War Widows' Walk and Picnic 2015

DECEMBER 2015

War Widows’ Walk and Picnic 2015

2 GUILD DIGEST DECEMBER 2015

WAR WIDOWS’ GUILDOF AUSTRALIANSW LIMITED

ABN 24 083 075 914

Under the Patronage of His Excellency General The Honourable

David Hurley AC DSC (Ret’d) Governor of New South Wales

and Mrs Linda Hurley

STATE PRESIDENTMrs Meg Green

CHAIRMs Helen Wiseman

BOARD OF DIRECTORSK Arthur, M Green, D Haines,

N Isenberg, S Kelly, B Morrison, W Thompson, J Wheatley, H Wiseman

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICERPatricia Campbell

PRESIDENT’S REPRESENTATIVESBarbara Jeanes, Gina Parrelli

GUILD DIGESTISSN 1449-3691

Editorial CommitteeP Campbell, B McMullen

PublisherWar Widows’ Guild of Australia NSW Limited

HEAD OFFICELevel 2, 175 Castlereagh Street

Sydney NSW 2000Email: [email protected]: www.warwidowsnsw.com.au

Telephone: (02) 9267-6577Facsimile: (02) 9267-6601

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Friendship Line: 1800-451-615

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* * * *MOTTO

“We all belong to each other.We all need each other.

It is in serving each other and insacrificing for our common good that

we are finding our true life.”(King George VI, Extract from

Christmas message 1941)

EDITORIAL

CONTENTS

2 Editorial3 From the Chair4 Guild Elections 20165 President’s message6-7 From the CEO8 Strategies for 2016 9 National Guild, National Council10-13 Commemoration

14-15 War Widows’ Walk and Picnic16-17 Welfare news18 Transport19 National President20 Friendship Line 22-24 Guild and Social Clubs25-26 Members’ news27 Gardening, Food for thought

DISCLAIMER: The material in this Guild Digest has been checked thoroughly and to the best of our knowledge is correct. However, errors may occur which are beyond our control. If this should happen, we apologise most sincerely.

OUR COVER

Front: A red splash for a sunny day - the War Widows’ Walk and Picnic turns 22.

Photo by Jan StevensBack: Kokoda Track Memorial Walkway

Centrepiece, a series of granite walls, sandblasted with images of the New Guinea Campaign, with

water cascading alongside. Photo by Barbara McMullen

What women can do!Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II was crowned in 1953. Her 60 years on the throne was celebrated in June 2012 with the Diamond Jubilee and on 9 September this year she became the longest-reigning monarch in British history. Highly respected and admired for her hard work and commitment to service, she has worked tirelessly to serve her country. At 89 years of age, some of her duties have been passed on to her son, HRH Prince Charles, but she still maintains a busy schedule. She still handles arounds 430 engagements each year and supports hundreds of charitable organisations and programs. She has also been a great supporter of the British Commonwealth countries and has travelled extensively.The 2015 winner of the Melbourne Cup was ridden by Michelle Payne, the first woman jockey to achieve this milestone.Jessie Mary Vasey is another fine role model for women. After losing her husband towards the end of World War II, and with two young sons, she set up the War Widows’ Craft Guild (later the War Widows’ Guild of Australia) to help war widows repair their shattered lives. The nature of her ability as a leader – her charm, intellect and will – drew other war widows of ability and determination to support her.The War Widows’ Guild, which celebrated its 70th anniversary on 22 November 2015, started in Melbourne from the small beginnings of a craft guild which taught weaving and other handicrafts to war widows so they could augment their pitifully inadequate pensions, and went on to become a powerful Australia-wide advocacy group consulted and respected by governments.The story of the Guild tells of energy released through grief, of women fighting for their children and mates. It tells of great success – living proof that ‘Heaven helps those who help themselves’, and also ‘what women can do’.

3GUILD DIGEST DECEMBER 2015

FROM THE CHAIR FOR YOUR DIARY

Christmas closure, head office Closed Monday 21 December to Friday 1 January Office re-opens Monday 4 January 2016

DVA Christmas closure Closed Friday 25 December to Friday 1 January Office re-opens Monday 4 January 2016

Nominations close For directors and State President 5pm 15 January 2016

Spirit of Anzac travelling exhibition 11-20 January 2016, Wollongong Uni April-May 2016 Tamworth March 2017 Orange and Newcastle April 2017 Sydney

Remembrance ceremony 74th Anniversary Fall of Singapore The 8th Australian Division Assoc 11am 15 February 2015 The Cenotaph, Martin Place

The Entrance and Long Jetty Field of Remembrance 17 April 2016 The Entrance Memorial Park

Bridge Group Every Friday at 10.15am Head office Contact Barbara Pittaway 9267 6577

Please register for the above events at head office on 9267 6577 or 1800 451 615

From the Directors, State President and

staff of the Guild

Season’s Greetings

Telling the Story of the GuildThe story of the War Widows’ Guild is a powerful history of what determined women can achieve.

Guild founder Jessie Vasey said at a rally of 2,000 war widows in July 1947, “There isn’t a wife or mother in this hall who hasn’t managed men in short pants or long pants. Politicians are only men, with loud voices. If Australian women made up their minds that war widows should have decent conditions, Heaven help the politician who resists them.”

War widows today have much to be thankful for, and they would not be in the position they are, if it were not for the active and dedicated women of the Guild.

The story of war widows is also told in a new book about the Guild in Western Australia, called “Many Hearts, One Voice” written by Melinda Tognini. More information on this book is on page 21.

I was delighted to see recognition by the Commonwealth and NSW Ministers for Veterans’ Affairs, of the Guild’s fine work to achieve these improved conditions over the last seven decades.

The Hon Stuart Robert MP, the recently appointed Minister for Veterans’ Affairs, said the War Widows’ Guild had been instrumental in assisting women whose lives had been forever changed by war, and that the work of the Guild had been remarkable. “The Guild has been a powerful and influential voice for war widows over seven decades. The work they do to lobby for and advance the interests of, war widows is greatly appreciated by its members and I know, highly valued by governments.”

At a recent end of year function in our head office, the NSW Minister, the Hon David Elliott MP complimented the Guild’s advocacy for war widows for the past 70 years, saying that the Guild had achieved many benefits and concessions for war widows from the NSW government, and noted that these were benefits which should have been given without the need for asking.

We celebrate the Guild’s achievements.

The NSW Guild now has 34 members over 100 years of age, and I am pleased to advise that the Board of Directors has agreed to honour these members with free membership. We also honour our Life members with free membership in appreciation of their loyalty to the Guild.

Congratulations to these remarkable women.

Helen Wiseman CHAIR, BOARD OF DIRECTORS


GUILD ELECTION 2016

Directors Nominations are invited for five directors: three who are members of the Guild and two who are not members. The Guild has a board of nine directors. The Guild’s Constitution requires that one third of directors retire each year (those longest in office since their election). In addition, one Director appointed to a casual vacancy must stand for election and two have reached the end of their term of office. In 2016, Margaret Green, Dorothy Haines and Sue Kelly (member directors), and Helen Wiseman and Jenny Wheatley (non-member directors) will retire. They are all eligible for re-election, except for Margaret Green and Helen Wiseman who have completed their maximum term as directors. Nominations for non-members will be considered by a Nominations Committee of Directors, which will decide whether the nominees have the qualifications and experience to complement the directors who are members.

