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    REQUIREMENT OF STRESS MANAGEMENT IN

    TODAYS COMPETITIVE WORLD

    A Project Submitted To

    THE UNIVERSITY OF MUMBAI

    For The degree of

    BACHELOR OF MANAGEMENT STUDIES

    In the partial fulfillment of requirements of the

    course.

    BY

    KEDAR SANJEEV TATKE

    UNDER THE SUPERVISION OF

    VAIBHAVI OAK

    DEPARTMENT OF BMS

    D.G.RUPAREL COLLEGE

    MUMBAI-16

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    STATEMENT BY THE CANDIDATE

    I, KEDAR SANJEEV TATKE, wish to state that the work

    embodied in this project entitled REQUIREMENT OF

    STRESS MANAGEMENT IN TODAYS COMPETITIVE

    WORLD is carried out under the supervision of

    Vaibhavi Oak , Department of B.M.S., D. G. Ruparel

    College,Mumbai. This work has not been submitted for

    any other degree of this or any other universities.

    _____________________

    KEDAR SANJEEV TATKE

    ______________

    VAIBHAVI OAK

    ____________________

    (Dr. Prakash Salvi)

    B.M.S. Co-ordinator

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    ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

    I Mr. KEDAR SANJEEV TATKE, would firstly like to thanksThe University of Mumbai on behalf of all students, as they

    allowed us to make projects which gave us information on variousfield of management. It was because of their beliefs in us that westudent can make this project & hence today we know about theactual practice of management in various department of differentcompanies.

    I would to thank and express my gratitude towards ourcollege D.G. Ruparel College of Arts, Science &Commerce. It was because of the able guidance of the teachingand non-teaching staff that we student were able to show ourproject the bright light of day. Our guides helped us immensely to

    complete our project. I would to give sincere thanks to my guideprofessor who helped in all difficult situations. I would even like tothank to the librarian and the library staff. As even they helpedme a lot in finding the book related to my topic.

    I would even like to express my gratitude towards andsincerely thanks to our co-ordinator Mr. Salvi and professorsMrs. Vaibhavi OakThey had helped me a lot in making theproject success. Without their guidance I would not be able tocomplete this project. It was because of his faith in me I was ableto complete this project on time. They encouraged me in doingthe project on REQUIREMENT OF STRESS MANAGEMENT INTODAYS COMPETITIVE WORLD. I would even like to thank thecollege as they helped me in lending some book from library tocomplete this project. It was because of their help that I was ableto get theory of REQUIREMENT OF STRESS MANAGEMENT INTODAYS COMPETITIVE WORLD.

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    Table of Contents.

    Serial

    No.

    Contents Page

    No.

    1. Executive Summary 5

    2. Introduction 6

    3. Symptoms of stress 8

    4. Effects of Stress 16

    5. Causes of stress 17

    6. Stress at Work 21

    7. Stress Management- The need of the hour 26

    8. Stress relief pointers 31

    9. Recipes to cope up with stress 33

    10. Case Study 88

    11. Conclusion 91

    12. Bibliography 92

    EXECUTIVE SUMMARYEXECUTIVE SUMMARY

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    STRESS is one of the reasons for creating problems in lives of many people and

    so management of stress is very essential. Here ways are mention to recognize

    stress and various ways to deal with it. Stress i.e. physical as well as mental stress,

    is the cause of many diseases and disturbances. The project is about various ways

    to manage physical and mental stress and have a healthy mind and healthy body.

    Stress is a condition that every body goes through but too much of it is bad as it is

    harmful for the mind and body. So one should necessarily know as to how manage

    stress efficiently. I my self have experienced some symptoms stress which I had

    realized later so it took much effort for me to manage those stressful situations

    According to the causes which were identified, it was understood that the most

    common cause for stress involve work, money matters and problematic

    relationships with partners, children or other family members. Stress may be

    caused either by major upheavals and life events such as divorce, unemployment,

    moving house and bereavement, or by a series of minor irritations such as feeling

    undervalued at work or dealing with difficult children. Stress management is a

    wide concept and can work only if the individual is willing to accept the change

    and takes the initiative to do so.

    Stress managementis the need of the hour. However hard we try to go beyond a

    stress situation, life seems to find new ways of stressing us out and plaguing us

    with anxiety attacks. Moreover, be it our anxiety, mind-body exhaustion or our

    erring attitudes, we tend to overlookcauses of stress and the conditions triggered

    by those. In such unsettling moments we often forget that stressors, if not

    escapable, are fairly manageable and treatable.

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    SSTRESSTRESS MMANAGEMENTANAGEMENT

    INTRODUCTIONINTRODUCTION

    What do you think is Stress? Well Stress is a state of mental or emotional or

    physical strain or suspense Stress is the "wear and tear" our bodies experience as

    we adjust to our continually changing environment; it has physical and emotional

    effects on us and can create positive or negative feelings. As a positive influence,

    stress can help compel us to action; it can result in a new awareness and an

    exciting new perspective. As a negative influence, it can result in feelings of

    distrust, rejection, anger, and depression, which in turn can lead to health problems

    such as headaches, upset stomach, rashes, insomnia, ulcers, high blood pressure,

    heart disease, and stroke. With the death of a loved one, the birth of a child, a job

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    promotion, or a new relationship, we experience stress as we readjust our lives. In

    so adjusting to different circumstances, stress will help or hinder us depending on

    how we react to a situation

    Here a question arises whether stress is good or bad? While a certain level

    of stress is necessary to avoid boredom, high levels of stress over a sustained

    period can damage your health. The sections below show common symptoms of

    stress, and the negative effects that excessive stress can cause. While the

    symptoms in isolation may or may not show stress, where several occur it is likely

    that stress is having an effect. Note that as the stress your under increases, your

    ability to recognise it will often decrease.

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    RECOGNISING A STRESSORRECOGNISING A STRESSOR

    Before managing stress, it is important to recognize whether you are under

    stress or out of it. Many times, even if we are under the influence of a stressful

    condition and our body reacts to it internally as well as externally, we fail to

    realize that we are reacting under stress. This also happens when the causes of

    stress are there long enough for us to get habituated to them. The body constantly

    tries to tell us through symptoms such as rapid palpitation, dizzy spells, tight

    muscles or various body aches that something is wrong. It is important to remain

    attentive to such symptoms and to learn to cope with the situations. We cope better

    with stressful situation, when we encounter them voluntarily. In cases of

    relocation, promotion or layoff, adventurous sports or having a baby, we tend torespond positively under stress. But, when we are compelled into such situations

    against our will or knowledge, more often than not, we wilt at the face of unknown

    and imagined threats. For instance, stress may mount when one is coerced into

    undertaking some work against one's will.

    The symptoms are organized into the following sections:

    Short Term Physical Symptoms

    Short Term Performance Effects

    Long Term Physical Symptoms

    Internal Symptoms

    Behavioral Symptoms

    Short Term Physical Symptoms

    These mainly occur as your body adapts to perceived physical threat, and are

    caused by release of adrenaline. Although you may perceive these as unpleasant

    and negative, they are signs that your body is ready for the explosive action that

    assists survival or high performance:

    Faster heart beat

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    Increased sweating

    Cold skin

    Cold hands and feet

    Feelings of nausea, or 'Butterflies in stomach'

    Rapid Breathing

    Tense Muscles

    Dry Mouth

    A desire to urinate

    Diarrhea

    These are the symptoms to survive from stress.

