Characteristic

1. Authority Rejects/resists itQuestion when

necessary/healthy respect

Fear authority

2. Relationships

Manipulate, use, exploit,

demanding/

controlling

superficial

Healthy approach;

give & take

“Givers”

Questions self

Exploited

Fears Rejection

3. Self-Esteem

High/inflated self esteem

In love with selves

Healthy = like/love

themselves

Low or no

self esteem

4. GuiltLow/superficial

Functional guiltAppropriate

Excessive or

Inappropriate Guilt

5. ResponsibilityIrresponsible;

Not reliable

Appropriate levels of responsibility;

Takes share of load of resp.

Excessively responsible;

“all my fault”

6. AcheivementLow/no/under

achiever

Achievement matches their

ability/potential

High achievement or none;

workaholic