State PresidentNominations are also invited for the position of State President; the nominee must be a member of the Guild and must be or become a director. Margaret Green, the current State President, will not be eligible to be nominated for this position, as she is retiring as a director.

NominationsA nomination form is included with this Guild Digest. According to the Guild’s Constitution, a nomination is not valid unless:• It is in writing;• It is in accordance with the nomination form;• It is signed by two members duly entitled to attend

and vote at a general meeting; and• The written consent of the candidate is included

on the nomination form or is otherwise received in writing by the Returning Officer before the end of the Nomination Period.

Nominees may, but are not required to, submit a signed statement of not more than 100 words which sets out information relevant to their candidature and also a head and shoulders colour photograph for

publication in the Guild Digest. Election information for the Guild Digest must be received by the Guild no later than Friday 29 January 2016.If you would like to be nominated as a director and/or State President, or to nominate someone else, please complete the nomination form, ensure that the person being nominated has signed their acceptance of the nomination, and that the two members nominating have both completed their membership details and have signed the form.The nomination period opens 9am 7 December 2015. Nominations must be received by 5pm 15 January 2016 at the Guild Office, Level 2, 175 Castlereagh Street, Sydney. Nominations will not be accepted by the Returning Officer after the close of the nomination period.

Attention: Members turning 90 and olderJean Arnot Luncheon 2016The Guild is calling for members who have contributed to their communities to nominate or be nominated by others for Guild sponsorship to the Jean Arnot Luncheon at Parliament House in May 2016.You may have been a long-term volunteer for one or more organisations such as Meals on Wheels, an office-bearer in a community organisation, such as the Guild or Legacy or other organisation.Please send a letter of nomination, with contact details and outlining the community work undertaken and the period of time of that work. Contact Barbara Pittaway at head office for further information.

Are you interested in becoming a Director?Guild directors find it most rewarding and challenging to contribute to decisions about the policies and future directions of the Guild. However, being the director of a company carries serious responsibilities. If you are thinking of nominating as a director, you may obtain more information about being a director by contacting the CEO Patricia Campbell.


PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE

Hello MembersSince my last message, the National Council meeting was held in Melbourne in October. Patricia Campbell attended with NSW delegates Wendy Thompson and Dot Haines. The future of the Guild, both State and National, was a topic of some discussion. The National Guild engaged the services of a lawyer, well versed in matters related to not-for-profit organisations, to assist in guiding the Guild into the future. We were very fortunate to have the Minister for Veterans’ Affairs, The Hon Stuart Robert MP, attend as guest speaker at the formal dinner at the conclusion of the meeting.There have been many invitations received by the Guild. Of particular note was the Gala Ball at Government House to celebrate the 170th year of the House. Gina Parrelli and I attended and it was a fabulous night, full of dancing, laughter and meeting old friends. The venue was superb and the weather excellent.The War Widows’ Walk and Picnic was again held at the Kododa Track at Concord, for the 14th year. This was well attended by our members and all had a very enjoyable day. Again the weather was excellent. Ms Jennifer Collins, Department of Veterans Affairs Deputy Commissioner opened the Walk. On Sunday 8 November there were three functions to attend. Barbara Jeanes attended the HMAS Sydney wreath laying at Bradley’s Head, Mosman, Wendy Thompson attended Jewish Remembrance Day at the Jewish Museum, Darlinghurst and I attended the Remembrance Sunday services at St Andrew’s Cathedral, where the Governor General and Lady Cosgrove were guests of honour.On 10 November the NSW Premier, Mike Baird, hosted a reception at Barangaroo for the veteran community. Some lucky war widows attended this most enjoyable function.Gina Parrelli attended the Remembrance Day service at the Cenotaph, Martin Place and laid a wreath on behalf of all war widows. I was attending the National Remembrance Service in Canberra where

HRH Prince Charles and the Duchess of Cornwall were guests of honour. On 12 November Barbara Jeanes attended the Korean War Veterans luncheon at Paddington, hosted by the Consul-General for the Republic of Korea. A number of our Korean War widow members also attended. On the same day Wendy Thompson and Dot Haines attended Government House for an afternoon reception in honour of the royal couple. The ladies had an opportunity to chat with the Duchess of Cornwall, continuing the Guild’s long association with the Royal Family. I continue to attend the Australian Veterans’ Children Assistance Trust Board and Finance Committee meetings and the Veterans’ Children Education Scheme Board meetings on behalf of the Guild. The Department of Veterans’ Affairs Deputy Commissioner Forum was held in November. The forum enables the Guild to continue the advocacy necessary to ensure war widows are well supported.My President’s Representatives, Gina Parrelli and Barbara Jeanes, continue to represent the Guild and are extremely busy assisting me with the many duties and functions that are required of a State President. Barbara and Gina are doing a great job and I am very grateful for their support as I juggle the commitments of both the State and National Presidency roles.The Camden Guild Club Christmas function, Queanbeyan/Yass Guild Club, Wagga Wagga Guild Club, Hunter/Newcastle Guild Club, Rockdale Guild Club, Mid North Coast Guild Club and the Southern Region Christmas functions will be held in the next few weeks.Guild staff work hard in the organisation of the many functions which take place for and on behalf of the Guild. A very big thank you to all staff. Patricia Campbell and Barbara McMullen continue to assist me in my role.I look forward to seeing many of you at the Guild Christmas Party at the Hilton Hotel and at our regional parties. I wish all members and their families a safe and happy Christmas and an enjoyable New Year.Till 2016,Meg Green PRESIDENT


70th Anniversary Guild representatives attended the National Guild Council meeting in Melbourne in October, and at the same time celebrated the Guild’s 70th Anniversary and reflected on the seven decades of work on behalf of war widows. More details of this celebration are later in the magazine.

As the NSW Guild reaches its 70th Anniversary in June next year, we will be taking the opportunity during the year to celebrate with members our seven decades of support for war widows.

I mentioned in our last magazine that we were looking at improving the war widows’ trees planted as part of the Remembrance Driveway at Bass Hill/Bankstown. We have had further discussions with the Council and we hope to rededicate our presence on the Remembrance Driveway as part of our Anniversary celebrations.

COTANSW COTANSW is an organisation which advocates on behalf of older people and has a long list of achievements over the many years of its operation. The Guild has had a representative on the Board of COTANSW for over 16 years. I have been a director since 2001, and have been Vice-President over a number of years. My term of office ceased in November this year.

I was very honoured to have been made a Life Member of COTANSW on my retirement as Director and Vice-President at the Annual General Meeting in November. I congratulate the COTA movement on the excellent work it has taken on behalf of older Australians over many years, and wish the organisation well in the future.

Invitations From time to time the Guild is invited to nominate war widows to attend receptions or commemorations, and we are asked to provide the names and addresses of people who might be invited to attend. Usually these functions are in locations around the Sydney CBD, such as Government House, or recently, Barangaroo. For example please see the photos from the Premier’s Reception at Barangaroo on page 13. Some receptions are held during the day and others are in the evening. To provide a list we need to consider people who are able to reach the city and who are able to travel independently or

are able to provide their own transport eg car or taxi (sometimes invitations allow you to bring a friend). Sometimes we are asked to provide the names of war widows from particular wars, such as Korea, Vietnam, Afghanistan, World War II.

