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By Ron BrumbargerCurrent in Carmel

Astonishment poorly describes the reaction I have when dis-cussing the subject of educational choice. Perhaps the “Hoosier” in us manifests itself in the relentless pursuit of status quo, our insatiable appetite for high school athletics or the avoidance of a long overdue separation from one’s high school alma mater (read: you’re not still on the basketball team).

Plentiful are the die-hard protectionists for education as we have known it for the past 50 years. Bring up the topic of educa-tional choice, and you’re certain to stir up divisiveness. Try having this conversation at the State House.

What is even more astonishing is the lack of entrepreneur-ial vision and willingness to aggressively remain open minded about the “very best” options and ideas in education delivery. We’re much quicker to demand “new and improved” in our MP3 player, cell phones, televisions and communication devices than we are to demand improvement in education.

Think I’m wrong? Look around. Are you still buying CDs, talking on a 5-year old cell phone or wondering what Facebook is? Probably not. But look at public education over the past 50 years, and you will see little resembling entrepreneurial, aggressive change for a globally competitive economy.

Somewhere along the way, the intended mission and vision of education has been uprooted and discarded. Shouldn’t the mis-sion of all schools be to prepare the most globally-competitive graduates possible? Is your school’s mission to produce the best academic or athletic talent? (As an aside, entrepreneurship is rarely offered in Indiana’s schools, and it remains an elective.)

In recent years, I spent considerable time and effort to launch a series of charter schools. Charter schools are, by definition, al-lowed more flexibility in their delivery of education. They are not for every child, just as traditional public schools are not for every child. I’m amazed at the outcry of protectionist school leaders (seldom teachers, by the way), who view charter schools as the enemy.

Conversely, charter schools often view their public school counterparts as the enemy as well. Private schools often think they’re both rotten to the core, and home educators are generally leery of all three. The ill-informed (including one columnist in this newspaper) often have archaic, dated and distorted prejudices of those who elect to educate at home.

Why take sides? Isn’t the best possible education of our Hoosier children the mission of our schools? Taking sides (i.e. public vs. private) is akin to shooting one another in the foxhole. All of our platforms for learning should view one another as partners, not competitors. Those who ignore or disregard this plea incriminate themselves and confirm that they view education as being purely about money. Circle one: Best-educated Hoosiers -or- Money

We’re long overdue in enacting what we realized long ago -- kids learn in different ways, and one size of education fits no better than one size of shoe.

Some kids excel in public schools and receive an outstanding education from very dedicated teachers. Others learn to the beat of a different drummer and thrive upon the specialized attention provided to them via charters or home schooling. To truly achieve Indiana’s educational mission (most globally competitive gradu-ates), shouldn’t we be encouraging all the learning opportunities for our kids to work in partnership?

I will close with this question: With our education system as we know it today, do you think future Hoosiers can thrive?

Ron Brumbarger is a Carmel resident and the president and CEO of BitWise Solutions. He and his wife, Cindy, homeschool their two sons, Tanner and Hudson. You may e-mail Ron at [email protected].

Compiled by Arika Herron(All data from 2007-08)

By the numbersPercent passing ISTEPEnglish/language arts

State average: 72.1%

Carmel: 91.7%

Noblesville: 82%

Westfield: 85.3

How Carmel stacks up nationwideThe following are statistics from

Carmel-sized, affluent suburbs across the Midwest on their state’s ISTEP

equivalent

Naperville, Ill.: 94.6%

Illinois state average: 79.1%

Brentwood, Tenn.: 97.5%

Tennessee average: 90.8%

Dublin, Ohio: 97.1%

Ohio average: 85.1%

Graduation rates Carmel, surrounding communities,

and similar cities nationwide

Dublin, Ohio: 97.6%

Brentwood, Tenn.: 94.9%

Naperville, Ill.: 98.4%

Westfield: 92.9%

Noblesville: 88.8%

Carmel: 90.5%

State average: 79.1%

Carmel: 93.9%

Noblesville: 85.9%

Westfield: 85.9%

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Carmel resident and passionate homeschooler Ron Brumbarger offers another viewpoint on the recent debate over homeschooling

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(Left) Hudson (left) and Tanner with their mom, Cindy. (Above) Ron shows the boys tree rings.

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Is it our position that President Obama’s urging of U.S. schools to consider lengthening the school day is good leadership on his part. As manufacturing and other traditional domestic jobs are being absorbed by the giant emerging workforces in India, Asia and Latin America (not to mention the unrealized labor potential on continental Africa), we must continue to exploit our educational advantage in pursuing high-tech, biotech, and other knowledge-based economic drivers.

Without a catastrophic shift in population centers, the United States will not be competitive in the traditional labor markets within a genera-tion (and many argue that we are already there). But we continue to enjoy the world’s dominant college and university system, leading research and development globally.

However, these institutions routinely voice their concern about the quality of U.S. public school-educated applicants. And a visit to any qual-ity graduate school (especially in the sciences) shows a disproportionate mix of Americans to foreign nationals. Sadly, the debate in the U.S. seems centered around teacher’s union negotiations, not thoughtful education reform. Where are the picket lines for alternative schools, more collabo-ration with colleges and greater commitment by students and parents? Obama is right to change the debate.

Long considered Prosecute PolanskiIt is our position that we should not forget that

Roman Polanski, while a prominent member of the film director com-munity, is an unrepentant pedophile and should be held accountable for his actions. Woody Allen, now married to the adopted daughter of his former common law wife himself, has led the charge, urging American and European officials to release Polanski, who was recently nabbed in Switzerland after spending decades avoiding extradition for allegedly engaging in a sexual relationship with a U.S. seventh-grader.

Scores from Hollywood decry the arrest, claiming all manner and sort of conspiracy theory. Why was he arrested now? What does Switzerland have to gain? Is the prosecutor simply trying to make a name for herself?

None of these questions make any sense. The real point is that abus-ing children – regardless of the fame of the perpetrator or the time that has passed since the offense – is an affront to human society. Those who have been abused are often intimidated by the power and position held by their offenders. And we must protect these and future victims from bad guys, whether they be handsome Hollywood-types or respected teachers and coaches. Polanski is no exception.

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By Terry ankerLike almost everything else in life, our

personal time is all too finite a com-modity. But it remains one of the few things over which we can truly exercise some control. An hour of our time, not committed to our employers or scores of other demands, re-mains ours to apply as we see fit.

Unlike financial or other resources, it renews without effort, and – assuming we remain healthy – contin-ues throughout our entire lives, often increasing upon retirement. Unlike payroll, it is not taxed before we receive it. And our use of it is largely defined by our personal proclivities rather than our basic needs.

We spend our free time on ourselves. We spend it on our families. We spend it on our friends. We spend it on our communities. But what is the balance? In the land of finite resources and clamoring demands, how do we allocate our time? As I watched my boys march off to school on this crisp autumn morning, I

realized how quickly their childhood – and my experience as their parent – is dissipating. And

yet as much as I long to spend more time in their company, I find that

I continue to increase my com-mitment to our community – and, not to forget, friends. How can we reconcile the incongruency?

Humans are complex social beings. We long for deeper and more meaningful relationships, yet we are bound by the chronological. This ten-

sion frames our lives. But as a practical matter, I still

struggle. When do we blow off the kid’s soccer game to counsel a friend whose life is crashing down around him? When do we

miss the church board meeting to take the kids to get ice cream one last time before the weather gets cold for good?

There has been grumbling about the $500,000 Michael Feinstein will be paid as artistic director for the Regional Performing Arts Center. It’s unfounded. Feinstein deserves every cent he’s getting. He has such respect in the industry – to speak nothing of his expertise with regard to the Great American Songbook – that the center will attract A-list talent, many of whom are his close friends. Liken this to Feinstein being Carmel’s fran-chise player. Or: Tell us the last time you heard anyone belching opposition to Peyton Manning’s monster contract (seven years, $14.17 million per) with the Colts. You pay your franchise player based on his skills and the ability to get the job done. If you saw and listened to Feinstein last weekend with the Carmel Symphony Orchestra, you had to be amazed. Alan Davis, David Bowden and the musicians have something special, and being able to work with Feinstein is a bonus! He’s ours now. Celebrate it.

• • •Once again Rosemary Waters and her

volunteer crew pulled off a dazzling Carmel International Arts Festival last weekend. The weather cooperated, the artists and their of-ferings were diverse and impressive, as

was the crowd.• • •

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Editor:In the past, whenever there has been an issue,

your newspaper has seemed to handle things fairly, so I wanted to share my frustration with you regarding the Sept. 22 issue.

