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CPE Manila Doctors Hospita Batch 9 Souvenir Program
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CLINICAL PASTORALEDUCTATION
MDHBATCH
9
Journeying with the SELFToward Ministry to OTHERS
July 27 to August 31, 2012
CLINICAL PASTORALEDUCTATION
CLINICAL PASTORALEDUCTATIONPASTORALPASTORALPASTORAL
MDHBATCH
9 July 27 to August 31, 2012
MDHBATCH
9 July 27 to August 31, 2012
Hospital DirectorMessage from the
Atty. Pilar Nenuca P. AlmiraHospital Director–MDH
It is heartwarming indeed that the Manila Doctors
Hospital has served as the formation and training
ground for future Church ministers through the
Clinical Pastoral Education Program (CPE).
Redounding to the benefit of our patients and their
families, we continue working hand in hand with
the pastoral team of the hospital. The CPE and its
students truly share in the holistic quality patient
care that the hospital continuously strives to provide.
It is fervent wish and prayer that as you are to
graduate from this program, you will forever cherish the experiences, learnings,
and insights from our patients. Each patient has a story to tell, and this unique
encounter with them enriched you all as a person and revitalized your spirit.
In serving the sick, you are serving God. In dealing with their pain and suffering,
you share in their graces. In lifting their spirits, you too become perfect in the eyes
of God. You became a part of their healing physically and spiritually.
It is my challenge to you to continue in this quest as to be of continuous and
untiring service to others, to give part of yourselves but to expect nothing grand
in return. May the suffering of the Lord Jesus Christ inspire you more to work
zealously without earthly rewards for the fruit of your labor has its heavenly gift.
May God shower you with more blessings as you go on your separate ways to find
fulfillment in this life and beyond.
FormatorsMessages from the
San Carlos Seminary
There is an old story about the rabbi who
asked his disciples how they knew that night had ended and
the day was on its way back.
“Could it be,” asked one, “when you can see an animal in the
distance and tell whether it is a sheep or a dog?”
“No,” the rabbi said.
“Well, then what is it?” the disciples pressed.
“It is when you look on the face of any woman or man and see that she or he is
your sister or brother. Because if you cannot do this, no matter what time it is, it
is still night.”
(Seeing God in Others, 1000 Stories You Can Use, Volume One by Francis
Mihalic, SVD)
The ten-week CPE program is coming to an end. The days you have spent at the
Manila Doctors Hospital brought you face to face with real people during their
moments of pain and discomfort, their anxieties and sufferings. The opening lines of
Gaudium et Spes aptly captured this experience: “The joy and the hope, the grief and
the anguish of the men of our time, especially of those who are poor or afflicted in
any way, are the joy and hope, the grief and the anguish of the followers of Christ as
well. Nothing that is genuinely human fails to find an echo in their hearts” (GS 1). And
so you were moved, and you responded in the best way you can. Perhaps not always
to offer relief from their pains or answers to their questions; oftentimes, it was your
reassuring presence that helped them realize that they were not alone and that others
cared for them. In a very special way, you reminded them of God’s loving concern and
power over their predicament, rekindling hope in their hearts.
FormatorsMessages from the
Fr. Joey Martin
“For by His incarnation, Jesus the Son of God has in a certain way united Himself with
each man. He worked with human hands, He thought with human mind. He acted
with human will, and with human heart He loved. Born of the Virgin Mary, he has
truly made one of us, like us in all things but sin. By suffering for us, He not only gave
us an example so that we might follow in His footsteps, but also opened up a way. If
we follow this path, life and death are made holy and acquire new meaning” (GS 22).
The CPE experience likewise opened for you a chance to rediscover yourself. New
skills and talents were developed, complementing what you already had. Better
ways of understanding people and looking at things were achieved. At the same
time, this journey led you to face your very own experiences, struggles, and
weaknesses. You dared to confront them, with the encouragement and guidance
of your supervisors and batchmates. Now you are able to embrace your experiences
and learn to accept and love yourself.