    Short Term Performance Effects

    While adrenaline helps you survive in a 'fight-or-flight' situation, it does have

    negative effects in situations where this is not the case:

    It interferes with clear judgment and makes it difficult to take the time to

    make good decisions.

    It can seriously reduce your enjoyment of your work

    Where you need good physical skills it gets in the way of fine motor

    control.

    It causes difficult situations to be seen as a threat, not a challenge.

    It damages the positive frame of mind you need for high quality work by:

    o promoting negative thinking,

    o damaging self-confidence,

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    o narrowing attention,

    o disrupting focus and concentration and

    o making it difficult to cope with distractions

    It consumes mental energy in distraction, anxiety, frustration and temper.

    This is energy that should be devoted to the work in hand.

    Long Term Physical Symptoms

    These occur where your body has been exposed to adrenaline over a long period.

    One of the ways adrenaline prepares you for action is by diverting resources to the

    muscles from the areas of the body which carry out body maintenance. This means

    that if you are exposed to adrenaline for a sustained period, then your health may

    start to deteriorate. This may show up in the following ways:

    change in appetite

    frequent colds

    illnesses such as:

    o asthma

    o back pain

    o

    digestive problemso headaches

    o skin eruptions

    sexual disorders

    aches and pains

    feelings of intense and long-term tiredness

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    Internal Symptoms of Long Term Stress

    When you are under stress or have been tired for a long period of time you may

    find that you are less able to think clearly and rationally about problems. This can

    lead to the following internal emotional 'upsets':

    Worry or anxiety

    Confusion, and an inability to concentrate or make decisions

    Feeling ill

    Feeling out of control or overwhelmed by events

    Mood changes:

    o Depression

    o Frustration

    o Hostility

    o Helplessness

    o Impatience & irritability

    o Restlessness

    Being more lethargic

    Difficulty sleeping

    Drinking more alcohol and smoking more

    Changing eating habits

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    Reduced sex drive

    Relying more on medication

    Behavioral Symptoms of Long Term Stress

    When you or other people are under pressure, this can show as:

    Talking too fast or too loud

    Yawning

    Fiddling and twitching, nail biting, grinding teeth, drumming fingers,

    pacing, etc.

    Bad moods:

    o Being irritable

    o Defensiveness

    o Being critical

    o Aggression

    o Irrationality

    o Overreaction and reacting emotionally

    Reduced personal effectiveness:

    o Being unreasonably negativeo Making less realistic judgments

    o Being unable to concentrate and having difficulty making decisions

    o Being more forgetful

    o Making more mistakes

    o Being more accident prone

    Changing work habits

    Increased absenteeism

    Neglect of personal appearance

    These symptoms of stress should not be taken in isolation - other factors could

    cause them. However if you find yourself exhibiting or recognizing a number of

    them, then it would be worth investigating stress management techniques.

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    Symptoms of stress which causes various physiological and psychological

    changes

    When you are stressed, your body produces more of the so-called 'fight or flight''fight or flight'

    chemicalschemicals, which prepare your body for an emergency. Adrenaline andAdrenaline and

    noradrenalin raise your blood pressure,noradrenalin raise your blood pressure, increase the rate at which your heart beats

    and increase the rate at which you perspire. They can also reduce blood flow to

    your skin and reduce your stomach activity. It releases fat and sugar into yourreleases fat and sugar into your

    systemsystem (but also reduces the efficiency of your immune system). All of these

    changes make it easier for you to fight or run away, which was extremely usefulto

    the human race in past times. Unfortunately these changes are less helpful if you

    are stuck in a busy office or on an overcrowded train. You cannot fight or run

    away, and so cannot use the chemicals your own body has produced to protect

    you. Over time these chemicals and the changes they produce can damage your

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    physical and mental health. For example, you may start to experience headaches,headaches,

    nausea and indigestionnausea and indigestion. You may breathe more quickly, perspire more, have

    palpitations or suffer from various aches and pains such as:

    Chest pains,

    Constant tiredness,

    Constipation or diarrhea,

    Cramps or muscle spasms,

    Craving for food,

    Dizziness,

    Fainting spells,

    Lack of appetite,

    Nail biting,

    Feeling sick,

    Frequent crying,

    Nervous twitches or muscle spasms,

    Pins and needles,

    Restlessness,

    Sleeping problems, and

    A tendency to sweat.

    Longer term you may be putting yourself at risk from high blood pressure, heart

    attacks, strokes, impotence.

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    Emotional changes

    When you are stressed you may experience many different feelings, including

    anxiety, fear, anger, frustration and depression. These feelings can themselves

    produce physical symptoms, making you feel even worse. Extreme anxiety can

    cause giddiness, heart palpitations, headaches or stomach disorders. Many of these

    symptoms may make you feel so unwell that you then worry that you have some

    serious physical conditions such as heart disease orcancer, making you even more

    stressed.

    Behavioural changes

    When you are stressed you may behave differently. For example, you may become

    withdrawn, indecisive or inflexible. You may not be able to sleep properly. You

    may be irritable or tearful all the time. There may be a change in your sexual

    habits, and even if you were previously mild-mannered you may suddenly become

    verbally or physically aggressive.

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    CAUSES OF STRESSCAUSES OF STRESS

    Threat

    A perceived threat will lead a person to feel stressed. This can include physical

    threats, social threats, financial threat, and so on. In particular it will be worse

    when the person feels they have no response that can reduce the threat, as this

    affects the need for a sense ofcontrol. Generally speaking, any threat to needs is

    likely to lead to stress being experienced.

    Fear

    Threat can lead to fear, which again leads to stress. Fear leads to imagine

    outcomes, which are the real source of stress.

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    Uncertainty

    When we are not certain, we are unable topredict, and hence feel we are not incontrol, and hence may feel fear or feel threatened by that which is causing the

    uncertainty.

    Cognitive dissonance

    When there is a gap between what we do and what we think, then we

    experience cognitive dissonance, which is felt as stress. Thus, if I think I am a nice

    person then do something that hurts someone else, I will experience dissonanceand stress. Dissonance also occurs when we cannot meet our commitments. We

    believe we are honest and committed, but when circumstances prevent us from

    meeting our promises we are faced with the possibility of being perceived as

    dishonest or incapable (i.e. a social threat).

    Life causes

    There are many causes of stress in life including:

    Death: of spouse, family, friend

    Health: injury, illness, pregnancy

    Crime: Sexual molestation, mugging, burglary, pick-pocketed

    Self-abuse: drug abuse, alcoholism, self-harm

    Family change: separation, divorce, new baby, marriage

    Sexual problems: getting partner, with partner

    Argument: with spouse, family, friends, co-workers, boss

    Physical changes: lack of sleep, new work hours

    New location: vacation, moving house

    Money: lack of it, owing it, investing it

    Environment change: in school, job, house, town, jail

    Responsibility increase: new dependent, new job

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    Stress at work

    Six key stress factors:

    1. The demands of the job2. The control staff have over how they do their work

    3. The support they receive from colleagues and

    superiors

    4. Their relationships with colleagues

    5. Whether they understand their roles and

    responsibilities

    6. How far the company consults staff over workplace

    changes.

