The Philosophy of Exotischism Losing Your False Paradise 1 Many of us have heard the old saying that it is better to reign in Hell than to serve in Paradise

The Philosophy of Exotischism Losing Your False Paradise 1

Many of us have heard the old saying that it is better to reign in Hell than to

serve in Paradise. There is, or course, a lot of debate over whether or not it is

really better to reign in Hell than to serve in Paradise. Also, it is a choice that

seems to only be given to people who have developed basically strong spiritual

structures.

Many of us have heard the old saying that it is better to reign in Hell than to

serve in Paradise. There is, or course, a lot of debate over whether or not it is

really better to reign in Hell than to serve in Paradise. Also, it is a choice that

seems to only be given to people who have developed basically strong spiritual

structures.


A lot of people who have never developed strong spiritual structures are not given the luxury of choosing between reigning in Hell or serving in

Paradise. But before discussing why some people are given this choice and other people are not, it might

be useful to discuss the difference between the types of spiritual structures that most people develop and the types of spiritual structures that more vulnerable

people tend to develop.

A lot of people who have never developed strong spiritual structures are not given the luxury of choosing between reigning in Hell or serving in

Paradise. But before discussing why some people are given this choice and other people are not, it might

be useful to discuss the difference between the types of spiritual structures that most people develop and the types of spiritual structures that more vulnerable

people tend to develop.

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Most of us feel that we have a pretty good idea as to what is right and what is wrong, and we are usually not afraid to express our opinions about what we consider to be right and what we consider to be wrong. How can we be so sure that we are right about an issue when the guy who lives down the

block from us is so sure that we are wrong about the same issue?

Most of us feel that we have a pretty good idea as to what is right and what is wrong, and we are usually not afraid to express our opinions about what we consider to be right and what we consider to be wrong. How can we be so sure that we are right about an issue when the guy who lives down the

block from us is so sure that we are wrong about the same issue?



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The guy who lives down the block began a socialization process of automatically exchanging his

subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people through the Collective Subconscious early in life. We also began the same socialization process early in life. How can our opinions be so different? Even though we were each developing

spiritual links with other people as we were growing up, we were not developing our spiritual links with

the same people.

The guy who lives down the block began a socialization process of automatically exchanging his

subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people through the Collective Subconscious early in life. We also began the same socialization process early in life. How can our opinions be so different? Even though we were each developing

spiritual links with other people as we were growing up, we were not developing our spiritual links with

the same people.


The people who we developed our spiritual links with became an important part of our thought processes.

They became like a conscience telling us what was right and what was

wrong. Whenever we would express our opinions about an issue,

we would feel that we were being “watched” and that we were being supported by these people who

we were spiritually linked to. And the guy who lived down the block also

felt that he was being “watched” and that he was being

supported by the people who he was spiritually linked to.

The people who we developed our spiritual links with became an important part of our thought processes.

They became like a conscience telling us what was right and what was

wrong. Whenever we would express our opinions about an issue,

we would feel that we were being “watched” and that we were being supported by these people who

we were spiritually linked to. And the guy who lived down the block also

felt that he was being “watched” and that he was being

supported by the people who he was spiritually linked to.



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Our spiritual connections with the people who we were spiritually linked to were very real and very

dynamic and those spiritual connections were a very important part of our reality. And the spiritual

connections of the guy down the block were very real and very dynamic to him. Those spiritual connections were a very important part of his reality. We lived on

the same block as the other guy but we lived in different spiritual worlds.

Our spiritual connections with the people who we were spiritually linked to were very real and very

dynamic and those spiritual connections were a very important part of our reality. And the spiritual

connections of the guy down the block were very real and very dynamic to him. Those spiritual connections were a very important part of his reality. We lived on

the same block as the other guy but we lived in different spiritual worlds.



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There are a lot of vulnerable people in our physical world who do not consider their spiritual

connections with other people to be an important part of their reality. When a vulnerable guy (or a

vulnerable girl) hears other people talking about the spiritual worlds that they live in, the vulnerable guy

will not really understand what those people are talking about.

There are a lot of vulnerable people in our physical world who do not consider their spiritual

connections with other people to be an important part of their reality. When a vulnerable guy (or a

vulnerable girl) hears other people talking about the spiritual worlds that they live in, the vulnerable guy

will not really understand what those people are talking about.


