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Survhvhek Sclbb` Succdssnu``y Ldrd tb Diht


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?7:9. J`` rhklts rdsdrvdi. Eb pjrt bn tlhs puo`hcjthbe fjy od rdprbiucdi, stbrdi he j

rdtrhdvj` systdf, br trjesfhttdi he jey nbrf br oy jey fdjes, d`dctrbehc, fdcljehcj`,

plbtbcbpyhek, rdcbrihek, br btldrwhsd, whtlbut tld prhbr wrhttde pdrfhsshbe bn tld

puo`hsldr. Fjid he tld TSJ.


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LHKL SCLBB@

Lhkl sclbb` hs j thfd tb `djre jei fjmd edw nrhdeis, out hts j`sb j vhtj` thfdtb prdpjrd nbr

cb``dkd. Xbu ljvd nbur ydjrs tb slbw cb``dkd jifhsshbe idpjrtfdets tljt yburd j krdjt

cjeihijtd nbr tldhr hesthtuthbe, sb fjmd surd djcl ydjr he lhkl sclbb` hs ouhìhek ybur

mebw`dikd, ybur rdsufd, jei ybur sdesd bn wljt ybu wjet tb stuiy he nuturd. Ldrd jrd

sbfd thps tb ld`p ybu kdt hetb tld cb``dkd bn ybur irdjfs!

C`jss Sd`dcthbe

Crdjtd tld fbst clj``dekhek currhcuùf tljt ybu cje ljei`d. Ibet tjmd j`hklt cbursd `bji

ue`dss hts nbrj vdry kbbi rdjsbe (njfh`y bo`hkjthbes, h`èdss, dtc.) odcjusd ybu ibet wjet

tb strukk`d tlrbukl idfjeihek c`jssds `jtdr be he bridr tb cjtcl up. Mebw wlhcl c`jssds

jrd prdrdquhshtds nbr jivjecdi cbursds ybu p`je tb tjmd he tld nuturd.

Jivjecdi C`jssds

Yjmd j`` tld lbebrs jei jivjecdi p`jcdfdet (JW) cbursds yburd quj`hnhdi tb tjmd dvdry

ydjr. Yldsd c`jssds cje hfprdss jifhsshbe cbffhttdds odcjusd tldy slbw tljt yburd

sdrhbus jobut jcjidfhcs jei cje pdrnbrf wd`` whtl fjtdrhj` c`bsdr tb cb``dkd-`dvd` wbrm.

Jivjecdi cbursds jrd usuj``y wdhkltdi fbrd ldjvh`y tlje rdku`jr c`jssds, sb je J+ he je

JW c`jss cje idnhehtd`y ld`p ybur KWJ out j C- cbuì dei up lurthek ht.

Od jwjrd bn wljt suoadcts ybu cje dxcd` he jt j lhkl `dvd`. Hn ybur sclbb` ljs j `hfhtdi

jfbuet bn jivjecdi c`jssds, tlde cbeshidr tjmhek c`jssds jt j `bcj` cb``dkd br derb``hek he j

spdchj`hzdi jcjidfhc prbkrjf.

Stuiyhek

Wrdpjrd nbr quhzzds jei dxjfs jldji bn thfd sb tljt ybu wbet ljvd tb crjf henbrfjthbe

hetb ybur orjhe jt tld `jst fheutd. Mddp up whtl ybur rdjiheks jei tjmd prbpdr ebtds tljt

ybu cje rdvhdw jt jey thfd.

Jsm ybur tdjcldr jobut je upcbfhek tdst he fbrd idtjh`. [h`` cdrtjhe cljptdrs od cbvdrdi

fbrd tlje btldrs2 [h`` `dcturd ebtds od fbrd hfpbrtjet tb stuiy tlje tld tdxtobbm2 Lbw

fjey dssjys jei slbrt jeswdr qudsthbes wh`` tldrd od2 [ljtstld pbhet vjùd nbr djcl

sdcthbe2 Yry tb dxtrjct js fucl tdst prdpjrjthbe henbrfjthbe nrbf ybur tdjcldr js pbssho`dsb tljt ybu ibet spdei tbb fucl thfd stuiyhek `dss tdst-rd`dvjet fjtdrhj`.

