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THE RABBIS TEACHISRAEL CELEBRATES 70 YEARS

This April, we will celebrate the 70th anniversary of the establishment of the Jewish state. Israel is a very old and a very young country, both at the same time. Even after 70 years, Israel is still continually being created every day, by every decision she makes, every standard she upholds, and by her attempts to defend the safety of her inhabitants while seeking peace

with her neighbors. Israel is a place that holds profound religious and spiritual meaning for millions of people around the world, and it is, truly, a place where it feels as if the stones can speak, and where we can walk in the footsteps of our ancestors.

Every year, as our 10th graders prepare to leave for Israel on their Confirmation trip, I remind them that they do not travel to Israel, they return – even if they’ve never been before. That is what it means to have a “homeland.”

While the teens do not quite grasp the meaning of those words as they sit in the sanctuary here in Cherry Hill, somehow, over the course of a ten-day trip, they come to understand the significance of such a sacred place.

And while there are certainly times when we see Israel in the news and feel either frustrated at her actions or beam with pride at her accomplishments, the connection and love many of us feel for Israel comes not from how she is portrayed in the newspapers, but from our own experience of having been there to see and feel Israel for ourselves.

The famous Israeli writer Amos Oz once wrote:

The Land of Israel is not a museum of God.No place is a museum of God, no person and no inanimate object is a thing of worship.It is permissible to both touch and change these thingson the condition that you yourself are prepared to be touched and changed.The condition is love.

(continued; see “Rabbis Teach” on page four)

M’KOR ORA NIGHT OF “DE’LIGHTS”

Outstanding honorees, delicious wining and dining, exciting entertainment and the opportunity to support Congregation M’kor Shalom…could an evening be more perfect?

M’kor Or is a tribute to congregational rising star, Sarah Zalcmann, Early Childhood Center guiding lights Harriet Uris and Judi Weinberg, and past president Rolane Sunshine, who will receive the Marylee and Stuart Alperin Leadership Award.

The fun begins at 5:00 pm on Sunday, June 3, at the synagogue, with cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, followed by presentations to our honorees, dinner and dessert by Barclay Caterers and the exuberant entertainment of Nefesh Mountain.

Doni Zaslow and Eric Lindberg, lead singers of Nefesh Mountain, with Gary Oleyar and Tim Klah on violin and bass, will bring Jewish Bluegrass to our congregation at M’kor Or. Fusing the sounds of Appalachia with familiar songs from the soul of Judaism, their unique music is joyous and infectious. See for yourself why their performance brought delegates at the recent URJ Biennial to their feet! You can preview their first album on YouTube and then come and enjoy them in person.

You won’t want to miss M’kor Or. Attend with friends, place an ad to the honorees in the Tribute Book or combine both by becoming a sponsor of the evening. After all, what we need is YOU…to add your light to this shining night! Any questions? Contact Marylee Alperin, Gail Donner or Sheila Goodman at Sponsorships@mkorshalom.org, or call the synagogue office at 856-424-4220.

Rabbi Jennifer L. Frenkel

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Rolane SunshineMarylee & Stuart Alperin

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Harriet Uris & Judi WeinbergGuiding Light

Educators Award

Sarah ZalcmannRising Star

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Nefesh Mountain to perform at M’kor Or on June 3.

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FROM YOUR LEADERSHIPJason Turner, Vice President

JUST SAY YES!

My family and I have been members of M’kor Shalom for over 15 years. While I was raised and educated at Temple Beth Sholom when it was in Haddon Heights, we were drawn to M’kor Shalom’s pursuit of social action/justice as well as creative and innovative

religious services. Both of my sons were confirmed, went on their class trips to Israel and, in fact, my oldest son David currently teaches in our Religious School.

Those who know me understand my commitment to our synagogue and my love of our “family of families.” I have served on the Board of Trustees and Executive Committee, and as a past committee chair. With this involvement, one might think I’m quite a volunteer. The truth is, I haven’t volunteered for any of these leadership positions. I was asked. And I said, “Yes.” And I’m the better for saying, “Hineini.”

In the coming months, I hope someone from M’kor Shalom asks you for something, and you can get the same great feeling that I do when I say yes. Say yes to helping us grow vegetables at the Urban Garden in Camden. Say yes to joining a committee in an area that interests you. Say yes to helping the men of IHOC become sustaining members of our community. Don’t stay on the sidelines. Don’t assume someone else will pick up the slack. We can all contribute to continuing M’kor Shalom’s traditions and, perhaps, collaboratively build some new ones as well.

Jason Turner, Vice President

EAT, LEARN, SING!AT M’KOR SHALOM SCHOLAR-IN-RESIDENCE WEEKENDBy Sherry Wolkoff

Be sure to set aside April 13 and 14, when our biennial Scholar- in-Residence Weekend will provide us with a variety of stimulating and music-filled events. The weekend kicks off with our Friday night Kabbalat Shabbat service, featuring our acclaimed guest speaker, Rabbi Kenneth Kanter, author and lecturer on Jewish contributions to popular music. Following the service, he will conduct a Sing-along with music from the Tin Pan Alley period from 1890 to 1940, while explaining the Jewish roots of these songs. A light dinner is included with the Sing-along, which is open to the public and costs $36 per person.

