Stand Up For These Things, Before You Get Married

Every man has two options: either to get married or to stay single. Before you think about your marriage plans, as an Indian man, you should stand up to these things.

Dowry:

The groom’s parents put forth their demands in a subtle way. Hints will be dropped to the bride’s parents regarding dowry during their conversation. You have to stand against it.

Share the marriage expenses:

It is so deeply rooted in the Indian culture that all the marriage expenses should be borne by the bride’s parents. After dowry, this is the social evil in Indian marriages, which has to be stopped. Step forward to share the marriage expenses.

Don’t try to live up to people’s expectations:

Before you start you go in search for beautiful Punjabi brides, have a look at your bank accounts. A lot of young men In India go bankrupt after their marriages.

Don’t force your wife to lose her identity:

Just because she gets married, you can’t force her to change her name. She can well be a part of your family without even changing her name. She might have had a lot of emotions attached with her name.

Allow your wife spend enough time with her parents:

You girl gets prepared to leave her family to spent the rest of her life with you. However, it’s not as easy as it sounds. It becomes your responsibility to make your wife to spend some time with her parents, whenever she wants to.

Share the household responsibility:

Know that the household work is the equal responsibility of the both husband and wife. Extend your support to your wife in cooking and cleaning works. These things will only make you a better man.

Remember, having kids is not the sole purpose of the marriage:

Never ever get married to just have children. At any stage, if your wife doesn’t feel like having kids, respect her choice. Know that she has every right over her choices.

Your wife isn’t a replacement for your mother:

Many men feel that wife is a replacement for mother. She mayn’t be good at cooking or at other household things. Being a homemaker or not is the choice of your wife. Help your wife to grow in her career.

Husband is the only man who can make this world a better place for the wife to live. These resolutions can definitely help you in this context.