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A STORY OF Courage and Hope In the summer of 2008, Stephanie Nielson, 27, was living a picture-perfect life married to the man of her dreams and raising four beautiful children. On Aug. 16, that all came crashing down. “The accident took so much, but over the last three years, I feel like I have, slowly but surely, reclaimed from the wreckage everything that truly matters.” SUNDAY, APRIL 8, 2012 © PARADE Publications 2012. All rights reserved.

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A STORY OF Courage and Hope

In the summer of 2008, Stephanie Nielson, 27, was living a picture-perfect life married to the man

of her dreams and raising four beautiful children. On Aug. 16, that all came crashing down.

“The accident took so much, but over the

last three years, I feel like I have, slowly

but surely, reclaimed from the wreckage

everything that truly matters.”

SUNDAY, APRIL 8 , 2012

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Q: Why is the Titanic

still at the bottom of the

ocean? —B. F., San Francisco

A: The ship is so fragile that a full excavation would be too costly and time-consuming, with no promise of success. “It’s easier to go to the moon,” laughs P. H. Nargeolet, director of underwater research for RMS Titanic Inc. Indeed, it took his team two years to stabilize and raise a small, 20-ton piece of the 46,000-ton ship.

Q: Was any memorial

created for the victims?

—Ward, via Facebook

A: Because the passen-gers and crew hailed from many countries, there are a number of memorials around the globe—from a statue honoring the ship’s engineers in South-ampton, England, where the Titanic set sail, to a

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Q: Is it true that they are

auctioning off items re-

covered from the wreck?

—Louie, Philadelphia

A: Yes—5,500 artifacts, valued at $189 million in 2007 (including jewelry and pieces of the ship), will be sold as one lot in mid-April; the deadline for bids was April 1. The buyer must be court-approved and agree to maintain the collection and display it publicly.

Were Rose and Jack based on

real passengers on the Titanic? —Don G., Hawthorne, Calif.

The characters played by Kate Winslet

and Leonardo DiCaprio (above) in director James Cameron’s

fi lm were inspired by two star-crossed

lovers, but neither was on the ship.

As Cameron has put it, Jack and Rose

are “Romeo and Juliet on the Titanic.”

P Julian Fellowes

P Belfast’s Titanic museum

P Titanic wreckage

Q: Why is the world still fascinated by the Titanic tragedy 100 years later? —A. Evans, Lincoln, Neb.

A: “What makes it so haunting and iconic is that it was a microcosm of the world; whoever you are, there was some-one like you on board,”

Titanic in real life Titanic on the screen

60-foot-tall lighthouse in New York’s South Street Seaport. A new museum in Belfast, where the ship was built, opened in March; it features breathtaking

replicas of the vessel’s exteriors and interiors (like the 10,000-piece Grand Staircase), videos from the site of the wreck, and views of the original shipyard.

says Downton Abbey creator Julian Fellowes, 62, who wrote the new ABC miniseries Titanic (April 14 and 15; check local listings). Drama-tizations can also offer catharsis, he adds: “Disasters allow you to reevaluate life, and that can be sort of marvelous.”

HEAR ASURVIVOR TELL HIS STORYThe recently published book A Rare Titanic Family:The Caldwells’ Story of Survival follows a family’s incredible escape from the sinking ship. Go to Parade.com/caldwell to listen to patriarch Albert (right) as he relived the ordeal shortly before his death in 1977.

Walter Sco� ,s

LOVE STORY

TREASURE

Macy’s co-owner Isidor Straus and his wife, Ida (right), refused a lifeboat and were last seen together on the ship’s deck.

Passengers brought along their personal baubles; some have been recovered from the wreckage.

The Strauses are shown as an

elderly couple embracing each

other in bed as they share a last tender moment

together.

The movie’s Heart of the Ocean necklace (left) was fiction, but its creator, Asprey &

Garrard, made a real-life replica that

was auctioned for charity in 1998 for

$2.2 million.

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PET FANCY

There were reportedly 12 dogs being transported on the Titanic, three of which lived.