On Saturday morning, Rabbi Kanter will lead us in Torah Study immediately followed by a special Spice Up Your Judaism program, where he will discuss Jewish Music from Trope to Debbie Friedman. The evening programming will begin with a Donor Reception, after which Rabbi Kanter will lead us in Havdalah. This will be followed by a Broadway Cabaret, where he will discuss Jewish influences on modern Broadway with local young professionals who will illustrate the music. Think of artists such as Leonard Bernstein and Oscar Hammerstein II, Irving Berlin and the Gershwins. Think of songs such as “Oh What A Beautiful Morning,” “Lady Is a Tramp,” and even “Take Me Out to the Ballgame.” A dessert extravaganza will top off the evening. The Cabaret, with elaborate desserts, is open to the public and couvert is $36 per person.

Rabbi Kanter serves as Associate Dean and Director of the Rabbinical School for the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio. He received his B.A. degree in Jewish and American History from Harvard University in 1974, his M.A.H.L. degree from Hebrew Union College in 1978, was ordained in 1980, and was awarded an honorary Doctor of Divinity from HUC-JIR in 2005. He served for ten years as Rabbi of Chattanooga’s Mizpah Congregation and is a popular lecturer and author of numerous books, journals and articles focusing on the Jewish contribution to American popular music — including his first book, The Jews on Tin Pan Alley, published in 1982.

Shabbat services, Torah Study and the Spice Up Your Judaism program are free and open to the public, but advance registration is required. Donor opportunities start at $118 per person and include all events and a private donor reception with Rabbi Kanter. The weekend is made possible with the generous support of Congregation M’kor Shalom’s Helen and Leon Weinberg Scholar-in-Residence Endowment Fund and a grant from the Community Fund of the Jewish Community Foundation. A portion of the proceeds will support the Religious School Scholarship Fund of M’kor Shalom.

The Scholar-in-Residence Committee has been working very hard to ensure that this will be a weekend to remember. Watch for more details in your mail and E!Minders, and we look forward to sharing many delightful M’kor Moments with you at the events.

Rabbi Kenneth KanterScholar-in-Residence 2018

MICHAEL LEVIN: A HERO IN HEAVENOn March 20 at 7:00 pm, there will be a showing at M’kor Shalom of the film “Michael Levin: A Hero in Heaven,” which tells the story of a young man who left his home in Philadelphia to volunteer as a soldier in the Israel Defense Force (IDF) Paratroopers Brigade. In 2006, Michael fell in battle while defending Israel against Hezbollah in the Second Lebanon War. In his memory, the Lone Soldier Center was established in Israel to support other young “lone soldiers,” who voluntarily leave their families and risk their lives to serve in the IDF. Following the film will be a special Q&A with Michael’s mother Harriet and sister Elisa. There is no cost to attend the event, and it is open to the public. However, attendees are encouraged to make a donation to the Lone Soldier Center in honor of Michael Levin (https://lonesoldiercenter.com/donate/). A station will be set up to accept donations that evening. The event will be co-sponsored by our Education & Youth Committee and the JCRC.

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HIGH HOLY DAY APPEAL 5778/2017We gratefully acknowledge the following families who have contributed to this year’s High Holy Day Appeal.

Daniel & Jane AbeshStewart & Barbara Abrams in honor of Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel David & Jill Akre in honor of M’kor ShalomStanley & Roberta Barr Jeff & Sharyn Beenstock and Family in honor of M’kor ShalomLloyd & Julia Birnbaum and Family in honor of M’kor ShalomCraig & Jayne Bloom Judy Cohen in honor of the clergy Marty & Rickie CohenEvan & Natalie Cutler and FamilyJohn & Deborah DerenJamie, Anna, L.J. & Jaden DonnheimerMichael & Rita EnglemanRedmond English & Jennifer KayDave & Sue Fenick and Family in honor of M’kor ShalomBrandon Fleischer in honor of M’kor ShalomMichael & Mindy Fox and FamilyDonald FriedmanSteven & Jaimee Friedman in honor of M’kor ShalomDavid & Ellen Gealt and Family in honor of M’kor ShalomMichael & Roberta Gelman

Lucille Goff in honor of Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel with appreciation of her services at my daughter Joanne Rosenthal’s wedding to Ron LeonardAllen & Sheila Goodman in honor of the clergy David & Melanie Goodstadt in honor of M’kor ShalomHoward & Dalia JacobowitzSteve & Ilyse Janove in honor of Rhoda Abrams, who with Mike Abrams helped establish M’kor ShalomJasmine JohnsonGary & Robin Kushner in honor of M’kor ShalomNaomi LevecchiaSteve & Sheryl LevinNancy Manzo in memory of Adolf & Lillian MowitzLinda MarpleSandy & Sheryl Pearl Erika Pello in honor of M’kor ShalomAllan & Rochelle Pepper John & Stephanie Riviello in honor of M’kor ShalomMichael Rosenbaum in memory of Lesley Rosenbaum John & Susan Rothman and Family in honor of M’kor Shalom

Eric & Beth Savitch in memory of Allan GonopolskyJaclyn SavitzBarry & Raleigh SeligerMyron & Dorothy Sigal in honor of M’kor ShalomDavid Singer & Elaine Brumberg Josh & Nita Spielberg in honor of M’kor ShalomScott & Mara Steele in honor of M’kor ShalomSanford Student Heidi Swartz & Family Jack & Sharon Weinberg in honor of our clergyNancy WeinerBruce & Hilda Weinger in honor of M’kor ShalomJerrold WeingerSara WeingerDavid & Susan WeinsteinMark & Sherry Wolkoff in honor of M’kor ShalomAlbert & Carmella Zalcmann in honor of M’kor ShalomAndy & Stephanie Zinn and Family in honor of M’kor Shalom

This list is inclusive as of press time, and reflects donations received since the last edition of The Source. We apologize for any errors or omissions.