As a Jewish woman in Carmel, I was excited to see something written about one of our holiest of holidays, Yom Kippur. Downing that excite-ment was the realization that it was only an advertorial (“Yom Kippur – A day, but is there atonement for the Jewish soul?”). Worse, it was from someone who does not share the holiday with the same reverence that the rest of the

Jewish population shares, but rather with a “Jews for Jesus” spin.

If you were to talk to any Jewish person, they would concur that this is extremely offensive to those who hold this day as the most solemn and important of the Jewish holidays. Much is writ-ten in your paper about Christmas, Easter, etc (by your spiritual columnist and others), but our holidays traditionally go without much notice. As there are a lot of Jewish families residing in Carmel, I am saddened there is no “voice” for our people in print.

Shelby Weiss, Carmel

Editor:I have never seen in writing a true estimate of

the start-up costs for the Regional Performing Arts Center (including the newly hired director) vs. the start-up cost for the Monon Center. It would be interesting to see what the cost is per person in Clay Township for both centers. Then it would be interesting to see the realistic oper-ating budget for both centers as it relates to cost per person in Clay Township. Also, I would like to see the proposed daily usage of each of these centers?

It is not unrealistic to state that 500-1,000 people are visiting the Monon Center daily. Will that be true for the RPAC?

If my assumptions are correct, then as a tax-payer, I don’t mind providing support to the Monon Center if it isn’t meeting its operational costs. Every day, you see articles about how people need to get out and exercise more – the Monon Center not only provides that through the fitness center, but also through the numer-ous trails available to our citizens.

Anna Marie Yarger, Carmel

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COmmENTaRy By danielle Wilson

Some of the e-mails I get in response to my column really crack me up. Apparently, a good portion of the northern Indianapolis suburbs are perfect wives and mothers who feel it is their right – nay, their Jesus-driven duty – to point out my flaws and offer me advice on how to have the perfect family. Here are some of their suggestions:

Never ever lose your temper! Good mothers do NOT freak out when a child poops in the hallway or takes a Sharpie to the new silk bedspread. Shame on you for reacting like a spaz!

Never even think about spanking your child! Good mothers do not even consider the possibility of patting a diaper-covered bottom. Rationalizing with a 2-year old is the much-preferred discipline option. If your first instinct is to spank, even if you don’t follow through, you need serious psychiatric help.

Never try to spice up your marriage by watching an R-rated movie with physically attractive actors like Jessica Alba and Matthew McConaughey! Violence and sex should be banned from theaters. Clearly you’re headed for divorce if you can’t find inspiration at church. Sinner!

Never become frustrated with your spouse! The perfect wife will have her hair coiffed and make-up on, ready to serve a home-cooked gourmet meal to her husband when he returns from his hard day at work. He does NOT want to hear about your hectic afternoon with children, nor does he have the time to clean up after himself. Stop pestering and start doting!

Never say anything bad about your children! Babies are a gift from God, and those belonging to a good mom would never lie, cheat, steal, or dump cherry Kool-Aid powder down a air vent. Heaven-bound kids are always bathed, behaved and beautiful!

Never question your faith! Perfect women do exactly what the Bible says and would under no circumstances question any Church

doctrine. Women who do aren’t true Christians and are going straight to hell by way of abortion clinics and feminine action groups.

I think what these women really want me to do is stop being honest, because the truth is, life is not always happy, happy, joy, joy. Kids sometimes stink – as do husbands – and occasionally, I don’t like being a mommy or a wife.

Why can’t we embrace the difficulties of parenthood and marriage, find some humor in them, and congratulate each other on trying our best? Why must it always be about who’s the better mom, who’s the better spouse, and who’s got the most perfect life? Gag. I’m just trying to make sure my kids are clothed and fed properly on most days; I don’t have the energy to mask my feelings and pretend like I’m thrilled to be vacuuming for the third time in a morning, when all I really want to do is chuck the stupid box of Lucky Charms out the freaking window. Do you?

So we’re not perfect. So we don’t always want to spend time with our kids. So what if we complain about our husbands being thoughtless pigs? I find it a hell of a lot more refreshing to be around women who are honest about their lives than those who constantly tell me how much better they are at everything.

Oops. A perfect mother isn’t supposed to swear, either. Whatever. If being the perfect mom and wife means never expressing how I truly feel, then I’ll take being mediocre any day. Peace out. (I’m saving my thoughts on the Christian right’s condemnation of me and my Satan-spawned family for another time.)

» Sheriff candidate announced - Local business-man and former Indianapolis Police Sergeant Scott Baldwin has announced he will seek Republican nomination for Hamilton County sheriff in the May 4 primary election. The current sheriff, Doug Carter, is unable to run because of term limits. Baldwin served for more than 13 years at the Indianapolis Police Department.

» Book sale – The Carmel Clay Public Library will present the Friends of the Carmel Library book sale Oct. 8-11. Oct. 8 is Friends Only Night: Friends’ mem-bers can shop before the general public to get the best selection. The sale is open to the public Oct. 9 from 9 a.m. until 7 p.m., Oct. 10 from 9 a.m. until 5 p.m. and Oct. 11 from 1-5 p.m. Oct. 11 is Bag Day: Fill a grocery sack for $8. For more information, call 317-571-4292.

» Help domestic violence survivors - As a kickoff to National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Car-mel residents are encouraged to donate gently-used women’s suits or professional attire at select Allstate Insurance agencies. As part of the Allstate Foundation Tell a Gal P.A.L. national donation drive, the donated suits will be given to Prevail to help outfit domestic violence survivors. Visit your local Carmel Allstate office at 815 W. Carmel Dr. before Oct. 9 to donate. For more information, call 317-844-4683.

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Development of Prairie Landing, a 35-acre senior living community planned for construc-tion in Carmel, was terminated Sept. 3 by a unanimous vote of the board of directors of BHI Retirement Communities, Inc.

The community was to be a mix of indepen-dent and assisted living centers, totaling around 200 units. There had been 25 deposits made when the development was cancelled.

“We built into the project from the very be-ginning a series of benchmarks of what would be acceptable progress,” explained Stephanie Eckert, corporate marketing director for the non-profit BHI. “There was a lack of consumer confidence because of the economic downturn. We did what was prudent to avoid constructing a community that wouldn’t succeed financially.”

Eckert noted that Hoosier Village, another BHI community located in Zionsville, is cur-rently full and shows no signs of slowing down. The difference, she said, was that potential resi-dents couldn’t see Prairie Landing yet, and so were hesitant to invest their money into it.

“We feel sad for those loyal people who believed in the project early on and wanted to make Prairie Landing their home,” Eckert said. “We want to do anything we can to help them with their future planning.”

No development had occurred on the Prairie

Landing site, located just south of 146th St. on River Rd. Those who had already made deposits will be getting their money refunded in full, plus interest, according to Eckert.

“All of us felt very strongly about this project, and we hoped to make it a reality,” Eckert said. “It’s the dream of all of us that we could return to this in the future. Right now, though, we honestly can’t say if we will be able to or not.”

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Carmel philanthropy organization Hearts of Hope will hold its annual fundraiser this week-end for Carmel’s Chaucie’s Place.

The group, comprised of 24 Hamilton County women, will support the center for abused chil-dren with a barn dance. Held at the Robert Irsay Pavillion, 1303 W. 116th St. in Carmel, the night will feature music by The Meatball Band, food, drinks and a silent auction.

Sponsors or group members donated most items for the auction. Items up for grabs include four Paddock Penthouse tickets to the 2010 Indianapolis 500, six microdermabrasion ses-sions, a signed Peyton Manning jersey and a meet and greet with Cheri Daniels and tour of the governor’s residence for four.

Hearts of Hope member Ann Matheis said they are expecting a larger audience this year and hope to have upwards of 200 guests.

“We really want to target growth,” Matheis said, “and our last venue only held so many.”

Ticket’s cost $25 and can be purchased online at www.hearts-of-hope.net.

Chaucie’s Place helps child abuse victims. Most often, Chaucie’s Place assists in the legal documentation and interviewing that the child must go through in abuse cases.

“This way the child only has to experience that once and never look back,” Matheis said.

Without the work of places like Chaucie’s

Place, victims may have to relive the abuse many times over in court and litigation proceedings.

