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I delivered this speech to the Class of 2006 at the IIM, Bangalore on dening
success. This was the rst time I shared the guiding principles of m life with
oung professionals.
I was the last child of a small!time government servant, in a famil of ve
"rothers. M earliest memor of m father is as that of a #istrict $mploment
%&cer in 'oraput, %rissa. It was, and remains as "ac( of "eond as ou can
imagine. There was no electricit) no primar school near" and water did not
*ow out of a tap. +s a result, I did not go to school until the age of eight) I was
home!schooled. M father used to get transferred ever ear. The famil
"elongings t into the "ac( of a eep - so the famil moved from place to place
and without an trou"le, m Mother would set up an esta"lishment and get us
going. aised " a widow who had come as a refugee from the then $ast Bengal,
she was a matriculate when she married m /ather.
M parents set the foundation of m life and the value sstem, which ma(es me
what I am toda and largel, denes what success means to me toda.
+s #istrict $mploment %&cer, m father was given a eep " the government.
There was no garage in the %&ce, so the eep was par(ed in our house. M
father refused to use it to commute to the o&ce. e told us that the eep is an
e1pensive resource given " the government! he reiterated to us that it was not
his eep "ut the government3s eep. Insisting that he would use it onl to tour
the interiors, he would wal( to his o&ce on normal das. e also made sure that
we never sat in the government eep - we could sit in it onl when it was
stationar.
That was our earl childhood lesson in governance - a lesson that corporatemanagers learn the hard wa, some never do.
The driver of the eep was treated with respect due to an other mem"er of m
/ather3s o&ce. +s small children, we were taught not to call him " his name. 4e
had to use the su&1 5dada3 whenever we were to refer to him in pu"lic or
private. 4hen I grew up to own a car and a driver " the name of au was
appointed - I repeated the lesson to m two small daughters. The have, as a
result, grown up to call au, 5au ncle3 - ver di7erent from man of their
friends who refer to their famil driver, as 5m driver3. 4hen I hear that term
from a school! or college!going person, I cringe.
To me, the lesson was signicant - ou treat small people with more respect than
how ou treat "ig people. It is more important to respect our su"ordinates than
our superiors.
%ur da used to start with the famil huddling around m Mother3s chulha - an
earthen re place she would "uild at each place of posting where she would coo(
for the famil. There was neither gas, nor electrical stoves.The morning routine
started with tea. +s the "rew was served, /ather would as( us to read aloud the
editorial page of The 8tatesman3s 5mu7osil3 edition - delivered one da late. 4e
did not understand much of what we were reading. But the ritual was meant for
us to (now that the world was larger than 'oraput district and the $nglish I spea(
toda, despite having studied in an %ria medium school, has to do with that
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routine. +fter reading the newspaper aloud, we were told to fold it neatl. /ather
taught us a simple lesson.
e used to sa, 9:ou should leave our newspaper and our toilet, the wa ou
e1pect to nd it. That lesson was a"out showing consideration to others.
Business "egins and ends with that simple precept.
Being small children, we were alwas enamored with advertisements in the
newspaper for transistor radios - we did not have one. 4e saw other people
having radios in their homes and each time there was an advertisement of
;hilips, Murph or Bush radios, we would as( /ather when we could get one. $ach
time, m /ather would repl that we did not need one "ecause he alread had
ve radios - alluding to his ve sons.
4e also did not have a house of our own and would occasionall as( /ather as to
when, li(e others, we would live in our own house. e would give a similar repl,
4e do not need a house of our own. I alread own ve houses. is replies did
not gladden our hearts in that instant.
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fervor. %ther than reading out the newspaper to m mother, I had no clue a"out
how I could "e part of the action. 8o, after reading her the newspaper, ever da
I would land up near the niversit3s water tan(, which served the communit. I
would spend hours under it, imagining that there could "e spies who would come
to poison the water and I had to watch for them. I would dadream a"out
catching one and how the ne1t da, I would "e featured in the newspaper.nfortunatel for me, the spies at war ignored the sleep town of Bhu"aneswar
and I never got a chance to catch one in action. :et, that act unloc(ed m
imagination.
Imagination is everthing. If we can imagine a future, we can create it, if we can
create that future, others will live in it. That is the essence of success.
%ver the ne1t few ears, m mother3s eesight dimmed "ut in me she created a
larger vision, a vision with which I continue to see the world and, I sense, through
m ees, she was seeing too. +s the ne1t few ears unfolded, her vision
deteriorated and she was operated for cataract. I remem"er, when she returned
after her operation and she saw m face clearl for the rst time, she wasastonished. 8he said, 9%h m =od, I did not (now ou were so fair. I remain
might pleased with that adulation even till date. 4ithin wee(s of getting her
sight "ac(, she developed a corneal ulcer and, overnight, "ecame "lind in "oth
ees. That was >?6?. 8he died in 2002. In all those D2 ears of living with
"lindness, she never complained a"out her fate even once. Curious to (now what
she saw with "lind ees, I as(ed her once if she sees dar(ness. 8he replied, 9?E>. Aife too( me places - I wor(ed with
outstanding people, challenging assignments and traveled all over the world.
In >??2, while I was posted in the 8, I learnt that m father, living a retired life
with m eldest "rother, had su7ered a third degree "urn inur and was admitted
in the 8afderung ospital in #elhi. I *ew "ac( to attend to him - he remained fora few das in critical stage, "andaged from nec( to toe. The 8afderung ospital
is a coc(roach infested, dirt, inhuman place. The overwor(ed, under!resourced
sisters in the "urn ward are "oth victims and perpetrators of dehumanied life at
its worst. %ne morning, while attending to m /ather, I realied that the "lood
"ottle was empt and fearing that air would go into his vein, I as(ed the
attending nurse to change it. 8he "luntl told me to do it mself. In that horri"le
theater of death, I was in pain and frustration and anger. /inall when she
relented and came, m /ather opened his ees and murmured to her, 94h have
ou not gone home etF ere was a man on his death"ed "ut more concerned
a"out the overwor(ed nurse than his own state. I was stunned at his stoic self.
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There I learnt that there is no limit to how concerned ou can "e for another
human "eing and what the limit of inclusion is ou can create.
M father died the ne1t da. e was a man whose success was dened " his
principles, his frugalit, his universalism and his sense of inclusion.
+"ove all, he taught me that success is our a"ilit to rise a"ove ourdiscomfort, whatever ma "e our current state. :ou can, if ou want, raise our
consciousness a"ove our immediate surroundings. 8uccess is not a"out "uilding
material comforts - the transistor that he never could "u or the house that he
never owned. is success was a"out the legac he left, the memetic continuit
of his ideals that grew "eond the smallness of a ill!paid, unrecognied
government servant3s world.
M father was a fervent "eliever in the British a. e sincerel dou"ted the
capa"ilit of the post!independence Indian political parties to govern the countr.
To him, the lowering of the nion ac( was a sad event. M Mother was the e1act
opposite. 4hen 8u"hash Bose Guit the Indian