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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    t`c wdrej ls ydur dystcr1lmibloc t`crcs od gduotry.

    stdgh`dem syojrdmc.do t`c inrlgio ljcotlty,gdsmdpdeltiolsm ioj t`c bedfie vleeibc.do t`c leeusldo dn gduotry ioj pdstgdedolie iutdfldbrip`lgiewrltlob8 lmibloiry`dmceiojs ioj t`c scirg` ndr scen ioj ljcotlty.

    immi flribdGdsmdpdeltiolsm,ig`lcvlob Stdpli8

    t`c ocw lojlbcodus ioj

    t`c giee td mdurolob.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    i spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc,mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn Inrlgi, lt ls

    lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty.

    Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

    Zd edsc docs gueturc ls t`crcndrc el!c edslob mcmdry. Z`ls ls t`c sltuitldo, w`lg` mdst Inrlgios nlojt`cmscevcs tdjiy. . . t`c Inrlgio tdjiy ls giub`t fctwcco i pist s"`c gioodt rcgiee, i prcscot s"`c ls

    lee#c$ulppcj td uojcrstioj ioj i nuturc, s"`c gioodt gdotcmpeitc.

    G`ls Dhcg`uhwu Srd`

    irt`i !ussfium %&cgdmlob i gltlzco dn t`c wdrej ls dntco i edocey fuslocss. 't ls, lo cnncgt, i !loj dn cxlec nrdm

    t`c gdmndrt dn edgie trut`s, nrdm t`c wirm ocstelob nccelobs dn pitrldtlsm, nrdm t`c ifsdrflob prljc lo docscen ioj

    docs dwo. . . . (dsmdpdeltiolsm dnncrs od sug` rcnubc) lt dnncrs doey rcisdo ioj t`c edvc dn `umiolty.*

    %Z`c jcslrc dn t`c gdedolzcr ndr t`c gdedoy ls triospircot codub`,

    fut `dw mug` mdrc jlnnlguet lt ls td iggduot ndr t`c lovcrsc edoblob dn t`c gdedolzcj.

    +dw, is cmml $ucrlcs, gduej t`c gdedolzcj jcoy `lmscen sd gruceey - +dw gduej `c `itct`c gdedolzcrs ioj yct ijmlrc t`cm sd pissldoitcey

    /o Z`c (dedolie";dst#(dedolie 9uf6cgt.

    ;dstgdedolie ljcotlty lo i bedfielzlob 'ojli"iobcct Humirdo Iefcrt cmml

    Do Is`ls !iojy#s Stdpli. I$$cgtlvc Gdsmdpdeltiolsm

    Z`c rcvlvie dn gdsmdpdeltiolsm td w`lg` irt`i 7ussfium, imdob dt`crs, is mijc slbolnlgiot gdotrlfutldos iesdrcnecgts io urbc td bd fcydoj t`c pdstmdjcro ioj muetlgueturie lmprlsdomcot lo jlnncrcogc ioj rcielzc dur gdmmdo

    `umiolty. &ut t`c pdlotcr td dur gdmmdo `umiolty fy t`c prcviecot jlsgdurscs jdcs odt sunnlglcotey cmfdjy t`cpilo ioj sunncrlob dn grylob umiolty is lt is fcco ioj ls fclob suf6cgtcj td i scrlcs dn vldeitldos ioj gdedolie

    vldecogc.

    Gdsmdpdeltiolsm ioj Fcydoj% &dwirjs i uetlvcrsc d$ &rios$drmitldos

    Ioioti Humir 'lrl

    Do Is`ls !iojy#s Stdpli. I$$cgtlvc Gdsmdpdeltiolsm

    (rimdj H. !iyir:Z`us, od utdpli gio fc wlt`dut io lmpelglt dr cxpelglt t`cdry dn sunncrlob. Z`ls ls cspcglieey sd lo t`c pcrlp`crlcs dn

    t`c wdrej, cup`cmlstlgieey gieecj t`c t`lrj wdrej 3>20. 7iojy bdcs do td siy t`it :td `ivc i mciolobnue elnc lo t`c

    mlojs dn mco, sug` i utdpli must stirt wlt` t`c lssuc dn mio#mijc sunncrlob, w`lg` `is blvco t`c t`lrj wdrej fdt`

    lts oimc ioj uol$ucocss: 3Zrijltldos >20.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    uoc$ulvdgieey< is i mittcr dn prigtlgie ocgcsslty, wc ivc od g`dlgc fut lo t`c jlrcgtldo dn cstcro gueturc ioj

    glvlelzitldo* 3>2G0.

    ;&`c &riumi d$ i 9lmlols`cj /6lstcogc7% G`loui Ig`cfc *cvlsltcj

    Iobcei :imis *djrlbucs

    ;dst#gdedolie Inrlgi, tdjiy, ls gdonrdotcj wlt` i jlnnlguet fut vcry lmpdrtiot $ucst< w`it lrcju giees pdst#gdedolie

    sdue#scirg`lob 3>JJ?, p. 20 dr w`it &iiz giees t`c prcdggupitldo wlt`, ioj prcjlecgtldo ndr, %trijltldo* ioj

    %iut`cotlglty* 3>JJ2, p. G0. Z`ls scirg` ls sltuitcj wlt`lo t`c gdotcxt dn t`c jlnnlguety lo gdogcptuielzlob w`it ls

    igtuieey mciot w`co t`c wdrj Inrlgio ls mcotldocj, cspcglieey lo rceitldo td gueturie lssucs sug` is ljcotlty, muslg,rcelbldo, irts, mdrielty, ioj glocmitdbrip`y. Fdr cximpec, w`it mi!cs i nlem dr muslg io Inrlgio nlem dr muslg

    lt`lo t`ls purvlcw, lt ls t`co pdsslfec td is!, w`it ls mciot fy t`c ippceeitldo Inrlgio ljcotlty (io ljcotlty fc

    gdotcxtuielzcj `it gdotcxt cxpeilos Inrlgio ljcotlty `it ls rcieey Inrlgio lo ioy ljcotlty 's t`c wdrj Inrlgiltscen suf6cgt td gdogcptuielzitldo 'o w`it jd wc sltuitc Inrlgio ljcotlty 's Inrlgio ljcotlty iewiys t`c simc,

    g`ioblob dr fcgdmlob Zd w`dm ls t`c gdogcptuielzitldo dn Inrlgio ljcotlty lmpdrtiot ioj slbolnlgiot 's lt td t`c

    Inrlgio dr odo#Inrlgio &ut t`co, w`y wduej i gdogcptuielzitldo dn t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty fc lmpdrtiot tdt`c Inrlgio `lmscen dr td t`dsc w`d irc odt `it ls t`c sdurgc dn t`c lmpdrtiogc ioj t`c $ucst ndr Inrlgio ljcotlty

    Z`csc $ucstldos ioj mioy mdrc prdvljc t`c p`ledsdp`lgie, gueturie ioj lotceecgtuie sltuitldos irduoj w`lg` t`c$ucst ndr Inrlgio ljcotlty lo t`c pdst#gdedolie cri must fc uojcrstddj. &ut t`co, t`c pdst#gdedolie cri ls odt iee t`it

    t`crc ls lo t`ls $ucst ndr t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty.

    Iggdrjlob td .I. Ippli` 32==>, p. N20, i spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc,

    mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn

    Inrlgio ljcotlty. Z`c trut` dn t`ls prdpdsltldo gio fc iggcptcj, ' suppdsc, doey lo t`c prcscogc dn i $uielnlcr.Z`ls ls lt< t`c lotceecgtuie peitndrm do w`lg` td ipprilsc Inrlgio ljcotlty lo t`c cri dn gdedolielsm ls mciolobecss ln

    t`it w`lg` prcgcjcs lt, l.c., t`c prc#gdedolie, ls 6cttlsdocj. Bondrtuoitcey, is wc s`iee sddo jcmdostritc, t`c prc#

    gdedolie ls iewiys pdrtriycj lo t`c eiobuibc dn myt`lgie mciolobecssocss. &ut t`co, lt stlee fc`dvcs us td gdotcoj

    t`it t`c lotceecgtuie cxtcosldo dn t`c fig!brduoj dn pdstgdedolie Inrlgio ljcotlty td t`c cri dn gdedolielsm ioj prc#gdedolielsm prdvljcs t`c t`rcc gdotcxts lo w`lg` t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty ls td fc cxpedrcj.

    Inrlgio ljcotlty. 't pdslts t`it ln t`c gdogcpt dn ljcotlty ls ltscen prdfecmitlg ioj trioslcot, ioj t`c $uielnlcr Inrlgio lsg`ioblob ioj selppcry, lt cobuens t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty lo io cobiblob prdgcss dn rc#lovcotldo< Inrlgio

    ljcotlty ls od mdrc t`io i pdtcotlielty, odt io igtuielty.

    Is ' `dpc t`ls jlsgussldo wlee s`dw, jcspltc `ls geilms, Ig cfc ls stlee vcry mug` lmprlsdocj lo t`c grdssrdijs dntwd gueturcs, odt sd mug` is i vlgtlm dn t`c gdedolie ioj pdst#gdedolie prcjlgimcot, fut is i rcprcscotitlvc dn w`it

    wimc Ippli` `is gieecj i %gdmprijdr lotceelbcotsli,* t`it ls, %i rceitlvcey smiee, cstcro#styec, cstcro#

    trilocj brdup dn wrltcrs ioj t`lo!crs, w`d mcjlitc t`c trijc lo gueturie gdmmdjltlcs dn wdrej gipltielsm it t`c

    pcrlp`cry*< %lo t`c cst t`cy irc !odwo t rdub` t`c Inrlgi t`cy dnncr, t`clr gdmpitrldts !odw t`cm fdt` t`rdub`t`c cst t`cy prcscot td Inrlgi ioj t`rdub` io Inrlgi t`cy `ivc lovcotcj ndr t`c wdrej, ndr cig` dt`cr, ioj ndr

    Inrlgi*. ;&`c &riumi d$ i 9lmlols`cj /6lstcogc7% G`loui Ig`cfc *cvlsltcj

    Iobcei :imis *djrlbucs

    % 'mpurlty ls t`c drjcr dn t`c jiy.

    Z`c wc iojydu, logeujc iesd t`c `c ioj t`cs`c dn iee elobulstlg brdups, dn iee oitldoieltlcs,dn iee t`c scxcs. c irc dn iee t`c gueturcs. Cig` pcrsdo ls i mdsilg.*

    'uy "girpctti, :#lmpurlt3

    Gueturc, uetl)gueturc dr &rios)gueturc.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    Gdsmdpdeltio ittltujcs t`rdub` triosoitldoie sdglie prigtlgcs>

    "tc$$co iu, 2io cwcs ioj Ioo 0lmmcrmioo

    drc gdogrctcey, gdmmuolgitldoioj lotcrigtldo t`it triosgcoj oitldoie fdrjcrs irc el!cey td gdotrlfutc td i

    g`iobc dn pcdpecs nrimc dn mloj. Z`us, wc jd odt t`lo! t`it gdsmdpdeltio ittltujcs

    irc doey s`ipcj fy stiylob ifrdij dr trivceelob fut iesd fy `ivlob rcbueir gdotigts

    ioj rceitldos wlt` pcdpec elvlob lo dt`cr gduotrlcs.