If you would be interested in being considered for any such invitations in the future, please contact the Guild by phone or in writing and provide your details, including the war(s) of your husband’s service, and permission for the Guild to provide your details to the requesting organisation (such as name and address and phone number). We can then note this on our database.

Vietnam delegation I was pleased to be invited to meet with a delegation from Vietnam together with officials of the RSLNSW. We spoke with them about the work of our respective organisations, and the RSL took them to visit a number of their services to see their work in action. The delegation told of the major challenges facing their country, their veterans and the community generally. Of particular concern is the degradation of the country due to the chemicals used during the war, the effects on the people, the unexploded ordnance and land mines, the numbers of soldiers who were still missing in action. Fifty years on, the effects of war continue to affect their community in significant ways.

Christmas parties Following the success of our regional Christmas parties last year, we have extended the number of gatherings this year at the request of a number of our regional Guild and Social clubs. These parties allow members to join together with other members across a regional area with socialization, friendship and Christmas spirit. We are delighted to see that six regions have requested a party this year, and members in the Camden/Southern Highlands/

FROM THE CEO

Patricia Campbell greets Lt Gen (Ret) Phung Khac Dang


South Coast, Goulburn, Wagga Wagga, Newcastle/Hunter, Southern (Batemans Bay) and Mid North Coast (Macksville) regions have joined together for Christmas cheer. These parties have been most successful and well patronised by members. Of course we are also having our usual party at the Hilton Hotel in Sydney.

Telephone survey - Thanks Earlier this year some of the staff at the War Widows’ Guild head office rang some of our members and asked questions for a telephone survey. The Guild thanks all those members who were so willing to participate in this survey. The results of that survey will assist the Board to determine the way forward for the Guild.

Guild housing We are still proceeding with the plans for the redevelopment of our three housing properties. While we are undertaking this process, we are

FROM THE CEO

New raffleWe have a beautiful new raffle, again generously donated by Veronica Chapman (pictured) and her daughter Gloria Gardiner. The painting is a seascape featuring sea turtles. Raffle tickets are $1 and are available from Guild head office or from Guild and Social Clubs. You can also buy them when you renew your Guild subscription. The raffle will be drawn at our AGM in June 2016.

Staff changesWe were very sorry to see Rosie Hall retire from the Guild after 7 years in our reception and membership area. Rosie has been the “voice” of the Guild for many members, who will miss her friendly voice at the end of the phone. Rosie went above and beyond ensuring our members and other callers obtained the assistance they needed. Rosie has moved north and we hope she enjoys the warm weather and sunshine. Rosie is a keen gardener and some of our members and staff have reminders of Rosie in their own gardens from the plants she so willingly shared. Likewise she has taken some of the plants and cuttings north with her for her new garden. We wish Rosie well for the future.

We welcome Dianne Marsh as our new Reception Co-ordinator. Dianne has worked at the Guild on a casual basis for three years. Ruth Anstice has also joined us and is generally working one day a week.

Rosie Hall (left) with Dianne Marsh at the Walk shop

Legal service - new name The Aged-Care Rights Service (TARS) from late November 2015 has adopted the trading name of Seniors Rights Service. The Seniors Rights Service is a community legal service for older people.

The contact number is 1800 424 079. This is the previous number for NSW Country callers and now includes local callers. The new website is at: www.seniorsrightsservice.org.au

pleased to advise that the units are now fully occupied, which is bringing in a steady rental income to the Guild. Our partner, Evolve Housing, has worked to find tenants to occupy all the units not occupied by Guild members.

Guild head office Members may have heard about the new Sydney Metro, and the announcement of its route through the Sydney CBD. The Guild has been advised that the building we occupy is to be resumed by the State Government for the new Pitt St Station. This will mean that the Guild will have to find new premises in the next year and move. We will keep members informed about the progress.

I wish all members and your families Seasons Greetings and a heathy and happy New Year from us all at the Guild office.

Patricia Campbell CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER


Guild Strategies for 2016BELONGING

We will communicate the benefits of belonging to the Guild for all war widows and

(a) promote belonging and social inclusion within the Guild by:• supporting our Guild Club / Social Club network• providing transport assistance for eligible members to Clubs and major events• providing outreach services, such as telephone support and visits (eg hospital visits)

(b) promote and encourage connection through technology, digital media and computer literacy for war widows

(c) upgrade the Guild website(d) preserve the history of the Guild.

SERVICES

We will provide a range of services which will take into account the changing needs of members and war widows, including:

(a) advocacy on issues which affect war widows and the Guild, including participation in gov-ernment and other consultative forums

(b) an increase in the number of members who access technology(c) the provision of welfare support and information for war widows, through the Guild Digest,

personal contact and visits to and projects supporting Guild and Social Clubs(d) working with or developing collaborative projects with the Department of Veterans’ Affairs

and other appropriate organisations to provide information and better services and support for war widows

(e) participation in commemorative services and ceremonies(f) provision of safe and secure housing for current residents.

GOVERNANCE

We will maintain a financially strong and well governed Guild and in particular we will:

(a) undertake a strategic approach to the management of the Guild and the services offered to war widows

(b) manage the finances of the NSW Guild in view of a declining membership(c) develop and implement the Future Project to assess and respond to the future needs of war

widows (d) provide support to the National Guild and work with the National Guild and other State

Guilds to ensure appropriate representation of War Widows and their needs with the Federal and State Governments

(e) in the context of the Centenary of ANZAC, the 70th anniversary year of the Guild and the 50th year since the Battle of Long Tan (Vietnam War), tell the story of the Guild and its achievements by different media to different people to raise the profile of the Guild

(f) continue the staged withdrawal from housing as part of managing the Guild’s assets to en-sure liquidity to meet the cost of providing services to war widows

(g) ensure an ongoing process of Board renewal, with appropriately skilled people coming through.


The National Guild held its Council meeting in Melbourne In October and took the opportunity to celebrate its 70th Anniversary. National and State office-bearers laid a wreath and flowers at the Jessie Mary Vasey Labyrinth at Heidelberg Repatriation Hospital. Our pictures show the anniversary cake, the Memorial stained glass window in the chapel featuring founder Mrs Vasey and our Guild badge, a Memorial plaque and stone, wreath, the Presidents and office-bearers, the NSW delegation, and the Minister and Wendy Thompson.

A celebratory dinner was attended by dignitaries including the new Minister for Veterans’ Affairs, the Hon Stuart Robert MP, who is pictured presenting Wendy Thompson with a certificate recognising her role as former NSW President.

The Guild’s

The Guild’s 70th Anniversary


Following the Re-enactment March, the Choir sang at the Remembrance Day service in Martin Place Sydney on 11 November.

Guild member, Rhondda Vanzella OAM, and OJ Rushton were the driving forces galvanising local and community support for the March and the Choir, and strongly encouraged the children’s education program to learn about our local and national history. Local school children participated in artistic and creative writing activities, entering a Diary and Postcard project, completing diary entries which might have been written by the young soldiers fighting in far off lands, or writing postcards back to their families. A display of the winning entries was launched at Parliament House Sydney on Remembrance Day together with performances by the choir and a number of children.

KANGAROO MARCH EXHIBITION

The Guild has been involved in the preparations for the Kangaroo March Re-enactment since 2013, when Wendy Thompson, then President, attended the launch in Wagga Wagga. Since that time the organisers have been very involved in the preparations. Apart from re-enacting the historic even of the March itself, a major focus was to engage children in the stories of the marchers and the Australian role in World War I, inspiring current generations to achieve success in life as a reflection of the value derived from the WW1 sacrifices, and educating children about the long and continuing fight for freedom.