The vulnerable guy (Number 4 below) might have originally gotten into the difficult position of not

living in a real spiritual world because he was only given a limited role in his family.

The vulnerable guy (Number 4 below) might have originally gotten into the difficult position of not

living in a real spiritual world because he was only given a limited role in his family.

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If the family gives the vulnerable guy only a limited role in

the spiritual entity that is made up of the family members (and takes away some of his spiritual energy), they might create a fantasy about the vulnerable guy that says that he was given an

equal role in the family and that he is capable of normal exchanges of spiritual energy with other

people.

If the family gives the vulnerable guy only a limited role in

the spiritual entity that is made up of the family members (and takes away some of his spiritual energy), they might create a fantasy about the vulnerable guy that says that he was given an

equal role in the family and that he is capable of normal exchanges of spiritual energy with other

people.

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But the family might have trouble convincing other people that they actually gave the vulnerable guy an equal role in the family. The people outside of the family will sense that the vulnerable guy seems to

treat everyone equally and that he does not seem to have the types of strong opinions that people usually

have when they have a genuine role in a spiritual entity such as a

family.

But the family might have trouble convincing other people that they actually gave the vulnerable guy an equal role in the family. The people outside of the family will sense that the vulnerable guy seems to

treat everyone equally and that he does not seem to have the types of strong opinions that people usually

have when they have a genuine role in a spiritual entity such as a

family.

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The people outside of the family might come to realize

that the vulnerable guy has not even been given a limited

role in his family. It might start to become obvious to

family friends (such as Number 5 and Number 6 below) that

the family has given them a role in the family that is equal

to or greater than the role that the family has given to the vulnerable guy even though they are not

actually in the family.

The people outside of the family might come to realize

that the vulnerable guy has not even been given a limited

role in his family. It might start to become obvious to

family friends (such as Number 5 and Number 6 below) that

the family has given them a role in the family that is equal

to or greater than the role that the family has given to the vulnerable guy even though they are not

actually in the family.

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When the vulnerable guy’s family realizes what is happening they might decide that they need to take

action to avoid being criticized by people outside of the family. One technique they might use

to make it appear that the vulnerable guy has a larger role in the family would be to criticize him when they

are talking to people outside of the family. The people who they talk to will think

that the other family members would not be criticizing the vulnerable guy if they were indifferent to him.

When the vulnerable guy’s family realizes what is happening they might decide that they need to take

action to avoid being criticized by people outside of the family. One technique they might use

to make it appear that the vulnerable guy has a larger role in the family would be to criticize him when they

are talking to people outside of the family. The people who they talk to will think

that the other family members would not be criticizing the vulnerable guy if they were indifferent to him.

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Because of the fact that the vulnerable guy does not have a lot of strong opinions and is open to different

types of people, the family will need to make sure that they block any attempts that he makes to develop any

genuine relationships with other people. The vulnerable guy will assume that they are doing this

because they don’t want him to be led astray. But they actually need to block potential relationships because if he develops genuine relationships, he will realize that

his family is indifferent to him.

Because of the fact that the vulnerable guy does not have a lot of strong opinions and is open to different

types of people, the family will need to make sure that they block any attempts that he makes to develop any

genuine relationships with other people. The vulnerable guy will assume that they are doing this

because they don’t want him to be led astray. But they actually need to block potential relationships because if he develops genuine relationships, he will realize that

his family is indifferent to him.


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It will now be assumed that the vulnerable guy did at one time have an equal role in his family. The people observing the situation will think that the vulnerable

guy did something wrong that made him fall from grace. It will be assumed that the vulnerable guy has the same cultural values as his family because he has

been given the spiritual identity as being someone basically similar to the other family members who just

seems to have some bad traits.

It will now be assumed that the vulnerable guy did at one time have an equal role in his family. The people observing the situation will think that the vulnerable

guy did something wrong that made him fall from grace. It will be assumed that the vulnerable guy has the same cultural values as his family because he has

been given the spiritual identity as being someone basically similar to the other family members who just

seems to have some bad traits.


By using the strategy of criticizing the vulnerable guy when

they were actually indifferent towards him, the family gave

the vulnerable guy an identity as being someone with the same cultural values as the family. This created a

situation where people who had similar cultural values to those of the family might try to start a relationship

with the vulnerable guy because they think that his cultural values are similar to those of his

family.