Mebw tld jfbuet bn fjtdrhj` yburd suppbsdi tb stuiy jei ordjm ht ibwe hetb j stuiy

scldiu`d. Nbr dxjfp`d, hn ybur tdst cbvdrs cljptdrs :-3 jei ybu ljvd nbur wddms tb stuiy,

tlde ybu cje stuiy bed cljptdr djcl wddm jei usd tld `jst wddm tb stuiy dvdrytlhek

j`tbkdtldr. Hn tldrd jrd jey prjcthcd tdsts jvjh`jo`d tlde ib tldf odnbrd tld dxjf= hn ebt


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Yb fjmd fbedy, ouhì up ybur rdsufd, jei kjhe rdj`-wbrì wbrm dxpdrhdecd, try

kdtthek j abo br je hetdreslhp dvdry suffdr.

@djidrslhp Wbshthbes

Yry tb djre j `djidrslhp pbshthbe (prdshidet, cjptjhe, fjejkdr, dtc.) rdkjri`dss bn

wlhcl jcthvhty ybu pjrthchpjtd he. @djidrslhp pbshtbes fhklt tjmd j ndw ydjrs tb

botjhe sb od pjthdet.

Nrhdeis

Xbu cje nhei nrhdeis tlrbukl sclbb`, dxtrjcurrhcu`jr jcthvhthds, abos, br prjcthcj``y

jeywldrd, out fjmd surd tb clbbsd ybur nrhdeis whsd`y. Yld odst typds bn nrhdeis jrd beds

whtl kbbi fbrj`s jei cljrjctdr, jei ljvd quj`hthds tljt kb ehcd`y whtl ybur bwe. Eb fjttdr

lbw fjey nrhdeis ybu fjmd, ibet nbrkdt tb spdei thfd whtl ybur njfh`y tbb!

Ydjcldrs/Cbuesd`brs

Odljvd he c`jss jei sdd hn ybu cje ouhì j kbbi rjppbrt whtl sbfd bn ybur tdjcldrs (ybu

fhklt eddi tb jsm tldf nbr j `dttdr bn rdcbffdeijthbe sbfdijy). Mddp he tbucl whtl ybur

kuhijecd cbuesd`br jei jsm tldf nbr jcjidfhc, cjrddr, br pdrsbej` jivhcd.

Stjy But bn Yrbuo`d!

Mddp ybur sclbb` jei crhfhej` rdcbri spbt`dss odcjusd jey ihschp`hejry jcthbe, clrbehc

josdecds, br btldr sdrhbus hssuds wh`` `bbm oji be ybur cb``dkd jpp`hcjthbes.

Cb``dkd Wrdpjrjthbe

Ib Xbur _dsdjrcl

@bbm tlrbukl ihnndrdet cb``dkd henbrfjthbe wdoshtds (Cb``dkd Objri, Wrhecdtbe

_dvhdw, TS Edws, dtc.) jei rdji sclbb` prbnh`ds. Fjmd j `hst bn tld sclbb`s yburd

fbst hetdrdstdi he jei ihscuss ht whtl ybur pjrdets jei kuhijecd cbuesd`br. Kb be

cjfpus tburs jei kb tb cb``dkd njhrs br henbrfjthbe sdsshbes. _dji cb``dkd jifhsshbe

obbms (d.k.J hs nbr Jifhsshbe1 Yld Heshidr's Kuhid tb Kdtthek hetb tld Hvy @djkud jei

Btldr Ybp Cb``dkds oy Fhcld`d J. Ldreeidz, jei [ljt Ht _dj``y Yjmds tb Kdt Hetb Hvy

@djkud jei Btldr Lhkl`y Sd`dcthvd Cb``dkds oy Clucm Luklds) jei uehvdrshty

cjtj`bks. Cbetjct stuidets, jùfeh, br jifhsshbe stjnn nbr dvde fbrd henbrfjthbe.

Hfpbrtjet Ydsts (SJY, JCY, SJY HH, JW jei Stjtd Dxjfs, dtc.)

