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St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church6000 Grove AvenueRichmond, Virginia 23226www.ststephensRVA.org

OCTOBER 23, 2016TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY AFTER PENTECOST

A weekly meditationI was reared a Baptist in Danville, where L.D. Johnson was my pastor for the fi rst 16 years of my life. He was different from the image many have of Baptist pastors. In 1954 when so many clergy of all stripes were using scripture to justify racial segregation, the Thanksgiving service at First Baptist Church was integrated, not without controversy. He loved playing cards, dancing, a good joke and on occasion, a glass of wine. Eventually he left to teach in the Department of Religion at the University of Richmond, then returned to the pulpit in Greenville, S.C., and later still became chaplain at Furman University. He loved young people and I know he loved me. One rather hot and humid summer evening after enjoying homemade ice cream at my house, he pointedly asked me, “How many coats do you have?” I don’t remember my answer—probably something an all-knowing 16-year-old would say—but his next question was the zinger: “How can you have more than one coat when your neighbor has none?” He quickly added, “Don’t answer; just think about it today, tomorrow, the rest of your life.”I have done that, and somewhere along the twists and turns of my faith journey I came to understand his question had nothing to do with the number of coats in my closet. It had everything to do with my resources and how to use them to do the work God has asked me to do.Every Sunday at St. Stephen’s and throughout the week we experience spiritual nourishment that informs us about how to live our lives as God has asked us to do—at home, at our work, or when we play. It’s where our children are introduced to the mysteries of faith. St. Stephen’s keeps us focused on God’s invitation to be part of his kingdom, and helps us avoid unthinking complacency about our lives and the world around us. Each of us is so important to St. Stephen’s. Together, we are the mosaic that makes this such a vibrant community of faith, one that touches lives in Richmond and beyond. St. Stephen’s is a beacon of hope to so many: the faithful, the unfaithful, the loved, the unloved, and those who live on the margins of life.Come back with me to the coats in my closet. Now is a critical time for St. Stephen’s. In making your pledge, you are invited to take a renewed, thoughtful assessment of your resources, be they great or small. Then give those resources the priority against other demands that will permit St. Stephen’s to respond to God’s invitation to do together important things with our lives as an offering to him. We are stewards of his kingdom.

JOHN BARR

From the far reaches of the cosmos to the human heartSATURDAY, OCTOBER 29, 9 A.M.-NOON

If this sentence were the history of the universe, human beings would arrive on the very far side of the period. So why is the Bible all about us? Beginning with this question, Paul Wallace, pastor and physicist, guides listeners on an awesome journey, from the far reaches of the cosmos to the center of the human heart. Drawing heavily from the Book of Job and Carl Sagan, Wallace questions our assumptions about God and traces Job’s journey from an “obsolete God” or “God-concept” to the Living God, beyond ideas.Paul Wallace holds a PhD in experimental nuclear physics from Duke and an MDiv from Candler School of Theology. He is the author of Stars Beneath Us: Finding God in the Evolving Cosmos and is a professor of both physics and theology. He is coming to St. Stephen’s after family ministries staff members Michael Sweeney and Sarah-Keel Crews heard him speak at a conference in Dallas and found his message so compelling that they asked Gary Jones to invite him. Come fi nd out why!The suggested donation for his talk is $25; you may register at ststephensRVA.org/wallace. His book is available in our bookshop.

INSIDE Today’s Forum // 2

Become a pledging member: please return your pledge card by October 30 // 2

Rob Bell and John Philip Newell to speak here next month // 3Advent Quiet Day offered // 4Canvasses for kneeling cushions blessed today // 4

We’re glad you’re here!Are you at St. Stephen’s for the fi rst time? We’re so happy you’re here. Please stop by the Welcome Table outside the Fellowship Hall for a gift.

Advent Quiet Day: ‘How can this be?’SATURDAY, DECEMBER 3, 9 A.M.-NOON

Mary’s question to Gabriel—“how can this be?”—seems the question of a lifetime for each of us. St. Stephen’s will offer a guided retreat for quiet refl ection, private writing, and a prayerful invitation to consider not only that which awaits us, but also all that already is. Sometimes it is in solitude and silence that we gain clarity or that truth is revealed. And yet it is often in the company of others that we feel confi rmed, comforted, and inspired. This retreat will be equal parts inward contemplation and outward exploration. Designed for seasoned writers and those who have never put pen to page, this is a day—in the spirit of Mary’s fear and fearlessness—for patience and possibility, for interiority and expression. Read more about this offering by Allison Seay, associate for religion and the arts, at ststephensRVA.org/adventretreat.