    Other stress indicators include:

    Sickness absence

    High staff turnover

    Poor communication between teams

    Bullying

    Lack of feedback on performance

    Value and contribution

    Technological change

    Lack of clarity of roles and responsibilities

    Dissatisfaction with non-monetary benefits

    Working long hours

    Boring and mundane work

    One-off incidents

    Uncomfortable workplace

    Lack of training

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    Some More Causes of Stress

    Long-term (chronic) stress is the type of stress that causes the most serious

    problems. It is caused by a host of irritating hassles over a period of time, or an

    ongoing, difficult situation. Conditions that may lead to chronic stress include:

    Health problems, if you have a chronic illness such as heart disease,

    diabetes orarthritis.

    Emotional problems, such as unexpressed or uncontrolled anger,

    depression, grief, guilt, or low self-esteem.

    Relationship problems, if you do not have someone to share your feelings

    with, are having difficulty in a relationship, or feel that you have few friends.

    Your surroundings, if you live in a dangerous or uncomfortable area where

    overcrowding, crime, pollution, or noise is a problem.

    Your job, if you are unhappy with your work, or your work is dangerous or

    too demanding. For more information, see the topic Managing Job Stress.

    Your social situation, such as poverty, loneliness, or discrimination based

    on race, gender, age, or sexual orientation.

    Life cycle transitions and developmental stages, such as becoming a

    teenager, leaving home, or getting married.

    Conflicts with your belief systemyour perceptions and beliefs about the

    world, life, and yourself. For instance, if you place a high value on family life but

    don't have the family life you want, you may feel stress.

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    Work-related stress is a major cause of occupational ill health. That means

    sickness absence, high staff turnover and poor performance in your organisation.

    A rise in staff sickness

    Exposure to prolonged periods of stress can contribute to a wide variety of

    ailments, from ulcers and infections to depression and heart disease and stress is

    the second biggest reason for sick leave in the UK.

    An increase in 'absenteeism'

    Every day in the UK around 270,000 people take time off because of 'work-related

    illness'. If staff are disillusioned with their work because of rising pressures or a

    perceived lack of support, their low morale and de-motivation may well show up

    as an increase in absenteeism - especially frequent short spells of 'sickness'.

    Decreasing levels of performance and morale

    Frequent lateness and a reduction in the quality and/or output of work can all be

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    signs that stress is undermining someone's morale. If a once-efficient member of

    staff constantly makes minor mistakes, it could be that the strain is beginning to

    tell. Also look out for deteriorating relationships with colleagues, mood swings,

    irritability or indecisiveness. All are signs that someone may be buckling under the

    pressure.

    Disorganisation is on the increase

    If your staff are no longer clearing away as they go along or keeping on top of

    their workloads, it could well be a sign that they feel under too much pressure.

    And, of course, a disordered workplace will only increase feelings of stress and

    low morale.

    All work and no play

    Sometimes, as a reaction to rising stress, workers start to spend consistently longer

    and longer hours on the job. It could also be a sign that someone is so stressed that

    they can no longer work effectively during normal working hours and have got

    into the habit of putting in extra hours or constantly taking work home to

    compensate.

    Conflict increases

    Poor work relationships between staff are another big cause of stress. Keep an eye

    out for bullying, racial or sexual harassment. Nip these issues in the bud wherever

    they emerge, and work on finding ways of making it understood that such

    behaviour cannot be tolerated.

    Management induced stress

    Much of the stress that employees feel comes straight from the top, relating

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    directly to how they're managed. An autocratic and inflexible management style

    can lead to staff feeling they have no control over their work, that they are blamed

    when things go wrong and that there is no support for them to develop their

    skills/career. Does this sound like your company? Start by listening to what your

    staff are saying and respecting their views.

    Dont ignore the signals

    If an employee complains about being stressed - take it seriously. Firstly, it's

    important to assess to what extent the problem is work-related. Try to address the

    source, and involve the employee in any decisions you make. If necessary,

    encourage a visit to the doctor. Bear in mind, too, that if one of your employees

    has work-related stress, the chances are that he or she is not the only one. In

    addition to listening to A

    A Practical Solution - What to look for in your department or

    organisation to spot stress

    Two types of indicators allow you to assess the level of stress; quantitative

    indicators and qualitative indicators

    Quantitative indicators are:

    o More grievances

    o Strikes and stoppages

    o More downtime

    o More absenteeism

    o More lateness

    o Higher sickness rates

    o High staff turnover

    Qualitative indicators are:

    o Deteriorating relationships

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    o Animosity

    o Distrust

    o Disrespect

    o Less effort

    o Less interpersonal contact

    You need to look for changes over a short period of time, since these indicators

    may change over the years for other reasons, such as changes in the market

    structure. It may also be helpful to compare the results for your department with

    those of other departments in your organisation. In order to investigate possible

    stress at this level you need first to identify the sources of data available to you.

    For each of the following, note down:

    o What records are available for the department/organisation

    o What measure you could use for comparison

    o What comparisons you could make through time, or with another

    department

    o What else could be causing changes, and any reservations you have about

    this data as a source of information on possible stress

    For example if absence and lateness is one of the indicators you are looking at

    your records may include; individual records and department records that will give

    you an indication of average hours lost per employee per week. From this you may

    compare these figures with another department e.g. the production department or

    with last years figures. You should also be aware of other factors such as seasonal

    variations and/or current market conditions.

    Conclusion

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    All sorts of situations can cause stress. The most common involve work, money

    matters and relationships with partners, children or other family members. Stress

    may be caused either by major upheavals and life events such as divorce,

    unemployment, moving house and bereavement, or by a series of minor irritations

    such as feeling undervalued at work or dealing with difficult children. Sometimes

    there are no obvious causes. Some people seem to suffer from stress more than

    other people. Psychologists call these people 'type A'. Type A people tend to be

    impatient, driving and sometimes aggressive. They also seem to suffer a higher

    than average incidence of heart attacks. People who abuse alcohol or drugs are also

    more likely to suffer from stress

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    Stress management is the need of the hour However hard we try to go beyond a

    stress situation, life seems to find new ways of stressing us out and plaguing us

    with anxiety attacks. Moreover, be it our anxiety, mind-body exhaustion or our

    erring attitudes, we tend to overlookcauses of stress and the conditions triggered

    by those. In such unsettling moments we often forget that stressors, if not

    escapable, are fairly manageable and treatable

    Stress, either quick or constant, can induce risky body-mind disorders. Immediate

    disorders such as dizzy spells, anxiety attacks, tension, sleeplessness, nervousness

    and muscle cramps can all result in chronic health problems. They may also affect

    our immune, cardiovascular and nervous systems and lead individuals to habitual

    addictions, which are inter-linked with stress.

    Like "stress reactions", "relaxation responses" and stress management techniques

    are some of the body's important built-in response systems. As a relaxation

    response the body tries to get back balance in its homeostasis. Some hormones

    released during the 'fight or flight' situation prompt the body to replace the lost

    carbohydrates and fats, and restore the energy level. The knotted nerves, tightened

    muscles and an exhausted mind crave for looseners. Unfortunately, today, we don't

    get relaxing and soothing situations without asking. To be relaxed we have to

    strive to create such situations.

    How Can one Manage Stress Better?

    Identifying unrelieved stress and being aware of its effect on our lives is not

    sufficient for reducing its harmful effects. Just as there are many sources of stress,

    there are many possibilities for its management. However, all require work toward

    change: changing the source of stress and/or changing your reaction to it. How do

    you proceed?