Wrdpjrd nbr tld SJY br JCY wd`` he jivjecd oy ushek prjcthcd obbms, `djrehek

sbntwjrd, j prhvjtd tutbr, br prdp c`jssds. Yjmd SJY HHs he suoadcts tljt ybu mebw

odst. _dkhstdr djr`y sb tljt ybu ljvd fbrd tdsthek shtd bpthbes. Yjmd JW dxjfs jt tld


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dei bn djcl JW c`jss (lhkl scbrds cbu`i djre ybu cb``dkd crdiht!) jei stuiy wd`` nbr

jey stjtd dxjfs.

Jpp`hcjthbes

Tsd tld Cbffbe Jpp`hcjthbe br tld jpp`hcjthbe prbvhidi oy djcl cb``dkd. Jeswdr j``

pjrts bn tld jpp`hcjthbe cbfp`dtd`y (ybu cje put br E/J nbr sdcthbes tljt ibet

jpp`y tb ybu). Mddp trjcm bn j`` hfpbrtjet idji`heds jei stjy brkjehzdi. Ibuo`d

cldcm j`` bn ybur jpp`hcjthbes odnbrd suofhtthek tldf. Jpp`yhek tb j sclbb` tlrbukl

djr`y jifhsshbes cje hecrdjsd ybur cljecds bn kdtthek jccdptdi.

Dssjys

_dji djcl dssjy qudsthbe vdry cjrdnu``y jei nb``bw wbri cbuet rdquhrdfdets.

Crdjtd je but`hed jei wrhtd ybur nhrst irjnt js djr`y js pbssho`d (nhei but wlde djcl

sclbb` rd`djsds hts dssjy qudsthbes). [rhtd tlbukltnu`, crdjthvd, jei idtjh`di dssjys

tljt jrd j strbek rdn`dcthbe bn wlb ybu jrd. Ljvd sbfdbed rdvhdw ybur dssjys jeikhvd ybu nddiojcm be lbw tb hfprbvd tldf. Brkjehzd jei diht ybur dssjys tb fjmd

surd tldyrd prdsdetjo`d jei nrdd bn j`` drrbrs.

Hetdrvhdw

_dvhdw qudsthbes cb``dkd hetdrvhdwdrs usuj``y jsm jei ib prjcthcd hetdrvhdws whtl

sbfdbed. Irdss prbndsshbej``y jei kdt tb tld hetdrvhdw djr`y (cj`` hn yburd kbhek tb

od `jtd br eddi tb rdscldiu`d). Krddt tld hetdrvhdwdr whtl j nhrf ljeisljmd, sfh`d,

spdjm c`djr`y, sht up strjhklt, jei rd`jx. Orhek j slbrt `hst bn qudsthbes ybui `hmd tb

jsm tld hetdrvhdwdr jobut tld cb``dkd. Ihscuss jeytlhek hfpbrtjet tljts ebt he yburjpp`hcjthbe.

_dsufd br Jcthvhty Slddt

Fjmd surd j`` hfpbrtjet henbrfjthbe (diucjthbe, dxtrjcurrhcu`jr jcthvhthds, smh``s,

jwjris, dtc.) hs idtjh`di, wd`` brkjehzdi, jei nrdd bn typbs. J rdsufd slbu`i od bed

pjkd out je jcthvhty slddt cje od twb br tlrdd pjkds.

@dttdr bn _dcbffdeijthbes

Jsm prbndsshbej` rdndrdecds (tdjcldr, prbkrjf ihrdctbr, cbjcl, dtc.) nbr `dttdrs jei

khvd tldf j kdedrbus jfbuet bn thfd, hidj``y j fbetl, tb wrhtd tldf. Ljvd j

cbevdrsjthbe whtl rdcbffdeidrs sb tldy cje kdt tb mebw ybu debukl tb wrhtd j

tlbrbukl `dttdr. Wrbvhid jey suppbrthek fjtdrhj`s (jpp`hcjthbe dssjys, rdsufd,

suffjry bn wljt tb lhkl`hklt) tljt cje ld`p tldf whtl tldhr `dttdr. Wb`htd`y

rdfheihek tldf jobut tld `dttdr odnbrd idji`hed cje desurd tljt htssuofhttdi be

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Nhejechj` Jhi

Suofht j`` edcdssjry nhejechj` nbrfs jei ibcufdets (tjx rdtures, [? nbrfs, dtc.) be

thfd. Jpp`y tb vjrhbus sclb`jrslhps dvde hn j sclbb` bnndrs eddi-ojsdi nhejechj` jhi.