The older Rose (played by Gloria

Stuart) has a Pomeranian (left)—the breed of two of the surviving dogs.

THE MUSIC

According to some witnesses, an eight-man band played either “Nearer, My God, to Thee” or “Songe d’Automne” during the ship’s final moments.

A four-man band plays “Nearer,

My God, to Thee”as the ship sinks.

The actor who portrayed the

bandleader is a professional

violinist.

Special TITANIC Edition!AS WE APPROACH THE

100TH ANNIVERSARY OF

THE SINKING ON

APRIL 15, A LOOK BACK

AT THE 1997 FILM,

NOW OUT IN 3-D

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What is the most important information I should know about ADVAIR DISKUS?

ADVAIR DISKUS can cause serious side effects, including:1. People with asthma who take long-acting beta2-adrenergic

agonist (LABA) medicines, such as salmeterol (one of the medicines in ADVAIR DISKUS), have an increased risk of death from asthma problems. It is not known whether fluticasone propionate, the other medicine in ADVAIR DISKUS, reduces the risk of death from asthma problems seen with salmeterol.

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INTELLIGENCE

Bonnie Rai�

SUNDAY WITH ...

The guitar heroine on taking control, staying sober, and being kissed by an angel

The silver-white streak is natural. I was 24 [when it came in] and you can sort of see it on album covers. By 1981 it was expanding and my red was fading, so I started dyeing my hair [around the streak]. No one else in my family has it. I’ve been told it means you’ve been kissed by an angel.

PARADE You and Alicia Keys performed a tribute to Etta James at the Grammys, singing “A Sunday Kind of Love.” What’s your Sunday kind of love?The part I can talk about in a family magazine? [laughs] Well, a nice leisurely morning, read-ing the papers, then out into the country. I live in Northern California, in Marin County, and there are many beautiful choices of hikes to take. Or my boyfriend and I go for a bike ride. We make dinner at home, watch 60 Minutes and a movie.

She is B. B. King’s favorite slide guitarist. Adele and Bon Iver

perform her hits. In 40 years, Bonnie Raitt has never gone out of fashion. Now the 62-year-old Rock and Roll Hall of Famer is releasing her fi rst album in seven years, Slipstream, with covers of two Bob Dylan songs and a sultry, bluesy vibe. “There’s a little something for every-body,” she tells Roger Friedman as she gears up for a tour starting in May.

Slipstream is on your own label, Redwing Records. Why did you put it out yourself?Because I can! I have a pretty solid base of fans. I like the control, and this way if we’re messing up, at least it’s our own fault. I used to say I didn’t want to

talk weasel [deal with the business end].

But I’m really driving my career. It’s not like someone else picks the songs or the looks.

You made it a point to cut out

drinking a while ago.I thought I had to live

that partying lifestyle in order to be authentic, but in fact if you keep it up too long, all you’re going to be is sloppy or dead. I recently had my 25th anniversary of sobriety. I was one of the lucky ones. Seeing Whitney Houston pass away, and Amy Winehouse—everyone smiled at her “Rehab” song, but for me it was heartbreaking to hear her sing that because it just looked like she was on a slippery slope.

Do you like touring?I love it. But when I went through a lot of loss [Raitt’s parents died in 2004 and 2005, and she lost a brother to a long battle with cancer], I took a hiatus. I’m just watching the pace, keeping a nice balance. If my memory serves me well, I’ve already made it. [laughs]

How do you get comfort-able on the road?Our tour bus becomes a second home. Email really helps me stay in touch with friends and save my voice. But I have to remember to get off the laptop and onto the yoga mat.

Who is your boyfriend?We’ve been together seven years now. He’s great, but that’s all I can say. You know, [it’s like] the Sippie Wallace song that goes, “Don’t advertise your man.”

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How do you keep going when your perfect life has been shattered? In an excerpt from her new memoir, plane crash survivor

Stephanie Nielson recounts how unshakable faith, and her family’s abiding love, gave her strength on the long road back.