Upcoming Events For program details, visit: www.mkorshalom.org/calendar

A HERO IN HEAVENTuesday, March 20, 7:00 pm(See article on page two.)

PASSOVER SHUKHorseradish, Wine & Gift Shop SaleSunday, March 25, 9:00 am — 1:00 pmTuesday, March 27, 6:00-9:00 pmWednesday, March 28, 9:00 am — 1:00 pm

PASSOVERFirst Seder: Friday, March 30

ALEX & THE KALEIDOSCOPESunday, April 8, 2:00 pm(See article on page six.)

SCHOLAR-IN-RESIDENCE WEEKEND WITH RABBI KANTERFriday & Saturday, April 13 & 14(See article on page two.)

M’KORSTOCK UNPLUGGEDFriday, April 27, immediately following our 6:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat service

MEMBERSHIP DINNER & SHABBAT We celebrate all anniversaries of membership.Friday, May 4 - Dinner 6:00 pm, Erev Shabbat Service 8:00 pm

CRAFT BEER FESTIVAL Sunday, May 6, 12:00 noon

ANNUAL MEETINGWednesday, May 16, 7:00 pm

EREV SHAVUOTSaturday, May 19, 7:00 pm

SHAVUOT & CONFIRMATIONSunday, May 20, 10:00 am

INSTALLATION SHABBAT/SHABBAT OF THANKSFriday, June 1, 8:00 pm

M’KOR ORSunday, June 3, 5:00 pm(See article on page one.)

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CONGREGANTS IN THE NEWS

SALLY JOHNSTON WINS RED RIBBONSally Johnston, daughter of M’kor Shalom members Art and Marna Johnston, and Hillary Johnston (z”l), was the winner of the poster contest in this year’s Red Ribbon Campaign in Cherry Hill. The annual Poster and Essay

Contest, sponsored by the Cherry Hill Alliance on Alcohol and Drug Abuse, provides an opportunity for students to illustrate how they can live their best drug-free lives. Sally, a 12th grader at Cherry Hill High School West, was honored with other finalists during a ceremony on October 26.

DAVID SNYDER APPOINTED EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF MACCABI USA David Snyder credits his Zionist grandparents for igniting his love of Israel. This passion, which ultimately shaped his career, was further stoked by the “virtual trip” to Israel he took with his M’kor Shalom Judaica class in the 1980s.

After eight years as the Executive Director of our local Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC), the Cherry Hill resident will continue advocating for Israel in his new role as Executive Director of Philadelphia-based Maccabi USA.

Snyder said it was not an easy choice to leave the JCRC – where he is credited with raising the profile of the organization that combats anti-Semitism, advocates for Israel and builds relationships within and outside South Jersey’s Jewish community – for Maccabi USA, which promotes Jewish continuity and Zionism through athletics.

In his new role, he is tasked with raising the profile of the organization that fields teams of Jewish athletes to compete in the World Maccabiah Games, held in Israel every four years, as well as the Pan American and European Maccabi Games. It also is the sponsor of the JCC Maccabi Games for teens in North America.

“Athletics is not the big focus or the big intrigue for me,” said Snyder, who, along with his wife Allison and children Sam, 20, Josh, 18, and Ben, 16, are actively involved at M’kor Shalom and the larger Jewish community. “It’s really about having more people gain a love and appreciation for Israel. Athletes are leaders. They are disciplined and end up being great ambassadors for the state of Israel upon their return.”

Snyder said he plans to stay involved both in the JCRC and at M’kor Shalom, where he is currently chair of our College Connection Committee. “I’ve been very fortunate and privileged to live and work in my own community trying to make a difference,” said the lifelong member of M’kor Shalom.

At JCRC, M’kor Shalom congregant Jeff Shacket is serving as interim director while a search continues for Snyder’s replacement.

ADULT EDUCATIONFIRST THURSDAYS: CELEBRATE ISRAEL’S70TH ANNIVERSARYThe Library and Adult Education Committees will present two Thursday evening programs celebrating Israel’s 70th anniversary through song and film. The sessions start at 7:00 pm and are led by Irene Afek.

May 3 – “Love Songs for Israel”Hear and learn about Israeli songs expressing love of the country, nation and people. The poetry of the songs will be read in English.

June 7 – “Exodus 1947”Experience the true story of the illegal immigrant ship Exodus through the stories of American crew members. The film is a moving tale of a pivotal moment in Israel’s history.

LIBRARY UPDATE Web access is now available to our catalog of books and other items, allowing everyone to see what is in the library from any device. As you search the treasures of the M’kor Shalom Library and find books or DVDs you would like, you can either print the details or send yourself an email with the information. Then just stop by the library and check out the items. Search our collection 24/7 from your computer, smart phone or tablet. No Login Required. Go to https://20031.rmwebopac.com/. Any questions? Contact Irene Afek at library@mkorshalom.org.

ADULT EDUCATION RESOURCE SHELFWhether you have attended an Adult Education course or missed a class and want to find out what was covered, you can visit the M’kor Shalom library and find handouts from classes and books recommended by rabbis and teachers relevant to available courses. We will try to have materials in advance of courses when possible.

