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IF YOU live in the northern hemisphere, this is probably not your favourite month. January tends to dispirit people more than any other. We all know why: foul weather, post-Christmas debt, the long wait before your next holiday, quarterly bills, dark evenings and dark mornings. At least, that is the way it seems. For while all these things might contribute to the way you feel, there is one crucial factor you probably have not accounted for: the state of mind of your friends and relatives. Recent research shows that our moods are far more strongly influenced by those around us than we tend to think. Not only that, we are also beholden to the moods of friends of friends, and of friends of friends of friends – people three degrees of separation away from us who we have never met, but whose disposition can pass through our social network like a virus. Indeed, it is becoming clear that a whole range of phenomena are transmitted through networks of friends in ways that are not entirely understood: happiness and depression, obesity, drinking and smoking habits, ill-health, the inclination to turn out and vote in elections, a taste for certain music or food, a preference for online privacy , even 24 | NewScientist | 3 January 2009 www.newscientist.com Cover story | Three degrees of contagion Your behaviour is influenced by others far more strongly than you might think, even by people you’ve never met, says Michael Bond

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●IF YOU live in the northern

hemisphere, this is probably not your

favourite month. January tends to

dispirit people more than any other. We all

know why: foul weather, post-Christmas

debt, the long wait before your next holiday,

quarterly bills, dark evenings and dark

mornings. At least, that is the way it seems. For

while all these things might contribute to the

way you feel, there is one crucial factor you

probably have not accounted for: the state

of mind of your friends and relatives. Recent

research shows that our moods are far more

strongly influenced by those around us than

we tend to think. Not only that, we are also

beholden to the moods of friends of friends,

and of friends of friends of friends – people

three degrees of separation away from us who

we have never met, but whose disposition can

pass through our social network like a virus.

Indeed, it is becoming clear that a whole

range of phenomena are transmitted through

networks of friends in ways that are not

entirely understood: happiness and

depression, obesity, drinking and smoking

habits, ill-health , the inclination to turn out

and vote in elections , a taste for certain music

or food, a preference for online privacy , even

24 | NewScientist | 3 January 2009 www.newscientist.com

Cover story |

Three degrees of contagion

Your behaviour is influenced by others far more strongly than you might think, even by people you’ve never met, says Michael Bond

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the tendency to attempt or think about

suicide . They ripple through networks “like

pebbles thrown into a pond”, says Nicholas

Christakis , a medical sociologist at Harvard

Medical School in Boston, who has pioneered

much of the new work.

At first sight, the idea that we can catch

the moods, habits and state of health not

only of those around us, but also those we

do not even know seems alarming. It implies

that rather than being in charge of where we

are going in life, we are little more than back-

seat drivers, since most social influence

operates at a subconscious level.

But we need not be alarmed, says Duncan

Watts , a sociologist at Columbia University,

New York. “Social influence is mostly a good

thing. We should embrace the fact that we’re

inherently social creatures and that much of

who we are and what we do is determined by

forces that are outside the little circle we draw

around ourselves.” What’s more, by being

aware of the effects of social contagion we may

be able to find ways to counter it, or use it to our

own benefit. “There’s no doubt people can have

some control over their networks and that this

in turn can affect their lives,” says Christakis.

To get an idea of what is going on, take

Christakis’s findings on the spread of

happiness, which were published last month.

His team looked at a network of several

thousand friends, relatives, neighbours

and work colleagues who form part of the

Framingham Heart Study , an ongoing multi-

generational epidemiological survey that

has tracked risk factors in cardiovascular

disease among residents of Framingham,

Massachusetts, since 1948. They found that

happy people tend to be clustered together,

not because they naturally orientate towards

each other, but because of the way happiness

spreads through social contact over time,

regardless of people’s conscious choice of

friends ( BMJ, DOI: 10.1136/bmj.a2338 ).

Christakis also found that a person’s

happiness is dependent not only on the

happiness of an immediate friend but – to

a lesser degree – on the happiness of their

friend’s friend, and their friend’s friend’s

friend. Furthermore, someone’s chances of

being happy increase the better connected

they are to happy people, and for that matter

the better connected their friends and family.

“Most people will not be surprised that people

with more friends are happier, but what really

matters is whether those friends are happy,”

says Christakis.

Happiness is nearThey also discovered that the effect is not

the same with everyone you know. How

susceptible you are to someone else’s

happiness depends on the nature of your

relationship with them. For example, if a good

friend who lives within a couple of kilometres

of you suddenly becomes happy, that

increases the chances of you becoming happy

by more than 60 per cent. In contrast, for a

next-door neighbour the figure drops to about

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half that, and for a nearby sibling about half

again. Surprisingly, a cohabiting partner

makes a difference of less than 10 per cent,

which coincides with another peculiar

observation about some social epidemics:

that they spread far more effectively via

friends of the same gender.

