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Inside this issue... Monthly Announcements 2 From the Rabbi’s Desk 3 Adult Education 3 The President’s Column 4 Sisterhood 5 Shabbat Happenings 5 Stacks 5 Gift Card Order Form 7 Donations 8-9 Caring 9 Sponsors 10 Calendar 11 November 2013 Cheshvan 5774 - Kislev 5774 Beth Hillel Chai-Lites A Conservative Synagogue for the Greater Hartford Area Visit us online at www.BethHillelSynagogue.org Upcoming Events November 2 First Shabbat 8-9 Library Shabbat 11 Rabbi Lunch and Learn 13 Sisterhood Accessorize 14 Schmooze 15 Home Service 18 Rabbi Lunch and Learn 18 Adult Ed Class 22 Outreach Service 24 Interfaith Thanksgiving Service 25 Rabbi Lunch and Learn 25 Adult Ed Class December 2-4 Hanukkiah Lighting 12 Schmooze 13 Congregational Shabbat dinner 24 Barbara Leslie Mem Game night Beth Hillel Synagogue Presents Adult Education & Library Shabbat November 8-9, 2013 Professor Sidra DeKoven Ezrahi Professor of Comparative Literature at Hebrew University Topic for Friday, November 8, 2013: A Century of Women: One Woman's Journey Topic for Saturday, November 9, 2013 " The Urban Congregation in Mid-Twentieth Century Amer- ican Jewish Fiction: Grace Paley & Philip Roth" Kiddush Following Service Luncheon Fee $8.00 Per Person RSVP with payment to the synagogue office 160 Wintonbury Avenue Bloomfield, CT 06002 (860) 242-5561 [email protected]

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Inside this issue... Monthly Announcements 2

From the Rabbi’s Desk 3

Adult Education 3

The President’s Column 4

Sisterhood 5

Shabbat Happenings 5

Stacks 5

Gift Card Order Form 7

Donations 8-9

Caring 9

Sponsors 10

Calendar 11

November 2013 Cheshvan 5774 - Kislev 5774

Beth Hillel Chai-Lites A Conservative Synagogue for the Greater Hartford Area

Visit us online at www.BethHillelSynagogue.org

Upcoming Events November

2 First Shabbat

8-9 Library Shabbat

11 Rabbi Lunch and Learn

13 Sisterhood Accessorize

14 Schmooze

15 Home Service

18 Rabbi Lunch and Learn

18 Adult Ed Class

22 Outreach Service

24 Interfaith Thanksgiving Service

25 Rabbi Lunch and Learn

25 Adult Ed Class

December

2-4 Hanukkiah Lighting

12 Schmooze

13 Congregational Shabbat dinner

24 Barbara Leslie Mem Game night

Beth Hillel Synagogue Presents

Adult Education & Library Shabbat November 8-9, 2013

Professor Sidra DeKoven Ezrahi

Professor of Comparative Literature at Hebrew University

Topic for Friday, November 8, 2013:

A Century of Women: One Woman's Journey

Topic for Saturday, November 9, 2013

"The Urban Congregation in Mid-Twentieth Century Amer-

ican Jewish Fiction: Grace Paley & Philip Roth"

Kiddush Following Service

Luncheon Fee $8.00 Per Person

RSVP with payment to the synagogue office

160 Wintonbury Avenue

Bloomfield, CT 06002

(860) 242-5561

[email protected]

Page 2 Beth Hillel Chai-Lites

Announcements Milestones

Barbara Reisner on the Bar Mitzvah of her

grandson Jared Reisner.

Philip Small on the engagement of his

daughter Rebecca Small to Seth Fink.

Jackie Isaacson and Lou Blumenfeld on

the engagement of their daughter/step-

daughter Rebecca Small to Seth Fink

Myrna Kahan on the Bar Mitzvah of her

grandson, Andrew Asnes.

Lynn Kaplan on the engagement of her

son Brett Gottheimer to Elizabeth

Jaworski.

Jack Rodin on the marriage of his son

David Rodin to Jay Cardenas.

