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SAVE EARTH DRAWING COMPETITION
From Elite Kids Club
Social Corner Beauty and Diet
Women with Spark
اردو کے اوراقBook Reviews
ELITIAN TIMES
THE LAUNCHING EDITION Feb, 2018
Stories Articles Poems Paintings Word searches Riddles
Elite Club KSA
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About Magazine
Elite Club KSA is running successfully from last five years and
achieving its milestones. This club engages highly talented and
multi skilled members including beauticians, doctors, engineers,
teachers and other entrepreneurs. The magazine seeks to enhance and
dig out hidden talents of our members and let them express their
observations and experiences wrapped in their thoughtful write-ups
through this platform.
This magazine encourages kids to read, write and paint their
young enthusiastic minds. Being a founder of this club, I am
thankful to all my members across the kingdom who contributed in
this magazine through their well-crafted articles to make this
dream come true.
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Founder/DesignerI always believe to follow what you dreamt.
Never
underestimate your capacity and talent. Always look towards
impossible to make it possible and prove
yourself as unbeaten and victorious.
JAVERIA ASADMechanical Engineer/Event Planner
EditorBe kind, sincere and loving to yourself before someone
else. You are master of your life, don’t let anyone set
limits for you.
SEHRISH YASIR Media Studies/Freelance Writer/Research
Analyst
CoordinatorAs a coordinator, I am honored to be a part of
this
club and its new venture which will give new platform to our
ladies and kids who love reading and writing. I am thankful to all
writers for contributing in
this first step of this venture.
AISHA HASHMI Masters in Islamic Studies/Psychology
Professional Baker
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What’s Inside…..??
Social Corner 5 Work Life Balance 6 Teaching Moral Values to
Children of Today
9 My Home My Heaven 10 Importance of HigherEducation for
Girls
Health and Beauty
11 Healthy and Glowing Skin12 General Health Tips and
DietCharts
14 Depression – Disease orDisorder
15 Recipe of the Month
Woman with Spark 16 Exclusive Interview ofMrs. Kausar Owais
Osman
Head of Orbit International School
Kids’ Corner 18 Story Time19 Kids' Inspirational Talks 21
Paintings on Save Earth by Elite Kids
22 Riddles/Word Searches/Spot the Difference
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23 Book Reviews
29 Elite Yellow Pages
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Elite Club KSA
ELITE CLUB KSA is an event management and marketing consulting
organization located in Al Khobar, Saudi Arabia. We are serving
various communities in Saudi Arabia, since year 2013 in terms of
marketing, social and welfare activities. Elite offers a wide range
of services related to Marketing Consultation, Event Management,
Ladies and Kids Educational Workshops, Seminars, Corporate
Exhibitions, Conferences, Technical Workshops, Symposiums and
several community events. We believe in serving the community with
commitment, passion, knowledge, experience and motivation. We
created the atmosphere, where ladies established their careers as
entrepreneurs and gained the awareness to present their products as
BRAND. Our team of professionals is focused, creative and
well-trained to deliver their best.
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Social Corner
Work Life Balance By Sehrish Yasir
Life is a precious gift of God, we must understand true meaning
to life given instead of forgetting life while making a living.
Today, our lives have confined to making money, impression on
others and getting everything as per standards that are so called
perfectly trendy. But, this is not what we all are meant to be or
are given lives for, undoubtedly, work is the most important part
of everyone’s life. Unfortunately, gone are the days, when we all
used to have time for everyone and everything we used to love in
our lives. Today, we are simply besieged by responsibilities and
work load; where it seems like we are running to win the race
without making most of this beautiful blessing called LIFE.
Creating a balance in our work life and home life is the most
important need of an hour because everyone is too busy with the
routine activities that people even do not get time for themselves
nor for their families. Although, it is equally important for both
men and women to create this balance, but when a working women get
into the trouble of imbalanced work and home life, a lot of things
get disturbed such as, their marital life, children brought up,
their own confidence and personality. Being a woman, being a
working lady, being a home maker, being a mother you must realized
it is more important to have lesser mess in your mind than to have
a less mess in your living room. Being a human being, your first
priority should be you!! Your health, your mood, your choice,
because if you would be exhausted with work and responsibilities,
you would never be able to give good time, thoughts and impression
to your own family. Remember that quality is always more important
than quantity, so be it your home, your work, your children or your
husband have a QUALITY time for them. Because you can only give
someone, what you have, be it peace, smile, a nice thought, advice
or respect. So, gain every good feeling for yourself first and then
share it with over love ones.
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Social Corner
Teaching Moral Values to Children of TodayBy Shafeeka Basheer
MBA/Freelance Writer Dammam
Essence of character is considered as moral nature of human
beings as well as animals. It is a dream of all parents to see
their child grow in a responsible, lovable and a dynamic manner. To
get that parents go to any extent, possible from getting memory
booster drinks, health drinks, supplements or indulging them in
good social activities. However, what kid actually needs is
ATTENTION and time from parents.
Parenting is like a long term investment, where we need to put
more and expect less in return. Parents are the role model for
children. They learn every single thing by watching the parents’
behavior and emotions. Hence, it is necessary to control our
behavior to tune our children.
Spend more time with your children than on internet and social
media. Make them feel love and secure to face the world with
confidence.
Parents should help children by promoting moral actions through
self discipline, good work, good habits, kind
and considerate behavior with others, and community service.
Normally children look up to their parents as role models. Never
quarrel before children or abuse anyone. Discipline, dedication,
friendship, meditation, magnanimity are some characteristics of
moral education.
Civility and Respect
Editor Khaled Al Maeena said in an interview about lack of
civility and approach in today's children. He mentioned “It doesn’t
cost anything to be civil”. We should teach our children to respect
others’ views and opinions. Little pair of eyes are always watching
us, so we need to remain polite and respectful to others. Teach
kids to apologize if they do anything wrong. This will help them to
grow humble.
Teach them traditional and family values
Lets us teach our children love and not ego, the value of family
ties and our family tree. As many of us live in
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separate family, we fail to show them the art of living together
and living with tolerance. Let the child know their grandparents
and let them spend time with them. Always remember that your child
will become who they spend time with. So, watch their company and
above all give them YOUR company.
Refrain from Backbiting
Every parent must cultivate the habit of following the
conscience to children. Backbiting and mocking people should not be
encouraged at any cost. Gossiping also spoils other persons
reputation and credibality.Teach them that when the tongue is
slipped, we can never recover the words.
Value of Sharing
Take opportunities to teach your child how to be caring and
sharing towards others especially the under privileged, let them
develop empathy. Teach them to donate to orphanage and charity.
This will help them to understand how to cope up in this puzzling
unequal world.
Value of Money
This is one of the real life values to be taught to kids...when
a child sees under privileged child begging on the roads; he will
feel disturbed and ask questions to you. Teach the child about how
to be empathetic and being generous to poor and needy. Your little
act of kindness towards others will help your child learn from you.
Let the child know the art of buying and need to buy by setting
a
good example to them. Don’t spend lavishly to keep the child
happy or to stop the tears. Avoid extravagance and unnecessary
luxuries.
Encourage in Sports
Encourage children to play outdoors instead of playing inside
the house, Fresh air, swimming, running builds physical strength
and libido. Sports help children get exercise, make friends, be
keen, play fair and improve self esteem. The lesson learned during
children’s sports will shape value and behavior in the coming
years.