The majority of the money raised will go to support Chaucie’s Place’s Build-a-Bear program. Volunteers build bears for the abused children. Each child gets the comfort of the bear while being interviewed and then gets to take the bear home.

“They go through hundreds of bears a year,” Matheis said. “It’s a great opportunity for vol-unteers to build the bears and be a part of the whole experience.”

Chaucie’s Place interviewed more than 400 children last year, primarily from Hamilton County, and 2200 children since opening its doors in 2001.

Hearts of Hope, headed by President Tami Kirages, has raised more than $45,000 for Chaucie’s Place and other charitable causes since 2004.

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Left to Right: Ann Matheis, publicity committee, Hearts of Hope; Ginger Kadlec, executive director, Chaucie’s Place; Tami Kirages, president, Hearts of Hope


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COmmENTaRyBy Jeff Worrell

Local businessman and insurance agent Mike Godfrey, must enter some phone booth still in existence twice a year and emerge wearing blue tights and a red cape. At least that is the only thing those awed by his skills at CarmelFest and International Arts Festival can figure out. During those events, mild-mannered Mike Godfrey literally transforms into Superman.

Two weekends ago, the largest crowd ever turned out for the Carmel International Arts Festival, packing Main Street and Range Line Road curb to curb. And with large crowds come sizeable logistics and facilities challenges.

Mike Godfrey is the name most often called for over the two-way radios when a critical need or looming crisis requires a creative solution. Festival Chairwoman Rosemary Waters put it best.

“Mike is the hero behind the scenes – you only have to ask once and it’s done!” she said. “He never complains and is always smiling! I love it when he tells me not to worry about it!”

Mike Godfrey is the person accountable during two major festivals for all jobs that require a pair of work gloves, heavy lifting and sweat.

Others have come before him taking respon-sibility for trash removal, outdoor toilet arrange-ments and setting up/tearing down. After once or twice, many don’t return. However, Mike continues to come back ready to tackle the many challenges that each new festival seems to bring.

Gary Frey, the man who held the job prior to Mike said, “He has a servant’s attitude and heart. Not many in this community could stand in his shadow in that regard.”

The synchronization and collaboration required to put on an event like the Carmel International Arts Festival on city streets in the heart of Carmel would probably overwhelm your average citizen.

However, the organizing committee that produced the successful event this year includes many long time members as well as newcom-ers with fresh ideas and youthful energy. A huge gigantic round of applause for volunteers Rosemary Waters, Gary Frey, Sandy Barretto, Doug Haney, Cherie Piebes, Doreen Squire Ficara, Elaine Bass, Ann Ranz, MaryLou Schweitzer, Paxton Waters, Lee Goodman, Julie Houck, Mike Godfrey, Todd Luckoski, Cyndi Roberts Greiner, Lynda Pitts, Jim Burrell, Carmel Fire Department, Carmel Street Department and Carmel Police Department.

Please accept your community’s heartfelt thanks for an extraordinary job and now get some rest. You only have 12 months to get ready for next year.

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The 12th annual Carmel International Arts Festival attracted over 10,000 during this two-day event. According to Event Chairperson Rosemary Waters, “This Festival prides itself in of-fering an array of premier artists, international performers, and musical entertainment.” To launch the Festival, the Chinese Cultural Group moved through the crowd performing the

“Dragon Dance”. Throughout the event, the main stage provided a wide offering of perming artist including Russian Ballet Dancers, Circle City Cloggers, the rock band Midnight Spin from New York, Japanese Dancers, Pianists, interactive drummers and much more. In addition to stage entertainment, the Festival offered attendees the opportunity to paint (and sign) a portion of the

“Mural of The World”, an exhibit making its way across America. In all, Festival goers were delighted with the variety of interactive displays, cultural booths and wonderful artists. So mark your cal-endars for next year’s event taking place during the fourth week of September in the Carmel Arts & Design District.

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Every now and then something crosses my work table that makes me want to scrap every bit of decorating I have done. That happened this afternoon, when books of wall coverings were deliv-ered to the doorstep of my studio.

I promise you these are not your mother’s wallpapers. No, these works of art deserve to be framed and hung just for their own unique beauty.

The wall coverings of today provide a look that is sensual and opulent. Any material that shimmers is fair game.

These trendsetting designs feature hammered metallic, fine leather weaves, austere line grids and drop shapes embellished with silica sand and glass beads. Papers with luster effects and elaborate color gradients are some of the most intriguing, while decorative hand-printed screen prints and oversized digital print patterns pro-vide a dramatic backdrop.

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Grass cloth, shown in a horizontal pattern, is a classic that has stood the test of time, yet has found a renewal in the quest for a Zen-like atmo-sphere. This is pure texture that provides a perfect back-drop for simple and ornate trimmings. Colors range from natural wheat tones to shades of paprika and ebony.

Bamboo has found its way off the floor and on to the wall with a real bamboo wall covering. The natural tones are ideal for an organic atmosphere in a space.

The new papers that have hit the design world are made of materials never imagined in a union with pasted paper. Unlike typical wall coverings, these papers are available by the yard, rather than by the bolt.

Vicky Earley is the principal designer for Artichoke Designs in downtown Carmel. If you have an interior design question, please contact [email protected].

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» Local agent wins award – Allstate Insurance Agent Kim Gaskill has received the company’s Agency Hands in the Community Award for volunteerism in the community. With this award comes a $500 grant from The Allstate Foundation to the Tri County Opportunity School, where Gaskill volunteers. Through the Agency Hands in the Community grant program, Allstate agents and Allstate personal financial representatives are recognized for outstanding commitment to community service with a $500 dona-tion to the charitable organization where they volunteer.

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When you believe in yourself, good things happen. When you expect to succeed, you often do. Expect a storm, and it’ll probably rain. If your forecast is for a blue sky, it’s not unusual to see the sun peak through the clouds. As it turns out, there’s no secret; there never was. You should expect a blue sky and expect success. When you have the passion it takes, you’ll soon realize that a positive outcome isn’t far behind. Doubt yourself, and failure will nip at your heels.

I used to have a coach whose favorite saying was, “Stinkin’ thinkin’ leads to mental BO.” And nobody likes body order – no matter what the originating source. While I don’t often think of his quote, it has popped into my mind more frequently over the last few months. The percep-tion of a current economic downturn seems to have manufactured an attitude of failure. While positive belief won’t cure everything, it does help. I’ve come to notice that when you feel like everything is on the line and something has to

go your way, it usually doesn’t. Self belief and staying true to your values – despite adverse conditions – is hard, but often more fruitful.

Here’s a secret: It’s not as glamorous as the book and not as voluminous. The secret is there is no secret. There is no secret ingredient. You are what you make of yourself. It’s all up to you and your belief.

The same thing applies to your company and your strategy. No matter if you sell hose nozzles or wealth management advice, you are only as successful as you decide to be. My little girl says, “Have a good day daddy” as I leave each morning. I say, “Make it a good day honey.” The world offers no favors and takes no prisoners. Market to the world like you want to succeed. Risk it like you have it to risk. Take it or some-one else will. My new motto: Expect a blue sky!

David Cain works at MediaSauce, a digital media and online marketing company in Carmel. David wel-comes your questions or comments at [email protected].

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I enjoyed watching the Colts’ recent Sunday-night game against the Arizona Cardinals. It was fun to sit back and watch without much angst over the outcome. Of particular interest to me was the chess match taking place at the line of scrimmage. Everybody knows Peyton Manning steps up to the line of scrimmage and assesses the opponent’s defensive set. He then makes ad-justments through audibles and gestures based on what he sees. Arizona attempted to confuse Manning and disrupt the Colts’ offense by dis-guising their formations.

It didn’t work, because Peyton Manning was … well … Peyton Manning once again. He used his mastery of the Colts’ playbook and the resources available to him (including two rook-ies) to get it done. The announcers were effu-sive with their praise, and rightfully so.

As I watched and listened, it occurred to me that Manning has changed the way professional football is played. Did you ever hear of quarter-backs “studying” before Manning? How many

teams ran a no-huddle offense before the Colts? Do you recall another quarterback savvy enough to quick-snap before slow defenders could get off the field? To beat the Colts, they say, one must keep Peyton Manning off the field.

He has redefined the standard of excellence at the quarterback position and changed the entire game in the process.

So here’s the question: Do you want to be a game-changer? Sure, you may be an insurance guy, or a real estate agent, or a school teacher, or a taxi driver. I don’t care what you do; there is a way to redefine excellence in doing it. Challenge yourself.