Refuah Shelema

Joel Caplin

Bernice Carr

Mike Cohen

Barry Dubofsky

Ellie Feldman

Art Gandelman

Marc Glass

Myron Halpin

David Nemirow

Heidi York

Beth Hillel is an egalitarian

Conservative synagogue

rooted in the ancient

traditions of the Torah while

growing to meet the changes

and challenges of our world.

Its core are the many people

of different ages and

backgrounds who have

chosen to make it their

spiritual home, joining

together for prayer, learning,

and celebration. The many

branches of Beth Hillel’s

community provide support to

its congregants, reaching out

to each other and welcoming

our neighbors as together we

learn from the past and teach

for the future.

Mission Statement BETH HILLEL SYNAGOGUE 160 Wintonbury Avenue

Bloomfield Ct 06002

Rabbi: Gary L. Atkins

Rabbi Emeritus: Philip Lazowski

Staff:

Office Manager: Lynn Kaplan

Bookkeeper: Madalyn Levy Rabbi’s Secretary Bonnie Eisenberg-

Greene

Bulletin Editor Elizabeth Hoffman

Officers:

President …….. Jackie Isaacson Vice President ……. Lori Glass

Myron Cohen

Alan Goodman

Treasurer ……. Norm Famely

Asst. Treasurer Lou Blumenfeld

Financial Secretary ….. Richard Gutcheon Recording Secretary … Shirley Morrison

Main Office: (860) 242-5561 Fax: (860) 242-5683

Website: www.bethhillelsynagogue.org

E-mail [email protected]

OFFICE HOURS (except for Jewish holidays)

Mon, Tues, Thurs 9:30 am—2:30 pm Fri 9:30 am—1:30 pm

Closed Wednesday

Beth Hillel Synagogue is a member of

United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism

Break the Fast Sponsors

Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins Paula and David Baram Phyllis & Robert Berman

Fern & Joel Cohen Marla Cohen Myron Cohen

Beverly & Jason Gans Lori and Marc Glass

Ellie and Mark Goldberg Rona Gollob

Marilyn and Alan Goodman Linda and Ken Howell

Jackie Isaacson & Lou Blumenfeld Debbie and Joel Kent

Muriel Kesten Philip Knecht

Tammi Kraushaar Shelley and Stephen Lipman

Maxine and Mel Marcus Barbara and Scott Merkelson

Shirley Morrison Sandra & Marc Needelman

Millie and Herb Osber Barbara Reisner Jan Rosenthal

Jean and Gershon Sosin Nancy and Marty Swilling

Judge Jerry Wagner Diane and Marcus Wolfset

Todah Rabbah For Your Generosity!

Sukkot Open House

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From Rabbi Atkins’s Desk

Rabbi Gary Atkins

Your Rabbi

Shalom Congregants and Friends, It is indeed noteworthy to encounter an event which, we are told, will not happen again for 76,000 years. What event? The fact that the first day of Hanukkah and Thanksgiving will occur on the same day. The Jewish world had a lot of special commemorative events when the once-in-26-year phenomenon of Birkat HaHama (Blessing of the sun) occurred in 2008. (Remember going to the West Hartford Children's Museum planetarium?) This event is 300 times more rare! Of course, who knows what life will be like at that far-distant date... But the future possibilities are theoretical; in the "here and now" we will be celebrating these two holidays starting Wednesday, November 27th. There have been many articles circulating in the press commenting about this coincidence and, in the spirit of America, the unique opportunities of commercialism that it has engendered. I am asking our bulletin editor to include one for you to read as background information in this issue of Chai-lites. Actually, in the balancing out of the two events starting that evening, I'll choose Thanksgiving. Its more universal message resonates with me, as well as the fact that I am aware that it is based on Biblical teachings. The fact that the Hanukkah holiday lasts for eight days reinforces the Thanksgiving