You heeded the invitation of Jesus: to care for the afflicted and the sick. But in so
doing, you also received from Him healing and integration of you own self. This
grace-filled journey allows you now to respond with greater fervor and commitment
to continue ministering to others through selfless service. “A fully human person is
one who gives oneself in love and is ready to bear the many crosses that self-giving
entails. To be genuine, however, in self-giving, requires a foothold in self-knowledge,
self-appreciation, self-acceptance, or in other words, in self-love” (The Updated
Program of Priestly Formation, 30–31).
On behalf of the San Carlos Seminary community, we congratulate all of you. A new
day is breaking. We see in you the reflection of Jesus, reaching out and ministering
to others. And it is also our prayer that you may continue seeing the face of a
brother and sister in every person you will encounter as you generously heed His
command: “Love one another as I have loved you. There is no greater love than this:
to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13).
Congratulations to all the CPE
participants. May you gain more self-knowledge
and integral formation you have received in the
past two months, and we put all our hope that you
have wholeheartedly served to the best of God to
others and yourself. Bring the Gospel of Jesus and
his attitudes to build the kingdom of God in your
vocation of service in your different ministries.
Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Sr. Alejandra Muñoz, ss.cc
Society of St. Paul
Fr. Alan Gamutan, SSP
My heartfelt commendations to all
of you for finishing an important chapter in your formation.
I believe that your ten-week CPE program has been fruitful
and meaningful not only for the patients you ministered
to but to your own persons. Indeed, self-awareness and
integration is an essential part of your Christian identity and
mission. It is my hope that you have found the face of God in
everyone you have encountered during your hospital duties,
and that beyond this program, you will all bring with you the
insights, realizations, and resolutions you have made through
CPE and faithfully bring them into fruition in your lives.
MDH Pastoral OfficeMessage from the
Sr. Ludivina Cercado, SOM
Dear graduates,Congratulations on your successful
completion of the Clinical Pastoral
Education (CPE) Program here at the
Manila Doctors Hospital.
I would like to say “Thank You” for
the tremendous help you have lent to
our pastoral health care ministry on
this hospital. Christ is indeed present
in each one of us. Your visit to every
patient brings comfort and consolation,
for they come to realize that they are
not alone in their sufferings. May your
experiences during this program be
of great help in your journey and in
other ministries that you are about to
face in the future. As often times said,
graduation is not an end but it is just a
beginning of a new stage to a deeper
commitment and direction to life. To
all of you, continue your journey and
may God bless you always.
Mes
sage
fro
m t
he
and here we are, ready to venture on another
journey, each in our own way.
Ten weeks of CPE may be too long for some, too short
for others, and just enough for others. Whichever
perception of length, one thing is sure: each one has
had an unforgettable experience and has grown in
each’s own way, pace, and time. I hope and pray that
you will translate into action all the learnings and
insights you have gained during the CPE quarter.
Congratulations and God bless as you move on!
supe
rvis
or
Sr. Remedios Nobleza, RSM
Ten weeks have gone by so fast,
CPETHE GRADUATES
Nine individuals. Three communities. One Goal.
Adrian S. Bacani
The CPE program is one of the best things I ever experienced
in my life. I learned a lot from it
especially when it comes to self-
awareness, my relationship with my
peers, and my concern for the sick. To
summarize all the things I experienced
from the past ten weeks, for me CPE
stands for compassion, patience, and
encouragement. Compassion has
made me develop my pastoral skill
and sincerity in spending time and
connecting with the patient. CPE is not
just about visiting the patient; rather,
it is about understanding them, their
pain and suffering by putting myself in
their condition and being with them.
Patience is about my experiences
every time I go to MDH and go back
to the seminary. Jam-packed LRTs and
MRTs really tested my patience, and
I am thankful for it. Encouragement
is about encouraging myself and my
peers that there is always a big room
for improvement and there are ways
of handling properly our issues and
concerns in life. In the end, I am really
thankful that I have undergone the
CPE program. It has made remarkable
changes, both in my personality and
my relationship with other people.