By using the strategy of criticizing the vulnerable guy when

they were actually indifferent towards him, the family gave

the vulnerable guy an identity as being someone with the same cultural values as the family. This created a

situation where people who had similar cultural values to those of the family might try to start a relationship

with the vulnerable guy because they think that his cultural values are similar to those of his

family.

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But the relationship will fail when the other person realizes that the vulnerable guy’s cultural values are not

similar to those of his family. The vulnerable guy’s situation is similar to something in the world of literature that is known as a farce. A play that is a farce might be very amusing to the audience even though none of the actors are joking. Due to the fact that the situation is

absurd and perhaps based on a false premise, the words of the actors can seem to be very straight laced and

proper and end up being very comical.

But the relationship will fail when the other person realizes that the vulnerable guy’s cultural values are not

similar to those of his family. The vulnerable guy’s situation is similar to something in the world of literature that is known as a farce. A play that is a farce might be very amusing to the audience even though none of the actors are joking. Due to the fact that the situation is

absurd and perhaps based on a false premise, the words of the actors can seem to be very straight laced and

proper and end up being very comical.


The vulnerable guy is living in a false paradise that was based on the false premise that he was given an equal

role in his family and that he has the same cultural values as his family. The vulnerable guy’s family set up this false paradise to show other people that they were not indifferent to the vulnerable guy. The false premise that the vulnerable guy was given an equal role in the

family but just had a bad streak will appear to be true because it will impossible for him to avoid being misunderstood

by other people.

The vulnerable guy is living in a false paradise that was based on the false premise that he was given an equal

role in his family and that he has the same cultural values as his family. The vulnerable guy’s family set up this false paradise to show other people that they were not indifferent to the vulnerable guy. The false premise that the vulnerable guy was given an equal role in the

family but just had a bad streak will appear to be true because it will impossible for him to avoid being misunderstood

by other people.

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As the vulnerable guy gets older and starts developing relationships outside of his family and his family’s

community, he will probably not understand some of the spiritual

things that occur when he gets involved with other people.

There is a danger that some of the people who he meets might take advantage of him instead of helping him to become

stronger.

As the vulnerable guy gets older and starts developing relationships outside of his family and his family’s

community, he will probably not understand some of the spiritual

things that occur when he gets involved with other people.

There is a danger that some of the people who he meets might take advantage of him instead of helping him to become

stronger.

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Most of the people who the vulnerable guy meets develop a deep set of emotions (which is the most important part of their soul). They also develop a practical set of emotions. An example of a person

using their practical emotions might be a car salesperson merging the practical part of their

soul with the soul of their customer for the purpose

of getting the customer to sign the contract.

Most of the people who the vulnerable guy meets develop a deep set of emotions (which is the most important part of their soul). They also develop a practical set of emotions. An example of a person

using their practical emotions might be a car salesperson merging the practical part of their

soul with the soul of their customer for the purpose

of getting the customer to sign the contract.


The salesperson forms a temporary spiritual bond with their customer so that they will be able to

influence them when they need the customer to do something that they want them to do (such as when they need the customer to sign the contract). The

salesperson knows how to use spiritual links to influence the customer’s thinking at that important point where the customer might be tempted to back

out of the negotiation.

The salesperson forms a temporary spiritual bond with their customer so that they will be able to

influence them when they need the customer to do something that they want them to do (such as when they need the customer to sign the contract). The

salesperson knows how to use spiritual links to influence the customer’s thinking at that important point where the customer might be tempted to back

out of the negotiation.


The vulnerable guy has exchanges of spiritual energy with other people that are similar to those

of the salesperson. The salesperson has exchanges of spiritual

information with their customer, but it is only a temporary sort of a spiritual exchange that will not lead to a relationship. And the vulnerable guy also has exchanges of spiritual energy with other people

that tend to not become very strong.

The vulnerable guy has exchanges of spiritual energy with other people that are similar to those

of the salesperson. The salesperson has exchanges of spiritual

information with their customer, but it is only a temporary sort of a spiritual exchange that will not lead to a relationship. And the vulnerable guy also has exchanges of spiritual energy with other people

that tend to not become very strong.


Everyone begins the process of exchanging their subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people shortly after they are born. Some of the spiritual

information (or spiritual energy) that they receive from other people early in life might contain cultural or religious myths

that have no basis in fact but they will allow those myths to go deep into their souls.