‘Immortal Diamond’ book group offeredMONDAYS, 7-8:30 P.M., THROUGH NOVEMBER 14

All of us wonder at times, if others knew me the way I know my-self, would they still love me? What does God see when God gazes on me? These are questions that noted Franciscan author and spiri-tual guide Richard Rohr explores in his book, Immortal Diamond. Rohr refl ects on our essential goodness and how our egos interfere with our awareness of God, one another, and our own self-under-standing. Join Claudia Merritt for this discussion group. Sign up at ststephensRVA.org/groups.

Opportunities to help in the East EndWould you like to be part of the success story of our East End mis-sion partners? Students are thriving at the Anna Julia Cooper Epis-copal School and Peter Paul Development Center. Fairfi eld Court Elementary School is fully accredited again this year. There are vari-ous roles for volunteers with all three partners. Peter Paul also has a new weeknight tutoring opportunity available. Information: Deb Lawrence, dlawrence@ststephensRVA.org or 804.288.2867.

Writing a refl ection for Advent or The SpiritEach week in this newsletter, we publish a refl ection from a parishioner or staff member who writes about the spiritual in everyday life. Would you like to write a refl ection for The Spirit? Please send an email to Sarah Bartenstein, director of communications, sbartenstein@ststephensRVA.org, to request submission guidelines. In addition, during the Advent season, St. Stephen’s distributes daily meditations by email to any who wish to subscribe. If you would like to write an Advent refl ection, please ask Sarah for those guidelines as well. The deadline for submission of Advent meditations is November 10.

‘I was hungry and you gave me something to eat’Bringing a can or box of food to church each Sunday, along with your monetary offering, is a weekly practice we encourage. Your contributions to our food pantry help us respond to the large number of people coming to us for groceries each Monday.

IN HONOR OF ANNE W. BUFORD AND IN MEMORY OF ROBERT P. BUFORDCanvas given by Bliss Buford Abbot and Peyton Buford Valentine

Stitched by Peyton Valentine IN HONOR OF THOMAS, BRADLEY AND JEFFREY COXCanvas given by Penny NashStitched by Victoria GloverIN MEMORY OF JAMES L. DOHERTYCanvas given by Wednesday Morning Fellowship Group

Stitched by Jane SettleIN MEMORY OF THE REV. DR. D. RABY EDWARDSCanvas given by the Ayers Family

Stitched by Sally AyersIN HONOR OF GARLAND STONE FLIPPEN Canvas given by Elizabeth Conner Flippen

Stitched by Meade WilliamsIN HONOR OF RICHARD M. HAMRICK III AND RICHARD M. HAMRICK IVCanvas given and stitched by Bonny Hamrick

IN HONOR OF MALCOLM H. HINESCanvas given by Joan M. HinesStitched by Helen SarrettIN MEMORY OF ANN HOVERCanvas given and stitched by Jane Settle

IN HONOR OF RILEY, ADDISON AND CARSON PETERSCanvas given and stitched by Sandra Hart

IN HONOR OF JOHN PHILLIPSCanvas given by the Needlepoint Guild

Stitched by Jessica TongelIN HONOR OF OUR GRANDCHILDRENCanvas given by Donna and Seldon Tompkins

Stitched by Donna TompkinsIN MEMORY OF MADELYN TRICECanvas given and stitched by Sally Trice Lester

IN MEMORY OF JANE AND HUGHES WARECanvas given and stitched by Martha W. Curry

IN HONOR OF NIU MENG XUE ‘ZOE’Canvas given by Dixon and Kate Roy Christian

Stitched by Zoe Xue

Needlepoint canvasses being blessed todayToday during the 11:15 a.m. service, we will bless the most recently completed batch of needlepoint canvasses before they are sent off to be blocked and attached to kneeling cushions for the cathedral chairs in the Chapel of the Holy Spirit. Here are the people being honored or remembered with these gifts, as well as the needlepointers who stitched each canvas.

