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2. VOLUME 9 | MAY 2010 th er h y th mo f your this monthcity hello Abu Dhabi !! Harry Connick Jr is one of those quintessential crooners who4 Your Say has his own definitive style and doesnt fit neatly into a specific 5 ShopCall genre. Im tempted to go not just because I love his cool jazzy 5 Shop Call numbers, but to find out what kind of crowd mix he would draw in the wonderful mix of nationalities we have here.6 Whats Hot in Abu DhabiIt is public events such as this (and think Womad here as an8 My Abu Dhabi example), that you see the vibrant kaleidoscope of races that is Abu Dhabi. You get people from all walks of life, and every 10 City Bytes corners of the globe, living and working together--and getting the opportunity to learn about each other. I think thats what 12 People Meter & Meet your Neighbour makes Abu Dhabi fun like London and New York; its about people getting out of their own cultural comfort zones to meet.13 Making a Difference If that isnt cool, I dont know what is.14 Handy Helper Respect and kindness,15 Workitude 16 Alive & KickingMedia Licence No. 1/105866/24295Editor: Sana Bagersh, Editorial Coordinator: Kulsoom Zakir, 17 Beat with AichMagazine Designer: Praveen Prabhakaran, Website Designer: Rizwan Pervaiz,Marketing Coordinator: Manjul Abhishek, Ahmad Al-Dajani and VenitaSubramanian, Production Coordinator : Joel Flores, Editorial Contributors: Aicha18 My Style BlueprintDiop, Samantha Davis, Randy Parker and Alma Kadragic.19 Trendsetter Disclaimer: Tempo is a publication of BrandMoxie. Although Tempo Magazine does its best to ensure20 On the Beaten Path & Arablish the authenticity and accuracy of its contents, the publisher cannot accept any responsibility for errors, mistakes and inaccuracies. The publisher reserves the rights of this product and no part of this publication may be reproduced in any form or by any means without the 21 Funny thing about Life permission of the publisher. 22 Culture Talk Address: To reach editorial at Abu Dhabi Tempo email: editorial@abudhabitempo.com To reach advertising call 02 6673349 or email: advertising@abudhabitempo.com 23 25 Ask Um Saif & A Yank in Sand Land If you need to find out where you can pick up your copy call: 02 6673349 or check out the list of Tempo distribution points on our website. 24 Lifecoach25 Home SmartJoin Us @ 26 ClassifiedsThis is Abu Dhabi Tempos27 Tempo Fun Page youtube channel. Watch out for regular video updates! Published by:Please recycle this magazine: locations include Spinneys, Al Mamoura Building and behind Riyada Clinic. 3. yoursay SHOPCALL Hi Ed, all consumer societies. Can not having a car be the eco-carstatement? Tricky stuff! Good luck, hope this helps. Just a quick comment about the eco vote (page 11 volume 7). I may be mistaken but 100% degradable bags are possiblyJohn Fuller worse than normal bags because they degrade into tiny pieces of plastic (difficult to clean up); they are not organic. Therefore will not become a useful part of any natural cycle Dear Ed, (while paper can decompose to become part of the food forI picked up your April issue last night for the first time. I have trees). Its difficult to find real examples of eco because its a comments about Abu Dhabi tempos On the Beaten Path. different concept - like in medicine, prevention is a differentI was having a late night bite when reading the piece, and concept than cure. If we apply that concept, no plastic is all this talk about bad breath really put me off my meal. Its better than 100% degradable or even an organic bag - its just simply not pleasant. I applaud the fact that Abu Dhabi Tempo Accessorize way better not to make it. If the question is what do we use? -is out there competing with other bigger publications. But exactly! What do we use?!when I pick up something to read, I dont want to read aboutwhat other people hate. I dont care. Especially if its half a with Vincci This could be the first step away from consumption and towards conservation by merely challenging ourselves.page on bad breath. I wish Abu Dhabi Tempo the best. Applying this level of thinking is the difficult challenge forAmeeraVinccis recently launched store in Abu Dhabi Mall is all that ladies seemRaising the Bar to be talking about! Offering stylish shoes, bags and accessories that are high on the luxe and style, it seems Vincci has discovered its niche inattempt to break the previous Guinness World Record of accessorizing the trendy and fashion savvy female residents of our capital298 kg for the most plastic bottles collected for recycling city with their affordable, yet classy collection of shoes and handbags. Theyin eight hours, students from the Zayed Universitycollected 394 kg of plastic waste. only produce a few pieces per design so if you like something, grab it quick!tyre Safety: Last month the Department of Traffic and Their fabrics are durable and soft to touch, unlike some rexine nightmaresPatrols at Abu Dhabi Police, held a three-day trafficStudent Council President Mariam Omran Al Hallamiwe have seen in other stores lately. This only goes to show that being ancampaign to ensure motorists were using safe tyres insaid: After the success of our attempt we are sending envied fashionista can be achieved within your financial budget sometimes.Abu Dhabi and Al Ain. First Lieutenant Hamdan Hassanthe collected bottles for recycling and are currentlyYou only need to choose wisely - in addition to waiting for bargain sales ofDhaiban, of Information and Public Relations Section atwaiting for the announcement of our accomplishment course!the department, said the campaign was aimed at raisingin breaking the previous record from the Guinness Worldawareness among motorists about dangers, ensuingRecords committee .from using worn out and invalid tyres. nikeAerospace training 20 uAe nationals: In the monthof April, Mubadala Aerospace, a business unit of theMubadala Development Company, has partnered withthe Institute of Applied Technology (IAT) to provide UAENationals with specialist training programmes to developthem for a career in Abu Dhabis growing aerospaceindustry. The first batch of students have commenced is in towntheir training at the Al-Ain International Aviation More than a hundred sq metres of NikeAcademy (AAIAA). some have called it a haven for sportsWe are delighted to welcome our first group of students enthusiasts. Located in Abu Dhabi Mall,to a career in aerospace, said Homaid Al Shemmari,this little piece of sports heaven is the firstExecutive Director of Mubadala Aerospace. Through our Nike outlet in Abu Dhabi bringing thepartnership