The Re-enactment March was held in October-November, starting at Wagga Wagga and passing through more than 30 country towns, ending at Campbelltown, a 520km journey. The original March took place in late 1915-1916 and was a recruiting drive to encourage young country men to join up to assist the war effort.

The involvement of children of the cities, towns and villages along the route was a major feature of the March, particularly singing as part of the RSL Rural Commemorative Youth Choir under the creative leadership of OJ Rushton who composed many of the original songs sung by the Choir. In the lead up to the March, the choir sang at the Guild’s ANZAC Field of Remembrance Services in 2014 and 2015.

OJ Rushton and Rhondda Vanzella OAM


Battle for Australia Day

The Battle for Australia commemoration honours those who served on land and sea and in the air repulsing the direct threat to Australia in 1942-1945. His Excellency, General The Honourable David Hurley AC DSC (Ret’d), Governor of New South Wales gave the keynote speech, extracts of which follow.“As Patron of the Battle for Australia Association, I am honoured to be invited to address you on this national day of remembrance.“On this day, we honour our servicemen and women on land, on sea and in the air who fought valiantly, alongside our allies, from the Battle of the Coral Sea and on the Kokoda Track until the end of the war was declared. Just two weeks ago, we

COMMEMORATION

commemorated the 70th Anniversary of the Victory in the Pacific, here at the Cenotaph.“There would have been no Victory, without the tremendous efforts of our servicemen and women to protect our island nation and the lands of our neighbours to the North.“By March 1942, the Japanese held a line from Rabaul to Singapore, just a few hundred kilometers from the tip of Australia. Soon afterwards, Prime Minister John Curtin declared: ‘the fall of Singapore opens the Battle for Australia’. “Today, we remember and honour those who directly carried the burden of defence of Australia through this war – and the many thousands killed in action, wounded or taken prisoner of war.“At home, in 1942 /43, Australia also faced loss of life and the threat of invasion. Darwin, Horn Island in the Torres Strait and Broome were bombed, Newcastle was shelled, here in Sydney midget Japanese submarines entered the Harbour, and a ship was torpedoed just off Nambucca Heads. “The epic Battle of Kokoda was a critical turning point in the Pacific War, when Australians fought a monumental, rearguard action against the Japanese across a tortuous jungle terrain. Their extreme courage prevented the enemy's access to Port Moresby.“We remember, also, the loyalty and skill of those Papuan men who played a vital role in the battle. They carried supplies forward for the troops and then, as the number of troops who were wounded or fell sick increased, carried back to safety those who were unable to walk This year and each year, we welcome their representatives to this commemoration with gratitude and affection. Our nation will never forget their service.“Despite the difficulties and hardships experienced on the home front, the Australians of that generation remember this time for its sense of unity, a time when people put their hand up, worked hard and pulled together. It was a case of “All in”.“It was a whole nation effort, Australians at their best, volunteering and working together, putting aside differences to look after each other and our neighbours, on the home front and to our nation’s North … That’s what we should pass to our children. It provided the basis for what we are today – a united and resilient country.”


COMMEMORATION

Memorial to HMAS AE1

A burial at sea is often accompanied by a floating wreath of flowers. In 1914, it is unlikely that the men of AE1 were afforded that luxury, when the Australian submarine was lost off the coast of Papua at the beginning of WWI.

Meg Green, National President of the War Widows’ Guild of Australia, together with Eric Easterbrook, President of Sydney Legacy, and John Haines, NSW Vice President of the Returned and Services League, laid wreaths at the unveiling of a memorial to the Australian submarine AE1 at the Australian National Maritime Museum in September.

The memorial, by artist Warren Langley, imagines a wreath of floating twigs and branches from the waters off Papua. In sunlight the polished stainless steel structure shimmers and reflects its image on the water surface. At night a light creates a complex optical intrigue of reflections.

John Haines, Meg Green, Eric Easterbrook

Remembrance Day 2015

L to R: Wendy Thompson, Patricia Campbell, His Excellency the Governor of NSW, Mrs Linda Hurley,

Gina Parrelli at the Cenotaph, Sydney

This day is dedicated to the Armistice which ended the First World War (1914–18). Each year on this day Australians observe one minute’s silence at 11 am, in memory of those who died or suffered in all wars and armed conflicts.

VP Day

MAJGEN ‘Gus’ Gilmore AO DSC, Meg Green, LTGEN (Ret’d) Ken Gillespie AO DSC CSM

Australians attended ceremonies across the country to mark the 70th anniversary of Victory in the Pacific. Japan's surrender to Allied forces on August 15, 1945 spelled the end of WWII and put to bed the looming threat of a Japanese invasion of Australia.


Gala Ball

A Gala Ball at Government House to celebrate the 170th year of the House, hosted by HE General the Hon David Hurley AC DSC (Ret’d), Governor of NSW and Mrs Linda Hurley in October was a great night with great company.

COMMEMORATION

Premier’s Reception at Barangaroo Premier Mike Baird MP has been holding gatherings of contemporary veterans with veterans from previous conflicts. A Reception for members of the veteran community, held in November, was attended by about 1,000 people.

Legacy Week

Daniel Keighran VC and Meg Green at the launch of Legacy Week 2015


This year marked 22 years since the Guild held the first War Widows’ Walk and Picnic. The Guild has enjoyed the support and co-operation of the Department of Veterans’ Affairs, as the Walk has accorded with Veterans’ Health Week, which aims to involve members of the veteran community in healthy activities which can be enjoyed throughout the year. Health is really a feeling of wellbeing and a walk with friends in the open air can make a difference.

In the first years that the Walk and Picnic was held, the Royal Botanic Gardens was also a source of assistance and co-operation. The Walk started with a short ceremony at the Pool of Reflection near the ANZAC Memorial in Hyde Park, proceeded past St Mary’s Cathedral, with the bells pealing, and finished at the Band Lawn in the Royal Botanic Gardens. About 250 war widows and a few friends participated.

In 1995 the Gardens allotted a special flower bed in the Rose Garden for the dedication by the State President, Myrtle Shepherd, of the specially bred commemorative “Spirit of Peace” rose. That year coincided with the 50th anniversary of the end of war in the Pacific, the year of Australia Remembers, and the 50th Anniversary of the Guild.

War Widows’ Walk and Picnic


We spoke to Margaret Feeney, former State Secretary, Joan Parsons, former Manager Housing and Information Service, and members Norma Adams, Dot Hancock, Betty Byrne and Peggy Turner, who shared their recollections of the first Walk. Mrs Parsons told us that the original idea of the Walk was hers. Mrs Turner sent in her Guild Digest from 1994 and remembered the friends she walked with. That year marked 80 years since World War I. One common recollection was the ringing of the bells of St Mary’s and another, the sighting of a kookaburra resting on a tree branch in the Gardens.

Since the move to the Kokoda Track Memorial Walkway in Rhodes in 2002, the Guild has enjoyed the support of Concord Repatriation General Hospital, together with the continuing financial help and volunteer staff from DVA, and volunteers from the National Australia Bank. DVA Deputy Commissioner, Ms Jennifer Collins opened the Walk this year, amid the company of about 130 members and friends.