RABBIS TEACH (continued from page one)

I know: It is impossible to ‘educate to love’—you cannot ‘educate someone to love the land,’nor can you ‘educate someone to love the scenery.’With love, you can ‘infect’ someone else.Sometimes love can be awakened, sometimes, but not with a strong hand, not with an outstretched arm, and not with burning anger—rather through an approach of mutuality.

You come to a place—a hill, the desert, a spring, a house…You change it and make your mark upon it, but it is also to be openand give it the opportunity to leave its mark on you.

As we approach Israel’s 70th anniversary, there is so much to celebrate. May we recommit ourselves to our relationship with Israel – through mutual love – not only being touched and moved by Israel, but by touching and moving Israel to continue to strive for holiness in all that she does.

B’shalom,Rabbi Jennifer L. Frenkel

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We Celebrate the B’nai Mitzvah of...

March 3 Daniel Cohen, son of Joel & Jennifer Cohen

March 10 Natalie Finkelstein, daughter of David & Sally Finkelstein

March 24 Lee & Ravi Bloom, sons of Craig & Jayne Bloom grandsons of Fradele Feld Daniel Maurer, son of Jonathan & Lauren Maurer grandson of Kenneth & Margery Maurer

April 21 Max Kaufer, son of Marc & Mindy Kaufer

May 5 Zoe Shacket, daughter of Jeffrey & Robin Shacket

May 26 Samantha Bloom, daughter of Jonathan & Julie Bloom granddaughter of Michael & Jane Bloom

June 2 P.J. Kresloff, son of Michael & Randi Kresloff grandson of Richard & Judith Kresloff

June 9 Emma & Tess Baron, daughters of Michael & Catherine Baron

June 16 Andrew English, son of Redmond English & Jennifer Kay grandson of Joyce Kay

We Wish Mazal Tov to...Larry & Caroline Bergeron the marriage of their daughter Kat to Joe Mowczko

Steve & Jaimee Friedman on their 50th wedding anniversary

Douglas & Jill Guggenheim on the birth of their son, Joshua Michael Guggenheim

Cantor Anita Hochman & Robyn Soleon the birth of their great-nephew Lincoln Thomas d’Arcy

Selma Hochmanon the birth of her great-grandson Lincoln Thomas d’Arcy

Nancy Isaacson the engagement of her daughter Laura Reznick to Adam Martin

Michael & Lilah Labovitzon the birth of their son, Ethan Harris Labovitz

Vince & Marisa Maltson the naming of their son, Nash Malts

David & Morra Molotskyon the engagement of their granddaughter Elana to Alec Robin

Drew & Abigail Molotsky on the engagement of their daughter, Elana Molotsky to Alec Robin

Sandy & Sheryl Pearlon the marriage of their daughter Lindsey to Ryan Pearlstine

Ed & Gay Skobac on the birth of their granddaughter, Wren Lee Skobac

Max Taytelbaum & Shonnie Lebovitzon the birth of their granddaughter, Sophie Dina Bonder

Ed & Caryn Weisson the naming of their granddaughter, Madison Avery Weiss

Albert & Carmella Zalcmannon the birth of their granddaughter, Cayla Anne Zalcmann

David & Sarah Zalcmannon the birth of their daughter, Cayla Anne Zalcmann

We Remember...Robert Abramsfather of Stewart Abrams

Joey Baskinnephew of Adam Berger

Helen Beal grandmother of Stephanie Shaya

Estelle Berman aunt of Len Berman

Michael Cobinbrother-in-law of Judy Moskowitz

Sally Collenaunt of Harriet Urisgreat-aunt of Amy Linden Claire Glasssister of Myron Sigal

Arthur “Bus” Gordonuncle of Susan Singer

Lawrence Gurstfather of David Gurst

Carol Ann Harrismother of Kevin Harris

Gordon Kayhusband of Joyce Kayfather of Jennifer Kay

Eugene (Gene) Kutnergrandfather of Rebecca Connolly

Marjorie Richiegrandmother of Andrea Fau

Yetta Seidmanmother of Ted Eiferman

Ruth Shoremother of Linda Newman

Gisela Spielbergmother of Joshua Spielberg

Pauline Summersaunt of Cynthia Weiner-Palmere

Norma Wohlsister of Rhoda Abramsaunt of Ilyse Janove

Paul Yaffefather of Robert Yaffe

We Give Thanks to...The Akre FamilyThrough their generosity, M’kor Shalom was able to purchase an AED (Automated External Defibrillator) for the school wing. We are very grateful for their contribution.

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HEADING FOR THE HOMELANDThese are the happy faces of our soon-to-be Confirmation Israel Trip travelers. We have proudly run these incredible trips since 1996, bringing over 400 teens on their first trip to our Jewish Homeland! Along the way, we have built special relationships with two kibbutzim, Yahel and Lotan, which are part of the Reform movement. Most importantly, we have strengthened the connection between our students, Judaism, Israel,

our clergy and teachers and our congregation. This trip has become a tradition at M’kor Shalom, so don’t be surprised if you hear your 5th grader mention who her roommates are going to be in 5 years!

