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    Introduction of the Group

    Muhammad Abdullah Roll No. 116

    Muhammad Irfan Shakoor Roll No. 119

    Muhammad Nawaz Roll No. 120

    Muhammad Qurban Rafiq Roll No. 121

    Muhammad Zulqarnain Asab Roll No. 123

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    Presentation Topic

    HABIT # 03

    PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST

    (Principle of Personal Management)

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    About the author.

    The book was written by Stephen R Coveys in 1989

    He has received several awards:-

    1999 Speaker of the Year Award

    1998 Sikh International Man of Peace Award

    1994 International Entrepreneur Award

    National Entrepreneur of the Year Lifetime Achievement

    Award for Entrepreneurial Leadership Dr. Covey has been awarded eight honorary doctorate

    degrees.

    He was died 16th July, 2012;

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    About the book.,

    Top 10 most influential management books;

    Sold 20 million copies in 38 languages;

    Top 2 books of 20th century;

    The book was included in the syllabus of MBA

    and PhD by Harvard University.

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    Things start out as hopes and endup as habits

    Lillian Hellman

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    Put First Things First

    What is Habit ?

    Habits are routines of behavior that

    are repeated regularly and tend to

    Occur subconsciously.

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    Excellence is an art won by training and

    habituation. We are what we repeatedly do.

    Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit

    Aristotle

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    Introduction

    Habit 3 is the physical creation. It is the

    fulfillment, actualization and natural

    emergence of Habit 1 and 2.

    Habit 1 & 2 are essentially required for the

    fulfillment of the habit 3.

    Self Management & Time Management are the

    basics requirements of Habit 3.

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    The Power of Independent WILL

    Self Management.

    Decisions and Choices.

    Removes the Unbelievable odds.

    Personal Integrity.

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    Time is the school in which we learn, time is

    the fire in which we burn

    Delmore Schwart

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    Four Generations of Time

    Management

    This theory is telling about the wide variety ofapproaches and use of materials by human

    being for time management.

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    First & Second Generations

    First generation could be characterized by notes

    and checklist. Second generation could be characterized by

    calendars and appointment books.

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    Third Generation

    They are concerned about the priorities.

    Setting long, medium, and short-term goals.

    Planned on daily basis.

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    Fourth Generation

    They need to move beyond time management tolife leadership. This is the fourth generation

    paradigm that will create quality-of-life results.

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    The Time Quadrants

    Urgent Not UrgentImpor

    tant

    No

    tImportant

    1 2

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    Procrastinator Prioritizer

    Yes-Man Slacker

    Exam Tomorrow

    Friend Gets Injured

    Late For Work

    Project Due Today

    Essay Due in a Week

    Exercise

    Relationships

    Relaxation

    Unimportant Phone

    Calls

    Interruptions

    Other Peoples Small

    Problems

    Peer Pressure

    Endless Phone Calls

    Excessive Computer

    Games

    Mall Marathons

    Times Wasters Too

    Much TV16

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    Results:

    Vision, perspective

    Balance

    Discipline

    Control

    Few crises

    II The _______________

    Not Urgent

    Important

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    Quadrant II Organizer Meeting Six

    Criteria

    Coherence

    Balance

    Quadrant II Focus

    A People Dimension

    Flexibility

    Portability

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    Four Key Activities in Quadrant II

    Organizing

    Identify Roles

    Select Goals

    Scheduling/Delegating

    Daily Adapting

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    Advances of the Fourth

    Generation

    Principle-centered.

    Conscience directed. Defines unique mission.

    Balances your life.

    Gives greater perspective.

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    What is Delegation?

    The objective of delegation is to get the job

    done by someone else. Allows your staff to use and develop their skills

    and knowledge to their full potential.

    Expands your productivity and effectiveness.

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    Types of Delegation Gopher Delegation

    Telling what to do, how to do it, when itneeds to be done . Monitor closely.

    Followers opportunity to developprofessionally is limited.

    Stewardship Delegation

    Focused on results, not methods.

    Allows followers to choose how toaccomplish assignment.

    Hold him/her responsible for the results.

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    Reasons Given for not Delegating

    You can do it better yourself (perfectionism).

    You can do it quicker yourself (short-termview).

    Lack of confidence in co-workers (need to put

    in time to train others).

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    Components of Delegation Identify the appropriate person.

    Clearly communicate the full details.

    Explain any guidelines or parameters.

    Identify all known available resources to assist

    in successfully completing the assignment.

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    Components of Delegation Cont.

    Setup accountability standards of

    performance. Define the level of initiative and authority

    appropriate to the delegated assignment.

    Create a methodology for monitory progress.

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    There can be no friendship without confidence, and noconfidence without integrity.

    Samuel Johnson

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    The Golden Goose

    Everyone knows the basic story of the Golden

    Goose.

    A man finds a goose who lays golden eggs.

    Each day, the goose lays an egg made of solidgold.

    The man immediately realized his fortune, but

    over time he becomes greedy.

    One day, he kills the goose to get all the eggs,

    only to find nothing.

    What is the moral of this story?

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    Personality Techniques and Skills.

    Vital Character Base.

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    You cant have the fruits without theroots.

    Self-Mastery

    Self-Discipline

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    Emotional Bank Account

    We all know what a financial bank account is?

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    Emotional Bank Account

    We make deposits into it and build up a reserve

    from which we can make withdrawals when weneed to.

    What is Emotional Bank Account?

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    Emotional Bank Account

    Emotional Bank Account is Metaphor thatdescribes the amount of trust thats been built upin a relationship.

    You can create Emotional Bank Account through;

    Courtesy

    Kindness

    Honesty 34

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    Emotional Bank Accounts

    Every time you do a favor for that person, it is

    like making a deposit in a bankaccount

    Every time you ask for a favor, its like making awithdrawal.

    Like any financial investment, you can overdraw

    your account. You must make continuous and regular deposits

    if you plan on making any withdrawals.

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    Six Major Deposits

    Six Major Deposits that Build the Emotional

    Bank Account are;

    Understanding the Individual

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    Understanding the Individual

    An individuals' values determine what actions

    will result in a deposit or a withdrawal for that

    individual.

    To build a relationship, you must learn what is

    important to the other person and make it as

    important to you as the other person is to you.

    Understand others deeply as individuals and

    then treat them in terms of that understanding.

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    2. Attending the Little Things

    The Little Kindness and Courtesies are so

    important.

    Little forms of disrespect make big withdrawals.

    In Relationships The Little Things are the Big

    Things because they happen most often.

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    3. Keeping Commitments

    Keeping Commitment or Promise is Major

    Deposit;

    Breaking is a major Withdrawal.

    Never make a promise you cant keep.

    The Habit of Promise that You Make, I Believe

    that You Build Bridges of Trust.

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    Boss Replied,

    I have been waiting for tobring one to me so that w

    could discuss it.

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    Clarifying Expectations

    Employee

    I thought defining my job is your roleBoss

    Thats not my role

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    Implicit Expectations

    Between spouse

    Role of deposit

    Great deal of courage

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    Reserve of Trust

    Manifest integrity

    Role of duplicity

    Withdrawal of integrity

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    Personal Integrity

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    Genuine Apologies

    Bow, Bow and Low

    Emotional Bank account

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    Law of love & Law of life

    Unconditional love

    Violation of primary law Encourage other.

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    Pc Opportunities

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    Public victory

    Win win strategy

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    Thank You