Adding to the enjoyment of the Walk has been the music. The music for the early years of the Walk, in the Royal Botanic Gardens, was performed by a string quartet from the Conservatorium of Music, then, later, by the wonderful Army Band, then this year by the Naval Quintet.

War Widows’ Walk and Picnic


WELFARE NEWS

Pension increase The war widows’ pension was adjusted on 20 September 2015. The pension is now $880.90 per fortnight. This is an increase of $6.80. The Income Support Supplement (ISS) has increased by $2.10 and is now $259.90 per fortnight. The Department of Veterans’ Affairs provides you with your pension and can give you exact details of amounts you receive. If you are unsure about your pension payments ring DVA for an update on 133 254 or country members 1800 555 254.

War widows are Wonder Women

The Guild was again involved with Veterans’ Health Week and hosted several events, with the theme of Mental Wellness and “positive ageing”.

Positive ageing refers to maintaining a positive attitude, feeling good about ourselves, staying connected, keeping fit and healthy, so we can appreciate and participate in life as we age. Age is not just a number and growing older; it’s a transition, taking 20 to 30 years, rather than an abrupt point in time.

The way we feel about ourselves affects how we view life, how much we engage in activities, how others view us and want to remain connected to us. While we can acknowledge a negative situation, we can always be more positive.

Create a mind switch by

• Creating alternative thoughts. If the weather is terrible and you must go out, try to find a positive such as recognising a chance to wear a bright jumper or scarf.

• Instead of thinking negatively about how cold it is, focus on the good aspects of events and ignore the negatives.

• If you’re having lunch with friends and the food isn’t as good as usual, focus on the company and enjoyment you are having with your friends.

• Practising gratitude. Write down two or three things that you are thankful for in life, no matter how big or small. If it is a struggle getting out of

bed, be grateful that you have a bed and are able to move.

• Spending time with people who lift you up and make you feel good about yourself.

• Body language. Think about how you are standing. Instead of looking down, shoulders slumped, stand straight, strike the ‘wonder woman pose’, even if only in your mind. Stand tall, chest out and hands on hips.

We thank the Department of Veterans’ Affairs for the funding, the Royal District Nursing Service for their support and our guest presenters, who made these events so successful. The most important tips from the events are to remain active, think positively and stay connected. Remember, war widows are “wonder women”.


ClubGRANTS The Guild sincerely thanks the following organisations for their generous donations towards activities such as transport, room hire and healthy lifestyle seminars for Guild and Social Clubs:

WELFARE NEWS

Public transport changes - OpalConcession paper tickets will no longer be available in the Greater Sydney Area from 1 January 2016. You need to order an Opal card. The pension/seniors Opal card is a plastic yellow card and fares are capped at $2.50 a day. You can order online at www.opal.com.au or call 13 67 25.The staff at the Opal call centre can answer any questions and will assist you to order an Opal card. When you phone Opal (13 67 25), have your DVA Gold card handy. You will need to make up a 4 digit number that you can remember, to be a security PIN that you can use when you speak with Opal at a later date to help with their security checks.The Opal system covers Sydney trains, buses and ferries and includes the areas of Blue Mountains, Illawarra, Central Coast, Hunter, and Southern Highlands. It does not cover private bus routes. Opal facilities are available at some newsagencies and supermarkets. For the initial set up of your new Opal card, choose from the following payment options:• Order a new “blank” card. When you put money

onto your card at a supermarket or newsagency, it has the advantage of activating the card so it is ready to be used and the balance will not expire.

• Link it to your bank account. If you do not actually use your Opal card initially within 60 days, then any money you had on this card will be reversed (takes 2-3 business days to occur). However, once you have activated your card, any money held on it will not expire and will be topped up from your nominated bank account.

Where to top up your Opal card: Opal retailers are listed on the website and you can ask the call centre for your nearest locations. For country members it may be better to manually load your card when you arrive in Sydney, eg Domestic Airport, Central Station.For further information, visit the website - it has a section for seniors and pensioners, including frequently asked questions, or phone the Opal call centre which is available 24 hours, 7 days a week.

Handy numbers during public holidays

South Sydney Junior Rugby League Club $2,000 for Coogee Randwick Social Club Penrith RSL Club $3,000 for Penrith and Lower Blue Mountains Guild ClubClub Five Dock RSL $500 for Drummoyne-Five Dock Social ClubWoonona Bulli RSL $1,200 for Wollongong Social ClubCrescent Head Country Club, Kempsey Macleay RSL Club

and South West Rocks Country Club donated $300 each to Kempsey Social ClubChatswood RSL $12,100 for Chatswood and District Social ClubGladesville RSL and Community Club $2,500 for North Ryde Social ClubRockdale RSL $1,500 for Rockdale Guild ClubC.ex Group $1,870 in kind for Coffs Harbour Guild Club.

IN CASE OF EMERGENCY Fire/ Ambulance/ Police 000.

VVCS - Veterans and Veterans Families Counselling Service - 1800 011 046 - 24 hours.

SES - NSW State Emergency Service, for emergency help in flood or storm 132 500.

Rural Fire Service - Bush Fire Information Line 1800 679 737.


A reminder Don’t stop attending your Guild or Social Club meetings because you no longer drive or can’t get on a bus. Take advantage of Guild Transport and stay social. Ring Jenny to check your eligibility on 9267 6577, or 1800 451 615 for country members. Contribution is still only $15.00 for a return trip.

All feedback is appreciated. If you have a problem with your transport, let me know so that I can address the issue.

Please notify the Transport Co-ordinator if you no longer wish to use Guild Transport. New passenger lists will be compiled in Jan/Feb 2016.

WELFARE NEWS

Community Transport and the GuildWe now have well-established working relationships with Community Transport organisations from the following Sydney regions: Bankstown/Canterbury, Hornsby/Ku-Ring-Gai, Manly/Warringah/Pittwater, Ryde/Hunters Hill, Sutherland Shire, Randwick/Waverley and South West Sydney. Regionally, we work with Community Transport organisations at Northern Rivers, the Hunter, Manning Valley, Hawkesbury, Southern Highlands, Wollongong/Shellharbour, Queanbeyan, Yass and Goulburn.

If you want to stay in your own home but need help locally with transport, you may be eligible for Community Transport. All Community Transport buses are equipped with drop-out steps and handrails. Phone My Aged Care on 1800 200 422 for further information, or phone me and I will be happy to assist.

Support from other organisations

Sincere thanks to Premier Cabs who gave a generous donation of transport and on-site support for the War Widows’ Walk and Picnic this year. Thank you also to Cabra-vale Diggers who are again providing a bus and driver free of charge for our Regional Christmas Party at Camden.

End of Year activitiesI trust transport arrangements to the many Sydney and Regional Christmas parties went well.

As the year draws to a close, I thank our capable Presidents and Co-ordinators for their support of members who are struggling with mobility or are no longer driving.

Jenny Yule TRANSPORT CO-ORDINATOR

Special delivery

Member Stephanie Joss arrived at this year’s Walk and Picnic in a rather unusual way. Intending to get the train to Rhodes, she accidentally alighted at Concord West station and not knowing which way to the Kokoda Track, Stephanie asked a garbage truck driver for directions.