with IAT, we are committed to developing a total number of Nike stores in UAE to 5.highly skilled UAE National workforce that will lead the Need new sportswear from their Air Maxgrowth of a world class aerospace industry here in Abu collection? Now to know where to lookDhabi. It is one of the most exciting career opportunities for it. NikeiD is another concept by thein the UAE and we encourage all UAE Nationals to footwear giant which has caught the fancyconsider a future in this field.of the common outdoorsy man. You cangram sparks curiosity in choose your signature colours, design andbreaking World records: You just cant contain the The Young Archaeologist Pro children as they are tau ght to use field tools.style online and in four weeks, voila! You willenergy and imagination of young minds today. In an have your our very own customized pair of Nikes. Uber cool!4 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com5 4. What'sn Abu t oNly yoU iHoDhabiMMA Weight Divisions Bantamweight 125 to 135 lbs (56.7 Featherweight 135 to 145 lbs (61.2 Lightweightto 61.2 kg)to 65.8 kg) hArry! abu Dhabi 145 to 155 lbs (65.8 to 70.3 kg) Welterweightharry Connick Jr. live in concert: 16 may, ADneC fighting 155 to 170 lbs (70.3 to 77.1 kg)Born Joseph Harry Fowler Connick, Jr., Harry is a Grammy and Emmy winning performer Middleweight accustomed to wearing many hats. An accomplished actor, singer, theatre performer, 170 to 185 lbs (77.1 to 83.9 kg) Championship Light Heavyweightcomposer, pianist and jazz musician, he can easily be mistaken for King Midas. As 185 to 205 lbs (83.9 to 93.0 kg)an artists who has earned more number-one albums than any other Heavyweight in the history of US jazz, Harry Connick Jr. is also one of the 14 May, abu Dhabi Hall, aDnEC 205 to 265 lbs (93.0 to 120.2 kg)top 60 best-selling male artists in the United States by the The official ADFC weigh-in will take place atRecording Industry Association of America, with 16 million After witnessing the action-packed UFC event, Abu Marina Mall on May 13. Dont miss the chance certified albums. Well, with seven top-20 U.S. albums and Dhabi has got a taste of martial arts fights and guess to see champion fighters like Jeff Monson, Johan ten number-one U.S. jazz albums, we reckon he should what? We want more! Abu Dhabi Fighting Championship Romming, Sergei Kharitonov, Przemylaw Mysiala, is the emirates very first open-weight Mixed Martial Arts be! This jazz idol who has sold 25 million records Marcos Oliveira, Neil Wein, Marcio Cruz and Grand Prix. Think of it as a combination of lightening fastworldwide, is currently promoting his newest album Shamil Abdurahimov up-close! speeds and deadly moves, which will be demonstrated Your Songs which is a compilation of 14 classic by 8 renowned international super-star fighters. Clashing in the open-weight Battle of the Champions, this popular songs. The album is a collaboration with a televised event will decide which fighter deserves therecord company producer, the multiple Grammy One Million Dirham grand prize. The championship willaward winning music executive Clive Davis. Doors take place over three events, the first of which is on 14thopen at 6:30 pm and the concert will begin at of this month.8:30 pm. See you there! ADFC will also serve as a platform for 12 local fighters to exhibit their skills and talent and to propel them into the international spotlight through side-fights where theylisten will be pitched against international fighters. This will test their discipline, skill, agility and most importantly, mental strength since Mixed Martial Arts is a hybrid sport allowing the participation of all martial arts and hand- 14 May, to-hand combat styles such as Jiu Jitsu, Judo, Karate, Abu Dhabi theatre Boxing, Kickboxing, Wrestling, Kung fu, Take Kwon Do, and Muay Thai. Check out some of the demo videos on their website www.abudhabifc.com Abu Dhabi ClassicsBest of British Gala continues to entertainas this month will see - or rather listen - to the music15 May, Emirates Palace Auditorium of Evelyn Glennie, who is the first person in musical history toAbu Dhabi will be regaled by the music successfully create and sustain a full- of Londons BBC Concert Orchestra in a time career as a solo percussionist. Hertraditional evening of stirring and beautifulirrepressible, contagious energy and classics from the British Isles including Elgars famous Pomp and Circumstance enthusiasm make her one of the most March (Land of Hope and Glory) as well as colourful and innovative musiciansRule, Britannia! The evening will recreate theon the scene today. Abu Dhabiunique atmosphere of this thrilling BBC eventyou will be sorry if you miss this at Londons vast Royal Albert Hall which is event! This exciting concert is broadcast to millions of music lovers all over guaranteed to divert, entertain the world. and to teach us how to listen.6 Tempo May 2010www.abudhabitempo.com7 5. MyABU DHABI i left my heart in abu Dhab i... making it was indeed a memorable one, which is why I keep telling people that I have left my heart in Abu Dhabi with his portrait.t: how does it feel to be the preferred artist of many portrait of Late Sheikh Zayed though is one piece I did fall in love with. Normally, when I travel I carry my art materials with me brushes, canvas etc. They inspire me, keep me rooted to my work, and anchor me to this world. When I left I Abu Dhabi, I left them here so that one day I shall go influential and elite personalities all around the world? back for them. u: I am touched by their regard for my work and I am also very honoured to meet people who have made their mark t: you have been involved with many humanitarianas creating your own artwork. It is a big step to leave ain the world. To tell you the truth though, I dont feel that causes across the globe; tell us about why these causessecure line of work and more so because people are not they are so different than the people we meet everyday. are so close to your heart?aware of the changes they will need to make for it to work.Each person is unique in their own way, famous or not.u: I feel that if my paintings can assist a child in relievingRegardless, I gave it my all and even though my decision some of his pain or bring hope into someones life thenwas very spontaneous, it paid off. t: Which was the most difficult piece for you toit is a worthy cause to support. I have been involved with complete and why? many projects where we try to fulfill the dying wish oft: Were your family and friends supportive of your u: My parents passed away when I was very young. Losing terminally ill patients including kids with