Moral values and good ethics are very important to be taught to
children in young age. With the advent of internet and TV, teaching
moral values and conveying moral stories have become deteriorating
in this fast pacing life. It is impossible to shield our children
from negative forces that can shape their minds, but the main
responsibility of parents and teachers is to mould the behavior of
young generations and enable them to survive in this wicked
world.
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Social Corner My Home My HeavenBy Hina Imtiaz Masters in
Linguistic and Literature Jeddah
Roles and responsibilities of a house wife have not changed over
past centuries. Sometimes, we go through some old traditions, not
realizing that in early ages these traditions were followed as
rituals.
I have read many articles and essays based on The Good House
Wife's Guide, detailing all the ways that a good wife should act,
and how best she can be a partner to her husband, and a good mother
to her children.
But, in my opinion, there are some rules that mothers and
housewives should follow and how we manage our time in doing house
chores, and how we become a good housewife, and a responsible
mother.
We have to refresh ourselves when the husband arrives. Take some
rest to look fresh, wear clean clothes, and touch up makeup, comb
hair and wear smile on your face.
Clear away all the clutter from the living room. Make one last
trip through the main part of the house just before your husband
arrives. Ask kids to pick up their school books, toys, and other
unnecessary items.
Ask kids to make themselves clean too because husbands always
love to see kids clean, after their long and hectic day.
Always welcome him with a warm smile, and listen to him. We may
have a dozen important things to share with him, but the moment of
his arrival is not the right time. Let him talk first. Maybe his
conversations are more important than ours.
Never greet him with complains and problems.
Do not complain him, if he comes late home.
Count this as minor, compared to what he might have gone through
that day
Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, and
his very real need to be at home and relax.
Most husbands are hungry, when they come home, and the prospect
of a good meal means a lot to him.
Have a delicious meal ready, this is a way of letting him know,
that we have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his
needs.
Our goal is the peace of our home, order and tranquility, where
a husband can rejuvenate himself in body and spirit.
A good housewife always knows her place, and with her endless
love, and wisdom, always plays an important role to make her home
"A Heaven”
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Social corner
Importance of
Higher Education for GirlsBy Javeria Asad Mechanical Engineer
Alkhobar
We have entered in 21st century but discussion on professional
education for girls is still debatable, especially in Asian
societies. We always take insurance policies of higher studies for
our sons but marriage policy only goes into the account of girls.
After the birth of a girl, we start collecting her dowry and save
money for her wedding expenditures, but we never focus to give her
professional education. These double standards and gender
discriminations are the basic flaws of our society. I have heard
from my childhood that mother is a first institution for her kids
but if we will not let our daughters to get a proper education,
then practical implementation of this expression would be
impossible. Educated mothers can give an appropriate brought up to
their kids.
During the four years of my engineering I used to hear
repeatedly that I have taken seat of one male student. Although, I
got this admission on merit through hard work and did job for three
years before my marriage but still I had to give explanations to
justify my qualification because now I am unable to peruse my
career on a professional level due to my responsibilities as a wife
and mother. At certain point, I admit that being a woman our
priorities are different from men, but somehow we cannot overlook
the importance and significance of any professional degree, even,
if it has been acquired by a girl. In thick and thin of her life
she can use this degree to support her family morally and
financially.
When I came to the Kingdom, I got the impression that ladies
cannot work here at professional level. This perception discouraged
many ladies not to peruse their career and some ladies took this as
an excuse and backed off but I did not. I explored the options to
work as freelancer with many engineering companies to manage my
home and career simultaneously. This step was not taken because of
any financial need, but the idea was to practice my experience and
knowledge. So, in the future I can resume my career as professional
from where I stopped to prove those people wrong, who assume that
professional degree is not for girls.
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Health and Beauty
A woman's face is her fortune, and so is any body's if you look
at life. A beautiful / handsome face has lotsof good opportunities
handed down to them all through life, be it jobs, spouses, and the
list goes on. Your face is the first thing people notice, so why
not take care of the beautiful gift God has given you. If your skin
is good, you are automatically in the 'beautiful' bracket. Even, if
you have acne skin, there are lots of things that you can do to
control the acne issue. You just have to make a daily skin care
routine. Your skin needs your time and care. We put a lot of
emphasis on make-up, and that's fine, but if your skin beneath the
make-up is good, you won't need much and you will look even better
with the make-up on. Apart from night creams, face washes and
serums that suit you, the most important thing you can do to look
your best is have a Facial. A good facial boosts your skin's
circulation, prevents blemishes, and gives you a dewy glow. Your
face looks as appealing without make-up as it would with good light
make-up! And that's how you know you got the right facial. Your
Facial expert should give you time and deal with your skin
politely. Hands should have a gliding motion on your face. You
should not take any type of medicines or be under any treatment so
that you don't react adversely to anything. A good specialized
Facial according to your skin, along with the right skin care
creams, good cleansing, a balanced diet, proper sleep and lots of
water are all that you need to look your best, because, you
definitely deserve it!
Now for some expert guidance; If you have oily skin, you will
need to go for ‘Oily Skin Facials’, mud masksare ideal for oily
skin type and a good toner does wonders. Use an ‘Astringent toner’
available at stores everywhere) daily on clean skin washed by a
good face wash, like ‘The Body Shop’s Tea Tree’ face wash. For
Combination skin, which is oily at the T-zone and dry to normal
elsewhere, you need to go for Combination skin Facials which have a
mix of both items, drying and moisturizing products. At home, you
may use a toner on your T-zone daily whilst avoiding the rest of
the areas. If your skin is dry, the treatment is completely
different, a mud mask will further dry out your skin, so it is
advised to go for gentle ‘Peel Off Masks’ . We also do not use
regular toners on dry skin and an astringent is completely out of
the question. Dry skin requires oil based moisturizers in their
Facials as well as in daily life. Virgin Olive oil, almond oil and
rose-hip oil should be applied on clean skin, Johnson’s Face washes
are quite gentle on dry skin types. If you have normal skin, you
are lucky as almost everything will suit you depending on the way
you take care of it. So, make sure you get a consultation for your
skin before your next Facial and practice the above in your daily
routines for a more beautiful and radiant you!
Healthy & Glowing Skin by Zehra Zahid Beauty Expert Glitter
Beauty Solutions, Al-Khobar
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Health and Beauty
Healthy Skin Tips • Drink 12 glasses of water
every day.
• Clean your skineveryday with any cleanser.
• Take four drops ofhoney, three drops of lemon and one pinch
ofTurmeric and make paste. Apply this paste twice a week.
• Use products containingvitamin E.
• Massage your face witholive oil.
Hair Tips • Wash your hairs twice a week.• Always oil your hairs
before
wash. Preferably almond oil.
• Don’t wash your hairs with very hot water to prevent
scalp.
• Don’t harshly rub your hairs todry them.
• Comb your hairs every day forproper blood circulation.
• Trim your hairs monthly.• For hair loss use castor oil.• Don’t
use conditioner daily.• Avoid direct sun rays.
Diet Tips • Drink one liter mint
water daily.
• Add one table spoonbutter daily in your diet.
• Take vitamins daily• Drink three glass of water
in empty stomach in the morning.
• Take one cup of yakhni(soup) daily.
• Take one boiled eggdaily.
• Don’t take green teaunder the age of 35.
DIET CHART
Reduce 3 kg in one week
(4 days chart) • Take fruits and
vegetables • 1 liter mint water. Only
soaked not boiled.
• Take two boiled eggswhen feel hungry.