message, as well as giving us lots of opportunities to celebrate the Hanukkah holiday after the Thanksgiving turkey (or vegetarian option) has been digested. We will be celebrating both holidays at Beth Hillel Synagogue. We will be hosting, with the unanimous agreement of our Board of Directors, the annual Thanksgiving Interfaith Service sponsored by the Bloomfield Interfaith Association. That service will be Sunday evening, November 24th, at 7pm in our sanctuary. I thank now our Sisterhood, which is always there to support synagogue activities, for proving a "collation" for the community after the service. I imagine that my sermons/teaching the Shabbat before will be on the theme of the upcoming holidays. The Ritual Committee has approved some adjustments in our minyan and Hanukkah lighting, reflecting what most peoples’ priorities will be. You will see that schedule elsewhere in the Chai-lites as well. Subject to change, our major observances will be on the Shabbat of Thanksgiving weekend, and then the last days of the holiday, e.g. Monday through Thursday, December 2-5. There are many events to interest you in November. Our home services have been most successful; do join us for the last one of the fall, November 15, at the Baram residence, and the outreach service at the Goldberg's home in Avon on November 22nd. Adult Ed has seen good attendance at both the "Lunch and Learn," which is ongoing, and my Monday evening study, which will be on November 18 and 25. Our Library Shabbat weekend should

be most exciting, with our guest speaker, Professor Sidra DeKoken Ezrachi. And there are many other programs and continuing activities... As always, your participation is what makes them successful! Wishes for a good month! Enjoy the last flashes of color in the leaves and get ready for the colder weather! And count your blessings!

NEED THE RABBI?

Rabbi Atkins is always available.

His normal day off is Wednesday.

However, he is always contactable

via his home phone (860-726-

9312) or cell phone (860-331-

0879). PLEASE WRITE THESE

NUMBERS IN A CONVEN-

IENT PLACE FOR YOU TO

ACCESS THEM WHEN NEED-

ED. Please also let him or the of-

fice know of any illnesses, hospi-

talizations, simchot or needs. Feel

free to also update the office on

any information related to a con-

gregant. Rabbi Atkins will be

away Oct 28 - Nov 7; coverage has

been arranged for any emergency

situation.

Adult Ed Classes

November 18, 25

After evening minyan

“Exotic Jewish Communities”

Jewish Communities from the 4 Corners of the Earth - Jews of

Kaifeng, China

Page 4 Beth Hillel Chai-Lites

The President’s Column

From October 11th-15th the Unit-ed Synagogue of Conservative Judaism celebrated its 100th an-niversary with a gala celebration in Baltimore. Shirley Morrison, Rona Gollob and I were among approximately 1200 delegates and over 100 USYers who joined in the celebration. It was a meaningful and worthwhile expe-rience. The convention began with a Shabbaton which I was unable to attend but which Shirley and Rona did. The con-vention itself began on Sun-day and ran to Tuesday after-noon. We are planning on shar-ing the experience with you at a Shabbat service.

While the convention celebrated the past, the focus was to ex-plore our needs for the fu-ture. Together, through a series of conversations we explored the dramatic changes taking place in the Jewish world and learned how innovative thinkers are re-sponding to these changes. We reexamined the definition of com-munity, using "kehilla" in place of synagogue, a change in term adopted by the USCJ when it re-structured a few years ago. "Kehilla" alludes to inclusion and companionship rather than to a building, as did the term "synagogue." The goal is to wel-come, educate, and inspire the individuals in our communities. The presentations energized and inspired us to return to our kehil-lot with the purpose of continuing the conversations that are neces-sary to enable the USCJ to pro-ceed in, and hopefully thrive and grow through the next century of Conservative Judaism. It is our hope that we will be able to use what we learned to help the Beth

Hillel Kehilla select a direction consistent with the needs of the greater Hartford Jewish Commu-nity for the twenty-first century.

Here at Beth Hillel, as always, we are busy with our many programs and classes. The Adult Education Committee, led by Myrna Schaff-man and Tobie Katz provided an inspiring speaker, Alyse Lichten-stein, a recent BU graduate who spoke on her experiences partici-pating in "One By One," a pro-gram designed to bring together the children and grandchildren of Holocaust survivors with the chil-dren and grandchildren of Holo-caust perpetrators. The Adult Ed Committee teamed up with Brotherhood, which provided a sumptuous breakfast prepared by a team led by our gourmet chef, Mark Goldberg which pre-ceded the moving presentation. November 8th and 9th our Li-brary Committee, led by Barb Merkelson and Deb Gutcheon, has an exciting author weekend planned for us with Sidra DeKoven Ezrahi, Professor Emerita of Comparative Litera-ture at Hebrew University in Jeru-salem. I hope that those of you who can will be there for all or part of the weekend.

