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You’ve Got Personality! Fran Berman, MBA SaddleBrooke Freethinkers December 18, 2016

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Page 1: You’ve Got Personality! · 2016-12-22 · 16 Combinations of Personality Types •ESTP •ISTP •ESFP •ISFP •ESTJ •ISTJ •ESFJ •ISFJ •ENFJ •INFJ •ENFP •INFP •ENTJ

You’ve Got Personality!

Fran Berman, MBA SaddleBrooke Freethinkers

December 18, 2016

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Before We Start…

• Turn off your cellphone

• Minimize note-taking

• Hold questions for the end

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Where did it begin?

• Myers-Briggs

– Early 1950’s

– Isabel Myers and Kathryn Briggs

–Based on Carl Jung’s book Psychological Types

• Kiersey Temperament Sorter

–70 questions

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16 Combinations of Personality Types

• ESTP

• ISTP

• ESFP

• ISFP

• ESTJ

• ISTJ

• ESFJ

• ISFJ

• ENFJ

• INFJ

• ENFP

• INFP

• ENTJ

• INTJ

• ENTP

• INTP

David Kiersey, Please Understand Me II, Prometheus Nemesis Book Co., 1998

= Promoter

= Crafter

= Performer

= Composer

= Supervisor

= Inspector

= Provider

= Protector

= Teacher

= Counselor

= Champion

= Healer

= Field marshal

= Mastermind

= Inventor

= Architect

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Too much information!

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DiSC® Profile • Based on Dr. William Marston’s book

Emotions of Normal People in 1928

• Developed many years later

• 4 characteristics: – Dominance

– Influence

– Steadiness

– Conscientiousness

• 120 different combinations!

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Too much information!

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1. E I

2. E I

3. S F

4. S F

5. E I

6. S F

7. S F

8. E I

9. E I

10. E I

11. S F

12. E I

13. E I

14. S F

15. S F

16. S F

17. E I

18. S F

Totals:

For each of the 18 pairs, circle the letter to the right that corresponds to the statement that is most like you. Then at the end, total the number of times you chose

each letter.

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Which is more like you?

1.

E = Easy to get to know personally in unfamiliar social or business settings

I = More difficult to get to know personally in unfamiliar social or business settings

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Which is more like you?

2.

E = Conversation reflects personal life experiences; may stray from "business at hand"

I = Focuses conversations on issues and tasks at hand; stays on subject

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Which is more like you?

3.

S = Infrequent contributor to group conversations

F = Frequent contributor to group conversations

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Which is more like you?

4.

S = Tends to adhere to the letter of the law

F = Tends to interpret the spirit of the law

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Which is more like you?

5.

E = Makes most decisions based on his/her feelings, experience, or relationships

I = Makes most decisions based on his/her goals, facts, or evidence

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Which is more like you?

6.

S = Infrequent use of gestures and voice intonation to emphasize points

F = Frequent use of gestures and voice intonation to emphasize points

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Which is more like you?

7.

S = More likely to make qualified statements like "According to my sources…“

F = More likely to make emphatic statements like "This is so!" and "I feel…"

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Which is more like you?

8.

E = Greater natural tendency toward animated facial expressions or observable body responses during speaking and listening

I = More limited facial expressions or observable body responses during speaking and listening

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Which is more like you?

9.

E = Tends to be more willing to show or share personal feelings more freely

I = Tends to keep important personal feelings private; tends to share only when necessary

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Which is more like you?

10.

E = Shows more enthusiasm than the average person

I = Shows less enthusiasm than the average person

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Which is more like you?

11.

S = More likely to wait for others to introduce themselves at social gatherings

F = More likely to introduce self at social gatherings

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Which is more like you?

12.

E = Flexible about how his/her time is used by others

I = Disciplined about how his/her time is used by others

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Which is more like you?

13.

E = Goes with the flow

I = Goes with his/her own agenda

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Which is more like you?

14.

S = More naturally reserved behavior

F = More naturally assertive behavior

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Which is more like you?

15.

S = Tends to reserve the expression of his/her own views

F = Tends to express his/her own views more readily

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Which is more like you?

16.

F = Tends to naturally decide more quickly or spontaneously

S = Tends to naturally decide more slowly or deliberately

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Which is more like you?

17.

E = Prefers to work with others or be included in relationships

I = Prefers to work independently or dictate the relationship conditions

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Which is more like you?

18.

S = Naturally approaches risk or change more slowly or cautiously

F = Naturally approaches risk or change more quickly or spontaneously

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Total Your Score

E = ______

I = ______

F = ______

S = ______

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Subtract

E minus I = ______

F minus S = ______

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Plot Your

Personality

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-9 -8 -7 -6 -5 -4 -3 -2 -1 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

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E

S F

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Example:

E – I = 3

F – S = -2

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Plot Your

Personality

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Risk Taker

Ruler Researcher

Relater

Extravert

Introvert

Fa

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Risk Taker (Fast Extravert)

• Perceived by others in a positive light: – Imaginative

– Creative

– Innovative

– Energetic

– Future-focused

– Multitasker

– Persuasive

• Perceived by others in a negative light: – Impractical

– Off the wall

– Unrealistic

– Time-waster

– Exhausting

– Unable to finish

– Con artist

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Risk Taker (Fast Extravert)