• Eat chick peas withhumus.
• Don’t take rice wholeweek.
Reduce 5 kg in one week
(7 days chart) • Take fruits ,any except
mango
• Take vegetables, anyexcept potatoes.
• Fruit+Vegetable+Soup+1small bread(roti)
• 8 bananas with 4 glassesof water
• Chicken tikka+ v• Vegetables+Fruits• +boiled rice• Soup with
lentil and rice.• Fish+ Cabbage soup+
Vegetables+Fruits
GeneralHealthTips By Sadia Tajjamal Beauty Expert Sadia beauty
salon, Al-Khobar
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What is depression?? In simple words depression is a state of
mood swing or mood instability for atleast two weeks accompanied
with loss of interest in normal daily routines, low energy and
pains or heaviness in body parts due to unknown reasons. How does
depression start? Normally we don’t know or we don’t want to know
the reason of depression or how will it start or what are the
factors that will lead to depression. Depression is not only
chemical imbalance in brain that can be cured by medication; it is
a combination of psychological, biological and social effects.
Some psychologists have clearly stated it as disease that is
related with the malfunction of brain impulses in certain
situations. Every person suffering from severe or mild depression
is ill, because depression can lead to many physical symptoms like
nausea, chronic pains, vomiting, insomnia etc.
An author says in his book that depression has 227 different
sets of symptoms that are all correctly diagnosed as depression but
still this cannot be called as disease. If all the symptoms of
depression are controlled by medication and subsided even then the
depressive conditions of mood instability remains underlying.
How to cure depression? What should it be treated like? This
depends on the severity of physical symptoms and also the mood
changes or reflexes. The main course of action while treating
depression should be keeping symptoms in control like keeping the
patient hydrated and keeping a close eye on the reason of physical
change, for example, vomiting is due to some bad eating or without
anything. If no solid reason is present for physical change plus
there is an irregular mood change in any way either extra ordinary
happy or extra ordinary low that is lasting for more than a week it
is important to take some professional help from a psychologist. He
will determine whether there is a need of psychotherapy or
psychological therapy.
How to stay away from depression? We normally hear people saying
that depression cannot be controlled or it is a reflex of many
factors that contribute in our lives to get us to going on negative
path. One thing that I have learned and I always advise my clients
is to stop being dependent on others for your happiness or sadness
it is all inside you if you are doing right that is making you
satisfied without causing any harm to others than do it. But, if
something is making you extremely sad and others happy or if you
are doing something to only please others then don’t do it because
this unsatisfactory act will cause dissatisfaction and will make
you depress.
Stay satisfied in what you are doing; if you feel fluttering in
your stomach while doing something whether for yourself or for
someone else don’t do it. Fluttering is a way, your mind is telling
you to stop; else you will fall in depression.
Health and Beauty
DepressionDisease or Disorder
By Aisha Hashmi Masters in Islamic Studies/Phycology
Al-Khobar
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Green Chicken Karahi By Dr Sidra Jahanzaib
Bored of the same old chicken karahi? Then this recipe is for
you. Really delicious and super quick to make. So here goes,
Ingredients:
1 kg Chicken 1 bunch of Coriander leaves a handful of Mint
leaves 6-7 Green chilies (add more if you want a little more heat)
2-3 cloves of Garlic 1 tbsp of Coriander seeds 1 tbsp of Cumin
Seeds 1 tbsp of dried Kasuri Methi 1 tbsp of Ginger Garlic Paste
1-2 tsp of Black Pepper (freshly crushed if possible) 1 cup of
beaten Yogurt 1/4 tsp of Garam Masala Julienne Ginger for
garnish.
• Roast Cumin and Coriander seeds till they are fragrant. Crush
coarsely in a mortar and pestle or spice grinder. Keep aside.
• Blend together coriander leaves, mint, Green chilies and
garlic cloveswith a little bit of water to make a paste. Keep
aside.
• Heat oil in a wok and fry ginger garlic paste till fragrant
than addchicken, kasuri Methi and half of coriander cumin mix. Fry
on high heat till the chicken changes color.
• Then add the blended coriander mixture, salt, black pepper,
and theremaining ground cumin and zeera
Cook till the oil separates, about 10-15 minutes. • Add yogurt
and cook on high flame till desired consistency. I
kept the gravy to a minimal. • Sprinkle Garam masala, julienne
ginger and chopped
chilies. Cover for 5 minutes on low flame. Serve with naan.
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Brief us about your academic details. Did my schooling from Mama
Parsi School. Intermediate from St. Joseph and Bachelor in
Political Science from KU. What made you choose Saudi Arabia to
have a living and career in? I did not choose to live in KSA. My
husband was already working here. When I came in 1988, KSA was not
as developed as it is today, so there was not much to do at home or
elsewhere. Tell us about when you decide to be part of this school
group? In 1991, I started working as English teacher in Al-Hussan
Girls School, it’s a national school. Then when international
branch opened in 1998-1999, I was transferred as Supervisor. In
2008, transferred to OIS as Head of Student Affairs and now I am
School Head. How did you balance being a mother and a working
woman? To organize yourself as mother and working mom and of course
train your children as well. How important do you think husband
support is for women career development? It is very important to
have husband’s support. But at the same time the wife has to make
sure she is fulfilling the requirement of the husband, children and
the household. What have you sacrificed (both personally and
professionally) at each stage of your career? Nothing. Only
sacrificed the family life back home, lost my parents. What do you
experienced while transitioning from a teacher to school
principal?
I love being a teacher with close contact with my students.
Getting to the position I am now needs a lot of commitment. It’s a
wider canvas to fulfill all the needs of the students. I have
enjoyed being a teacher and also enjoying being a School Head. How
important you think career counseling is especially for women? And
at what level it should be started? It is very important from the
time the girls are in school. They should focus and choose
direction when they come in practical life. It’s too late not
knowing which country they will end up in or circumstances. What
has been your strategy to deal with diverse people on a routine
basis? As an educator, you don’t need strategy to deal with people.
Every action of your should reflect. I try to handle all situations
calmly but there are times I have to be firm in terms of making
people follow the regulation. To what do you attribute your
success? Ownership, honesty and dedication Who has been your
inspiration throughout your professional life so far? My father, my
mentor throughout my personal and professional life. A message from
you for women empowerment?
“To all the girls who are watching, never doubt that you are
valuable, powerful and deserving of every chance and opportunity in
the world to pursue and achieve your own dreams”. Hillary Clinton
in her 2016 concession speech.
Parents play a very important role in empowering the girls to
face the challenges of tomorrow. I am happy that my father gave me
the confidence and encouraged me to be what I am today and my
husband did the same for my 3 girls.
Woman with SparkMrs Kausar Owais Osman
Head of Orbit International School
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Once upon a time there were creatures named “MINIONS”. They
lived in an island. They were bored from their lives. Because they
had nothing to do interesting in the Island. So three of them
Kevin, Stewart and Bob decided to explore new things. They
travelled to the city near their island. Then they saw a poster of
a baking workshop. They got excited about this and stayed there at
night. The other morning they entered the workshop. And found some
hidden place so nobody can see them. They saw a person who was
teaching people how to bake a cake. Every day they learnt baking
from there hidden place and practiced at night. Then they had
learned everything about baking. After few days the instructor
whose name was DAVID decided to open his new bakery shop. He
finalized the date and made an announcement to all over the city.