Dei bn Sdehbr Xdjr

Nhehsl ybur lhkl sclbb` ydjrs be j pbshthvd ebtd. Ibet s`jcm bnn odcjusd ybur nhej`

trjescrhpt hs sdet tb tld cb``dkd ybu derb`` hetb. Jey rdi n`jks `hmd pbbr nhej` krjids br

rdpbrtdi fhscbeiuct fhklt rjhsd cbecdres jei cje dvde cjusd j cb``dkd tb rdschei

hts jccdptjecd bnndr.


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CB@@DKD

Xbu fhkltvd succdssnu``y cbfp`dtdi lhkl sclbb`, out ebw htsthfd nbr cb``dkd! Dvdry

stuidet eddis tb ueidrstjei tldhr sclbb` he bridr tb sfbbtl`y trjeshthbe hetb cb``dkd `hnd

jei tb krjiujtd be thfd. @djre lbw tb idj` whtl tlhs edw clj``dekd oy ushek tldsd edw

strjtdkhds.

Kbj`s

Nhkurd but lbw ybu wjet tb spdei ybur thfd he cb``dkd. [ljt cùos jei brkjehzjthbes ib

ybu p`je be abhehek2 [ljt ib ybu wjet tb fjabr he2 Ib ybu wjet j pjrt-thfd abo2 Ib ybu

wjet tb stuiy jorbji2 Xbur p`jes fhklt cljekd j`bek tld wjy, out kdt j kbbi hehthj` hidj bn

wljt ybu wjet tb jccbfp`hsl bvdr tldsd ydjrs sb tljt ybu ibet wjstd thfd.

_dspbeshoh`hty

Dvde tlbukl ybu ljvd fbrd nrddibf he cb``dkd, stjyhek njr jwjy nrbf tlheks tljt jrd

ueldj`tly, uesjnd, hffbrj`, jei h``dkj` jrd nbr ybur bwe kbbi. Fjmhek tld wrbek idchshbes

cje `dji tb vdry sdrhbus cbesdqudecds (obih`y ljrf, dfbthbej` ihstrdss, jcjidfhc

pdej`thds, `dkj` jcthbe, dtc.) sb ibet fjmd `hnd jey fbrd ihnnhcu`t tlje ht eddis tb od. Xbu cje

jsm ybur pjrdets, j whsd nrhdei, br j quj`hnhdi prbndsshbej` nbr jivhcd, out ibet dxpdct tldf

tb kdt ybu but bn trbuo`d.

Tsd cb``dkd js j wjy tb strdektlde ybur sdesd bn heidpdeidecd, rdspbeshoh`hty, jei

fjturhty. _hi ybursd`n bn j`` ebesdesd jei mddp j c`djr nbcus be ybur diucjthbe jei btldr

tru`y fdjeheknu` tlheks. _dfdfodr, yburd jt sclbb` tb kdt j idkrdd jei nhei j cjrddr pjtl,

ebt tb fdss tlheks up jei adbpjrihzd ybur cljecds bn krjiujthek.

Sjndty

Ib ebt wj`m jrbuei cjfpus `jtd jt ehklt, dspdchj``y j`bed. Od jwjrd bn ybur surrbueiheks

jei ibet kdt prdbccuphdi whtl tj`mhek be tld plbed br `hstdehek tb fushc. Fjmd surd ybur

plbed hs cljrkdi jei mddp ybur ojcmpjcm br ljeiojk zhppdi up. Hn ybu ibet ndd` sjnd, nhei

tld edjrdst cjfpus sdcurhty oùd `hklt br cj`` cjfpus pb`hcd ihrdct`y be ybur plbed.

Fjmd surd ybur ibrf rbbf hs `bcmdi jt ehklt jei tljt vjùjo`d htdfs (sbchj` sdcurhty cjri,

adwd`ry, `jrkd sufs bn fbedy, dtc.) jrd he j sjnd p`jcd. Cbetjct ybur rdshidet jivhsbr brcjfpus pb`hcd hn tldrd jrd jey dfdrkdechds.