• Likes:

– Recognition

– Attention

– Variety, change

– Spontaneity

– Adventure

– Flexibility

– Doing the right things

• Dislikes:

– Being taken for granted

– Pessimism

– Waiting

– Indecision

– Conformity

– Details

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Risk Taker (Fast Extravert)

• Strengths:

– Solution-oriented

– Optimistic

– Resourceful

– Innovative

– Self-reliant

– Persuasive

– Inspiring

• Shortcomings:

– Impatient

– Hasty

– Opinionated

– Pushy

– Manipulative

– Self-disruptive

– Lacks follow-through

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Risk Taker (Fast Extravert)

• Do:

– Be enthusiastic

– Be flexible

– Offer creative choices

– Use visuals, demonstrations

– Recognize efforts

• Don’t:

– Be a wet blanket

– Stifle with rules

– Take a win-lose stance

– Interrupt

– Overlook contributions

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Risk Taker (Fast Extravert)

• Drives a:

– Sports car

• Wants to know:

– Why?

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Ruler (Fast Introvert)

• Perceived by others in a positive light: – Determined

– Controlled

– Commanding

– Authoritative

– In charge

– Influential

– Leader

• Perceived by others in a negative light: – Tyrannical

– Domineering

– Dictatorial

– Autocratic

– Bossy

– Hard-headed

– Intimidating

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Ruler (Fast Introvert)

• Likes:

– Results

– Challenge

– Control

– Power

– Achievement

– Doing the right things right

• Dislikes:

– Disrespect

– Laziness

– Ambiguity

– Emotional display

– Indecision

– Opposition

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Ruler (Fast Introvert)

• Strengths:

– Ambitious

– Focused

– Firm

– Goal-oriented

– Organized

– Confident

– Gets things done

• Shortcomings:

– Does not praise

– Reprimanding

– Poor listener

– Self-centered

– Poor team player

– Aggressive

– “Above the law”

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Ruler (Fast Introvert)

• Do:

– Be direct

– Support his/her goals

– Get to the point

– Stick to business

– Get things done

– Be quick

• Don’t:

– Waste time socializing

– Be emotional

– Step on his/her toes

– Be a wimp

– Appear lazy

– Beat around the bush

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Ruler (Fast Introvert)

• Wants to know:

– What!

• Drives a:

– Tank

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Relater (Slow Extravert)

• Perceived by others in a positive light:

– Caring

– Good listener

– Team player

– Loyal

– Friendly

– Sympathetic

• Perceived by others in a negative light:

– Unassertive

– Push-over

– Too personal

– Gushing

– Indecisive

– Doormat

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Relater (Slow Extravert)

• Likes:

– Relationships

– Tact

– Cooperation

– Approval

– Doing for others

– Team environment

– Humility

• Dislikes:

– Thoughtlessness

– Rudeness

– Insensitivity

– Confrontation

– Conflict

– Working alone

– Conceit

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Relater (Slow Extravert)

• Strengths:

– Friendly

– Thoughtful

– Supportive

– Trusting

– Trustworthy

– Empathetic

• Shortcomings:

– Needy

– Self-sacrificing

– Martyr

– Indecisive

– Easily intimidated

– Vulnerable

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Relater (Slow Extravert)

• Do:

– Be considerate

– Listen

– Be patient

– Show personal interest, concern

• Don’t:

– Be insensitive

– Cause conflict

– Be inflexible

– Reprimand, especially in public

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Relater (Slow Extravert)

• Wants to know:

– Who?

• Drives a:

– Minivan

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Researcher (Slow Introvert)

• Perceived by others in a positive light:

– Caring

– Good listener

– Team player

– Loyal

– Friendly

– Sympathetic

• Perceived by others in a negative light:

– Unassertive

– Push-over

– Too personal

– Gushing

– Indecisive

– Doormat

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Researcher (Slow Introvert)

• Likes:

– Details

– Accuracy

– Thoroughness

– Documentation

– Proof

– Practicality

– Doing things right

• Dislikes:

– Vagueness

– Unpreparedness

– Mistakes

– Tardiness

– Spontaneity

– Drop-in visitors

– Meetings

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Researcher (Slow Introvert)

• Strengths:

– Meticulous

– Task-oriented

– Punctual

– Systematic

– Reserved

– Disciplined

• Shortcomings:

– Perfectionist

– Slow

– Inhibits progress

– Resists change

– Rigid

– Critical of lack of details

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Researcher (Slow Introvert)

• Do:

– Follow rules

– Substantiate with details, sources

– Be methodical, logical

– Avoid needless change

– Base change on tradition

• Don’t:

– Break the rules

– Skip the details

– Rush

– Expect quick action

– Take big risks

– Push change

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Researcher (Slow Introvert)

• Wants to know:

– How?

• Drives a:

– Volvo

– with Michelin tires

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Practical Applications

• Taco Bell

• Committees and work groups

• Families

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SLOW FAST

EXTRAVERT

INTROVERT

Risk Taker

Ruler Researcher

Relater

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You’ve Got Personality! Fran Berman, MBA

SaddleBrooke Freethinkers December 18, 2016

Q & A