After chatting for a while and ascertaining that he was a kind fellow, she accepted his offer of a lift to the Kokoda Track in the rubbish truck, as he was going the same way. Stephanie needed some help to get into the truck as it was so high, so the driver assisted by pushing her up and into the cabin. Stephanie said it was all quite funny and a bit of a joke.

He had to do several rubbish pick ups on the way to the Kokoda Track and then helped her out at the other side of the park area, so no one would see her get out of a rubbish truck. Definitely a special delivery!


NATIONAL PRESIDENT’S REPORT

Hello Members and Friends,Congratulations to the War Widows’ Guild of Victoria on achieving 70 years. It takes a team of dedicated people to keep an organisation in existence for 70 years. Well done to all the office bearers and staff, both past and present. I also congratulate the ACT Guild for reaching its 50th Anniversary in September.Advocacy, in a number of forums, and commemoration are priorities for the Guild, and I attend a steady stream of meetings and commemorative events. I attended the National Remembrance Day Service at the Australian War Memorial. HRH Prince Charles and the Duchess of Cornwall took part in the wreath laying. The Governor General, HE General the Hon Sir Peter Cosgrove AK MC (Retd) and Lady Cosgrove, and Prime Minister the Hon Malcolm Turnbull MP and Mrs Turnbull also attended. We braved an extremely wet day and all got a thorough soaking. Despite the poor weather it was a very moving ceremony. Later in the day I attended a meeting with The Hon David Feeney MP, Shadow Minister for Veterans’ Affairs and Shadow Minister for the Centenary of ANZAC. He was briefed on the War Widows’ Guild with emphasis on some issues relevant to war widows. In the evening at the Australian War Memorial I attended the inaugural Veterans Film Festival, which screened 12 short films relevant to veterans. A submission to simplify the Grant-in-Aid application process was well received by the Department of Veterans’ Affairs at the August ESORT meeting. This will now make it much easier for national organisations such as Partners of Veterans and the Guild to submit applications for funding assistance.A productive meeting with the Department of Veterans’ Affairs (Ex-Service Organisation Round Table) was held in November. We were updated on the proposals for the commemoration of Long Tan Day on 18 August, 2016. These include a national commemorative service in Canberra and a service at Gallipoli Barracks, Enoggera, Brisbane. The repatriation of remains from Terendak Military Cemetery, Malaysia, is progressing well and the Ramp Ceremony, the official procession of flag-

Meg Green, the Hon Stuart Robert MP, Jan McLeod

draped coffins held in the presence of government and military dignitaries, is planned for June, 2016.The Senate Inquiry into the ‘Mental Health of Australian Defence Force (ADF) Personnel who have returned from Combat, Peacekeeping or other Deployment’ has had open sessions where applicants could present their submissions. The Senate committee will hand down their findings from this inquiry in February 2016. The Guild’s National Council meeting was held in Melbourne in October 2015. The future of the Guild in all States and at a national level was discussed and solicitor Anne Robinson provided legal advice regarding how to proceed with this. It is important that the Guild continues to operate across Australia, as a national presence is essential to support war widows and to ensure their representation at a national level. The formal dinner after the Council Meeting hosted the Minister for Veterans’ Affairs, the Hon Stuart Robert MP. The Minister presented Certificates of Achievement to three former State Presidents, Mrs Sue Wilson, WA, Mrs Wendy Charlton, Vic and Mrs Wendy Thompson, NSW. Following the dinner the Minister released a press statement congratulating the Guild on its 70th Anniversary. The WA Guild has recently released their book, “Many Hearts, One Voice” – the story of the War Widows’ Guild in Western Australia. The book was written by Melinda Tognini and is available for purchase from the WA Guild office.In my first year as National President, 2015 has been extremely busy. We are now well into the festive season so I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and a safe and happy New Year.Meg Green NATIONAL PRESIDENT


FRIENDSHIP LINE

Hello FriendsDon`t look at the calendar or you will notice Christmas just around the corner. I have decided to go with the tide this year - not to panic that things aren`t done, but to enjoy the season, the music, the happiness on children`s faces - be grateful for all I have received.

I have a lovely story to share, of twin sisters, Betty and Peggy, who turned 99 last August. Both live in separate apartments in a retirement village. Betty moved in with her husband 28 years ago, followed soon afterwards by Peggy. As they are identical, they enjoyed so much fun fooling people when they were younger.

They are in our Birthday Book; Betty first, immediately followed by Peggy. How wonderful and what history they must share!

One of our ladies, who is justifiably extremely proud, has a grandson who is a singer. He has been invited to the United States with his wife and daughter to stay with another musician and work in America. He has just returned from a musical festival in Austria. A real good-news story.

Most of us enjoy going out. We go to our meetings, Club outings, lunches and so on, whenever we get the o p p o r t u n i t y . Those of us who went to the War Widows’ Walk enjoyed the day immensely, meeting people we have not seen for a long while. Now it’s hard to imagine being confined to home and reading all the activities that other people are enjoying. You are the ladies we love to talk to, hopefully to cheer you and make sure you understand you are an important part of our Guild and always will be.

On behalf of all our Hello Girls, we wish each and every one of you a happy Christmas and a very healthy New Year.

Sincerely, Pauline

Friendship Line 1800 451 615

10am - 3pm, Mon - Fri All members may register for calls

Veterans’ Line 1800 011 046

9am - 5pm Every day of the year,

all members

WRAP WITH LOVEWhen Guild member Sonia Gidley-King (1928-2010) started Wrap with Love in 1992, she collected together some leftover wool and some enthusiastic friends, and before long, 38 wraps were packed in a container of farm machinery and on their way to war-torn Mozambique. But it wasn’t as simple as that.

Sonia was a person of great commitment and high standards, and she gave careful thought to every detail. So how did she arrive at the size of her wraps? There were two reasons for deciding on the pattern of 28 squares, each measuring 10” by 10” (now 25cm by 25cm). This sized wrap fits a single

bed but is also a comfortable size to use as a shawl, hence the name “wrap”.

Wrap with Love, the organisation,

continues to follow Sonia’s vision and has now exceeded the incredible total of 400,000 wraps. Knitters continue to work 4 x 7 wraps in Sonia’s pattern, and increasingly send in what can only be called works of art.

Contact them Wednesday or Friday, 10am to 2pm on 8399 3000.

LISTEN TO YOUR GUILD DIGESTYour Guild Digest is available on CD free of charge to Guild members with a print disability such as vision impairment or literacy difficulties. Vision Australia readers narrate the printed magazine onto compact disks, then post them to Guild members who have requested it. Please call head office on

9267 6577 or for country members, 1800 451 615 if you or anyone else you know would benefit from receiving the Guild Digest on CD.

Vision Australia lends CD players to Library members free of charge. To become a member of their Library, contact Reader Services on 1300 654 656.


BOOK REVIEWS

Many Hearts, One VoiceThe story of the War Widows’ Guild in Western Australia

“In the vast literature concerning Australian war and post-war history, references to the sacrifices of the war widows, and the work of the Guild, are seldom found. They are simply left out of many official accounts.

“That is why this is such an important book … it forms an integral part of the history of the women in this state.

“And for readers of this book, I can almost guarantee these women will not be forgotten.

“Who could fail to be entranced and impressed by this group of women who refused to accept their lot, who began with so little and pushed through barriers of class and gender to create a mighty organisation that continues to flourish today?