    1. Become aware of your stressors and your emotional and physical

    reactions.

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    Notice your distress. Don't ignore it. Don't gloss over your problems.

    Determine what events distress you. What are you telling yourself about

    meaning of these events?

    Determine how your body responds to the stress. Do you become nervous

    or physically upset? If so, in what specific ways?

    2. Recognize what you can change.

    Ask yourself these questions.

    o 1. Can you change your stressors by avoiding or eliminating them

    completely?

    o 2. Can you reduce their intensity (manage them over a period of time

    instead of on a daily or weekly basis)?

    o 3.Can you shorten your exposure to stress (take a break, leave the physical

    premises)

    o 4. Can you devote the time and energy necessary to making a change (goal

    setting, time management techniques, and delayed gratification strategies

    may be helpful here)?

    3. Reduce the intensity of your emotional reactions to stress.

    The stress reaction is triggered by your perception of danger...physical

    danger and/or emotional danger.

    Are you viewing your stressors in exaggerated terms and/or taking a

    difficult situation and making it a disaster?

    Are you expecting to please everyone?

    Are you overreacting and viewing things as absolutely critical and urgent?

    Do you feel you must always prevail in every situation?

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    Work at adopting more moderate views; try to see the stress as something

    you can cope with rather than something that overpowers you. Try to

    temper your excess emotions. Put the situation in perspective. Do not labor

    on the negative aspects and the "what if's."

    4. Learn to moderate your physical reactions to stress.

    Slow, deep breathing will bring your heart rate and respiration back to

    normal. Relaxation techniques can reduce muscle tension. Electronic

    biofeedback can help you gain voluntary control over such things as

    muscle tension; heart reate, and blood pressure.

    Medications, when prescribed by a physician, can help in the short term in

    moderating your physical reactions. However, they alone are not the

    answer. Learning to moderate these reactions on your own is a preferable

    long-term solution.

    5. Build your physical reserves.

    Exercise for cardiovascular fitness three to four times a week (moderate,

    prolonged rhythmic exercise is best, such as walking, swimming, cycling,

    or jogging).

    Eat well-balanced, nutritious meals.

    Maintain your ideal weight.

    Avoid nicotine, excessive caffeine, and other stimulants.

    Mix leisure with work. Take breaks and get away when you can.

    Get enough sleep. Be as consistent with your sleep schedule as possible.

    6. Maintain your emotional reserves.

    Develop some mutually supportive friendships/relationships.

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    Pursue realistic goals which are meaningful to you, rather than goals others

    have for you that you do not share.

    Expect some frustrations, failures, and sorrows.

    Always be kind and gentle with yourself -- be a friend to yourself.

    HELPFUL TECHNIQUESHELPFUL TECHNIQUES

    Keep a record of stressful situations and rate the actual level of stress from O

    (most relaxed) to 10 (most stressed). Start to monitor your stress on the "Practice

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    Journal" worksheet before, during and after stressful events or situations. As you

    begin to observe your levels of stress, you will notice that these levels are not

    constant. You will find that stress levels increase when you are concentrating on

    your most alarming thoughts and bodily reactions, but stress levels fall when your

    attention turns away from these areas. This will show you that one way to reduce

    the level of stress in your life is to actively turn away from negative "stress

    building" thoughts and to concentrate on positive stress busting ways of thinking

    Combating negative thoughts and replacing them with positive ones takes practice,

    but the results are worth it.

    Review the facts. What is your evidence? Is there another way to view the

    situation? If not, what is the worst thing that could happen? You may have been

    concentrating on the worst possible, but by no means the most likely, outcome.

    STRESS RELIEF POINTERSSTRESS RELIEF POINTERS

    Think really seriously about and talk with others, to identify the causes ofthe stress and take steps to remove, reduce them or remove yourself (the

    stressed person) from the situation that causes the stress.

    Understand the type(s) of stressors affecting you (or the stressed person),and the contributors to the stress susceptibility - knowing what you're dealing

    with is essential to developing the stress management approach.

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    Improve diet - group B vitamins and magnesium are important, but

    potentially so are all the other vitamins and minerals: a balanced healthy diet isessential. Assess the current diet and identify where improvements should be

    made and commit to those improvements.

    Reduce toxin intake - obviously tobacco, alcohol especially - they might

    seem to provide temporary relief but they are working against the balance ofthe body and contributing to stress susceptibility, and therefore increasing

    stress itself.

    Take more exercise - generally, and at times when feeling very stressed -exercise burns up adrenaline and produces helpful chemicals and positive

    feelings.

    Stressed people must try to be detached, step back, look from the outside atthe issues that cause the stress.

    Dont try to control things that are uncontrollable - instead adjust response,

    adapt.

    Share worries - talk to someone else - off-load, loneliness is a big ally of

    stress, so sharing the burden is essential. Increase self-awareness of personal moods and feelings - anticipate andtake steps to avoid stress build-up before it becomes more serious.

    Explore and use relaxation methods - they do work if given a chance -

    yoga, meditation, self-hypnosis, massage, a breath of fresh air, anything that

    works and can be done in the particular situation

    Also that managing stress does not cure medical problems. Relieving stress

    can alleviate and speed recovery from certain illnesses, particularly those

    caused by stress, (which depending on circumstances can disappear when thestress is relieved); ie., relieving stress is not a substitute for conventional

    treatments of illness, disease and injury.

    Importantly, if the stress is causing serious health effects the sufferer mustconsult a doctor. Do not imagine that things will improve by soldiering on, or

    hoping that the sufferer will somehow become more resilient; things can and

    probably will get worse.

    For less serious forms of stress, simply identify the cause(s) of stress, then

    to commit/agree to removing the cause(s). If appropriate this may involve

    removing the person from the situation that is causing the stress. Counsellingmay be necessary to identify the cause(s), particularly if the sufferer has any

    tendency to deny or ignore the stress problem.

    Acceptance, cognizance and commitment on the part of the stressed person

    are essential. No-one can begin to manage their stress if they are still feelingacutely stressed - they'll still be in 'fight or flight' mode. This is why a manager

    accused of causing stress though bullying or harassment must never be

    expected to resolve the problem. The situation must be handled by someone

    who will not perpetuate the stressful influence.

    Removing the stressor(s) or the person from the stressful situation is only

    part of the solution; look also at the factors which affect stress susceptibility:

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    where possible try to improve the factors that could be contributing to stress

    vulnerability.

    RECIPIES TO COPE UP WITH STRESSRECIPIES TO COPE UP WITH STRESS

    1) YOGA

    Yoga is very good for stress. It offers gentle asanas, relaxation, pranayama,

    meditation, shat kriyas and hand mudras. The complete breath exercise can be

    done at your desk, in the car or anywhere else when you start to feel stressed out.

    Meditation helps calm your mind, teaching you to relax at will and giving you a

    quick mental vacation whenever you need one. And daily practice of three or four

    yoga poses will help ease knotted muscles. Try varying the poses daily to keep

    your interest high and to strengthen different parts of your body

    YOGIC TECHNIQUES FOR STRESS RELIEF

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    Stressed out individuals carry a great deal of physical tension in their bodies. In

    these cases the natural unblocking effected by yoga postures are helpful. When

    one rests between postures, abdominal tension is released from the body

    promoting deep breathing. The benefits of yoga postures (asana), breathing

    (pranayama), and meditation (dhyana) include increased body awareness, release

    of muscular tension and increased coordination between mind-and body. It helps

    in better management of stress and ensures an overall feeling of well being. Some

    custom made yogic techniques include Sudarshan Kriya by Sri Sri Ravishankar,

    Sahaja Samadhi by Ma Anandmayee and Kriya Yoga by Paramashansa

    Yoganandaare three widely practiced techniques of yoga devised by three epoch

    making spiritual gurus.