We also have continued with our attempt to move outside of our building in twenty-first century style, with a well-attended Beth Hillel home Friday Shabbat ser-vice at the Schaffmans and an outreach Friday Shabbat service at the Waldos. Next up as I write is our first Shabbat dinner of this year followed by our first-ever Saturday Shabbat service at Hebrew Health Care to bring our Shabbat morning experience to its residents. In November we'll

have the next Friday night Shabbat home service, this one at the Barams. As we learned in Baltimore, moving outside of the walls of our building for some of our events is part of the current direction of Jewish life. With the leadership of Rab-bi Gary and the Ritual Commit-tee we already are on our way. So far it appears that our Beth Hillel family favors this new approach and as long as we continue to participate in and enjoy this new direction I am sure the Board will see that it continues. 'Til next month, Jackie

See the gift card order form on page 7 to order gift cards for

regular or holiday use. Help the synagogue raise money this easy way! Contact the office

with any questions.

Rabbi Philip Lazowski will be cel-ebrating the 70th anniversary of his Bar Mitzvah on Saturday-morning, November 23, at The Emanuel. He and Ruth are extending an invitation to the members of Beth Hillel Syna-gogue to join them in their sim-cha. There will be regular Shab-bat morning services at Beth Hil-lel Synagogue that morning for those who may not be attending the Bar Mitzvah commemoration.

Next Congregational Shabbat dinner is Dec. 13, 6:15 pm

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Shabbat Happenings First Shabbat Saturday

Afternoon Service Saturday, November 2 at

5:30pm Reminder: Saturday afternoon services are now scheduled for ONLY the first Shabbat of each month. If you need a minyan for a yahrzeit or any other reason, please contact Rabbi Atkins at least a week in advance so that it can be scheduled and announced.

HOME SERVICE Fri., November 15, 8pm

Baram residence, 5 Warbler Circle. No service at BHS.

OUTREACH SERVICE: Fri., November 22, 8pm Ellie and Mark Goldberg residence, 103 Brookmoor Dr., Avon

As part of the community “Big Tent” outreach program, Beth Hillel Synagogue has volunteered to try a program of monthly outreach services. There will also be a Friday night service at Beth Hillel for those who prefer the Bloomfield service, to be led by a member of our Ritual Committee.

KRISTALLNACHT

The 75th anniversary of this sad event in Germany, considered

to be the “start” of the Holocaust, will be observed with memori-al prayers the Shabbat of November 8 and 9. There will also be a special lecture by Dr. Deborah Lipstadt, one of the fore-most scholars of the Holocaust, at the UConn West Hartford Campus Auditorium on Monday evening, November 11. Admis-sion is by ticket only. Rabbi Atkins was given a very few to dis-tribute; contact him and then the campus if you wish to attend.

Chanukah Gift Giving Made Easy

ACCESSORIZE

One-Stop Shopping at Beth Hillel Synagogue

160 Wintonbury Avenue

Bloomfield, CT 06002

Wednesday, November 13, 2013, 7 – 9 PM

Jewelry Perfumes Body Lotions Hand-Made Soaps Scarves Hats Handbags Candles

AND MUCH MORE

Free Admission Lite Refreshments

Sisterhood Stacks

If you have not read The Loudest

Voice by Grace Paley or Conver-

sion of the Jews by Philip Roth,

we have copies of each story in

the library. Just look on the desk

for the short story folder. Our

special guest speaker Professor

Sidra DeKoven Ezrahi will refer

to these stories on Saturday, No-

vember 9.

Blue flyers about the Adult Ed/

Library Shabbat weekend have

been placed in the magazine

racks near the main sanctuary

and chapel.

Hope to see you at the Adult Ed/

Library Shabbat weekend No-

vember 8-9.

Barb & Deb

EMBRACING CHANGE The Hartford Jewish Federation and the Big Tent Initiative are holding a day-long special confer-ence on Sunday, November 17, on the Jewish fu-ture. Flyers are available at the synagogue. If you would like to attend, check with Rabbi Atkins.