COVER AND OPENING PHOTOGRAPHS BY JUSTIN HACKWORTH

n the summer of 2008,

Stephanie Nielson, 27, was married to the man of her dreams, raising four beautiful

children in Mesa, Ariz., and pu� ing out a popular blog devoted to her life as a wife,

mother, and Mormon. The NieNie Dialogues a� racted millions of followers and—

with its tasteful cra� projects and decorating ideas—the a� ention of the editors of

marthastewart.com. But all that would come crashing down—literally—on Aug. 16,

when the small plane carrying Stephanie, her husband, Christian, and a friend,

pilot Doug Kinneard, hurtled to the ground in St. Johns, Ariz., and exploded in a

ball of � ame. Kinneard died; Christian was burned over 40 percent of his body; and

Stephanie, trapped in the backseat, su� ered burns over 80 percent of hers.

Airli� ed to the Arizona Burn Center in Phoenix, Stephanie spent 11 weeks in a

medically induced coma as doctors worked desperately to keep her alive. Christian

recovered nearby; the couple’s children—Nicholas, Oliver, Jane, and Claire, ranging

in age from nearly 2 to 6—were cared for by two of Stephanie’s sisters, Courtney

and Lucy, in Provo, Utah. That November, Stephanie � nally awoke to the voices of

her mother and her sister Page. This is her story, in her own words.

BlessingsCOUNTING HER

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Claire, and Jane.

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gently pointed out that if I learned to walk I wouldn’t have to ride.

I nodded and smiled, but seethed inside. Really? I wanted to pull her hair.

WHILE STEPHANIE was progress-

ing physically, emotionally she still

faced huge hurdles. Her physician

made it clear that one condition of her

discharge was that she look at herself

in a mirror. But she simply couldn’t do

it. One late night in December, Chris-

tian came into her room with a hand

mirror and gently urged her to look.

I took a deep breath and turned the mirror over. I started at my ban-daged chest and worked my way up. My neck looked like the skin on my arms, scarred and blotchy. I kept going. I looked at my chin, then my lips. Could those be my lips? They were huge. When I got to my nose, I cried out and put the mirror down. My nose was completely differ-ent, smaller and mis-shapen. I was unrecog-nizable. Unrecognizable. The weight of that

My body was covered in bandages. My fingernails were black. My burned

lips were so swollen I could see them in my peripheral vision. I hadn’t seen my husband in almost four months.

I had been on the brink of death, fl atlining twice in the helicopter on the way to the hospital and a few more times once I’d arrived. I’d been in such critical condition that the doctors performed my fi rst operation in my own bed. Moving me to the OR was too risky.

I had been in surgery as often as my body would allow—every few days to harvest and graft new skin. Second- and third-degree burns covered most of my body. The burned skin was dead and would rot or har-bor dangerous infection if it, and the damaged tissue underneath, wasn’t completely scraped away. It was a moment’s consolation to learn that the doctors had paused before they took the knife to my face, before they carved away the tissue that had defi ned my facial features, before they scraped my beauty away.

I slept restlessly for the next few days, drifting in and out of con-sciousness. Each time I woke, silent and immobile, I stared at the ceil-ing and asked myself: How could this have happened to me? Will I ever move again? What’s going to happen to my family?

Scattered images fl ashed through my mind. A wall of orange fl ames. The pungent smell of burning skin mixed with jet fuel. People shouting above the dull roar of fi re. Dark black smoke, and a leaf above me in the sky.

THAT MONTH Stephanie was trans-

ferred to the University of Utah Burn

Center in Salt Lake City to be near

word settled heavy on my chest.I took another deep breath.

Maybe it wasn’t so bad, I thought. I’m overreacting. Determined, I picked up the mirror again. It was bad. My cheeks were covered with bloody scabs. Half of my left ear was burned completely off.