life-threateningchoice to shift careers? them this early in life made it very emotional for me todiseases. If I can help make the transition better thenu: Yes they all were very supportive of my choice and Ipaint a portrait of them. why not contribute? We have worked with MSF and haveam lucky to be surrounded by such helpful people. Therecontributed to various causes in from Vienna to Lebanon.is a special someone Id like to mention here. His name is t: has someone ever asked you to re-do their portraitRichard. Infact I even mention him on each Certificate ofand make them look better?t: What is your advice to striving artists?Authentication that is issued with my artwork because he u: This happens quite often I am afraid. For the collection,u: Do not be misled by circumstances. Be true to yourself.has been my constant companion and friend for 10 years pieces I can chose to paint subjects as I wish. However,You will receive opposition but be guided by Gods light.now. He, along with my brother, supports me in all that Ithe private orders are another story. I have to function as Do not give in to temptation and frustration. There isdo.a make-up artist and cosmetic surgeon for some pieces.immense pleasure in art. Also, before this interview ends,t: tell us a little about your trip to Abu Dhabi and the They are commissioned so I must paint them as peopleI would like to thank Salwa Zeidan for providing me theartwork you were commissioned to produce. how do wish. For instance, recently I had to paint a plump lady andopportunity to experience Abu Dhabi and connect with its Abu Dhabi has been home to numerous art festivals andyou find this city?she was not satisfied when I painted her as she was. I hadspirit. Thank you to all. symposiums over the past month. One artist who visited u: Abu Dhabi to me is a love story. I fell in love with it the to make her slimmer and she said she needed a Barbie the capital city recently is Una St. Tropez who specializes in moment I set eyes on it and as I experienced this city and doll face so I re-worked the portrait till she looked like a painting large-size portraits using a unique combination worked with its people, I was confirmed of my love for perfect doll. I feel it is important to paint people as they of an ultra modern and yet ancient wax technique. She hasit! It is such a lovely combination of contrasts; hot days see themselves. I understand that it can be contrary to painted commissioned portraits of some the most influentialand cold nights; natural beauty and man-made marvels.reality at times but I am just the means to making good personalities in the world including HSH Prince Albert ofI love the natural grace of women and the ethnic pride art so I dont interfere with their perceptions. Monaco, Princess Stephanie of Monaco, members of the in men. Overwhelmed as I was, I still needed to find Brunei Royal family, Gordon Ramsey and quite recently, Eva elements which I could work with to form art which would t: how long does it take for you to complete a life-size Longoria Parker of the Desperate Housewives fame.portray the citys spirit. I am grateful to have worked with portrait? how big do your paintings usually go?Salwa Zeidan Gallery for if it werent for my visit to their u: The bigger the better if you ask me! I have completed Unas zealous involvement with many high profile charitablepremises, I would never have glanced upon the pictureartwork which was 3.5 metres in length. Private portraits events has enabled her to raise over AED 400,000 for different of a man with such a radiant smile and kind eyes that Ivary from all sizes, big and small. It usually takes me a humanitarian causes all across the globe. She took time outwas captivated by it. The picture was that of H.H. Sheikhmonth to paint private portraits as I need the time to of her busy schedule and sat down with Tempo for a chatNahyan Bin Mubarak Al Nahyan and I wished to paint get to know the person whose personality my painting about her greatest passion in life art.him. Everyone spoke very highly of him. Later on I had will captured. For a collection, it can take longer for methe pleasure of meeting him in person. It is essential thatto finish. Even a year because I am so involved with the tempo: you majored in finance from Westminster I meet the people I paint because it is the sentiment that process of creation. Each collection houses a world inside university in 1997, what lead to you to choose a careerI feel when I am with them which translates onto the it, my world. as an artist?canvas. That is how I find expression. I have to live it to tell una St. tropez: Actually it was a matter of listening to the story through my craft.t: is it tough to part away with something like that, my heart and what I truly wanted to do in life. As with any something youve spent so much time and energy on? major decision, like studies; choosing careers; or decidingOf course there is another painting which I will alwaysWhich piece was, by far, the toughest to part away whether to launch a businesses venture or not - I believe it hold close to my heart. The one - as you might say - I with? is best to stay true to yourself and your desires. I only take was commissioned to make. I dont like using the wordu: Making art is a divine process to me. It is tough to the path which is essential to maintaining the essence ofcommissioned. It detaches me from the spiritual aspect detach with it but I am happy to do it for a good cause. my being. And art is what I chose (smiles).of my work. Anyways, I was given the honour to paint You see, my artwork is my greatest joy and my greatesta portrait of the Late H.H. Sheikh Zayed Bin Sultan Al fury combined. I am in the habit of isolating myself when t: how did you make the initial transition from aNahyan. While painting him, I saw leadership withinI work, so I experience the heartbreak and the agony of secure 9 to 5 job to a striving artist who was trying to his features. His eyes were very communicative of theparting with something that had been associated with make her mark in the art world?determination and vision he had for UAE. I learnt about hismy lonely world for so long. I never say that I love one u: I always connected to art even with when I was workinglife and his compassion for his people and I must confessparticular piece of my work because it just makes it all the in finance. To me nothing was as fulfilling and rewardingthat I am very attached to his portrait. The experience of more tougher to part with it when the time comes. The8 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 9 6. CITY CANTiNA lAreDoMoroccan