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Have you ever slept with a man a little too soon, only to realize that it was a monumental mistake?

Well, in the present day and age, I don’t feel there are many women who haven’t made this mistake, at one point or another, in their life.

But, women often ask me this question – “Why does the male attitude change after they’ve slept with you.” Well, what if I said that their attitude doesn’t change, rather, the attitude of the woman does?

A client of mine recently came to me with a similar problem.

She realized that she slept with a guy a little too soon, and feared that this was the end of the road for her, and things weren’t going to progress to the next stage anymore.

She was feeling a little guilty, and was extremely worried that maybe she’s shot herself in the foot, and now there is absolutely no way, that this guy will like her, as anything more than just a random fling.

The problem wasn’t that she gave him easy sex; the issue was that she didn’t feel comfortable with this act, and was now massivelyregretting it.

In short, this had a massive effect on her overall attitude around the guy.

She didn't notice this but, before she was cool, calm and confident around this guy. But now, she was a little insecure, and was even acting a little bit desperate.

The more she told me her story, the more I started to understand the core issue. After a through review, I asked her a simple question – “Do you think this guy is sitting around, worrying about the same things you’re worried about?”

In other words – “Is he sitting around wondering, if you will like him

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from this point forward or not? Is he biting his nails with worry, and wondering if you are going to call him or not?”

Obviously he isn’t, she replied.

So, why are you sitting here and wondering what’s going to happen next? – I asked.

You see, the problem isn’t that you slept with him too soon; theproblem is that, you have gone from being completely confident to being someone who now is a little desperate.

It’s not what happens immediately after sleeping with a guy thatmatters, it’s what you do for the next few days, or weeks that makes the big difference.

Most women shift from the high gear to a low gear, and act veryneedy. Some do it consciously, while some do it unconsciously.

But, I’m also not saying that it’s wrong to feel that way. I mean,it’s not easy to wake up one day, and realize that you’ve been taken advantage of and feel used at the same time.

You see, there is a method you can use, not just with this situationbut any situation you might encounter with a man, that will put you in the position of power almost instantly. I call it the “Role reversal method”.

Before I tell you what it is, I must tell you what you will gain whenyou put it into action…

Here is the biggest benefit - This method will give you the perfect idea, on exactly what to do, in various situations around a man, to turn things in your favor.

I know it’s a pretty bold claim, but this is 100% true.

Do you know those situations, where you feel utterly powerless around a man, and sit there scratching your head wondering, what you could do to get the result you want?

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Plus, do you often feel absolutely miserable, because youcan’t figure out what to do?

From this point on, you aren’t ever going to have that issue around a man, ever again.

Because, the method I’ll show you will eliminate this issue from your life forever.

So if you are ready, let me explain exactly what this method is, and how it works.

As you already know - this method is called the “Role reversalmethod” , and it basically means that whenever you encounter a difficult situation with a man, you reverse the roles and take on his role.

In other words, you adapt his attitude, actions and mindset.

To explain it better, let’s follow up with the same example of sleeping with a man too soon.

Most women usually get a little desperate after they have sleptwith a guy, simply because, on some level they feel that they’ve given up the goods, and now the guy might not like them as much.

This could be true in some cases, however, if you play it smart andfollow this “Role Reversal” formula, his attraction for you won’t wear off, rather, it would get more and more intense no matter how many times he has slept with you.

As this formula simply states - with any situation, you must adapt the attitude, actions and mindset of the guy you’re dealing with.

In the case of sleeping with him too early, try to focus on what attitude, mindset and actions a man adopts after he’s slept with you?

Most guys tend to act a little aloof, a little dry, and sometimes tryto make excuses when you call them.

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Therefore, before even waiting for him to act, or react this way, you should adopt those attitudes by default.

Which means, you should act a little aloof, dry and almostuninterested right after you've slept with him.

When you do that, not only will you shock the guy a little, but you will also stand out and impress him.

Let me explain this further – Most men sort of expect a woman to get needy or desperate, after they’ve slept with her. They expect a series of desperate phone calls, or text messages from her. In fact, they put their shield up, even before, you get in touch with them again.

So in short – Most men are following a certain pattern and expect certain behaviors from you. But, when don’t act as he was expecting you to act, you suddenly break through his patterns, and force him to think.

Similarly, when you don’t act like how other women act, you suddenly appear like this out of the ordinary, and different woman to him.

He would instantly label you as someone different, because you don’t come with the standard flaws, other women come with.

Therefore, when you break through his standard patterns, and don’t react like most women usually react, you get his unconscious attention.

Now, would think about you a lot more, and will give you a different kind of treatment altogether.

