Harmony in the Family2

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Harmony in thefamily


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Relationship ISand it exists between the self (I)

and the othe self (I). The self (I) has feelings in a relationship. These

feelings are between I and I.

These feelings in the self (I) are definite, i.e

they can be identified with definitences. Recognising and fulfilling the feelings leads to

mutual happiness in relationship.


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Values in humanrelationships

1. Trust ( vishvas)

2. Respect(samman)

3. Affection(sneha)

4. Care(mamata)5. Guidance(vatsalya)

6. Reverence(shraddha)

7. Glory(guarava)8. Gratitude(kritgayata)

9. Love(prem)


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Trust (vishvas)

To be assured that each human being inherently wants oneselfand other to be happy and prosporous.

In all relationships , trust is the foundation .

A relationship without trust results in opposition, the relationshipitself gets shaken up.


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Respect(samman) Means right evaluation, to be evaluated as I am.

3 mistakes in our evaluation in the following ways:

1) Over evalutaion (adhi-mulyana)-to evaluate more thanwhat it is.Eg: if you are wrongly flattered you feel uncomfortable.

2) Under evaluation( ava-mulyana)- to evaluate less than what it is.Eg: if you are condemmed , you feel uncomfortable.

3) Otherwise evaluation(a-mulyana)- to evaluate otherwise thanwhat its is.Eg: if you are evaluated as something else, you feel

uncomfortable.


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Affection(sneha) Feeling of being related to other.

Affection comes when I recognize that we both want to make eachother happy and both of us are similar.

This feeling of acceptance of the other , as oness relative is thefeeling of affection or sneha in relationship.


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Care(mamata) The feeling of care is the feeling to nurture and protect the body

of our relative.

We understand a human being as a co-existence of the self (I)and the body and the body is an instrument ofI.


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Guidance(vatsalya) Feeling of ensuring right understanding and feelings in the other.

Right understanding and feelings is also a need of the other andthe other is related to me. As a result I have the responsibility tohelp the other . Based upon this I am able to recognize this

feeling of ensuring right understanding and feelings in myrelative.


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Reverence(shraddha) Feeling of acceptance of excellence in the other .

we aspire for continuous happiness and to realize it, we have tounderstand harmony at all the levels of our living , and liveaccordindgly. When we see that the other has achieved this

excellence which means to understand and to live in harmony atall levels of living ensuring continuty of happiness , we have afeeling of reverence for him/her.


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Glory(guarva) Feeling for someone who has made efforts for excellence.

We find that there have been people in the history , or evenaround us , who are investing their time , energy and theirbelongings to achieve excellence, to make others excellent. This

gives the feeling of glory.


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Gratitude(kritayagta) Feeling of acceptance for those who have made effort for my

excellence.

We understand that each one of us has the same goal ofcontinuous happiness and prosperity . Each one of us has to work

towards increasing our competence to realize our intention and inthis process, we are helped and guided by others that have theright understanding . When we understand this and begin torecognize the feeling in ourselves, we feel the gratitude in ourrelationship.


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Love(prem) Feeling of being related to all is love.

The feeling of love leads to an undivided society, it starts from afamily and slowly expands to the world family . Every humanbeing has natural acceptance for relatedness up to the world

family in the form of love.

We start with trust , which becomes foundation for being relatedto one(affection) , and we reach the state of being related toevryone.


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