The trips are paid for by a partnership among the families, the congregation, the Gift of Israel Program, and the Jeremy Kane Gift of Israel Fund, in memory of our 2004 Confirmand and U.S. Marine, who made the ultimate sacrifice in Afghanistan. In addition, there are financial need scholarships made possible through the generosity of the following:

1. The establishment by Drs. Norman and Arlene Silvers of the Amy Silvers Israel Scholarship Fund, in memory of their daughter, one of our first Confirmands, who died at age 21. This is a restricted fund held at the Jewish Community Foundation, the distribution from which can only be used for Confirmation Israel Trip scholarships;

2. The grandson of Stanley and Clare Feinstein as a way of honoring his grandparents and their commitment to Jewish education and Israel; and

3. A private donor who understands the value in travelling to Israel with your clergy, teachers and peers.

DEAR SHARONSharon Halperin, Director of our Early Childhood Center, shares a special letter:

What an amazing experience Owen is having in Kindergarten. We are truly impressed by how well both teachers know Owen, both personally and academically. When we saw Owen’s portfolio of his academic work, we were amazed to see how far he has come this year. This past summer, we tried to get him to work on reading and writing with me, but he had absolutely no interest. Fast forward to now, and it’s incredible to see how he is eager to read stories at home to his siblings. He has used his newfound creative writing skills to author homemade books, write out his Chanukah wish list and create a NFL playoff bracket. Owen has always been interested in math, and we’re so grateful to the teachers for recognizing this and finding ways to challenge him. The fact that the Kindergarten children have a different “special” every day is so important to us, and I know a true highlight of each day for Owen, too. We love the way the art curriculum has exposed him to such a diverse group of artists and their techniques; we look forward to the display of student work each week. Recently, when they were predicting snow on a Coach Pat day, Owen said he was hoping school would not be cancelled because he did not want to miss gym. What kid wishes there won’t be a snow day?! We could go on and on about the ways we feel music, Hebrew, library and of course Shabbat and Havdalah have all had a positive effect on Owen’s schooling as well. However, beyond this strong curriculum, for us what stands out the most about Owen’s Kindergarten experience so far is just what a joyful year it has been. Owen loves learning and coming to school, and we know this love of learning will serve him so well going forward. We are going to look back and feel this was one of the best investments we could have made in Owen’s education. Thank you, thank you, thank you for all you have done to support this wonderful program at the ECC! Sarah and David

Merle Steinberg,Education Director

Sharon Halperin, Early Childhood Education Director

GET ON BOARD!On Sunday, April 8, Emmy® Award winning children’s entertainer Alex Mitnick brings his full band family show to M’kor Shalom. Alex is the main host and adventure leader of Alex & The Kaleidoscope, an interactive entertainment group that has put out six original albums and a TV show, and performs live shows across the country. Alex’s hearty voice and the worldly flair of his positive and upbeat music inspires children and parents alike to sing, dance and celebrate the world around us.

Tickets are on sale now at mkorshalom.org. $10 per person in advance ($14 at the door); children 3 and under are free. Show time is 2:00 pm; doors open at 1:30 pm. For more information, contact Marla Vecchio at FamilyProgramming@mkorshalom.org.

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CANVAS & COCKTAILSJANUARY 2018

BLANKETS OF HOPEJANUARY 2018

CHALLAH BAKEDECEMBER 2017

OPERATION YELLOW RIBBONNOVEMBER 2017

CHALLAH BAKEDECEMBER 2017

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CANDY BAR BINGOFEBRUARY 2018

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Committee NewsMEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE “MATCHMAKERS”

Robin Schwartz and Robin Kushner, the dynamic duo who head up M’kor Shalom’s Membership Committee, approached their new positions this year with two main goals: To find ways to engage existing members and to attract new members to the synagogue. Although their mission does entail a few events throughout the year, such as a new member brunch and membership dinners, their approach focuses more on making personal contacts. “When someone calls the synagogue expressing interest in membership, we call them back and just chat with them,” explains Robin S. “Once we have an idea of their stage in life and their interests, we contact whatever group might be the best match for them. If they have young children, we get someone from the PTO to get in touch with them. If they have school-age children, we contact the Religious School. If they’re in an older demographic, we may refer them to someone from programs like the Daytimers. We try to figure out their niche, what’s going to keep them coming, and then connect them.” Once these new or prospective members start showing up to services or events, Robin makes sure to go up and greet them. If she knows that an event has taken place in a member’s family, like a marriage or birth, she’ll bring that up. The whole point is to make them feel at home and part of the community.

The same basic approach also works for existing members. If it is noticed that we haven’t seen or heard from a particular congregant in a while, “the Robins” will get in touch and try to re-establish a connection, inviting that person to an upcoming event they may be interested in and welcoming them to bring a friend. “We just try to figure out where their interests lie and find a good fit for them here,” explains Robin K. “In other words, we’re matchmakers!”

COMMUNICATIONS COMMITTEE WELCOMES JOYCE KAY

The Communications Committee is pleased to announce that Joyce Kay will serve as our new external communications liaison. Joyce will be coordinating publicity with The Voice and other media. She brings a variety of experience with M’kor Shalom to her new position, having served as chair of the Adult Education Committee for several years, three years as chairperson of the Brown Bag lunches (organized by The SENIORS), and six years as a member of the Board of Trustees. A retired psychiatrist, Joyce was a pioneer in the field of geriatric psychiatry, and was employed by UMDNJ (presently known as Rowan College). The 20-year congregant is also an accomplished handicrafter and is a member of the Pomegranate Guild of Judaic Needlework. Her beautiful needlework hangs on the wall in the synagogue’s main office.

