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LLoovvEEMMaarrrrii aagg ee ii nn II ss llaamm
October 2009
1 October 2009
Lessons Learnt_____________________________ 2
The Dower (Mahr). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2
The Fiqh of Love Poem.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3
G.E.M.s. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5
Word Search.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
Identifying Problems_______________________7
Reflections on divorce and marital problems.
Divorced People: Why Love is Blind. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7
Marriage: Why Are We Fail ing?. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8
Learning From Super Moms.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
Moving Forward__________________________ 10
Okay so we know divorce is on the rise, how do we give rise to
success instead?
One Car, Two Drivers. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 0
How to Transform Yourself Into Mrs. Right. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 1
Top 1 0 Things You Need to Know About Marriage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 3
Marriage & Family Therapy Programs.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 4
In the Spotlight___________________________ 15
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In This Issue:
by sr. Areefa
Photo credit: Klaus Post
The Dower (Mahr)
Lessons Learnt
2October 2009
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Lessons Learnt
LovEFIQH ofThe
poem
ctober 2009 Photo credits: debz wildie (photos), Moi Cody (i l lustration)Photo credits: debz wildie (photos), Moi Cody (i l lustration)
-Anonymous
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5
Lessons Learnt
“Alsalamu alaikum Uncl
“Alsalamu alaikum Uncl
Make sure that the firs
something good.
Flirting: The Decaf Zinn
Istikhara:
“Allah bless my choice!
The choice is ultimately
can change it so that if
would bless it and make
Sh. Walee
Brothers:
“Women
. . .
comm
G.E.M.s
e/Auntie ___. I 'm sorry I 'm late.”- Bad
e/Auntie ___. I 'm real ly glad to be here!”- Good
t thing your potential spouse and in-laws hear is
a
” not “Allah, make my choice for me!”
yours and only you wil l be accountable. But the dua
this relationship would have been bad for you, Allah
it good.
d: “Some say the best mahr is the least amount. . .but that's a weak hadith .”
“Aww!”
needs a lot of Vitamin A: Affection, Attention, Appreciation, Assurance, Acceptance
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . and al l the women agreed upon this . . . . . . . . . . . . . . lol”
Divorce rate is sky rocketing; it increased 50% from the 1 970 - 2000! & in Muslim
unities there’s a divorce every 9 minutes.
Genuinely Enlightening Moments
October 2009 Photo credits: Hanafi Jamil , Louise Fogh
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R A O P N Y R A T P D N M D TT F G C I A T T P S I N E P PL P H I E M H S B Y E R C E HE L A N C E M E L F I T D M SF U B S A L T C E T B U H H TC H I L D R E N S E C T G L TT R T Y L I M A F A T G H M AD H S I A C P N T I T H L S RN S L E R E L I G I O N O P IU H N M P L O F O B S F T B LC M F F B N Y L B M N C O I OL I B N D B M I H I A L U E AR U T N S H E R U T U F I G SE H I L L S N A H O N T H L OE T I N T N T U I N F O I N M
1 1 Topics
You Should Discuss
Before You Get Married
Identifying Problems
Divorced People:
Why Love is Blind by Abdur Rahman Mirza
7 October 2009
M
W
Wb
arriage:
hy Are
e Fail ing?y Abdur Rahman Mirza
8October 2009
Identifying Problems
Learning from Super Moms by Abed Islam
9 October 2009
Moving Forward
One Car,
Two DriversWritten by sr. Shehnaz Khan
Photo Credit: Sean Carpenter
Love.
Sex.
Marriage.
October 2009 10
Moving Forward
11 October 2009
How
Yourse
to Transfor
lf Into Mrs. Rby sr. Juana Martine
m
ightz
Photo credits: Sundeip Arora
12October 2009
by sr. Shehnaz Khan
Top 1 0 Things You Need
to Know About Marriage
Moving Forward
1 . If your job gets all your energy, the marriage
withers.
2. One of the greatest gifts you can give your
spouse is your own happiness.
3. It’s never too late to repair damaged trust.
4. The cost of a lie is higher than whatever
you’re going to get from escaping it.
5. Expectations set up resentment.
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6. Your opinion isn’t the truth.
7. If you think “you aren’t the person I married”,
you’re right.
8. Authenticity is contagious and habit-forming.
9. There is violence in silence when it’s used as a
weapon.
1 0. Never outgrow the need for romance.
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Family
Therapy
Programshttp://www.hofstra.edu/Academics/Colleges/SOEAHS/HPFS/MAMFT/
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In the Spotlight
ChariTree
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