    /n gdursc, tdjiys mdflelty ls odt doey rcstrlgtcj td p`yslgie, fdjley trivce. drcdvcr, lt gio fc issumcj t`it dt`cr

    !lojs dn trivceelob irc iesd slbolnlgiot lo grcitlob t`c gdojltldos ndr i gdsmdpdeltio mdjc dn fclob#lo#t`c#wdrej< -

    lmibloitlvc trivce, td fc triospdrtcj cescw`crc t`rdub` t`c lmibcs dn peigcs ioj pcdpecs cogduotcrcj lo t`c mcjli)ioj vlrtuie trivce, triosgcojlob bcdbrip`lgie ioj dntco sdglie jlstiogcs t`rdub` londrmitldo ioj gdmmuolgitldos

    tcg`odedby 39zcrszyos!l ioj Brry >JJ@< 22G nn.0.

    Gdsmdpdeltio ittltujcs t`rdub` triosoitldoie sdglie prigtlgcs>

    "tc$$co iu, 2io cwcs ioj Ioo 0lmmcrmioo

    'edfiel

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    gdsmdpdeltiolsm ls, lo ljcotlty tcrms, fctwlxt ioj fctwcco

    wlt`dut fclob elmloie. 't ls s`lntlob, pirtlglpitlob lo mioy wdrejs

    wlt`dut fcgdmlob pirt dn t`cm - t`c gdsmdpdeltio ls uoiut`cotlg

    ioj $ulotcsscotlieey mdjcro-2doit`io 1rlcjmio.Gueturie Ljcotlty ioj Bedfie rdgcss

    Gdsmdpdeltio ittltujcs t`rdub` triosoitldoie sdglie prigtlgcs>

    "tc$$co iu, 2io cwcs ioj Ioo 0lmmcrmioo

    /n gdursc, tdjiys mdflelty ls odt doey rcstrlgtcj td p`yslgie, fdjley trivce. drcdvcr, lt gio fc issumcj t`it dt`cr

    !lojs dn trivceelob irc iesd slbolnlgiot lo grcitlob t`c gdojltldos ndr i gdsmdpdeltio mdjc dn fclob#lo#t`c#wdrej< -

    lmibloitlvc trivce, td fc triospdrtcj cescw`crc t`rdub` t`c lmibcs dn peigcs ioj pcdpecs cogduotcrcj lo t`c mcjli)

    ioj vlrtuie trivce, triosgcojlob bcdbrip`lgie ioj dntco sdglie jlstiogcs t`rdub` londrmitldo ioj gdmmuolgitldostcg`odedby 39zcrszyos!l ioj Brry >JJ@< 22G nn.0.

    :Z`c wdrej ls is lt wcrc t`c gdmmdo `dmc

    dn t`c bdjs ioj `umios, t`c glty t`it fcedobs td fdt`.:

    &`c "tdlg Fiuefus.

    Z`c rcvlvie dn gdsmdpdeltiolsm td w`lg` irt`i 7ussfium, imdob dt`crs, is mijc slbolnlgiot gdotrlfutldos iesd

    rcnecgts io urbc td bd fcydoj t`c pdstmdjcro ioj muetlgueturie lmprlsdomcot lo jlnncrcogc ioj rcielzc dur gdmmdo

    `umiolty. &ut t`c pdlotcr td dur gdmmdo `umiolty fy t`c prcviecot jlsgdurscs jdcs odt sunnlglcotey cmfdjy t`c

    pilo ioj sunncrlob dn grylob umiolty is lt is fcco ioj ls fclob suf6cgtcj td i scrlcs dn vldeitldos ioj gdedolievldecogc.

    Gdsmdpdeltiolsm ioj Fcydoj% &dwirjs i uetlvcrsc d$ &rios$drmitldos

    Ioioti Humir 'lrl

    Do Is`ls !iojy#s Stdpli. I$$cgtlvc Gdsmdpdeltiolsm(rimdj H. !iyir

    :Z`us, od utdpli gio fc wlt`dut io lmpelglt dr cxpelglt t`cdry dn sunncrlob. Z`ls ls cspcglieey sd lo t`c pcrlp`crlcs dn

    t`c wdrej, cup`cmlstlgieey gieecj t`c t`lrj wdrej 3>20. 7iojy bdcs do td siy t`it :td `ivc i mciolobnue elnc lo t`c

    mlojs dn mco, sug` i utdpli must stirt wlt` t`c lssuc dn mio#mijc sunncrlob, w`lg` `is blvco t`c t`lrj wdrej fdt`lts oimc ioj uol$ucocss: 3Zrijltldos >20.

    `it ls drlbloieey 'rcch ls

    t`c gdogcpt d$ pdeltlgie $rccjdm.

    1rccjdm ls ocvcr ifdut purlty ) ct`olg dr dt`crwlsc )

    fut ifdut gdotigts, gdotimloitldos, ioj fdrjcr grdsslobs.

    Z`c lstdry dn nrccjdm ls w`it Iot`doy wimc Ippli` giees %t`c gisc ndr gdotimloitldo.* - Frccjdm ls ocvcrifdut purlty# ct`olg dr dt`crwlsc # fut ifdut gdotigts, gdotimloitldos, ioj fdrjcr grdsslobs. Ioj sd ls w`it ' wduej

    giee %nisgloitlob uonrccjdm,* w`lg` ti!cs jlnncrcot s`ipcs fut s`ircs io crds dn pdwcr ioj piriodlg iotlmdjcro dr

    pdst#pdstmdjcro ljcdedby.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    Iodt`cr 1rccjdm. &`c Ietcroitlvc lstdry d$ io +jci.

    "vcteioi Fdym

    - trylob td fc gdsmdpdeltio prcglpltitcs i ocxus dn sielcot cxpcrlcotlie tcosldos ioj gdonelgts t`it irc ocbdtlitcj

    t`rdub` t`clr gdosumptldo ioj eclsurc prigtlgcs.+det 32==A0 ceifdritcs do t`c gdsmdpdeltio gdostrugt lo ls rcndrmueitldo dn ;lcrrc &durjlcus 32=A?0 t`cdry dn

    gueturie gipltie. 'o tcrms dn t`ls sdgldedblgie nrimcwdr!, gdsmdpdeltiolsm ls t`cdrlzcj is i styec dn gdosumptldo t`it

    grcitcs ioj milotilos stitus jlstlogtldos fctwcco lb`#gueturie#gipltie gdosumcrs ioj edw#gueturie#gipltiegdosumcrs. Z`c ndrmcr brdup ls silj td pdsscss i gdsmdpdeltio `ifltus t`it ls, i ocxus dn lotcroielzcj ioj

    oiturielzcj prdgelvltlcs ioj prcjlspdsltldos tdwirj gdsmdpdeltio gdosumptldo prigtlgcs t`it rcnecgt i lstdry dn

    geiss#fiscj sdglielzitldo.&rylob td Fc Gdsmdpdeltio

    Iut`dr5s=% Grilb 2. &`dmpsdo ioj "ldh Huio &imfyi`

    (dsmdpdeltiolsm ls i gdogcptldo dn muetlgueturielsm is mixlmum nrccjdm, ndr mlodrlty is wcee is mi6drltylojlvljuies, td mlx wlt`, fdrrdw ioj eciro nrdm iee 3w`ct`cr t`cy irc dn ydur brdup dr odt0 sd lojlvljuie ljcotltlcs

    irc pcrsdoie imiebims dn flts nrdm virldus brdups ioj `crltibcs ioj t`crc ls od doc jdmloiot sdglie ljcotlty td

    w`lg` iee must gdondrm. Z`c rcsuet wlee fc i sdglcty gdmpdscj dn i fecoj dn gueturcs, i muetlgueturc.&`c "triobc !do)9cit` d$ uetlgueturielsm

    &irl? djddj

    /o t`c gdotriry, &`if`i irbucs t`it iee sdglie gdeecgtlvcs, oitldo stitcs, gueturcs dr smiee#sgiec ct`olg brdups, ircgiub`t lo i gdotloudus prdgcss dn `yfrljlty. Z`cy iee `ivc jcvcedpcj lo rceitldo td i eirbcr gdotcxt ioj t`crcndrc

    gdoslst dn cecmcots dn jlnncrcot drlblos w`lg` t`cy td virylob cxtcot `ivc lo gdmmdo. Z`c prdgcss dn `yfrljlty t`us

    mi!cs t`c ljci dn gueturcs ioj ct`olg gdeecgtlvcs is dmdbcocdus cotltlcs logdogclvifec, dr lo 4iyitrl 9plvi!s

    wdrjs, ceuslvc.&`lrj spigc cogduotcrs% yfrljlty, mlmlgry ioj lotcrstltlie prigtlgc.

    1rcjrlh 1i`eiojcr

    :cwls um$drj. Stdpli, &`c Glty ioj &`c ig`loc

    - 'o rcturo, cvcry mcmfcr dn t`c gdmmuolty wis dfelbcj td pcrndrm sigrlnlgcs

    ioj td jcvdtc it ecist pirt dn t`c ycir td eifdrlob ndr t`c glty8s bdj. &y sufstltutlob gdosgrlptldoioj gdmmuolsm ndr t`c eitcr lostltutldos dn t`c mir!ct, wibc eifdr,

    prlvitc prdpcrty, ioj mdocy, -

    Z`c rcgdboltldo t`it mdjcro sdglctlcs irc od edobcr mdodelt`lg, t`c lmibloiry sdglie spigc `is mus`rddmcj lotd i

    muetltujc dn ljcotltlcs is prdpceecj us lotd i rcielzitldo t`it wc irc lo io cri w`crc lotcrgueturielty, triosgueturielsmioj t`c cvcotuie prdspcgt dn ljcotlnylob i gdsmdpdeltio gltlzcos`lp gio fcgdmc i rcielty.

    Muetlgueturielsm dr Zriosgueturielsm1 Zdwirjs iGdsmdpdeltio Gltlzcos`lp.

    Jdoiej Guggldectti [`.J.

    gltlecss, dmcecss, jcprlvcj d$ i $it`creioj

    w`co `c wis ishcj w`crc ydu gdmc $rdm>

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

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    -. t`crc ls i Z`lrj drej scoslflelty ioj mdjc dn pcrgcptldo t`it is fcgdmc logrcislobey vlslfec lo gueturie

    jlsgussldos dvcr t`c eist jcgijc. ' myscen s`irc lo t`c gdogcros 3ioj cvco sdmc dn t`c vlcwpdlots0 dn pdstgdedolie

    lotceecgtuies, t`dub` nrdm i sdmcw`it jlnncrcot pcrspcgtlvc t`io t`dsc w`d jcsgrlfc t`cmscevcs is sug`.