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KASHRUT COLUMN—Rabbi Gary Atkins It has come to my attention that there are now a lot of genetically modified fish on the market. A company called Aqua Bounty, for example, produces a faster growing fish by splicing the genes of an eel like creature into the salmon's genes. The question for us is not just "is it safe?" We also have to ask, as we often do, "Does it have fins and scales?" And even if it does, is there a problem because of the splicing in of the genes of a non-kosher animal? Upon research, I find that Rabbi Avram Reisner wrote a teshuvah of 1997 that remains the normative position of the Conservative movement, and it holds that genetic modification does not constitute a violation of the various laws related to kilayim (mixing of species). Furthermore, even the products of old-fashioned mixed breeding, like a beefalo or a nectarine, are kosher, as long as the end result meets the criteria of kashrut for its type. In other words, If a genetically modified salmon has fins and scales, then it is kosher, even if it has some eel genes.

Hannukah

HANUKKIAH LIGHTING SCHEDULE

Mon., Dec. 2: BHS Brotherhood Tues., Dec. 3: BHS Board of

Directors Wed. Dec. 4: BHS Sisterhood ...after evening minyan

THANKSGIVING PERIOD SERVICE SCHEDULE

Sun. 11/24 7pm - Bloomfield Interfaith Association Community Service at Beth Hillel Synagogue Thurs. 11/28 9am - morning minyan. NO EVENING MINYAN Fri. 11/29 9am – morning minyan, EARLY KABBALAT SHAB-

BAT SERVICE 6:15pm Sat. 11/30 9:30am - regular Shabbat morning service Sun. 12/1 9am – morning minyan

Gobble tov! American Jews ready for Thanksgivukkah… with thanks to LEANNE ITALIE (AP) …….It's a turkey. It's a menorah. It's Thanksgivukkah! An extremely rare convergence this year of Thanksgiving and the start of Hanukkah has created a frenzy of Talmudic proportions.

There's the number crunching: The last time it happened was 1888, or at least the last time since Thanksgiving was declared a federal holiday by President Lincoln, and the next time may have Jews lighting their candles from spaceships 79,043 years from now, by one calculation.

There's the commerce: A 9-year-old New York boy invented the "Menurkey" and raised more than $48,000 on Kickstart-er for his already trademarked, Turkey-shaped menorah. Woodstock-inspired T-shirts have a turkey perched on the neck of a guitar and implore "8 Days of Light, Liberty & Latkes." The creators nabbed the trademark to "Thanksgivukkah."…..

The lunisolar nature of the Jewish calendar makes Hanukkah and other religious observances appear to drift slightly from year to year when compared to the U.S., or Gregorian, calendar. But much of the intrigue over Hanukkah this year is buried deep in the history of Thanksgiving itself, which hasn't always been fixed in the same spot. That caused some initial confusion over Thanksgivukkah, aka Turkukkah.

In 1863, Lincoln declared Thanksgiving as the last Thursday in November (the month sometimes has five of those) and the holiday remained there until President Franklin D. Roosevelt signed a joint resolution of Congress fixing it as the fourth Thursday, starting in 1942.

Since 1863, Thanksgiving and the first full day of Hanukkah on the Gregorian calendar have not overlapped. Jewish practice calls for the first candle of eight-day Hanukkah to be lit the night before Thanksgiving Day this year, so techni-cally Thanksgivukkah falls on the "second candle" night.

And then there's Texas. Before 1863, each state decided on its own date for Thanksgiving. As late as 1956, Texans were still chowing down on turkey and stuffing a week later than everyone else, according to a history put together by Chabad.org of the Chabad-Lubavitch movement of Hasidic Jews. That means Jews in that state might have also been lighting their first Hanukkah candle in 1945 and 1956.

For more information on this theme… anticipate the rabbi’s sermon on Saturday, November 23!