My face scared me; it would scare anyone. I could never let my children see this. How could they ever love me? My sisters would have to keep my children forever. I would need to be put away somewhere, away from human contact, for the rest of my life. I knew the world didn’t accept peo-ple like me. People were relentlessly critical and rude, or sickeningly con-descending. I never wanted to be seen again. Then I tipped the mirror up. My green eyes looked back at me, and hope rippled through my soul. These were the green eyes I had in-herited from my father, with golden fl ecks that Christian loved. I caught my breath. I saw God in my eyes. I saw reassurance. I even saw a glimpse of triumph. I was still me. Those eyes were mine. The life I saw in them came from God, and that gave me hope for the life of my body.

STILL, STEPHANIE dreaded le� ing

her children see her. In fact, she so

stubbornly refused that one day her

husband and sisters simply showed

up at the hospital with the kids, insist-

ing that Stephanie let them into her

room. Oliver, who was almost 4, went

� rst and seemed unfazed.

Christian smiled. “You’re doing great, Steph.” He nodded encour-agingly, and then went to bring Jane in. She was so excited she let go of his hand and ran into the

room. She took one horrified look at me and then stared at the floor. I couldn’t hold back the tears. “Janie, you’re so grown up! Look how short your

her close-knit family, which includes

eight siblings. Despite constant, excru-

ciating pain, she started physical

therapy, while enduring endless sur-

geries to help heal her burned skin.

One day in late November, with a nurse at each arm and a physical therapist to hold my clumsy, swol-len feet, I fi nally stood. The nurses helped me rock back and forth on the edge of the bed and eventually got me to my feet, which were wrapped in bandages and so swol-len I looked like a clown. My feet seemed like they weren’t even attached to my body, as if a wire had been disconnected and the signal had been lost. I could not get them to obey.

But there I was, standing—for the fi rst time in almost four months. The nurses then helped me into a wheel-chair to take me on my fi rst trip to the physical therapy room. Every joint screamed. When I complained about the wheelchair, the nurse

THROUGH THE FIRE Stephanie, above, in April 2008. Le� , in the Phoenix hospital � ve days a� er the accident.

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hair is! I love it!”Her eyes were glued to the

fl oor.“I’m sorry I’m different, Jane,”

I said. “I know I don’t look the same, but I promise I’m still your mom. I’ll get better, I’m going to look better. And I still love you so much. I really miss you.”

I stared at the top of her red head and watched the rapid rise and fall of her little chest. She was on the brink of tears, too.

“Janie, will you look at Mommy?”

Finally she looked up, but at Christian. “Can I go now?” she asked.

Christian nodded and hugged her. He turned to me as she walked out of the room. “I love you, Steph,” he whispered.

Out in the hall, we overheard Jane say, “Claire, don’t go in there.” I gasped. It was that bad—I had scared my own baby girl.

CLAIRE SPOKE to her mother

from the hall; Nicholas had fallen

asleep. Once they le� , Stephanie

was alone with her thoughts.

My nurse hung up pictures Claire and Jane had drawn. In one, Jane and I were holding hands. In another, Claire and I played in a garden of yellow daisies. I stared at those happy pictures, but they broke my heart. I asked the nurse to take them down.

The mother in those pictures didn’t exist anymore.

HER CHILDREN’S rejection was

devastating, but Stephanie began

speaking with them daily on the

phone in preparation for their all

being together again. On Dec. 31,

2008, she � nally le� the hospital,

and she and Christian eventually

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on going to church. The

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masses more than

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message of hope and

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holiday. We always had

an Easter egg hunt

with real eggs. And one

year, the rabbit we kept

in our backyard had

eight baby bunnies.

Joe: We did not have

farm animals running

around the suburbs of

Atlanta. After church,

we would go out to eat

at a steak house and

then spend the rest of

the afternoon together.

One year we tried to

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from Czechoslovakia.

We also celebrated

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Part of the tradition

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with water. I was woken

by my father dumping a

bucket of cold water on

me. Then he’d bring the

hose into the house and

spray everybody. I’ve

never seen my parents

completely lose it except

on Easter Monday.

Joe: Now that I have kids

of my own, we go heavy

on the Easter egg hunts.