    - fcgiusc t`c pdpueirlty t`it t`c tcrm pdstgdedolie `is ig`lcvcj lo t`c eist ncw ycirs `is ecss td jd wlt` lts

    rlbdrdusocss is i gdogcpt dr wlt` t`c ocw vlstis lt `is dpcocj up ndr grltlgie lo$ulry t`io lt jdcs wlt` t`c logrciscj

    vlslflelty dn igijcmlg lotceecgtuies dn Z`lrj drej drlblo is pigcscttcrs lo gueturie grltlglsm. ' wiot td subbcst t`itmdst dn t`c grltlgie t`cmcs t`it pdstgdedolie grltlglsm geilms is lts nduotilo`cij prcjitcj t`c ippciriogc, dr it ecist

    t`c pdpueir gurrcogy, dn pdstgdedolie. `ct`cr t`crc wis i pdstgdedolie gdosgldusocss 3fcndrc lt wis sd tcrmcj0 t`it

    mlb`t `ivc peiycj i pirt lo t`c prdjugtldo dn t`dsc t`cmcs ls i $ucstldo td w`lg` ' wlee rcturo fcedw. Is nir is lt ls

    pdsslfec td tcee nrdm t`c eltcriturc, `dwcvcr, lt wis doey nrdm t`c mlj#2=AJs t`it t`c eifce pdstgdedolie wis ittig`cjtd t`dsc t`cmcs wlt` logrcislob nrc$ucogy, ioj t`it lo gdo6uogtldo wlt` t`c usc dn t`c eifce td jcsgrlfc igijcmlg

    lotceecgtuies dn Z`lrj drej drlblo.

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    lt sccms 6ustlnlifec td rcjlrcgt `cr $ucstldo td t`c cmcrbcogc dn pdstgdedolie lotceecgtuies lo drjcr td put t`c `drscfig! lo nrdot dn t`c girt. Z`ls rcjlrcgtldo ls iesd lotcojcj td uojcreloc t`c Flrst drej drlblos 3ioj sltuitldo0 dn t`c

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    - tcrms t`it ivc jlsdrbiolzcj cirelcr gdogcptuielzitldos dn bedfie rceitldos, cspcglieey rceitldos gdmprc`cojcj

    cirelcr fy sug` floirlcs is gdedolzcr"gdedolzcj, Flrst drej"Z`lrj drej, ioj t`c :cst ioj t`c Kcst,: lo iee dn w`lg`t`c oitldo#stitc wis ti!co ndr briotcj is t`c bedfie uolt dn pdeltlgie drbiolzitldo. 't ls od rcnecgtldo do t`c ifleltlcs dn

    pdstgdedolie grltlgs td subbcst t`it t`cy ioj t`c grltlgie drlcotitldos t it t`cy rcprcscot `ivc ig$ulrcj i rcspcgtiflelty

    jcpcojcot do t`c gdogcptuie occjs dn t`c sdglie, pdeltlgie, ioj gueturie prdfecms t`rdwo up fy t`ls ocw wdrej

    sltuitldo.

    %'o t`c lstdrlgie gdotcxt dn prcscot Inrlgio jcvcedpmcot, wc miy odw is!, Ielcoitldo ndr w`it, ioj lo w`it

    jlrcgtldo ' wlee ioswcr t`it $ucstldo uoc$ulvdgieey< is i mittcr dn prigtlgie ocgcsslty, wc `ivc od g`dlgc fut lo t`c

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    c `ivc od g`dlgc fut lo t`c jlrcgtldo dn cstcro gueturc ioj glvlelzitldo. Ifldei

    +rcec, +o (rilsc d$ Ielcoitldo.

    '-o Drbuo do uh`crcc ioj *us`jlc lo &`rdub` &rivceecj /ycs

    Z`c odrmie rdec ndr t`c mdjcm grcitlvc wrltcr ls td fc io cxlec... 1crigloitldo `is fcgdmc iemdst i prcrc$ulsltc dn

    lotceecgtuie jlstlogtldo8 3p. 250. - 8 ioj subbcstcj t`it t`c trlpec uprddtlob nrdm `dmc, eiobuibc ioj gueturc rcsuetcjlo t`c lmmlbriots ioj t`c lmmlbriot wrltcrs `ivlob 8mdjcrolsm ndrgcj updo8 t`cm.8

    Z`c ocwey gdonljcot vdlgc dn 'ojlio wrltlob lo Cobels` slboieecj fy t`c prcstlbldus peigc t`it jlispdri wrltlobdgguplcs intcr ljolb`t8s (`lejrco fcelcs t`c vcry rcie scosc dn ocrvdusocss ifdut iut`drlty t`it ls lmpelcj fy sug`

    gdonelgtlob tcrms dn scen#pdsltldolob, ioj rcpcitcjey gdostltutcs t`c suftcxt dn t`c wdr!s stujlcj lo t`ls t`csls.

    9ug` ocrvdusocss lo, nigt, ls nrc$ucotey ijvcrtlscj is io lotcbrie pirt dn t`c stiogc dn t`c pdstgdedolie grltlg ioj

    iut`dr iel!c. Z`c lotrdjugtldo td t`ls t`csls ittcmpts td jlsguss t`c gdmpelgitldos dn pdstgdedolie scen#pdsltldolob fyI spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    edd!lob it t`c stritcblcs t`it Cjwirj 9ilj cmpedys td edgitc `ls vdlgc, ioj t`c rcigtldos t`it t`csc lovltc. 9ilj

    s`dwgiscs t`c s`lntlob brduoj `c nuogtldos do fy suftec mcios, ` lb`elb`tlob t`c jlnnlguet ocbdtlitldo t`it io cxlec ls

    dfelbcj td dej fctwcco dmcecssocss ioj wdrejelocss, oitldoielsm ioj gdsmdpdeltiolsm.'-o Drbuo do uh`crcc ioj *us`jlc lo &`rdub` &rivceecj /ycs

    Ifldei 'rcecs nimdus %'o ;rilsc dn Ielcoitldo,* ... 'o `ls vlcw, Inrlgios irc prdnduojey imflviecot lo rceitldo td

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    gueturc.

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    pdsltlvc doc. 'o dt`cr wdrjs, t c ocbitlvc ielcoitldo prdvd!cj fy gdedolielsm s`duej fc triosgcojcj odt t`rdub` ircturo td trijltldo, fut t`rdub` i tdtie gipltueitldo td Curdpcio mdjcrolty< %'o t`c `lstdrlgie gdotcxt dn prcscot

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    ;c 7itldos dn Curdpc, ' t`dub`t, w`d jd odt ncir td neddjelb`t dur dwo lomdst mcg`iolsms, irc `crc turolob t`c

    feizlob elb`ts dn dur glvlelzitldo lotd jir! cycs, csscotlieey jlnncrcot td durs. 'n ndr i edob codub` tlmc wc gdotlouc lo

    t`ls wiy td jizzec ioj feloj t`c Inrlgios, wc miy lo t`c coj frlob updo t`cm i edoblob ndr jir!ocss, w`lg` wleejrlvc t`cm lotd t`c bdrbcs dn t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mduotilos ioj t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mlojs.*

    +sih 9locsco. Dut d$ I$rlgi.

    Inrlgi ls prlmltlvc fcgiusc lt ls t`c eioj dn bcouloc fclobs, uospdlecj, drlbloie, uoijuetcritcj ioj

    gedsc td elnc. &ut t`c dt`cr ispcgt dn t`c mciolob dn prlmltlvlsm ls jcmciolob ioj scen jcncitlob< t`dsc `cej td fcbcouloc irc sd fcgiusc t`cy irc stir!ey uojcrjcvcedpcj.

    (dst)Gdedolielsm, cmdry ioj t`c *cmihlob d$ I$rlgio +jcotlty

    +jdwu leelim

    '-o Drbuo do uh`crcc ioj *us`jlc lo &`rdub` &rivceecj /ycs

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    lo t`c lmmlbriots ioj t`c lmmlbriot wrltcrs `ivlob 8mdjcrolsm ndrgcj updo8 t`cm.8

    Gdsmds% ihlob Sp drejs

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    wlt` t`c ndeedwlob< !dsmdpdeltcs.

    Kdfflos8s cxpeioitldo dn gdsmdpdeltiolsm rcsts do `ls rcvcrsldo td t`c :drlbloie: mciolob dn gdsmds,t`it ls :drjcr: dr :ijdromcot: is lo :gdsmctlgs: 3:9cgueir: 2AA0. +c t`co issdglitcs t`c gdsmds lo gdsmdpdeltiolsm

    wlt` t`c igt dn mi!lob up t`c wdrej rit`cr t`io t`c wdrej ltscen gdogclvcj is i tdtielty. Z`c mi!lob#up stritcby t`us

    loslsts do t`c virldus pirts is mug` is lt jdcs do t`c tdtielty.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    gdsmdpdeltiolsm ls, lo ljcotlty tcrms, fctwlxt ioj fctwcco

    wlt`dut fclob elmloie. 't ls s`lntlob, pirtlglpitlob lo mioy wdrejs

    wlt`dut fcgdmlob pirt dn t`cm - t`c gdsmdpdeltio ls uoiut`cotlg

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    jlnncr slbolnlgiotey. Inrlgi ls cmfcjjcj lo jccp rcelbldus jcvdtldos, nccelobs ioj scotlmcots. Z`c icst`ctlg ncrvdur

    ioj r`yt`mlg rltuie pcrndrmiogc t`it iggdmpiolcs sug` nccelobs gio fc jcsgrlfcj is scgdoj td odoc. Z`c ifdvc

    gitcbdrlzitldo prcscots odt doey io lotcrcstlob spcgtigec fut mi!cs t`c tie! dn io Inrlgio ljcotlty odt doey

    gdotrdvcrslie fut iesd, do t`c w`dec, lotcrcstlob ioj wdrt`y dn igijcmlg pursult.

    Fdr mioy Inrlgios, i vcry bddj wiy dn edd!lob it t`c ljci dn Inrlgio ljcotlty geustcrs irduoj t`c rcijlocss td

    jcncoj wleelobey Inrlgio vieucs ioj Inrlgio gueturc lo i wdrej t`it ls rccelob uojcr t`c loneucogc dn bedfielzitldo

    ioj mdjcrolzitldo.

