday Womens Bible study will continue through February 20 to read and discuss TrueFaced:

    Trusting God and Others with Who You Really Are.

    TrueFaced draws a clear distinction between two very different underlying motives: our determination toplease God or to trust him. The book is generating great discussions!

    Its never too late to join. Books are available in the Welcome Room. A new study for Lent will begin on

    Friday, February 27. Questions, contact Beth Hanson: (651) 501-1820.

    All Church Skating Party February 7

    Meet at the Tamarack rinks just south of Tamarack Road and east of

    Bielenberg Drive anytime after 3:30 pm for skating. Or you can watch from

    the warming house! Directions to the rinks: From Tamarack Road, headsouth on Tamberwood Road. Go about mile and the rinks are on the left.

    Whether you skate or not, join everyone at Gary & Beth Hansons (8201

    Somerset Road) for supper at 5:00. Directions to Hansons from Radio

    Drive: Turn west on Pinehurst. Take the first right on Donegal and then an

    immediate left on Somerset Road. Number 8201 is on the corner of

    Somerset & Donegal. The house phone is 501-1820.

    Pot luck items needed: dinner entres, bread, salads, desserts (3 only) and

    sodas. Please sign up on poster in the Welcome Room.

    Trinitys Adult Education committee is seeking congregation members to enrich the life of the church.

    Do you read the Bible on a regular basis?

    Have you ever read through the entire Bible?

    Have you contemplated a regular study but aren't certain where to start?

    If you are interested in sharing your thoughts and experience, please contact Marnelle Andersen at

    [email protected]. Thanks!

    Do you enjoy photography?

    Trinitys newsletter editor would like to collect

    and publish a selection of member photos

    every month both on the web and in the

    newsletter.

    All sorts of photographs are sought, including

    current and past photos of the church build-

    ing, church grounds, and church events.

    Contact Mark Allen if youre interested.

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    PASTORAL CARE MESSAGE

    A Focus on Hearts

    FFFFebruary is a month of hearts. Many valentine I love yous are heard andsent and little red hearts begin to appear everywhere. Messages and sym-bols of love let dear ones know they are cherished and appreciated.

    February is also National Heart Month, when people are urged to join the battleagainst cardiovascular diseases. Heart disease is the leading cause of death forboth men and women in the United States, and is a major cause of disability. Ac-cording to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, every 26 seconds anAmerican will have a coronary event, and one every minute will die from one. Dur-ing February, people are encouraged to review the risk factors for heart diseaseand check our personal habits to assure we are doing everything possible to keepour hearts healthy.

    The biggest factors that contribute to heart disease are smoking, high blood pressure, high cholesterol,family history and age. While we cant control the last two factors, we can make strides to change our lifestyles. If you have a risk factor for heart disease, Valentines Day is the perfect occasion to do somethingspecial for your loved ones and make a change to prevent or delay the onset of heart disease. An easyand inexpensive suggestion is to walk briskly for 30 minutes most days of the week. Walking helps thecardiovascular system work more efficiently, and it helps control blood sugar and cholesterol. A re-cent study shows that people are 76 percent more likely to stay on their walking program if someone elseis counting on them.

    So get a walking buddy, or improve your diet, or make some positive change, and increase your chancesof being around for many more Februarys!

    Blessings, Dee Lindblom

    HEALTHY MIND MATTERS

    The following personal story is written by Gretchen White, about her familys journey of living with a childwith Aspergers.

    Being Rockfords Mom

    This summer, Rockford was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome, one of many autism spectrum disor-ders. Asperger's is a developmental disorder that affects a child's ability to socialize and communicate ef-

    fectively with others. Children with Asperger's syndrome are typically socially awkward and have an all-absorbing interest in specific topics. Before the diagnosis I thought he was just persistent, high energy,and demanding. Many days I thought I would not be able to fill his brain enough for him to be satisfied. Ioften wondered why parenting Rockford was so much work. Was I doing something wrong?