CiNCo De MAyoCUliNAry This month, starting from the 5th of May, Cantina Laredo in Khalidiyah Week Mall is celebrating the festival, boasting of its rich Mexican culture and cuisine served with a flair. The restaurant serves gourmet Mexican food from aromatic Enchilada Veracruz, succulent Camaron Poblano14 22 May, Yas Hotel Asada to luscious Chocolate Cake, allowing guests to enliven the Mexican soul in its elegant artistry.Moroccan cuisine is as diverse as the Come and enjoycity itself. Wish to taste the flavours the colorful festivityof Marrakesh from the comfort of of Cinco De MayoAbu Dhabi? Join guest chef, Abdelilah at Cantina LaredoAbounour as Yas Hotel celebrates the featuring a Hot TableMoroccan Culinary Week, dedicated to raffle every hour, fordelectable Mediterranean cuisines and the guest to win a freespices. A whole week of brunches, teas, luscious Chocolate Caketraditional dinners, fashion shows and Dessert.henna parties - all in Moroccan style! NOTE: Bring this ABUAnd whats a celebration without some DHABI TEMPO issue andfestive music? Theyve got that too! enjoy 15% DISCOUNTSo go with family and friends or just when you dine.tag along with that special someonebut dont miss this authentic savory offer valid until mayexperience.31, 2010Jun EncArnAcion reSTAUrANT Stepping into this Filipino restaurant, you seriously dont know what to expect. Their menu is rumored to have almosteverything on it. We decided it was time to pop in for a meal and see what the place has to offer. Welcoming ambiance;check. If you are not from Philippines you might find it difficult to decipher some dishes on their menu so we enlisteda server for the task. Since out team was feeling adventurous that evening, we decided to only go for dishes whichsounded unconventional (read: unheard of to us or tough to pronounce). Right off the bat let us confess that this placeis pretty affordable for the vast items (and sometimes out of season dishes) available on themenu. Anyways, continuing with our food-venture, we ordered the Tapsilogand Dasilog. Basically they turned out to be variations of garlic-fried riceand egg with either fish or beef served alongside nicely steamedrice. Their Adobo, which is essentially a beef stew, is also worth amention. Not too thick; not too runny - just right! Anotherteam member couldnt resist ordering the Inihawna Pusit. Apparently the ordering situation hadescalated to a game now and we bracedourselves for the outcome. Thankfully awell grilled squid was served to us withfresh rice (you can choose between therice, French fries or veggies as a sideorder). All in all, this restaurant and cafis worth a visit if you are up for casualdining with friends.location: end of hamdan Streettowards tourist Club Area. 10Tempo May 2010 7. people meterMaking a MeetPeople Meter is an offbeat way to learn more about ourcommunity and its people, who come from different Each of us can in his, or her, own way make a difference in our world. Sometimes this can be a simple gesture, and sometimes itbackgrounds, cultures and walks of life.is a kind word. This page is dedicated to the hero that resides in each and every one of us, and to the sharing of great news thatwill make our planet a better place for us all. YoUr NeIGHBoUrCHannEl 4s soCial sErviCESounds of Arabia: The third season of Sounds Adam Ibrahimof Arabia festival is to kick off in the capital on 6May and continue till 16 May, presenting for the first time in Abu Dhabi, a number of regional singersMEssaGE Adam hails from Sudan and is living the simplesuch as Syrian singers Waad Bou Hasoun and Kinan life in Abu Dhabi Al Adhama, in addition to Mustafaa Saeed from Egypt. Care for them, dont inflictThe new singers will perform in the festival in a new initiativeharm on them My name is Adam Ibrahim Adam Ali Soney. I wastitled Youth Talents of Arabia Since the festival will focus on the . born in Bahri, a city in northern Khartoum, Sudan.musical traditions in the Arabian Gulf in particular, it will be a treat toWe applaud the Arabic public Upon graduation from an Islamic university, I watch with family! service campaign on Channel began my hunt for a job in media sciences. I always4 called Rabuuhum, la Adnan DhaniYassin Salah Elyan wanted to work for radio or television. Luckily Abu Dhabi bag for youth: Youth of one world is the slogan of the Pakistani Egyptiantuathebuhu which translates enough, I got an opportunity to work abroad after new Kalima initiative that includes the distribution of 1000 bags. Transportation SupervisorUniveristy GraduateEach of these contains ten books of distinguished childrens literatureloosely into Care for them, my first year of graduation. This is how I landed in dont inflict harm on them. from around the world, which have been translated into Arabic. This Abu Dhabi city! initiative is aimed at secondary school pupils (from the sixth to theIt shows a whimpering childWhat first word comes to your mind when i say: ninth grade). The bags have recently been distributed to schools in Al who has been beaten up by I am a very simple person. I am told I have a greatAin and Al Gharbia in Abu Dhabi, with the co-operation of the district Curly Friesher father. It then cuts to herCurlyFries sense of humor and I enjoy the company of old directors of these schools. Shell Ferrari friends as well as making new friends. In my freefather receiving people at herShellBell BookMy father time, I go out to play some sports; read books andnew horizons for ADFF: With submissions now open for its funeral, and people shamingBook ReadStormPower newspapers; or go out for a walk to some soothing 2010 program, Abu Dhabi Film Festival has announced a newhim instead of offering Storm Loud sight in the city. Thats what I like about Abu Dhabi.competitive section for fiction and nonfiction feature films bytheir condolences. A brave There are many such places where you can just sit first- and second-time directors. To be called the Afaq Jadida (Newcampaign tackling a sensitive still and watch the entire city pass you by. Then ofHorizons) Competition, this section will focus on the work of newtopic. We all know child abuse 2) if you could interview one celebrity who would it be?course there is the high-end lifestyle with loads oftalents from all over the Arab world shown side-by-side with thatis an abhorrent crime--it luxuries - a fast-paced life for fast-paced multi-of their international counterparts. Films in the competition will vie for ADFFs Black Pearl Awards for Best New Narrative Film, Best Newshouldnt be covered up inAdnan: I would love to yassin: Miley Cyrus,national people. I admire the lack