    Z`c ifdvc tieelcs wlt` t`c loodgudus fut jiobcrdus jcsgrlptldo dn Inrlgit`it w`lg` gipturcs t`c csscogc dn

    prlmltlvlsm. /o i grltlgie odtc, prlmltlvlsm `is i pcguelir jdufec mciolob. Z`c gdogcptldo dn prlmltlvlsm lo doc

    scosc ls loodgcot< Inrlgi ls prlmltlvc fcgiusc lt ls t`c eioj dn bcouloc fclobs, uospdlecj, drlbloie, uoijuetcritcj iojgedsc td elnc. &ut t`c dt`cr ispcgt dn t`c mciolob dn prlmltlvlsm ls jcmciolob ioj scen jcncitlob< t`dsc `cej td fc

    bcouloc irc sd fcgiusc t`cy irc stir!ey uojcrjcvcedpcj, ioj iggdrjlob td ietcr Kdjocy 32=N>0, t`c

    uojcrjcvcedpmcot dn Inrlgi wis t`c dt`cr ioj ocgcssiry sljc dn wcstcro jcvcedpmcot lotd lojustrlie ioj mdjcro

    sdglcty. ;iemcrbs gdogeusldo do t`ls lssuc sduojs pdctlg ioj jcscrvcs ittcotldo< td cr, t`csc twd ittltujcs gio fcgieecj, doc t`c doc `ioj, t`c `lcrirg`lgie ioj gdojcmolob ittltujc, ioj do t`c dt`cr, t`c rdmiotlglslob ioj ljdelslob

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    (dst)Gdedolielsm, cmdry ioj t`c *cmihlob d$ I$rlgio +jcotlty+jdwu leelim

    :cwls um$drj. Stdpli, &`c Glty ioj &`c ig`loc

    - 'o rcturo, cvcry mcmfcr dn t`c gdmmuolty wis dfelbcj td pcrndrm sigrlnlgcsioj td jcvdtc it ecist pirt dn t`c ycir td eifdrlob ndr t`c glty8s bdj. &y sufstltutlob gdosgrlptldo

    ioj gdmmuolsm ndr t`c eitcr lostltutldos dn t`c mir!ct, wibc eifdr,

    prlvitc prdpcrty, ioj mdocy, -

    Muetlgueturielsm dr Zriosgueturielsm1 Zdwirjs iGdsmdpdeltio Gltlzcos`lp.

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    losurmduotifec firrlcrs ivc nuceecj io urbcogy, cspcglieey wlt`lo t`c eist nlnty ycirs dn t`c >Jt` gcotury, lo

    prdvljlob i mdjce ndr gueturie irmdolzitldo dr it t`c vcry ecist gueturie uojcrstiojlob, lo t c prdgcss dn `umio

    lotcrigtldo ndr dur ocw gcotury.uetlgueturielsm% &`c :dss d$ Gueturc

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    triosgueturielsm ioj t`c cvcotuie prdspcgt dn ljcotlnylob i gdsmdpdeltio gltlzcos`lp gio fcgdmc i rcielty.

    Muetlgueturielsm dr Zriosgueturielsm1 Zdwirjs iGdsmdpdeltio Gltlzcos`lp.

    Jdoiej Guggldectti [`.J.

    Gdsmdpdeltiolsmls t`c ljcdedby t`it iee `umio ct`olg brdups fcedob td i slobec gdmmuolty fiscj do i s`ircj

    mdrielty. (dsmdpdeltiolsm miy cotile sdmc sdrt dn wdrej bdvcromcot dr lt miy slmpey rcncr td mdrc logeuslvcmdrie, cgdodmlg, ioj"dr pdeltlgie rceitldos`lps fctwcco oitldos dr lojlvljuies dn jlnncrcot oitldos. I pcrsdo w`d

    ij`crcs td t`c ljci dn gdsmdpdeltiolsm lo ioy dn lts ndrms ls gieecj i gdsmdpdeltiodr gdsmdpdeltc.M2O

    Gdsmdpdeltiolsm. lhlpcjli.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    gedsc td elnc. &ut t`c dt`cr ispcgt dn t`c mciolob dn prlmltlvlsm ls jcmciolob ioj scen jcncitlob< t`dsc `cej td fc

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    t`ls wiy td jizzec ioj feloj t`c Inrlgios, wc miy lo t`c coj frlob updo t`cm i edoblob ndr jir!ocss, w`lg` wleejrlvc t`cm lotd t`c bdrbcs dn t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mduotilos ioj t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mlojs.*

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    wduej blvc rlsc td fcttcr eltcriturc.

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    rcbldoie ioj oitldoie ljcotlty ioj `lstdry.

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

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    wc miy lo t`c coj frlob updo t`cm i edoblob ndr jir!ocss, w`lg` wlee jrlvc t`cm lotd t`c bdrbcs

    dn t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mduotilos ioj t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mlojs.*+sih 9locsco. Dut d$ I$rlgi.

    C ;pdst)gdedolie ljcotlty ls prdpcrey gdogclvcj is prdgcss

    rit`cr t`io irrlvie,7 `lotlob it t`c odtldo t`it muetlgueturielsm ltsce$ ls do i ?ucst

    $dr sce$)iut`cotlglty, gdotlouieey g`ioblob ioj ijiptlob is sdglcty rc?ulrcs.

    1dmlolg +cij. 'o I 9cirg` ndr Iut`cotlglty< Bojcrstiojlob [ijlc 9mlt`8s `ltc Zcct`.

    Celzifct` +dweioj

    gdsmdpdeltiolsm ls, lo ljcotlty tcrms, fctwlxt ioj fctwcco

    wlt`dut fclob elmloie. 't ls s`lntlob, pirtlglpitlob lo mioy wdrejs

    wlt`dut fcgdmlob pirt dn t`cm - t`c gdsmdpdeltio ls uoiut`cotlgioj $ulotcsscotlieey mdjcro-2doit`io 1rlcjmio.

    Gueturie Ljcotlty ioj Bedfie rdgcss

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    /o Z`c (dedolie";dst#(dedolie 9uf6cgt.

    ;dstgdedolie ljcotlty lo i bedfielzlob 'ojli fy 9iobcct umir

    C ;pdst)gdedolie ljcotlty ls prdpcrey gdogclvcj is prdgcss

    rit`cr t`io irrlvie,7 `lotlob it t`c odtldo t`it muetlgueturielsm ltsce$ ls do i ?ucst

    $dr sce$)iut`cotlglty, gdotlouieey g`ioblob ioj ijiptlob is sdglcty rc?ulrcs.

    1dmlolg +cij. 'o I 9cirg` ndr Iut`cotlglty< Bojcrstiojlob [ijlc 9mlt`8s `ltc Zcct`.

    Celzifct` +dweioj

    'n ndr i edob codub` tlmc wc gdotlouc lo t`ls wiy td jizzec

    ioj feloj t`c Inrlgios, wc miy lo t`c coj frlob updo t`cm i edoblob ndr jir!ocss,

    w`lg` wlee jrlvc t`cm lotd t`c bdrbcs dn t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mduotilos ioj t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mlojs.*+sih 9locsco. Dut d$ I$rlgi.

    Gdedolie +otcrscgtldos

    ioj t`c +jcdedby d$ Gdsmdpdeltiolsmt`c gdedolielst ecbigy ioj lts lstdrlgieey s`l$tlob gdostrugtldos

    d$ t`c jcstloitldos $dr gueturieey corlg`lob trivce.

    Z`c stitus dn gdsmdpdeltiolsm is i `cbcmdolg, ljcdedblgie ispcgt dn t`c bedfie mir!ctpeigc ls lotcbrieey rceitcj td

    t`ls gdedolielst ecbigy ioj lts `lstdrlgieey s`lntlob gdostrugtldos dn t`c jcstloitldos ndr gueturieey corlg`lob trivce.Z`rdub`dut t`c scvcotccot` ioj clb`tccot` gcoturlcs, Curdpcio gueturie celtcs rcbirjcj trivce 3dntco wlt` cxpcrt

    buljcs0 td t`c sltcs dn geisslgie iotl$ultlcs ioj t`c irtlstlg ioj irg`ltcgturie ig`lcvcmcots dn t`c Kcoilssiogc is

    csscotlie td t`c prcpiritldo dn yduob mco ndr t`c rcspdoslfleltlcs dn cmplrc 3Ijecr 2=A=) Zdwocr 2=AG0. &y t`c

    oloctccot` gcotury, t`c symfdelg issdglitldos imdob trivce, scen#jcvcedpmcot, ioj t`c guetlvitldo dn wdrejelocss ijfcgdmc wcee cstifels`cj lo t c geiss gdosgldusocss dn Curdpcio celtcs.

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    Irl$ 9lrelh

    &`c ?ucstldo, t`co, ls odt w`ct`cr t`ls bedfie lotceelbcotsli gio 5dr s`duej= rcturo td

    oitldoie edyietlcs fut w`ct`cr, lo rcgdboltldo d$ lts dwo geiss)pdsltldo lo bedfie gipltielsm,

    lt gio bcocritc i t`drdub`bdlob grltlglsm d$ lts dwo ljcdedby ioj $drmueitc

    prigtlgcs d$ rcslstiogc ibilost t`c systcm d$ w`lg` lt ls i prdjugt.

    -. t`crc ls i Z`lrj drej scoslflelty ioj mdjc dn pcrgcptldo t`it is fcgdmc logrcislobey vlslfec lo gueturie

    jlsgussldos dvcr t`c eist jcgijc. ' myscen s`irc lo t`c gdogcros 3ioj cvco sdmc dn t`c vlcwpdlots0 dn pdstgdedolie

    lotceecgtuies, t`dub` nrdm i sdmcw`it jlnncrcot pcrspcgtlvc t`io t`dsc w`d jcsgrlfc t`cmscevcs is sug`.

    - t`c pdpueirlty t`it t`c tcrm pdstgdedolie `is ig`lcvcj lo t`c eist ncw ycirs `is ecss td jd wlt` lts rlbdrdusocss is

    i gdogcpt dr wlt` t`c ocw vlstis lt `is dpcocj up ndr grltlgie lo$ulry t`io lt jdcs wlt` t`c logrciscj vlslflelty dn

    igijcmlg lotceecgtuies dn Z`lrj drej drlblo is pigcscttcrs lo gueturie grltlglsm. ' wiot td subbcst t`it mdst dn t`cgrltlgie t`cmcs t`it pdstgdedolie grltlglsm geilms is lts nduotilo`cij prcjitcj t`c ippciriogc, dr it ecist t`c pdpueir

    gurrcogy, dn pdstgdedolie. `ct`cr t`crc wis i pdstgdedolie gdosgldusocss 3fcndrc lt wis sd tcrmcj0 t`it mlb`t `ivc

    peiycj i pirt lo t`c prdjugtldo dn t`dsc t`cmcs ls i $ucstldo td w`lg` ' wlee rcturo fcedw. Is nir is lt ls pdsslfec td

    tcee nrdm t`c eltcriturc, `dwcvcr, lt wis doey nrdm t`c mlj#2=AJs t`it t`c eifce pdstgdedolie wis ittig`cj td t`dsc

    t`cmcs wlt` logrcislob nrc$ucogy, ioj t`it lo gdo6uogtldo wlt` t`c usc dn t`c eifce td jcsgrlfc igijcmlg lotceecgtuiesdn Z`lrj drej drlblo.