Joyce was born in Glasgow, Scotland, and she and her husband Gordon, of blessed memory, were married in Israel and emigrated to the U.S. in 1964, where they raised two daughters. In fact, her daughter Jennifer just started helping out with our Shabbat webcasts, so we welcome her to the Communications Committee as well!

Thank you to Sherry Wolkoff who capably served as our communications liaison for many years. Sherry will now be turning her attention to writing more articles for The Source, several of which are featured in this issue.

WOMEN AND SPIRITUALITY CELEBRATING 25TH ANNIVERSARYBy Sherry Wolkoff

As an active congregant since the beginnings of our synagogue, Jaimee Friedman found herself seeking to enhance her spirituality. Hoping to find more than what the prayers and readings had to offer her at religious services, she started the “Women and Spirituality” group 25 years ago for women who were on a similar search for their spiritual identity. The group has evolved and thrived in the years since.

Group members share their spiritual experiences, which leads to a great deal of closeness, according to Sandy Fingerman, who currently serves as co-chair with Rochelle Pepper. The group, which usually meets every other month on Wednesday evenings, is exposed to a variety of discussion topics and spiritual experiences, which are occasionally augmented by guest speakers and excursions to cultural events such as area film festivals at the JCC, the Esther Raab Holocaust Museum and Goodwin Education Center and others. Members also celebrate Jewish holidays together, enjoying prayers, readings and meals at Tu B’Shevat seders, annual Sukkot Suppers and other special occasions.

Recent guest speakers included Renée Seigel, whose mother, Helen Reider, educated young people about the atrocities of the Shoah before her death in 2015. Renée’s presentation was entitled “Please Call Me Helen: A Story of Hope, Resilience and Rebirth.” Myrna Grolnick spoke about her interactions with Marranos, Jewish women who practiced Judaism privately behind a façade of Catholicism. Jaimee Friedman led an interactive discussion, “What Am I Here For?” that focused on finding your purpose and how to implement it. Every August, the group enjoys a potluck dinner at a member’s home (usually Jaimee’s), followed by a discussion of a book with either a Jewish theme or author.

Rochelle Pepper stresses that every woman in the synagogue is welcome to attend their meetings. Their next excursion will be a trip in March to see a film (to be announced) with a Jewish theme at the JCC Film Festival, preceded by dinner at a local restaurant. Later this spring, female congregants are invited to share in the group’s 25th anniversary celebration at a special dinner and program at the synagogue. More details about these events will be shared soon via E!Minders, and additional information can be obtained by emailing Sandy at sandyfingerman@gmail.com or Rochelle at rpep3@yahoo.com. Come and find your identity, join old friends and make new ones by joining us at Women and Spirituality gatherings. It’s the place to be on Wednesday nights!

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Rabbi Richard F. Address Caring Community Fund

Supports efforts to make M’kor Shalom a more compassionate and inclusive synagogue.Received From In Memory OfGail & Dick Donner Isabel Hertzler Marjorie Richie, grandmother of Andrea Fau Michael Cobin, brother-in-law of Judy Moskowitz Miriam Dove Norma Wahl, sister of Rhoda Abrams Robert Abrams, father of Stewart Abrams Yetta Seidman, mother of Ted EifermanJan Horwitz & Family Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua SpielbergShonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum Alfred Axelrod, father of Nancy AxelrodBruce Matez Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsJackie & Jack Nover Harvey Konkin, father of Sharon SiegelMarci Wolfe & Danny Kramer Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua SpielbergStephanie & Andy Zinn Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanReceived From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner Cody Zinn becoming a Bar Mitzvah

The engagement of Nancy Isaacs’ daughter Laura Reznick to Adam Martin Michael Levy’s speedy recovery The birth of Gay & Ed Skobac’s granddaughter, Wren Lee SkobacJoyce Kay M’kor ShalomBruce Matez Rabbi Richard F. Address

Adult Education FundSupports educational programming for adults.

Received From In Memory OfGail & Dick Donner Estelle Berman, aunt of Len Berman Gordon Kay, father of Jennifer Kay Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce Kay Norman Wolpert Seymour Donner Simon ParnassCarol & Bill Fisher Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayLinda & Jerry Goldkrantz Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayScott Kushner Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayShirley Malitz Arthur Blitz, brother of Audrianne LeveneBruce Matez Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayMaxine & Mark Pinzur Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce Kay Yetta Seidman, mother of Ted Eiferman Sarah Rosenson Yetta Seidman, mother of Ted Eiferman Beverly Solomon Karl Solomon Rose Solomon Sidney FranklinShonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayKaren Wallenobrien & Donald O’Brien Arthur Blitz, brother of Audrianne LeveneKaren & Anna Wallenobrien and Donald O’Brien Donald Rubel Received From In Honor OfBeverly & Carl Byck Al Ritter’s speedy recoveryGail & Dick Donner Jaimee & Steve Friedman’s 50th wedding anniversary Morris Dworkin’s 95th birthdayCarol & Bill Fisher Jaimee & Steve Friedman’s 50th wedding anniversaryJoyce Kay M’kor ShalomJudith Klinghoffer Joella Clamen’s speedy recovery