    Yogic breathing technique

    The ancient therapeutic traditions as well as modern medical research speaks about

    the intimate relationship between our breathing patterns and our physical, emotional,

    mental, and spiritual health.They have shown how natural healthy respiration not

    only increases longevity and supports our overall well-being and self-development,

    but also helps in medical conditions such as asthma, poor digestion, insomnia, low

    energy, high blood pressure, anxiety, panic attacks, heart ailments, and many other

    problems.

    How Stress Affects Our Natural Breathing Pattern

    With each inhalation, oxygen (pure air) enters into our body and triggers off the

    transformation of nutrients into fuel. With each exhalation carbon dioxide (toxic air)

    is eliminated from our body. Presence of oxygen purifies the blood streams and

    helps invigorate each cell. Sufficient amount of oxygen is required to maintain the

    vitality of our body organs.

    In normal conditions the body follows a natural breathing pattern that is

    slow and regulated. Under stress when the body shows symptoms such as tightening

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    of muscles, distractions, anxiety, hyperactivity and angry reactions et al, breathing

    becomes quick and shallow. One tends to hold one's breath, frequently. With

    restricted breathing inflow of oxygen is restricted. Lungs are unable to exhale the

    stale airs and residual toxins build up inside the body. Under stress the stiff muscles

    restrict the circulation of blood. So, even less oxygen comes in and fewer toxins are

    removed. It affects the healthy regeneration of cells. Medical studies show that the

    oxygen-starved cells are the major contributing factors in cancer, immunity

    deficiency, heart disease and strokes.

    Breathing also affects our state of mind and consequently makes our thinking either

    confused or clear. When breathing is slow, deep and full, the lungs work more; the

    diaphragm moves well, the intercostals, back and abdominal muscle work, drawing

    in extra oxygen to the blood stream. Increased oxygenation purifies blood and

    stimulates healthy functioning of cells, glands and muscles.

    Hence, a regulated and mindful breathing pattern has been held vital to maintaining

    the highest level of physical health by yoga. Another positive result of conscious

    breathing is its calming effect on the emotions, reducing fear and anxiety in the

    nervous system. Regulated and mindful breathing, dynamic movement of the head,

    shoulders and arms during the practice of breathing and meditation promote

    concentration and relaxation.

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    2) PRANAYAMA

    Yoga offers many breathing skills for stress-affected individuals. These yogic

    breathing techniques are termed as 'pranayama' (prana+ayama). Roughly 'prana'

    can be explained as the vital life force that regulates all activities in this universe.

    'Ayama' has a wide range of meaning; the most appropriate here is 'control or

    regulation'. According to yoga, pranayama consists of various ways of inhaling,

    exhaling and retention of prana. This prana is inter-linked with consciousness (citta)

    both at the cosmic and individual levels. Pranayamais devised by yoga to create a

    synergy between the self-energizing life force and individual mind-body-spirit by

    scientific regulation of prana.

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    Perhaps the simplest form of pranayama is nadi shodhanam (channel

    purification), which consists alternate nostril breathing, suitable for everybody.

    Nadis are subtle nerve channels through which prana flows. In Sanskrit,

    Shodhana means 'cleansing'. According to yoga there are 14 major nadis and

    prana flows in and out of them controlling all our mind-body functions. Nadi

    shodhanam works to unblock tensions and resistance in the energy-conveying

    channels of the gross and subtle bodies, thus calming and strengthening sensitive

    nerves. Conscious breathing through cleansed nadis allows more oxygen inflow

    and effective excretion of toxins from within. This brings about a healthful state

    both in body and mind.

    YOGIC MEDITATION

    Meditation, one of the eight limbs of yoga outlined in Patanjali's Yoga Sutra, is the

    final step before attaining spiritual bliss. The great seer has described yoga as

    yogaschittavrittinirodhah, which means completely shutting out all kinds of mental

    fluctuations. When such a stage is reached, meditation (dyana) is perfected,

    resulting in yoga (union of individual consciousness with the cosmic

    consciousness). That is the zenith of meditation.

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    On a lower plane, meditation has proved helpful in reducing stress and anxiety,

    lowering blood pressure, improving concentration and creativity besides bringing

    relief from stress-induced ailments. In the postmodern age various meditation

    techniques are increasingly being used for relaxation as well as therapeutic

    benefits. The Transcendental Meditation technique made popular during the 1970s

    by Maharishi Mahesh Yogi was aimed at ushering in perfect health and happiness.

    The technique is specifically designed to relieve man of his modern day trappings

    and the resultant mind-body disorders by helping him to access the boundless

    cosmic energy field.

    The words of Maharishi aptly describe TM: "Transcendental Meditation opens the

    awareness to the infinite reservoir of energy, creativity, and intelligence that lies

    deep within everyone."

    3) YOGA ASANAS AND MUDRAS

    The Hatha Yoga PRADEEPIKA, an authentic treatise on Hatha Yoga, says,

    "From asana arises steadiness of body and mind, freedom from disease and

    lightness of limbs".

    It has long been established that yogic asanas or physical postures and mudrascombined with pranayama and meditation have a tremendous therapeutic effect on

    the body, mind and spirit. Asanas are regarded as the most important system of

    physical culture ever invented, considering its amazing understanding of how the

    body works. Yogic asanas constitute a physical science that also comprehends all

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    aspects of consciousness. The purpose of asanas is to create a free flow of life

    energy in and out of the body in order to perfect its functioning.

    Mudras are the most ingenious innovations of yoga. They help to reduce

    physical stress and energize the whole body. The most welcoming aspect is that

    these mudras can be done anywhere and at any time without any specific rules of

    breathing or sitting or standing postures! Wrong postures create various stresses

    and cause contractions inhibiting circulation of energy and nutrients in the body.

    This allows toxins and waste materials to accumulate inside body. As mind and

    body are interconnected, physical blockages combined with mental blockage

    result in pain and disorder in both spheres .

    Anyone who works sitting at the office desk for long hours or people who,

    generally, have one type of physical activity tend to acquire a fixed body

    posture. This declines flexibility and accumulates vata (waste/stale air) in the

    bones. Even people who do a lot of traveling or frequent flying tend to aggravate

    vata dosha (fault) in their stressed out bodies. Sitting or resting (while working,

    watching TV or sleeping et al), in incorrect posture for long, can stress one's

    body without one's knowledge. Such habitual acts can lead to an increased

    fixation of the body, and rigidity of the mind and emotions. All kinds of body

    aches? Backache, shoulder aches, lower back pain, pain or numbness in feet and

    legs, are generated by built-up stiffness and tension in muscle and bones.

    There are meticulously devisedyogic asanas (postures), mudras and breathing

    techniques for reduction of all these stresses and their disease potentials.