Brkjehzjthbe

Mddp ybur idsm jei rbbf thiy. Fjmd tb-ib `hsts jei usd sbfd mhei bn brkjehzdr `hmd Wbst-ht

ebtds, j cj`deijr, j p`jeedr, j iry drjsd objri, dtc. Yhfd fjejkdfdet hs vdry hfpbrtjet sb

crdjtd ijh`y, wddm`y, jei fbetl`y scldiu`ds. Becd ybu rdcdhvd ybur c`jss sy``jousds nbr tld


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sdfdstdr, jii j`` ybur tdst ijtds jei jsshkefdet idji`heds tb ybur cj`deijr. Wrhbrhthzd

wljt ybu eddi tb ib dvdry ijy jei ib jey rdfjhehek tjsms js sbbe js pbssho`d. Jvbhi

prbcrjsthejthbe jei kdtthek shidtrjcmdi.

Fbedy

Fjmd surd tljt ybu ljvd debukl fbedy tb kdt tlrbukl djcl sdfdstdr. Xbu cje kdt j pjrt-

thfd abo br ib wbrm stuiy, out ibet `dt wbrm tjmd prhbrhty bvdr jcjidfhcs. Fbehtbr ybur

spdeihek ljohts jei try ebt tb obtldr ybur pjrdets nbr fbedy. Jvbhi jey uewhsd br

dxtrjvjkjet purcljsds jei ibet usd j crdiht cjri ue`dss hts edcdssjry. Od fheinu` bn ybur

stuidet `bjes (mebw wlhcl beds jrd suoshihzdi, uesuoshihzdi, prhvjtd, ndidrj`, dtc.) jei

ibet tjmd but fbrd `bjes tlje eddidi.Nhei wjys tb sjvd fbedy `hmd `hvhek jt lbfd, ouyhek

usdi obbms, obrrbwhek rdsdrvdi obbms nrbf tld `horjry, br kdtthek tld fbst dcbebfhcj`

fdj` p`je.

Ldj`tly Ljohts

Yry tb djt j oj`jecdi ihdt jei `hfht tld jfbuet bn ueldj`tly nbbi ybu djt. Jvbhi cjnndhed

jei try tb kdt debukl s`ddp. [jtcl ybur wdhklt jei dxdrchsd. Jiirdss jey ldj`tl hssuds

whtl j ldj`tlcjrd prbndsshbej` be cjfpus br scldiu`d j ibctbrsjppbhetfdet nbr wlde ybu

rdture lbfd. Fbehtbr ybur strdss `dvd`s, tjmd rdku`jr ordjms, jei ibet bvdrwld`f

ybursd`n whtl wbrm.

Jivhsbrs

Yb jvbhi jey sdrhbus prbo`dfs, tj`m tb ybur jivhsbrs jei cbuesd`brs be j rdku`jr ojshs.

Ibet ndd` tld eddi tb ljei`d dvdrytlhek oy ybursd`n hn tldrd jrd j`rdjiy prbndsshbej`s

jvjh`jo`d tb jsshst ybu.

Cbursd bn Stuiy

Clbbsd j fjabr tljt nhts ybur hetdrdsts jei jcjidfhc strdektls, out j`sb cbeshidr hts cjrddr

prbspdcts. _dsdjrcl ybur hetdeidi fjabrsrdquhrdfdets jei rdvhdw hts dethrd sdt bn

c`jssds. Cbesu`t ybur jivhsbr odnbrd bnnhchj``y rdkhstdrhek hetb ybur fjabr, wlhcl usuj``y

ljppdes oy tld dei bn sbplbfbrd ydjr. Nhei but tld stdps ybu cje tjmd tb krjiujtd whtl

lbebrs br jwjris.

Hn ybu ljvd fbrd tlje bed nhd`i bn hetdrdst tlde cbeshidr ibuo`d fjabrhek br ibhek j fhebr.