Everyone begins the process of exchanging their subconscious spiritual thoughts and feelings with other people shortly after they are born. Some of the spiritual

information (or spiritual energy) that they receive from other people early in life might contain cultural or religious myths

that have no basis in fact but they will allow those myths to go deep into their souls.


They will allow those myths to go deep into their souls because the myths will come into them in a magical way

(through the automatic exchange of subconscious spiritual energy with other people through the Collective

Subconscious). For this reason, if a vulnerable guy meets a woman who is only merging the practical part of her soul with him, there will be quite a bit going on.

They will allow those myths to go deep into their souls because the myths will come into them in a magical way

(through the automatic exchange of subconscious spiritual energy with other people through the Collective

Subconscious). For this reason, if a vulnerable guy meets a woman who is only merging the practical part of her soul with him, there will be quite a bit going on.


The woman who the vulnerable guy meets is also exchanging her spiritual energy through the

Collective Subconscious with other people who she knows. A lot of

spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guys might have gotten into

a pattern where they are interfacing with a woman (who we will call a “primary woman”) who is only

merging the practical part of her soul with the vulnerable

guy.

The woman who the vulnerable guy meets is also exchanging her spiritual energy through the

Collective Subconscious with other people who she knows. A lot of

spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guys might have gotten into

a pattern where they are interfacing with a woman (who we will call a “primary woman”) who is only

merging the practical part of her soul with the vulnerable

guy.


The primary woman is relaying the spiritual energy that she picks up from the vulnerable guy to other women who she knows (who we will call “secondary women”) through the Collective Subconscious. And the primary woman might

also be relaying the spiritual energy of the secondary women who she knows to the vulnerable guy

through the Collective Subconscious.

The primary woman is relaying the spiritual energy that she picks up from the vulnerable guy to other women who she knows (who we will call “secondary women”) through the Collective Subconscious. And the primary woman might

also be relaying the spiritual energy of the secondary women who she knows to the vulnerable guy



In the illustration below a spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guy interfaces with two primary women. In the

illustration that follows this one, the two primary women relay the spiritual energy that has been sent to them by the vulnerable guy to secondary women who they know


In the illustration below a spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guy interfaces with two primary women. In the

illustration that follows this one, the two primary women relay the spiritual energy that has been sent to them by the vulnerable guy to secondary women who they know


Vulnerable Guy(A spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guy)

Vulnerable Guy(A spiritually and psychologically vulnerable guy)

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The vulnerable guy (Number 4 below) might be picking up some strong emotional feelings because

he can sense that there is a magical exchange of spiritual energy taking place between himself and the secondary women. The secondary women are

receiving the vulnerable guy’s spiritual energy through the Collective Subconscious and the

vulnerable guy is receiving their spiritual energy.

The vulnerable guy (Number 4 below) might be picking up some strong emotional feelings because

he can sense that there is a magical exchange of spiritual energy taking place between himself and the secondary women. The secondary women are

receiving the vulnerable guy’s spiritual energy through the Collective Subconscious and the

vulnerable guy is receiving their spiritual energy.


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The secondary women might get upset with the vulnerable guy for sending them his subconscious

thoughts and feelings through the Collective Subconscious and then not developing a deeper relationship with them. They will think that the vulnerable guy is leading them on and they will

want him to stop sending his subconscious thoughts and

feelings to them through the Collective Subconscious.

The secondary women might get upset with the vulnerable guy for sending them his subconscious

thoughts and feelings through the Collective Subconscious and then not developing a deeper relationship with them. They will think that the vulnerable guy is leading them on and they will

want him to stop sending his subconscious thoughts and

feelings to them through the Collective Subconscious.


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The problem that the vulnerable guy faces is that even though he is exchanging his spiritual energy with these

secondary women, he is not able to develop a relationship with any of the secondary women directly. The vulnerable guy’s relationships with the secondary women are based on the fact that the primary woman is serving as a relay

point between him and the secondary women.

The problem that the vulnerable guy faces is that even though he is exchanging his spiritual energy with these

secondary women, he is not able to develop a relationship with any of the secondary women directly. The vulnerable guy’s relationships with the secondary women are based on the fact that the primary woman is serving as a relay

point between him and the secondary women.


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The vulnerable guy might have also gotten into a pattern of interfacing with other men who don’t want to get close to him personally but who will relay the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings

to other men who they know.