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This morning’s forumWhen we embarked on the Capital Campaign that allowed us to make long-needed repairs, updates and improvements to our buildings and grounds, a tithe of the campaign for outreach was part of the plan. You’ve seen the improvements fi rst-hand (and heard about the ones you can’t see, such as the new HVAC system), and today in the Sunday Forum, you’ll hear about the planning for the outreach portion of the campaign. We’ll also welcome a special guest, Reggie Gordon, Director of the Offi ce of Community Wealth Building for the City of Richmond. Mr. Gordon will discuss unemployment issues in the city and how job creation and meaningful employment are the way out of poverty. Join us for an important and inspiring Sunday Forum!

Other Sunday offeringsIn addition to the Sunday Forum, adults have the following options during the Christian education hour, neither requiring registration: in Room 14, “Many Parents, One Vine,” especially for parents; in the Somerset Room (the former vestry room), Bible study led by the Rev. Penny Nash.

Make your life an offering: become a pledging member of this parishPLEDGES DUE NEXT SUNDAY, OCTOBER 30

Each of us has the opportunity to take our everyday lives and place them before God as an offering–a form of thanksgiving for all we have received from God. There is so much to be done, and none of us can do it alone. Through the church, we do God’s work together. As a pledging member of St. Stephen’s Church, you take part in a remarkable community of faith that provides the “hands and feet” of God in Richmond and beyond. Packets with information and pledge cards have been distributed to all on our parish mailing list. If you are not on the mailing list but want to take part, please do! Many people who are not members of St. Stephen’s (including those who are members of other churches) are eager to support our ministries. You may use our online pledge form (ststephensRVA.org/pledge), or stop by any of the Welcome Tables to pick up a pledge card. The leadership of our annual giving campaign asks that you make your pledge by October 30.

‘I was in prison and you visited me’MONDAY, OCTOBER 24, 6:30 P.M.

Are you interested in becoming a volunteer chaplain to men and women at the Richmond City Jail, or simply want to learn more about this vital and growing ministry? Come to a training and orientation session in Palmer Hall on October 24. All prospective chaplains are required to attend the training. Additional training sessions will be scheduled as the need arises. For questions or more information, please contact Deb Lawrence, 804.288.2867 or dlawrence@ststephensRVA.org.

You’re invited to hear guest speakers visiting ‘Just Mercy’ groupThe discussion series on Bryan Stevenson’s book Just Mercy includes several guest speakers, and even if you are not taking part in the series, you are invited to attend any session to hear those speakers. Here are two of special interest coming up:TUESDAY, OCTOBER 25 // DAVID COOGAN AND CO-AUTHORS, ‘WRITING OUR WAY OUT’THE PRISON SYSTEM AND STORIES FROM THE INCARCERATEDVCU professor of rhetoric David Coogan began teaching a writing class at the Richmond City Jail more than 10 years ago. That effort recently culminated in the publication of a book, Writing Our Way Out, which he co-authored with 10 former inmates in the Virginia correctional system. Coogan, along with several of his co-authors, will give a presentation that includes readings from the book, and discussion of individual experiences with the criminal justice system. The session will include time for questions. TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1 // MICHAEL HERRING AND ALFRED DURHAM ‘JUST MERCY’ AND RICHMOND: PERSPECTIVES FROM THE CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEMAs Commonwealth’s Attorney for Richmond, Michael Herring is responsible for prosecution of felonies committed in the city. As Chief of Police, Alfred Durham is the city’s chief law enforcement offi cer. Both men have been recognized for their commitment to improving the criminal justice system and its relationships with the community. Parishioner and attorney Craig Merritt will welcome our two speakers and moderate a Q&A session with them after their initial remarks.

Remembering loved ones on All Saints DayDuring the All Saints’ Day service at noon on Tuesday, November 1, we remember those who have died in the past year. If you have a loved one you would like remembered during this service, please contact Betsy Lee in the parish offi ce as soon as possible.

Next Women’s Forum focuses on pastoral careTUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1, 10 A.M.

The November Women’s Forum will feature a presentation by Muffy Newell of Trinity Episcopal Church in Staunton. She will tell her own story and explain how it evolved into pastoral ministry for her church. Come at 9:30 a.m. for coffee and conversation; the pro-gram begins at 10. No registration is needed, and all are welcome.