Then there was a guy named Jack. He was a failed baker. He was
jealous of David because David was opening a new bakery and he was
very famous baking instructor. Before one day of the event Jack
ruined everything in the bakery and ran away. The Minions saw
everything from there hidden place. Then David came and got so
upset because all his baking stuff was ruined. He was so sad. He
was thinking how he will bake all the stuff again. Suddenly the
Minions came in front of him. David got too scared. Minions
explained everything about them to him and said that we will help
you in baking. David said you are only three, how can you help me.
Then minions called their fellows from their island. They worked
all night and baked all the stuff again. The next day, which was
the event day, everything was ready for the opening. So with the
help of Minions the opening went great. All guests were so happy,
they liked the taste of the cakes and David got lot of orders.
David was so happy and he gave permanent jobs to the minions and he
named his bakery as
“The Minions bakery”
All Minions were so happy now because their life was full of
excitement and thrill.
By Faiz Ali Hassan Grade 4 Orbit International
THE SPACEMAN and ALIENS
By Aleena Ibrahim Grade 3
Once upon a time, there lived a spaceman in his rocket. He was
flying to the moon, when he landed
and came out of rocket; a shock caught his eyes. Millions of
Aliens gathered around him, they helped him so much, but soon he
had to go. The Aliens did
not want him to go because they liked him a lot. So, when he sit
in the rocket and tried to start it, it did not start; so spaceman
decided to live with the Aliens and they lived happily together
ever after.
The Farmer By Areesha Amir
Grade 2, Al-Khobar
Once upon a time there was a farmer, his name was Ali. One night
what happened, a rabbit came and ate all the fruits and vegetables,
when he woke up and went to his farm. After seeing the farm, the
farmer was shocked and rabbit was still there, when he saw the
rabbit eating, he beat the rabbit. Later one day he was walking, a
dog came and bite him. He went to doctor and got a treatment.
The moral of the story is that if you hurt someone, so someone
will hurt you. Hence, don’t hurt anyone
The Famous Fighter By Muhammad Sahil Raza Grade 4, Alkhobar
Once upon a time there was a fighter, name Zaid. One day the
King asked the people that who would challenge Zaid, no one came.
After a long time, a poor man told that he will challenge Zaid. His
name was Adel. Then they went to stadium. King said to Adel that if
you win I will give you a lot of gold. Before the start of fight,
old man whispered into Zaid’s ear that I am weak and poor, if you
let me win, Allah swt will bless you. Zaid started crying, he said
to him, I will let you win. When the game started, Adel grabbed
Zaid and threw him in the ground. After losing this game, Zaid was
not famous anymore. Later that night an Angel came to his dream and
said that you will go to Jannah. Adel became rich man.
The moral of story is that when you are kind to anyone and even
lose something. Allah swt gives you reward for your kindness
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Spider-man's Web Swinging Kills! By Layes Imtiaz Grade 8,
Jeddah
Have you ever wanted to swing and fly through the air like
spider-man? Well, you wouldn’t want to do so. You would literally
blackout while you are swinging in the air. You would ask: Why
don’t spider’s blackout and fall on the ground? Spiders have a
special type of circulatory system called “Open Circulatory
System”. Spiders don’t have special veins or arteries. Their
circular system is open. Their hemolymph, the fancy word for bug
blood, flows wherever it wants to flow. A spider’s heart pumps
hemolymph as hard as it wants so it can reach all parts of their
body. If humans go on very high altitudes, the g-force pulls your
blood downwards, emptying the brain of blood. Thus, resulting in
total blackout of a human. But, if a spider goes on high altitudes,
its heart pumps hemolymph into the brain with ease because of its
small body. The brain receives approximately 23.3% of blood pumped
by the heart. With none of 23%, the brain will give away and you
will faint in mid-air, which will result in a lot of broken bones
or even death. With this information, we can conclude that
spider-man, while doing all those aerobatics, might have probably
died. The movies make no sense at all. Peter Parker, in the
original “Sam Raimi “movie, might have broken a few bones the first
time he started swinging through the streets of New York.
Inspirational Talks
Healthy Food By Faiz Ali Hassan
Grade 4 Orbit International, Al-Khobar
Healthy food is beneficial for human health. It gives us
calcium, protein,
minerals, and vitamins. Junk food is the opposite of healthy
food. It is bad for our
health. Examples for healthy food are fruits, vegetables, milk,
and more.
Examples for junk food are burger, ice cream, and soda. Junk
food also makes us sick. Healthy food gives us the nutrients we
need to maintain our health.
Healthy food gives us the energy that we use to do useful things
in our daily life,
such as playing sports, studies and exercise. It also increases
our intelligence. We should
not waste our energy in unnecessary activities, like watching
screens most of the
time. Because if we waste our energy in such useless activities,
then we may eat unhealthy and junk food or may take
energy drinks to get instant energy which can increase our
weight.
Now we will discuss about Junk food. It contains very high
quantity of calories
from sugar or fat with little fiber, protein, vitamins or
minerals. Junk food can make us fat and lazy. That’s why we should
eat
healthy food to be strong and active.
Why Parents Should not let Kids be Open on Screens Reason 1.
They might accept any ads on the Internet and computer can get
hacked. Reason 2. They might not know what to do with some of your
files and they may delete your files. Reason 3. They might throw
the screen on the floor and the screen will break. Reason 4. They
will use it too much and as a result they will not get enough
sleep. Reason 5. They will not want to stop and will say they are
bored; also they have nothing to do accept watching cartoons or
poems on screen.
By Silhaam Imtiaz Grade 4, Jeddah
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How to be a charming person BY:REEHAM SIDDIQUI
Grade 8, Alkhobar
Being a charming person it almost as easy as it sounds, all you
need is a little generosity, kindness in your heart. To be charming
follow these simple steps;
HAVING A CHARMING ATITTUDE: Being charming is a gorgeous art, to
be the painter all you need to do is follow these simple steps, 1-
Be Interested in the Person- by doing this the person will get the
idea of you looking forward to meet them or even be friends, which
charms the person. 2- Talk Talk Talk- choose to speak about topics
that interest each other, like each other. 3- No Awkwardness- you
want to be able to flow with your Conversations, and the wall of
awkwardness isn’t the best thing for that. 4-Do Not Show Off- this
gives a mean and selfish impression to the person, definitely a
total no-no.
BEING PHYSICALLY CHARMING: To be physically charming is to show
you actually care, it brings elegant in you and interest for you in
the other person 1- Eye Contact- looking at people directly in
their eyes projects interest, confidence and a special bond or hold
on them 2-Just Smile - smiling is an instant charmer it brings love
and affection to you from the person 3-Body Language- you need an
active appearance to be approachable, back straight, head high, and
sit in an attractive position. Being lazy and droopy will seem like
you’re not interested in the person. 4-Voice Control- a sweeter
less aggressive tone is ideal, you don’t want to scare or creep the
person off with a harsh tone. 5- Use Great Grammar- instead of
saying things like ''wad up'' saying something like ''hello'' is
more charming. Although overdoing it isn’t a great move either. 6-
Compliment- complimenting is a go-to beginner of a conversation, it
gives the greatest influence of you to the person, and they feel
fondly towards you instantly in this way. 7- Be A Great Listener-
listen to them, answer them. Listening shows them you actually
mutually interested. But throughout the process remember, you are
who you are, you be you, you do you, and if
anyone has an issue with that, they don’t deserve you.
Because after all the first step for being charming is to accept
yourself and love yourself.