Abraham & Sylvia Angstreich Building Preservation Endowment Fund*

Keeps our synagogue safe, secure and beautiful for generations to come.Received From In Memory OfLinda & Steven Angstreich Ron BrodyReceived From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner Linda Angstreich’s 70th BirthdaySarah & David Zalcmann Linda Angstreich’s 70th Birthday

Honorable Steven P. Burkett Gift of Membership Fund

Supports the ten-year free membership to post-confirmation graduates.Received From In Memory OfDaniel Gottlieb Jack GottliebElinor & Peter Hecht Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsBruce Matez Alfred Axelrod, father of Nancy Axelrod

Received From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner The engagement of David & Morra Molotsky’s granddaughter,

Elana Molotsky to Alec Robin Larry Siegel Nancy Isaacs, on the engagement of her daughter Laura Reznick to Adam Martin

College Connection FundSupports the relationship between college-age students and the synagogue

through mailings, packages & programs.Received From In Memory OfAudrianne & Martin Levene Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce Kay

Warren & Doris Elias Special Needs Endowment Fund*

Supports the inclusion of individuals with special needs & their familiesin congregational life.

Received From In Memory OfCelestine & Jeff Berg Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanGail & Dick Donner Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanEileen & Robert Elias Robert Abrams, father of Stewart Abrams Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanDaniel Gottlieb Jack Gottlieb Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsBruce Matez Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanSharon & Stanley Molotsky Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanKaren & Brian Nevins-Goldman Nathan Samuel NevinsLinda & Eric Newman Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsTeri & Neal Nover Harvey Konkin, father of Sharon Siegel Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsKaren & Neal Slutsky Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanRolane & Steve Sunshine Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanKaren Wallenobrien & Donald O’Brien Ruth Shore, mother of Linda NewmanSara Weinger Louise KaplanReceived From In Honor OfDoug Cohen Linda & Eric NewmanThelma & Donald Spivack Al Ritter’s speedy recovery The birth of Gay & Ed Skobac’s granddaughter, Wren Lee Skobac

Cantor Anita F. Hochman Choir FundSupports expanded activity for our choir.

Received From In Memory OfM’kor Shalom Choir Family Michael Cobin, brother-in-law of Judy MoskowitzMindy & Andrew Gardner Shirley Lando Teri & Neal Nover Bradley BrewerLonnie & Stan Smoller Michael Cobin, brother-in-law of Judy MoskowitzThelma & Donald Spivack Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayMarlyn & Harry Starkman Alexander GurevichShonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum Michael Cobin, brother-in-law of Judy MoskowitzReceived From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner The birth of Shonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum’s granddaughter,

Sophie Dina BonderRoberta & Jack Herring The birth of Eliana, great-granddaughter of Ruth Kabler The birth of Liba Amalya, daughter of Shaina & Avi Herring The birth of Liba Amalya, granddaughter of Debbie & Marc Siegel The birth of Liba Amalya, granddaughter of Terri & Hayim HerringAnita & Murray Moliken Marylee & Stuart Alperin

Jeremy Kane Confirmation Class Israel Trip Fund

Underwrites the cost of the Confirmation class Israel trip.Received From In Memory OfCelestine & Jeff Berg Adele Oberlander Yetta Seidman, mother of Ted Eiferman Merle & Bernie Steinberg Gordon Kay, father of Jennifer KayReceived From In Honor OfCelestine & Jeff Berg Larry Siegel Renée & David Weisband Jaimee & Steve Friedman’s 50th wedding anniversary and Steve’s 75th birthdayGail & Dick Donner The engagement of Drew & Abby Molotsky’s daughter Elana to Alec Robin Merle & Bernie Steinberg Linda Burkett’s speedy recovery Morra Molotsky The birth of David & Sarah Zalcmann’s daughter Cayla Anne Zalcmann The marriage of Sheryl & Sandy Pearl’s daughter Lindsey to Ryan Pearlstine

In times of happiness or sadness, M’kor Shalom offers a variety of ways to share your wishes and thoughts with others. Minimum donation $18; Silver Cards $36; Gold Cards $54, unless otherwise noted. Contributions may be made in the synagogue office as well as on the M’kor Shalom website (www.mkorshalom.org).

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Library FundProvides library books, DVDs and equipment.

Received From In Memory OfNancy Weiner & Harriet Seidman Edwin Snyderman Lorraine SnydermanReceived From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner Joseph Bellagamba becoming a Bar Mitzvah

Carol Neulander Beautification and Completion Fund

Supports the enhancements of our building and grounds.Received From In Memory OfNancy & Richard Manzo Sally Collen, aunt of Harriet Uris

Rabbis’ & Cantors’ Good Works Fund*

Supports worthy and charitable causes at the discretion of the rabbis and cantors.