of lawlessnessany society, and it shouldnt beinterview Johnny Depp. Narrative Film from the Arab World, Best New Documentary, Best New obviously because she is so in people; both expats and locals follow the rules.tolerated in any form.I wonder if he really is asDocumentary from the Arab World, each with a $100,000 cash prize. interesting.This is something commendable.colourful as the characters heHelpingHandportrays on-screen.tempos If I were to change something about Abu Dhabi, 3) Why did the chicken cross the road?it would be to lower the high accommodation vote! rents so that we expats can save money for our future and support our families better. Also, if thede)Adnan: I guess he wanted yassin: To catch up withcity were to become more expat-friendly then we(aka the rahma brigato see what it felt like the handsome rooster on will feel more comfortable here. Sometimes I feelbecause no one ever made the other side! because of the pressures of expat expendituresit back to tell him about it.people are more materialistic than friendly, i.e.,Etihad Airways has announced they look to making profit out of everything, evenit will operate five return servicesUnder the Patronage of Her Highness Sheikha Fatima Bint Mubarak,by 4) if you were neil Armstrong and you landed on the a network of friends. per week to Baghdad, operated Chairperson of UAE General Womens Union and Chairperson of the moon, what would your first words be? two-class Airbus A320 aircraft, and Family Development Foundation, the Diplomatic group for spouses of My dream is to become a professional reporterwill expand its operation with twoAmbassadors in the UAE will hold a charity bazaar at the General Womensto additional A320 return servicesAdnan: Is this place off the yassin: OOH YEAH!Union on 2nd May. The proceeds will help ease the suffering of Haiti in BBC. I believe one should do somethingnd Iraq destination Erbil real-estate market? Can Imeaningful with their life and it should touch victims and will contribute to worthy local charities like the Special Carea secoCentre and Future Centre for Special Needs in Abu Dhabi. Tickets for a ntstay here forever? others lives in such a manner that it brings afrom June 1, subject to governme raffle draw with exciting prizes will be available at the entrance of the positive change to it. My message to people in UAEand regulatoryapprovals, UAE venue. Men are welcome to join in the fun and festivity as the event willbecoming the first airline in the 5) What one thing do you do everyday to save the planet?is that they should co-exist peacefully and always be grateful to the country which welcomed themfeature stalls from various countries. A cultural experience and a good in its heart to make a living and provide for theirto fly to Iraq. cause - its worth a visit folks!Adnan: I often help kids yassin: I sleep more, itsand elders cross roads since very energy efficient!family. May God bless you all and I wish you a safeI spend most of my timereturn home.around moving vehiclesMaking a Difference is a celebration of good people and good deeds. Please share with us your ideas, activities and communityand bus-stops.public-good stories. Send them to editorial@abudhabitempo.com12Tempo May 2010www.abudhabitempo.com 13 8. handyhelperWHos tHe Boss?mAkING GooDmoVIe(pArt two)First imprEssionsWAtcHThis time we will focus on how you can build So choose someone with a moral centre and professional pride; someone your boss will listen to and take seriously;We all know they are important. So lets not beat a tangible relationship with your boss. 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Just try not to over-react and lose your cool.of humanity, Iron Man, much to his delight! moody, unpredictable or just plain crazy, butRemain reasonable, calm and confident about yourtip #1 Smile your best I-am-a-sane-person smile. Make Only now there is immense pressure from there is always a way to work around such issues.the government, the press and the public position. We know this is tough to do when someonesure you practice in front of a mirror if you are unsureto hand over his technology to the military.Read on, weve done some extensive research on is yelling profanities at you in a foreign language butof how your smile looks. It should be a warm, genuine While Tony tries to keep the governmentmaintain your poise. 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Keep a lidreleasing may 14: Directed by Ridley Scott,For some people office work is equivalent to team workon intrusive, personal questions but do ask ones that starring Russell Crowe, Cate Blanchett,and they like constant input and supervision from seniors.Vanessa Redgrave, Eileen Atkins and Dannyrequire a little more than a simple yes or no answer; Huston, the movie chronicles the life of While others feel more relaxed if they are left to workthen listen attentively.an expert archer, previously interestedin their own creative zone. So while both employeesonly in self-preservation, from his servicemay be extremely productive, a conflict can arise within King Richards army against the French. senior management due to difference in working styles.tip #3 Pay attention; not listening to what the otherUpon Richards death, Robin travels toperson is saying or making distracting movements mayNottingham, a town suffering from theMaybe your boss thinks you are more like the employeemake the other person feel that you are not concerned corruption of a despotic sheriff and from the first example when you are really more like thecrippling taxation, where he assembles second one! Work with your HR department on the issue.about what they have to say. This will blow all youra gang whose lethal mercenary skills Maybe the organization expects daily updates form yourKeep this information handy for your own good. Cut out and save it in a folder.efforts right out of the water. Acknowledge that youare matched only by its appetite for life.Together, they begin preying on thesupervisor which in turn causes him to track your workunderstand what they are saying by nodding yourindulgent upper class to correct injustices Why make me suffer?with hawk-like precision.head in agreement. Body movements like this indicateunder the sheriff.a listening stance. First of all, never ask them that! No one cares why itsyou, least of all your boss. Direct confrontation over a SoSletters to Julietworkplace conflict never ends well. It only further enragesIf all else fails, report to super-senior-level management.tip #4 People dont like being cut off! Let the otherreleasing may 14: When a young American supervisors and senior management if