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ABE MORRISON SHABBAT DINNER FUND In Honor of Barbara Reisner’s grandson Jared Reisner’s Bar Mitzvah Barbara Bloom Yahrzeit for Esther Silverman Natalie Baraban In Loving Memory of Daniel Dworetsky Barbara Bloom

ALEX LEBED FUND Yahrzeit for Ethel Halpin Myron Halpin Max Silverman Helene Rosenshein Nathan Block Myron & Beverly Halpin In Loving Memory of Sal Vinci Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins

BUILDING FUND Yahrzeit for Lee Lapides Sue Ellen Bromberg Stanley Silverman Helene Rosenshein

EDWARD GERSHENOWITZ FUND In Loving Memory of Judy Krasnow Mrs. Lorna Gershenowitz & family

EDWARD N. BROMBERG RITUAL EDUCATION MEMORIAL FUND In Honor of Myrna Kahan’s grandson Andrew Asnes’ bar mitzvah Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins Yahrzeit for Harry Slutsky Hilda Grossman

GENERAL FUND Yahrzeit for Abraham Kirshenbaum Sandra & Michael Delin & Family Alec Bransky Ruth Smith Anna Trachtenberg Naomi Taub Nathan Trachtenberg Naomi Taub Anna Lazarowitz Martin Lazarus Bessie Flitt Maxine Marcus Betty Miller Osber Herb Osber Corinne Karp Siegel Joel Lefkowitz Dora Levy Marvin Hoberman Dr. & Mrs. Israel Trachtenberg Naomi Taub

Esther Silverman Jean Sosin Harry Smith Ruth Smith Irving Lazarowitz Martin Lazarus Jacob Serotte Barry & Debby Berson Jennie Kaufman Mim Katz Lillie Abramson Zenia Lindenauer Louise Hatten Jeana Press Mark Trachtenberg NaomiTaub Michael Andrew Pinkus Benjamin Pinkus Nora Goldberg Esther Rauch Philip Kirshenbaum Sandra & Michael Delin & Family Rae & Israel Murzin Naomi Taub Rhoda Rosenthal Jan Rosenthal Samuel Slipchinsky Ruth Sloate Samuel Wilson Arthur Wilson Tillie Smith Ruth Smith Yale Dickstein Benjamin Pinkus In Loving Memory of Bil Bilder Ronald & Barbara Fishman Frank Rosenfield Ruth Smith Refu'ah Shelaymah to Anna Neleber Joel Lefkowitz Marc Glass Mickey & Joyce Libbin In Celebration of Dorothy & Norman Cohen wedding anniversary Joel Lefkowitz

IDA AND SAM COHEN FUND Yahrzeit for Samuel Cohen Ida Cohen

KIDDUSH FUND In honor of Chanting the haftorah Judge Jerry Wagner Brett & Elizabeth’s engagement Bob & Phyllis Berman Yahrzeit for Joseph Kovalsky Steven Kovalsky

LIBRARY FUND Yahrzeit for Dorothy Goldberger Joan Smith In Loving Memory of Sylvia Levy David & Paula Baram

LIBRARY PROGRAMMING FUND In Honor of Mickey & Joyce Libbin new grandson, Evan Davis Alford Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins

MINYONAIRES Yahrzeit for Haskel Alter Gladys Goldstein

PAUL AND LIBBY WOLFBERG ENTERTAINMENT FUND In Loving Memory of Daniel Dworetsky Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins In Appreciation of Dr. Benson Horowitz helpfulness Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins

PRAYER BOOK FUND Yahrzeit for Anna Helman Lila Abramson Rhoda Rosenthal Bette Rosenthal

RABBI ATKINS DISCRETIONARY FUND In Honor of Jackie Isaacson becoming President of Beth Hillel David & Paula Baram Mel Marcus Birthday Leonard Swade Noah Benjamin Atkins, Iris & Rabbi Gary's newest grandchild! Debbi & Ronald Clymer Yahrzeit for Abraham Rosenthal Bette Rosenthal Abraham Silver Jacob Fagin Alfred Moss Dr. Ronald Moss Betty Kaplan Edward & Judith Kaplan Harry Carr Leon Carr Herman Bercowetz Bette Rosenthal Ida Friedman Arlene Friedman Ida Rose Elaine Rose Ida Rosenthal Bette Rosenthal Isaac Gandelman Arthur Gandelman Janet Berman Stanley Cohen Jennie Gruber Glenn & Beth Gerber Jennie Kaufman Arlene Friedman Joseph Rose Elaine Rose Morris Rosenthal Bette Rosenthal Rebecca Gandelman