The vulnerable guy might have also gotten into a pattern of interfacing with other men who don’t want to get close to him personally but who will relay the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings

to other men who they know.


These men who are receiving the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings through the

Collective Subconscious will wonder why they are sensing that the vulnerable guy is trying to start a

friendship with them and is then backing off and not developing the relationship.

These men who are receiving the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings through the

Collective Subconscious will wonder why they are sensing that the vulnerable guy is trying to start a

friendship with them and is then backing off and not developing the relationship.

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They do not understand that the vulnerable guy’s relationship

with them is dependent upon another man transmitting

his subconscious thoughts and feelings to them. The men

who are receiving the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings will eventually

want to stop receiving these transmissions.

They do not understand that the vulnerable guy’s relationship

with them is dependent upon another man transmitting

his subconscious thoughts and feelings to them. The men

who are receiving the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings will eventually

want to stop receiving these transmissions.


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When the woman and the man who transmit the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings

(his emotions) to other people realize what is happening, they might take on the role of a bully and they might create a lie that says that the vulnerable guy purposely likes to hurt other people emotionally.

When the woman and the man who transmit the vulnerable guy’s subconscious thoughts and feelings

(his emotions) to other people realize what is happening, they might take on the role of a bully and they might create a lie that says that the vulnerable guy purposely likes to hurt other people emotionally.


They might expand upon their lie and say that the vulnerable guy is not only guilty of leading other

people on emotionally, but that he is also guilty of continuing to send his emotions to other people

through the Collective Subconscious when he knows that they do not want to receive those emotions.

They might expand upon their lie and say that the vulnerable guy is not only guilty of leading other

people on emotionally, but that he is also guilty of continuing to send his emotions to other people

through the Collective Subconscious when he knows that they do not want to receive those emotions.

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The woman or the man might purposely start an interaction with the vulnerable guy for the purpose

of getting him in trouble. They know that by starting an interaction with him without really accepting him

they will be relaying his emotions to other people through the Collective Subconscious.

The woman or the man might purposely start an interaction with the vulnerable guy for the purpose

of getting him in trouble. They know that by starting an interaction with him without really accepting him

they will be relaying his emotions to other people through the Collective Subconscious.

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The woman and the man also know that when the other people receive the vulnerable guy’s emotions through the Collective Subconscious they are going to reject those emotions, and they are going to send

a lot of bad vibrations back to the vulnerable guy through the Collective Subconscious.

The woman and the man also know that when the other people receive the vulnerable guy’s emotions through the Collective Subconscious they are going to reject those emotions, and they are going to send

a lot of bad vibrations back to the vulnerable guy through the Collective Subconscious.

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It would never occur to the vulnerable guy that he might be blamed for leading other people on

emotionally. But the man bully and the woman bully created a lie saying that he was purposely sending

unwanted emotions to other people through the Collective Subconscious and then these bullies purposely relayed his emotions to those people.

It would never occur to the vulnerable guy that he might be blamed for leading other people on

emotionally. But the man bully and the woman bully created a lie saying that he was purposely sending

unwanted emotions to other people through the Collective Subconscious and then these bullies purposely relayed his emotions to those people.

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The vulnerable guy needs to somehow communicate to other people that he did not intend to force his

emotions on other people and that it was the bullies who purposely relayed his emotions to other people through the Collective Subconscious. As he tries to

convince other people of his innocence the bullies will try to convince other people that the vulnerable guy is

guilty.

The vulnerable guy needs to somehow communicate to other people that he did not intend to force his

emotions on other people and that it was the bullies who purposely relayed his emotions to other people through the Collective Subconscious. As he tries to

convince other people of his innocence the bullies will try to convince other people that the vulnerable guy is

guilty.


One of the arguments that the bullies might use to convince other people that the vulnerable guy is

guilty is that he sometimes seems to think that he is in a relationship with another person when he is not. The vulnerable guy knows that he sometimes gives other people this impression, but he does not know

why this happens and he feels that he does not really believe that he is developing a relationship

when this happens.

One of the arguments that the bullies might use to convince other people that the vulnerable guy is

guilty is that he sometimes seems to think that he is in a relationship with another person when he is not. The vulnerable guy knows that he sometimes gives other people this impression, but he does not know

why this happens and he feels that he does not really believe that he is developing a relationship

when this happens.