Coming soon: John Philip Newell and Rob BellMONDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2016, 7 P.M.

In a few weeks, two of the most infl uential voices in Christianity in the 21st century will be at St. Stephen’s Church together. John Philip Newell and Rob Bell are coming to discuss not only their distinctive approaches to spirituality, but to explore where those two traditions overlap and enrich one another, and what this might mean for the future of faith.John Philip, no stranger to St. Stephen’s, is known around the globe for his teaching, writing, and preaching about Celtic spirituality, both its ancient roots and its fresh expressions. Rob, who comes from a more evangelical tradition, is known for his writing, fi lms, teaching, and preaching that re-envision Christianity for our time. His most recent book, Love Wins, became controversial because of its departure from some tenets of more traditional evangelical Christianity.In late February, Rob’s regular podcast featured an interview with John Philip. Rob’s excitement about that dialogue was palpable, and it prompted an invitation to both men from Gary Jones to conduct a similar conversation here. We expect a large crowd at this event, so we are issuing tickets to ensure that everyone has a seat. The suggested donation is $25. These are available in the parish offi ce during regular offi ce hours (Monday-Friday, 8:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m.) as well as outside the Large Fellowship Hall at the following times. If you reserve a ticket online (ststephensRVA.org/bellnewell), you may pick it up at any of these times.

• Sunday, October 23, 6:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.• Wednesday, October 26, 5:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.• Sunday, October 30, 11:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.• Sunday, November 6, 11:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.• Sunday, November 6, 6:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.• Wednesday, November 9, 5:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.• Sunday, November 13, 11:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.

Heidi and Monica are comingOur missionaries in Argentina, Heidi Schmidt and Monica Vega, will arrive tomorrow for a visit; they will be here until November 2. Look for them at Sunday services, Wonderful Wednesdays and other events.

CALENDAR MORE AT STSTEPHENSRVA.ORG/CALENDAR

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 23–PENTECOST 23Holy Eucharist: Rite One, 8 a.m.Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, in Palmer Hall and main church, 9 a.m.*Sunday school, Forum (outreach presentation), parent group, Bible study, 10:10 a.m.*

Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, 11:15 a.m.*, followed by receptionCeltic Service, 5:30 p.m.*Sunday Community Supper, 6:30 p.m.Compline, 8 p.m. MONDAY, OCTOBER 24Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followFruit Ministry, 9 a.m.Chair Yoga, 11 a.m.Food pantry distribution, 1-3 p.m.Evensong, 5:30 p.m.Guided meditation, 6 p.m.Jail chaplains information/orientation session, 6:30 p.m.Immortal Diamond book group, 7 p.m.TUESDAY, OCTOBER 25Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followContemplative Prayer, 8:45 a.m.Guided meditation, noonEvensong, 5:30 p.m.Just Mercy series, 7 p.m. WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 26Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followVery Gentle Yoga, 9:30 a.m.; Beginner Flow Yoga, 9:30 a.m.Chair Yoga, 11 a.m.Evensong, 5:30 p.m. with the Virginia Girls ChoirWonderful Wednesdays supper, 5:45-6:30 p.m.THURSDAY, OCTOBER 27Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followYoga for the Heart, 9 a.m.Bible Study, 10:30 a.m.Evensong, 5:30 p.m.Chi Kung, 6 p.m.FRIDAY, OCTOBER 28Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followStitchers groups, 9 a.m. Evensong, 5:30 p.m.SATURDAY, OCTOBER 29Paul Wallace: Two Books, One World, 9 a.m.-noonFarmers Market, 9 a.m.-noonHoly Eucharist: Rite Two, 5:30 p.m. in Palmer HallSUNDAY, OCTOBER 30–PENTECOST 24 Pledges dueHoly Eucharist: Rite One, 8 a.m.Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, in Palmer Hall and main church, 9 a.m.*Sunday school, Forum (Paul Wallace), parent group, Bible study, 10:10 a.m.*

Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, 11:15 a.m.*, followed by receptionCeltic Service, 5:30 p.m.*Sunday Community Supper, 6:30 p.m.Compline, 8 p.m. *denotes child care available up to age 5

NEWS SIGN UP FOR WEEKLY EMAILS AT STSTEPHENSRVA.ORG/EMAIL

This morning’s forumWhen we embarked on the Capital Campaign that allowed us to make long-needed repairs, updates and improvements to our buildings and grounds, a tithe of the campaign for outreach was part of the plan. You’ve seen the improvements fi rst-hand (and heard about the ones you can’t see, such as the new HVAC system), and today in the Sunday Forum, you’ll hear about the planning for the outreach portion of the campaign. We’ll also welcome a special guest, Reggie Gordon, Director of the Offi ce of Community Wealth Building for the City of Richmond. Mr. Gordon will discuss unemployment issues in the city and how job creation and meaningful employment are the way out of poverty. Join us for an important and inspiring Sunday Forum!