Arthur & Evelyn Gandelman In Loving Memory of Dorothy Shuman David & Paula Baram Marcia Aronson Feinberg Stanley Cohen In Appreciation of Meeshebayrach prayers Mickey & Joyce Libbin Harry Berry for your kindness Mel & Maxine Marcus Holiday and Yahrzeit Services Jack Rodin Rabbi Gary Atkins In Support of Social Action Work Leonard Swade Iris and Rabbi Gary Atkins for their thoughtfulness, prayers and kind words Gershon & Jean Sosin Iris and Rabbi Gary Atkins Your Hospitality at Succoth and kind wishes for my family Shirley Morrison Rabbi Atkins for visits, prayers, good wishes and blowing the shofar! Mel & Ellie Feldman Rabbi Gary Atkins Prayers at cemetery Stanley Cohen Edna Post Rabbi Gary Atkins kindness Mel & Maxine Marcus Refu'ah Shelaymah to Brian Scott Denenholtz Shirley Denenholtz Ken Kaplan Barbara & Herb Kaplan In Celebration of David Rodin & Jay Cardenas married 9-14-13 Jack Rodin Helen Giller & Marvin Goldberg recent wedding Leon & Bernice Carr

RABBI EMERITUS DISCRETIONARY FUND Yahrzeit for Fannie Kruh Susan Schwalbendorf Martha Sandler Lois Vanesse Sidney Frank Sheila Lutin

RABBI PHILIP LAZOWSKI EDUCATION FUND In Celebration of Roberta & Donald Baggish new great-grandson Benjamin Ruth Smith

SLESS MUSIC FUND Yahrzeit for Charles Adelstein Ms. Hana Levinson-Bogen In Loving Memory of Hal Soloff Iris & Rabbi Gary Atkins

SPECIAL KITCHEN FUND

We Gratefully Acknowledge the Following Contributions

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Social Action/Caring The CHESED CARING COMMITTEE continues to provide comfort to the congregants of Beth Hillel Synagogue. The Hebrew word "chesed" does not have a precise English equivalent but is probably closest to "loving-kindness." In the Jewish moral tradition, "chesed" is associated with love, giving, and altruism. For congregants who are ill, hospitalized, undergoing rehab, or otherwise in need of prayers and well wishes, our committee members are very generous with their time. We send cards of encouragement; we visit people in hospitals or their homes, rehab, or nursing home facili-ties; we call to let them know that they are in our thoughts and our prayers. On occasion, we provide meals and an oc-casional ride. We have challot and small bottles of grape juice to share just before Shabbat. When we offer a chamsa/dove as a "good luck charm" - we see faces light up. We, in return, are blessed by the knowledge that we are providing comfort to those most in need. We can only provide our services if/when we are aware of the need. If you or a loved one wish to be on the receiv-ing end of our services, you may call me (Iris) directly (860-726-9312) or leave a message at the synagogue office. Privacy will always be protected - unless you wish to extend the network of well wishers! Iris E. Atkins and Joel Neuwirth Co-Chairs, Chesed Caring Committee

THE BETH HILLEL SYNAGOGUE

MINYONAIRES

SCHMOOZE AND LUNCH PROGRAM THURSDAY November 14, 2013

THOM HOOPER Director of Bloomfield Planning and Zoning

“The Bloomfield CenTer Plan” Speaker at 11 AM; Lunch at Noon.

Cost of Lunch is $4.00 RSVP to the Synagogue at 860-242-5561

Reservations entitle you to a chance in drawing for a $25.00 gift card. You must be present to win.

PROGRAM: 11:00 TO NOON SCHMOOZE AND LUNCH: NOON TO 1:30PM

SCHMOOZING (FREE); LUNCH $4.00

RSVP: SYNAGOGUE OFFICE 242-5561

In Loving Memory of Sylvia Levy Tobie Katz and David Wichman Marcia Goldberg Adam Curtis Tobie Katz and David Wichman In Honor of Lillian Miller- new Great granddaughter Marcia Goldberg Iris and Rabbi Gary – new grandson Marcia Goldberg Marilyn and Alan Goodman - wedding anniversary Tobie Katz and David Wichman Yahrzeit for Harry Letchowetsky Tobie Katz Celia Letchowetsky Tobie Katz Samuel Waxman Faye Sklar Meyer Sklar Ruth Sklar

Donations cont.