    - blvco t`c imflbulty lmfcjjcj lo t`c tcrm pdstgdedolie, lt sccms 6ustlnlifec td rcjlrcgt `cr $ucstldo td t`c

    cmcrbcogc dn pdstgdedolie lotceecgtuies lo drjcr td put t`c `drsc fig! lo nrdot dn t`c girt. Z`ls rcjlrcgtldo ls iesdlotcojcj td uojcreloc t`c Flrst drej drlblos 3ioj sltuitldo0 dn t`c tcrm.

    - mcrcey pdlotlob td t`c isgcojiot rdec t`it lotceecgtuies dn Z`lrj drej drlblo ivc peiycj lo prdpibitlob

    pdstgdedolie is i grltlgie drlcotitldo wlt`lo Flrst drej igijcmli fcbs t`c $ucstldo is td w`y t`cy ioj t`clr

    lotceecgtuie gdogcros ioj drlcotitldos `ivc fcco iggdrjcj t`c rcspcgtiflelty t`it t`cy `ivc. Z`c t`cmcs t`it irc odwgeilmcj ndr pdstgdedolie grltlglsm, fdt` lo w`it t`cy rcpujlitc dn t`c pist ioj lo w`it t`cy innlrm ndr t`c prcscot, '

    subbcst, rcsdoitc wlt` gdogcros ioj drlcotitldos t`it `ivc t`clr drlblos lo i ocw wdrej sltuitldo t`it `is iesd fcgdmcpirt dn gdosgldusocss bedfieey dvcr t`c eist jcgijc. ' im rcncrrlob `crc td t`it wdrej sltuitldo grcitcj fy

    triosndrmitldos wlt`lo t`c gipltielst wdrej cgdodmy, fy t`c cmcrbcogc dn w`it is fcco jcsgrlfcj virldusey isbedfie gipltielsm, necxlfec prdjugtldo, eitc gipltielsm, ioj sd do, tcrms t`it ivc jlsdrbiolzcj cirelcr

    gdogcptuielzitldos dn bedfie rceitldos, cspcglieey rceitldos gdmprc`cojcj cirelcr fy sug` floirlcs is

    gdedolzcr"gdedolzcj, Flrst drej"Z`lrj drej, ioj t`c :cst ioj t`c Kcst,: lo iee dn w`lg` t`c oitldo#stitc wis ti!co

    ndr briotcj is t`c bedfie uolt dn pdeltlgie drbiolzitldo. 't ls od rcnecgtldo do t`c ifleltlcs dn pdstgdedolie grltlgs tdsubbcst t`it t`cy ioj t`c grltlgie drlcotitldos t`it t`cy rcprcscot `ivc ig$ulrcj i rcspcgtiflelty jcpcojcot do t`c

    gdogcptuie occjs dn t`c sdglie, pdeltlgie, ioj gueturie prdfecms t`rdwo up fy t`ls ocw wdrej sltuitldo.

    ;dstgdedolielty,: Ippli` wrltcs, :ls t`c gdojltldo dn w`it wc mlb`t uobcocrdusey giee i gdmprijdr lotceelbcotsli.: 't`lo! t`ls ls mlsslob t`c pdlot fcgiusc t`c wdrej sltuitldo t`it 6ustlnlcj t`c tcrm gdmprijdr od edobcr cxlsts. ' wduej

    subbcst lostcij t`it pdstgdedolielty ls t`c gdojltldo dn t`c lotceelbcotsli dn bedfie gipltielsm. Z`c $ucstldo, t`co, ls

    odt w`ct`cr t`ls bedfie lotceelbcotsli gio 3dr s`duej0 rcturo td oitldoie edyietlcs fut w`ct`cr, lo rcgdboltldo dn lts

    dwo geiss#pdsltldo lo bedfie gipltielsm, lt gio bcocritc i t`drdub`bdlob grltlglsm dn lts dwo ljcdedby ioj ndrmueitcprigtlgcs dn rcslstiogc ibilost t`c systcm dn w`lg` lt ls i prdjugt.

    &`c (dstgdedolie Iuri% &`lrj drej Grltlglsm lo t`c Ibc d$ 'edfie Gipltielsm.

    Irl$ 9lrelh

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    &`c ?ucstldo, t`co, ls odt w`ct`cr t`ls bedfie lotceelbcotsli gio 5dr s`duej= rcturo td

    oitldoie edyietlcs fut w`ct`cr, lo rcgdboltldo d$ lts dwo geiss)pdsltldo lo bedfie gipltielsm,

    lt gio bcocritc i t`drdub`bdlob grltlglsm d$ lts dwo ljcdedby ioj $drmueitc

    prigtlgcs d$ rcslstiogc ibilost t`c systcm d$ w`lg` lt ls i prdjugt.

    Do t`ls iggduot, pdstmdjcro gdosumcrs elvc is tdurlst gltl

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    ioj t`c cvcotuie prdspcgt dn ljcotlnylob i gdsmdpdeltio gltlzcos`lp gio fcgdmc i rcielty.

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    :cwls um$drj. Stdpli, &`c Glty ioj &`c ig`loc- 'o rcturo, cvcry mcmfcr dn t`c gdmmuolty wis dfelbcj td pcrndrm sigrlnlgcsioj td jcvdtc it ecist pirt dn t`c ycir td eifdrlob ndr t`c glty8s bdj. &y sufstltutlob gdosgrlptldo

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    prlvitc prdpcrty, ioj mdocy, -

    &rylob td Fc Gdsmdpdeltio

    Iut`dr5s=% Grilb 2. &`dmpsdo ioj "ldh Huio &imfyi`

    (dsmdpdeltiolsm ls dntco `criejcj is i gueturie drlcotitldo ljcieey sultcj td t`c sdgldgueturie ioj cgdodmlggdmpecxltlcs cmioitlob nrdm t`c iggcecritlob pigc dn bedfielzitldo. 'o t`ls stujy, wc ioieyzc t`c gdosumptldo

    stdrlcs dn cxpitrlitc prdncssldoies w`d irc trylob td coigt i gdsmdpdeltio ljcotlty. Fdr t`csc pirtlglpiots, trylob td fc

    gdsmdpdeltio prcglpltitcs i ocxus dn sielcot cxpcrlcotlie tcosldos ioj gdonelgts t`it irc ocbdtlitcj t`rdub` t`clr

    gdosumptldo ioj eclsurc prigtlgcs.

    &`c :iobuibc Oucstldo ioj t`c (eigc d$ /jugitldo% Gdotristlob lcws

    Z`c cbcmdolg stitus dn Curdpcio eiobuibcs ls cojdrscj fy oumcrdus Inrlgio wrltcrs, grltlgs ioj pdeltlglios w`d

    gdosljcr t`clr usc lo Inrlgio gduotrlcs, dnnlglie dr dt`crwlsc, is io locvltifec ioj ocgcssiry pit`wiy ecijlob td t`c

    mdjcrolzitldo dn t`c gdotlocot ioj lts urbcot lotcbritldo lotd t`c gdotcmpdriry"bedfielzcj wdrej. Z`crc irc iesdt`dsc w`d pdojcr do t`c occj td ig!odwecjbc t`c gueturie ioj pcrsdoie bilos dn t`c gdotigt wlt` mdjcro eiobuibcs.

    Z`ls ls t`c gisc, ndr cximpec, dn Ifldei 'rcecs nimdus %'o ;rilsc dn Ielcoitldo,* ... 'o `ls vlcw, Inrlgios irc

    prdnduojey imflviecot lo rceitldo td Curdpc, fclob slmuetiocdusey rcscotnue dn t`c ielcoitldo giuscj fy gdedolielsm

    ioj t`crcndrc wleelob td rcgdvcr i edst Inrlgio ljcotltyioj logurifey inncgtcj fy Curdpcio mdjcrolty ioj fyw`it ls usuieey gieecj %cstcro* gueturc.

    Fdr 'rcec, lt ls gruglie t`it Inrlgios dvcrgdmc t`ls imflviecogc fy rcpeiglob t`it pit`dedblgie ielcoitldo wlt` i

    pdsltlvc doc. 'o dt`cr wdrjs, t c ocbitlvc ielcoitldo prdvd!cj fy gdedolielsm s`duej fc triosgcojcj odt t`rdub` i

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    1lsgdotloulty wlt` i gdedolie pist ls lmpdsslfec, mdst sd lo t`c psyg`lg ioj inncgtlvc rciem w`crc lrdolgieey, lts

    crisurc ls iesd mdst sdub`t. 'ts rcsljucs elobcr lo t`c uogdosgldus mcmdry, w`lg` ls t`c %gdostltutlvc fcjrdg! dn

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    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

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    gitcbdrlzitldo prcscots odt doey io lotcrcstlob spcgtigec fut mi!cs t`c tie! dn io Inrlgio ljcotlty odt doey

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    jcncoj wleelobey Inrlgio vieucs ioj Inrlgio gueturc lo i wdrej t`it ls rccelob uojcr t`c loneucogc dn bedfielzitldo

    ioj mdjcrolzitldo.

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    C t`c lmmlbriot c6pcrlcogc lo t`c gdotcmpdriry wdrej, ioj lts gdosc?ucot eloh wlt` t`c jdmloiot mdjcs d$

    t`dub`t ioj wrltlob d$ t`c jiy, w`lg` *us`jlc jcsgrlfcs is mdjcrolsm

    Z`ls ls io cxtrigt nrdm 'mibloiry +dmceiojs,8 t`c irtlgec lo w`lg` Kus`jlc ceifdritcs do t`c ljci dn t`c

    uolvcrsielty ioj rcecviogc dn t`c lmmlbriot cxpcrlcogc lo t`c gdotcmpdriry wdrej, ioj lts gdosc$ucot elo! wlt` t`cjdmloiot mdjcs dn t`dub`t ioj wrltlob dn t`c jiy, w`lg Kus`jlc jcsgrlfcs is mdjcrolsm. Z`c irtlgec issumcs ig`ccrnueey uoprdfecmitlg gdotloulty fctwcco t`c lmmlbriot gdojltldo ioj lmmlbriot wrltlob) t`c gdojltldo ecijs

    jlrcgtey td t`c wrltlob, lo w`lg` lt ls issumcj, lt nlojs gdmndrtifec cxprcssldo.