All this poses a key question: how can

something like happiness be contagious?

Some researchers think one of the most

likely mechanisms is empathetic mimicry.

Psychologists have shown that people

unconsciously copy the facial expressions,

manner of speech, posture, body language

and other behaviours of those around them,

often with remarkable speed and accuracy.

This then causes them, through a kind of

neural feedback, to actually experience the

emotions associated with the particular

behaviour they are mimicking.

Barbara Wild and her colleagues at the

University of Tübingen, Germany, have found

that the stronger the facial expression, the

stronger the emotion experienced by the

person observing it ( Psychiatry Research, vol

102, p 109 ). She believes this process is hard-

wired, since it acts so rapidly and automatically.

Others have suggested it works through the

action of mirror neurons, a type of brain cell

thought to fire both when we perform an

action and when we watch someone else

doing it, though it is not clear whether the

mimicking would cause the neurons to fire

or whether their firing would trigger the

mimicry. What is clear is that unconscious

imitation allows people to “feel a pale

reflection of their companions’ actual

emotions” and even “feel themselves into the

emotional lives of others”, says Elaine Hatfield

at the University of Hawaii, Honolulu, whose

review of the latest research will appear next

April in The Social Neuroscience of Empathy.

“ Actions and feelings can be as contagious as a virus “

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gain weight, this changes my idea of what

an acceptable weight is. One similarity with

happiness is that friends and relatives have

a far greater influence if they are of the same

gender. While it is not evident why that

should matter for emotional contagion,

norms of body size are clearly gender-specific:

“Women look at other women, men look at

other men,” says Christakis. This could also

help explain the epidemics of eating disorders

reported among groups of schoolgirls in

recent decades.

The spread of a social norm appears to

account for another of Christakis’s findings:

that when people stop smoking, they usually

do so along with whole clusters of friends,

relatives and social contacts. As more people

quit, it becomes the socially acceptable thing

to do, and those who choose to continue

smoking are pushed to the periphery of the

network. In this case, people are most strongly

influenced by those closest to them – if your

spouse quits, it is 67 per cent more likely that

you will too. Your work colleagues can also

have an effect, particularly if you are in a

small, close-knit workplace; and more highly

educated friends influence one another more

than less educated ( The New England Journal

of Medicine, vol 358, p 2249 ).

Happiness, obesity, smoking habits –

activities that we traditionally think of as

shaped by individual circumstances, turn

out to be ruled to a large degree by social

forces. Many other day-to-day phenomena

fit a similar pattern, often counter-intuitively.

Take autism: Peter Bearman at the Institute

for Social and Economic Research and

Policy at Columbia University who in 2004

uncovered a link between suicidal behaviour

and certain friendship patterns (American

Journal of Public Health, vol 94, p 89), is

looking at whether the recent rise in the

What is also unclear – because it has never

been properly tested – is the extent to which

emotions can propagate through virtual

networks, where the opportunity for

physiological mimicry is much reduced.

So much for emotions – what about other

phenomena that we unwittingly pick up, and

pass on, through our social networks? In 2007,

Christakis’s team, again tracking members

of the Framingham Heart Study, found that

obesity is transmitted in a similar way to

happiness. Your risk of gaining weight

increases significantly when your friends gain

weight, and it is also affected by the weight of

people beyond your social horizon. “Obesity

appears to spread through social ties,”

Christakis says. Again, how likely you are to

catch it depends on who you are interacting

with: after controlling for factors such as

difference in socioeconomic status, the

researchers found that an individual’s chances

of becoming obese increased by 57 per cent if

one of their friends became obese, 40 per cent

if a sibling did and 37 per cent if their spouse

did, irrespective of age ( The New England

Journal of Medicine, vol 357, p 370 ).

However, neighbours have no influence,

and how far away you live from a friend

counts for little, which implies that obesity

spreads via a different mechanism to

happiness. Rather than behavioural mimicry,

the key appears to be the adoption of social

norms. In other words, as I see my friends

There is plenty of evidence for emotional

contagion outside the lab. In 2000, Peter

Totterdell at the University of Sheffield, UK,

found a significant association between the

happiness of professional cricketers during

a match and the average happiness of their

teammates, regardless of other factors such

as whether the match was going in the team’s

favour (Journal of Applied Psychology, vol 85,

p 848). He found a similar effect among nurses

and office workers. It has also been shown

that if a college student suffers from mild

depression their roommate will become

progressively more depressed the longer they

live with them, and that emotional displays by

bank employees have a direct impact on the

moods of their customers.

We can see, then, how a phenomenon such

as happiness might pass quickly through a

social network and infect clusters of friends

and relatives. What none of these studies

explains, however, is why the strength of the

infection varies according to who is passing it

to whom. Why are we so much more strongly

affected by the happiness of a nearby friend

than a nearby sibling? Why does a next-door

neighbour have a significant impact, yet

someone living a few tens of metres away

on the same block have none?