What is happening in these situations is that when a man bully or a woman bully take advantage of the

vulnerable guy by doing something to him that is unfair,

some of bully’s emotions will be forced onto the vulnerable guy. After the vulnerable guy picks up

these emotions he will, without his knowledge, pass those emotions off to other people. The other people who he passes

these emotions off to will start to develop an emotional relationship with the bully because the

vulnerable guy will be relaying the bully’s emotions to them through the Collective Subconscious.

What is happening in these situations is that when a man bully or a woman bully take advantage of the

vulnerable guy by doing something to him that is unfair,

some of bully’s emotions will be forced onto the vulnerable guy. After the vulnerable guy picks up

these emotions he will, without his knowledge, pass those emotions off to other people. The other people who he passes

these emotions off to will start to develop an emotional relationship with the bully because the

vulnerable guy will be relaying the bully’s emotions to them through the Collective Subconscious.


The vulnerable guy knows that what is happening is a long way from being a relationship because he

knows that he is not receiving strong emotions from the other

person. But he does not understand why he cannot just relax with this person who he does not believe

he has formed a relationship with. He cannot relax with this person because the bully has gotten him to force the bully’s emotions onto the other person and the bully will not allow the

vulnerable guy to back off and relax.

The vulnerable guy knows that what is happening is a long way from being a relationship because he

knows that he is not receiving strong emotions from the other

person. But he does not understand why he cannot just relax with this person who he does not believe

he has formed a relationship with. He cannot relax with this person because the bully has gotten him to force the bully’s emotions onto the other person and the bully will not allow the

vulnerable guy to back off and relax.


During the time immediately before a man bully or a woman bully takes advantage of the vulnerable guy, it is very likely that the bully will start to act kind of odd. They will start saying stupid things that make the people around them start to avoid the bully and start to criticize them. The bully has at this point used up the spiritual energy that they had stolen

from other people in the past and the bully is becoming weaker.

During the time immediately before a man bully or a woman bully takes advantage of the vulnerable guy, it is very likely that the bully will start to act kind of odd. They will start saying stupid things that make the people around them start to avoid the bully and start to criticize them. The bully has at this point used up the spiritual energy that they had stolen

from other people in the past and the bully is becoming weaker.


The man bully or the woman bully needs to make a conquest. They need to connect their shallow soul

to the soul of another person, and they use the vulnerable guy to accomplish this. When the

vulnerable guy starts an interaction with another person after being bullied, the soul of the man bully

or the woman bully will attach itself to that other person. That is why it appears that the vulnerable guy is in a relationship. But the relationship is not

between the vulnerable guy and the other person. It is between the bully and the other

person.

The man bully or the woman bully needs to make a conquest. They need to connect their shallow soul

to the soul of another person, and they use the vulnerable guy to accomplish this. When the

vulnerable guy starts an interaction with another person after being bullied, the soul of the man bully

or the woman bully will attach itself to that other person. That is why it appears that the vulnerable guy is in a relationship. But the relationship is not

between the vulnerable guy and the other person. It is between the bully and the other

person.


The man bully or the woman bully will now start to feel emotionally satisfied and the people who had

been laughing at them for their insecurity will now start to respect the bully once again. The vulnerable guy will notice that the new person who he started an interaction

with might act friendly towards him for a short period of time thinking that he has started a

relationship with them, but after a while they will turn cold towards him when they realize that he has done something that activated their emotions and

then did not follow through and develop the relationship further.

The man bully or the woman bully will now start to feel emotionally satisfied and the people who had

been laughing at them for their insecurity will now start to respect the bully once again. The vulnerable guy will notice that the new person who he started an interaction

with might act friendly towards him for a short period of time thinking that he has started a

relationship with them, but after a while they will turn cold towards him when they realize that he has done something that activated their emotions and

then did not follow through and develop the relationship further.


Deep in the vulnerable guy’s mind he might believe that someday the man bully or the woman bully

might want to become friends with him. He knows that his interactions with the bully have been

positive for the bully. He has seen how the bully gets transformed from a somewhat shallow person into a person with a certain amount of confidence after the bully has an interaction with him and for this reason he might imagine that the bully might

like him. But that is not really true.

Deep in the vulnerable guy’s mind he might believe that someday the man bully or the woman bully

might want to become friends with him. He knows that his interactions with the bully have been

positive for the bully. He has seen how the bully gets transformed from a somewhat shallow person into a person with a certain amount of confidence after the bully has an interaction with him and for this reason he might imagine that the bully might

like him. But that is not really true.