Other Sunday offeringsIn addition to the Sunday Forum, adults have the following options during the Christian education hour, neither requiring registration: in Room 14, “Many Parents, One Vine,” especially for parents; in the Somerset Room (the former vestry room), Bible study led by the Rev. Penny Nash.

Make your life an offering: become a pledging member of this parishPLEDGES DUE NEXT SUNDAY, OCTOBER 30

Each of us has the opportunity to take our everyday lives and place them before God as an offering–a form of thanksgiving for all we have received from God. There is so much to be done, and none of us can do it alone. Through the church, we do God’s work together. As a pledging member of St. Stephen’s Church, you take part in a remarkable community of faith that provides the “hands and feet” of God in Richmond and beyond. Packets with information and pledge cards have been distributed to all on our parish mailing list. If you are not on the mailing list but want to take part, please do! Many people who are not members of St. Stephen’s (including those who are members of other churches) are eager to support our ministries. You may use our online pledge form (ststephensRVA.org/pledge), or stop by any of the Welcome Tables to pick up a pledge card. The leadership of our annual giving campaign asks that you make your pledge by October 30.

‘I was in prison and you visited me’MONDAY, OCTOBER 24, 6:30 P.M.

Are you interested in becoming a volunteer chaplain to men and women at the Richmond City Jail, or simply want to learn more about this vital and growing ministry? Come to a training and orientation session in Palmer Hall on October 24. All prospective chaplains are required to attend the training. Additional training sessions will be scheduled as the need arises. For questions or more information, please contact Deb Lawrence, 804.288.2867 or dlawrence@ststephensRVA.org.

You’re invited to hear guest speakers visiting ‘Just Mercy’ groupThe discussion series on Bryan Stevenson’s book Just Mercy includes several guest speakers, and even if you are not taking part in the series, you are invited to attend any session to hear those speakers. Here are two of special interest coming up:TUESDAY, OCTOBER 25 // DAVID COOGAN AND CO-AUTHORS, ‘WRITING OUR WAY OUT’THE PRISON SYSTEM AND STORIES FROM THE INCARCERATEDVCU professor of rhetoric David Coogan began teaching a writing class at the Richmond City Jail more than 10 years ago. That effort recently culminated in the publication of a book, Writing Our Way Out, which he co-authored with 10 former inmates in the Virginia correctional system. Coogan, along with several of his co-authors, will give a presentation that includes readings from the book, and discussion of individual experiences with the criminal justice system. The session will include time for questions. TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1 // MICHAEL HERRING AND ALFRED DURHAM ‘JUST MERCY’ AND RICHMOND: PERSPECTIVES FROM THE CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEMAs Commonwealth’s Attorney for Richmond, Michael Herring is responsible for prosecution of felonies committed in the city. As Chief of Police, Alfred Durham is the city’s chief law enforcement offi cer. Both men have been recognized for their commitment to improving the criminal justice system and its relationships with the community. Parishioner and attorney Craig Merritt will welcome our two speakers and moderate a Q&A session with them after their initial remarks.

Remembering loved ones on All Saints DayDuring the All Saints’ Day service at noon on Tuesday, November 1, we remember those who have died in the past year. If you have a loved one you would like remembered during this service, please contact Betsy Lee in the parish offi ce as soon as possible.

Next Women’s Forum focuses on pastoral careTUESDAY, NOVEMBER 1, 10 A.M.

The November Women’s Forum will feature a presentation by Muffy Newell of Trinity Episcopal Church in Staunton. She will tell her own story and explain how it evolved into pastoral ministry for her church. Come at 9:30 a.m. for coffee and conversation; the pro-gram begins at 10. No registration is needed, and all are welcome.