Received From In Memory OfPenny & Al Bilofsky Sally Collen, aunt of Harriet UrisMarilyn & John Hailperin Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua Spielberg Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayRabbi Richard Hirsh Ira HirshMarleen Hoffman Lawrence Gurst, father of David GurstSheila Lever Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce KayEllen & Butch Melstein Norman SholkTeri & Len Schuchman Robert Abrams, father of Stewart Abrams Sharon & Ely Swerdlin Herman CohenSara Weinger Bonnie Wilsker Samuel SnyderReceived From In Honor OfIrma & Robert Abrams Rabbi FrenkelNancy Axelrod & James Podheiser Our clergyGail & Dick Donner Cantor Jenkins-Adelberg’s installation Rabbi Frenkel’s new homeEarly Childhood Center Families Rabbi Frenkel & Cantor Jenkins-AdelbergVeronica & Robert Flanagan M’kor ShalomWilliam Gelernt M’kor ShalomMarilyn & John Hailperin The birth of Sarah & David Zalcmann’s daughter, Cayla Anne Zalcmann The engagement of Nancy Isaacs’ daughter Laura Reznick to Adam MartinJoyce Kay M’kor ShalomBruce Matez Cantor Jenkins-Adelberg’s installationJanet Neufeld Mary Cohen’s speedy recoveryTeri & Neal Nover The naming of Caryn & Ed Weiss’ granddaughter, Madison Avery WeissErica Ritter and Family Rabbi Frenkel Rabbi HirshMarlyn & Harry Starkman Charlene Kaufman’s 75th birthdayMerle & Bernie Steinberg Rabbi Frenkel’s new home Caryn & Ed Weiss Rabbi FrenkelVicki & Brian Zell Cantor Jenkins-Adelberg’s installation

Lynne Rednik Early Childhood Center Fund

Supports creative programming for our Early Childhood Center students.Received From In Memory OfSharon Halperin Bella & Irwin Carlen Betty Fiss Katie AzusDiane & Bennett Malin Michael Cobin, brother-in-law of Judy MoskowitzTeri & Neal Nover Sally Collen, aunt of Harriet UrisSheryl & Sandy Pearl Sally Collen, aunt of Harriet UrisLynne & Norman Rednik Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua Spielberg Michael Cobin, brother-in-law of Judy MoskowitzReceived From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner The birth of Carmella & Albert Zalcmann’s granddaughter,

Cayla Anne ZalcmannL.J. Donnheimer Helping families begin or continue their early childhood Jewish education at

M’kor ShalomSharon Halperin Cantor Jenkins-Adelberg’s installationJudi & David Weinberg The birth of Carmella & Albert Zalcmann’s granddaughter

Cayla Anne Zalcmann The birth of Melanie & David Samuels’ granddaughter Cayla Anne Zalcmann The birth of Sarah & David Zalcmann’s daughter Cayla Anne Zalcmann The marriage of Sheryl & Sandy Pearl’s daughter Lindsey to Ryan PearlstineSarah & David Zalcmann Jodi Levine’s work as Fundraising Chairperson

Religious School Scholarship FundProvides tuition and programming for our Religious School students.

Received From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner Paul Weller’s speedy recoveryRobin & Gary Kushner M’kor Shalom

Amy Silvers Israel Trip Scholarship Endowment Fund*

Provides scholarships to assist congregant families in sending their children on the Confirmation class Israel trip or a similar peer trip to Israel.

Received From In Memory OfArlene & Norman Silvers Howard S. Finkelstein Steve Morgan

Tree of Life & Tzur Chayenu (Rock of Our Life)Mark milestones and memories on our donor walls.

Contact the synagogue office for information.Received From In Honor OfCelestine & Jeff Berg Ian J. Berg

Louis & Helene E. Walker Social Action Endowment Fund*

Directly supports the work & programs of the Social Action Committee.Received From In Memory OfBarbara & Stew Abrams Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua SpielbergJane & Daniel Abesh Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsGail & Dick Donner David Walker Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua Spielberg Helene E. Walker Lillian Walker Norma Wohl, aunt of Ilyse JanoveEileen Fox & Allen Herron David WallenScott Kushner Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsSarah Rosenson & Carleton Montgomery Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua SpielbergLarry Siegel Gisela Spielberg, mother of Joshua Spielberg Robert Abrams, father of Stewart AbramsKaren & Anna Wallenobrien and Donald O’Brien Rochelle WallenReceived From In Honor OfGail & Dick Donner Marilyn Hailperin’s speedy recovery The birth of Sarah & David Zalcmann’s daughter, Cayla Anne ZalcmannEileen Fox & Allen Herron The birth of Sarah & David Zalcmann’s daughter, Cayla Anne ZalcmannNancy Isaacs & Steven Dowinsky Jaimee & Steve Friedman’s 50th wedding anniversary

Helen & Leon Weinberg Scholar-in-Residence Endowment Fund*

Supports the bi-annual Scholar-in-Residence program.Received From In Memory OfSharon & Jack Weinberg Arthur Blitz, brother of Audrianne Levene Connie Portella Gordon Kay, husband of Joyce Kay Robert Abrams, father of Stewart Abrams Steve TubinReceived From In Honor OfSharon & Jack Weinberg Gabrielle Fish’s speedy recovery L.J. Donnheimer becoming a Bar Mitzvah

Yahrzeit Memorial FundRemember beloved family and friends.

Received From In Memory OfAnita P. Axelrod Jennie B. PhillipsElinor Engleman Fannie ChodoffPenny & Robert Jacoby William Reivich Rhoda & Henry Kessler Ella KesslerGay & Edward Skobac Sylvia KatzDee Smoke Anne SplaverAmy & Jason Sonstein Marjorie Frumkies Sam Frumkies Marlyn & Harry Starkman Esther Meyers Saul LichtineKaren Wallenobrien & Donald O’Brien Our Beloved Family

Funds noted by an asterisk (*) are restricted funds – that is, contributions are used solely for the fund’s stated purpose. Contributions to all other synagogue funds ensure support of specific activities, as well as general congregational needs. Contributions listed are inclusive from the last issue of The Source through February 7. We apologize for any errors or omissions.

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