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Families come each year to Southern Indiana, the Sunny Side of Louisville, the home of many fall traditions. One of the most popular is spending the day in the country while enjoying Indiana’s best fall foliage.

The Huber Orchard, Winery and Distillery in Starlight was recognized by USA Today as one of the top ten places in the United States to pick apples. The family farm offers activities such as a children’s hands-on farm, pumpkin picking, wagon tours, cheese and ice cream factory and a farmer’s market. Plus you can sample award-winning wine and every weekend enjoy live music on the patio in October. You will savor your time at Huber’s, one of the largest farm-based wineries and Indiana’s only farm-based distillery.

Nearby are the Joe Huber Family Farm and Restaurant and the Stumler’s Restaurant and Orchard. Fall fun is bountiful at both of these which are noted for their country cooking.

New Albany hosts Harvest Homecoming, Indiana’s third-largest festival, with booth days October 8 – 11. Autumn on the River in Bethlehem, a quaint and historic village, offering high quality crafts, food and entertainment is the weekend of October 17 – 18. That same weekend, Clarksville celebrates its heritage with a festival commemorating founder Revolutionary War General George Rogers Clark and the departure of the Lewis and Clark Expedition in 1803.

Round out your visit to Southern Indiana with an evening of suspense at Clarksville’s Derby Dinner Playhouse and “Murder on the Nile” and sample local favorites at New Albany’s downtown brewery and winery.

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By dr. david SullivanQ: Dr. Sullivan, my son plays soccer and has had some pretty bad ankle sprains. Other than wearing an over-the-counter ankle brace, is there anything that can be done to prevent this?

A: Ankle sprains are treated in various ways, depending on severity of the sprain, the activ-ity level of the patient, history of previous sprains, and expectations for the future. The more active the patient is, the more important proper rehabilitation is.

The grade of ankle sprain dictates care. If there is simply pain and a little swelling, then after a day or two of rest, ice, and elevation, a quick return to range-of-motion exercises and strengthening is important. If there is more pain, less ability to walk on the extremity, and some bruising, a longer period of “RICE” (rest, ice, compression, elevation) should be imple-mented, as well as wearing a more advanced ankle brace, which supports the ankle in all three planes of motion.

If there is too much pain to wear regular shoegear during ambulation, immobilization in a walking fracture boot would be the next step. If the sprain has significant swelling, bruis-ing, and an inability to bear weight, a more significant rupturing of the ligament has likely occurred. In this case, immobilization with crutches is indicated after the initial RICE period. The more significant and the less appro-priately treated the sprain is, the longer it will take for proper healing. A poorly treated ankle sprain can be painful for a year.

For athletes, it is important to progress the rehabilitation process based on ability to bear weight and walk. As pain diminishes, the physi-cal therapy regimen should become more ag-gressive. This will better prepare the athlete for the physical stress of their sport. In some cases of repeat ankle sprains or significant ruptures of the ligament in more advanced athletes, surgical intervention is indicated to tighten the liga-ments or to reconstruct the ankle ligament com-plex. This is performed to prevent future sprains and decrease time away from the activities in which they excel.

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You breathe harder and suck in more air when you’re exercising than when you’re, say, watching TV. The more air you inhale, the more airborne pollen and mold spores you suck in too. That’s why it’s important to take your workout indoors when your aller-gies are acting up or on days with very high pollen or mold counts. If you love working out outside, to minimize your exposure. Take a non-drowsy antihistamine before you exercise outdoors. Pick a path that’s less likely to expose you to allergens, and steer clear of major roads and highways. Chemical irritants from exhaust can worsen allergy symptoms.

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Where: 258 W. Main Street, Carmel, Ind.When: Oct. 11 1-4 p.m.Cost: FreeDetails: Carl Hines will by featured as part of Jazz on the Monon. The concert series is every Sunday through the end of October. Attendees are encouraged to bring their own chairs or blankets. Parking is available at the overflow lot across the street from Carmel High School, Carmel Lions Club parking lot and other public parking areas, as well as on-street parking in the District.Info: 317-571-ARTS or www.carmelartsanddesign.com

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By Arika HerronCurrent in Carmel

Carmel is shedding light on the jazz scene, taking it out of smoky bars and into the streets.

All summer long, jazz has been free and family friendly in the Carmel Arts & Design District. Every Sunday afternoon on the Monon Trail, local jazz musicians take the stage in front of the Soori Gallery at 258 W. Main St. from 1-4 p.m. for Jazz on the Monon.

Michael Lee, Carmel A&D District intern, said the spot on the Monon was chosen for its open space and natural surroundings.

“There’s something very soothing and different about playing outside,” Heather Ramsey said.

Ramsey, a local jazz singer, played her third date with Jazz on the Monon Oct. 6.Ramsey wasn’t originally a jazz singer but has made it her main focus for the past

three years. She released a CD of jazz standards last year.“It’s a nice relaxed atmosphere, and it gives people a different view of what jazz

is,” Ramsey said.Now averaging about 100 people each performance, the crowd and the event has

grown from sparse beginnings. Lee said the event has seen such success because of Carmel affinity and receptiveness to the arts.

“Before people would just fly by on the Monon, but it’s made people stop and see what’s really here,” Lee said.

There are three shows left before Jazz on the Monon concludes for the year. Carl Hines will be playing Oct. 11, Wendy Reed on Oct. 18, and Blair Clark will finish the season Oct. 25. Lee said he does think Jazz on the Monon will resume next summer.

Concert attendees are encouraged to bring their own chairs or blankets. Parking is available in the overflow lot across the street from Carmel High School, at the Lions Club parking lot and on the streets on the A&D District.

For more information, visit the A&D District Web site at www.carmelartsand-design.com or Heather Ramsey’s Web site, musicbyheather.com.

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In a near-capacity performance, the Carmel Symphony Orchestra, along-side Grammy-nominated performer Michael Feinstein, opened its 2009-2010 season at the Westfield High School Auditorium Sept. 25.

Feinstein was recently announced as the artistic director for the Carmel Regional Performing Arts Center, scheduled to open for the 2010-2011 symphony season.

In the first half of the performance, the symphony played repertoire se-lections from the Great American Songbook, including “Georgia on My Mind” by Hoagy Carmichael and Stuart Gorrell, and “St. Louis Blues” by W.C. Handy. Feinstein joined the symphony on stage for the second half, performing songs ranging from Ira and George Gershwin to Cole Porter.

“The response I got from audience members, many of whom had never been to a performance like this before, was just thrilling,” said David Bowden, conductor and artistic director for the

Carmel Symphony Orchestra. “Many of them were just shouting, they enjoyed it so much.”

Founded in 1976, Bowden said the orchestra has come a long way from its roots.

“We are now an organization of professionals performing music at the highest critical levels,” he said.

That love of music, and the arts in general, has been and will continue to be very important to Carmel and the RPAC, according to president and CEO of the symphony, Alan Davis.

“The arts in general are a tremendous economic development tool for any community,” Davis said. “What we offer above and beyond other locations is quality of life.”

The symphony will be one of the first tenants to move into the Regional Performing Arts Center when construc-tion is complete.

The Carmel Symphony Orchestra will perform next Oct. 3 at Westfield High School, featuring Susie Park and selections from Verdi, Brahms and Debussy.

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(Above) Feinstein on stage with the Carmel Symphony Orchestra. (Left) Feinstein with Mayor Jim Brainard at the event afterparty at the Bridgewater Club in Westfield

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If you’re a Carmel-area resident or business owner looking for a place to entertain and impress some friends or clients high above the action at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway, the legendary oval at 16th and Georgetown has a deal for you. A “suite” deal.

For $110,000 a year, you can lease one of the coveted suites along either side of the straightaway and get a bird’s-eye view of the track’s three big events – the Indy 500, the Brickyard 400 and the Red Bull Indianapolis MotoGP.

For the first time since they opened, 14 suites are up for grabs in Hulman Terrace along Georgetown Road and in Tower Terrace on the inside of the track. The Speedway is hosting an open house from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Oct. 16 to let folks take a look.

While there once was a waiting list to get into the spa-cious rooms, the economy forced some companies to rethink their expenditures and they did not renew their contracts.

“The Speedway battles perception all the time that ev-erything is sold-out here,” said Ron Green, public relations director of the Indy Racing League. “Tickets. Suites. You name it.