you ask them forBe warned though, this is an open battle call to your boss.person do most of the talking, unless you want their(Amanda Seyfried) travels to the city of Blood will be shed, words will be exchanged and someonefirst impression of you to be that you are completely Verona, home of the star-crossed loveran explanation for their irrational behaviour towards you.Juliet Capulet of Romeo and Juliet fame, sheSo what do you? We suggest you observe a colleague will get fired. Even if the air clears without much damage,self-centred. joins a group of volunteers who respond to your work relationship with the manager in question, willwho is liked by the boss and we mean really observeletters sent to Juliet seeking advice aboutthem (read: not stalk them, just observe!). How do they actnever be the same. So be absolutely sure the issue is worthtip # 5 Practice icebreakers. Compliments can do thelove. After answering one letter dated 1951, the trouble.she inspires its author (Vanessa Redgrave) to when they are around seniors? Do they treat upper leveltrick at times. Do make them sound genuine and basedtravel to Italy in search of her long-lost love management any differently than you do?on something you have learned about the person. and sets off a chain of events that will bringSaying that you love their fashion sense if they area love into both their lives unlike anythingtime Management tip # 9*they ever imagined. general Consensusdressed in very casual clothes sounds too desperate,Sometimes its not just you. Listen to what others havelike you are trying too hard to be a people pleaser.to say about the boss during office lunch breaks. ShareJust WrightIf you can, do some research before you have your ideas on how you can make it known to him or her thatRegardless of the size of your business, theres no needreleasing may 14: Under the direction ofconversation to get some background information onSanaa Hamri, Queen Latifah stars in and their behaviour is affecting everyones work. If it is a large for it to be a one-man show. Delegate tasks to fellowthe person. produces this movie about Janice Wright,group of people who have worked in the company for a workers in accordance with their skills and workinga physical therapist (Queen Latifah) who is substantial period of time, then maybe someone who ishired by an NBA basketball player to helpcapacities. Division of labour at the workplace helpstip #6 End the conversation on a positive note with a close to the boss can be elected to speak to them abouthim rehab from an injury. As time goes on, share the load among colleagues whilst leaving yousmile or handshake. Exchange business cards so that the player begins falling in love with her. their behaviour privately. Perhaps someone who doesnt free to manage more pertinent tasks.they recognize your interest to meet them again. This The rest as the say is history but as the smart work directly under your boss but is at the same positionmovie-goer knows: its the journey towardsas him in another department of the organization. This isway they too will look foward to speaking with you in history that is worth a watch!*Part 9 of a 12 issue seriesthe future. Best of luck! a risky move and once its done there is no turning back.14 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com15 9. kiCkinGBeat Win! theSinusitis. The best of us get inflicted with it. It sparesno one and causes severe discomfort the kind nose Blockwith h AMc sic i Mood uyoud never even wish upon enemies! Headaches,treatment for Sinusitis5 lucky earth Waterlessnasal congestion, fatigue, and sleeping issues can Antibiotics help a lot! 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Abdul Qader and Bassam Abdul Satar on qanoun, Suraj Mohammed on bass in addition to saxophone player Smoking makes mucus thicker and further clogsMohammed Murshid (all pictured). Rumour has it thatup sinus passages. So you choose, cigarettes or deep they might be looking for new players to join the group.breaths? But you didnt hear it from this DJ! Wed like your feedback on this topic. Write to us atTheir music is interesting to me. As an explorer of the soul of music and rhymes, the sounds that emanate fromletters@abudhabitempo.com their traditional instruments transcend your average noisy guitars, loud drums and even - cant believe IDe-StreSS! am admitting to this- the trance of House music. The calmness and raw sultry beauty of the quality of notes This month, ESPA at Yas Hotel will open its doors.got to me (or maybe it was just the see breeze). With Do I hear an Amen? Okay, here are the specs: 10 the right guidance and some more gigs around the country (and internally too), these lads from UAE can betreatment rooms, double floors, a traditional as big their local hot-and-smokin big brother band ABRI. hamam, a relaxation room, separate male CoNGrATUlATioNS If you missed them, your bad! But something tells me and female treatment areas, and directtheyll hang around town for a long while, providing us access from the Presidential Suit. Paytecho-music-freaks (and proud of it!) with another soundthem a visit and find out what zen- we are not used to hearing. A sound which is an escapeLog on to www.abudhabitempo.com to find out if you are from the all the rap jargon. Purity of music. Now thats an one of the lucky winners of last months ECH20 prizes. Just like experience truly means. interesting thought to leave you with. type ECH20 in the search tab. 16 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com17 10. 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Sosandals. the top may wear what you likebe a bit too formal and and carry it with you could lose the two style!necklaces. groove on :) 18Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 19 11. On yBoUtG IFe by rantan rave Eco-Baby Hospitals Arablish Abu Dhabi, or Abu Thhabi, Dubai, or Debayy?? Last issue we talked about how you spell the names of the emirates that make fu nnAtHin l it happened to me up the United Arab Emirates. This timeYou would think that my nom de plume rant an rave would be What if one day you had an important lets analyse pronunciation. How doenough to indicate a possible curmudgeony personality. Yes, I do you pronounce Abu Dhabi? Most non-meeting with German delegates and youconcur that I am more of a ranter than a raver (cause doggone it,Arabs pronounce it as Abu Daaabbi, butwere dressed in your best work outfit, youtheres just so much more to gripe about these days). But afterif you want to say it like an Arab it would step outside your building and suddenlythe barrage (i.e. battery) of readers emails from my last