The power of strangersTwo factors appear crucial: the frequency

of social contact, and the strength of the

relationship. This is not too surprising: we

know that emotional contagion requires

physical proximity. It is also likely that

the closer we feel to someone, the more

empathetic we are towards them, and the

more likely we are to catch their emotional

state. However, how these two factors play

out in day-to-day interactions is uncertain.

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Five tips for a healthier social network1. Choose your friends carefully.2. Choose which of your existing friends you spend the most time with. For example, hang out with people who are upbeat, or avoid couch potatoes.3. Join a club whose members you would like to emulate (running, healthy cooking), and socialise with them.4. If you are with people whose emotional state or behaviours you could do without, try to avoid the natural inclination to mimic their facial expressions and postures.5. Be aware at all times of your susceptibility to social influence – and remember that being a social animal is mostly a good thing.

“ Happiness, obesity, smoking habits – all turn out to be ruled to a large degree by social forces”

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diagnosis of autism is in any way socially

determined. His study is ongoing , but he

says his findings could be “explosive”. “It

is likely that if you have an autistic child in

your community the probability of your

child being diagnosed with autism is

significantly higher.”

Why three degrees?While the mechanism of social contagion

varies depending on the phenomenon being

spread, in many cases the dynamics are very

similar. For example, Christakis has found

that with happiness, obesity and smoking

habits, the effect of other people’s behaviour

carries to three degrees of separation and no

further. He speculates that this could be the

case with most or perhaps all transmissible

traits. Why three degrees? One theory is that

friendship networks are inherently unstable

because peripheral friends tend to drop away.

“While your friends are likely to be the same

a year from now, your friends of friends of

friends of friends are likely to be entirely

different people,” says Christakis.

This poses the question: what shapes the

architecture of our social networks and our

position in them? Clearly, many factors

contribute: where we live, where we work,

family size, education, religion, income,

our interests, and our tendency to gravitate

towards people similar to us. New research by

Christakis’s team, due to be published in the

next few weeks, suggests there is also a strong

genetic component. The study compared the

social networks of identical and fraternal

twins, and found that identical twins had

significantly more similar social networks

than fraternal twins, suggesting the structure

of your social network is influenced by your

genes. That may not sound remarkable, since

personality traits such as gregariousness and

shyness clearly play a role in determining how

connected we are. But there is much more to

it, says Christakis. “It’s not just about having a

genetic predilection to be friends with a lot of

people, it’s about having a genetic predilection

to be friends with a lot of popular people.

That’s mysterious: how could our genes

determine our actual location in this socio-

topological space?”

Answering that should help us

understand more about the “collective

intelligence” of social networks, which some

researchers liken to the flocking of birds – the

decision to quit smoking, for example,

is no more an isolated move than the decision

by a bird in a flock to fly to the left.

Sociologists and others are using

mathematical models to test these dynamics

to try to understand better what triggers

the spread of behaviours. Duncan Watts at

Columbia University has shown that seeding

localised social groups with certain ideas or

behaviours can lead to the ideas cascading

across entire global networks. This contradicts

the notion – promoted by the author Malcolm

Gladwell in The Tipping Point and others –

that social epidemics depend on a few key

influential individuals from whom everyone

else takes their cue. It doesn’t ring true, argues

Watts, because such “influentials” typically

interact with only a few people. The key for

the spread of anything, he says, from

happiness to the preference for a particular

song, is a critical mass of interconnected

individuals who influence one another.

Is there any way to mitigate the effects

of such powerful and pervasive social forces?

It is unlikely we can ever escape social

influence entirely, even if we wanted to.

“Even when you’re aware of it, you’re probably

susceptible,” says Watts. Still, being aware can

help, especially when we are seeking to avoid

undesirable behaviours or adopt positive

habits. We can be choosy about new friends,

seeking out people whose lifestyles we aspire

to: if you want to lose weight, for example,

join a running club and – most importantly –

socialise with its members.

Actually cutting ties with old friends might

be a bit drastic, though perhaps spending less

time with those whose traits we do not wish

to share would be a good idea – lazy people,

perhaps, or those inclined to negative

thinking. And beware those who hang out

with such people even if they do not display

their views or behaviours – remember the

three degrees of contagion rule. Finally, if you

really cannot avoid spending time with certain

people whose behaviours or emotional state

you would rather not take on board (certain

relatives at family gatherings, perhaps), you

could always try repressing your natural

inclination to mimic their body language and

facial expressions, and so limit the contagion

effect – though be prepared for them to

instinctively cool towards you as a result.

What this game plan amounts to is a kind

of subtle social reorientation. We will always

be vulnerable to what those around us are

doing, so as far as possible make sure you are

with the right people. Remember the new

adage: we are who we hang out with. ●

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