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Green also realizes the curious public will take advantage of the opportunity for a little “window shopping” without any serious thought of leasing one. And that’s okay.

“Word of mouth helps as well,” said Green. “They may know someone who has a business and might be interested.”

Green said all of the available suites will be open for view-ing. The suites are unfurnished, but will visitors can see the layout of the room, including the bars, flooring, wall treat-ments and electronics used by previous tenants. A couple of furnished suites will also be open, with the current tenants there talking about the advantages of having a suite.

“One of the unique advantages of these suites is that the suite tenants are allowed to come in and do whatever they want to the suite,” said Green. “While other sporting venues might let you hang a picture or two, our tenants can put down tile, carpet, wood flooring, mirrored walls, marble countertops, you name it. You can really personalize your suite to meet your company’s needs for personal needs.”

The cost is $110,000 per year on a three- or four-year contract. Each suite includes its own restrooms, 80

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Ingredients:• Olive Oil • 1 medium onion – minced • 6 tablespoons curry powder • 1 teaspoon chili powder • 1 tablespoon cinnamon • 1/2 teaspoon nutmeg • 1/2 teaspoon ground coriander • 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin • 1 teaspoon salt • 12-15 turns fresh ground pepper • 2-15oz cans pumpkin puree • 3/4 cup sugar • 3 tablespoons molasses • 7 cups vegetable broth • 2 cups heavy cream

Directions:1. Coat the bottom of a large stock pot with

olive oil, heat over medium high heat. 2. Add minced onion and sauté until wilted and

very slightly brown. Add all spices, salt and pepper. Stir and heat until bubbly, about 1 minute.

3. Add pumpkin puree, sugar and molasses, stir to incorporate all the spices into the puree. Slowly whisk in the broth. Simmer covered for 20-25 minutes, whisking periodically.

4. Add heavy cream and whisk. Remove from heat and serve or let the bisque cool before refrigerating.

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By molly hernerAs we head into the crisp fall season this year

let’s try to get back to our roots, root vegetables that is.

Root vegetables make the perfect addition to any fall-themed meal with their hearty and earthy qualities. Add chopped carrots, potatoes and onions to your Dutch oven with the pot roast or pair sautéed parsnips, carrots and sweet potatoes for a new and different side dish with your roasted chicken.

When it comes to root vegetables, however, my personal favorite is to enjoy them in a thick soup, either as a first course or a simple entree.

Carrot soup is a sweet and savory dish that pleases even the pickiest of palates. Enjoy this soup alongside a nice roasted pork loin or alone, with a little parmesan cheese grated over the top.

Any way you serve it, carrot soup is destined to invoke that back-to-nature feeling that ac-companies the fall season each year.

Getting back to your roots with carrot soup

Molly Herner, is a Noblesville resi-dent and the baker/pastry chef at Matteo’s Ristorante Italiano. You may email her at [email protected].

Ingredients• 1 white onion• 3 celery stalks• 7 or 8 carrots• 3 garlic cloves• 2 cups heavy cream• 1/2 cup flour• 1 liter (about 4 ¼ cups) chicken stock or

chicken soup base • Dab of crème fraiche or parmesan

cheese

Directions: 1. Coat the bottom of a large soup pot

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onions are translucent and the carrots are soft.

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5. Pour heavy cream over vegetables and stir until thick again.

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By Chef michael VlasichSitting down and ordering a hot pastrami

on rye, the mustard dilemma began. The deci-sion was excruciating; the choices were endless. Think that is bad? Step into the condiment aisle of the grocery store, and watch the overwhelm-ing sensation of mass confusion.

As dining choices have become more diversi-fied, so have the ingredient choices for base con-diments. Gone are the days of simple choices between yellow ballpark or brown deli mustards; they are now represented by country, style or generational influence. Our great American cre-ativity and free market have taken the concept of mustard and unmercifully used fancy food marketing to create and push types of mustard mostly unnecessary or overly complex.

Commercial producers have mainly three basic types of mustard seeds in production: yellow, brown and black. The latter two tradi-tionally are used more in the European types of mustards, the yellow in American.

The following are some basic descriptions of types or styles to help understand their flavors and makeup. • American Ballpark is made of yellow seeds

ground with lots of turmeric; it is mild and tart with slight bitterness.

• Brown mustard is a mix of yellow and brown seeds; creamier with vinegar, it can come hot or extra hot.

• Dijon is the French style, which uses white

wine and vinegar.• Whole-grain mustard has black and

brown seeds; it is not fully ground, mixed into a creamy base like Dijon.

• The German style is brown in color and quite thick, hot and intense.

• Chinese mustard is simply mustard powder mixed with water; it can be ac-cented with spices, sugar or salt.

• 4 boneless breasts of chicken, floured and seared in butter

• 1/3 cup Dijon mustard• 1/3 cup whole-grain mustard• ½ cup honey• 1.5 tbsp. Cajun seasoning

Mix the mustards, honey, seasoning and egg yolk together until blended. Place cooled chicken onto a greased cookie sheet pan. Pour mixture over the chicken, place in 400 degree pre-heated oven, and bake for 20 minutes or until chicken reads 145 internally on a thermom-eter. Serve and enjoy!

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Chef Michael R. Vlasich, CEC, AAC, is a Carmel resident and the executive chef at the Indianapolis Marriott Downtown. You may e-mail him at [email protected]

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high Crimes: the Fate oF everest in an age oF greedBY MICHAEL KODAS

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Sunny side of LouisvilleCheck out these great events for this weekend on the Sunny Side of Louisville in Southern Indiana, just two hours south of Indianapolis: New Albany will host Indiana’s third-largest festival, Harvest Homecoming; booth days Oct. 8-12. The traveling exhibit of the Vietnam Wall will be at the Clark County Fairgrounds Oct. 8-12. Don’t miss this unique opportunity to see this impressive and solemn tribute. Plan your trip at www.sunnysidetourism.com or by calling 800-552-3842.

‘Barefoot in the Park’The Carmel Repertory Theatre presents Neil Simon’s “Barefoot in the Park” Oct. 16, 17, 23, 24, 30 and 31 (Fridays and Saturdays) at 8 p.m., and Oct. 18 and 25 and Nov. 1 (Sunday matinees) at 2:30 p.m. The showings will be held at the Carmel Performing Arts Center at 575 W. Carmel Dr. For more information, visit www.carmelrepertorytheatre.com or call 317-767-3973.

Heartland Film FestivalIndianapolis will once again play host to filmmakers from around the world during the 18th annual Heartland Film Festival Oct. 15-24. The renowned festival offers moviegoers a rare glimpse at independent, international short and feature-length films – plus a host of special events for film enthusiasts of all ages. For more information, to purchase tickets, or view the complete Festival lineup of special events and films, visit www.HeartlandFilmFestival.org.

‘Hats Off to Our Past’Prime Life Enrichment, 1078 Third Ave. SW in Carmel is presenting a vintage fashion show, “Hats Off To Our Past” Oct. 7 for its members and the public. Doors open at a.m.; luncheon at 11:30. Tickets are $25 each for a delicious luncheon and fashion show. Tickets are limited and cannot be purchased at the door.

‘Rabbit Hole’The Carmel Community Players will present “Rabbit Hole” Oct. 15-18 and 22-25. Times are 8 p.m. Thursday – Saturday and 2:30 p.m. on Sundays. Tickets are $15 ($12 for seniors/students). The Carmel Community Playhouse is located at 14299 Clay Terrace Blvd., Suite 140 in Carmel. For more information, call 317-815-9387 or visit www.carmelplayers.org.

‘Lafferty’s Wake’Main Street Productions of Westfield will present the comedy with music “Lafferty's Wake” at the Westfield Playhouse (1836 S.R. 32 in Eagletown) Oct. 9-11. Show times are Fridays and Saturdays at 7:30 p.m. and Sundays at 2:30 p.m. Tickets are $10 ($8 for kids and seniors. For reservations or more information, call 317-896-2707.

Argentinean dinner and wine classJoin Vine & Table (313 E. Carmel Dr.) and learn about the dynamic Argentinean wine region with Mike Palmer from Vinture Wine Group and Jeff Miller, National Sales Ambassador for The Southern Wine Group, Importer of Latin America's Fine Wines Oct. 6 from 6:30-8:30 p.m. For more information, call 317-817-9473.