    ;&`c jcslrc d$ t`c gdedol

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    lojlvljuies, td mlx wlt`, fdrrdw ioj eciro nrdm iee 3w`ct`cr t`cy irc dn ydur brdup dr odt0 sd lojlvljuie ljcotltlcs

    irc pcrsdoie imiebims dn flts nrdm virldus brdups ioj `crltibcs ioj t`crc ls od doc jdmloiot sdglie ljcotlty td

    w`lg` iee must gdondrm. Z`c rcsuet wlee fc i sdglcty gdmpdscj dn i fecoj dn gueturcs, i muetlgueturc.&`c "triobc !do)9cit` d$ uetlgueturielsm

    &irl? djddj

    Z`csc uog`ioblob rcieltlcs dn dur mdjcro wdrej, gdupecj fy t`c nigt t`it tlmc iojsigc irc od edobcr

    losurmduotifec firrlcrs ivc nuceecj io urbcogy, cspcglieey wlt`lo t`c eist nlnty ycirs dn t`c >Jt` gcotury, lo

    prdvljlob i mdjce ndr gueturie irmdolzitldo dr it t`c vcry ecist gueturie uojcrstiojlob, lo t c prdgcss dn `umio

    lotcrigtldo ndr dur ocw gcotury.uetlgueturielsm% &`c :dss d$ Gueturc

    *. (. Fco 9cjch

    Z`c rcgdboltldo t`it mdjcro sdglctlcs irc od edobcr mdodelt`lg, t`it t`c lmibloiry sdglie spigc `is mus`rddmcj

    lotd i muetltujc dn ljcotltlcs `is prdpceecj us lotd i rcielzitldo t`it wc irc lo io cri w`crc lotcrgueturielty,

    triosgueturielsm ioj t`c cvcotuie prdspcgt dn ljcotlnylob i gdsmdpdeltio gltlzcos`lp gio fcgdmc i rcielty.

    Muetlgueturielsm dr Zriosgueturielsm1 Zdwirjs iGdsmdpdeltio Gltlzcos`lp.

    Jdoiej Guggldectti [`.J.

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    9imijs cxpcrlcogc< `c ncces i gdostiot occj td fcedob, i occj td fcelcvc lo doc cxpcrlcogc, ioj i occj td up`dej i

    trijltldoie 'seimlg ljcotlty, doc t`it isscrts t`it %wc irc odt lo gdotrde.

    Z`c lmpdrtiogc dn t`c pist `crc 3lojlvljuie lo t`c scosc dn rddts, ioj gdeecgtlvc lo tcrms dn gdedolie `lstdry0 dntcoigts is i jcfleltitlob wclb`t do t`c pdsslflelty dn io cmcrbcot mdjce dn muetlgueturie ljcotlty . . . uetlgueturielsm

    cmcrbcs `crc, odt is i pioigci ndr t`c prdfecms dn Cobeiojs rceitldos lp wlt` lts dwo gdedolie pist, fut is i

    jlspeigcmcot dn t`c ecbiglcs dn gdedolielsm t`it gdotlouc td lmpigt do lojlvljuies lo t`c prcscot.

    &cotecy sccms td fc irbulob t`it t`c pist ls jctrlmcotie td t`c gurrcot s`iplob dn ljcotltlcs, -

    7dt doey jdcs lstdry prdvljc i fisls updo w`lg t`c miec g`irigtcrs must s`ipc ioj gdostrugt t clr ljcotltlcs fy

    ig!odwecjblob fdt` t`clr rddts ioj rdutcs, -. +cij `is ittcmptcj td prdvc fy stitlob t`it 9mlt` %iotlglpitcs i tlmc

    w`co lotcbritldo wlee fc sd pcrvislvc t`it rddts wdot mittcr ioymdrc fcgiusc t`cy giot fcgiusc t`cy mustotfcgiusc t`cyrc tdd edob ioj t`cyrc tdd tdrtudus ioj t`cyrc 6ust furlcj tdd jimo jccp*.

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    9i`bie imdob dt`crs, t`c mlbriot pdstgdedolie wrltcr8s vlsldo ls ietcroitcey gdotripuotie, pirtlie, odstieblg, bulety,

    g`imcecdolg, stcrcdsgdplg, sg`lzdp`rcolg, nribmcotcj, neulj, jcgdedolslob, drlcotielslob, imflviecot ioj cobibcj,

    jcncoslvc ioj strljcot, gdmpelglt yct cmioglpitdry, lotcroitldoie yct tlcj jdwo fy, is wcee is bcsturlob ieecbliogc

    tdwirjs, rcbldoie ioj oitldoie ljcotlty ioj `lstdry.

    Z`c rcgdboltldo t`it mdjcro sdglctlcs irc od edobcr mdodelt`lg, t`it t`c lmibloiry sdglie spigc `is mus`rddmcjlotd i muetltujc dn ljcotltlcs `is prdpceecj us lotd i rcielzitldo t`it wc irc lo io cri w`crc lotcrgueturielty,

    triosgueturielsm ioj t`c cvcotuie prdspcgt dn ljcotlnylob i gdsmdpdeltio gltlzcos`lp gio fcgdmc i rcielty.

    Muetlgueturielsm dr Zriosgueturielsm1 Zdwirjs iGdsmdpdeltio Gltlzcos`lp.

    Jdoiej Guggldectti [`.J.

    Z`csc uog`ioblob rcieltlcs dn dur mdjcro wdrej, gdupecj fy t`c nigt t`it tlmc iojsigc irc od edobcr

    losurmduotifec firrlcrs ivc nuceecj io urbcogy, cspcglieey wlt`lo t`c eist nlnty ycirs dn t`c >Jt` gcotury, loprdvljlob i mdjce ndr gueturie irmdolzitldo dr it t`c vcry ecist gueturie uojcrstiojlob, lo t c prdgcss dn `umio

    lotcrigtldo ndr dur ocw gcotury.

    uetlgueturielsm% &`c :dss d$ Gueturc

    *. (. Fco 9cjch

    ' `ivc fcco i swieedwcr dn elvcs) ioj td !odw mc, 6ust t`c doc dn mc,ydu8ee `ivc td swieedw t`c edt is wcee. (dosumcj muetltujcs irc 6dstelob ioj s`dvlob losljc mc.

    "ieccm. "iemio *us`jlc, ljolb`t#s G`lejrco.

    'mmlbriot wrltlob ... i 8gecir scosc dn ljcotlty8 3p. 250, cvco fcndrc doc mlb`t wls` td ti!c td tis! t`c issumptldo t`itsug` i gcrtiloty wduej lo nigt prdjugc bddj wrltlob.

    - t`it t`c p`yslgie jlstioglob nrdm t`c 8`dmc8 wduej blvc t`c cxlecj wrltcr i gecircr scosc dn lt, ioj t`ls lo turo

    wduej blvc rlsc td fcttcr eltcriturc.

    'mmlbriot wrltlob ocgcssirley strcsscs t`c gdmpecx rceitldos`lp wlt` t`c sdglcty dn irrlvie, is wcee is t`c 8`dmc8 ecnt

    fc`loj. 't sccms tcoudus, `dwcvcr, td irbuc t`it t`ls prdgcss wduej blvc rlsc td i 8gecir scosc dn ljcotlty8 3p. 250,cvco fcndrc doc mlb`t wls` td ti!c td tis! t`c issumptldo t`it sug` i gcrtiloty wduej lo nigt prdjugc bddj wrltlob.

    u!`cr6cc8s wrltlob jdcs lo nigt jwcee do t`c lssuc dn grcitlob io ietcroitlvc lmmlbriot ljcotlty. +cr g`irigtcrsstrubbec td csgipc nrdm t`c imflbudus gdojltldo dn fclob 8it t`c doc ioj t`c simc tlmc losljcrs ioj dutsljcrs lo

    Mt`clr ijdptcjO sdglcty8 td usc 9iemio Kus`jlc8s wdrjs td cxprcss t`c gdmmdo ndrmuei.

    - w`it ls mciot fy t`c ippceeitldo Inrlgio ljcotlty

    (io ljcotlty fc gdotcxtuielzcj `it gdotcxt cxpeilos Inrlgio ljcotlty `it ls rcieey Inrlgio

    lo ioy ljcotlty 's t`c wdrj Inrlgi ltscen suf6cgt td gdogcptuielzitldo

    % 'mpurlty ls t`c drjcr dn t`c jiy. - . Cig` pcrsdo ls i mdsilg.*

    'uy "girpctti, :#lmpurlt3Gueturc, uetl)gueturc dr &rios)gueturc.

    (dst)Gdedolielsm, cmdry ioj t`c *cmihlob d$ I$rlgio +jcotlty

    +jdwu leelim

    `lec cig` dn t`csc ittrlfutcs miy nloj rcecviogc lo cxpeilolob t`c ljcotlty dn pcdpec lo bcocrie, t`c pirtlgueirlty dn

    Inrlgio ljcotlty, uslob t`cdry, ls slobecj dut fy t`c nigt t`it t`c mcmdry t`it t`c Inrlgio `is dn `ls ljcotlty ls rddtcj

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    odt 6ust lo t`ls fclob, io cxlstcot pdsslflelty, fut i nigt c$uieey rddtcj lo t`c uol$uc rcnecgtlvc ioj gdosgldus

    pdsslfleltlcs t`it `c girrlcs ioj w`lg` cxpeilos `ls csscogc. 't ls t`c uo#s`iriflelty dn t`ls csscogc t it prdvljcs i

    mcios dn isscrtlob i scosc dn jlstlogtldo.

    't ls t`ls t`csls t`it ' `dpc td cxpedrc,

    is i pdsslflelty, lo uojcrploolob t`c ittcmpts it rcmi!lob ioj rcfriojlob t`c

    oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty.

    'jcotlty< io cojiobcrcj gdogcpt

    Z`rcc, dn iee lssucs gdogcrolob t`c gueturie mi!c#up dn Inrlgi, ljcotlty ls ifdut t`c mdst gdotrdvcrslie td jcnloc,

    cspcglieey lo rceitldo td t`lobs doc gio cisley pdlot td. Zd t`ls coj, i s`lnt gio fc wltocsscj nrdm ljcotlty lo t`c

    sufstiogc ioj ioitdmy dn stujlcs ioj jlsgussldos do Inrlgi, td mdrc prigtlgie ioj mctip`yslgieey ecss ifstruscgdogcpts sug` is muslg, irt, ioj glocmitdbrip`y.

    Vct, ljcotlty ls t`c tcrri nlrmi t`it jcnlocs ioj cxpeilos w`it Inrlgio muslg ls dr w`it Inrlgio irt ls.

    - w`it ls mciot fy t`c ippceeitldo Inrlgio ljcotlty

    (io ljcotlty fc gdotcxtuielzcj `it gdotcxt cxpeilos Inrlgio ljcotlty `it ls rcieey Inrlgiolo ioy ljcotlty 's t`c wdrj Inrlgi ltscen suf6cgt td gdogcptuielzitldo 'o w`it jd wc sltuitc Inrlgio ljcotlty 's

    Inrlgio ljcotlty iewiys t`c simc, g`ioblob dr fcgdmlob Zd w`dm ls t`c gdogcptuielzitldo dn Inrlgio ljcotlty

    lmpdrtiot ioj slbolnlgiot 's lt td t`c Inrlgio dr odo#Inrlgio

    &ut t`co, t`c pdst#gdedolie cri ls odt iee t`it t`crc ls lo t`ls $ucst ndr t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Iggdrjlob td

    .I. Ippli` 32==>, p. N20, i spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it

    dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgioljcotlty. Z`c trut` dn t`ls prdpdsltldo gio fc iggcptcj, ' suppdsc, doey lo t`c prcscogc dn i $uielnlcr.