Coming soon: John Philip Newell and Rob BellMONDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2016, 7 P.M.

In a few weeks, two of the most infl uential voices in Christianity in the 21st century will be at St. Stephen’s Church together. John Philip Newell and Rob Bell are coming to discuss not only their distinctive approaches to spirituality, but to explore where those two traditions overlap and enrich one another, and what this might mean for the future of faith.John Philip, no stranger to St. Stephen’s, is known around the globe for his teaching, writing, and preaching about Celtic spirituality, both its ancient roots and its fresh expressions. Rob, who comes from a more evangelical tradition, is known for his writing, fi lms, teaching, and preaching that re-envision Christianity for our time. His most recent book, Love Wins, became controversial because of its departure from some tenets of more traditional evangelical Christianity.In late February, Rob’s regular podcast featured an interview with John Philip. Rob’s excitement about that dialogue was palpable, and it prompted an invitation to both men from Gary Jones to conduct a similar conversation here. We expect a large crowd at this event, so we are issuing tickets to ensure that everyone has a seat. The suggested donation is $25. These are available in the parish offi ce during regular offi ce hours (Monday-Friday, 8:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m.) as well as outside the Large Fellowship Hall at the following times. If you reserve a ticket online (ststephensRVA.org/bellnewell), you may pick it up at any of these times.

• Sunday, October 23, 6:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.• Wednesday, October 26, 5:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.• Sunday, October 30, 11:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.• Sunday, November 6, 11:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.• Sunday, November 6, 6:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.• Wednesday, November 9, 5:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.• Sunday, November 13, 11:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.

Heidi and Monica are comingOur missionaries in Argentina, Heidi Schmidt and Monica Vega, will arrive tomorrow for a visit; they will be here until November 2. Look for them at Sunday services, Wonderful Wednesdays and other events.

CALENDAR MORE AT STSTEPHENSRVA.ORG/CALENDAR

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 23–PENTECOST 23Holy Eucharist: Rite One, 8 a.m.Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, in Palmer Hall and main church, 9 a.m.*Sunday school, Forum (outreach presentation), parent group, Bible study, 10:10 a.m.*

Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, 11:15 a.m.*, followed by receptionCeltic Service, 5:30 p.m.*Sunday Community Supper, 6:30 p.m.Compline, 8 p.m. MONDAY, OCTOBER 24Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followFruit Ministry, 9 a.m.Chair Yoga, 11 a.m.Food pantry distribution, 1-3 p.m.Evensong, 5:30 p.m.Guided meditation, 6 p.m.Jail chaplains information/orientation session, 6:30 p.m.Immortal Diamond book group, 7 p.m.TUESDAY, OCTOBER 25Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followContemplative Prayer, 8:45 a.m.Guided meditation, noonEvensong, 5:30 p.m.Just Mercy series, 7 p.m. WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 26Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followVery Gentle Yoga, 9:30 a.m.; Beginner Flow Yoga, 9:30 a.m.Chair Yoga, 11 a.m.Evensong, 5:30 p.m. with the Virginia Girls ChoirWonderful Wednesdays supper, 5:45-6:30 p.m.THURSDAY, OCTOBER 27Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followYoga for the Heart, 9 a.m.Bible Study, 10:30 a.m.Evensong, 5:30 p.m.Chi Kung, 6 p.m.FRIDAY, OCTOBER 28Morning Prayer and Communion, 8:10 a.m., coffee, fellowship followStitchers groups, 9 a.m. Evensong, 5:30 p.m.SATURDAY, OCTOBER 29Paul Wallace: Two Books, One World, 9 a.m.-noonFarmers Market, 9 a.m.-noonHoly Eucharist: Rite Two, 5:30 p.m. in Palmer HallSUNDAY, OCTOBER 30–PENTECOST 24 Pledges dueHoly Eucharist: Rite One, 8 a.m.Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, in Palmer Hall and main church, 9 a.m.*Sunday school, Forum (Paul Wallace), parent group, Bible study, 10:10 a.m.*

Holy Eucharist: Rite Two, 11:15 a.m.*, followed by receptionCeltic Service, 5:30 p.m.*Sunday Community Supper, 6:30 p.m.Compline, 8 p.m. *denotes child care available up to age 5