The bully will eventually “use up” the spiritual energy that they received from the person who the vulnerable guy had relayed their emotions to. And in “using up” that spiritual energy they also “used

up” the energy that the vulnerable guy had put into the bully’s relationship with that person. For this reason, in most situations there is no potential for additional spiritual energy exchanges between the man bully or woman bully and the vulnerable guy

once the bully has used up that energy.

The bully will eventually “use up” the spiritual energy that they received from the person who the vulnerable guy had relayed their emotions to. And in “using up” that spiritual energy they also “used

up” the energy that the vulnerable guy had put into the bully’s relationship with that person. For this reason, in most situations there is no potential for additional spiritual energy exchanges between the man bully or woman bully and the vulnerable guy

once the bully has used up that energy.


But if the bully and the vulnerable guy are in a work situation

or a school situation where they are forced to continue interacting with each other, the bully may

end up bullying the vulnerable guy several times over a period of

months or years. In this type of situation the energy

exchanges between them might eventually become fairly strong, but it

will be negative type of energy that is being exchanged

that cannot develop into a positive relationship.

But if the bully and the vulnerable guy are in a work situation

or a school situation where they are forced to continue interacting with each other, the bully may

end up bullying the vulnerable guy several times over a period of

months or years. In this type of situation the energy

exchanges between them might eventually become fairly strong, but it

will be negative type of energy that is being exchanged

that cannot develop into a positive relationship.


The bully in the previous example did

damage to the vulnerable guy, but it was a different type of damage than the damage done earlier

in his life by the people who tried to

convince other people that they

were not indifferent to

the vulnerable guy. But eventually the

vulnerable guy will realize that the bully is also

indifferent towards him.

The bully in the previous example did

damage to the vulnerable guy, but it was a different type of damage than the damage done earlier

in his life by the people who tried to

convince other people that they

were not indifferent to

the vulnerable guy. But eventually the

vulnerable guy will realize that the bully is also

indifferent towards him.


Not only will the vulnerable guy see

that the bully is indifferent towards

him, but other people will also see

that the bully is indifferent towards the vulnerable guy.

At this point the bully might start to become afraid that other people will

realize that he has only been using the vulnerable guy to relay the bully’s

emotions to other people.

Not only will the vulnerable guy see

that the bully is indifferent towards

him, but other people will also see

that the bully is indifferent towards the vulnerable guy.

At this point the bully might start to become afraid that other people will

realize that he has only been using the vulnerable guy to relay the bully’s

emotions to other people.


The bully might at this point start to

criticize the vulnerable guy so that people

don’t think that he is indifferent

towards him. Now the vulnerable guy will be in a similar situation to what he experienced

earlier in his life. The bully has some

power over the vulnerable guy and the bully does not want other people to see how little he

cares about him.

The bully might at this point start to

criticize the vulnerable guy so that people

don’t think that he is indifferent

towards him. Now the vulnerable guy will be in a similar situation to what he experienced

earlier in his life. The bully has some

power over the vulnerable guy and the bully does not want other people to see how little he

cares about him.


In addition to criticizing the

vulnerable guy, the bully will also feel the need to block any attempts that the vulnerable guy makes to develop relationships with other people. The

vulnerable guy might think that the

bully is just being mean, but the bully

knows that if the vulnerable guy

develops genuine relationships, he will

realize that the bully is actually indifferent towards

him.

In addition to criticizing the

vulnerable guy, the bully will also feel the need to block any attempts that the vulnerable guy makes to develop relationships with other people. The

vulnerable guy might think that the

bully is just being mean, but the bully

knows that if the vulnerable guy

develops genuine relationships, he will

realize that the bully is actually indifferent towards

him.


It won’t be too hard for the bully to

convince other people that he

might care about the vulnerable guy

because a lot of spiritual energy has

been exchanged between the bully and the vulnerable

guy. When the vulnerable guy was relaying the bully’s emotions to other people, the bully

and the vulnerable guy could sense

each others emotions.

It won’t be too hard for the bully to

convince other people that he

might care about the vulnerable guy

because a lot of spiritual energy has

been exchanged between the bully and the vulnerable

guy. When the vulnerable guy was relaying the bully’s emotions to other people, the bully

and the vulnerable guy could sense

each others emotions.