When we lived in Pensa-

cola, Florida, we would

invite hundreds of kids

over, and I’d jam myself

into a giant Easter Bunny

outfi t. It would be 90 de-

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buckets. I’d almost pass

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teens, so I will be the

pathetic yearning mother

this year who misses

having babies. I will

make them do an egg

hunt whether they like

it or not. I’m going to

hold on to every last bit

of them being young.

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the concept of Lent,

giving up something

and then celebrating it.

It’s a fabulous challenge

for children, particularly

these days. Whether

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or not, I urge everyone

to try giving up some-

thing for Lent.

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sinning and ask for

forgiveness.

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health improved, she found the

courage to return to her blog and

was buoyed by how much support

she found there. She was deter-

mined to rebuild her relationship

with her children. One day, when

they’d all been home for a week,

she decided to read to them.

“Claire, let ’s read Stuart

Little,” I suggested. Claire ran to her backpack and pulled out the book.

“You’re going to read, Mom?” Ollie asked as he climbed onto the couch next to me.

Jane wandered in, too. “What are you reading?” she asked Claire.

“Stuart Little,” I answered. “It’s about a cute little mouse, Jane. I think you’d like it.”

She shrugged and sat down on the fl oor by Nicholas.

“Nicholas, you want to read with us?” Nicholas shook his head and looked back at his toys.

“ ‘When Mrs. Frederick C. Little’s second son arrived, everyone noticed he was not much bigger than a mouse,’ ” I began, and Jane looked up.“ ‘The truth of the matter was, the baby looked very much like a mouse in every way.’ ”

Claire giggled. “Look how cute he is with a little hat and shoes.” It was more than Jane could resist. She climbed up on the couch next to Claire. When Jane said something about the doctor examining Stuart Little, even Nicholas climbed on the couch, next to Oliver, so he could see the illustrations, too.

I was sharing the couch with all four of my children. I wanted this moment to last forever. Hoping nothing would break the spell, I read one chapter after another. When we finished

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chapter four and Jane said, “Oh, Mom, one more chapter. Pleeeeease,” I was thrilled.

“Another chapter? I’d like nothing better.”

WITH HER family now re-

united emotionally, Stephanie

looked forward to one more chal-

lenge. By the one-year anniver-

sary of the crash, she hoped to

have hiked the Y Mountain in

the Wasatch range, which has

a huge white Y on its face for

BYU; Stephanie had climbed it

since childhood. On Aug. 15, the

day before the anniversary, she

was ready.

We pulled up to the parking lot at the base of the trail and turned to our children in the backseat. “We’re here! Are you guys ready?” We all tumbled out of the car, gathering water bottles and tying shoes.

“Mommy, who are all those people?” asked Jane, pointing at a crowd gathered at the trail-head. It did seem strange; the trail usually wasn’t this crowded.

Then I noticed that people were holding balloons and wearing i nienie T-shirts [which had been sold at a fund-raiser for her]. Could they all be here for me? I was astonished to see the faces of some 200 strangers.

Forty-fi ve minutes later, I set out on the trail surrounded by Christian and my children, parents, brothers, sisters, nieces, and nephews. The smell of dirt and sagebrush was subtle and earthy. And the scent carried the memories of a lifetime of climbing. During my practice runs, I’d gone only as far as the fi fth of the 12 switchbacks, but each

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new turn was like greeting an old friend. Every rock and scrub oak seemed familiar and welcoming, as though they were as glad to have me back as I was to be there.

The mountain curves outward just before the trail opens up at the base of the giant cement Y. When I rounded that fi nal curve, family, friends, and strangers cheered.

I held my arms out wide. “Thank you!” I shouted. “I made it!” Everyone released balloons into the sky. I hugged Christian and my mom and dad and Claire and Jane and anyone who was near enough to be hugged. I made it!

STEPHANIE CONTINUED to

undergo surgeries to stretch her

skin, and in the fall of 2011 she

had more joyous news to report:

She was pregnant.

The accident took so much, in just an instant, but over these last three years, I feel like I have, slowly but surely, reclaimed from the wreckage everything that truly matters. Being a mother is at the top of the list.