issues sound like Abu Thabbi. Still, not too big a get showered with dirty water from buildingtopic about my experience with the garlic-breathing passengerdifference. The big digression comes in pronouncing Dubai. Dubai is written D-u-cleaners 50 feet above you? Do you go backnext to me in a plane, I feel I may have got my comeuppance. Itto change or sue the cleaning company? I b-a-i because thats possibly the best wayappears people tend to read Abu Dhabi Tempo around eatingto write it in English, but it also results inalways thought they were suppose to worktime and many couldnt keep their food down. (Read one suchthe way that most English words( that havein between morning and evening officereader letter in this issue). So in this issue of On the Beaten Path u in that kind of letter construction) arehours when everyone is safely inside. OrI have resolved to find something to rave about. pronounced. It would be Doobai or Dyubai maybe after work hours, I dont know. They (the latter distinctly British English)kind of like American toona for tuna, and thedont put up caution signs or anything else[start rave] British English tyuna. If you are an Arab which signals that they are dangling aboveEncouraging piece of news from Corniche Hospital is itsspeaker you would pronounce Dubai asour heads, sending down rains of mud and Debeythe last syllable rhyming with baybird poo. Do companies expect us to keepdecision to become an Eco-Baby Hospital. The hospital says it rather than bye.looking up all the time or do they expectwill introduce energy saving, eco-friendly materials and makean effort on cutting down on waste. Sharjah transfers perfectly into Englishie us to know what cleaning sounds like? I is pronounced in both languages exactly aswondered whom to complain about this. IsThe hospital quoted research that indicates green healthcare it is written, but where it gets interesting is the Municipality responsible? in its Arabic form. It is written with the qaffacilities can improve patient outcomes, decrease lengths of stay not jeem and yet it has two pronunciationrasha Kayalifor patients, and improve the health and overall performance variations in Arabic.Sharqah, Shargah orof staff. (Hear, hear.) It says it will create an eco-team that will you Sharyyah (in local dialect). over toundertake a comprehensive review of energy use and waste Ajman also transfers well into English. Themanagement and encourage the use of fewer and less-toxic only variation lies in Arabic, where Ajman This has happened to me but not to the extent of ruining my dress.products.is sometimes pronounced Ayymaan in a I do relate to her because I have often had to walk some distance to local Emirati dialect, or Agmaan if youre avoid the puddles these cleaning sessions leave behind. I guess the[Still in rave mode] all good stuff, to be sure but I do hope that an Egyptian. best we can do is be careful ourselves.Sadia Fahmy, Studentthis is not just Earth Day marketing talking. Is the commitment Umm Al Quwain is also pronounced exactly I do think the municipality regulates working hours and the mannerhere to stay? How about, while theyre at it, perhaps look intothe same in both languages, except for of cleaning, I mean the procedures and all. But I am not too sure thatthat universal eco dilemma of cloth versus commercial diapers? one Arabic pronunciation variation that is these companies pay much attention to any of it including workerAnd how about talking to the captive audience of mothers not Umm Al Qeewain. Fujairah is also identical safety. I have seen the cables they use and some of them are flimsyjust about how to nurse and get your body back in shape, but in both languages, except that again in localand likely to result in a larger accident than dirty clothes. Emirati dialect, it can be also pronounced asWhat would you have done ifgently impart messages of eco responsibility? Maybe this way, Concerned resident Feyairah. this had happened to you?the babies born at Corniche may become our next generationI dont care really; Ill just go back and change. Its probably not theof eco-heroes. Ras Al Khaimah is often pronounced inworkers fault that they are paid low wages and are made to do high English as Ras Al kayimaa, but if you were to say it like an Arab then the first syllable risk tasks. On top of that you expect them to keep looking down[end rave/ start rant] of Khaimah would rhyme with ray rather from such heights to watch out for expensive suits?! My opinion is tonext issue: the problem with numbered seats in cinemathan die.talk to the supervisor standing in the shade. laura Daniel, managertheatres, and the brainless twits who cant read numbers!Have any linguistic nightmares to report? Send em in at Its no ones fault really. They are just doing their job and they dont Send us your comments on editorial@abudhabitempo.comarablish@abudhabitempo.com mean to spray people. The lady should forgive and forget. Next time,just be careful! Seema r. , Admin officer20 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com21 12. CultureTalka some regions of India and Pakistan. yain kn tribal identity For men and women belonging to regions of Turkey, Eastern Afghanistan and Northern Pakistan, embroidered SandLand clothes were (and still are in most parts) and important means of expressing tribal identity. In the Pashtun region for example, the region a sheep herder comes from can be identified by the pattern of silk embroidery on his clothes. In Kohistan, embroidered dresses make excessive use of metal pieces for adornment like coins, zippers andKeeping traditions AliveUnfolding the history of Islamic embroidery is like peeking jewellery. This may cause the dress to weigh up to five kilos. On the other hand, the Lakai Uzbeks value theirSecond Cityinto the origins of visual art forms across Northern Africa, warrior roots and expert horsemanship. So they stitch andChicago is known as the Second City in the USAMiddle East and Central Asia. Before canvases, oil painting, embroider elaborate horse decorations for their steeds. So because New York City seems to get the lions shareand way before digital painting; there were a couple ofitems form an integral part of ceremonies. Their regionalof attention. That being said, Chicago has its owncharms and unique identity.nomadic Muslim women across these parts sitting in patterns feature abstract animal-style renditions. DoubleIt has a completely different feel than the Big Apple.tribal circles - gossiping; and embroidering shirts, dresses,tailed scorpions in threatening poses and other dangeroustalismanic coats, headdresses, capes for brides and