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COmmENTaRyBy Becky kapsalis

The Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP) handbook suggests four ways to help our children choose better behavior:

1. Use reflective listening2. Use I-messages3. Explore alternatives4. Give choicesThe approach to use de-

pends on the circumstance. Sometimes we need only one. Other times, we will need to use all four approaches.

Take, for example, Sammy, age 11, who leaves a trail of messes everywhere in the house. The “I-message” approach is, “When things aren’t picked up, I feel frustrated because I like our home to be a pleasant place.” Sammy might reply, “I know. I’m sorry. I’ll do better.” That night, Sammy dutifully picks up after himself, only to fall back into his bad habit the next day.

Because the problem belongs to Sammy, the “reflective listening” approach applies. Sammy angrily asks, “Why does everything have to be perfect around here?” Mom says “You’re angry because you think I’m unreasonable about want-

ing a neat house?” “Yeah. I like it when things are kind of messy. It’s my house too.”

Using “exploring alternatives,” mom says, “Sammy, when our agreements aren’t kept, I feel like I don’t count around here.” Exploring

alternatives includes the child in the solution. “What do you think we can do to satisfy our comfort

levels?” They agree that mom would not nag as long as the living room, bathroom and kitchen were neat, and

Sammy could keep his own room as messy as he liked. They

tested the plan for a week.One week later, the living room

was a mess. So mom used the “giving choices” approach. “You can pick up as we agreed, or I’ll

pick up and keep the things I find that are important to you until you’re

ready to pick up after yourself. You decide.” Keeping to the choice is keeping to our word.

It will take time and practice, but our word be-comes our bond. Hugs!

By Brandie BohneyI’m guilty of today’s gram-

matical faux pas. One of them, anyhow. Frequently, if some-one expresses a dislike of something I also dislike, I have used the phrase, “Me either.” Do you see a problem with that? I do. It’s becoming more and more acceptable, as it is more and more widely used, but it really doesn’t make sense.

One problem is that me either is supposed to be a shortened, informal version of neither do I. So technically it should be me neither. Think of it this way: Would you say, “Either do I?” Of course not. You would say, “Neither do I.”

The other problem is that it’s a very informal and not particularly well constructed. In infor-mal conversation, that’s no big deal. But in any sort of written correspondence, neither do I is the preferable construction.

The question of me either versus me neither is not the only stumbling block for users of the rhyming descriptors, though. Let’s start with agreement. In most cases where either or neither is somehow involved with the subject of the sentence, a singular verb is required:

Either Jim or Josh has poison ivy.Neither of the boys has any calamine lotion. There is an exception to this rule, though.

The exception happens when the noun that follows or or nor is plural. In those cases, the

verb is plural: Either the troop leader or the scouts are lost.

Neither the leader nor the boys like the campsite, anyhow.

I think this is an easy rule to follow because if you just remember

that in either-or, neither-nor scenarios, the noun closest to the verb determines the verb. The trick is in that sentence about the calamine lotion because boys is plural, but because it is part of a prepositional phrase, it doesn’t count. It’s not a neither-nor construction, anyhow.

As far as meaning goes, either indicates that one of the options is viable or acceptable (He will eat either a hot dog or a hamburger), while neither indicates that, well, neither option is viable (He will eat neither). Neither is a negative, though, so use caution not to create a double-negative with it (He won’t eat neither). Both words should be used for situations with only two options.

Becky Kapsalis. aka YiaYia (pronounced Ya-Ya.) is a certified parenting advocate and child behavior coach. You may reach her at 317-848-7979 or e-mail [email protected].

Brandie Bohney is a grammar enthusiast and former English teacher. If you have a grammar-related question, please email her at [email protected].

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Wouldn’t it be great if there were an official “rule book” that all singles were required to study before they went on a date? And if both parties were required to sign an agreement saying they understood the rules? This way, everything would be clear and body would end up confused.

In a perfect dating world, my rulebook with begin with these two rules:

1. Always make intentions clear. This is something that doesn’t happen very often, for fear that someone will get scared away. However, could you imagine the headache that could be saved if both people shared where they are in life and what they’re looking for?

In a perfect world, it would look something like this: “Although I am not looking to get married after one date, I am open to the pos-sibility of finding a significant other, and if all goes well, I will consider the idea of a relation-ship or marriage someday. I am not looking for a one night stand or a friend with benefits, so if you are on the same page, then let’s get to know each other better and see where this goes.”

Then a response could be something such as, “I am in the same place in my life, and I am looking for the same thing.” Or, “I am actually

not looking to settle down anytime in the near future and in fact would pretty much like to party every night like it’s 1999. I have no desire for a relationship with you or any other person.”

This way, both parties can make a decision based upon clear and honest facts, and nobody would get hurt (or if someone does get hurt, blame cannot be placed on the other person).

2. Always be honest. In my perfect dating fantasy land, rather than making up excuses as to why they’re not interested, a person would instead tell the truth. For instance: “I am seeing another person who is becoming more attractive to me, so I need to let you know that we should stop seeing each other.” Or how about, “After getting to know you, I’ve just decided that we are not a good fit for each other.”

Now you’d think these concepts would be simple, but they are rarely considered. I joke about rulebooks and agreements, but I’m actu-ally raising my hand to vote for them. I wonder if anyone else would vote for them, too.

In a perfect dating world…

Rachael Noble is a single Carmel resident and contributing columnist. She can be reached at [email protected].

I joke about rulebooks and agreements, but I’m actually raising my hand to vote for them.

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Sorry if this upsets any well-meaning prayer warriors out there, but what in the Devil – if you’ll excuse the phrase – are we talking about when we pray to “bind Satan?”

It sounds sincere, comforting and authorita-tive to pray to “bind Satan,” “bind the enemy” or “bind demons,” but it is an arrogant, gross mis-reading of scripture – and a violation of scripture – to think we as Christians have that kind of power.

Jesus Christ, and only Jesus Christ with the authority of the Cross – i.e., God – has the power to bind Satan. And Satan is as “bound” as he is going to get until Christ binds him completely forever and ever in the lake of fire (Revelation 20:10). Until then, Christ has bound Satan only to the extent that the Gospel can not be extinguished.

On Earth, few of us will personally deal with Satan; he has bigger fish to fry. Still, we have no power to further bind Satan or even the lesser demons who most definitely “mess” with us any time we give them an opening.

What we can do is bind ourselves to Christ, talk to Christ, praise God and stay as far away as we possibly can from addressing Satan or demons or evil spirits. Even the Archangel Michael, who handles Satan (Jude 9, Revelation 12:7), is careful to only rebuke Satan, not accuse him. Accusing Satan is exclusively God’s job.

Yet Christians bend Bible verses to errantly claim Godly authority over Satan.

For example, the commonly cited “bind” and “loose” language in Matthew 18:18 is specifi-cally about early church discipline, not empow-ering humans to enforce prohibitions on Satan. That Heaven will “bind” or “loose” the unrepen-tant or repentant describes the authority of the early church to discipline its members.

In context, Matthew 18:15-22 has nothing to do with Satan, or for that matter, with binding/loosing sickness, wealth, angels or poverty.

Christ uses the same words in Matthew 16:19, describing the establishment of His church. Heaven will respect the founding of the church, not give Christians individual dominion over Satan.

Other misinterpreted “binding” verses include Revelation 12:11, James 4:7, 1 Peter 5:8-9. The Biblical message isn’t “bind Satan;” it is “resist Satan.”

It’s smarter, then, to pray fervently in Christ’s name for wisdom and discernment in detecting Satan’s lies; but we should never, ever think our prayers bind Satan.

Look around; are anyone’s binding prayers working?

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The process of backing up critical files is one of the most overlooked essentials for computer owners. Data recovery on a severely crashed hard drive can cost several thousand dollars.

If you are not already backing up your data, then we should be having an entirely different discussion. If you are backing it up, you need to understand if your backup is working.

Here are the top backup mistakes:

1. Buying an external hard drive, but not buying any backup software. Too many companies are selling external hard drives as “backup systems,” but they don’t bother to include the all important backup software. The most important part of the backup process is the software, but the industry knows people buy based on price and don’t read packaging or instructions.

2. Installing backup software, but not setting up the au-tomatic scheduler. If you think that you can rely on your memory to run the backup software, think again. In our ser-vice business, the most common thing we hear is, “I meant to run a backup, but never got around to it.”