I undergo regular checkups to make sure my stomach is stretching properly, and so far, so good. It’s been challenging to wean myself off the chronic pain medications that make life normal for me, and, just like my pregnancies before the accident, I have been severely nauseated. But all the discomfort is worth it. I cannot wait to welcome our child into this beautiful world.

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April 8, 2012 • 15

For most of my

life, I’ve been a huge fan of the seated posi-tion, often racking up

14 hours a day. Standing? That was for blackjack dealers and palace guards. I even resented the standing ovation. Can’t we express our approval without adding undue stress to our arches?

Sadly, it turns out I’ve been putting myself in harm’s way. Research shows that being seden-tary is bad for you—smoking-unfi ltered-menthols-while-eating-cheese-fries bad. If you’re chair-bound for more than 23 hours a week, you can be 64 percent more likely to develop heart disease. Sit-ting may raise blood pressure and blood sugar levels. And it places you at risk for various cancers.

As part of my quest to get fi t, I decide to spend a week on my feet. I will be like Rosa Parks, but standing instead of sitting. Also, not quite as heroic.

The first day, I stand at the breakfast table. “You’re making me nervous,” my wife says. Plus, I’m setting a bad example for the kids—standing while eating is poor manners.

“That’s passé,” I counter. The kids look at her hopefully.

“Keep sitting,” she tells them.I work from home, so I tweak

my office setup by placing my laptop on a stack of cardboard boxes. Within a couple of hours, the backs of my legs begin to ache.

Views By A. J. Jacobs

Last Man Standing

I glance at my chair, with its lumbar support and gently sloping seat. The temptress. I will resist. By day’s end, it feels like I have two safe-deposit boxes attached to my legs. Oddly, though, the rest of my body is energized.

The next day, at lunch with a colleague, I lie to the waiter to explain why I’ll be eating upright. “I have a medical condition.”

I’m learning tricks: Rocking back and forth between my left and right legs helps keep the blood moving. I add a step stool to my workstation so I can elevate one foot at a time. At dinner, my wife is starting to see the benefi ts of my vertical life: “As long as

you’re up, make yourself useful and get some napkins.”

On the third day, though, pain kicks in again. I call Dr. Krista Archer, a New York foot surgeon. “The main worry with pro-longed standing is overuse injuries, including tendinitis, inflam mation, and muscle spasm,” she says. “Wear sneakers with orthot-ics.” She has another tip: “Walking keeps the blood circulating.”

The next day, I jury-rig our treadmill so I can balance my lap-top on the front panel. I set it to a

molasseslike 0.7 miles per hour and start to walk and work. You’d think it’d be distracting. Quite the contrary. I feel more focused—doctors say walking raises sero-tonin levels, which helps your attention span. But after a while, I get a pain in my nether regions. I won’t go into detail, but trust me—it’s unpleasant. At 2:34 p.m., I make the decision: I need a break, just for an hour. Plopping down in my chair would be a crushing defeat, so I perch atop my wife’s infl atable Swiss exercise ball, which requires you to balance and there-fore burn 30 more calories an hour than you would in a regular chair.

During the final three days, I regain my footing. I remain upright at the movies, in waiting rooms, reading to my kids. I feel so noble about standing at lunch that I eat a box of french fries, which probably negates any health bene-fi ts I’m earning. On the last night, I end my stand-in and ease myself down on the couch. I feel naughty, like I’ve just been on a juice cleanse and am now stuffing my face

with Ho Hos. I will resume my

everyday sitting, but I pledge to curb the habit as much as possible. I’ve dis-covered that being up on my feet—and better yet, walking—gives me more energy

and makes me feel more alert, even optimistic. Whenever possible, I will be a stand-up guy.

A. J. Jacobs’s new book, Drop Dead

Healthy, is out this week.

One writer’s quest to go an entire week without si� ing down

BY DAY’S

END, IT FEELS

LIKE I HAVE

TWO SAFE-

DEPOSIT BOXES

ATTACHED

TO MY LEGS.

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