    The corpse pose (savasana), the crocodile (makarasana), and the child's pose) are

    simple relaxation postures particularly helpful in relieving anxiety and nervous

    irritability

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    Bal asana

    BENEFITS OF YOGA FOR STRESS

    Yogic asanas, meditation and breathing can help stress affected persons in many

    ways such as:

    Improve muscle tone, flexibility, strength and stamina

    Reduce stress and tension. They help in the cure of depression and obsessive-

    compulsive disorders. They calm the frenzy, clear mental clutter and allow us to

    get back in touch with ourselves.

    Mindfulness meditation helps stress reduction, improving physical and mental

    health. Many patients undergoing yogic stress-cure techniques show dramatic

    changes in attitudes, beliefs, habits, and behaviors.

    They help boost self esteem in patients, imbibing a sense of purpose in their life.

    They help in giving us control of ourselves.

    Improve concentration, creativity, and above all a sense of well being and calm.

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    Yogic techniques have the potential to cure various stress related diseases and

    symptoms, as it lowers body fat, improves blood circulation, stimulates the

    immune system.

    Yoga breathing shows promising results in the treatment of pulmonary and

    autonomic function in asthma patients.

    Yogasanas and Mudras For Managing Some Stress Induced Disorders:

    Stress and TensionSavasana, sarvangasana,pranayama,siddhasana(with

    kumbhaka),makarasana, trikonasana,padmasana, yogic mudras.

    FrustrationDeep breathing (see Methods of Nadi Shodhanam), savasana,

    padmasana, yogic mudras.

    MigraineSavasana,viparitakarani, sarvangasana,pranayama.

    Loss of Confidence and ConcentrationSirsasana(practice under the

    supervision of a yoga teacher),bhujangasana,matsyasana,padmasana, Vajroli

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    mudra, utthita parsvakonasana, trikonasana, sarvangasanas, meditation, yoga-

    mudra.

    FearVirabhadrasana,siddhasana (with kumbhaka)padmasana, sirsasana

    (practice under the supervision of a yoga teacher), sarvangasanas, matsyasana,

    meditation, deep breathing (see Methods of Nadi Shodhanam), vajroli-mudra.

    AgingSavasana,viparitakarani,padmasana,yoga-mudras.

    IndigestionSavasana,pranayama, vajroli & other mudras, ardha

    matsyendrasana, Forward and backward bending asanas (paschimottanasana),

    virasana,vajrasana.

    InsomniaArdha matsyendrasana, trikonasana,savasana, deep breathing

    (see Methods of Nadi Shodhanam), halasana.

    4) YOGA NIDRA - YOGA RELAXATION

    Yoga-Nidra ("Yoga sleep") is an expression widely used to denote the highest

    state of consciousness. Although yoga nidra means yogic sleep, it is actually a

    wakeful state of deep introversion. Some contemporary Yoga authorities employ

    the phrase yoga-nidra to designate a state of deep relaxation. In the initial stages,

    the process involves relaxing the body, part by part, and harmonizing the mind. In

    this aspect, it has some similarity with the progressive relaxation of Jacobson.

    Yoga nidra, however, is an inner awareness, a movement of consciousness, rather

    than a deliberate auto-suggestion. You cannot relax by trying to relax. You need to

    feel relaxed. Yogis also believe that you cannot relax your body unless your mind

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    is relaxed. So, yoga relaxation is a complete package that involves relaxing the

    mind, body and spirit.

    After relaxing your body and calming your mind, you can plant a few intentions,

    sankalpas, or assertions in your subconscious, before detaching your mind and

    experiencing the final stage of deep relaxation. Yoga nidra goes well with

    visualizations and meditation.

    Yoga Nidra with Meditative Visualizations

    Another way to augment the yoga nidra exercises is to incorporate visualization

    and mediation. There are many different techniques you can use. One of the most

    effective is to concentrate on the flow of the breath. You can use the inward and

    outward flow of the breath to develop an awareness of an inner peace. With the in-

    breath you can imagine the peacefulness flowing into your being. With the

    outward breath, you can imagine your inner tension flowing out of you leaving

    your mind calm and relaxed like a deep, still lake, without a ripple. Now dive deep

    into the center of this lake, deep within yourself, and experience your true nature.

    Once you have mastered this awareness, you can plant a few intentions in your

    subconscious, using words such as "peace" and "freedom

    Visualizing images requires more practice and experience. Start with very simple

    images such as a clear blue sky, and slowly progress to more complex images such

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    as a meadow and surrounding woods. This is how Swami Shivapremananda,

    author of "Yoga for Stress Relief" describes the process:

    "Visualize a clear blue sky, a symbol of the infinite spirit, of

    love and goodness, enveloping you.

    Then an open field, with its light- green grass

    It is your subconscious. In the distance, dark-green woods

    surround it. They are your unconscious.

    Imagine a gentle breeze, the universal energy, smoothing out the grass, all

    inner conflicts, and penetrating into the woods, ventilating the deep

    recesses of the unconscious, purifying and sublimating its nature.

    Relax your mind, and remain detached for a while.

    Now plant into your subconscious three intentions, which you can

    choose to suit you, such as:

    Should take things calmly and practice detachment.

    Should restrain impulsive reaction and hold my tongue.

    Should practice tolerance and patience.

    Detach your mind after several minutes of deep relaxation. Now be

    aware of your body. Slowly turn on one side and curl up in the fetal

    position, and rest for a few minutes. Then get up."

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    5) MEDITATION

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    In meditation you aim to reach a state where you are aware of an inner peace, and

    experience a sense of release from everything impeding that peace. Meditation is a

    healing process. Meditation heals the effects of psychological stress by: Achieving

    an inner calm and then In a peaceful state of mind, contemplating the problem, its

    cause and how to resolve it.

    Now, sit relaxed for a couple of minutes. Loosen up your shoulders, neck and legs.

    Assume the Easy Pose (sukhasana). Sit cross-legged with your hands resting

    lightly on your knees, the tips of your index fingers touching your thumbs. If you

    wish, you can place a cushion under your buttocks for increased comfort.

    If you prefer a chair, choose one with a straight back. Keep both your legs together

    with the weight of your feet equally distributed.

    Place your hands in your lap, one on top of the other; palms facing up, or on your

    knees, the tips of the index finger and thumb together, palms either facing up or

    down.

    Keep your eyes closed. Feel peaceful, and detached. Do not feel the need to do

    anything. Breathe spontaneously. After a minute, become aware of your breath,

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    the coolness of the in-flow deep inside your head, and the warmth of the out-flow

    inside your lower nostrils. Train your mind to be more and more aware of the

    breath.

    By concentrating on the flow of your breath, you will notice your breathing

    automatically slowing down. In a relaxed state of mind, focus on prana, the vital

    energy of the breath. Allow your thoughts to flow undisturbed. Experience the

    alternating coolness and warmth of the breath. After a couple of minutes, associate

    your awareness of peace with the feeling of coolness, and the release of inner

    tension with the warmth. Now move on to the next stage, which you should do for

    at least five minutes. Repeat to yourself, inhaling and feeling the coolness, "Peace

    is my real nature", and exhaling and experiencing the warmth, "not conflict". Try

    to believe in what you are saying. Then, letting your mind gently float with the

    breath, be aware of the breath, the coolness absorbing and making grooves of

    peace in the subconscious, and the warmth smoothing and easing any thoughts or

    feelings of conflict, stress and inner tension.