    While reading to Rockford this week I couldnt help but be reminded of his Aspergers. We were reading asilly story about sharks that brush their teeth, Rockford explained to me that sharks teeth regenerateand this is a continuous process, mom so it would never happen that sharks need to brush their teeth.Last night I read him the Boy Scout rules for the Pinewood derby cars. Rockford likes rules and he is veryexcited about making a car. When I got done reading the information I asked him, What do you think?He told me when we are done building the car he wants to go to the Science Museum and see if he canuse their wind tunnel to test his cars aerodynamics. (continued next page)

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    F E B R U A R Y 2 0 0 9 P a g e 1 1

    RESOURCES

    National Institute

    of Mental Health

    www.nimh.nih.gov

    National Alliance

    on Mental Illness

    (651) 645-2948

    www.nami.org

    Autism Society of

    America

    www.autism-

    society.org

    Austism Research

    Institute

    www.autism.com

    Suicide Hotline

    1-800-784-2433

    DID YOU KNOW?

    A new case of autism

    is diagnosed nearly

    every 20 minutes.

    The economic impact

    of autism is more

    than $90 billion and

    expected to more

    than double in the

    next decade.

    Autism receives less

    than 5% of the

    research funding ofmany less prevalent

    childhood diseases.

    HEALTHY MIND MATTERS (contd)

    With these types of stories, one would think the Gifted and Talented Program

    would call from school, but instead Rockford struggles with many things that

    other kids learn naturally. During kindergarten I thought he just hadnt matured

    yet or he was just being a boy. In first grade, Jeff and I became concerned thatRockfords academic performance was far below his verbal abilities and had him

    evaluated by a psychologist. Before the diagnosis I did not know anything about

    Aspergers; I actually thought the psychologist was going to tell me it was a

    discipline problem.

    Many of the things he struggles with other kids intuitively learn or accept. As

    parents, we assumed he would follow our example and learn appropriate

    behavior: sit still, indoor voice, be polite, wait your turn to speak, etc. Instead,

    sitting still is extremely hard. One reason we actually started coming to Trinity

    was because Rockford could be in Sunday school while we were at church. Even a

    age five sitting through church was not a possibility.Not only is sitting still difficult, but sensory issues associated with Aspergersmake simple tasks monumental. Not having the right socks and/or shoes canmake it impossible to focus. I am sure many of you have seen him at LOGOS in

    just his socks. This isnt Rock just being eccentric.

    Understanding friendships, teasing, and joking are tough. He can be veryoutgoing, but does not know when to stop. Often times I find myself explainingthings that I thought came naturally to everyone. I try very hard to keep in mindthat he sees the world in a very different way than you or I. Although beingRockfords mom can sometimes be draining, he has taught me many things aboutacceptance and patience.

    Now when I see a parent struggling with their child, or a child that is marching toits own tune, I view the situation with a new attitude. I dont assume that thechild just needs to be better disciplined; I have a little more empathy. Childrengrow and learn and express talents at different stages. We have to learn whatexpectations are realistic for the individual child and be more tolerant of ourdifferences.

    We all work hard to do the best for our kids and we all have shared many of thesame experiences despite different challenges. My year of getting to know Rockbetter has been so rewarding. Ive seen my son enjoy his days much more. Ithasnt always been easy, but I am thankful for all the progress weve made thisyear and the many good days ahead for our family.

    Be sure to attend the second of the two-part workshop:

    AUTISM IN OUR COMMUNITY: A SEMINAR ONAWARENESS, PROACTIVE SUPPORT AND HEALING

    Monday, February 23, at 6:30 pm, in Trinitys fellowshiphall (even if you missed the first part).

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    ACTIVITIES AT TRINITY

    Sunday Schedule

    Education Hour

    9:00 am

    Worship

    10:00 am

    Fellowship & Coffee

    11:00 am

    Jr/Sr High Education

    11:00 am

    -=-

    Child care is available

    during worship ser-

    vice

    Upcoming Events

    February 7

    All Church Skating Party,3:30 pm

    Potluck Dinner, 5 pm

    (Details page 9)

    February 8

    Youth Mission Trip

    Cinnamon Roll Fundraise

    (Details page 3)

    February 23

    Autism in ourCommunity, 6:30 pm

    (Details page 11)

    Additional parking is available in New Horizons parking lot directly

    across from Trinity and by parking along one side of the driveway.

    INSIDE THIS ISSUE:

    February

    Schedule

    February 1

    Communion

    February 8

    February 15

    February 22

    February 25

    Ash Wednesday

    Service 7 pm

    Next Newsletter Deadline:

    February 15, 2009

    Pastors Column 2

    Christian Education 3

    Yankee Swap 2009 4-5

    Mission & Action News 6

    Stewardship Corner 7

    Birthdays and Events 8-9

    Pastoral Care Message 10

    Healthy Mind Matters 10-11