Inspirational Talks
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Alishba Asif
Aleena Ibrahim
Grade 3
Save Earth Competition
Elite Kids Club launched one competition for Elite kids. The
purpose of this competition was to increase awareness about the
concept how to save natural resources through different practices
like Recycling and Planting etc. Our young artists highlighted
their suggestions superbly through their paintings.
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Title: Women around the messenger Hina Imtiaz ,Jeddah
Whenever I visit any bookshop, my most preferences are in the
racks of Islamic History. Few months back, while browsing the
racks, I found a book named, "Women around the Messenger",
beautifully written by "Muhammad Ali Qutb". This book is very
informative, and has written in detail, about the brave women, who
had to live around Prophet Muhammad during his lifetime, and after
his death, with all the major hardships and troubles, in the (ملسو
هيلع هللا ىلص)time of the early Islamic era, but never left their
Prophet (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) alone. These brave women played a big
role in Islamic history, and always been remember with a lot of
respect. This is the only book, I have read it many and many times,
each time with full energy. I have also shared the reading
experience of this book with my friends.. For me, this book is
highly recommended to must read it.. It is just absolutely wow,
with full of historic moments!!
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Title: Sisterhood of Traveling Sehrish Yasir ,Al-Khobar A young
adult fiction writer Ann Brashares born and raised in United States
has written various books both fiction and non-fiction. However,
she gained popularity with one of her fiction book entitled
“Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” written in 2001. The book,
“Sisterhood of Traveling Pants” is a romantic drama reflecting upon
ups and downs of teenage period. Overall, it is good book to read
as it has refreshing content which takes its reader into the
magical world of four friends who decide to spend their summers
separately for the every first time. This book has caught attention
of teenage girls as the characters of the book are also teenage
girls, while theme of the book revolves around a mysterious pair of
jeans. This story “Sisterhood of Traveling Pants” is based on
friendship of four girls namely, Tibby, Carmen, Bridget and Lena
who had been together since birth. All four girls were close
friends of each other and used to spend summer holidays together,
but it was the first time when they were spending their holidays
separately. Before leaving for the holiday, girls found a pair of
magical jeans that miraculously fit all over them, despite all of
them had different body type and physique. The pant does not only
fit them, but all made them look beautiful and confident; so they
decided to take turns to wear the magic pant believing that it will
bring good luck to them. All four girls had love for each other and
their bond was stronger. But they had different personalities and
perception towards life. The role of Carmen showed how one can act
in a childish way when he/she is hurt, shamed and betrayed by the
people around. She was an introspective of all who wanted to act as
a mature girl, but she could not do so at any stage in the story
due to her stubbornness. However, despite being childish and
arrogant most of the time with new family, she always value her
friendship. Tibby had a skeptical viewpoint towards life and she
had sarcastic and judgmental nature, but these characteristics did
not stop her from being loyal and devoted in friendship. By
spending holiday alone she learnt a lesson in life that opening up
with people can bring positivity and energy in life. Character of
Lena was quite, shy and conscious as she knew that people get
impressed with her looks at the first place. So, she preferred to
keep herself reserved with the new people around. She was only
opened with her sister and friends, for whom she proved loyalty and
passion. Bridget was a free-spirited and courteous of all, who has
been through hurtles in life mainly because her mother left her
alone. But, still she used to maintain an energetic and passionate
life style and loves hanging out with friends. The success of the
story is evident as it was the bestselling novel of the year 2001.
The story is adapted to the movie with the same title in 2005.
Also, readers have liked this book so much that four sequels of the
book have been published so far. “Sisterhood of a Traveling Pants”
is a successful story of four teenage friends. The story has caught
interest of teenagers as well as adult. The book got fame because
it was a story about life, relationship with friends and family.
The story taught its readers that even though friends and you will
experience different things, but with loyalty you can still
maintain the friendship and support each other.
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محبت
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محبت کیا ہے دل کا درد سےمعمورہوجانا متاعِ جان کسی کو سونپ
کرمجبور ہوجانا
اپنے -محبت ایک پاک اور خوبصورت جذبہ ہے. یہی وہ جذبہ ہے کہ جس کے
باعث اللہ رب العزت نے اس کائنات کی تخلیق فرمائ
ور یہی جذبہ ہے، اور اس حاسکی مثالیں ملتی ہیں ۔ والدین، اوالد،
زوجین غرض یہ کہ کارخانِہ حیات کا ماطراف کا جائزہ لیں تو جا بجا وہ
اللہ کی ہی ذات ہے جو اپنے بندے کو اس دنیا میں بھیجنے سے پہلے مثال
اللہ کی اپنے بندے سے محبت ہے۔ ترینکی اعلٰی
ہے اور اسکی پیدائش کے بعد اس کے لئے ہر تکلیف برداشت کرنے کا
حوصلہ ایک طرف اسکی ماں کے دل کو محبت سے سرشار کردیتا دوسری جانب وہ
باپ میں محبت کا ایسا جذبہ پیدا کردیتا ہے کہ وہ اپنی پوری زندگی محنت
کرتا ہے تاکہ اپنی اوالد کو تمام -ہے دیتا
اپنی تمام تر نافرمانیوں کے باوجود مغفرت پاتا ہے۔اسی محبِت
خداوندی کا نتیجہ ہے کہ انسان -ضروریاِت زندگی مہیا کر سکے ہے، جو
راتوں کو اپنی امت کے لیے روتے، مغفرت طلب کر تے تھے۔ روِز قیامت ملسو
هيلع هللا ىلص خداوندی کا ایک اور تحفہ بعثِت رسول محمد
اپنی امت کی فکر وہ واحد ہستی ہو نگے جنہیں ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص جب
نفسانفسی ہوگی سب کو اپنی اپنی پڑی ہو گی اس وقت ہمارے پیارے نبی
ہوگی.