“Ian,” Archdiocese of ManilaBorn February 1, 1982; from Pandacan, Manila.
Ace Fernando Y. Cara
After undergoing CPE, I can say that I know myself better. The
ten-week program has enabled me to journey within, bringing me to areas I have
never been before and making me understand myself beneath my skin. As a
result, I have learned to appreciate myself, my strengths and weaknesses, and the
dynamics of my personality. Now I can say with a joyful heart that “I love myself.”
CPE also thought me to share this love for myself to others. I journeyed within
with others. Through CPE I made new friends and learned many things from
other people. Loving oneself means experiencing the very love of God. CPE has
encouraged me to share this love to others through patient visitation and active
participation in group discussions. Many people are in need of love. Undergoing
CPE meant making myself available for others and making them feel that
someone loves and cares for them.
CPE has brought me in contact with my own blessedness. It made me understand
that God loves me. I am very thankful I have undergone CPE. I love the experience.
It is indeed worth remembering.
“Ace,” Diocese of San Jose, Nueva EcijaBorn December 10, 1985;from Sto. Domingo, N. Ecija
Albert O. Garong“Albert,” Society of St. Paul
I believe it is no coincidence that
around the time our batch undertook
the CPE program, the Olympics was
taking place in London. Every four years,
athletes meet in this revered event,
aiming to break records and breed
legends of human achievement, inspired
as they are by the Olympic motto “Faster,
higher, stronger!”
Meanwhile, in the halls of Manila Doctors
Hospital, I am engaged in my own
“epic” undertaking. Though without
the adulations of fans or the press, the
experience of CPE does not feel all that
different. Like the athletes, I strive to
overcome my greatest opponents—my
own inhibitions—exploring deep inside
me and further knowing and accepting
not only my own weaknesses but, more
importantly, my innate blessedness.
With my teammates, my batch mates
in the program, I experience going on
this journey with others, learning and
supporting each other along the way.
And with my trainer, Sr. Remy, and God,
my faithful sponsor, ever-loving coach,
and number-one fan, I venture onward
this journey assured that, whatever
happens, I can come out a winner.
And win I did. Self-acceptance, new
friends, renewed appreciation of God
and others—all these tell me that the CPE
was one worthwhile experience. Thus,
I walk away from this program with
greater maturity and a smile—ever more
eager to engage this game called life.
Born March 5, 1986; from Las Pinas, M.M.
Paul Enrique H. Gungon IV
Before the start of CPE,
I was asking myself how this program will
benefit me as future priest, questions such
as “Why do I have to undergo this program?
Why do I have to visit the patients? Why
do I have to be in the hospital?” After
two months of being in this program I
think the answer to my questions is also a
question: “Why not? Why not undergo this
program? Why not visit the patients?” I’m
really thankful that I was able to discover
new things about me. I really learned a
lot after attending this program. I became
more confident in dealing with people.
I became more compassionate to others
especially with the sick. I never thought that
I will be able to like ministering to the sick.
Ministering to them is not easy, but if you will
listen to the patients’ pains and sufferings,
you would understand how important this
ministry is. People really longed to talk and
be able to share their feelings to us. But it is
not only they who benefit during our visits;
we too learned from their experiences, much
more from their faith. Being a seminarian,
“Paul,” Archdiocese of ManilaBorn September 20, 1987; from Quezon City
Natalia Setya Rahayu
much is expected from us, especially
with our prayer life. It was indeed a
challenge for me, to meet patients who
are more prayerful than me and more
faithful than I am. I cannot guarantee
everybody that after two months in this
program I will become a new person. I
believe CPE will not change me, but it
will make me become aware of my own
issues as a person and it will challenge
me to become a better individual.
I also take this opportunity to thank
the people who made me aware of my
issues and helped me understanding
myself more. To Sr. Remy, thank you
for everything you have done to me.
Thank you CPE classmates for all the
advice and corrections we have done
in our verbatim. I will not forget that.