“I am honoured to have been (a former national) patron of the Guild and delighted that this beautifully written account of the magnificent women from Western Australia has been produced.”

From the Foreword by The Hon Dame Quentin Bryce AD CVO, National patron of the War Widows’ Guild of Australia, 2008-2014.

The author, Melinda Tognini, spent eight years researching, writing and editing.

She says “Central to the book are the stories of the war widows themselves. In conducting oral history interviews, I was privy to numerous stories of ordinary women who were thrust into extraordinary circumstances and yet faced those challenges with courage. As members of the War Widows’ Guild, this story belongs to each one of you.”

To purchase a copy of Many Hearts, One Voice, please contact the Guild on 9267 6577 or for country members, on 1800 451 615.

Between the Dances2015, the 70th Anniversary of the end of World War II is an ideal time to explore how women contributed to the war effort, all the while worrying about the welfare of their men, yet relishing the next dance. Many of these women are now war widows.

“I loved it when the soldiers were in town. Dances at the Castlemaine Town Hall were much more fun with them” – woollen mill worker, Audrey Stewart.

Between the Dances, written by Jacqueline Dinan, is a collection of short stories from the women who lived through World War II. Revealing personal conversations with over 300 remarkable women, it highlights the irony of women embracing challenge and opportunity presented by this devastating war.

Serving their country as nurses, farmhands, munitions workers or members of the defence forces, these women, in telling their stories, expose their struggle with gender stereotypes, the difficult release of social liberties and the dawning of new opportunities for all Australian women.

The last tradition left was the weekly dance, which ceremoniously brought these courageous women and men together for a quickstep, jitterbug or fox trot and a brief respite from the rigours of wartime.

The book was launched by Fran Kelly, radio presenter and journalist with women, in the presence of some of the many women who were involved in the war effort. The publisher is Ventura and the book will be available in bookstores, libraries or online at Booktopia.

War Widows Meg Green, Peggy Williams (served in Land Army), author Jacqueline Dinan, Edna Petfield

(AWAS) and Fran Kelly at the launch

Melinda Tognini, HE the Hon Kerry Sanderson AO, WA

Governor, Jane Fraser


Cronulla/Sutherland 50 Years

The Cronulla Sutherland War Widows Guild Club enjoyed their 50th Anniversary in October. President Shirley Hancock said all the members told her how much they enjoyed the lovely relaxed day with the pretty white flowers on the tables, the beautiful cake and the very good luncheon. There were 71 people present, including 12 invited guests, among them Ian Burke, President of the Cronulla RSL, Warren Thomas, President of the Cronulla RSL Sub Branch, Graeme Boyd from the St George/Sutherland Division of Sydney Legacy and Councillor Carol Provan, representing the Mayor. The Guild’s State President Meg Green, Patricia Campbell, Gina Parrelli and Audrey Blood attended. Lorna Davidson and Elmyra Kirwan from Rockdale Guild Club and Julie Taylor and Barbara James from Penshurst Guild Club also attended.

Parramatta 60 Years

The Parramatta Guild Club celebrated its 60th Anniversary. All the Committee - Marie McDonald, Diana Bland, Yvonne Wisbey, Glad Donaldson, Helen Knight, Marg Felstead, Brenda Morrison - and helpers did a wonderful job in planning this important anniversary. Guild Club Patron, Marg Kelly, attended, as well as State President Meg Green and Barbara Jeanes, Patricia Campbell, Wendy Thompson and Lesley Mann. Representatives of the local community and ex-service organisations also helped to make a festive day.

Hornsby 40 Years The members and guests had a wonderful time at the Hornsby Social Club 40th Anniversary Lunch in September. John Keating entertained the guests and everyone really enjoyed the celebration. State President Meg Green attended and talked with many of the members. Representatives from the RSL Club, the RSL Sub Branch and Asquith Leagues Club, were invited as special guests in appreciation for their generous financial contributions through ClubGRANTS.

GUILD AND SOCIAL CLUBS NEWS

ANNIVERSARIES


OrangeJanne Gorman the current Co-ordinator, spoke about the changes.

“We converted from the Central West Guild Club in February 2015. Before we converted it was really hard for some members, who were really worried that if we changed to a Social Club, then the club would not continue but would ‘fold’…”

“Instead it is really just the same as before, except we don’t have to worry about maintaining an Executive Committee with a President, Treasurer and Secretary because no one wanted to do all of those jobs any more. The money and minutes and things like that were just too much.”

“The meetings are not so formal now. We still go out for lunches and trips. We are going to Cowra on the 24th October. We still have birthdays and raffles. Another member, Yvonne Willis, and I share the different parts of the co-ordination between us and we just talk about whatever we need to talk about. Nothing has changed; it’s just easier”.

AlburyThe Guild thanks the outgoing committee members who have volunteered so much of their time and energy over the years to members in the Albury region. Miriam McInerney was nominated to the role of Co-ordinator and Gareth Jones was nominated as Assistant Co-ordinator. Both have accepted these nominations.


CLUB CONVERSIONSThere have been four Guild Clubs converting to Social Clubs this year. Central West (now Orange Social Club) in February, Toukley in May, City of

Wollongong (now Wollongong Social Club) in June and Albury in October. These Clubs will continue to support the members in their local areas, but with a little less formality than previously.

MorissetRecently members of the Morisset Social Club went on an outing to the ‘Monarchs in the Hunter’, one of Australia‘s largest private collections of British Royalty memorabilia, located in a private house. The members were served morning tea when they arrived and every cup held a souvenir tea bag featuring a photo of one of the Royal family. Two rooms held memorabilia going back to the time of Queen Victoria, with life-sized mannequins of the Royal family.

After this fascinating visit the members and Ron the bus driver enjoyed lunch at the Cessnock Diggers Club.

CLUB OUTINGS



Swansea

QueanbeyanGrace, the Co-ordinator from Queanbeyan wrote “And a good time was had by all! Members and friends on the trip to Junee, had morning tea at Gundagai. Never was a picnic folded up so quickly as when rain began to fall here!”

CLUB OUTINGS

Thirteen members from the Swansea Social Club recently went to Forster for a holiday for six days. They stayed at the Island Palms Motel. Each day the ladies were taken somewhere different and had lunch out. One day they travelled on a catamaran to do whale watching and afterwards enjoyed lunch at the Bowling Club. Another day they went shopping.

Warringah

Warringah Guild Social Club hosted a Fun, Food and Friendship Day on 23 September, funded by Dee Why RSL. Members were entertained by the ‘Village Singers’ and enthusiastically joined in with the singing and dancing. Coordinator Shirley McLaren assisted with the entertainment, and is now named ‘the dancing Shirley’.

Coffs Harbour

Coffs Harbour Guild Club held their Fun Food and Friendship day in October. The ladies were all well prepared for the Hat Parade and prizes were awarded. Adrienne Bowman, CSW, visited from head office and gave a welfare presentation and assisted with hosting the day. There were games, a quiz and a healthy meal.

Queanbeyan

Queanbeyan Social Club held their Fun Food and Friendship day in October. The venue and catering were very generously provided by the Queanbeyan Legacy venue and the performer, Mike, provided excellent entertainment.

FUN FOOD AND FRIENDSHIP

MoruyaThe members from the Moruya Social Club recently enjoyed an outing to Mogo Zoo.


MEMBERS’ NEWS

KISS supports war widows

Veteran American rock band KISS is still going strong after 40 years and were in Australia for a 40th anniversary tour in October 2015.