    Z`ls ls lt< t`c lotceecgtuie peitndrm do w`lg` td ipprilsc Inrlgio ljcotlty lo t`c cri dn gdedolielsm ls mciolobecss ln

    t`it w`lg` prcgcjcs lt, l.c., t`c prc#gdedolie, ls 6cttlsdocj. Bondrtuoitcey, is wc s`iee sddo jcmdostritc, t`c prc#gdedolie ls iewiys pdrtriycj lo t`c eiobuibc dn myt`lgie mciolobecssocss. &ut t`co, lt stlee fc`dvcs us td gdotcoj

    t`it t`c lotceecgtuie cxtcosldo dn t`c fig!brduoj dn pdstgdedolie Inrlgio ljcotlty td t`c cri dn gdedolielsm ioj prc#

    gdedolielsm prdvljcs t`c t`rcc gdotcxts lo w`lg` t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty ls td fc cxpedrcj.

    Z`ls pipcr ilms it i mdjcst, fut rcvlscj, cximloitldo dn t`c rcecviogc ioj slbolnlgiogc dn mcmdry t`cdry lo t`c

    gdotcxtuie scirg` ioj $ucst ndr t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. 't pdslts t`it ln t`c gdogcpt dn ljcotlty ls ltscenprdfecmitlg ioj trioslcot, ioj t`c $uielnlcr Inrlgio ls g`ioblob ioj selppcry, lt cobuens t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty

    lo io cobiblob prdgcss dn rc#lovcotldo< Inrlgio ljcotlty ls od mdrc t`io i pdtcotlielty, odt io igtuielty.

    lmlgry, lo +dml &`if`i8s vcry uo#7ilpiue#el!c jcnloltldo, ls8doc dn t`c mioy ndrms dn survlvie

    lo pdst#gdedolie sltuitldos8 fut iesd i stritcbyp rdjugtlvc dn sufvcrsldoi oj lrdoy< 8lrdolg 8jdufelob8 jlsturfsi odrlbloiry csscogc dn ljcotlty fy rcturolob i jlnncrcot ioj striobc lmibc dn t`c scen, 8 t`crcfy $ucstldolob

    gdogcptldos dn ljcotlty is iut`cotlg ioj uogrcitcj.

    Z`c rcgdboltldo t`it mdjcro sdglctlcs irc od edobcr mdodelt`lg, t`it t`c lmibloiry sdglie spigc `is mus`rddmcj

    lotd i muetltujc dn ljcotltlcs `is prdpceecj us lotd i rcielzitldo t`it wc irc lo io cri w`crc lotcrgueturielty,

    triosgueturielsm ioj t`c cvcotuie prdspcgt dn ljcotlnylob i gdsmdpdeltio gltlzcos`lp gio fcgdmc i rcielty.Muetlgueturielsm dr Zriosgueturielsm1 Zdwirjs iGdsmdpdeltio Gltlzcos`lp.

    Jdoiej Guggldectti [`.J.

    Z`c prdgcss dn `yfrljlty t`us mi!cs t`c ljci dn gueturcs ioj ct`olg gdeecgtlvcs is `dmdbcocdus cotltlcslogdogclvifec, dr lo 4iyitrl 9plvi!s wdrjs, ceuslvc.

    I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    &`lrj spigc cogduotcrs% yfrljlty, mlmlgry ioj lotcrstltlie prigtlgc.

    1rcjrlh 1i`eiojcr

    /rlg Frdwodo irt`i !ussfium iojt`c stdlg lovcotldo d$ gdsmdpdeltio pdeltlgs.

    irt`i !ussfium %&cgdmlob i gltlzco dn t`c wdrej ls dntco i edocey fuslocss. 't ls, lo cnncgt, i !loj dn cxlec nrdm

    t`c gdmndrt dn edgie trut`s, nrdm t`c wirm ocstelob nccelobs dn pitrldtlsm, nrdm t`c ifsdrflob prljc lo docscen iojdocs dwo. . . . (dsmdpdeltiolsm dnncrs od sug` rcnubc) lt dnncrs doey rcisdo ioj t`c edvc dn `umiolty.*

    Zlmdt y &rcooio 32==N0 `is rcgcotey irbucj t`it t`ls giodolzitldo dn t`c gdsmdpdeltio rcprdjugcs t`c cstcro

    gdedolie lmibc dn t`c ritldoie, iutdodmdus lojlvljuie, w`dsc rcprcsscj 3ioj dpprcsscj0 dt`cr rcmilos tlcj td eioj,

    eifdr, ioj dmc. Iet`dub` dstcoslfey cojdrslob i rceitlvlstlg cmfrigc dn gueturie jlvcrslty, t`ls pdstgdedolie ndrm dngdsmdpdeltiolsm fdt` sustilos ioj mis!s t`c `lcrirg`ie pittcro dn 7drt`#9dut` pdwcr rceitldos cstifels`cj t`rdub`

    gdedolielsm.

    t`c stdlg lovcotldo d$ gdsmdpdeltio pdeltlgs

    /rlg Frdwo

    *cgcot pdst)gdedolie jlsgdurscs irc rcpectc wlt` gdotrdvcrslcs dvcr t`c oiturc d$ I$rlgio ljcotlty.

    C t`dub` ljcotlty ls io cojiobcrcj gdogcpt, t`c pirtlgueirlty d$ I$rlgio ljcotlty gio stlee fc sievibcj.

    ;dst#gdedolielsm cotiles, lo i prigtlgie wiy, scrlcs dn lotcrmlobelob jlecmmis wlt` rcspcgt td t`c $ucst ioj oiturc dn

    Inrlgio ljcotlty. Cotilecj lo pdst#gdedolie gdostrugtldo dn Inrlgio ljcotlty ls t`c odrmitlvlty dn g`iobc. Z`ls lsuojcrstiojifec slogc t`c pdst#gdedolie ls fcbdttco dn t`c gdedolie, t`us mi!lob i grltlgie iggduot dn t`c odtldo dn

    g`iobc i ocgcssiry nciturc dn pdst#gdedolie gdostrugtldo dn ljcotlty. Cojdrslob g`iobc ioj lts locvltiflelty ls t`us

    doc dn t`c scvcrie g`ieecobcs dn ljcotlty lo pdst#gdedolie jlsgdurscs do ljcotlty.

    /oc dn t`c prdfecms dn pdst#gdedolie gdonlburitldo dn ljcotlty ls td issumc t`c jcijocss dn t`c cirelcr w`lec

    gcecfritlob t`c flrt` dn t`c odw. ;dst#gdedolielsm ls trcog`iotey io cobibcmcot dr cxcrglsc lo cxtcosldo. Is 9lmdo

    4l!iojl 32==@, p. 2G0 puts lt, pdst#gdedolielsm ls doc wiy dn rcgdbolzlob `dw jcgdedolscj sltuitldos irc mir!cj fy

    t`c trigc dn t`c lmpcrlie pists t`cy try td jlsivdw . . . i gdjc ndr t`c stitc dn uojcgljiflelty lo w`lg` t`c gueturc dngdedolielsm gdotloucs td rcsdoitc lo w`it wis suppdscj td fc lts ocbitldo.

    ;dst#gdedolie Inrlgi, tdjiy, ls gdonrdotcj wlt` i jlnnlguet fut vcry lmpdrtiot $ucst< w`it lrcju giees pdst#gdedolie

    sdue#scirg`lob 3>JJ?, p. 20 dr w`it &iiz giees t`c prcdggupitldo wlt`, ioj prcjlecgtldo ndr, %trijltldo* ioj

    %iut`cotlglty* 3>JJ2, p. G0. Z`ls scirg` ls sltuitcj wlt`lo t`c gdotcxt dn t`c jlnnlguety lo gdogcptuielzlob w`it lsigtuieey mciot w`co t`c wdrj Inrlgio ls mcotldocj, cspcglieey lo rceitldo td gueturie lssucs sug` is ljcotlty, muslg,

    rcelbldo, irts, mdrielty, ioj glocmitdbrip`y. Fdr cximpec, w`it mi!cs i nlem dr muslg io Inrlgio nlem dr muslg

    lt`lo t`ls purvlcw, lt ls t`co pdsslfec td is!, w`it ls mciot fy t`c ippceeitldo Inrlgio ljcotlty (io ljcotlty fcgdotcxtuielzcj `it gdotcxt cxpeilos Inrlgio ljcotlty `it ls rcieey Inrlgio lo ioy ljcotlty 's t`c wdrj Inrlgi

    ltscen suf6cgt td gdogcptuielzitldo 'o w`it jd wc sltuitc Inrlgio ljcotlty 's Inrlgio ljcotlty iewiys t`c simc,

    g`ioblob dr fcgdmlob Zd w`dm ls t`c gdogcptuielzitldo dn Inrlgio ljcotlty lmpdrtiot ioj slbolnlgiot 's lt td t`c

    Inrlgio dr odo#Inrlgio &ut t`co, w`y wduej i gdogcptuielzitldo dn t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty fc lmpdrtiot tdt`c Inrlgio `lmscen dr td t`dsc w`d irc odt `it ls t`c sdurgc dn t`c lmpdrtiogc ioj t`c $ucst ndr Inrlgio ljcotlty

    Z`csc $ucstldos ioj mioy mdrc prdvljc t`c p`ledsdp`lgie, gueturie ioj lotceecgtuie sltuitldos irduoj w`lg` t`c

    $ucst ndr Inrlgio ljcotlty lo t`c pdst#gdedolie cri must fc uojcrstddj. &ut t`co, t`c pdst#gdedolie cri ls odt iee t`itt`crc ls lo t`ls $ucst ndr t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty.

    Iggdrjlob td .I. Ippli` 32==>, p. N20, i spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc,

    mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn

    Inrlgio ljcotlty. Z`c trut` dn t`ls prdpdsltldo gio fc iggcptcj, ' suppdsc, doey lo t`c prcscogc dn i $uielnlcr.Z`ls ls lt< t`c lotceecgtuie peitndrm do w`lg` td ipprilsc Inrlgio ljcotlty lo t`c cri dn gdedolielsm ls mciolobecss ln

    t`it w`lg` prcgcjcs lt, l.c., t`c prc#gdedolie, ls 6cttlsdocj. Bondrtuoitcey, is wc s`iee sddo jcmdostritc, t`c prc#I spcglnlgieey Inrlgio ljcotlty fcbio is t`c prdjugt dn i Curdpcio bizc, mciolob t`it dutsljc t`c nrimc dn cstcro Curdpcio gdedolzitldo dn

    Inrlgi, lt ls lmpdsslfec td irrlvc it t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty. Hwimc Iot`doy Ippli`

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    gdedolie ls iewiys pdrtriycj lo t`c eiobuibc dn myt`lgie mciolobecssocss. &ut t`co, lt stlee fc`dvcs us td gdotcoj

    t`it t`c lotceecgtuie cxtcosldo dn t`c fig!brduoj dn pdstgdedolie Inrlgio ljcotlty td t`c cri dn gdedolielsm ioj prc#

    gdedolielsm prdvljcs t`c t`rcc gdotcxts lo w`lg` t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty ls td fc cxpedrcj.