To SOM sisters, thank you for taking
care of us, especially for the snacks you
always provide. I will pray for all of you.
“Lia,” Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary
I sum up my CPE experience this way:
C = Centering our self,
P = Putting our self into the image and sentiments of Christ, and
E= Embracing our own woundedness, weaknesses and strengths.
Born December 22, 1980; from Cilacap, Indonesia
Paula Dwi Handayani“Paula” Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Born February 3, 1970; from Bandung, Indonesia
I thought this was just
another one of those requirements’
I had to take, but found out that it
was one of the most stimulating,
challenging, educational and personal
growth experiences I had ever
encountered.” What I encountered
was a life-changing experience that led
me to a whole new understanding of
God and my relationship with God. I
discovered a God of surprises who drew
me into a sacred moment and invites
me to continue seeing His presence in
every person I meet.
I was challenged continually as a
chaplain intern to step into the already
well developed role for chaplains
at Manila Doctor Hospital. The
challenging environment brought
opportunity for growth, and
development. This was one of the
most profound learning experiences
I have ever had the opportunity to
participate in. I learned so much about
grace, mercy and compassion during
my time together with (the supervisor),
the group and the patients.
Eric Mark S. Salamat
CPE is just a quarter-long process,
but I must admit that it is one of the
most challenging parts of my seminary
formation. It may not be a non-academic,
but it requires dedication and focus in
making accurate verbatims and reports
and the readiness to answer questions
during processing. As “Dora” explores
the world and discovers many things, I
also experienced exploring the feelings
of the patients about their illness and in
return discovered some of the hidden
parts of my being. Recognizing these
things through the help of my supervisor
and CPE classmates made me realize
and appreciate my strengths which I
did not recognize before and accept my
weaknesses as a person which would serve
as challenges for me to strive in improving
myself especially in the ministry.
I believe that CPE’s one main goal is
to prepare a person for ministry. It is
to discover and develop the capability
of relating and ministering to others.
Ministry requires one special thing—
maturity. As our supervisor defines
it, “Maturity is responding to a thing
appropriately.” The challenge remains
for me—to continuously aim toward
maturity in performing my ministry.
May all the learning experiences I got
during CPE serve as tools for my growth
as religious. My gratitude goes to my
supervisor, CPE classmates, hospital
staff, and of course the patients whom
I encountered and ministered. You all
became part of my journey, and you will
all be cherished forever.
“Mark,” Society of St. PaulBorn April 6, 1986; from Nagcarlan, Laguna.
Servasa Mardiani
Love requires knowledge, and
knowledge requires understanding. The
CPE program helped me to understand,
know, and love myself better; and it
helped me to love others, especially the
patients in MDH, better. My experience
of visiting the patients helped me to
see my own self and reaction toward
patients who were facing fear, pain,
helplessness, or loneliness. I was there
as a simple instrument of God to listen
to them and assure them of my prayers.
There were patients who were really
longing for somebody to listen to and
pray for them. It was a privilege to listen
“Ani,” Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary
to them and help them to share their
feelings and pain about their sickness.
It made me aware of the importance
of the ministry of listening. In
contrast, there were patients who
did not want to be visited or respond
to my greetings. At first I felt very
bad about it, but slowly I learned to
deal with it and respect their space.
These moments of satisfaction and
frustration in my visit gave me a
better picture of who I am. Moreover,
by making effort in ministering better
to patients, I develop how to listen
compassionately. I learned to listen
Born May 10, 1978, at P. Siantar, Indosia
Dennis M. Venturina
beyond spoken words, to the message of their body
language and meaning behind their sharing. It is not
easy to listen to other people, but my openness and
care could somehow ease their burden. I treasure my
CPE experiences, and I would like to end my short
reflection with this: when I am capable of loving
myself, I can love others better.
“Dennis,” Diocese of San Jose, Nueva Ecija
CPE starts with the self and ends with the well-processed
and aware self!
