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COLLEGE READINESS FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY
Ready, Set, College
Objectives
Preparing for emotionsBalancing independence and guidanceLife skill buildingHealth and wellness practicesCommunication managementHonoring new relationships
Emotions of Parents
Sadness at separation from childLoss of “parent” identity, friends from child’s
activitiesGuilt over enjoying life at home without childRe-connecting with spouse and selfFinancial stressChanging dynamics with children still at
homeParental competition
Emotions of Students
Sadness - homesicknessFeeling left out of home lifeInformation/decision overloadSocial insecurityAcademic insecurityOverwhelmed Ambivalence, anxiety and depression
Guidance and Independence
DeansReportsResourcing and taking chargeFirst year/academic advisorsResident advisorsUpper classmen and peersDisciplinary committees
Life Skills
LaundryHousekeeping Getting aroundBanking Money management
Organization
Everything takes more time than expected168 hours in a weekDo the math, then scheduleAgendas, digital aids and filingDealing with the unexpectedCollege resources
Communications
EtiquetteDeadline managementRegistrationBursarSocial networksFamily expectations/realities
Health and Wellness
FitnessNutritionViruses and infectionsDentalEmergency care optionsSex, drugs and alcohol
Relationships
FamilyHome friendsNew friendsTA’s, RA’s, Professors and DeansRomances
Remember
Your child has much to teach you!