    Inrlgio ljcotlty. 't pdslts t`it ln t`c gdogcpt dn ljcotlty ls ltscen prdfecmitlg ioj trioslcot, ioj t`c $uielnlcr Inrlgio ls

    g`ioblob ioj selppcry, lt cobuens t`c oiturc dn Inrlgio ljcotlty lo io cobiblob prdgcss dn rc#lovcotldo< Inrlgio

    ljcotlty ls od mdrc t`io i pdtcotlielty, odt io igtuielty.

    Is ' `dpc t`ls jlsgussldo wlee s`dw, jcspltc `ls geilms, Ig cfc ls stlee vcry mug` lmprlsdocj lo t`c grdssrdijs dn

    twd gueturcs, odt sd mug` is i vlgtlm dn t`c gdedolie ioj pdst#gdedolie prcjlgimcot, fut is i rcprcscotitlvc dn w`itwimc Ippli` `is gieecj i %gdmprijdr lotceelbcotsli,* t`it ls, %i rceitlvcey smiee, cstcro#styec, cstcro#

    trilocj brdup dn wrltcrs ioj t`lo!crs, w`d mcjlitc t`c trijc lo gueturie gdmmdjltlcs dn wdrej gipltielsm it t`c

    pcrlp`cry*< %lo t`c cst t`cy irc !odwo t rdub` t`c Inrlgi t`cy dnncr, t`clr gdmpitrldts !odw t`cm fdt` t`rdub`

    t`c cst t`cy prcscot td Inrlgi ioj t`rdub` io Inrlgi t`cy `ivc lovcotcj ndr t`c wdrej, ndr cig` dt`cr, ioj ndrInrlgi*.

    ;&`c &riumi d$ i 9lmlols`cj /6lstcogc7% G`loui Ig`cfc *cvlsltcj

    Iobcei :imis *djrlbucs

    C ;pdst)gdedolie ljcotlty ls prdpcrey gdogclvcj is prdgcss

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    $dr sce$)iut`cotlglty, gdotlouieey g`ioblob ioj ijiptlob is sdglcty rc?ulrcs. 9dmlolg cij

    'n ndr i edob codub` tlmc wc gdotlouc lo t`ls wiy td jizzecioj feloj t`c Inrlgios, wc miy lo t`c coj frlob updo t`cm i edoblob ndr jir!ocss,

    w`lg` wlee jrlvc t`cm lotd t`c bdrbcs dn t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mduotilos ioj t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mlojs.*

    +sih 9locsco. Dut d$ I$rlgi.

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    ;&`c &riumi d$ i 9lmlols`cj /6lstcogc7% G`loui Ig`cfc *cvlsltcj

    Iobcei :imis *djrlbucs

    '-o Drbuo do uh`crcc ioj *us`jlc lo &`rdub` &rivceecj /ycs

    Z`c odrmie rdec ndr t`c mdjcm grcitlvc wrltcr ls td fc io cxlec... 1crigloitldo `is fcgdmc iemdst i prcrc$ulsltc dn

    lotceecgtuie jlstlogtldo8 3p. 250. - 8 ioj subbcstcj t`it t`c trlpec uprddtlob nrdm `dmc, eiobuibc ioj gueturc rcsuetcj

    lo t`c lmmlbriots ioj t`c lmmlbriot wrltcrs `ivlob 8mdjcrolsm ndrgcj updo8 t`cm.8

    Z`c ocwey gdonljcot vdlgc dn 'ojlio wrltlob lo Cobels` slboieecj fy t`c prcstlbldus peigc t`it jlispdri wrltlobdgguplcs intcr ljolb`t8s (`lejrco fcelcs t`c vcry rcie scosc dn ocrvdusocss ifdut iut`drlty t`it ls lmpelcj fy sug`

    gdonelgtlob tcrms dn scen#pdsltldolob, ioj rcpcitcjey gdostltutcs t`c suftcxt dn t`c wdr!s stujlcj lo t`ls t`csls.9ug` ocrvdusocss lo, nigt, ls nrc$ucotey ijvcrtlscj is io lotcbrie pirt dn t`c stiogc dn t`c pdstgdedolie grltlg ioj

    iut`dr iel!c. Z`c lotrdjugtldo td t`ls t`csls ittcmpts td jlsguss t`c gdmpelgitldos dn pdstgdedolie scen#pdsltldolob fy

    edd!lob it t`c stritcblcs t`it Cjwirj 9ilj cmpedys td edgitc `ls vdlgc, ioj t`c rcigtldos t`it t`csc lovltc. 9ilj

    s`dwgiscs t`c s`lntlob brduoj `c nuogtldos do fy suftec mcios, ` lb`elb`tlob t`c jlnnlguet ocbdtlitldo t`it io cxlec lsdfelbcj td dej fctwcco dmcecssocss ioj wdrejelocss, oitldoielsm ioj gdsmdpdeltiolsm.

    '-o Drbuo do uh`crcc ioj *us`jlc lo &`rdub` &rivceecj /ycs

    1lsgdotloulty wlt` i gdedolie pist ls lmpdsslfec, mdst sd lo t`c psyg`lg ioj inncgtlvc rciem w`crc lrdolgieey, lts

    crisurc ls iesd mdst sdub`t. 'ts rcsljucs elobcr lo t`c uogdosgldus mcmdry, w`lg` ls t`c %gdostltutlvc fcjrdg! dngdosgldus cxlstcogc* 3=0. 't lonecgts t`c cvcryjiy muojioc cxlstcogc wlt`dut ocgcssirley frloblob ittcotldo td ltscen.'t grcitcs io locxpelgifec edoblob, i %puzzelob glrgueitldo dn jcslrc irduoj t`c triumitlg sgcoc dn dpprcssldo* 3220.

    Do &`c GdedolieE(dst)Gdedolie "ufcgt.

    (dstgdedolie ljcotlty lo i bedfiel

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdpdeltiolsitldo s`duej odt jcgclvc ioydoc lotd fcelcvlob wc irc iee bdlob td fcgdmc gdsmdpdeltios. Serlg`Fcgh

    vdeumc dn cssiys 3p. 2250. Ll!c irxlsm, psyg`dioieysls girrlcs wlt` lt i uolvcrsielst ljcdedby, io uojcreylob fcelcn

    t`it sdmc`dw, sdmc wiy, wc irc iee t`c simc. +dwcvcr, lo fdt` systcms dn t`dub`t, t`it uojcreylob slmleirlty ls gut

    fy brijitldos dn jlnncrcogc lcrirg`lcs dn jcvcedpmcot, cvdeutldo, prdbrcsst`it irc locxtrlgifec

    nrdm t`c gdotcxt dn Curdpcio gdedolie jdmloitldo dn mug` dn t`c bedfc lo t`c nlrst `ien dn t`c gcotury ioj t`cecbiglcs dn t`it jdmloitldo lo t`c scgdoj `ien.

    - twd lotcrtwlocj bdies< t`c nlrst ls td leeustritc t`it lo `lstdrlgie tcrms %t`c gitcbdrlzitldo dn `umio sdglctlcs

    uojcr gdedolielsm ioj t`c ndrmitldo dn t`c mdjcro psyg`dioieytlg suf6cgt irc loscpirifec* 3p. ?0. 9cgdojey, t`cvdeumc ilms td uogdvcr t`c cxtcot td w`lg` t`c gdedolielst jlsgdurscs do psyg`dioieytlg suf6cgtlvlty %`ivc

    loneucogcj triosgueturie lotcrigtldos wcee lotd t`c cri dn bedfielzitldo* 3p. G0. 9cvcrie cssiys lo t`ls vdeumc

    t`crcndrc scc! td %rcgdvcr i spcglnlg pdeltlgie pdtcotlie lo psyg`dioieytlg lotcrprctitldo dn triumi ioj sdvcrclboty,*

    lo t`c pdstgdedolie cri 3p. 50.

    Inrlgi ls prlmltlvc fcgiusc lt ls t`c eioj dn bcouloc fclobs, uospdlecj, drlbloie, uoijuetcritcj ioj

    gedsc td elnc. &ut t`c dt`cr ispcgt dn t`c mciolob dn prlmltlvlsm ls jcmciolob ioj scen jcncitlob< t`dsc `cej td fc

    bcouloc irc sd fcgiusc t`cy irc stir!ey uojcrjcvcedpcj.(dst)Gdedolielsm, cmdry ioj t`c *cmihlob d$ I$rlgio +jcotlty

    +jdwu leelim

    ;c 7itldos dn Curdpc, ' t`dub`t, w`d jd odt ncir td neddjelb`t dur dwo lomdst mcg`iolsms, irc `crc turolob t`c

    feizlob elb`ts dn dur glvlelzitldo lotd jir! cycs, csscotlieey jlnncrcot td durs. 'n ndr i edob codub` tlmc wc gdotlouc lo

    t`ls wiy td jizzec ioj feloj t`c Inrlgios, wc miy lo t`c coj frlob updo t`cm i edoblob ndr jir!ocss, w`lg` wlee

    jrlvc t`cm lotd t`c bdrbcs dn t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mduotilos ioj t`clr dwo, uo!odwo mlojs.*

    +sih 9locsco. Dut d$ I$rlgi.

    %Ioj t`c mloj t`it `is gdogclvcj i peio dn elvlob must ocvcr

    edsc slb`t dn t`c g`ids ibilost w`lg` t`it pittcro wis gdogclvcj.

    Z`it bdcs ndr sdglctlcs is wcee is ndr lojlvljuies.*+ovlslfec io. *iep` /eelsdo.

    1lsgdotloulty wlt` i gdedolie pist ls lmpdsslfec, mdst sd lo t`c psyg`lg ioj inncgtlvc rciem w`crc lrdolgieey, ltscrisurc ls iesd mdst sdub`t. 'ts rcsljucs elobcr lo t`c uogdosgldus mcmdry, w`lg` ls t`c %gdostltutlvc fcjrdg! dn

    gdosgldus cxlstcogc* 3=0. 't lonecgts t`c cvcryjiy muojioc cxlstcogc wlt`dut ocgcssirley frloblob ittcotldo td ltscen.

    't grcitcs io locxpelgifec edoblob, i %puzzelob glrgueitldo dn jcslrc irduoj t`c triumitlg sgcoc dn dpprcssldo* 3220.Do &`c GdedolieE(dst)Gdedolie "ufcgt.

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    Z`c nuojimcotie nigt t`it t`c cxpcrlcotlie spigc dn t`c lojlvljuie od edobcr gdlogljcs wlt` oitldoie spigc, fut ls fclob suftey ietcrcj fy t`c

    dpcolob td gdsmdp