    After a minute, pause and just be aware of the breath for the next minute. Then

    resume the repetition slowly and clearly. When thoughts persist in floating into

    your mind, repeat to yourself "I am full of inner peace", inhaling, and "I am a free

    soul", exhaling. You may choose phrases to suit your specific need, depending on

    the cause of your stress. Select a few affirmations for each session and use them

    for as long as you need to. From time to time, alter the affirmations to suit your

    mood.Detach your mind, and relax for two minutes, breathing normally and

    feeling peaceful and restful, before getting up.

    6) DIET

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    It's widely accepted that nutritional deficiency impairs the health of the body, and

    it's unrealistic not to expect the brain to be affected as well by poor diet. If the

    brain is affected, so are our thoughts, feelings and behaviour.We know that certain

    vitamins and minerals are required to ensure healthy brain and neurological

    functionality. We know also that certain deficiencies relate directly to specific

    brain and nervous system weaknesses: The Vitamin B Group is particularly

    relevant to the brain, depression and stress susceptibility. Vitamin B1 deficiency is

    associated with depression, nervous system weakness and dementia. B2 deficiency

    is associated with nervous system disorders and depression. B3 is essential for

    protein synthesis, including the neurotransmitter serotonin, which is necessary for

    maintaining a healthy nervous system. Vitamin B6 is essential for neurotransmitter

    synthesis and maintaining healthy nervous system; B6 deficiency is associatedwith depression and dementia. B12 deficiency is associated with peripheral nerve

    degeneration, dementia, and depression.

    Vitamin C is essential to protect against stress too: it maintains a healthy immune

    system, which is important for reducing stress susceptibility (we are more likely to

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    suffer from stress when we are ill, and we are more prone to illness when our

    immune system is weak). Vitamin C speeds healing, this contributes to reducing

    stress susceptibility. Vitamin C is associated with improving post-traumatic stress

    disorders and chronic infections.

    A 2003 UK 18 month study into violent and anti-social behavior at a youth

    offenders institution provided remarkable evidence as to the link between diet and

    stress: Around 230 inmate volunteers were divided into two groups. Half were

    given a daily vitamin/fatty acid/mineral supplement; half were given a placebo.

    The group given the supplement showed a 25% reduction in recorded offences,

    and a 40% reduction in serious cases including violence towards others, behaviors

    that are directly attributable to stress. Vitamin D helps maintain healthy body

    condition, particularly bones and speed of fracture healing, which are directly

    linked to stress susceptibility. Adequate intake of minerals are also essential for a

    healthy body and brain, and so for reducing stress susceptibility. A proper

    balanced diet is clearly essential, both to avoid direct physical stress causes via

    brain and nervous system, and to reduce stress susceptibility resulting from poor

    health and condition. Toxins such as alcohol, tobacco smoke, excessive salt,

    steroids, other drugs and other pollutants work against the balance between

    minerals, vitamins mind and body. Obviously then, excessive toxins from these

    sources will increase stress susceptibility and stress it.

    SOME OTHER SIMPLE (AND TO SOME, SURPRISING)

    POINTS ABOUT FOOD, DRINK AND DIET:

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    Processed foods are not as good for you as fresh natural foods.

    Look at all the chemicals listed on the packaging to see what you

    are putting into your body.

    Generally speaking, and contrary to popular opinion, butter is better

    for you than margarine. This is because the fat in butter is natural

    and can be converted by the body more easily than the

    hydrogenated fat that occurs commonly in margarines.

    Fresh fruit and vegetables are good for you. Simple and true.

    Fish is good for you, especially oily fish like mackerel. Battered

    fish from the chip shop, cooked in hydrogenated cooking oil is not

    so good for you.

    Canned baked beans often have extremely high salt and sugar

    content. The beans are good for you, but the sauce isn't if it

    contains too much salt and sugar. Look at the contents on the label.

    Canned and bottled fizzy 'pop' drinks are generally very bad for

    you. They contain various chemicals, including aspartame, which

    has been linked in several studies with nervous system disorders.

    Many squashes and cordials also contain aspartame.

    Too much coffee is bad for you. Interestingly espresso coffee

    contains less caffeine than filter and instant coffee, because it

    passes through the coffee grounds more quickly.

    Tea is good for you. Especially green tea.

    Pills and tablets are not good for you, avoid them if you can. For

    example, next time you have a headache, don't take tablets, go for a

    run, or a walk in the fresh air to relax naturally.

    The rule is simple and inescapable: eat and drink healthily, and avoid excessive

    intake of toxins, to reduce stress susceptibility and stress it. If you are suffering

    from stress and not obeying this simple rule you will continue to have be stressed,

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    Exercise increases blood flow to the brain, which is good for us. An exercise also

    releases hormones, and stimulates the nervous system in ways that are good for us.

    Exercise produces chemicals in the body such as beta-endorphin, which is proven

    to have a positive effect on how we feel. For many people, serious exercise

    produces a kind of 'high'. (It's arguable that it has this effect on everyone, but not

    since so many people never get to do any serious exercise they'll never know...).

    Scientists still don't fully understand how exactly these effects happen, but we do

    know that exercise produces powerful feelings of well-being and a physical glow,

    both of which directly reduce stress feelings.

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    Exercise of all types (muscle-building and stamina-building) relaxes tense muscles

    and tight connective tissues in the body, which directly contribute to stress feelings

    and symptoms (particularly headaches). Try this next time you get a stress

    headache - one that comes up the back of your neck into the back of your head:

    stand up, leave whatever you are doing, walk outside, take a few deep breaths, roll

    your shoulders backwards gently, slowly at first, then gradually speed up to about

    one rotation per second and keep it going for one minute. You can actually feel

    your shoulders warming and loosening, then feel your neck muscles warming up

    and relaxing, and then feel the relaxing feel beginning to take the edge of the pain

    in the back of your head. And that's after just sixty seconds of exercise! Imagine

    what 15 minutes brisk walking or jogging can do. Ask anyone who's just finished

    a game of tennis or squash or soccer if they feel at all stressed. Of course they

    don't. It's actually impossible to stay stressed if you do a serious bit of exercise.

    Exercise is wonderfully distracting - especially something very competitive which

    makes you push yourself further than you might do by yourself. When your body

    is involved with exercise it's very absorbing - it's actually very difficult to think

    about your problems when you are puffing and panting. Something terrific

    happens to the brain when the body works out, especially aerobic exercise -

    cardiovascular exercise that gets the heart pumping.

    We all evolved over millions of years with bodies that were built to exercise, it's

    no wonder that avoiding it creates all kinds of tensions. Exercise, like a better diet,

    isn't difficult to adopt - the answer is simple, the opportunity is there - it's the

    personal commitment that make the difference.

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    8) HUMOR THERAPY

    Humor is a wonderful stress-reducer and antidote to upsets. It is clinically proven

    to be effective in combating stress, although the exact mechanism is not known.

    Experts say a good laugh relaxes tense muscles, speeds more oxygen into your

    system and lowers your blood pressure. So tune into your favorite sitcom on

    television. Read a funny book. Call a friend and chuckle for a few minutes. It even

    helps to force a laugh once in a while. You'll find your stress melting away almost

    instantly. Americans were attracted to humor from the stories of Norman Cousins,

    who had successfully overcome cancer by watching comedy shows on television.

    These days, there are organized humor meetings even in places like India where

    laughing in public is not considered good manner.