But once the bully had used up the spiritual energy

that they got from the person who the vulnerable guy was relaying the bully’s

emotions to the exchanges of

spiritual energy stopped. Another

thing to consider is that the

bully might have also come from a family that gave

only a limited role to one of their

family members.

But once the bully had used up the spiritual energy

that they got from the person who the vulnerable guy was relaying the bully’s

emotions to the exchanges of

spiritual energy stopped. Another

thing to consider is that the

bully might have also come from a family that gave

only a limited role to one of their

family members.


If that was the case then the vulnerable guy would not only

be sensing the bully’s spiritual

energy from the time when he was relaying the

bully’s emotions to other people, but he

might also be picking up energy

from the bully similar to energy

exchanges that he has had with the members of his family. If so, the bully would seem

very familiar to the vulnerable guy.

If that was the case then the vulnerable guy would not only

be sensing the bully’s spiritual

energy from the time when he was relaying the

bully’s emotions to other people, but he

might also be picking up energy

from the bully similar to energy

exchanges that he has had with the members of his family. If so, the bully would seem

very familiar to the vulnerable guy.


The vulnerable guy’s original false paradise was set up early in his life. The

bully set up his second false

paradise when he felt the need to convince other

people that he was not really indifferent

to the vulnerable guy. It is possible that the vulnerable guy might someday

be forced to live in a third false paradise or even in a fourth false paradise.

The vulnerable guy’s original false paradise was set up early in his life. The

bully set up his second false

paradise when he felt the need to convince other

people that he was not really indifferent

to the vulnerable guy. It is possible that the vulnerable guy might someday

be forced to live in a third false paradise or even in a fourth false paradise.


Now that the vulnerable guy is

living in the second false paradise, he

will once again start to be misunderstood

by other people. Some of the people who like the bully

might try to start a relationship with

the vulnerable guy thinking that he has

the same cultural values as

the bully. But the relationship will end

when they realize that he does not

have those cultural values.

Now that the vulnerable guy is

living in the second false paradise, he

will once again start to be misunderstood

by other people. Some of the people who like the bully

might try to start a relationship with

the vulnerable guy thinking that he has

the same cultural values as

the bully. But the relationship will end

when they realize that he does not

have those cultural values.


The biggest problem that the vulnerable

guy faces at this point is that now that he is

living in a false paradise created by the bully, it will be

easier for the bully to force

him to relay the bully’s emotions to other people. In the past the bully would

take advantage of the vulnerable guy by

doing something to him that was unfair. When the bully did

this some of the bully’s emotions

would be forced onto the vulnerable guy.

The biggest problem that the vulnerable

guy faces at this point is that now that he is

living in a false paradise created by the bully, it will be

easier for the bully to force

him to relay the bully’s emotions to other people. In the past the bully would

take advantage of the vulnerable guy by

doing something to him that was unfair. When the bully did

this some of the bully’s emotions

would be forced onto the vulnerable guy.


After the vulnerable guy picked up the

bully’s emotions he would relay those emotions to other

people. But some of the people observing the situation would

be critical of the bully because they felt that

the vulnerable guy did not like what was happening. Now the

bully will feel face less criticism than

they did in the past when they do this

because it will appear

that the vulnerable guy has the same

cultural values as the bully.

After the vulnerable guy picked up the

bully’s emotions he would relay those emotions to other

people. But some of the people observing the situation would

be critical of the bully because they felt that

the vulnerable guy did not like what was happening. Now the

bully will feel face less criticism than

they did in the past when they do this

because it will appear

that the vulnerable guy has the same

cultural values as the bully.


Instead of asking if it is better to reign

in Hell or serve in Paradise, the

vulnerable guy should maybe ask if it

is better to start developing

relationships with people who do not

dominate you, or if it better to continue having sometimes

intense, but negative, exchanges of spiritual

energy with people who are only using you to make their

own lives a little bit easier.

Instead of asking if it is better to reign

in Hell or serve in Paradise, the

vulnerable guy should maybe ask if it

is better to start developing

relationships with people who do not

dominate you, or if it better to continue having sometimes

intense, but negative, exchanges of spiritual

energy with people who are only using you to make their

own lives a little bit easier. Copyright 2013 Don Bergquist

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The Philosophy of Exotischism Losing Your False Paradise 1 Many of us have heard the old saying that it is better to reign in Hell than to serve in Paradise