اور اسالم پر جان دینے کی باتیں تو کرلیتے ہیں لیکن حقیقی معنوں
ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص افسوس اس بات کا ہے کہ ہم جوش میں اللہ، اس کے
حبیب -کے بتائے ہوئے طریقوں کے مطابق زندگی بسر کر کے حقیقی محبت کا
عملی نمونہ پیش نہیں کرتےملسو هيلع هللا ىلص میں اللہ اور اس کے
رسول
کی توفیق عطا فرمائے اللہ پاک ہم کہ اللہ ہمیں اپنے قول کے ساتھ
ساتھ فعل سے بھی سچا عاشق رب اور عاشق رسول بننے دعا ہے سب کو روِز
قیامت حضور صل الله عليه وسلم کی شفاعت نصیب فرمائے... آمین
(بی اے) الخوبربہ آصفروطا
اردو کے اوراق
مضامین
تو ہم خاموش اور تنہا ہوں ،اچھائی نہ ہو تو برائی کرتے ہیں ،ہم کچھ
نہ کچھ کرتے رہتے ہیں،ہم سب مصروف ہیں ہمارے پاس فرصت نہیں
رتے ہیں .محل تعمیر ک ےتصورات ک-بھی کچھ نہ کچھ کرتے رہتے ہیں کبھی
یادیں دہراتے ہیں کبھی مستقبل کے خواب دیکھتے ہیں
اری ہم ہم مصروف ہیں ہمارے لئے ،ہمیں اپنے لئے وقت میسر نہیں
آتا،مصروفیات کا یہ عالم ہے کہ کسی کے پاس کسی کے لیے وقت نہیں
بہت ہمارے پاس ،ہم ایک کام کرتے ہیں تو دوسرا بھول جاتے ہیں
-مصروفیت ہی ہماری خود فریبی اور خود فراموشی کا جواز مہیا کرتی
ہے
ارے ارادے طویل پروگرام ہیں بہت س ،بڑے بڑے منصوبے بنا کر بیٹھے
رہتے ہیں ،مقاصد ہیں جن کو ہمیں بہت کم وقت میں پورا کرنا ہوتا ہے
وچتے ہیں ہم سہم کیا کریں ،تصر ہے اور مصروفیات بے اندازہ زندگی مخ
-ہر شے کی فراوانی ہے بس وقت کی کمی ہے،بیشمار عزائم ہیں ہیں
ہر ہم لوگوں سے دوستی کرتے ہیں میل مالپ بڑھاتے ہیں -اس لیے ہم
سوچنے کے بجائے کام میں مصروف ہو جاتے ہیں ےتو شرمندگی ہوتی ہ
اس لیے ہم اپنے پاس نہیں ہوتے ،ہم خود بھی مایوس ہوجاتے ہیں،رکھتے
ہیں اور نتیجہ یہ ہے کہ ہم سب کو مایوس کرتے ہیں ایک سے رابطہ
دی جلدی لاب ہم مشین کا ایک پرزہ بن چکے ہیں بس فٹا فٹ ج،ہم نے
اپنے آپ کو بھال دیاہے ،کہ ہم اپنے آپ سے جھوٹ نہیں بول سکتے
یہ معلوم کرنےکا ہمارے پاس اب وقت نہیں. بس اتنا معلوم ہے کہ ہم
جلدی میں ہیں اور ہمیں جلد از جلد اپنی ,یاچل رہے ہیں کیوں اور ک
ھ کر اپنے ہم صبح اٹ -زندگی کے مقاصد اور منصوبوں کو اپنے ذہن کے
طہ شدہ وقت پر پورا کرنا ہےپس مصروفیت غالمی ہے اور فرصت آزادیِ
جانے والے آنے،کھانا پکانا شوہر کا ،بچوں کی دیکھ بھال ،ایک خاتون
خانہ ہونے کی وجہ سے گھریلو کاموں -کی طرف جاتے ہیں ںاپنے کامو
مہمانوں کی مہمان نوازی کا انتظام کرنا اور ان سب کاموں سے بچے
ہوئے وقت میں اپنے لیے کچھ وقت نکالنا بہت مشکل ہوتا ہے یا یوں
کہہ
ر بھی ہم اپنے لیے کچھ نہ کچھ وقت نکال لیتے ہیں لیکن وہ خطیر لمحے
کوالٹی ٹائم نہیں کہالئیں گے. لیجیے کے ناممکن ہوتا ہے لیکن پھ
-ایسے میں اگر کوئی سیر و تفریح یا کسی سے ملنے کا کوئی پروگرام بن
جائے تو یہ کسی نعمت سے کم نہیں
ہم آپکو مزید معلومات اور کچھ مفید مشقیں میں کارآمد بنانےاس نعمت
خداوندی کی شکر گزاری اور صحیح ڈھنگ سے گزارنے کے لیئے اور
والی ذندگی کو مزید بہتر اور خشگوار بنا سکیں گے. آنے والے شمارے
میں بتائیںگے جن سے آپ اپنی آنے
(کامرس انڈر گریجویٹ)، الخوبر سمیرا حامد فاروقی .جاری ہے
مصروفیت
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کام کرنے ہاںیمنسلک ہوں۔ سے کے شعبے یسال سے گائن ارہیگ ںیجاما
(اسطون) ہسپتال م ںیصوبے کے شہر الُخبر م یمشرق
۔کھاید ںیشکل م یاُن کو عمل ںیپڑھ ںیجو صرف کتابوں م ںیوہ بات یک
نیکا موقع مال ۔ د کھنےیسے مجھے بہت کچھ س
صحت اور خوراک یاپن یکو شروع سے ہ نی۔ خواتیاہوں گچذکر کرنا ہاںی
ںیم ںیسے چند بات ںیاورمشاہدات م اتیتجز یانہ اپنےکا یٰ مراحل سے
گزرنا ہوتا ہے۔ ماں بننا عورت پر اللّٰہ تعال سےیحمل اور والدت ج
ںیآگے چل کر انہ ونکہیرکھنا چاہئے ک الیکا خ
یتو اس ک ۓچاہئے۔ جب حمل ٹھہر جا یقدر کرن یبہت شکر گزار ہونا
چاہئے اور اُس ک ںیلئے ہم سکےسب سے بڑا انعام ہے۔ اِ ںو یسبز ںیخوراک
م ی۔ اپنںیہ کروائسے ڈاکٹر کے پاس جا کر اپنا معائن یگزارنا ہے۔
باقاعدگ سےیکہ اِسے ک ںیباقاعدہ پالننگ کر
بہت ںیاور انار مناسب مقدار م ریگزر جانےکے بعد کھجور ، انج نےیمہ
نیخاص طور پر ت ںیاستعمال کر ادہیاور پھلوں کا زکے یسے اپنے ہونے والے
بچے کے لئے حاضر دماغ یاور اللّٰہ تعال ںیہو تو آب زم زم کا استعمال
کر سری۔ اگر م ںیفائدہ مند ہ
یقبول ہوت ںیدعائ یکرتا اور حاملہ عورت ک ںینہدعا قبول یغافل دل ک
یاللّٰہ تعال ونکہیک ںیکر ںیساتھ اور سوچ سمجھ کر دعائ۔ںیہ
کھجور (جسے ہم یپک یاور آدھ یکچ یتو اپنے ساتھ آدھ ںیہ یکے لئے آت
یور یڈل ںیہے کہ جب عورت ایمشاہدہ ک یبھ ہی اکثرکا زوںیتو ان دونوں چ
ں،یاور جب درد شروع ہوتے ہ ںیہ ی) اور آب زم زم التںیرطب کہتے ہ ںیم
یاور عرب یکّھج ںیعام زبان م
یکے مطابق اِس دوران کچھ بھ کلیڈیم ونکہیک یتھ یکھانے سے منع کرت
ہی ںیاُنہ ںیتو م ںیم۔ شروع ںیہ یبکثرت استعمال کرتحضرت یجہاں اللّٰہ
تعال ایکا مطالعہ ک 26اور 25نمبر تیآ یک میمر ۃجب سور ….. ہونے کا
خدشہ ہوتا ہے, مگر یکھانے سے اُلٹ
اور یرب کا حکم ہے کہ حاملہ عورت دوران زچگ رےیم ہیہوا کہ ساستو اح
‘ویپ یرطب کھاؤ اور پان’کہ ایکو ارشاد فرما میمربلکہ مشورہ یکرت ںیاِن
کو منع نہ ںی, تو میہو گ یآسان ںیم یتو زچگ ئےی) پیب کھائے اور آب زم
زم (پانرط ںیحالت م یدرِد زہ ک
ںیہ یکثرِت دعا کا اہتمام کرت ںیحالِت درد م ںیکہ عرب عورت ایک
ہاںیاور مشاہدہ جو کی۔ اںیہوں کہ وہ اِن کا استعمال کر یتید ہی ونکہیک
ںیکر ںیخوب دعائ ےیامت مسلمہ کے ل یاپنے بچوں اور خاندان اور پور
ےیکرنے کے . اس وقت اپنے ل لہیباجاِء واوکرنے کا ہے ںیہے بلکہ دعائ
ںیضائع کرنے کا نہ ایکرنے لہیوقت واو .
