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Lori D. Wood, LPC

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Page 1: Lori D. Wood, LPC · Yes, Your teen is Crazy!- Loving your Kid Without Losing Your Mind- Michael Bradley

Lori D. Wood, LPC

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIIDqNSxlbs&list=PLo760GDnmn-Xt30lQHyUeM7vgFIIxNN4Z&index=1

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Adolescent Brain Development

TRAUMA

Youth Developmental Phases

Crisis Response Cycles

Adverse Childhood Experiences*

Resiliency factors*

Nature vs. Nurture

See MOVIE: Three Identical Strangers

Suicidality

LQBTQ community awareness

Mental Status

Psychopathy

Diagnosis & symptoms

Clinical states

Risk Assessments

Substance use disorders

Latest research

Mental health trends

Community Resources

Brain States

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Review Youth in crisis

Learn some skills

Imagine your best strengths and what you bring in those moments

Realize the system from a youth’s perspective

Plan for best next steps

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Suicidal

Psychotic

Aggressive

Anxious

Upset and potentially volatile

Cutting/burning/self-harming

Traumatized and reactive

Struggling with life; themselves/parents/school/others

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Imagine yourself as a youth….

Imagine who helped and how they did that….

Imagine the last youth crisis call you were a part of….

Imagine what you wish would have been different….

What’d you learn from that....

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-

WWe9uXn9mI&list=PLo760GDnmn-

Xt30lQHyUeM7vgFIIxNN4Z&index=6

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The threat arousal alarm system activates a predictable response pattern:

* Alarm* Resistance* Exhaustion

Understanding the energy cycle helps explain behavior as “communication” not mal-intent.

Adapted from Hans Selye.

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Limbic:

emotion/connection

Prefrontal:

executive function/

learning

Adapted from triune brain model by Paul D. MacLean, 1952

Behavior is communicating lack of safety and connection

Brainstem:

survival/safety

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Initial phase was 1995-1997

One of the largest investigations ever conducted to assess the associations between childhood maltreatment and later life health and well-being.

Over 17,000 participants

Medical status of baseline participants was tracked over time.

Significant findings..

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-Asking for help

-DEVELOPING TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS

-Forming a positive attitude

-Listening to feelings

-Feeling capable and competent

--- all these help people improve their lives

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Structure

Consequences

Parent-Child Connections

Lots and lots of strong relationships

A powerful identity

A sense of control

A sense of belonging/culture/spirituality/life-purpose

Rights and responsibilities

Safety and support

Michael Unger, 2011 www.michaelunger.com

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Structure

Consequences

Parent-Child Connections

Lots and lots of strong relationships

A powerful identity

A sense of control

A sense of belonging/culture/spirituality/life-purpose

Rights and responsibilities

Safety and support

Positive Thinking

Financial and Physical well-being

Michael Unger, 2011 www.michaelunger.com

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The Individual Experience

© Rick Griffin, 2018

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Individuation vs. Connectedness quandary

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“I don’t know what I am doing here….

But I do know……”

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F= Flexible

A=Adaptive

C=Coherent

E=Energized

S= Stable

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Chaos

Rigidity

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Keep your cool

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http://www.cachy.net/resources

https://www.sparchope.org/

http://vacitcoalition.org/resources

http://vcoy.virginia.gov/index.asp

https://www.samhsa.gov/

https://www.nami.org/

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No Drama Discipline Dan Siegel

Mindsight- Dan S.

The Whole Brain Child- Dan S.

Get Out of My Life, but first could you Drive me and Cheryl to the Mall? –Anthony Wolf

Yes, Your teen is Crazy!- Loving your Kid Without Losing Your Mind- Michael Bradley

I still Love you- Michael Unger

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Connections….

What color is each from Miguel’s perspective?

What color are you?

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Do I recognize the state and the need?

Am I responding with the appropriate strategy?

Brain Train

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Lori Wood

[email protected]

434-989-2118