    Dr. Lee Berk and fellow researcher Dr. Stanley Tan at Loma Linda UniversitySchool of Medicine, has produced carefully controlled studies showing that the

    experience of laughter lowers serum cortisol levels, increases the amount of

    activated T lymphocytes, increases the number and activity of natural killer cells,

    and increases the number of T cells that have helper/ suppresser receptors. In

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    short, laughter stimulates the immune system, off-setting the immunosuppressive

    effects of stress.

    We know that, during stress, the adrenal gland releases corticosteroids (quickly

    converted to cortisol in the blood stream) and that elevated levels of these have an

    immunosuppressive effect. Berk's research demonstrates that laughter can lower

    cortisol levels and thereby protect our immune system. The emotions and moods

    we experience directly affect our immune system. A sense of humor allows us to

    perceive and appreciate the incongruities of life and provides moments of joy and

    delight. These positive emotions can create neurochemical changes that will buffer

    the immunosuppressive effects of stress.

    In his book, ' Stress without Distress,' Selye suggested that a person's

    interpretation of stress is not dependent solely on an external event, but also

    depends upon the perception of the event and the meaning he or she gives it. So,

    how you look at a situation determines if you will respond to it as threatening or

    challenging.

    Humor gives us a different perspective on our problems. If we can make light out

    of the situation, it is no longer threatening to us. We already discounted its effect.

    With such an attitude of detachment, we feel a sense of self-protection and control

    in our environment. Bill Cosby is fond of saying, "If you can laugh at it, you can

    survive it."

    It's sometimes difficult to force a laugh in tense situations. But that's precisely

    when you need it most. One trick for finding humor in the worst of situations is to

    blow things absolutely, ridiculously out of proportion. When your scenario reaches

    the point of absurdity, you begin to smile. The situation is put in perspective. Now

    you can calm down.

    A belly laugh is really good for you. It relieves muscular tension, improves

    breathing, and regulates the heart beat. Watch comedy shows and laugh. Or attend

    comedy shows. Read comics or humor books. Share funny episodes with your

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    spouse so that both can relieve stress as well improve communication between the

    two of you

    Adopting a humorous view towards life's situations can take the edge off everyday

    stressors. Not being too serious or in a constant alert mode helps maintain the

    equanimity of mind and promote clear thinking. Being able to laugh stress away is

    the smartest way to ward off its effects.

    A sense of humor also allows us to perceive and appreciate the incongruities of

    life and provides moments of delight. The emotions we experience directly affect

    our immune system. The positive emotions can create neurochemical changes that

    buffer the immunosuppressive effects of stress.

    During stress, the adrenal gland releases corticosteroids, which are converted to

    cortisol in the blood stream. These have an immunosuppressive effect. Dr. Lee

    Berk and fellow researcher Dr. Stanley Tan at Loma Linda University School of

    Medicine have produced carefully controlled studies showing that the experience

    of laughter lowers serum cortisol levels, increases the amount and activity of T

    lymphocytesthe natural killer cells. Laughter also increases the number of T

    cells that have suppresser receptors.

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    LAUGHTER

    What Laughter Can Do Against Stress And Its Effects

    Laughter lowers blood pressure and reduces hypertension.

    It provides good cardiac conditioning especially for those who are unable to

    perform physical exercise.

    Reduces stress hormones (studies shows, laughter induces reduction of at least

    four of neuroendocrine hormonesepinephrine, cortisol, dopac, and growth

    hormone, associated with stress response).

    Laughter cleanses the lungs and body tissues of accumulated stale air as it

    empties more air than it takes in. It is beneficial for patients suffering from

    emphysema and other respiratory ailments.

    It increases muscle flexion, relaxation and fluent blood circulation in body.

    Boosts immune function by raising levels of infection-fighting T-cells, disease-

    fighting proteins called Gamma-interferon and disease-destroying antibodies

    called B-cells.

    Laughter triggers the release of endorphinsbody's natural painkillers.

    Produces a general sense of well-being

    Patients, doctors and health-care professionals are all finding that laughter may

    indeed be the best medicine.

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    Laughing is found to lower blood pressure, reduce stress hormones,

    increase muscle flexion, and boost immune function by raising levels of

    infection-fighting T-cells, disease-fighting proteins called Gamma-

    interferon and B-cells, which produce disease-destroying antibodies.

    Laughter also triggers the release of endorphins, the body's natural

    painkillers, and produces a general sense of well-being.

    Laughter is infectious. Hospitals around the country are incorporating

    formal and informal laughter therapy programs into their therapeutic

    regimens. In countries such as India, laughing clubs -- in which

    participants gather in the early morning for the sole purpose of laughing --

    are becoming as popular as Rotary Clubs in the United States.

    Humor is a universal language. It's a contagious emotion and a natural

    diversion. It brings other people in and breaks down barriers. Best of all it

    is free and has no known side reactions.

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    9) POSITIVE THINKING

    Avoid negative thoughts of powerlessness, dejection, failure, and despair. Chronic

    stress makes us vulnerable to negative suggestion. Learn to focus on positives.

    Focus on your strengths

    Focus on your strengths

    Look for opportunities in the stressful situation

    Seek out the positive make a change

    Here is one way to get out of the destructive negative thinking habits. All possible

    situations we face can be classified into two categories:

    One: Situations where we can do something about to change

    the outcome. In this case, dont just sit there and worry about it. Go ahead

    and take care of it. You have control. Procrastination is the root cause for

    many stressful episodes.

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    Second: Situations where you have no control on the

    outcome. In this case sitting and worrying will not make any difference on

    the outcome. So, dont worry about it. Let the situation resolve by itself;

    you cannot do anything about this anyway.

    Dean Ornish talked about how our culture teaches us to dwell on the high stress

    activities. He gave this example: Two Arabs took their Mercedes car out for a spin

    in the desert. Although there probably was not another car in the 10-mile radius,

    these two guys managed to have a head-on collision. Now, if this happened in the

    USA or many other parts of the world, the drivers will be getting out of the car and

    showering each other with abuses, threats and remind the other person how stupid

    he was to cause the accident. What did the Arabs do after they had their cars

    totaled? They rush out of their cars, run to each other; hugs and says, "This is

    great! Allah wanted us to meet."

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    10) OTHER PHRASES OR ASSERTIONS YOU CAN

    USE

    You can use a variety of phrases or assertions. We suggest that you use a phrase or

    assertion that has some significance to you, to correct the situation you want

    changed. Use the following as a guideline to come up with your own set of

    assertions.

    "Harmony, profound inner harmony", inhaling; "all tension is draining

    out", exhaling.

    "Gathering in the fullness of peace", inhaling; "smoothing out all

    conflicts", exhaling.

    Goodness, beauty, grace and poise flowing in", inhaling; "pain,

    unhappiness, anxiety and stress flowing out", exhaling.

    "Detachment is my real nature", inhaling, "not attachment", exhaling.

    "Freedom is my real nature", "not bondage':

    "Humility is my real nature", "not self-importance':

    "Patience is my real nature", "not impatience':

    "Tolerance is my real nature", "not intolerance':

    "Love is my real nature", "not resentment", (or "hate").

    "Truth is my real nature", "not dishonesty':

    "Caring is my real nature", "not selfishness'

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    11) GUIDED IMAGERY OR VISUALIZATION

    Introduction

    Advocates of imagery contend that the imagination is a potent healer that has long

    been overlooked by practitioners of Western medicine. Imag