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Communication Skills
Dr. Heba Nayef
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Communications
Use of Body Language
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PowerPoint slides created by Dr. Heba Nayef
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والعين تعلم من عينى محدثهاإن آان من حزبها أو من يعاديها
عيناك قد دلتا عيناى منك على أشياء لوالها ما آنت تبديها
اإلمام على ابن أبى طالب
Body Language & Communication
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“ Listen not to what a man says but rather to what he does not.”
Jibran K. Jibran
Body Language & Communication
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• Various methods of communication• Importance of non-verbal communication• Using both verbal and non-verbal messages to
enhance communication abilities
Body Language 2
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• PERSONOLOGY “Physiognomy
Body Language 2
Tolerance Intolerance
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• PHRENOLOGY
Body Language 2
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Various Methods of communications
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Messages
Verbal Non-verbal
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• Where to look for clues?- Facial Expressions- Hand Gestures- Sitting , standing and walking ways
Non-Verbal Communication 3
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Non-Verbal Communication 3
What can you say about these two groups?
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Non-Verbal Communication 3
What can you say about these two groups?
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Non-Verbal Communication 3
Who is who?The husband, the lover , the salesman
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Non-Verbal Communication 3
Who is who?The preoccupied, the burst-of-energy, the dejected, the strutter?
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Types of Attitudes 3
Attitudes
Openness Defensiveness
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Types of Attitudes& Gestures
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OPENESS
Cooperation & Willingness Confidence
Appraisal Enthusiasm
Sincerity Acceptance
Readiness Reassurance
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Open AttitudeCooperation & Willingness
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Open hand gestures
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Open AttitudeConfidence
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Thumbs displaying confident authoritative attitude
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Open AttitudeConfidence
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The superiority-confident gesture
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Open AttitudeConfidence
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Steepling
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Open AttitudeAppraisals
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A critical evaluation Not really impressed
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Open AttitudeAppraisals
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Chin Stroking Schwarzenegger making his point and host thinking it over
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Open AttitudeAppraisals
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Buying Time Buyer & SellerAppraisal & Enthusiasm
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Open AttitudeReadiness
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Hands on hip Sit-down readinessTypical readiness gesture
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Open AttitudeSincerity
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Honesty
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Types of Attitudes& Gestures
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DEFENSIVENESS
Lying Suspicion
Frustration Nervousness
Boredom Domination/ Arrogance
Self Doubt Rejection
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Defensive GesturesNervousness
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Cuff-Link-Adjust Hiding his conversation
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Defensive GesturesDeceit signals
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Hear no evil, see no evil and speak no evil
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Defensive GesturesDeceit signals
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1- Cover the mouth
The Seven Most Common Lying Gestures
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Defensive GesturesDeceit signals
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2- Touch the nose 3- The eye rub
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Defensive GesturesDeceit signals
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4- The ear grab 5- The nose scratch
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Defensive GesturesDeceit signals
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6- The collar pull 7- The finger in the mouth
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Defensive GesturesRejection
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Crossed arms Hands gripping
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Defensive GesturesRejection
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The arm barrier says no She is now more open to ideas
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Defensive GesturesBoredom
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Interrupt Gesture Extreme boredomHand supporting head
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Defensive GesturesDomination/ Arrogance
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The Straddler The Smug
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Defensive GesturesDomination/ Arrogance
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The American Figure Four SThe European style
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Defensive GesturesDomination/ Arrogance
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The cool, confident guy thinks that he knows everything and has more bananas than everyone
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Defensive GesturesFrustration
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“What can I do about it.” Even with the smile the hand grip shows frustration
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Who is Who? 2
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Who is in control? 2
Standing on the left side gives Bill Clinton advantage over Blair
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Who is in control? 2