BETH HILLEL SYNAGOGUE HOLDS SHABBAT MORNING SERVICE AT HEBREW HEALTH CARE

Rabbi Gary Lavit, the chaplain at Hebrew Health Care for over twenty-five years, had a problem. He had a number of residents/patients who wanted to attend and experience Shabbat services, but they could not actively contribute to the service. How could he give them the experience of an enthusiastic Shabbat ser-vice, with a congregation of active participants who know how to sing and daven and who enjoy doing so with spirit? He contacted Rabbi Atkins and inquired whether Beth Hillel Synagogue would be willing to be innovative and community-minded.... and thus willing to "move" their Shabbat morn-ing service to Hebrew Health Care on an occasional basis. Beth Hillel con-gregants would have the ability to do a special mitzvah and the Hebrew Health Care residents would benefit thereby. Our synagogue Ritual Com-mittee and Board of Directors both affirmed the value of doing this service. Rabbi Lavit was willing, on his part, to have the prayer service be the service of Beth Hillel Synagogue, con-ducted in accordance with Beth Hillel traditions and that of the Conservative movement. Indeed, it was a "Win-Win" situation. So, on Parashat Haye Sarah, October 26, this special service first took place. The next one will be scheduled on Shabbat in March 2014.

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The deadline for submission to the December Bulletin is November 12.

Visit us online at www.BethHillelSynagogue.org

MITZVOT TZEDAKAH—YOUR GUIDE TO GIVING

Beth Hillel synagogue offers many choices for donations to the Synagogue from formal endowments, designated funds. Honorials and Memorials, to operating and reserve funds. For more detailed information, ask our office staff to have the responsible committee representative contact you.

Unless otherwise noted by *, please send the following fund donations to the Synagogue Office.

I. SYNAGOGUE OPERATING FUNDS Donations offset expenses for religious school, adult education, youth activity, ritual, programming, etc .thus keeping dues and tuition lower. General Fund II. SYNAGOGUE DEDICATED ENDOWMENTS Donations are added to principal, and earnings are applied to Synagogue operating funds. Kiyum Endowment III. RESERVE/REPLACEMENT FUNDS Donations are added to the Synagogue Reserve Fund and used only under special circumstances. Building Fund Ida & Samuel Cohen Wing Kesten-Fishberg Chapel Fund Prayer Book ($25 min for book plate) IV. DESIGNATED FUNDS Donations are used to further the aims and activities listed

A. Named in Honor or Memory of: 1. Scholarship/Stipend Joy Risa Berman Edward Gershenowitz Leon Glazer Ethel B. Karp Jean Rosen Samuel Rosenthal Rebecca Schwartz Lazowski 2. Youth Activity Stipend Morris Feigenbaum/Jonathan Lodge Fred and Ronald Pivnick USY & Kadima Youth 3. Higher Education Scholarship Stipend Post Family 4. Health & Human Services Alex B. Lebed 5. Music, Arts & Entertainment Sless Music Paul and Libby Wolfberg Entertainment 6. Library Sidney Needelman Library

Library Fund PTO Library Programming Fund 7. Adult Education Rabbi Philip lazowski Education 8. Ritual Edward N. Bromberg Ritual Eucationn Memorial Fund 9. Other Rabbi Gary Atkins’ Discretionary Fund Rabbi Emertitus Philip Lazowski Discretionary Fund Abe Morrison Shabbat Dinner Fund B. Unnamed 1. Honorial/Memorial Yahrzeit Plaques Major Gifts 2. Sisterhood * Flower * Special Kitchen Kiddush 3. Minyonaires

For funds marked with *, send donations per below: Flower Fund— Barbara Kaplan 4. Early Dawn Circle, Bloomfield, CT 06002 243-5181 Special Kitchen Fund— Faye Sklar 4 Briar Lane, Bloomfield, CT 06002 242-7141

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TAX DEDUCTIBLE GIFT!