3. Not verifying your backups. Assuming everything is work-ing fine is a dangerous way to live. The only way you will

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looking for a recent document to see if it’s on the backup drive. Or better yet, turning on the “verify” option in your backup program. With this option, after each backup, the program will go back and compare the files against the

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4. Only having one copy of your data. Redundancy is a criti-cal part of a good backup strategy, or you will have very little time to discover file corruption issues. If you backup over yesterday’s backup with today’s data, you won’t have any recourse if you corrupted a file during the day.

5. Not having off-site data sets. Businesses should especially incorporate some form of off-site data sets in case of fire, flood, theft or any number of business interruption pos-sibilities. With today’s plethora of online backup services, both consumers and businesses would do well to include an online backup of some sort to compliment any localized external backup system.

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By John mikesellCurrent in Carmel

Marking is not the same behavior as “my bladder is full and I have to pee.” Housetraining is just a matter of teaching your dog when and where to relieve himself. In contrast, marking is primarily a stress or anxiety-related behav-ior – far more complex and challenging than housetraining.

An occasional female will mark, but the cul-prits are primarily male dogs.

Manage your dog’s behavior with closed doors, baby gates, leashes, crates and exercise pens, so he doesn’t have the opportunity to mark in another room undetected. If you catch him in the act, interrupt him with a cheerful “Oops!” and take him outside. While marking is not the same as housetraining, you can still send him the message that he’s allowed to mark outdoors but not indoors.

Reduce his stress levels. Identify and remove as many stressors as possible. This includes eliminating the use of aversive or behavior modification and removing stressors from his environment. Hence the importance of NOT using verbal or physical punishment or trying to frighten him if you catch him in the act – you will be adding stress, and this could increase the marking behavior. Other tools for stress reduc-tion include calming massage, aromatherapy and classical music specifically selected for its calming effect on dogs.

Be sure to clean any soiled spots with an enzymatic product designed to clean up animal waste. Use a black light to find untreated spots.

This will help you find undetected soiled spots from your own dog, as well as dogs that may have lived in your home before you. Do not use ammonia-based products. Urine contains ammonia.

Get him neutered. While this doesn’t reduce or eliminate marking, it can help, especially if done sooner rather than later. Testosterone can be a significant stressor.

Use a belly band. This is a soft band of cloth of cloth with a Velcro fastener, which you can wrap around your dog’s abdomen. For some dogs, the band inhibits marking behavior entirely.

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» OTC caution - Although there are many brands of over-the-counter flea and tick products available at supermarkets and pet supply stores, it is critical to read their labels and consult with your veterinarian before using them on your companion. These products may contain ingredients that could harm pets and children. The Environmental Protec-tion Agency did not begin to review pet products for safety until 1996. There is a substantial backlog of products waiting to be tested, so many pet products con-taining potentially harmful pesticides still make their way onto store shelves.

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Swagger is a 6-year-old male orange and white tabby DSH. Swag-ger is a very outgoing and affectionate boy. When he wants attention, he will reach out and tap you on the arm as if to say, “Hey, I’m ready for you to pet me now.” Swagger is neutered, litter-box trained and he has a bob-tail. Swagger quali-fies for the shelter’s PAWS (Partnering Animals With Seniors) program. If you are age 55 or older, ask how you can adopt Swagger for a reduced fee.

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COmmENTaRy By mike Redmond

The leaves are turning and falling; the sky is low and gray. This can mean but one thing:

Chili season. Which also means it is time for me to dust off

my rant about what is, and is not, a decent bowl of chili.

Before we begin, let’s review:Chili is the perfect food, at least for the man

part of the human family. It is made from all the food groups: The Meat Group, The Fire Group, The Grease Group, and The Gives-You-Gas Group. In other words, it satisfies a man’s needs for nutrition AND entertainment.

Chili is also something that a great many men take pride in preparing. Of course, they make it far too complicated, but that’s typical. Men do the same thing with the simple act of im-molating a hamburger patty on an outdoor grill. Never expect a man to do in three steps what he can do in 12.

The preparation of chili is really kitchen theater, with lots of chopping and mincing and bandaged fingers, much smoke and more fire, and more than a little weeping from standing over a chili pot where you’ve just deposited four onions, eight cloves of garlic and a half-cup of chili powder.

Chili varies by region. Here in the Midwest, we favor a rather mild, tomato-bean-and-hamburger stew that often includes the horror of (gag) elbow macaroni. This most likely started during the Great Depression and World War II, when home cooks were trying to get the most out of what little they had. Properly stretched, a pound of hamburger could feed a neighborhood.

Subsequent generations grew up with this chili and liked it. This preference was reinforced by school lunch programs featuring a ham-

burger-tomato-and-pasta concoction known as Johnny Marzetti, Goulash, and, in one school I attended, Chop Sewage. While not chili, it did tend to reinforce the idea that hamburger, toma-toes and pasta should never be separated.

I used to be a chili purist, preferring the Texas-style bowl of red to all others. I didn’t even want beans in my chili. I’ve moderated my position on the legumes, however. Beans are pretty much standard in non-Texas chili and I am a non-Texan, so I’ve come to appreciate their presence. I draw the line at macaroni, though.

I have traditionally gone for a snappier and thicker chili than you can usually find in a res-taurant. Soupy chili, to me, is underdone chili. I like mine thick enough to sit in the pot on a low burner and make blooping noises, like the mud flats around a geyser. Sometimes I even thicken mine with a little masa harina, which also adds a nice tamale flavor.

But snappier – well, I guess I’ve outgrown my need to have the strongest stomach on the block. You get chili too hot, and all your tongue will register is pain. Good chili has layers of flavor that should reveal themselves and ... and ...

And I just realized I have been giving this subject WAY too much thought.

It’s chili, for heaven’s sake. And whatever kind of chili you like is fine. Even the stuff with macaroni. This is simple. You put it in a bowl, grab a handful of crackers and eat it. It’s really not much more complicated than that.

Bowl, crackers, eat. Three steps. And I took 12 just to realize it’s all good. Typical.

Mike Redmond is an author, journalist, humorist and speaker. Write him at [email protected] or P.O. Box 44385, Indianapolis, IN 46244.

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COmmENTaRy By dick Wolfsie

My wife and I were watching the new Jay Leno show the other night, and I wondered out loud if the show was being broadcast live or had been taped earlier in the day. “Well, of course it’s live,” said Mary Ellen. “I can see the people clapping.”

Mary Ellen is far smarter than I am, but she has momentary lapses…

This weekend she was heading to Michigan for a reunion and asked me if she could borrow my GPS system to help her navi-gate the route. Having never used the device, she requested a brief tutorial.

“OK, here’s how it works. First you type in the state, which would be Michigan. Then the city, Detroit, and then the address.”

“That is so cool. Then what?”“Well, you push ENTER. Then it not only gives you directions

and a map, but it tells you what time you are going to arrive.”My wife seemed perplexed. “How do they know when I’m

leaving?”“They don’t really know that, dear. It assumes you are leaving

now.”“But I’m not even dressed.”“Look Gracie, I mean Mary Ellen, once you actually leave for

Michigan, the GPS will tell you how long it takes to get there.”“But what if I have to stop to go to the bathroom?”“When you leave the rest stop, you’ll just have to drive faster,

won’t you?”To be fair, I suffer from similar drifts into another universe.

Just this past week Mary Ellen asked me to help her with a proj-ect she was working on. “When do you need me?” I asked.

“What about Tuesday morning?”I looked at my appointment book. My eyes widened, my fore-

head moistened. Next to 9:30 on Tuesday were the big **** that I always use to denote an important meeting I can’t miss. Here’s what I had written:

9:30 ****Dick WolfsieYes, my own name. In big black magic marker letters. For some

reason, I had apparently made an appointment with someone and put down my own name by mistake. I called my friend Bob, thinking I had meant to enter his name. He’s six foot four and bald, but maybe I just confused the two of us. “Bob, do we have a meeting at 9:30 on Tuesday? By accident I put my name in my day planner.”

“Maybe you just wanted to schedule some private time. You deserve it. And look at the bright side: For once in your life, you won’t be late.”

“This is not funny. I could miss an important meeting.”“That would be bad. An appointment with yourself and you

don’t even show up.”I can’t deny it, I have a rich history of ditzy behavior. I once

lost my appointment book and found it in the freezer a week later (I had placed it there while dislodging a pint of Ben and Jerry’s). When I returned from vacation a few years back, I re-ported to the police that my car had been stolen from the WISH-TV parking lot. I had left it in my friend’s driveway. Last March 8, I wrote PRESENT / SHIRLEY in my appointment book. I spent two weeks trying to remember who I knew named Shirley that was having a birthday. It was actually a reminder that I had to make an award presentation in Shirley, Ind.