ںیمسئلہ نہ یکوئ سایا ونکہیک ےیچاہئ یکوشش کرن یکے احکامات کے
مطابق گزارنے ک نیلمحہ د کیا کیکا ا یزندگ یاپن ںیہمعطا فرمائے۔ قیتوف
یہونے ک رایپر عمل پ نیہم سب کو د ینہ ہو۔ اللّٰہ تعال ںیم نیجسکا حل
اس د
نیثم آم نیآم
عثمان حہیڈاکٹر فر
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حاملہ ںیم یروشن یک اسالم مضامینکے لئے مناسب خوراک نیخوات
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افسانچہ لینا خان (ماسٹرز آرکیالوجی) ،الخوبر
اے اللہ مجھ کو بھی یہ “دوسروں کے ہاتھ میں اسے دیکھ کر میں بے چین
سی ہو جاتی تھی ،اللہ کے حضور گڑ گڑا کر دعا کرتی
مراد سننے واال ہے ،مجھ پر بھی کرم کردے۔ میرے شوہر آفیس چلے نعمت
عطا کردے ،تو سب پر فضل کرنے واال ہے سب کی
جاتے اور میں پھر اس کے خوابوں خیالوں میں کھو جاتی۔ عورتیں واقعی
کتنی حساس ہوتی ہیں۔ میرے ہاتھ کتنے سونے تھے ،اس
تھی ،سوچتی تھی جب میرے تو دوسروں کو دیکھ کر میں حسد کی آگ میں
جلنے لگی کے بنا میری ذات کتنی ادھوری تھی ،اب
پاس نہیں ہے تو ان کے پاس کیوں ؟ ہائے !کہاں جاؤں ؟کیا کروں؟ کس سے
فریاد کروں؟ کل تو حد ہو گئی جب میری کزن نے اتراتے
ہوئے خوش خبری سنائی۔ میں سوچنے لگی کچھ لوگ واقعی کتنے خوش نصیب
ہوتے ہیں بن مانگے سب مل جاتا ہے ور ایک میں
ل میں خواہش لیے بیٹھی ہوں التجا کر رہی ہوں مگر خواہش پورا ہونے
کا نام ہی نہیں لے رہی ۔ مرد تو ایسے پتھر کے ہوں کب سے د
:؛؛؛؛؛ہوتے ہیں
میرے شوہر کو میرا اترا ہوا چہرہ کیوں نظر نہیں آتا؟ وہ کیوں میری
تنہائی محسوس نہیں کرتے ؟سمجھ نہیں آتی تھی یہ بات کیا
-محروم رہوں گی؟ سوچ کر دل بیٹھ سا گیا اکیلے پن کے احساس اور
محرومی کے خوف سے میں کانپ سی گئِ میں ساری عمر
غرض پورے روتے روتے آسمان کی طرف دیکھا اور فریاد کی, اے اللہ اب
برداشت نہیں ہوتا میرے ہاتھوں کو, کانوں کو, آنکھوں کو
-وجود کو اس نعمت کی ضرورت ہے
......................................................... فریاد
سن لی اورمیرے رب نے میری
بطورتحفہ دیا 7دوسرے ہی دن میرے شوہر نے مجھکو آئ فون
-میری زندگی میں تو جیسے بہار آگئی میرے سونے ہاتھوں میں رونق آگئی
اور میرا پورا وجود خوشی سے سرشار ہوگیا
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ںیمنہ نہ کھلوائ رایم
میرا یہ بلکہاِس قلیل مّدت میں اِس بلیغ موضوع پر کچھ کہنا محال ہے
. میری اِس تحریر کا مقصد کسی انعام کا حصول نہیں ۔ناپوں راستہ اپنا
کر ڈال روشنی پہ حقائق کہ ہے فرض
مسئلے میں بولنے والی نہیں مگر کیونکہ میرا منہ اب کھل چکا ہے تو
دو دو باتیں بھی ہو ویسے تو میری عادت کسی کے
جائیں۔
گذشتہ دنوں ایک پارک میں جانے کا اتفاق ہوا . حسب معمول ہم چادر
بچھا کر بیٹھ گئے . بچے بھی کھیل کود میں مصروف ہو
دیکھ پسینہ بےتہاشا اور گھبراہٹ کی بال پر چہرے. گزریں سے تیزی
نہایت خاتون والی ہجم خاصے اچھے ایک اچانکگئے .
اور کالی آندھی کی مانند خواتینان کے بَعد ِتین کہ تھے رہے ہی کر
فکر و غور پر خاتون ان ہم ابھی۔ گئے ہو پریشان ہم کر
برق رفتاری سے بھاگتی دوڑتی گزریں . ویسے تو ہم کسی کے معاملے میں
بولتے نہیں مگر پِھر بھی ہم نے ان کے پیچھے قدم
بڑھا دیئے تاکہ معاملے کی گہرائی جان سکیں کیونکہ بظاہر پارک میں
کوئی پریشان كن بات نظر نہیں آرہی تھی۔
ی افسر جاگ چکا تھا . ان کا تَعاقب کرتے کرتے ہم ان کے قریب پہنچ
گئے . ان کی گفتگو سن کر دل كو ہمارے اندر کا تفتیش
اطمینان سا ہوا کہ وہ خواتین وزن کم کرنے کے لیے اتنی محنت کر رہی
تھیں . ہم كو سوچ کر اپنے آپ پر شرم آئی . سوچا لینہ
ہم بھی کسی فٹبال سے کم نہ تھے۔کچھ شرم ہوتی ہے ، کچھ حیا ہوتی ہے
کیوں کہ اب تو
پرانی تصاویر دیکھ کر میری بیٹی نے ایک بار پوچھا " ماما یہ کون
لڑکی ہے ؟ " اور اِس طرح لڑکی بننے کی آخری امید بھی
ختم ہو گئی . اپنی اوالد نے بھی پہچاننے سے انکار کر دیا گویا اب
شكل بھی جسم کے ساتھ ساتھ ابلے ہوئے انڈے جیسی ہو
گئی تھی . گھر کے کاموں اور بچوں کی مصروفیات کے بعد َوقت کہاں
جاتا تھا معلوم نہیں ۔
اپنے آپ پر توجہ دینا بھی کتنا ضروری ہے . کتنی عظیم عورتیں ہیں یہ
سب . ابھی ہم انہی سوچوں میں گم چلے جا رہے تھے
واتین کی طوفانی چہل قدمی ختم ہوئی تو ہم پر یہ اور ہماری سوچوں کا
مرکزی کردار وہی خواتین تھیں . جب ان عظیم خ
انکشاف ہوا کے وہ سب آپس میں سہیلیاں تھیں . وہ اپنی مقرر جگہ پر
بیٹھیں اور ایک خاتون نے نعرہ لگایا
" الحمداللہ پانچ سو کیلوریز آج جال ڈالیں " باقی نے بھی خوشی کا
اظہار کیا
ی کھانے کی ٹوکری کھولی تو بس اِس کے بَْعد کا منظر ہم آپ كو کیا
بتائیں . بس یوں تازہ دم ہونے کے لیے اپنے ساتھ الئی ہوئ
ہمارا منہ نا کھلوائیں . . . پیزا ، برگر ، بریانی اور چپس كو
دسترخوان کی زینت بنے دیکھ کر ہم سوچنے لگے کہسمجھلیں
ت کا پہاڑ بنتا رہے تو پانچ سو کیا ایک ہزار کیلوریز بھی یااللہ
اگر یہ ڈائٹ ہے تو مجھ كو ایسی توفیق نہیں چاہئے . بندہ گوش
کم ہیں لہذا کچھ دیر پہلے جس شرمندگی کے سمندر میں ہم غوطے کھا رہے
تھے اچانک اسی سمندر میں ہم مہارت کے ساتھ
ہم كو وزن کم کرنے کا اصل طریقہ سمجھ میں آ گیا تھا تَیراکی کرنے
لگے . کیوں کے .