SAINT STEPHEN’S EPISCOPAL CHURCH

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ITSt. Stephen’s Episcopal Church6000 Grove AvenueRichmond, Virginia 23226www.ststephensRVA.org

OCTOBER 23, 2016TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY AFTER PENTECOST

A weekly meditationI was reared a Baptist in Danville, where L.D. Johnson was my pastor for the fi rst 16 years of my life. He was different from the image many have of Baptist pastors. In 1954 when so many clergy of all stripes were using scripture to justify racial segregation, the Thanksgiving service at First Baptist Church was integrated, not without controversy. He loved playing cards, dancing, a good joke and on occasion, a glass of wine. Eventually he left to teach in the Department of Religion at the University of Richmond, then returned to the pulpit in Greenville, S.C., and later still became chaplain at Furman University. He loved young people and I know he loved me. One rather hot and humid summer evening after enjoying homemade ice cream at my house, he pointedly asked me, “How many coats do you have?” I don’t remember my answer—probably something an all-knowing 16-year-old would say—but his next question was the zinger: “How can you have more than one coat when your neighbor has none?” He quickly added, “Don’t answer; just think about it today, tomorrow, the rest of your life.”I have done that, and somewhere along the twists and turns of my faith journey I came to understand his question had nothing to do with the number of coats in my closet. It had everything to do with my resources and how to use them to do the work God has asked me to do.Every Sunday at St. Stephen’s and throughout the week we experience spiritual nourishment that informs us about how to live our lives as God has asked us to do—at home, at our work, or when we play. It’s where our children are introduced to the mysteries of faith. St. Stephen’s keeps us focused on God’s invitation to be part of his kingdom, and helps us avoid unthinking complacency about our lives and the world around us. Each of us is so important to St. Stephen’s. Together, we are the mosaic that makes this such a vibrant community of faith, one that touches lives in Richmond and beyond. St. Stephen’s is a beacon of hope to so many: the faithful, the unfaithful, the loved, the unloved, and those who live on the margins of life.Come back with me to the coats in my closet. Now is a critical time for St. Stephen’s. In making your pledge, you are invited to take a renewed, thoughtful assessment of your resources, be they great or small. Then give those resources the priority against other demands that will permit St. Stephen’s to respond to God’s invitation to do together important things with our lives as an offering to him. We are stewards of his kingdom.

JOHN BARR

From the far reaches of the cosmos to the human heartSATURDAY, OCTOBER 29, 9 A.M.-NOON

If this sentence were the history of the universe, human beings would arrive on the very far side of the period. So why is the Bible all about us? Beginning with this question, Paul Wallace, pastor and physicist, guides listeners on an awesome journey, from the far reaches of the cosmos to the center of the human heart. Drawing heavily from the Book of Job and Carl Sagan, Wallace questions our assumptions about God and traces Job’s journey from an “obsolete God” or “God-concept” to the Living God, beyond ideas.Paul Wallace holds a PhD in experimental nuclear physics from Duke and an MDiv from Candler School of Theology. He is the author of Stars Beneath Us: Finding God in the Evolving Cosmos and is a professor of both physics and theology. He is coming to St. Stephen’s after family ministries staff members Michael Sweeney and Sarah-Keel Crews heard him speak at a conference in Dallas and found his message so compelling that they asked Gary Jones to invite him. Come fi nd out why!The suggested donation for his talk is $25; you may register at ststephensRVA.org/wallace. His book is available in our bookshop.

INSIDE Today’s Forum // 2

Become a pledging member: please return your pledge card by October 30 // 2

Rob Bell and John Philip Newell to speak here next month // 3Advent Quiet Day offered // 4Canvasses for kneeling cushions blessed today // 4

We’re glad you’re here!Are you at St. Stephen’s for the fi rst time? We’re so happy you’re here. Please stop by the Welcome Table outside the Fellowship Hall for a gift.

Advent Quiet Day: ‘How can this be?’SATURDAY, DECEMBER 3, 9 A.M.-NOON

Mary’s question to Gabriel—“how can this be?”—seems the question of a lifetime for each of us. St. Stephen’s will offer a guided retreat for quiet refl ection, private writing, and a prayerful invitation to consider not only that which awaits us, but also all that already is. Sometimes it is in solitude and silence that we gain clarity or that truth is revealed. And yet it is often in the company of others that we feel confi rmed, comforted, and inspired. This retreat will be equal parts inward contemplation and outward exploration. Designed for seasoned writers and those who have never put pen to page, this is a day—in the spirit of Mary’s fear and fearlessness—for patience and possibility, for interiority and expression. Read more about this offering by Allison Seay, associate for religion and the arts, at ststephensRVA.org/adventretreat.

