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Chapter 3
Being Responsible For Love
It is important to see and know how you unconsciously create
disruptive, negative experiences in your life and in your
relationships. Not being able to see the person you are with, orsee into the person you are with to the degree that you already
know when the situation, regardless of the Love, is going to
change, without having to fuss about it. Then you can really
know the person. However, if you do not know when or if that is
going to happen, you may neither truly know the person nor
yourself. Genuine heart, mind and body sharing makes all such
changes obvious and irrelevant. You are going to Be Here Now
or are you going to have to go. I didnt create you, so lets just
enjoy this relationship Now. Thank God we are together for the
moment. And if this is great, maybe there are some greater ones
waiting for me when I let this one go? Maybe there is a
progression? Wow, this one was good, but hey, you got anythingbetter up there? Well, I am ready now. I am all cleaned up,
waiting for the next one. I hope the next one is better. That last
one was sure juicy. That is trusting in the process instead of
using the process of change to upset your way of life, clog your
circuits and destroy your relations. That is just one way it can
happen. You have to consider if your real destiny is to be upset
and broken hearted and a mere spiritually broken ego or if your
destiny is to be Happy, Free and in Love with Life Itself?
You can say, what do you mean by you? This lower-part you
or this higher consciousness you? There are different yous in
you. The body you is one you. The emotional you is another you.The intellectual you is another you. The spiritual you is another
you. Somewhere along the line, you have to reckon with all of
these yous or Is. Some people will bring about a different
quality of your yous, from out of your large bag of yous. So
when somebody asks you, who are you, it sounds like an
astoundingly profound question. Who knows, right? Beats me.
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Dont know? Your guess is as good as mine because there are so
many yous in everybody.
What I am saying now is that there are probably a good number
of other yous in you that other beings will bring out. Ideally,
they will be at least as ecstatic and joyous as the other times and
other beings you have enjoyed. You have to trust in the processof change, not only in terms of its negative returns but its
positive ones as well. That is why it is important to keep things
positive in a relationship when you see it is going somewhere
else. You want the ending of that to be as sweet as possible so
that the sweetness can then open up, bring about or lead into
the next relationship. And you clear the waves for it.
There are too many beings out here. Too many gorgeous, hot,
juicy and powerful waste-organs out there. There are just too
many of them out there. There is an infinite variety of them, in
other countries too. All you have to do is go over seas and you
have to fight some of them off of you. You have only to move
around and circulate. Waste-organ flesh bag beings are operating
everywhere!
Today, in this day and age, there is a lot of toxic waste in those
waste-organs, and you have to be very careful about that.
Clearly, you have to assume a new intelligence relative to letting
the waste-organs determine how you feel, how you show up at
work the next day, and so on. You have to be aware of the
paradox that you, as Soul, are not the body, you are not the
waste-organs, yet you are, to some degree. The waste organs are
a temporary function of the body-being which is not only who or
what a person or being is.
What ordinary relationship brings is a temporary form of joy or
illusory happiness followed by suffering because of a time-
change and not wanting to let it go or not wanting to see it
change or let it be. What that not wanting change or clinging
to what was does is negate whatever illusion there was or is of
Love. What is happening is contraction, withholding or resist-
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ance instead of expansion. Love is not resistance. Love is Being
which is infinite expansion. That is why Love has been the
object and God of all the great poets and mystics. It is so
indescribable, it is so great. Real Love is not a thing that you or
anyone can kill. It is not a thing that is limited to waste-organ
activity. Love may find momentary expression through the
waste-organs, butwaste organs, of themselves, have nothing to
do with Love.
If you truly love somebody, what difference does it make if you
shake their hand or some other part of their body? What is the
real difference? The part doesnt make the relationship any more
than the relationship already is. Shaking a body part certainly
wont make Love happen. You can love shaking somebodys
hand or another part of their body, but that act is not
necessarily what Love Is! Unless individuals who are engaged
in the mechanical round of being in time and space in the illusion
of painful or pleasurable relations or unless there is an awareness
that is above the duality of all of that and the see-saw interaction
of polar possibilities, it is going to be unnecessarily hard to
survive in this dump-yard of the universe of experience.
It is being said from all quarters now that there is too much toxic
waste. Waste dumping is harmful for the body, the Earth body.
That is an interesting point. Which Earth body? Everybodys
Earth-body is a part of the planetary Earth-body. You have to
start properly dealing with all of that in order to heal, you heal in
order to deal with what you have left. I teach that a persons
understanding can be expanded beyond their self-suffering. You
can go or Be beyond that. I thought I was suffering just a week,
a day or an hour ago. Now it is just a joke, see? Each being is
recommended to participate in that Intelligence Awareness
which is not always suffering. Each can presently participate in
that Free Awareness which is not controlled by the waste-organ
approach to life or negatively controlled by a relationship or con-
trolled by anyone else.
Such an activity of understanding, however radical it might
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appear to be, is appropriate and appropriate to the degree where
it may even be Sacred, Sacred to the degree where it can save
you from that psycho-emotional ruin which is a result of not
having Spiritually Understood the true nature of the illusion of
relations and their time-change karmas. Such non-understanding
or ignorance causes suffering to the degree of self-destruction
and being distracted from your real mission which is to BeHappy, despite the changes and flows of the universe which are
basically self-destructive, sacredly or time-determinedly self-de-
structive. Dissolution is what the universe is set up to
accommodate, allowing things and beings to appear and
disappear and perhaps reappear again. That is its process, and
since that is the way it is, it must be sacred! It is sacred and
Divine because it is what is actually happening. No body and
its changes can alter the process. The process of change Is the
Universe! Therefore, the process, if not the Universe, has got
to be Divine, especially if being Conscious of the process
leads to True Love, Freedom and Enlightenment. This is the
Way the Spirit of God as Consciousness of Itself, by virtue of
laws that are in no way touchable by human effort whatsoever, is
operating out of or through this garbage-can planet and its
inhabitants.
The Earth is one of Its playgrounds. You dont look at it that way
because you are too involved in the waste-organ level of life and
what appears to be its infinite promises of absolute, exquisitely
painful pleasure of ownership and possession. Oh, my
goodness, oooh, wow! But that illusion is a farce. You can go
through or even be that illusion until death and then say, What
am I doing in this cold vacuum of void-space with no practical
understanding of what is happening? You get caught up in the
excessive over emphasis of waste-organ pleasure and the painful
attachments which accompany it. And the law is, if one is
talking about gravity, for the waste-organs to be operating,
they have to draw, borrow or steal from the higher parts of
the body! Therefore, there is an ordinary wasting of precious
energy or fuel that need not carelessly or unconsciously happen.
Such wasting should not happen at all.
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To the great degree that wasting is happening, it is no wonder
that we have toxic waste, waste up here between the eyes and
waste down there between the thighs. Everything is wasted. Most
beings are having lots of fun getting or being wasted. They
waste themselves and naturally, everything they do is relative to
this waste activity. There is an Intelligence which, whenaccessed, enables this higher view to become a Realization to the
degree that Free-Action or appropriately wise responses can be
used to bring about Balancement to oneself, to ones
environment, to ones human relations and ultimately to ones
relation to the Earth-Mother.