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How to teach children values
Values
The unwritten concepts of good and bad, right and wrong
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Moral development
Process of adaptation and internalization
of rules
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Moral Development Theories
• Freud Oedipus and Electra complex
• Skinner + Bandura Social learning by rewards and punishment
• Kohlberg Cognitive Development Approach
(3 stages)
What is important to you isn’t necessarily to
others...
• Cultural differences• Differences between groups of friends, families etc
Five important valueschildren should learn
• Love• Determination• Truthfulness• Honesty• Consideration
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Honesty
• Your child takes his cues from you, so it's important to avoid any kind of deception
Let your child hear you being truthful with other adults
Justice
Saying "I'm sorry" is pretty easy for a child
help him think of a way to compensate.
Lovebe generous with your affection
Let your child see you demonstrate your love and affection for the people in your life. Kiss and hug your spouse
when the kids are around
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Determination
Congratulate kids when they manage to do things that are difficult for them
The child who hears "Good for you, I know that was really tough!" is bolstered by the recognition and becomes even more determined to keep trying
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Consideration
when a child is kind to someone else, that person is
nice to her. This encourages other genuine
acts of consideration
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How to teach children values according to leading psychologists and parenting
sites
• Set the right example• Talk to them about values• Ask questions that will stimulate dialogue about
values how would you feel if ...? • Help children building a strong self esteem. Give them love, attention, support
• Watch tv programs that broadcast values you support
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