This same process can be used in any situation you encounter with a man. A good friend of mine had trouble, with keeping men interested after the first few dates.

She used to go out a lot; however after a while, most guys would lose attraction for her.

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While hearing her story, I realized that she was doing everythingright, other than one thing.

She was a little too eager to get started and was too focused on the end goal. Even before the date would start, she would worry and stress over whether, the guy would like her or not by the end of the date.

Since she was too outcome dependent, she was unconsciously sending out a very needy vibe, and every guy she would go out with, could smell this neediness from a mile away.

Therefore, most guys used to pull away, while she used to push harder and harder, to keep the date going.

After a few hours of talking with her, I explained this same formulato her in a lot of detail, and asked her to describe how most menbehaved around her on a date. She said the following…

…Very laid back and a little disinterested.

…Very relaxed.

…They were slow to respond to my questions and gave short answers.

…They played a little hard to get.

I said there you go.

Based on what you’ve described so far, the next time you go out on a date, I want you to be very relaxed, a little disinterested, and don’t be too eager about where things are headed.

Just enjoy the date, and the process. In other words, you must appear that you aren’t thinking about the outcome, and rather just enjoy whatever time you’re sharing with the person next to you.

She had a date planned that very weekend. She gave this process a shot, and was surprised to see that the guy she went out with showed a lot more interest in her than she was used to.

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In fact, for the first time ever, a guy was eager to see her again, and told her that he loved the time they spent together.

The best part is, that you can apply this process to any situation you might encounter with a guy. Even a situation, where a man plays constant games with you, and acts hot and cold.

There was a lady I helped once, who was having trouble with herboyfriend of 6 years. The issue was that they knew each other too well, and the attraction was on its last legs.

They barely even kissed each other, and things were absolutely cold in their relationship.

When things get to this stage, it’s usually because the relationshiplacks emotional temperature. In other words, when we get too familiar with a person, there is no real element of surprise left and as a result things start to get emotionally dry.

Now, I’m not saying that couples who stay together for several years don’t feel any attraction for each other.

The ones who make it work are compatible on a completely different level, and have accepted each other the way they are. This is a subject for another day, as I can talk on this, for hours and hours.

However, let’s get back to the topic at hand.

So, when there are couples who know each other too well, and have almost lost attraction for each other, they tend to choose one of two routes.

They either go their separate ways and breakup, or they try toraise the emotional temperature in the relationship.

Most people don’t get this, but some couples unconsciously fight with each other, to raise the emotional temperature. I know this sounds pretty weird, however, there are many people out there who, unconsciously end up arguing with their partner, because they

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seek some sort of emotional fuel.

They just want to raise the emotional temperature up a few notches, even if it means, using negative means to get there.

However, this is really unhealthy for obvious reasons, and doesn’tbring long term results. However, in the case of the couple I’mtalking about, the woman had become just too predictable and it was working against her.

The weird thing was, that her attraction hadn’t died for herboyfriend. Rather, it was as high as ever.

Why was this, the case?

Well, simply because, her boyfriend wasn’t predictable. His actionswere hard to read, and she could never tell whether, he was going to blow hot or cold on various days.

So after studying her situation, I asked her to prepare a list of things her boyfriend was doing around her, and told her to jot them all down on a piece of paper.

I asked her to put in, all the little to big details in there.

Next, I asked her to adopt these actions in her own routines for the next few weeks. In other words, I asked her to act exactly like how her boyfriend was acting around her and told her to report back to me.

After about the first week or so, she told me that her boyfriend sather down, and asked her if something was up, as she wasn’t acting her normal self.

Then, after a few more days, he was getting more involvedin taking notice of her, and it appeared like he was giving her a lotmore attention, than usual.

Eventually things completely changed and her boyfriend started acting like a lovestruck teenager, who just couldn't have enough of her.

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So you see, this process can work in any situation, as long as you do it the right way.

However, make sure that you don’t confuse yourself with this process, and don’t over-complicate things.

There have been women who tried it, and confused themselves so much, that they couldn’t figure out what they were doing.

So to review the whole process once again, there are only 2 steps you need to do.

Step 1 – Focus on a guy’s actions or thoughts.

Step 2 – Mirror or adopt those actions or thoughts.

That’s about it.

There is nothing more to do or learn, with this process. As long as you follow these 2 basic steps, you will notice that the tables keep turning and that guy you used to avoid you, suddenly feels a heavy surge of attraction or you.

You will notice that completely uninterested man, suddenly showing interest in you, and you will also notice that, getting men to do what you want them to do, starts appearing more and more easy.

Go try this process right now, and I’d love to hear some successstories from your end soon.

Good luck.

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