Yes, I spend a good portion of every day making up for all the time I lose as a result of my forgetfulness and spaciness. I need some time alone to work on this problem. I wonder if that 9:30 on Tuesday is still available.

Dick Wolfsie is an author, columnist, and speaker. Contact him at [email protected].

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our kitchen. We would like to paint or refinish the existing cabinets to give our kitchen an updated look. What is the best way to get this done?

Answer: Painting or glazing your existing cabinets is a cost-effective way to com-pletely update the look of your kitchen. Consider the following techniques and design considerations:• Cabinet wood species: Light-grained

woods like maple or birch or white thermo foil cabinets are easier to paint over, because there is little or no wood grain. Oak is more difficult because of the heavier grain of the oak wood. If you do have oak cabinets, they can still be repainted, but will require multiple base coats of paint to hide the wood grain.

• Painting or glazing techniques: There are basically three steps to refinishing cabinets (primer coat, base coat and glazing). The biggest difference you will see in the final product is whether you do the painting by hand with a brush or by spraying. Hand painting on site with a brush is less expensive and results in a more “artistic” look. Spraying paint with professional

equipment will yield a “smoother” finish that is more similar to a factory finish. The best look results from using a profes-sional company that refinishes the doors and drawers in a spray shop with the proper equipment. In either case, glazing or distressing is usually done by hand. A sprayed-on lacquer finish gives you the closest finish to a factory finish.

• Trim and molding upgrades: Before you paint over the existing cabinets, con-sider adding new molding and trim. For example, try to dress up the island by adding beadboard or raised panels and extra tall baseboard. Removing the toe kick can give your island more of a “fur-niture” look. Cabinets can be modified by an experienced carpenter to expand your cabinet storage. Finally, don’t forget to consider painting or glazing the island in a different color or finish than the kitchen perimeter.

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OBITUARYDavid E. Ward, Sr., 48, of Carmel, passed away Sept. 25. He was born on Sept. 25, 1961 in Berwyn, Ill. to Robert and Evelyn Beckert Ward. David was employed with Gorilla Plastic and Rubber Group of Indianapolis. David was preceded in death by his father, Robert. In addition to his mother, he is survived by his loving wife, Nancy Zegley; children, Becky, Racheal, David, Christopher and Morgan; sisters, Barbara (Duke) Ziomek, Theresa (Kelly) Hoig, Cathy Ward, Diane (John) Nie and Linda (Romero) Perucho; brother, James (Kim) Ward and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.

Donna Jean Morris Grubbs, 88, of Carmel, Sept. 25 in Sunrise Assisted Living in Carmel. She was born Oct. 31, 1920 in Carmel to the late Tracy and Edith (Manship) Morris. Donna was a graduate of Ball State Teachers College with a Bachelor of Science in Business Education and Physical Education as well as a Masters Degree in Business Education. She taught high school business for 26 years in Lebanon, Evansville and Daleville, Ind. and also Shortridge, North Central and Northwest High Schools in Indianapolis. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 58 years, Bradley Grubbs; sister, Barbara A. Logan and son-in-law, Wayne E. Hall. Survivors include her daughter, Joan E. Hall; grandson, Adam W. Hall (Rebecca); granddaughter, Elizabeth A. Hall; great granddaughters, Annika O. Hall and Joleona C. Hall; nephews, Daniel J. (Connie) Logan and Thomas M. (Susie) Logan; great nieces, Wendy S. Logan and Jennifer L. Logan.

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APARTMENTS located at 3707 – 3715 N. Meridian Street in Downtown Indianapolis.• You will save time & money• You will meet new people and new friends• You will have access to public transportation, to churches, schools,

entertainment and shoppingYou work hard, so by living at The New Yorker Apartments you will have time to

enjoy your life … and to have all the convenience of living downtown.Come on in and visit The New Yorker Apartments. Call - 784-5899 or 435-8618

and make an appointment. You might be surprised at the pleasant, large apartments that are available at such affordable prices.

IT’S TRUE: Schedule an appointment to just come and see how much time and money you can save.

STUDIOS, 1-2 BEDROOMS - FENCED PARKING LOTProfessionally Managed by:

MOYNAHAN-WILLIAMSCall Debbie – 317-435-8618

FOR SALEAll NEW

QUEEN PILLOW TOPMattress Set. $100 Sill in bag

Can Deliver(317) 223-9301

Private Assisted Living For Your Elderly Loved One; Unique Family Environment-

Home cooked meals Housekeeping & Laundry-Total Assisted 24 Hr. Care

Over 17 years experience with references.Call 317-773-3783

FOR SALE

Jackson’s Lawn careFamily Owned and Operated for over

35 Years!Reliable/Reasonable

Mowing * Fertilizer * LandscapeGutter Cleaning * Snow Removal

Leaf RemovalSpring and Fall Clean-Up

Free Estimates – 844-6055

For Rent1321 Brookton Ct

3 Bed, 2 Bath, 1650 sq ft home, Washington township schools, Brick exterior, NO GAS BILL! Huge yard,

Attached garage, Stove, Refrigerator, Dishwasher, Microwave. Available Oct. 1.

$1250 per month. Call 253-1533

NOW HIRING Seeking fun, energetic,

customer friendly workers;18+ Apply within

Pinheads13825 Britton Park Rd.

Fishers, IN 46038

Donations of gowns — tax deductibleGowns — greatly discounted

Proceeds donated to local charitiesGayla Breslauer

(317)796-9432BridesRevisted.org

[email protected]

Gowns for the Greatest Good

Shopping for car insurance? Call me first. Save even more than

before with Allstate. Drivers who switched to Allstate saved an average of $353 a year. You could be surprised by how much you’ll save.

Ranj Puthran 844-4683 www.carmelallstate.com

Pet & House Sitting Service9 Years Experience

317-802-6565

“The Safe and ReliableAlternative to Boarding”

Insured/Bonded

Member of Pet Sitters Int’l

References Available

10 Years Experience317-432-1627

‘93 YAMAHA 600 FZRonly 13K perfect for commuting

U-B-the judge, Must See$3200, Lots of Accessories!

317-313-9858

POOLTABLE/AIR-HOCKEY COMBO - Fat Cat BrandAll accessories included.

Must Sell Moving!$395 OBO 317-313-9858

I BUY: Jewelry, Gold, Silver, Platinum, Rolex, Diamonds, Old Coins, Bullion Coins, silverware, Old watches, estate items and anything of value. Call 317-496-5581 or visit us today at www.indyestatebuyer.com

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City Center Dr.

Industrial Dr.

W. Main St.

4th A

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3rd A

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421 Industrial Dr., Carmel317-846-0661Rod Shaw, owner

Over 22 years experience!Our team can perform Oil Changes • Transmission & Radiator Flushes

Timing Belts & Water Pumps • Fuel Injection Cleaning • Brakes, Ball Joints, Tie Rod EndsEngine Diagnostic & Tune Ups • Batteries & Alternators • And so much more!

10% off any repair with a copy of this ad

thru Oct. 31, 2009

Complete Foreign & Domestic Auto RepairMon - Fri: 7:30am - 5:30pm

Need a second opinion? Call us!

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Pumpkin Patch Festival and 5K Run/Walk

Activities Include:• Bounce House• Colts in Motion Traveling Museum• Police and Fire Emergency Vehicles• Petting Zoo• Family Photos, Costumes encouraged• Face Painting & Caricatures• LifeLine Helicopter and Ambulance• Train Rides, Clowns & Live Music• Blood Pressure, Cholesterol and Glucose Screenings, & Flu Awareness Information

New this year:Clarian North Pumpkin Patch 5K Run/WalkPresented by the Carmel LionsSATURDAY, OCTOBER 10, 8:30 A.M. StartRegistration opens at 7:30 A.M. Fee required. Open to adults and children.For more information and to register, visit the Events section at clariannorth.com.

Pumpkin Patch FestivalSATURDAY, OCTOBER 10, 10:00 A.M. – 1:00 P.M.Presented by Clarian North and Legends GroupFREE & Open to the PublicClarian North Medical Center116th & N. Meridian, Carmel

Enjoy fun activities for the entire family including FREE food, drinks, pumpkins, prizes and more!

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