bibs reptiles to name a few.The Emirate of Abu Dhabi also has a Second City, Alfor their children. These women and their enduring art Dear Um Ayman, Ain. Literally The Spring the city is located 160 KM,form has survived over centuries and become what is nowSounds interesting? Then visit The Story of Islamicfrom Abu Dhabi and makes a good destination for a I am a 22 year old Arab girl and I am engaged to marry day trip and a change of scenery.classified as Islamic Embroidery.Embroidery exhibition at Gallery One in Emirates Palace my cousin. We are both graduating next year. I love to learn more about the impact of this varied art form to my uncle and aunt, and I am very fond of my cousin.Recently, a friend and I decided to explore Al Ain. Themeans of expressionMuslim culture. The exhibition lasts till 28th July. Go ahead,He is romantic and funny. When we got engagedroad there is smooth and fast. Roadside vistas wentIn the first half of the 20th century almost every young enrich your understanding of the culture which surroundsthe condition my family (and I) laid down is that he from sand to lush greenery the closer we got to thegirl in Moroccan tribes was initiated to this art. Soyou, there is so much more to explore in Abu Dhabi thegraduates from university, and the other is that hecity. It reminded me of Central Florida.embroidering became a means of expression to these land of plenty. respects my desire to work after marriage. We discovered recently however that he has not been attending hisFirst stop was the oasis near the City Center. Thisyoung members of society. A permanent workshop orclasses and when his family confronted him he told thempublic park is a maze of elevated alleyways windingdar msallma was organized in every neighbourhood for Visitor Comments through a forest of date palms as far as the eye can that he has no intention of completing his studies. Thiselder women to act as teachers, maallema, to young girlsI think the patterns are quite lovely. They are so finelyhas caused strain in my familys relationship with mysee. You can walk or drive through the park, but itsand pass along the art to their next generation. Each town done. You have to strain your eyes to see the intricacy. Anduncles family. My father has told me that if I wanted tomore fun on foot. There are surprises along the wayhad a typical stitching pattern and these patterns where these were hand-made by seamstresses! A good cultural end this engagement that hed respect my decision. I and you can get lost if not careful.named after their towns of origin. Meknes, Rabat and experience for a foreigner like me. Jenny A. bison dont know what to do. Could you advise me Um Ayman? Next was Jebel Hafeet, an improbable giant rockSale are some examples of such patterns which possess a N.G.rising high over the desert floor. The steep, windingdistinct regional decorative style. Similarly, during festiveI have friends coming to town in October for F1, I wish road up provides motoring entertainment beforeoccasions, like marriage, Central Asian women wouldthey could run it longer so that I can take them to thisDear N.G., ending at a resort hotel at the top. The views aregather together to stitch hangings and bridal dresses. wonderful exhibition. Jamie morsalisdramatic at 1200 meters above the flat desert below!Each female member of skill would embroider one band I have come across such cases even within my own family. I fully respect your parents desire to safeguardIt was a fun day and I recommend it. Thanks to myof cloth with a repetitive pattern and when they finished, Good effort. It is nice to see our roots and ancestral your future-- a pre-nuptial agreement to ensure youpersonal navigator, Anna-Lou. Her eagle-eyes keptall bands would be stitched together to form hangingsculture. Samir K. Aziz retain the right to work is in my opinion a very wise move us on the beaten path and her voice was much moreand other bridal accoutrements. This practice still exists inand I commend your determination to complete yourpleasant than the Crabby Carlia from my GPS unit! own studies. (A degree in hand will help you achieverandy Parker financial independencewith or without a husband). But I dont know if coercing your betrothed to completeRandy has been a resident of Abu Dhabi since August, his education is the way to go. More importantly I see his 2008 and works in the travel industry. He has a blog at:A ro U N sNApsHotdesire not to complete his studies as an indication of his http://expatuae.blogspot.com/om characterthat he may not be committed to hard work,r Dthat he has seen a need to lie to his parents, that he may shirks responsibility. Maybe there will be more of this in F your future if you decide to marry him. I dont think you tHW Is D o mThe hunter in pursuit of an elephant should give up. All he may need is sound counseling and does not stop to throw stones at birds. in Arab culture this may come from a wise elder that heUntil the 19th century, e WorlD respects and trusts. Find out what his career plans andProverb from Uganda see what his explanation on how he plans to providesolid blocks of teafor his family. Evaluate what he says against all the otherwere used as money inqualities that are equally important in choosing a life partner: like love, integrity, honesty, generosity, loyalty,Siberia. and kindness etc; and then decide on your own irrespective of whether he plans to have a university degree or not.22Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com23 13. lifecoachKeep lovingBy Samantha Davishomesmart TrAvelliNG TipS for WoMeNThe hallmark of a healthy adult is the abilityto work and to love. had a sense of connection and community. Usually females have Avoid hitchhiking, saving were, shopkeepers wouldSigmund Freudeverything in shipshapebus or taxi fare is not asbe making huge profitsCouples who fought rarely had stronger immune systemson home turf and knowimportant as saving yourselling them in yourthan those who bickered often. every inch of theirlife! hometown rather than neighbourhood like milking you for all you areSo there you have it! The stats speak for themselves. But Dress codes are something the back of their hand.worth over a Persian rug!what is one to do? Sometimes it isnt easy to go out in the a woman must always However, when placedworld with the burden of expectations, needs and emotionalkeep in mind. In some Your luggage should outside the comfort ofrequirements. Especially for those who have suffered their city, they tend to countries this couldnever carry expensivedisappointment and heartbreak. 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