Despite their advancing years, it's hard to see their devoted fans letting KISS die while they can still strut their stuff and offer a show that has the ability to make the faithful sing, laugh and share their memories all these years later.

As well as continuing to please with a well-rehearsed production performed with flair and precision, the band offers old style, simple music that is loud, but crisp, and humour as endearing as it is practised.

For more than a decade, KISS has also worked passionately in the US assisting returned servicemen and women, raising in excess of $2 million for military veteran causes. During this Australian tour, they teamed with Legacy Australia to give war widows the chance to be their roadies for a day.

Guild members Jacky Gavin and Kay Aburn were Roadies for a Day and worked behind the scenes preparing the venue, meeting the band and then of course, enjoying the show. Kay said it was one of the most amazing and emotional experiences of her life, as she and her late husband were both big fans of KISS.

Guitarist Gene Simmons said “We are very proud to have these amazing women become a ‘KISS Roadie

for a Day’. These are very strong women, based upon their circumstances, and it’s a real honour and we are proud to have them on our Australian tour.”

Joan Ticehurst OAMJoan is a member of the Inverell War Widows’ Social Club. Club Co-ordinator, Beaty Hawkins wants to share with other members what a wonderful person Joan is.

“Joan came to Inverell in 1949, when her husband Cyril drew a soldier settlement block here. It was a mixed farm of sheep and cattle, plus crops and a dairy, so they were very busy.

“Joan was a busy mother to ten children. I don’t know where she got the time because she joined the Inverell Women’s Auxiliary and was and is still a great worker for them, catering, and selling badges and poppies at stalls for Anzac Day, Remembrance Day and Legacy Torchbearers. She is a life member and patron since 2008, a past executive committee member and has been active in the organisation since 1970.

“A member of the Inverell Returned Services Memorial Club’s Women’s Bowling Club since 1971, an executive member from 1974 to 1985 and a sponsor of the annual Ticehurst Memorial Bowls Day - Rose Bowl, Joan was recently awarded a Super Vet badge and star.

“For over 35 years she has delivered Meals on Wheels. She visits the nursing home and cheers the older people up and organises social activities, taking some for drives around town. Joan is 90 this year.

“I cannot do justice to all the good works that Joan does. She was awarded the Medal of the Order of Australia in the Queen’s Birthday Honours list in 2015, a justly deserved recognition of her dedication and selflessness.

“All our members are so proud of Joan. This is some of her history; she is a great lady and I am proud to be her friend.”

Congratulations Joan, on this well-deserved honour.


MEMBERS’ NEWS

100TH BIRTHDAYSMrs Jean Constable wrote about her birthday celebrated in August.

“It was a wonderful week of parties and I received letters from Queen Elizabeth, the Governor-General and the Prime Minister.

“On the Sunday before my birthday, we had a party at the Yacht Club on the shores of Lake Burley Griffin and I was overwhelmed to see so many old friends and lots of new family members. It was such a lovely time and everyone told me they had a wonderful time too. It’s a day I’ll remember for a long while.

“On my actual birthday, we went to the historic Hyatt Hotel in Canberra for high tea. It was a wonderful place to celebrate my birthday. The weather was so kind to us and how lucky we were, because just as we were having my birthday lunch at Kalparrin three days later, it began to snow! What a surprise!

“Thank you again for the birthday card, beautiful flowers and good wishes.”

Mrs Marie Gallahar celebrated her 100th birthday in September and her life story was written up in her home’s news sheet.

It tells of the sudden death of her father on the family dairy farm when she was two years old, which left her mother the sole parent of a young family of eight children. In primary school, Marie was left in charge of her younger brother Vincent as they walked alone the three miles to and from school in Maclean. They were to be home before dark, especially in winter, to help with evening milking and farm chores. The older girls rode a horse to school – three up.

Following the family’s move to Sydney, Marie was enrolled at St Patrick’s Primary School in Parramatta, and later attended St Mary’s, Concord,

following the family relocation to Enfield. The school is where the aged care facility Marie now resides in was originally located.

Marie gained a scholarship to St Vincent’s, Potts Point, was awarded her Leaving Certificate, then entered the convent there as a novice with the Sisters of Charity, studying, teaching, and living a restrictive life with limited family contact.

She taught at St Columba’s College in Essendon, Victoria for six years but her responsibilities and heavy workload resulted in a breakdown in health and despite a rest from teaching duties she decided to take leave from the Sisters of Charity to convalesce. Marie was granted a dispensation from Rome which released her from her vows. She found work and met her husband, Sydney, there and they married in 1951, settling in Putney, by the Parramatta River.

Marie retired at 60 and when Syd passed away in 1995, she became a member of the Guild and moved into her own self care unit in Ryde. She retained her driving licence until six years ago, when her favorite shopping centre at Top Ryde was closed for re-development. She then moved to St Mary’s Villa, Concord and still attends church on most days. She says it is only just across the way and the terrain is flat.

Mrs Ivy Barker and Mrs Val Trevivian also had their 100th birthdays, in October and November respectively.

Mrs Jean Wisniewski, Life Member, and Mrs Muriel Fuller celebrated 101 years and Mrs Mavis Berryman, 103, in September.

Congratulations!

VALE Mrs Ailsa Daniel, who passed away in October. Mrs Daniel was awarded Life Membership of the Guild in 2001.


GOOD GARDENING: SYMONDS SAYS

Organic gardening

Twelve months ago I made the wonderful decision to change my garden to organic. Since then, the garden has never looked so good, with many comments from our neighbours. One neighbour informed me that I inspired him.

To be a successful gardener it all starts with the soil. Each week I purchase four bags of cow manure, and together with the compost I make, and a handful of sulphate of potash per square metre I apply them to the soil. Each week a new section is done and eventually the whole garden is complete, at which time I start again. This process improves the structure of the soil, its water-holding capacity, worm activity and the necessary bacteria plants require. Another thing that I have discovered is that the cells of the plants are thicker, making them less palatable for insects and disease attack.

If you start organic gardening don’t expect results immediately. It takes anything from six to ten weeks for the nutrients from the cow manure and the compost to be in a state where the plants can absorb them.

The financial savings, by making my own compost, have been enormous. I now no longer purchase expensive fertilisers, insect and disease sprays, and my water bill has been reduced. The only regret I have, is that I should have started years ago.

Compost has been the key to my success. I recycle

everything possible. Soft prunings, and weeds (with the exception of onion and other bulb weeds) are placed on the lawn. I then use the lawn mower to chop them up and place them in the compost bin. For the compost to be ready in six to eight weeks, it must be moist, and you must turn the compost daily. I have three bins and use a compost mate, a large cork screw shape tool which is turned into the compost and pulled up to mix. This process is done four to five times for each bin. All up this process takes about five minutes, but it must be done daily, as if left unattended the compost settles and it becomes harder to do. The compost will become hot, and this will kill weed seeds and some plant diseases.

Organic gardening has been so successful, that I am now contemplating making an organic soluble fertiliser using cow manure, compost and sea weed for my orchids.

Happy gardening, David Symonds

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

I heard the bells on Christmas Day Their old, familiar carols play, And wild and sweet The words repeat Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (Christmas Bells)

The only gift is a portion of thyself. Ralph Waldo Emerson

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War Widows' Walk and Picnic 2015