It is not in the CPE room,
not in the patient’s room,
and not in the patient itself,
but it is within You!
Born January 27, 1984; from Carranglan, N. Ecija
SEENHEARD
&Featuring the most memorable quotes and snapshots from the ninth batch of CPE graduates in MaDocs, meaningful glimpses from a quarter of togetherness, discovery, and ministry.
There’s a BIG room for aBIG IMPROVEMENT“ ”-Dennis
GROUP SESSIONS are the heart and soul of the CPE program. From verbatim presentations to evaluations and case studies, these served instrumental to our growth as persons and ministers. Be it listening to another’s struggles, sharing your own fears, or challenging a classmate’s ideas or methods, it is in these “intimate” gatherings were we help each one to grow.
”is the ability to respond to thingsMATURITY“
-Sr. Remyappropriately
BREAK then visit!“ ”- chaplain on duty
THE BREAK had its
own growth process in our
brief quarter together. From
short intermissions where
each subgroup would eat
separately, it evolved into
long banquets brimming
with food and laughter.
And what started all this?
The simple chili paste: that
insanely addictive spicy
condiment made by the
Indonesian sisters. That, and
the occasional pizza from Sr.
Remy, has helped our group
of hearty eaters to deepen
our bonds and nourish our
friendship..
VISITING OUR MINIPARISH is the primary ministry of the CPE
student. As chaplains, we make daily rounds to “explore and listen to the patient’s
feelings about his or her sickness.” And listen we did: to the unusually upbeat
cancer patient, the inconsolable parent, the anxious breadwinner-turned-paralytic,
even those who plain rejected us. And as we helped them, they in turn helped us,
broadening our horizons, lengthening our patience, and reinvigorating our faith.
”try to explore more
your patient.
Be like DORA:“-A common “advice” in our group
“
OUR MIDPOINT OUTING was definitely a cause for excitement. To
be away from the hospital, relax by the pool, laughing, and eat on and off the road,
it was the much-needed break we all hungered for. But as fate would have it, we
found ourselves, of all places, in the hospital, caring for the sick, although this time
it was our beloved supervisor. Still, the group remained undaunted as we tried to
make even that ordeal as fun as we could. In the end, we we can only smile as we
recall our little (mis)adventure.
Let’s make FUN“ ”- Paul’s midpoint battlecryout of this!
Bahay kubo kahit munti . . . singkamas at talong,
“
BREAKING BARRIERSis just par for the course in
the CPE. Exploring oneself and
others essentially demands
that we go beyond whatever
blocks our road to growth and
maturity. But this was especially
true for our dear Indonesian
SS.CC sisters. Apart from the
usual hindrances, the sisters
had to deal with cultural and
linguistic barriers in their daily
routine. As expected, it was a
continuous struggle that was
not without its missteps—and
bloopers. We remember some
of them here—not to humiliate
but to honor Ani, Lia, and Paula
for delighting our hearts with
their perseverance, humility, and,
ultimately, their success.
”She was diagnosed with diabetes with“
-Sr. PaulaHEART DELIGHT
”He will have excision of“-Sr. Ani, referring to “gouts”
multiple GOATS
”The patient lives in “-Sr. Paula, referring to “Muntinlupa”
MOUNTAIN LUPA
”He has many“
-Sr. Lia, referring to “moles”MOLDS in his face.
When I ”“-Sr. Ani’s own version of the word “ask”
AXEDthe patient . . .
Bahay kubo kahit munti . . . singkamas at talong,
SIGARILYOat mani . . .
“”-Sr. Lia, revisign our folk song
“
GRADUATIONCPE BATCH 9
PROGRAM OF EVENTS:Date: August 31, 2012
Time: 9:30 a.m.Venue: MDH Chapel
Celebrant: Fr. Joey MartinFirst Reading: Ace Cara
Psalmist: Natalia Setya RahayuServer: Ian Bacani
Graduation Rite: Sr. RemySharers: Paul Gungon and Servasa Mardiani
Thanksgiving message: Albert Garong