‘Immortal Diamond’ book group offeredMONDAYS, 7-8:30 P.M., THROUGH NOVEMBER 14

All of us wonder at times, if others knew me the way I know my-self, would they still love me? What does God see when God gazes on me? These are questions that noted Franciscan author and spiri-tual guide Richard Rohr explores in his book, Immortal Diamond. Rohr refl ects on our essential goodness and how our egos interfere with our awareness of God, one another, and our own self-under-standing. Join Claudia Merritt for this discussion group. Sign up at ststephensRVA.org/groups.

Opportunities to help in the East EndWould you like to be part of the success story of our East End mis-sion partners? Students are thriving at the Anna Julia Cooper Epis-copal School and Peter Paul Development Center. Fairfi eld Court Elementary School is fully accredited again this year. There are vari-ous roles for volunteers with all three partners. Peter Paul also has a new weeknight tutoring opportunity available. Information: Deb Lawrence, dlawrence@ststephensRVA.org or 804.288.2867.

Writing a refl ection for Advent or The SpiritEach week in this newsletter, we publish a refl ection from a parishioner or staff member who writes about the spiritual in everyday life. Would you like to write a refl ection for The Spirit? Please send an email to Sarah Bartenstein, director of communications, sbartenstein@ststephensRVA.org, to request submission guidelines. In addition, during the Advent season, St. Stephen’s distributes daily meditations by email to any who wish to subscribe. If you would like to write an Advent refl ection, please ask Sarah for those guidelines as well. The deadline for submission of Advent meditations is November 10.

‘I was hungry and you gave me something to eat’Bringing a can or box of food to church each Sunday, along with your monetary offering, is a weekly practice we encourage. Your contributions to our food pantry help us respond to the large number of people coming to us for groceries each Monday.

IN HONOR OF ANNE W. BUFORD AND IN MEMORY OF ROBERT P. BUFORDCanvas given by Bliss Buford Abbot and Peyton Buford Valentine

Stitched by Peyton Valentine IN HONOR OF THOMAS, BRADLEY AND JEFFREY COXCanvas given by Penny NashStitched by Victoria GloverIN MEMORY OF JAMES L. DOHERTYCanvas given by Wednesday Morning Fellowship Group

Stitched by Jane SettleIN MEMORY OF THE REV. DR. D. RABY EDWARDSCanvas given by the Ayers Family

Stitched by Sally AyersIN HONOR OF GARLAND STONE FLIPPEN Canvas given by Elizabeth Conner Flippen

Stitched by Meade WilliamsIN HONOR OF RICHARD M. HAMRICK III AND RICHARD M. HAMRICK IVCanvas given and stitched by Bonny Hamrick

IN HONOR OF MALCOLM H. HINESCanvas given by Joan M. HinesStitched by Helen SarrettIN MEMORY OF ANN HOVERCanvas given and stitched by Jane Settle

IN HONOR OF RILEY, ADDISON AND CARSON PETERSCanvas given and stitched by Sandra Hart

IN HONOR OF JOHN PHILLIPSCanvas given by the Needlepoint Guild

Stitched by Jessica TongelIN HONOR OF OUR GRANDCHILDRENCanvas given by Donna and Seldon Tompkins

Stitched by Donna TompkinsIN MEMORY OF MADELYN TRICECanvas given and stitched by Sally Trice Lester

IN MEMORY OF JANE AND HUGHES WARECanvas given and stitched by Martha W. Curry

IN HONOR OF NIU MENG XUE ‘ZOE’Canvas given by Dixon and Kate Roy Christian

Stitched by Zoe Xue

Needlepoint canvasses being blessed todayToday during the 11:15 a.m. service, we will bless the most recently completed batch of needlepoint canvasses before they are sent off to be blocked and attached to kneeling cushions for the cathedral chairs in the Chapel of the Holy Spirit. Here are the people being honored or remembered with these gifts, as well as the needlepointers who stitched each canvas.