The Relationship Issue

Presenters : Doreen, Sofea, Angely & Cynthia

Obstacles In Relationship

Modern Families• Parents are always busy at work,

they spend less quality family time at

home.

• When childrens are lack of care,

attention and love from parents, it

may affect the child’s emotion and

also the family bond / relationship

between family members

Teen Love • Most parents will oppose their teen

child’s love relationship• For parents these days, teen love is

unimportant (puppy love)• They rather stressed on education in

order to get a good ‘life partner’ in future

• Teenagers indulge themselves in a relationship for sexual satisfaction/ money/ fame /fun (recreational dating) – therefore never experience true love between a man and a woman

Friendship • People change. Childhood friends

usually don’t last forever

• Mantaining a friendship is tough

especially when tension, conflicts and

dilemma occurs in a friendship –

what’s worst is when a person can’t

handle the situation

• Nowadays, honest and real friends

are hard to find – fake friendship /

become friends for benefits

Teacher – Student Relationship• Dealing with problematic students, -

patient is needed

• Teachers failed to understand

students – emotion, educational or

personal problems affected a

student’s behavior

• Lack of proper interaction between

both sides – shy , bullied, depressed ,

disable students interact less in class

Ways To Build Relationship

Learn To Listen And Understand • Family, friends or partner

• When you listen attentively, they will

feel more comfortable and glad that

we care

• Focus on what’s being said and do

your best to understand the

problem(s)

• Then, you can give some good

advices – might be helpful

Honesty Is The Best Policy• Don’t hide / fake your true self or

personality – people can accept the

way you are , so don’t worry

• Honesty is very important in order to

form a strong bond (family, friends,

team mate, teachers, anybody)

• Never let people lose trust in you ,

therefore, don’t cheat! (But in

gaming, there’s no harm to cheat)

Love Others Like You Love Yourself• Hug or *kiss* usually a way to

express or symbolize love

• From the angle of couples/ life

partner, sincere love is the key to

maintain a lifelong relationship

• Teachers - love your students (and

also your job)

• Love your friends - support each

other, never leave your friends

behind, guide them when they’re lost

Trust, an Important Element• If you do not trust others, others also

cannot trust you.

• Trust – you are not afraid to be hurt,

but afraid to hurt people around you.

Means, you are sincere to be in a

relationship/friendship with someone

• If you’re always afraid to trust, means

you’re always worried. You might

think negatively about what others

are doing and saying when you are

not around.

Signs Of Strong Relationship

Between Teachers & Students• Quality and good communication /

interaction between both sides

• Teacher – shows and teaches the

value of respect in classroom, and

shows interest in teaching

• Establish a positive relationship in a

classroom, between students

• Strong cooperation and participation

in learning activity

Between Members Of A Family• Care and love each other – fair and

square• Showed or can be expressed through

words, deeds, and actions.• Parents spend quality time with

children - talking and listening to their children’s problem and understand what their children is feeling behind the words. Help in solving their problems , give support.

• Appreciate family members – gather in a birthday celebration

Importance Of Relationship

Achieving Joy & Happiness In Life• A happy and joyful life is more

meaningful

• Positive relationships - live life

happily ,happy people create more

positive relationships.

• Healthy in the aspects of mental and

physical health, increase longevity.

• Achieve life satisfaction

Source Of Strength • Our relationships (any type of relationship)

become our source of strength in tough

times.

• Our loved ones fill us with the feeling of

courage and hope.

• And in good times these people share our

happiness and joy and make our life more

beautiful.

• Able to be heard - release stress, feeling

better. Glad that we have a place to

express our sadness and a shoulder to cry

on

Sharing Experiences • Most of the time we share our

experiences (bad or good) with

family and friends.

• “sharing is caring” – shows our

appreciation to other s

• Sharing experiences can improve our

life knowledge and at the same

time , can feel the beauty of a good

relationship

• Through sharing, meaningful

experiences become firmly cemented

in our memory bank.

Financial Success • Whatever profession or career you

choose will always require healthy

relationships with your colleagues or

coworkers for a good working

environment

• If you are in business sector, you

need to have a healthy relationship

with your clients or you won’t get any

further

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