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Lori D. Wood, LPC

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Adolescent Brain Development

TRAUMA

Youth Developmental Phases

Crisis Response Cycles

Adverse Childhood Experiences*

Resiliency factors*

Nature vs. Nurture

See MOVIE: Three Identical Strangers

Suicidality

LQBTQ community awareness

Mental Status

Psychopathy

Diagnosis & symptoms

Clinical states

Risk Assessments

Substance use disorders

Latest research

Mental health trends

Community Resources

Brain States

Review Youth in crisis

Learn some skills

Imagine your best strengths and what you bring in those moments

Realize the system from a youth’s perspective

Plan for best next steps

Suicidal

Psychotic

Aggressive

Anxious

Upset and potentially volatile

Cutting/burning/self-harming

Traumatized and reactive

Struggling with life; themselves/parents/school/others

Imagine yourself as a youth….

Imagine who helped and how they did that….

Imagine the last youth crisis call you were a part of….

Imagine what you wish would have been different….

What’d you learn from that....

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The threat arousal alarm system activates a predictable response pattern:

* Alarm* Resistance* Exhaustion

Understanding the energy cycle helps explain behavior as “communication” not mal-intent.

Adapted from Hans Selye.

Limbic:

emotion/connection

Prefrontal:

executive function/

learning

Adapted from triune brain model by Paul D. MacLean, 1952

Behavior is communicating lack of safety and connection

Brainstem:

survival/safety

Initial phase was 1995-1997

One of the largest investigations ever conducted to assess the associations between childhood maltreatment and later life health and well-being.

Over 17,000 participants

Medical status of baseline participants was tracked over time.

Significant findings..

-Asking for help

-DEVELOPING TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS

-Forming a positive attitude

-Listening to feelings

-Feeling capable and competent

--- all these help people improve their lives

Structure

Consequences

Parent-Child Connections

Lots and lots of strong relationships

A powerful identity

A sense of control

A sense of belonging/culture/spirituality/life-purpose

Rights and responsibilities

Safety and support

Michael Unger, 2011 www.michaelunger.com

Structure

Consequences

Parent-Child Connections

Lots and lots of strong relationships

A powerful identity

A sense of control

A sense of belonging/culture/spirituality/life-purpose

Rights and responsibilities

Safety and support

Positive Thinking

Financial and Physical well-being

Michael Unger, 2011 www.michaelunger.com

The Individual Experience

© Rick Griffin, 2018

Individuation vs. Connectedness quandary

“I don’t know what I am doing here….

But I do know……”

F= Flexible

A=Adaptive

C=Coherent

E=Energized

S= Stable

Chaos

Rigidity

Keep your cool

http://www.cachy.net/resources

https://www.sparchope.org/

http://vacitcoalition.org/resources

http://vcoy.virginia.gov/index.asp

https://www.samhsa.gov/

https://www.nami.org/

No Drama Discipline Dan Siegel

Mindsight- Dan S.

The Whole Brain Child- Dan S.

Get Out of My Life, but first could you Drive me and Cheryl to the Mall? –Anthony Wolf

Yes, Your teen is Crazy!- Loving your Kid Without Losing Your Mind- Michael Bradley

I still Love you- Michael Unger

Connections….

What color is each from Miguel’s perspective?

What color are you?

Do I recognize the state and the need?

Am I responding with the appropriate strategy?

Brain Train

Lori Wood

Lori.Wood@regionten.org

434-989-2118

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