ت کھلوائیں . . امید ہے آپ بھی سمجھ گئے ہونگے . . چلیں جہاں اتنی
باتیں کر لیں وہاں اِس پر بھی روشنی اب ہمارا منہ م
ڈال دوں
عادت تو نہیں ہے ویسے میری کچھ بولنے کی مگر وزن کنٹرول رکھنا
ہماری اچھی صحت کے لیے ضروری ہے . لیکن آج کل
گیا ہے . کچھ لوگ بھوکا رہ کر ڈائٹنگ کرتے ہیں اور ہڈیوں کا ہار بن
جاتے عقل كو کسی صندوق میں رکھ کر گویا دفن کر دیا
ہیں اور کچھ صرف چہل قدمی كو وزن کم کرنے کا صحیح ذریعہ سمجہتے ہیں
اور غذا ایسی لیتے ہیں جیسے زندگی کھانے
ت کا صحیح مزہ آپ صحت مند پینے کے لیے ہی ملی ہے . خدارا یہ زندگی
اللہ کی دی ہوئی خوبصورت نعمت ہے اور اِس نعم
رہ کر بہت اچھی طرح اٹھا سکتے ہیں . متوازن غذا اختیار کریں ،
مناسب چہل قدمی کریں ، خوش رہنا سیکھیں اور بال
کسی کے معاملے میں دخل نہ دیں ورنہ میری طرح کہہ رہے ہونگے ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
میرا منہ نہ کھلوائیں وجہ
خان (ماسٹرز آرکیالوجی) ،الخوبر لینا
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صنِف نازک
رکھنا نبھالس یتمنّاؤں کے سمندر سے کچھ موت
رکھنا ہن چھپاکر اپنے ںیدل م کو حسرتوں
مگر ںیم یچند بہت مصروف ہو سفِر زندگ ہر
نہ کرنا یکو خود سے جدا کبھ خود
شب ہے ہیصبح ہے، ہیہو تو سب ہے ، تم
رکھنا ےءچراغ جال ںیاپنے دل کے تہخانوں م تم
کنیل ںیہوں پاؤں م پڑی یہ یکتن ںیریزنج
آسماں پر اور ارادے بلند رکھنا نظر
کرکے اسے دکھانا توکچھ ٹھان لو جو
نازک ہو مگر ارادے چٹان رکھنا صنِف
مٹا دو خود کو ایآپ کو بھول جاؤ اپنے
کرنا نہخدارا بھول ہی یبھول کر بھ تم الخوبر-جویریہ اسد
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ہاللّ لہ۔۔۔۔۔۔ الحمد للّ ۓبال نہیمد
لہ۔۔۔۔ الحمد للّ ۓآ یل نہیمد ہاللّ مرنا ںیم نہی۔۔ مد نایج ںیم
نہیمد ایاب ہونا ک ںیہم اور
،ینشان یطرف صحابہ ک چاروں ،یفضا سہان یمبارک ک روضہ
مرنا ںیم ی۔۔۔ اسنایہے ج ںیم یاس ہم ںیہ یکے امت ینب ارےیپ
کو ہے شفاعت کا سہارا یامت لہکا ۔۔ الحمد للّ ایخاتم االنب ایبنا
یامت
لہ۔۔۔۔۔ الحمد للّ ایمغفرت کا ال موقع تمنا یہ ہیہے یک دہیسع ینب
دارِ یجزا ہو د روزِ دست مبارک سے ںیکوثر پئ آب ایبغ یبنے جنت
ایدن
جنُت الفردوس ملے ںیم آخر ( یالعمود بیمحمد باخط دہیسع )
لہالحمد للّ
غزلیابھ یہے دل لگ اںیکچھ تو ہمارے درم
یابھ یہے تشنگ ںینگاِہ ناز م یر یت
یاس سرد شہر ک ںیہ بیعج اںیخاموش
یابھ یوانگیہے د ںیاس ہوا م یلیبرف
مجھے یک ادی یہے تر یمل رہ سوغات
یابھ یبہت شاعر یہجر نے سکھائ اس
یرات تھ یگئ جو اماوس ک یہ تیب وہ
یابھ یچاروں طرف چاندن رےیہے م یلیپھ
وہ کون لوگ تھے جو کر گئے وفا جانے
یابھ ینہ ذرا دلبر یسے تو ہو سک تم
حنا سہے گا نجانے وہ کتنے غم یبھ اب
یابھ یبے گھر ہی یہے لکھ یاس ک ںیم قسمت
طارق نیحنا امبر ڈاکٹر
"آہٹ"ںیم رانےیدل کے و رےیم
ںینہ یہ یباق رانہیو اب
شور مچا ہے کہ سایا کچھ
ںینہ یکو وہ آہٹ بھ سننے
شےیسوکھے پتے ٹوٹے ش ہی
ایک یہ لیان سے م رایم
آتے جاتے روز و شب سے ان
ایک یہ لیاب کھ سوچوتو
آہٹ یس یانجان وہ
ںیراہ نہ قیرف یر یکہ م جو
یگئ ہیمجھ کو بتال کنیل
ںیاس سا اور وہ مجھ سا نہ ںیم
ایبات ہے ک یسناٹے ک اب !
شور مچا ںیجسم و جاں م ہے
ہوں ںیذات م یروشن اپن ںیم
ایاپنے من بہتا در ںیم
امر سدا ںیمہر نسب ،م ںیم
سرد ہوا۔ یالکھ چلے کوئ گو
طارق نیحنا امبرڈاکٹر
پیشے کے اعتبار سے ڈاکٹر ہیں مگر شعروشاعری اور طارق نیڈاکٹر حنا
امبرادبی سرگرمیوں میں خاص دلچسپی رکھتی ہیں۔ ان کی شاعری پاکستان کے
بہت سے
ریاض میں وہ بہت سی ادبی تنظیموں کی نامور اخبارات کی ذینت بنتی
رہتی ہے۔
مشاعروں میں سامعین ان کے کالم سے محظوظ اہم رکن ہیں اور اکثر ہونے
والے
ہوتے رہتے ہیں۔
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BAKING cake “o” clock Jasmila sherin
facebook.com/yummycakeoclock Bakeology by aisha Aisha Hashmi
facebook.com/bakeology
EVENT PLANNING Simply Fabulous Javeria Asad
facebook.com/simplyfabulousbyjav
SALONS/PARLOURS
Sadia’s Skin Care Sadia Tajammal (Khobar)
facebook.com/sadiasskincare
Glitter beauty solutions & bridal makeup
Zehra Zahid facebook.com/Zehra.Glitter
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Winner of Save Earth Competition
Anam Aamir
Our vision is to provide a platform where ladies entrepreneurs
can promote their selves professionally and market their brands on
big scale. Our club facilitates non-working ladies through
different informative seminars and workshops. We have arranged many
constructive and educational workshops for kids to help them in
their personality development.
