COLLEGE READINESS FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY Ready, Set, College

COLLEGE READINESS FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY

Ready, Set, College

Objectives

Preparing for emotionsBalancing independence and guidanceLife skill buildingHealth and wellness practicesCommunication managementHonoring new relationships

Emotions of Parents

Sadness at separation from childLoss of “parent” identity, friends from child’s

activitiesGuilt over enjoying life at home without childRe-connecting with spouse and selfFinancial stressChanging dynamics with children still at

homeParental competition

Emotions of Students

Sadness - homesicknessFeeling left out of home lifeInformation/decision overloadSocial insecurityAcademic insecurityOverwhelmed Ambivalence, anxiety and depression

Guidance and Independence

DeansReportsResourcing and taking chargeFirst year/academic advisorsResident advisorsUpper classmen and peersDisciplinary committees

Life Skills

LaundryHousekeeping Getting aroundBanking Money management

Organization

Everything takes more time than expected168 hours in a weekDo the math, then scheduleAgendas, digital aids and filingDealing with the unexpectedCollege resources

Communications

EtiquetteDeadline managementRegistrationBursarSocial networksFamily expectations/realities

Health and Wellness

FitnessNutritionViruses and infectionsDentalEmergency care optionsSex, drugs and alcohol

Relationships

FamilyHome friendsNew friendsTA’s, RA’s, Professors and DeansRomances

Remember

Your child has much to teach you!