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<p>PowerPoint Presentation</p> <p>Communicating &amp; Dealing with Challenges</p> <p>DIGITAL PARENTINGSekolah Cikal believes technology is an essential tool for learning environment and should be used responsibly and respectfully. Students must realize that the access to the internet in the school is a privilege and therefore students abide by the regulations set forth by the school pertaining to technology use policy.</p> <p>WHY GIVE ACCESS TO</p> <p>TECHNOLOGY?YOU HAVE TO INTRODUCE TO THEM TO TECHNOLOGY AS EARLY AND OFTEN AS POSSIBLENormal, cheaper, and availableSecure feelingSocial pressure suffer academicallyLearning tools3How They ChangedEarly Adolescence (9 13 years old)Personal disorganizationMore negative attitude toward authorityMore testing on family limit</p> <p>Challenge for parentsKeeping positive attitude during a more off-putting time</p> <p>Common problem Set back on academic achievementMid Adolescence (13-15 years old)My friends are my everything. We = MeI want to be free to explore new and try out different thingsChallenge for parentsTo provide loyal opposition to your childs push for more social freedom when it appears unwise or unsafe, without resorting to coercion or censure to settle disagreementsCommon problemCheatingHow they hide what theyre doing from youI type an IM/chat and then I quickly minimize it. Then I pull up my homework really fast.</p> <p>I have four different email accounts.</p> <p>I have more than one Facebook account.</p> <p>I wait until my parents are asleepTruths about how PEOPLE interact onlineThey do things online they wouldnt do in real life.Fight online without getting immediate feedback that might challenge.Quicker and easier to disseminate, but harder to get rid of.Post personal information online.Addicted to being connected.7It is privilege, not a right Laying down the lawA special advantage or benefit not enjoyed by allA right reserved exclusively by a particular person or groupYou have a responsibility to use it ethically. Never use it to humiliate, embarrass, send personal information, misrepresent yourself or someone else, misuse passwords, share embarrassing information or picture of other people, etc.</p> <p>If I see that you are violating the terms of our agreement, I will take all your technology away until you can earn my trust back.Set the limit -- Its okay to be disconnected. Its a tool to strengthen communication.Safety, security, and integrity.Parents have the right to check.There is what you call technology manners.*Engage and be role modelWhat if your child make a mistake?Everyone makes mistakes. Its how you conduct yourself after messing up that shows what kind of person you are.11Problems that might happenDISCUSS WITH A PARENT BESIDE YOU FOR 5 MINUTESWhat if your child sends personal information about herself/family?What if your child forwarding bad information about others?What if your child embarrasses herself?1. ComfortingSit with your child.Reminding him/her about how horrible the situation, will not help.Do an activity that is not related, will clear everyones mind.</p> <p>2. AcknowledgingDiscuss on how your child is part of the problem.Discuss on possibilities of consequences: to self, others, and family.</p> <p>3. Deciding on responsible actionWrite down scenario and timeline.Practice makes perfect.Be there all the way.</p> <p>4. Reminding about the agreementAgree on the consequences.Committed to it.</p> <p>How the school supportsLaptop self-inspectionOur last laptop and online behavior self-inspection was conducted on February-March, 2014. We covered some useful do and don'ts including checking power cords, backup files, download History, software (educational use and illegal use) and folder Management. Essential AgreementHaving discussion with the students to ensure that they learn the best way to manage and reflect on their behavior when working with their laptop and their online behavior(refer to the Technology Use Policy)</p> <p>Contract Sample </p> <p>Class Essential AgreementResponsible Use of Technology</p> <p>Laptop can only be used research related to the subject onlyConsider age appropriateness factor when opening reliable websitesMaking sure the laptop is in good condition and saved in secure placeUse appropriate language in online communicationConsequences First warning (having discussion with homeroom teacher/subject teacher and reflection)Decrease bandwidth for a day Confiscate the laptop and is only allowed to use school computer under supervision* Major inappropriate behavior will lead to suspensionEarning trust and building skills,are far more important then simply using parental monitoring software.Parenting will always give you a chance for a redo</p>


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