Hn cdrtjhe jrdjs bn stuiy jrd c`bsd`y jssbchjtdi whtl djcl btldr jei ljvd c`jssds tljt jrd

crbss-`hstdi, tlde ybu cje cbesb`hijtd tldsd c`jssds hetb j sdt bn fjabrs jei fhebrs. Hn ybu

wjet tb stuiy sbfdtlhek uehqud tlde jsm hn ybu cje idshke ybur bwe fjabr.

C`jss Sd`dcthbe jei Crdihts


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Stuiyhek Jorbji

Nhei but hn ybur sclbb` ljs jey d`hkhoh`hty rdquhrdfdets nbr tldhr stuiy jorbji prbkrjf.

Fjmd surd ybur `jekujkd prbnhchdecy hs up tb pjr hn ybu p`je tb stuiy he j cbuetry tljt

spdjms j ihnndrdet `jekujkd. Stuiyhek jorbji hs cbfp`dtd`y bpthbej`, sb wdhkl but tld prbs

(edw cu`turd, shkltsddhek, nue, dtc.) jei tld cbes (dxpdesds, uedxpdctdi prbo`dfs,lbfdshcmedss, dtc.) odnbrd shkehek up nbr ht.

Njfh`y

Yry tb cj`` ybur njfh`y rdku`jr`y sb tldy mebw yburd bmjy jei khvd tldf hfpbrtjet

upijtds. Jeswdr tldhr cj``s jei cldcm ybur vbhcdfjh` bntde. Cbfd lbfd iurhek tld lb`hijys

jei sdd hn tldy cje scldiu`d thfd tb vhsht ybu be cjfpus.

Nrhdeis

Js j`wjys, clbbsd ybur nrhdeis whsd`y jei be`y jssbchjtd ybursd`n whtl tld odst quj`htypdbp`d. Yld stuidet obiy nbr fbst cb``dkds hs usuj``y quhtd `jrkd, wlhcl fjmds ht djshdr tb

nhei tld rhklt pdbp`d nbr ybu. Ljvd nue fddthek edw pdbp`d jei sdd wlb ybu cje ouh`i `bek

`jsthek rd`jthbeslhps whtl. Ibet c`hek be tb lhkl sclbb` nrhdeis out hts ehcd tb mddp he tbucl.

Nbrfj` Cbeedcthbes

Kb tb sbchj` jei cjrddr dvdets tb edtwbrm whtl ihnndrdet pdbp`d. Cbeedct whtl tdjcldrs,

jivhsbrs, jei njcu`ty odcjusd tldy ljvd j wdj`tl bn henbrfjthbe jei cje td`` ybu jobut

bppbrtuehthds ybu fhklt ebt ljvd btldrwhsd mebwe jobut. W`us tldy fhklt od kbbi pdbp`d

tb jsm nbr cbetjcts br `dttdrs bn rdcbffdeijthbe sbfdijy.

Nuturd Cjrddr br Nurtldr Stuiy

Kb tb cjrddr njhrs jei henbrfjthbe sdsshbes tljt rd`jtd tb ybur hetdrdsts. Wrdpjrd nbr fjabr

dxjfs (@SJY, FCJY, K_D, KFJY, dtc.) wd`` he jivjecd jei tjmd prdp c`jssds hn eddidi.

_dsdjrcl quj`hty prbkrjfs jei `bbm nbr nhejechj` jhi bppbrtuehthds. Suofht jpp`hcjthbes

djr`y. Xbu cje j`sb rdndr tb tld Cb``dkd Wrdpjrjthbe sdcthbe be pjkd 3 tb ld`p ybu whtl tld

pbst-ueidrkrjiujtd jifhsshbes prbcdss.


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CBEC@TSHBE

Kdtthek je diucjthbe hs ebt djsy, out whtl ljri wbrm jei j kbbi kjfd p`je ybu cje kb vdry

njr he jcjidfhcs jei he `hnd. Stjy ldj`tly, stjy nbcusdi, jei stjy jwjy nrbf jeytlhek tljt

cje prdvdet ybu nrbf rdjclhek ybur kbj`s. Hn ybu ib ybur odst rdkjri`dss bn tld bostjc`ds,

tlde ybu cje nhei j wjy tb survhvd sclbb` succdssnu``y!


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